Texting after first date after having sex?

Pompompary · 2024-04-19T20:28:28+00:00

If you’re already having sex, texting is just a minor way of communicating

Magnetar402 · 2024-04-19T20:24:16+00:00

Don't overthink it, message them today

Full-Violinist3390 · 2024-04-19T21:12:04+00:00

From my experience, with most girls, the power/(upper hand) goes from the lady to the guy once you have sex. I think this is true since a lot of ladies puts (too much) emotion into sex. Not sure if she is like that though. But something to think about when you overthink

Jaereth · 2024-04-19T21:11:38+00:00

Just text ASAP.

But yeah, if you have sex with someone, and want to see them again, I think next day is a good time for the "I had a good time, again?" text.

RollingMarble · 2024-04-19T22:24:00+00:00

I always tell them "Text me when you get home." They text me and then I reply, I had fun we should do something again soon

Jironasaurus · 2024-04-19T21:23:59+00:00

You didn't, but you should definitely text her by now if you're looking to make plans soon. I've done this enough times to know texting them soon is better than later.

rattling_nomad · 2024-04-19T22:24:58+00:00

Yeah. Dickish, but by all means attempt a recovery.

CompleteEducator2966 · 2024-04-19T20:21:55+00:00

You should definitely text her sooner than later...like today. Unless you don't ever want to have sex with her again.

pitterpatter-96 · 2024-04-19T22:38:19+00:00

I stopped putting too much stock in it. If she doesn’t text much she usually isn’t that into you anyway. Sometimes there are the anomaly bad texters and it’s usually all good in person. But the more you worry about it the more insecure you will be to her.

Text away, just don’t expect anything

kojied · 2024-04-19T20:53:25+00:00

Send her a pic of something (billboard, food, etc) and tell her “it reminded me of you”. Make it based on something you talked about, she’ll appreciate you remembering some small detail of the night or about her.

ayesee345 · 2024-04-19T22:58:14+00:00

I mean one day is fine since it’s technically a first date, but one day tops considering y’all did fuck. So def text her tonight. The best move imo is telling them that night to text you once they get home, then send the “lets do it again soon” text once they do. From there, yeah you can wait a few days to set up the next date.

mario_goat · 2024-04-19T23:45:34+00:00

Just need to find a reason to text her, for example “hey, today i found something cool to do, are you free the weekend?”

AceAnnihilator · 2024-04-19T23:56:28+00:00

The day after don’t be too eager but don’t lose momentum either

NewOCLibraryReddit · 2024-04-20T00:48:41+00:00

Long gone are the days where sex means she's really into you. These women will move on to the next shiny toy they come across- hence, the reason you got her.

dannygladiolas · 2024-04-19T22:55:04+00:00

Don't be clingy.

Realdavidlima · 2024-04-19T21:58:56+00:00

Don’t ever text them the very next day, comes off as desperate/ thirsty. I often will text them a week later or they will message me beforehand

BackstageGabe · 2024-04-19T22:13:20+00:00

Don’t text. Women need validation. I still don’t text my woman. We are getting married in September. It keeps you on their mind. Males lead the pack they don’t look back. They turn around when others are in danger. It’s not stringing along its leading along.

Junior-Sport7376 · 2024-04-19T22:20:46+00:00

If she fucks you and doesn't reach out, good chance she a bop

Title	Texting after first date after having sex?
Author	jaycutlerfridgerator
Upvotes	35
Comments	40
Date	April 19, 2024 8:20 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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