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| 1 | Chick won't meet up with me if I don't pick her up... told her to uber, said she doesn't "feel comfortable"?lmao my thoughts exactly. totally turned me off from any attraction I had towards her | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 06:47 AM |
| 1 | Chick won't meet up with me if I don't pick her up... told her to uber, said she doesn't "feel comfortable"?lmao definitely not a scam, but certainly someone that is full of herself. i would never, ever pay for a chicks uber ride unless I was dating them and it was necessary lmao | /r/seduction | 28/03/21 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Chick won't meet up with me if I don't pick her up... told her to uber, said she doesn't "feel comfortable"?Yeah dude, pretty much just gonna do exactly that. Tried of these games! | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 03:29 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]my apologies | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 07:41 AM |
| 1 | Going down on a girl during her period/period sex.... Help me out guys - Been looking forward to this all week and just got the news! Told her a little blood never hut anyone...awesome! thank you for the sound advice. Going over to her place also, so I'm sure she will have some sheets/towels set up. Thanks again man! | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 06:01 AM |
| 1 | Going down on a girl during her period/period sex.... Help me out guys - Been looking forward to this all week and just got the news! Told her a little blood never hut anyone...Damn flood gates? Yeah I don't think it's that bad haha. She said it's really not bad at all! I told her we'll have some extra towels on handing (jokingly, but also kinda serious at the same time lol) and she responds "naa it's not even that bad! " so I think I'm just overthinking this/don't know what to expect being my first time with a girl on her period. | /r/seduction | 14/11/20 04:58 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about girls that are overly aggressive and straight-up direct to the point where it's almost off-putting?re-reading and rethinking about it, you are right about validation. I didn't realize at the time of writing it, but yeah, I was certainly looking for validation and trying to justify the situation. height is just one thing that has always thrown me off, I guess you could say it's an insecurity about myself. Although I don't mind being 5'5 at all - I look at it as more of a preference - I'm really just not attracted to girls taller than me (being said, if shes tall, good looking, and I had an ini… | /r/seduction | 09/06/20 06:52 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about girls that are overly aggressive and straight-up direct to the point where it's almost off-putting?Specifically what is pointing that out in my post? I'm asking honestly. My honest answer would be that maybe your true SMV isn’t as high as you may think it is, which thus allows for these low SMV girls to feel like they can hit on you. Hoeslty, I think you could be somewhat right - I'm think I put my standards too high sometimes... then implying the second half of your statement, that I am then "surprised", or caught off guard you could say, when allowing for low SMV girls to hit on me or get w… | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 08:00 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about girls that are overly aggressive and straight-up direct to the point where it's almost off-putting?fair enough. well having this conversation with you made me realize that - I didn't realize that initially | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 07:54 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about girls that are overly aggressive and straight-up direct to the point where it's almost off-putting?in what sense? off topic and redundant for this sub? no, I do not think so... elaborate if you wish | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 07:33 AM |
| 1 | What do you guys think about girls that are overly aggressive and straight-up direct to the point where it's almost off-putting?my attitude towards her and the whole thing would for sure be different if I actually found her attractive - if I did, I wouldn't have minded the aggressiveness (and if she was shorter than me) | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 07:26 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about girls that are overly aggressive and straight-up direct to the point where it's almost off-putting?it just started with normal escalation, having fun with each other, she was grinding on me, I was slapping her ass, messing around with her, pushed her down on the couch as I was making out with her, blah blah blah. But then as it started to almost turn the opposite, like she was manhandling me, got on top of me and that when I realized wow you're really fucking tall, and she almost crushed me. I think the main fact that played into it was that when she started to do this stuff, I didn't really … | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 07:20 AM |
| -1 | What do you guys think about girls that are overly aggressive and straight-up direct to the point where it's almost off-putting?oh god. I knew someone was going to give me shit for that. Please, get lost if you are trying to bring any bullshit like that up. I said it because light-skinned girls are fucking sexy as fuck and extremely attractive Chicks who are dark as fuck are not my type, at all. Don't even to to blow this up into a bullshit issue, pal | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 07:14 AM |
| 3 | Treat Your Life Like an RPGthat valid - for me, I'm more focused on the game/seduction part of the red pill, as it is really the only area in life that I am lacking/have a problem with. you are right about the occasional gems here and there, that's what I pretty much do also. I don't frequent this subreddit much but when I do its about a 1 to 10 ratio of good/valid advice to weird regurgitated, cringy shitpost like this, with people giving advice about stuff they know nothing about in reality. like this post, as you said | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/20 08:54 AM |
| 7 | Treat Your Life Like an RPGyeah man, agreed. Don't get me wrong, I do occasionally seek out advice given on here but most of TRP community has gone to shit with little 18 year olds post shit similar to this and people eating it up. I mainly go through the old post to get advice and words of wisdom. I mostly focus on the game aspect of TRP, because the rest of the advice and or questions on here are totally fucking cringe and I'm not an awkward little kid trying to figure out life. hence, like this post and the others. the… | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/20 08:47 AM |
| 12 | Treat Your Life Like an RPGbunch of weirdo, socially awkward kids who sit behind a computer and just regurgitate advice that they don't even know about. this subreddit has become cringe af. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/20 08:35 AM |
| 1 | Treat Your Life Like an RPG1-3 hours a day is still a lot... don't expect to be a "millionaire by 18" if you "occasionally" play video games for 1 - 3 hours a day.... FYI. you still have a lot to learn, obviously | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/20 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Treat Your Life Like an RPGhm.... maybe because everything he listed takes time, focus, concentration and energy? I do everything he listed, and at the end of the day, I'd rather chill out for a few on the internet, etc. rather than invest my time in a video game. A video game takes much more dedication, time and energy your argument is invalid and dumb. next! | /r/TheRedPill | 30/05/20 08:25 AM |
