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Lifestylejaycutlerfridgerator/r/seduction28/08/24 10:45 PM
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Fundamentals jaycutlerfridgerator/r/seduction19/04/24 08:20 PM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP14/04/21 05:09 AM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 02:55 PM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP19/11/20 01:17 AM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP11/01/21 02:08 PM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP08/06/21 12:43 PM
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Questionjaycutlerfridgerator/r/newTRP14/06/22 10:32 PM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP22/04/21 09:33 PM
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Questionjaycutlerfridgerator/r/newTRP13/01/22 04:26 PM
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Questionjaycutlerfridgerator/r/newTRP15/08/22 01:11 PM
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Questionjaycutlerfridgerator/r/newTRP30/08/22 05:47 AM
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Fundamentals jaycutlerfridgerator/r/seduction09/04/24 06:29 PM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:38 PM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:53 PM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:00 PM
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Questionjaycutlerfridgerator/r/newTRP15/08/22 01:07 PM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP20/06/21 02:23 PM
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Questionjaycutlerfridgerator/r/newTRP22/07/22 08:46 PM
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Fundamentals jaycutlerfridgerator/r/seduction03/08/24 12:27 AM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP31/05/21 10:09 PM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP08/09/20 03:48 AM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP07/12/20 02:42 AM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP19/01/21 05:38 PM
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jaycutlerfridgerator/r/askTRP11/01/21 03:12 AM
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So what do you recommend I change moving forward genuinely curious? Am I doomed?
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:57 PM
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Can I DM you?
/r/seduction28/08/24 11:06 PM
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Thanks man your response provides some comfort. So I’m not alone you’re saying you’ve had similar discussions with your friends?
/r/seduction28/08/24 10:55 PM
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I have a therapist lol just wanted to gauge opinions of others who might relate
/r/seduction28/08/24 10:52 PM
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Dude here who is buzzes his head no guard (basically bald) - it’s all about owning it and feeling confident in your own skin which is what makes women attracted you. Wearing a hair system will do the opposite I garuntee id imagine it’s an extreme turn off because it demonstrates that you are not comfortable in your own skin and insecure. Own the bald my boy I promise you be confident it you are gonna crush it.
/r/seduction13/08/24 02:19 AM
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Can I dm you
/r/seduction03/08/24 12:51 AM
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Thx homie she did I’ll set something up tomorrow. Dude people on reddit are so dumb and inconsiderate I’m getting so many “dont be clingy” messages lol
/r/seduction19/04/24 11:11 PM
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Did you read my post? It’s about initiating after sleeping with someone on the first date lol I don’t know how she texts we only hung out once
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:59 PM
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You didn’t answer my question dummy
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:58 PM
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What you mean she’s a bop lol
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:22 PM
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Even after sleeping with them?
/r/seduction19/04/24 10:14 PM
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Sounds good just hit her with the “hey it was fun seeing ya the other night hope your Friday is goin well” I think perfect amount of time has passed just enough for her to question but not fully leave her hangin
/r/seduction19/04/24 09:26 PM
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I just texted her “hey it was fun seeing ya the other night hope your Friday is goin well” is that okay?
/r/seduction19/04/24 09:13 PM
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This!!
/r/seduction18/04/24 01:40 PM
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Ty
/r/seduction09/04/24 08:39 PM
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Ty
/r/seduction09/04/24 08:39 PM
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Thanks man - what do you mean by “if you’re like that then just go get it as thinking too much is a time waster” Are you saying you had a period where you were getting hit up by girls every night to fuck too?
/r/newTRP30/08/22 07:22 PM
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You are spot on - mind if I PM you? Appreciate your advice.
/r/newTRP30/08/22 03:51 PM
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They are all attractive women for the most part between age of 20-30
/r/newTRP30/08/22 03:50 PM
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What’s LMS mean?
/r/newTRP30/08/22 03:49 PM
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Thanks man. What do you mean by there is more than just exchange of fluids happening? Also, what’s the best way to break things off with a plate you’ve been casually sleeping with over a month or so? Show fade or just tell them you aren’t looking for something serious? I’m 30 btw and live in a big city for context.
