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MOOD FOR LIFEjmaydizzle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 12:40 AM
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MALE DEPRAVITYjmaydizzle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:06 PM
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SCROTES MADjmaydizzle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:09 AM
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LEVEL UPjmaydizzle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 05:36 PM
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MOOD FOR LIFEjmaydizzle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:00 AM
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LEVEL UPjmaydizzle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 10:27 PM
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MALE DEPRAVITYjmaydizzle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 07:05 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEjmaydizzle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:20 PM
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DISCUSSIONjmaydizzle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 10:37 PM
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THINGS SCROTES SAYjmaydizzle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 01:40 PM
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DISCUSSIONjmaydizzle/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:24 AM
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*throw it away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 08:22 PM
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Ewwwwww get your smelly armpit away from me and go choke yourself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:36 AM
6

Welcome sis. You are definitely not alone!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:34 AM
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Lolz. This guy needs to get a job or a hobby that isn’t bashing women real fast
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:29 AM
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Thank you for this! So informative and I had no idea
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:26 AM
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She sounds amazing 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 09:48 AM
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Ewwwwwww to all of this. But particularly his face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/20 12:31 AM
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Legit thought I knew the guy as my friend from Leeds was the white forever girlfriend of a Muslim guy there for AGES He was a gross dirty cheater too, but diff name
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 04:03 PM
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Happy birthday sis! Interesting view and it echoes with my own experiences with previous partners who prefer hair because ‘they don’t want it to look like a 12 year old girls’ SO TRUE. However I have some deep unlearning to do as I still get full Hollywood’s 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 11:37 AM
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Saved to the notes on my phone 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:46 AM
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This was my favourite line 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:31 AM
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Sick of the fucking censorship in 2020. The woman hate is alive and kicking
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 10:29 AM
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Thanks for that sis, lots to think about! I definitely want to date multiple men once the pandemic has blown over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 07:56 AM
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WHERES THE EYE BLEACH QUICK
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:12 PM
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😂😂😂😂 too true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 05:11 PM
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I’ve been mad for hours since I found out. Feel free to DM me to rant because WTF IS THIS ?!?!!?!!?!?!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:19 PM
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Try twitter for now. DM me if you need support. Here for all my sisters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:41 PM
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Made Twitter account just for this. Smash the patriarchy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:08 AM
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Check the new pinned post! We do!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:06 AM
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PM’d OP though not sure if I’ve done it right... I also, in my haste, signed up for the website before I saw this thread and thought the 8 digit code was one I had to make up 😂 so there’s that. Thank fuck for this community. You all keep me sane. Thanks to the mods and everyone involved in making this website happen. You’re the real ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 09:04 AM
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Agreed. Shaking my head so much this morning. I’ve even created twitter in actual anger in hopes that #reddithateswomen gains traction. Due to my job I cant be public with any of my views (who knew wanting respect from men could be a literal death sentence) however this has enraged me and I can’t stay silent. I’ll be heading to the new website for sure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:35 AM
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Ahhh I woke up this morning still so sad about the bans and this has cheered me up. Thanks sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:59 AM
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Is Twitter the best for this? I don’t have an account but willing to make one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:57 AM
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Preach. TELL ALL YOUR FRIENDS Honestly my main concern is for all the women we haven’t reached yet. I’ve learnt tons from this sub and know I’ll be ok. What about those women who haven’t yet realised? What the fuck are they gonna do. Honestly I’m devastated
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:55 AM
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You should see the vitriol against FDS in some of the big threads about the bans. Misogyny is alive and well on Reddit. I saw someone accusing FDS of promoting women falsely accusing men of rape? Like wtf? I’ve been here for months and see no such thing. WE LITERALLY ASK THEM TO PAY AND THEY WANT US SILENCED. This is a mad fucking world right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:54 AM
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I’m a total noob on this - how/where do I find FDS discord?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 07:52 AM
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I’ll be on saidit - hopefully FDS sets up there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:06 AM
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Preach, sis. Thanks to the mods - you’ve been amazing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:04 AM
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I would 100% I am scared and upset at what’s happened. Please let there be a safe space for women!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 01:00 AM
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Ugh I want to cry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:05 AM
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I’ve just been devastated for the last hour over r/gendercritical being banned. Actual tears. I feel lost, hopeless and angry. I came here for some solace and immediately saw this post. I really don’t want to lose you ladies, you’ve changed my life. How is this happening? This is not hate speech. FUCK REDDIT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 12:04 AM
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You’ve levelled up sis, congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 05:40 PM
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Does anyone have any good ways of bringing this up with a man around the 3 months mark? Or signs to look out for that are positive?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 03:56 PM
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I’m a radical feminist AND I love this sub. FDS keeps me realistic and encourages me to the best person I can possibly be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 02:56 PM
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Agree with the above completely. OP - you must do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 08:51 PM
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Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 11:11 AM
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Are you me? Totally relate to the first part of your story! Now I’m single I’m finally back to my confident self and I KNOW I’m intelligent and resilient. Men have such a knack of convincing you otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/06/20 11:08 AM
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What the fuck did I just see
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 10:30 PM
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This woman gets it 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 01:07 PM