| 1 | PUA Forumsyeah man, just came across it - doesn't seem too active but does have a good amount of recent posts | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 09:07 AM |
| 1 | PUA Forumsthe forums usually had datasheets for specific areas and had more of a travel section which I liked, i think the community was a little better also tho. this sub is good tough | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 09:06 AM |
| 1 | 26 yr old Virgin male hereI'm not the OP, but this is what I needed to hear. thank you | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 07:59 AM |
| 1 | 26 yr old Virgin male herecan somewhat relate. I'm years old also. I've had sex 2 times, one was with a girl back in high school and the other was as early last year. Problem is, the first one was so long ago that i don't even feel like I can count that experience, since I'm still an extreme amateur at sex and sexual escalation (mostly this). With the one more recently, it was more of a spur of the moment thing with some random girl I met on plenty of fish (horrible dating app), and she was fat and ugly - I'm not trying … | /r/seduction | 25/05/20 07:57 AM |
| 1 | PUA ForumsWhat makes you say that | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 08:06 AM |
| 1 | Traveling internationally help with game, social skills, pickup, etc.?Overall it depends what definition of game you’re speaking about. Pretty much over all game while traveling with the overall goal of hooking up with other girls be them other travelers / foreigners / locals | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 08:01 AM |
| 1 | Traveling internationally help with game, social skills, pickup, etc.?yeah, I feel like just being American/white in some area also will already give you the upper hand as well | /r/seduction | 21/05/20 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Traveling internationally help with game, social skills, pickup, etc.?Good to know. At the least, I feel like I would come back with heightened sense of experience, whether that be social experience or sexual experience or a mixture of both, and if neither, knowing that I capitalized on the opportunity and got out of my comfort zone would fine as well. I've heard the same about SE Asia, which is why it is certainly on my list as well. Trying to kill two birds with one stone and travel through Europe on the way to South East Asia | /r/seduction | 17/05/20 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Hobbies, passion, how to meet women?Gotcha, thank you for the insight! You're right, I'm definitely over thinking it too much | /r/seduction | 10/11/19 07:45 AM |
| 1 | I tend to be very judgmental towards others in my head, which has lead me to become self-conscious about myself because I tend to think people have that same thinking pattern as me. Advice?Lmao would this actually work? | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 08:58 AM |
| 1 | I tend to be very judgmental towards others in my head, which has lead me to become self-conscious about myself because I tend to think people have that same thinking pattern as me. Advice?Definitely, I think I'm going to reach out and start that process again. Thanks for the book recommendation also, going to check it out. I've heard nothing but good things about CBT | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 08:58 AM |
| 1 | I tend to be very judgmental towards others in my head, which has lead me to become self-conscious about myself because I tend to think people have that same thinking pattern as me. Advice?So true. Thank you for that, I'm going really try and get in that mindset | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 08:53 AM |
| 1 | I tend to be very judgmental towards others in my head, which has lead me to become self-conscious about myself because I tend to think people have that same thinking pattern as me. Advice?i've been saying I'm going to do this for year, I think Im really going to set out and do it - i just found it so difficult and got burnt out trying to even get it started looking for a therapist, people wouldn't respond back, etc. I need to try it again | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 08:50 AM |
| 1 | I tend to be very judgmental towards others in my head, which has lead me to become self-conscious about myself because I tend to think people have that same thinking pattern as me. Advice?Since you might currently be stuck, one of the ways to help you get out of this threat, besides internal debate and counterexample seeking, is to change your routine up and/or to get out of the house. Physical activity can be really helpful, like exercise. All good points, I started to get back to the gym as well. Your last one brings up a point I forgot to mention in the original post - I feel like my environment plays a huge part in this, which is one of the main reasons I need to/want to move… | /r/seduction | 07/08/19 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Conversation - How to not be boring? Do I need new hobbies?Interesting point and never thought about it like that, but I can see how it is totally true. I don’t consider myself an arrogant person I don’t think, but one thing I have learned within the past year when talking to someone is to really listen to the person, and like you said, care. I try to do that rather than in one ear and out the other. I definitely would say I’m an interesting person, not that I want to feel like I’m on a dating right right now, but I would say I have 4-5 real solid hobbi… | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 06:31 AM |
| 2 | I tend to be very judgmental towards others in my head, which has lead me to become self-conscious about myself because I tend to think people have that same thinking pattern as me. Advice?Right on thanks man. I've cut down on weed but still smoke it, but not a 24/7 stoner like I used to be, which has definitely helped. Just started getting back into the gym also, which I'm starting to notice also has a positive effect. I'm trying to be more social and pick up new hobbies, but at the same time I've been studying a lot and focusing on getting a job in my field, so I'm burnt out a lot from that, but I'd like to make new friends or new hobbies - I need to move away out my hometown I … | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 05:45 AM |
| 1 | Daily routine/scheduleGotcha, I reactivated my gym membership today and went for the first time in about 7 months. Feels good. Tomorrow I'm taking a high intensity workout class, but I'm really trying to build mass like you said so I'm really focusing on weights and eating | /r/askTRP | 01/12/18 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Daily routine/scheduleCheers, great advice thank you for that, man! You're right about not putting too much on my plate at once - going to slowly incorporate all of these because I could see myself getting burnt out if I do too much. Starting with gym though, at least 2 - 3 times a week I'm pretty skinny and a small guy. I DO have a little bit of a gut though which I am really trying to get rid of, as well as gain mass from weight lifting. I'm reading that a lot of this also comes from having the correct diet as well… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 06:41 AM |
| 3 | Keeping the weed smoking to a minimumSeems like where in the same boat. It's hard, especially at night. Good luck bud! | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Keeping the weed smoking to a minimumJust a bowl. I don't even smoke blunts anymore, and that shit really gets me too high now. I take a few hits now and I'm good, when I was younger I was able to smoke blunt after blunt during the day and be fine | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Keeping the weed smoking to a minimumI never thought about that, but now that you mention it, i can see how it creates nihilism | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 06:22 AM |