/r/newTRP30/08/22 12:49 PM
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Thanks king, would you have texted something differently? I feel like what I said was fine since she reached out to me not the other way around
/r/newTRP15/08/22 02:18 PM
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Bro I do have an abundance mindset in talking to others but now I’m over thinking because she hasn’t replied that’s all. So you’re saying I fucked up by replying and asking her how her trip is?
/r/newTRP15/08/22 02:13 PM
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Loll I am but do you think I did or said anything wrong?
/r/newTRP15/08/22 02:10 PM
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Hahahhaha
/r/newTRP22/07/22 10:10 PM
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You rock man thanks
/r/newTRP14/06/22 11:15 PM
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Gotcha thanks man. Is that being predictable? I proposed a day activity to switch things up instead of going to a bar it gets old you know?
/r/newTRP14/06/22 10:37 PM
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Yeah for sure I think you’re right. I’ll pull back in the meantime and chirp at other girls in the meantime. You think that’s the right approach? I’m probably over thinking - for context I’ve been in the game for awhile I’m 30 and live in a major city so I’m pretty experienced in the “game” so to speak. I really appreciate your insight man
/r/newTRP13/01/22 05:27 PM
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Cool appreciate the response. So should I just let her reach out to me when she’s back or hit her up next week? Are you saying I should hit her up to see how her trip is?
/r/newTRP13/01/22 05:08 PM
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I have also slept with over 125 or so women and all this advice is accurate. Good post OP.
/r/seduction19/10/21 01:19 AM
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Thanks homie. Have you been in my position before?
/r/seduction13/07/21 06:02 PM
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What you mean?
/r/seduction13/07/21 05:00 PM
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Thanks homie much appreciated. Have you been in my shoes before?
/r/seduction13/07/21 03:58 PM
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Thanks brother. What do you mean use attention as a weapon?
/r/seduction13/07/21 03:23 PM
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Word up I appreciate the sage advice my friend. Can I DM you?
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:48 PM
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Yeah man thank you for your reply, how come others in this thread are saying to not communicate it how she posted pics with a dude and let it bother you?
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:18 PM
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Yeah I mean it’s new to me. Would this behavior annoy you are my feelings justified?
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:31 PM
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Okay. Would you feel annoyed or slighted in anyway or am I overthinking?
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:21 PM
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Yeah I think that’s the best route appreciate your input. Would you feel annoyed or slighted in anyway or nah?
/r/seduction12/07/21 12:02 PM
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I’m trying, couple plates have broken recently so back at square one lol
/r/seduction12/07/21 11:57 AM
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Ya that’s what I have been doing lol so can you answer my question? Thanks homie
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:09 AM
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That’s not bad, I typically don’t ask as it makes you look more confident you just gotta know the right time to do it and go in for the kill amigo
/r/seduction09/07/21 03:01 AM
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Word thanks. What you mean I can’t hit her up again? Would it look needy if I tried to reschedule for Saturday or Sunday night?
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:45 PM
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Yeah would it look needy if I rescheduled and asked if she was free this coming Saturday or Sunday night instead?
/r/seduction07/07/21 12:42 PM
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Thanks homie. Can I DM you?
/r/seduction28/06/21 01:30 AM
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So do you think it’s a lost cause now since I didn’t wait? Lol we’ve been fucking for over a month not sure why that would even matter how many days I wait I wanted to make sure she got home okay.
/r/seduction28/06/21 01:14 AM
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What’s your point
/r/seduction28/06/21 01:09 AM
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How do I sound needy? Lol can you answer my question without putting me down.
/r/seduction28/06/21 01:08 AM
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Was my response to her bad? Should I not even texted her back?
/r/askTRP20/06/21 05:09 PM
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Yeah for sure thank you for your advice. You think what I said was cringe? Haha
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:54 PM
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Haha aight you’re right I texted what I wanted to say so fuck it. That’s the attitude I should have right?
