jayman419 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Got girl's phone number, but we don't text. We do however exchange on an almost daily basis. She might just not be big on texting. I'd say disregard the phone and work on your 'in person' development. If you want to ask her out, do it face to face.	/r/seduction	16/01/14 01:57 PM
1	How should I react to someone complaining? He has certainly thought about it, at least.	/r/seduction	02/12/13 06:31 PM
3	How should I react to someone complaining? Fair enough.	/r/seduction	02/12/13 06:31 PM
-1	How should I react to someone complaining? I'd change 'these negative thoughts' to 'shit like that'. It's more neutral, just saying the stuff that happened was shitty, whereas the other version is calling her thoughts themselves negative, which might make her defensive. And defensive is the last thing you're trying to accomplish.	/r/seduction	02/12/13 05:18 AM
4	Tips for Dating an Attention Whore Be honest. Not with me. I don't actually care. But with yourself. Do you think she's sleeping around? You came here for seduction advice. Let me give you some life advice. It's obvious that you like this girl. And while, at this exact moment you're not jealous of her having guy friends... because it opens the door for you to do certain things you wouldn't mind doing... why not put yourself out there? Don't get me wrong. I know you can't commit to a girl who behaves like her. I'm not even suggest…	/r/seduction	30/11/13 05:03 AM
15	Tips for Dating an Attention Whore Let me rearrange the things you've written and see if we can bring some clarity to the situation. [after 3 weeks of dating we slept together] [over the next 5 weeks our relationship has settled at seeing one another] approximately every other day (Note: By my math, you've already been with her 2 months at this point, and you're seeing her 3-4 times per week.) says she has a history of extended LTR she has told me on two occasions that she only sleeps with one guy at a time once asked me if I was…	/r/seduction	29/11/13 09:19 AM
1	I got a girl's number, who also happens to have an identical twin, and I think my intentions appeared ambiguous. Glad to help out. Dating a twin is super tricky. Speaking generally, they want to be recognized as individuals, yet they insist on wearing similar clothes, makeup, and hairstyles. Confusing one for the other may have already messed it up for you... That may have been the blip on your radar when you asked for her number. But if you can get them chatting, and get to know them a little better, it gets a lot easier to pick out their little idiosyncrasies and mannerisms. When you do go to make your m…	/r/seduction	13/11/13 02:48 AM
1	I got a girl's number, who also happens to have an identical twin, and I think my intentions appeared ambiguous. If there's a question you want the answer to, you should ask it. In this case, I think you should hit her up. Be aware you might end up with her and her sister for at least the first few nights together. (I don't mean sexually. I mean they're obviously very close, if the other one doesn't approve of you as well, you don't have a chance.) You might even be better off saying "You guys wants to hang out this weekend?" and gradually making it known that you fancy one of 'em once you have the approva…	/r/seduction	13/11/13 01:38 AM
10	Can't keep trying to help myself -- how can I become confident in myself with girls? Give up. Hear me out. Seriously, stop worrying about "how to be confident". Don't even think about "game". Just give up, man. Go into every situation like you have nothing to gain from the encounter, nothing you want from her, nothing you're worried about missing out on... like you've already lost. Not to be cruel, but you've been striking out a fair bit anyway, right? So why not just give up? Because here's the thing .... Suddenly you're relaxed. Suddenly you're assertive, free to speak your mi…	/r/seduction	10/11/13 12:41 PM
5	Going to a Halloween party tonight as Barney Stinson, any not so obvious ways I can use this to my advantage? Just go up to random people and introduce them as Ted. Introduce new people (also named Ted) to people you have already introduced to others as Ted.	/r/seduction	26/10/13 09:07 PM
2	College teacher. What happens when there is a plural "you" indicating respect in your language? Like I said, if nothing else, wait until you're through her class, if you're still taking the bus together you'll have a better chance when it's "random student and teacher" than "student and the class teacher".	/r/seduction	15/10/13 12:15 AM
3	College teacher. What happens when there is a plural "you" indicating respect in your language? Fair enough. I was thinking it was ESL as a common language, but if you don't think you can just ask her to lapse into more informal conversation, I reckon you have two options. 1) Slip up. Just make a mistake, and drop the formal you for something more intimate then immediately apologize. If nothing else, it will let you see her reaction. 2) Wait until you've finished her class, and see if the lack of an immediate 'teacher-student' relationship allows her to relax a bit more.	/r/seduction	14/10/13 09:01 PM
2	College teacher. What happens when there is a plural "you" indicating respect in your language? Since you're the one saying "you" (and without reading the exact sentence you're using it in) one thing is she might not even be hearing it as a respectful plural. The idea of the respectful, plural you is rather uncommon so it might not be the first thing that comes to her mind. If you want to get past any barrier in conversation, boldness is always the first thing I recommend. One day on the bus, during a lull in conversation, say something like.. "So, I've been wondering what should I call yo…	/r/seduction	14/10/13 08:21 PM
1	Most muscular men are not attractive for their bodies but for the confidence that their bodies give them. I'm saying that I'm not a pick-up artist, and that I'm not trying to make an equation where confidence = pussy in a direct correlation. That may be their thing, but I'm not about that. That's why I said I wasn't spewing pua bs. I didn't mean "you" as in 'OP is a fag!!!' ... it was a more general 'you' for the guys who would rather work on their guns than work on their social skills. I'm sorry if I offended you, but I didn't mean to. I'm rather drunk, so I'm not being very clear. But you can chec…	/r/seduction	17/09/13 05:04 AM
0	Most muscular men are not attractive for their bodies but for the confidence that their bodies give them. It's not pick up artist bullshit. It's about confidence.	/r/seduction	17/09/13 03:56 AM
1	Most muscular men are not attractive for their bodies but for the confidence that their bodies give them. It has nothing to do with a $3k boot camp. If you walk into a Lambo dealership and ask for a test drive, unlesss you;ve spent years in training, and know how to handle the over-powered car, you're gonna have a bad time. You have little dog syndrome.	/r/seduction	16/09/13 09:23 PM
1	Maslow's Paradox Let's assume it's not bullshit, and just look at the hierarchy itself for a second. Friendship and family are on the same level as sexual intimacy. Which means they are of equal importance. How this relates to "learning game", and progressing to the next level (to self-esteem and confidence), is that what matters is the demystification of the opposite sex. Most women feel uncomfortable if a potential partner's only way to relate to them involves putting them on a pillar. The only place for them …	/r/seduction	26/08/13 03:32 AM