| 1 | Keeping the weed smoking to a minimumYeah, but that's the problem. Weed didn't effect me like this when I was younger, but now I don't get any social benefits from it, which is why I am cutting back to only at night, because once I smoke, my day and social life is done for that night. It didn't effect me like that in the past, it;s weird how it changes. I wish I could take a hit or 2 and go out | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 06:20 AM |
| 3 | Keeping the weed smoking to a minimumAlso I have a pet theory that weed is a feminine-energy substance. It puts you into a feminine frame. When I get off of weed it gets much easier for me to be relaxed and dominant around women. But I cant really put my finger on why. Boom. I feel exactly this. Like you said, I can't put my finger on it, but I know exactly what you mean Along with everything else you say, I 100% agree. I already cut down from being a multi-day smoker, to once a day (night) so I see no reason why I can't push mysel… | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 06:18 AM |
| 2 | Keeping the weed smoking to a minimumI know exactly what you you mean. I can tell I'm already making progress though with only smoking once at night, and hopefully soon it will just be a weekly thing. I'm actually really trying to read more, and sometimes when I smoke, I do exactly what you said and then get mad at myself | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Keeping the weed smoking to a minimumI've since (about a year ago) cut my smoking down to Friday and Saturday nights, and only if I'm staying home for the night and all chores etc are done. That's kinda what I'm going for, friday and saturdays only if I'm not doing anything | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Keeping the weed smoking to a minimumVery true. I already cut down from a multiple-times-a-day smoker to just "once" a day (the whole night thing), so I believe I can minimize it to a weekly thing | /r/askTRP | 29/11/18 05:56 AM |
| 1 | Best way to respond to this girl on tinder? First time genuinely matching with someoneok she said "that title is earned" | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Best way to respond to this girl on tinder? First time genuinely matching with someonejust sent. will report back lol | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Best way to respond to this girl on tinder? First time genuinely matching with someoneher name is jessa tho, and im jesse. so im trying to think of another name other than john | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 02:25 AM |
| 2 | Best way to respond to this girl on tinder? First time genuinely matching with someoneima say that. "just call me daddy, problem solved " | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Best way to respond to this girl on tinder? First time genuinely matching with someonethats true. but i dont want my response to fuck it up | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 01:52 AM |
| 4 | Best way to respond to this girl on tinder? First time genuinely matching with someoneBro. I'm loving that. That's such a good line lmao I'm cracking up reading that. That's gold. I may have to say that | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 01:38 AM |
| 2 | Best way to respond to this girl on tinder? First time genuinely matching with someoneMan I'm getting anxiety just thinking about what i should say to her lol | /r/seduction | 03/04/18 01:33 AM |
| 1 | My first date EVER, next week, with a girl I met last weekendMan.... she just ghosted me. I didn't want to come off too needy or desperate so I just stopped hitting her up to ask her about her work schedule/when she would be free. And she just never got back to me. So whatever, not taking it hard, onto the next!! If anything, situation gave me confidence | /r/seduction | 05/03/18 05:51 AM |
| 1 | My first date EVER, next week, with a girl I met last weekendYeah, exactly what I was gonna do, beginning/next week | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 11:08 AM |
| 2 | My first date EVER, next week, with a girl I met last weekendI know.... exactly what I thought. Not gonna hit her up until mid week to see what she says | /r/seduction | 10/02/18 11:07 AM |
| 1 | My first date EVER, next week, with a girl I met last weekendWell the main point of this post are the questions at the bottom, the stop part is the backstory, like I outlined in the post | /r/seduction | 09/02/18 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Texting a girl to set up a date to get drinks - best way to be clear, concise and to the pointThanks man!! Should I keep the texting light this week? Or just kind of message her once in a while to keep her interest ? | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 07:27 AM |
| 1 | Texting a girl to set up a date to get drinks - best way to be clear, concise and to the pointthanks man! Just sent it and she responded. Should i keep the conversation short and just tell her that I will confirm with her on Friday? EDIT- she responded! says she works all this weekend but suggested next week, I asked her if any day in particular would be best | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 07:17 AM |
| 1 | Texting a girl to set up a date to get drinks - best way to be clear, concise and to the pointYeah, I was going to say a time as well. Should I definitely mention a place also? Because I was thinking about winging it just deciding when we walk downtown - I was actually gonna tell her I'll meet her at her house and we'll walk (she doesn't drive, my car is fucked up at the moment) there together, since she lives down the street from me. Edit - Ok I am about to send this "Hey what's up! How's your week going? Lets go downtown Friday to get a drink, at 8? We can go to Steins or another place… | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 06:46 AM |
| 1 | Should I text her today? Tomorrow? Want to get a drink with herWill do | /r/seduction | 08/02/18 06:10 AM |
| 1 | Should I text her throughout the week to keep her interest ? Or keep texting to a minimum?Still trying to get out of that passive mindset I (tend) to have - I am making progress because I used to not be assertive or confident at all, now I am building all that up | /r/seduction | 06/02/18 07:07 AM |
| 1 | Should I text her throughout the week to keep her interest ? Or keep texting to a minimum?Got it. Thank you for the advice. I'm am really new to seduction and gaming so still learning the ropes. I appreciated what you said and will follow the advice. I know I kind of fucked up when I said I told her to let me know and as soon as I pulled the trigger I realized I shouldn't have said it like that. My plan is/was to text her Thursday afternoon and tell her to meet me downtown for a few drinks. To the point and confident is exactly what I've been trying to work on, and I know I need to b… | /r/seduction | 06/02/18 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Looking for an Asian wingman in San FranciscoI live just outside of Redwood city and work in Palo alto, but SF is only a 45 min train ride from here so it's not bad at all. How long have you been practicing game? | /r/seduction | 05/02/18 06:03 AM |
| 1 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlUpdated in original post :) | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 05:21 AM |