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:33 PM
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Thanks dude. What should I do now since she hasn’t replied?
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:27 PM
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So was my response bad? This is a FWB that I’ve been sleeping with.
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:21 PM
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We have fucked numerous times
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:16 PM
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Yeah we have fucked plenty of times. Her texting me that at 12AM implied that she was horny right? Thanks for your reply
/r/askTRP20/06/21 03:00 PM
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How? That’s an insane assumption
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:47 PM
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What do you mean lol
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:33 PM
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I am talking to others. I’m just asking for advice you sound like a virgin larper
/r/askTRP13/06/21 06:17 PM
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How do you find time to hang 30 different girls haha that’s impressive. I’m 30 years old and I’m at that point in my life where meaningless sex is not worth wasting time and money on dating you know what I mean? Also I’ve probably slept with over 150 different women (counting phone numbers) throughout my life so just curious how you find time for that hahha
/r/askTRP08/06/21 11:55 PM
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Yeah 2 FWB a week and sprinkle a 3rd here and there. I’m relieved when I have some alone time haha you know? Is that normal?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 11:15 PM
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Would you mind elaborating here? You’re saying you don’t agree with my flaking on a girl for the 2nd time for a first date? I’ve just been super busy and getting laid elsewhere haha I don’t need to date right now
/r/askTRP08/06/21 05:16 PM
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Yeah I can relate, I had plans to go on a date with a third girl tonight but decided to flake (I’ve bailed twice now). Lol should I feel bad for bailing on her? It would have been our first date I just don’t have the time.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 01:58 PM
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Yeah that’s a nice balance. I’m 28 and finding seeing these 2 girls fits my needs for the time being. Obviously things can change so keeping my options open but I’m content for now. You think that’s a good plan?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 01:45 PM
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Yeah that’s a nice balance. I’m 28 and finding seeing these 2 girls fits my needs for the time being. Obviously things can change so keeping my options open but I’m content for now. You think that’s a good plan?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 01:45 PM
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Ah you mean like a lot of guys exaggerating on here?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 12:52 PM
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It’s more like a FWB type vibe
/r/askTRP04/06/21 12:35 AM
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I said it to her in person when I left I was just like hit me up later this week is that bad?
/r/askTRP31/05/21 11:51 PM
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Aight so just be like had a great time hit me up later this week or something like that?
/r/askTRP31/05/21 10:59 PM
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Okay so I should continue to do what I’m doing without feeling guilty?
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:51 PM
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Aight so I just proceed with what I’m doing?
/r/askTRP27/05/21 05:51 PM
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So I’m doing nothing wrong?
/r/askTRP27/05/21 04:14 PM
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Nah I’m not gonna bail on date 2. The thing is date 2 is with the girl I’ve been seeing regularly so I kindaa feel guilty for seeing a girl for drinks before hanging with her. But I guess i shouldn’t since we are not exclusive right? Just feels kinda shady.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:26 PM
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Can you elaborate?
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:12 PM
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Okay yeah she specifically said she doesn’t want to be exclusive for logistical reasons so I’m good to go. That being said, should I meet up with this girl for drinks tonight before I see her for dinner?
/r/askTRP27/05/21 01:02 PM
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Haha so just proceed as usual? I guess I’m over thinking it.
/r/askTRP27/05/21 12:57 PM
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I really just want to be exclusive with this person and stop seeing other people. I’m thinking about telling her this outright? But I don’t want to come on too strong
/r/seduction12/05/21 01:47 AM
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We have been fucking consistently since we met over a month ago. Why are you saying end it?
/r/seduction12/05/21 01:40 AM
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So wait for her to bring it up? Ha
/r/seduction10/05/21 09:44 PM
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Gotcha. You mean be honest about your intentions I thought you said to leave some amiguigty and not have the exclusive talk?
/r/seduction10/05/21 08:41 PM
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Thanks homie. Is it alright if I’m not dating anyone else at the e moment? It doesn’t really feel right even though we technically aren’t exclusive since we have been spending so much time together I honestly don’t really wanna sleep with anyone else even though I have girls hitting me up and have options.
/r/seduction10/05/21 08:29 PM
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True for sure. So in order to keep her interest keep setting up fun dates and fucking her good? Ha
/r/seduction10/05/21 08:24 PM
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You think a month of hangin is too soon right?
/r/seduction10/05/21 07:12 PM
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Thanks I think I’m gonna do that and wait appreciate your input
/r/seduction10/05/21 07:11 PM
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Thanks homie
/r/seduction10/05/21 04:55 AM
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Will do. How would you approach the subject what would you say? Thanks again you rock man.
/r/seduction10/05/21 04:50 AM
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For sure thank you for your input. To expand on that, in very comfortable with being alone I don’t need a person to make me happy. I just don’t see the point in dating others if I’ve been spending a lot of time with this person I just don’t want to date anyone else but her make sense?
/r/seduction10/05/21 04:47 AM
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We are fucking regularly every time we hang out. It’s not to cut competition I’m just jaded about dating at this point it can be a colossal waste of time and money. I feel comfortable with this person and we have a good vibe. Are these points not valid?
/r/seduction10/05/21 04:37 AM
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Thanks homie appreciate your input
/r/askTRP23/04/21 02:44 AM
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You sure this response is appropriate? I don’t want to come off sounding like a douche
/r/askTRP21/04/21 03:23 PM
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Is there another way to phrase that response instead of saying sex
/r/askTRP21/04/21 03:17 PM
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Hahah is that too savage??
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:46 PM
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How would you reply?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:40 PM
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Hahaha is that too savage?
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:38 PM
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What do you mean lol
/r/askTRP21/04/21 02:36 PM
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Thanks homie needed to hear this
/r/askTRP11/01/21 09:34 PM
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Thanks man! Do you agree that liking Instagram has the polar opposite affect of making you look like an orbiter or am I wrong?
/r/askTRP11/01/21 03:45 PM
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Alright thank you for your reply. She’s been liking my posts on Instagram recently, does this indicate anything? I don’t like her posts cause I don’t want to give her validation and become an orbiter.
/r/askTRP11/01/21 06:50 AM
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Aight thanks man appreciate your response
/r/askTRP11/01/21 03:25 AM
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Shut up pussy go get laid you beta
/r/askTRP24/11/20 06:07 AM
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Happens to the best of us man. Just relax and get out of your head, don’t think so much live in the moment.
/r/askTRP19/11/20 02:52 AM
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Thank you. We didn’t set it up during the date I meant it’s a bar we talked about during our date that we mutually liked
/r/askTRP20/10/20 02:37 AM
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Thanks dawg
/r/askTRP19/10/20 10:28 PM
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Was my approach wrong setting the time of the date? As men we should lead as you probably already know as a frequenter of this page. would you send a follow up text day of?
/r/askTRP19/10/20 09:08 PM
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Thanks! How far in advance do you usually set them? I think 3-4 days is reasonable
/r/askTRP19/10/20 09:06 PM
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This is the most cringe post I’ve ever read
/r/askTRP06/10/20 12:46 PM
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Hahahaha yup
/r/askTRP06/10/20 04:18 AM
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Thanks man much appreciated
/r/ExRedPill05/10/20 05:46 AM
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I reached out a week later asking if something happened and she said she started seeing someone and it’s doesn’t feel appropriate hanging out with me anymore lol do you think she’s being genuine?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 09:51 PM
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I reached out a week later asking if something happened and she said she started seeing someone and it’s doesn’t feel appropriate hanging out with me anymore lol do you think she’s being genuine?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 09:50 PM
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I reached out a week later asking if something happened and she said she started seeing someone and it’s doesn’t feel appropriate hanging out with me anymore lol do you think she’s being genuine?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 09:50 PM
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Yeah she’s gone. What you mean not having her days?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 09:34 PM
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I reached out a week later asking if something happened and she said she started seeing someone and it’s doesn’t feel appropriate hanging out with me anymore lol do you think she’s being genuine?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 08:43 PM
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I reached out a week later asking if something happened and she said she started seeing someone and it’s doesn’t feel appropriate hanging out with me anymore lol do you think she’s being genuine?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 08:43 PM
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I reached out a week later asking if something happened and she said she started seeing someone and it’s doesn’t feel appropriate hanging out with me anymore lol do you think she’s being genuine?