| 1 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlWell so far so good. She doesn't have her work schedule yet but is going to let me know later this week. I'll reach out again in a few days if she doesn't get back to me, tell her I'm going downtown for a drink and she's welcomed to join | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 05:03 AM |
| 1 | I want to meet up with sedditors in ChicagoIf I was in chicago, I'd totally be down. I live in the SF bay area though. Similarly, anyone in the SF bay area want to meet for same reasons OP stated? | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 05:02 AM |
| 5 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlLol I know I know. I was digging her personality though. Gonna go out tomorrow and make an effort to do at least one cold approach, since this whole situation really boosted my confidence | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 04:59 AM |
| 2 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlright, some of it may be negative but honestly it's all helpful to me because right now I wouldn't be half the person I am/working to be if it wasn't for the sub and people here. But thanks man, I appreciate it. The make out session was amazing, I mean the girl couldn't keep her hands off me. If it wasn't for her bitchy housemate who kicked me out at 4 am, I am sure there would have been much more | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 04:58 AM |
| 1 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlI certainly am going to remember it! | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 04:55 AM |
| 1 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlYeah. She said shes gonna let me know her schedule later this week when she gets her work schedule. I told her sometime later this week/next weekend, and if she doesn't get back to me by Wed/Thurs, then I'll hit her up again | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 04:18 AM |
| 1 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlYeah, I got it. She said shes going to let me know her work schedule later this week. I'm going to text her again in a few days if she doesn't tell me by then, and tell her I'm going downtown to get some drinks on Thursday at this local brewery, which I go to every Thursday as well anyway. And then after that, set something up for the weekend. Here's the thing - should I keep the texting to a minimum this week? I don't want to come off as needy, so I am thinking that keeping the texting at a min… | /r/seduction | 04/02/18 04:18 AM |
| 10 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlLmao after re reading my original post yeah | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 11:20 PM |
| 2 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlSorry I was somewhat drunk when I wrote this also | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 11:10 PM |
| 1 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlActually yes. This is a perfect opportunity - she JUST moved to this city 2 weeks ago, so that give me a great start right there. Im about to text her and tell her I can show her around the city and show her some new places around her, the bowling idea is great | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 10:50 PM |
| 2 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlshould I specifically say date so shes knows my intentions? | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 09:50 PM |
| 0 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlWhat about suggesting to grab a few drinks in a few days/next weekend? I plan on messaging her in a few hours, I don't want to go after her too aggressively | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:56 PM |
| 1 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlRight. Figured I'll wait a few hours before I send her a message and not too aggressively like you said | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:50 PM |
| 4 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlYou're right. And I am certainly not a player but I've really been striving for self improvement regarding my game, life, goals , etc. and I feel like it's all slowly coming together, along with all the stuff I have learned on this sub, watching videos, books, etc. I'm going to do exactly that today, hit her up tell her I had a good time last night and tell her I'd love to hang out again next weekend or sometime relatively soon | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:13 PM |
| 3 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlHaha I know man. I feel naturally high right now because this was a huge step for me. Even if I did buy her a few drinks which I probably shouldn't have. I was just in the moment. | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:11 PM |
| 1 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlGot it. I'll reach out to her today and let her know I had a great time last night and if she's free sometime later this week / which days are good for me to meet again | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:09 PM |
| 5 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlHaha I know, i was in the moment and never actually engaged with a girl at this level before, being in a club, having great conversation with her, etc. Should I make the first move to hit her up or just say forget about it if she doesn't hit me up? | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:06 PM |
| -3 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlWe were talking for a while and then I got her a drink. Somewhere after the drink I got her snap. And then I wanted another drink and So I offered to get her another one because I felt like I couldn't just leave the table we were at and then only come back with one drink | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:03 PM |
| 8 | It's 5 in the morning but I don't care, this is the first time I actually connected with a girlYup, I did get her snap | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Looking for an Asian wingman in San FranciscoI'm white but down by redwood city. Why specifically asian ? | /r/seduction | 03/02/18 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Still not happy with my progressYou are right. I'm am upping my game, not my social skills - even though those do go hand in hand - I am realizing that having random convos with people is doing nothing because that is not what triggers my anxiety, hence I am not putting myself in this situations that I need to get better at. Besides deliberate practice, any other recommendations? | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Still not happy with my progressOnline dating is easy, until you meet in person. Actually, I haven't tried it much, but I always pussy out on tinder. | /r/seduction | 29/01/18 05:05 AM |
| 1 | I want to say how positively surprised I'm with this subredditI fucking love this sub. | /r/seduction | 27/01/18 05:52 AM |
| 3 | This paragraph changed my lifeSorry buddy I only have the physical copy, I bought it on amazon | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 07:08 AM |
| 2 | This paragraph changed my lifeModels by Mark Manson | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 06:53 AM |
| 3 | This paragraph changed my lifeLiterally reading this book right now, its right on my desk. I've attempted to read it once, but this was last year when I wasn't serious and struggling with some internal conflicts (drug abuse). On the first chapter right now. Loving the book already | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 06:52 AM |
| 4 | Did my first approach todayGood job, keep it going. I did my first approach the other day. Yesterday I wanted to approach these 2 girls at a car and psyched myself out. | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 05:49 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetWhat? | /r/seduction | 21/01/18 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetVery true, certainly headed towards the direction I want to go. Thanks for the encouragement man | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 07:58 AM |
| 2 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetAwesome article. Bookmarked it and will be using it as a future reference | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetYeah man, it was great. I'm glad I'm starting to pick up up these instances and (slowly) recognizing and hopping on opportunity. | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 07:56 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the street.....no man..... ugh.... now in hindsight, I am completely realizing all of this. Man, I wish I AT LEAST asked her her name..... I can't even believe I didn't do that. Only thing I can do is focus on the future | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetRight, I feel as if I am already overloaded, as I've been reading up, listening, asking and studying all of this. I need to keep it going. Thank you for the encouragement | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 07:51 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetUghhhhhhhhh I know I missed out. These thoughts didn't pass thru my mind when i was talking to her because I was just so ecstatic that I was able to start a conversation. Now I am more aware of what I am doing, saying, etc. | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 07:48 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetYup! I like the direction this is heading, I can tell it's really improving my well-being, my social skills, my mindset, my energy and overall confidence. Still difficult but it's getting better | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 07:47 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetVery true, and I can tell it's already making a difference in my social interactions. I've been talking with more and more people everyday. Still not talking to as many people as I would like to, and still missing out on certain opportunities, but I can tell I am definitely improving in these social situations. | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 07:45 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetHey don't feel bad man, I thought I was gonna take this L until I just said fuck it. Just make progress, doesn't matter how little or big, as long as you're improving and pushing yourself | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetRight - I agree with you for sure regarding a cold approach. I was just ecstatic as soon as this happened and wanted to post a field report before I forgot the details, etc. Just a casual conversation, but a great one at that, and I didn't expect it to go that way. Tomorrow, I am going to talk to everyone downtown, and possibly do my first real cold approach | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 07:01 AM |
| 2 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetI know I know... beating myself up over that part. But now I know for future reference | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 06:53 AM |
| 1 | Don't know if this is considered a cold approach, but holy shit I just talked to the first girl ever on the streetMy god, you're absolutely right and I wish I realized this as I was talking to her, but I was just so happy about the fact I was acting having a conversation with a girl that I didn't even think about that stuff. Looking back at it, you are 100% right. She stood right next to me, kept the conversation going, was looking at me in the eyes, and I should have made the next step and asked for her number. You live and you learn, and I am slowly but surely learning. I love the fact you said think of i… | /r/seduction | 20/01/18 06:48 AM |
| 1 | How do I start conditioning myself to talk to women? Starting smallThat's exactly what I need, that conditioning - I constantly tell my brain not to give a fuck and do shit for myself, not to worry about other peoples perception of me and their approval. But then in these situations my brain throws all that out the windows - However, this is the last of that, I'm tired of my brain dictating how I act. I am completely new to all of this - Could you maybe just give me an example of how I would conduct a cold approach like the one you mentioned above? I know I am … | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 06:55 AM |
| 1 | How do I start conditioning myself to talk to women? Starting smallMan, its literally like it hits me and all my cognitive functions, common sense and sociability go out the window. It's the worst part, as you know. I am certainly pushing myself everyday, now. Making some improvement everyday, no matter how small it is. Today, which was really the first day that I am now 100% focused on myself and becoming the person I want to, I noticed some positive improvement. I made an effort to talk to almost everyone I ran into at work, on the street, etc., and I certain… | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 06:51 AM |
| 1 | How do I start conditioning myself to talk to women? Starting smallRight. Lately, I've been focused on my online classes and education because I am really trying to get my life going, move out of my parents house (moved back in after I graduated college last year) find a career and become successful. I need to make an effort to go to the gym more, because lately I haven't - Luckily, I am slowly getting myself out of this lazy mindset I tend to have | /r/seduction | 18/01/18 06:46 AM |
| 2 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themYup, fully focused on becoming the best version of myself I want to be and motivated to do so. It certainly is lonely, many of my friends are similar to me in the sense that none of us have or go after women. But it's okay, maybe my success will influence them. I am already seeing some positive differences, today I was talking to almost everyone I ran into at work and on the street. | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 06:42 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themThat's a great idea! Use the red face/blushing to my advantage. I've never thought about it that way. That's a really good way to look at it, and I shall use that to my advantage now, I just need to train my brain not freak out once I feel the sensation coming on. I've heard of girls that do think blushing in cute, so it is absolutely true. Thank you for that perspective, and I shall use that last line once I start interacting with more women As for the drug part - That's essentially why I cut d… | /r/askTRP | 18/01/18 06:39 AM |