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 08:43 PM
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She told me she’s seeing someone else and it’s gotten serious which seems suspect do you think she’s being truthful? sucks lol
/r/ExRedPill04/10/20 08:37 PM
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Yeah man it sucks, what do you mean how did your insecurities impact it what was your situation?
/r/ExRedPill03/10/20 03:18 PM
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Thank you appreciate your advice. Do you think it’d be worth following up after a week?
/r/ExRedPill03/10/20 03:18 PM
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Def not anything you did wrong lol she was probably looking for a quick fix since she is a flight attendant don’t worry about it be yourself
/r/ExRedPill03/10/20 12:32 AM
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Interesting definitely could be true she’s in her 20s but told me her parents aren’t affectionate ppl at all
/r/ExRedPill02/10/20 03:29 PM
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Alright understood. Did you follow up with her?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 10:17 PM
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Yeah it’s completely unrealistic and untrue lol but thank you for your kind words :) glad to hear you are in a happy relationship
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 10:11 PM
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Thanks man. Peep the user cutt88 comments on this thread doesn’t he sound red pilly? Lol
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 09:54 PM
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Thank you so much totally agree with your points. I may reach out in a few days. Look at cutt88s post on this thread doesn’t he come off as someone from red pill?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 09:40 PM
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Doesn’t he sound red pilly? Why is he in here? Lol
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 09:23 PM
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Interesting so would u say I should follow up? What would you say?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 08:57 PM
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You’re saying I am an apologist or cutt88? His response has red pill undertones lol
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 08:55 PM
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Bro I tried to initiate sex like 2-3 times there is only so much you can do in that situation. Why are you even posting here if you’re trying to put me down?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 08:55 PM
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Did you ever follow up with her? That sucks
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 08:02 PM
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Did you read the comments? People were calling me a beta lol
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 08:02 PM
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Haha how can I tell? I mean I sent her a text and it was delivered. We are also friends on social media and she’s been active.. what would you do?
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 07:04 PM
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Totally agreed she ain’t worth it at all on to the next one appreciate your advice
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 06:22 PM
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Thank you so much appreciate your advice :)
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 06:22 PM
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the notion that because I slept over and was trying to cuddle turned her off is absurd given that she was being affectionate/cuddly the night before. Am I wrong? We had talked about a day/action date the following week which she seemed excited for during the date then out of nowhere she ghosts which is extremely rude. How would you proceed from her? I’m a confident person so rejection doesn’t bother me that much but this one stings since I was into her and we were getting to know eachother.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 03:56 PM
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Appreciate your advice could be true about something going on with her. the notion that because I slept over and was trying to cuddle turned her off is absurd given that she was being affectionate/cuddly the night before. We had talked about a day/action date the following week which she seemed excited for during the date then out of nowhere she ghosts which is extremely rude. How would you proceed from her? I’m a confident person so rejection doesn’t bother me that much but this one stings sinc…
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 03:56 PM
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Yeah it is what it is thanks for your response I don’t think I did anything wrong personally
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 03:24 PM
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Thank you :) appreciate your response
/r/ExRedPill01/10/20 03:06 PM
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I would never bring it up lol
/r/askTRP08/09/20 04:41 AM
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Hahaha thanks bro
/r/askTRP02/09/20 05:23 PM
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When I read these red pill threads some dudes say they always get a text from a girl the night or morning after the date but it’s a case by case basis for me, girls also want to play the game and not come off as needy right?
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:59 PM
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Is it bad to text a girl day after date communicating you had a good time if you haven’t heard from her or is that beta?
/r/askTRP02/09/20 04:49 PM
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