| 21 | Sex is not the prize you think it is.I really love that last sentence and it resonate with me greatly. I needed to read that, thank you | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 08:58 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themIt really isn't a big deal, my mind knows that, but my brain is still learning that stuff. I know that with the advice, the experience, the practice, and the all around self improvement will allow me to beat the awkwardness | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 08:56 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themHey man, I really appreciate all of that and everything you said. Definitely going to take all that advice and put myself out there. Like you said, make mistakes, get messy, whatever - nothing is worse then just watching opportunities go by and feeling regretful after. I really like that you said you've frozen up after your opening line, walked away and chickened out of asking her number. That makes me feel better, because I know that will probably happen to me at some point, and I'd honestly ra… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 07:56 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themYup, I just need to get the ball rolling and then I will realize what I am freaking out about is noting to actually freak out about. How did you learn at first, within those 7 months? Did you just put yourself out there, or are there some resources on youtube or something which you would recommend? Experience probably is the best learning resource out there, though | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 07:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I start conditioning myself to talk to women? Starting smallInteresting, I've never even thought about saying that to a girl as I am approaching her (even though I have never ever made an approach, I mean I never thought about doing this idea of saying I'm nervous). Very interesting idea and I will certainly try it when I start doing some approaches/conversating with females. Have you done this before? Would it just be a cold approach? | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 07:13 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themCompletely agree and thank you for that prescriptive- my brain is fucking with me because it's trying to pay attention/hit every micro detail that could potentially happen. And once I start doing this, I know it's going to make me want to do more and more approaches, it's just that initial start which is hardest | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 07:01 AM |
| 2 | How do I start conditioning myself to talk to women? Starting smallYeah, you're right. I've always been a small guy and it's really hard for me to gain muscle, but I actually have been working for the past year or so, I make it an effort to go at least 3 times a week to the gym. Although, i am starting to go less frequent because I've been putting that time into studying | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 06:57 AM |
| 1 | How do I start conditioning myself to talk to women? Starting smallYou're right. I have the motivation - its just my brain and anxiety is coming down like a brick wall when I get in these situations. You're absolutely right and I know that once I do one approach, its going to make me feel great and strive to do more | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 06:55 AM |
| 2 | How do I start conditioning myself to talk to women? Starting smallClubs aren't really my thing and I usually feel out of place because every guy there is muscular, dancing, socializing, etc. Bars would be a better thing for me, but even then I feel out of place sometimes | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 06:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I start conditioning myself to talk to women? Starting smallYou're right. The group thing is a great idea, maybe I'll look up a few on meetup.com or somehow find a group. But, how would I start a conversation? I know I am overthinking this lol | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 06:25 AM |
| 2 | How do I start conditioning myself to talk to women? Starting smallYup, thank you. Going to start by talking to not only cashiers, but people everywhere I go. Standing in line, waiting to cross the street, waiting for food, walking into, etc. I am just going to start conversating with everyone, no matter how awkward I start off at first | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 06:24 AM |
| 2 | How do I start conditioning myself to talk to women? Starting smallGot it - I'm going to dive head first. This weekend I plan to go out on saturday and talk to as many people as I can, males and females alike. But, I just don't know how to approach, what to say, when to approach, how to, etc. How should I start this process off? | /r/seduction | 17/01/18 06:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themGreat - and I'm assuming once the opening is said, conversation will flow more naturally and I'll be able to conversate with them back and forth (if the person is willing to respond back/actively talk). At this point I'm purely just going to make it my goal to talk with people and spark up conversation - then I'll focus on the next thing such as getting a girls number, etc. Once I expose myself to these situations | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 06:13 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themAbsolutely right. I'm going to tell myself I WILL - I am in control of my brain, not the other way around | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 06:09 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themGood idea - I need to figure out how to actively start a conversation and keep it going | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 06:08 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themI tell myself that, but when the situation comes everything just hits my like a brick wall | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 06:07 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themWell I've never been rejected since I never really asked a girl out, etc., and I always regret social interactions that I passed up. I'd rather be rejected and have some social situations then regret and be mad at myself. Going to re-frame my anxiety and start looking at it as excitement instead - I need to get out of my negative mindset | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 06:07 AM |
| 2 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themYou're right. Absolutely. I actually started the no-fap thing yesterday - going to keep it going and actively pursue girls and stop being a pussy. Man, I wish I had a wingman or someone to help me/encourage me in person | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 06:05 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themInteresting idea. I'll look into that. Like at a community college? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 06:03 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themYea, I used to be a server at a cafe and noticed I became more comfortable interacting with people - this was a few years ago tho and I feel like I regressed since then because I neglected a lot of social interaction for a few years (got heavily into drugs, which made me not care about anything except for that) - I feel like I am still pulling myself out of that hole, but I am constantly trying to improve. With me - the worst part of the anxiety or these social situations is that my face turns b… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 06:03 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themI tell myself that, but when I get in these situations it's like I hit a brick wall. I just have to go for it and not think about it, if I think "should I say something to her", is when I psych myself out and think about the anxiety | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 05:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I start interacting and talking to women? Right now I can only smile at themGot it. I shall start that doing that - conversating with everyone and anyone whom I am standing next to, interacting with, walking by, run into, etc. I know talking to guys is going to be easier off the bat, but I'm going to make an effort to talk to everyone regardless of gender. Like you said, opening is the absolute hardest part. I just blank out, start to not think straight and then have no clue what to say. Like you said, I am completely psyching myself out, my brain is my worst enemy. Wou… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/18 05:53 AM |
| 1 | The blushing is killing me - I can't talk to women for the life of meA journal is a good idea... will explore that option | /r/seduction | 15/01/18 06:54 AM |
| 1 | The blushing is killing me - I can't talk to women for the life of meYeah, I believe I can be honest and believe I am being honest with myself. It's always been hard for me to get close to people until I establish a strong connection with them, hence why I am still friends with all my friends but have trouble making new ones, and the problem carries itself over into meeting females. I've always been someone who doesn't really share his feelings much | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Is it bad if I'm 20 years old and I have decided to give up with going for girls?So how do you recommend one goes about to find chicks that are down to fuck, whom are relatively unattractive - I need to get my dick wet and have a confidence boost and I think this may be the only way | /r/seduction | 14/01/18 06:17 AM |
| 1 | Was I not getting enough protein in my diet? Less anxiety, stress, actually able to talk to chicksyeah for real I know what you mean. I love food but I never had a huge appetite. This past week, since I started all this, I've been forcing myself | /r/askTRP | 02/02/17 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Was I not getting enough protein in my diet? Less anxiety, stress, actually able to talk to chicksI've been making sure I drink at least 2 glasses of milk a day but I'm going to start drinking it with every meal, I just switched from 2% to whole as well. I am a small guy so eating 5 eggs in the morning seems like a lot but I just gotta force myself. Today (and the previous days) I've been forcing myself to eat more/finish my meals. Need to add the peanut butter to my diet as well. Starts tomorrow! Thanks for the suggestions dude | /r/askTRP | 01/02/17 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Was I not getting enough protein in my diet? Less anxiety, stress, actually able to talk to chicksWell what should i change them?! | /r/askTRP | 31/01/17 04:27 AM |
| 1 | Was I not getting enough protein in my diet? Less anxiety, stress, actually able to talk to chicksI see. well I am not only getting protein from protein powder, I use it to just reach the threshold I need - I only drink 2 protein shakes a day, before and after I work out, and the rest from other whole foods | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Was I not getting enough protein in my diet? Less anxiety, stress, actually able to talk to chickswait what do you mean I stopped eating junk? Yeah, I did for the most part, but the way you worded your question/sentances sounds like I should still be consuming all the junk lol. But yeah I stopped eating a lot of it, I will still eat it once in a while for a snack or whatever. and yeah, I realized after a few days that it is really easy to get all that protein, I was miscalculating my intake at first. now I am consuming roughly 135 - 165 grams of protein/day | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Was I not getting enough protein in my diet? Less anxiety, stress, actually able to talk to chickswake up (anywhere between 8 am and 11 am depending on the day)- usually bowl of granolla and yogurt with a piece of fruit lunch (anywhere between 12 - 2) - really really depends, sometimes i make myself a few eggs, sometimes a slice of pizza, sometimes chipotle, it really varies with my lunch snack, in between lunch/dinner (between 2-4) - 2 protein shakes and 2 glasses of milk (before and after work out) dinner (between 6-7:30)- again really depends, but I make sure to try and have a balanced me… | /r/askTRP | 30/01/17 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Was I not getting enough protein in my diet? Less anxiety, stress, actually able to talk to chicksYeah I have a really hard time gaining weight. I am trying to eat a lot now and put on | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 05:16 AM |
| 1 | Roosh's 'Bang' vs 'Day Bang' - Differences?ima slow reader, I really need to get through models though. I am going to read bang and models at the same time i think | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Roosh's 'Bang' vs 'Day Bang' - Differences?Book of pook is free so i might as well download that. Should I start with Bang since I don't even know the basics? | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 05:14 AM |
| 1 | Roosh's 'Bang' vs 'Day Bang' - Differences?yeah im gonna start with bang then | /r/askTRP | 27/01/17 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Was I not getting enough protein in my diet? Less anxiety, stress, actually able to talk to chicks5' 6" or so - Hence why I am trying to gain it. Probably like 130 now | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 09:21 AM |
| 1 | Was I not getting enough protein in my diet? Less anxiety, stress, actually able to talk to chicksGood idea, I actually made myself a really good omelette today. Yeah, I am more of a night person so it's hard to go to bed early but I am slowly working on that | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Was I not getting enough protein in my diet? Less anxiety, stress, actually able to talk to chicksI'm getting about 60 grams daily from the protein powder - and the rest from whole foods, probably another 30 - 40 g. Ideally, I want to (soon) be consuming a full 130 (I weight 130) but since I just started I am increasing it a little everyday. I'm using "Body Fortress" - just the regular whey protein one. I suspect it really isn't a good idea to just get all the protein from the powder, so I am making sure I do not only do that. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 08:46 AM |
| 1 | Was I not getting enough protein in my diet? Less anxiety, stress, actually able to talk to chicksWell I am making sure that I am not only getting my protein from the powder, I make sure to consume whole food with protein as well. Cutting the crap food is hard but I've done it. I am still having a hard time not eating at night, or at least not eating a lot at night, because that is when I get hungry most and I used to just eat as much junk as I could find in the kitchen. I still have to work on my sleep schedule, I tend to go to bed very late. For sure need to improve my sleep | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 07:55 AM |
| 1 | Roosh's 'Bang' vs 'Day Bang' - Differences?Looking into it now. Edit: 6 dollars on amazon, can't go wrong so going to purchase that as well | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 07:27 AM |
| -1 | Roosh's 'Bang' vs 'Day Bang' - Differences?Whiskey ? | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 07:18 AM |
| 2 | Roosh's 'Bang' vs 'Day Bang' - Differences?Hey man that's literally what I have been doing since the new year, and more. I completely changed my lifestyle. I have a routine, go to the gym 5 days a week, changed my diet, smoke WAY less weed (only at night to sleep now) as well as a few other things to improve my well-being, so I am really trying to change myself for the better and I am pretty proud of the improvements I made so far, even if this is all still new, I can already see slow changes coming. The main reason I want these books is… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Roosh's 'Bang' vs 'Day Bang' - Differences?I haven't, but the reason I am interested in getting either bang or day bang right now is because I just want something quick and too the point, while also reading something with more substances like models, to better myself as a person. But I am impatient which is why I want to try the techniques Roosh explains in the meantime | /r/askTRP | 26/01/17 06:56 AM |
| 1 | First day of class tomorrow, looking forward to it, but a few questionsAhh I didn't see your reply until tonight - but tomorrow I will go ahead and try that. I know that really shouldn't stress me out or give me anxiety, because sometimes I (unconsciously) do that - sometimes "How are you doing today?", or similar. But that is always just a generic question with a simple "good" answer, which most people seem to answer. I have never really asked a question like the one you mentioned, even though its more of a simple "Yes or "no" answer. Will let you know how it went… | /r/seduction | 19/01/17 05:14 AM |
| 1 | First day of class tomorrow, looking forward to it, but a few questionsAh man. Really thanks for the thoughtful response man. But shit, I am having a lot of trouble. I am going to start with the simple "hi" thing you mentioned. Would I literally just say "hi how are you doing" do almost every person that passes? What if they aren't looking at me, etc.? | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 07:17 AM |
| 1 | First day of class tomorrow, looking forward to it, but a few questionsI really have to work on my coach approach, I am horrible at talking to people on the spot with small talk, which is really what I need to work on. The simple "hi" in passing I havent done, but it would be good practice. occasionally I do do that, and when I do, I feel good about myself after | /r/seduction | 11/01/17 05:44 AM |
| 1 | First day of class tomorrow, looking forward to it, but a few questionsyeah, i feel like I can do that. but when the time comes, the adrenaline rushes over. today though, in class, I did talk to some people - and on thursday I plan to go in there, sit in a different seat and introduce myself like you said | /r/seduction | 11/01/17 05:41 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnerHell yeah man please send that list if you can find it! | /r/seduction | 26/12/16 05:18 PM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnergreat man thank you will look into those! I actually have the headspace app I been meaning to use it | /r/seduction | 25/12/16 06:15 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnerAhh I see. alright yeah maybe i will pick up a copy then, along with a one of the other books. I actually do not have ANY experience with cold appraoching women. I literally have no experience dating women or getting to know a female. I have never connected with one past the point of just hooking up with them one night in bed. And I haven't since I graduated college a few months back. Which is why I am stressing the fact I am a complete beginner haha. I'll for sure watch those videos you linked.… | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 09:37 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnerAwesome! Thanks for the recommendations. I didn't see your comment until now, was busy all day. But that is a great idea and I feel like that will for sure help me practice and just get use to talking to people in general. Will go ahead this week and then post results! | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 09:15 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnerYes that is exactly also what type of book I am looking for. Could you recommend a few others? | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 09:02 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnersee but I do even worse in groups. If its a group of men, I am fine. Group of women only or women and men, I freeze up completely. I am good on the online part and when I am talking I feel extremely social, but I have never actually gone through and met in person because I feel like it would be such a change from how I was online. In person I just can't communication when I get in these situations cuz I just get so some adrenaline/anxiety pumping through me. I'm starting to think I have some pro… | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 08:56 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnersee but I do even worse in groups. If its a group of men, I am fine. Group of women only or women and men, I freeze up completely. I am good on the online part and when I am talking I feel extremely social, but I have never actually gone through and met in person because I feel like it would be such a change from how I was online. In person I just can't communication when I get in these situations cuz I just get so some adrenaline/anxiety pumping through me. I'm starting to think I have some pro… | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 08:53 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnerThanks for the advice and uplifting words man. I really need to change as a person, everything from my daily schedule to what I do in my down time, what time I go to sleep, wake up, etc. and 2017 is that time. Going to start reading about successful people as well | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 08:24 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnerI think you are exactly right. Which is why I feel trapped. I will for sure check out that video along with the other ones you mentioned. I really need to get out of this mindset | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 08:19 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnerRSD as in real social dynamics? I just did a quick youtube/google search and what is what I am assuming - never heard or watched them though! I see what you are suggesting and I will for sure start watching these. I was assuming that these books would also be good for beginners and teach you how to get to the point of saying hello first followed by whatever else they teach What you mentioned seems like a really good tip actually - the thing is, like you do mention, is that i am extremely awkward… | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 08:16 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnerreally? I also heard that MM is kinda out dated... Which is why I was leaning towards the ones I mentioned | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 07:13 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnerIdk I already have the game and I can't get into it. It's more like a story I don't really like and I've heard that is really isn't that best for beginners | /r/seduction | 23/12/16 07:12 AM |
| 1 | I want to improve my game, looking to get a few books to get started - Complete beginnerwill look into those! | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 06:38 AM |
| 1 | I can't talk to girls for shit, let alone pick-upAh. Your right man. Although, to get this all started, I feel like I need some counseling to get the process going/train my brain to think like that | /r/seduction | 03/12/16 05:55 AM |
| 1 | I can't talk to girls for shit, let alone pick-upYeah I am hoping going abroad will break me out a lil more, I feel as if it is way easier for me to talk to girls out of the country as well. How did you get to that point of "not caring"? I always hear people recommending that, but it is much easier said then done. I also though I had the same mentality of not caring what others think, but then when I am in a certain situation no matter what that all goes out the window and I freak out. Much easier said then done and that is what is extremely h… | /r/seduction | 30/11/16 06:20 AM |
| 2 | What the fuck is wrong with me ...?ah, thanks for the thoughtful responses guys, will really take it all into consideration. i want to cut back on smoking, but at the same time i dont, ive smoked for so long that its just a daily/regular activity for me, but I will really try to cut down soon. My goal is start definitely cut back during the day and only smoke at night for right now and yeah, many of the girls arent my type, but then again, im not that picky, I just don't click with many of the girls here, and even if i do, it goe… | /r/seduction | 09/05/16 06:05 AM |
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