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Proud of you OP! You deserve everything and more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 11:17 AM
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Of course! I think I’m going to be deleting my account soon and rejoining every 6 months to avoid the issue
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:26 PM
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Ugh this cancel culture is ridiculous! Thanks for the heads up, although I’m still going to participate in GC.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:29 PM
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Girl leave him! And don’t panic, we have pretty much ALL been there and done that. The time to learn and grow is now, and you deserve so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:07 AM
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Excellent idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 08:48 AM
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This is great! Definitely something I will insist on if I ever get married
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 02:59 PM
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How bizarre! I was in the shower this morning having EXACTLY the same thought, and wondering if any man would agree to that. I thought it would be highly unlikely and reaffirmed my belief that all men suck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 12:50 PM
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‘The man behind her success’ 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 03:02 PM
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Trash takes itself out once again. 👍🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 11:52 AM
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Is the credit in both their names? Fuck if so. Praying the credit card is in his name alone and she can leave this POS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 12:05 PM
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Wow, this was so relatable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:56 AM
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That’s actually disgusting. What a waste of space
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 11:33 AM
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Pfft, don’t listen to the haters! How does using a vibrator take away the ability to orgasm when it GIVES you one 😂 Admittedly, using mine has made it take longer to cum without one, but I always make sure mines fully charged so... no problems!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 07:31 PM
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This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 04:12 PM
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Abusive piece of shit. Block and delete, give yourself a hug, and congrats on being on your way to clearing you debts sis xxx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:42 PM
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The fuck?? Saoirse Roman is BEAUTIFUL and incredibly talented to top it off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:27 PM
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Disgusting.... this bit made me reel: ‘Part of the problem was that he was thrusting his fingers in and out of me internally, which was nice..’ Was it? Was it nice? I have never found that nice, feels like I’ve gone for a cervical screening test
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:24 PM
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Oh fuck. I will HAPPILY teach women for free!! Girls, hit me up if you need some pointers, this stuff should be given out readily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:23 PM
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Keep it on the DL if you are dating multiple men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 03:01 PM
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Yup yup. Sadly I was building men from an early age, one of my high school boyfriends was a waste of space and lazy af and I wrote his application form to study at a sixth form college 🙄🙄🙄🙄 He got in, obvs. We dated for a further year until HE CHEATED then I binned him off. He dropped out of college the next month. Jesus fuckin Christ can they not do anything by themselves??? It’s taken awhile for me to get out of this habit. I’m literally talking I stopped this year... over 10 years on from tha…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 01:04 PM
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Hahahahaha amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 12:58 PM
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Fuck this narrative.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/20 11:42 AM
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Once I was walking out of a bar and my arse got slapped NO LESS THAN THREE TIMES. it was like a distance of 10 metres. Three separate men in three separate groups of scrotes. I was only 18 and I looked a lot younger.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 05:30 PM
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This is great advice
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:38 PM
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This is exactly how i feel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:32 PM
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Good for you sis 💕 you ARE a catch, don’t forget it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:16 PM
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Omg, have we really got to the point where women won’t walk out of this situation immediately? How did we become so far gone? It’s depressing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:15 PM
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The key is definitely dating multiple men
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:07 PM
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CRIED😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:44 PM
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What a wonderful post, thank you. I’m so glad you love your life. It was refreshing to read!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 11:31 PM
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Woooow what the fuck. So glad she woke up, poor woman
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:15 AM
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PUT HIM IN THE BIN ALREADY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:12 AM
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I am so sorry this happened to you. My first ever boyfriend (I was 14) was a closeted cross dresser. Really fucked me up for a while.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 07:50 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ what is this world
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 06:35 PM
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Everyday I wish it was
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 06:30 PM
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Ugh beautiful, I actually cried 💕 Why is this shit so rare to find???
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 06:27 PM
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Thank you for this - a lot of good, very valid things for me to think about. Will keep you updated, although we’re not meeting up until mid July so a good few weeks yet!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 05:49 PM
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QUEEN MOVES.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 09:12 AM
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Good luck sis 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 07:48 PM
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Genius. Employing this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:02 PM
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Is it too late to abort this man??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 12:00 PM
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Came here to say this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:53 AM
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Don’t use bumble anymore as I never initiate. I never swipe, only wait for likes to come (hinge) and match if they look decent. Then I give them 24 hours to initiate or I unmatch. I won’t let them go more than 48 hours with no response otherwise I unmatch. However I regularly take days to respond to see how they deal with it/sometimes I actually forget to respond. Has been EXCELLENT method of weeding out LVM so far and also not nearly as draining or time consuming as I previously found OLD.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 11:52 AM
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Fight the battles sis ✊🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 09:53 AM
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Thanks sis, I appreciate this reminder!! It’s what I needed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 07:37 PM
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Hey ladies... so an old university friend got in touch about a month ago to ask for some photos I took years ago (I was a sports photographer for the teams at the time - he was in quite a few!) but I’d deactivated Facebook so he couldn’t obtain them. Since then we’ve spoken pretty much everyday, first catching up as we haven’t seen each other in person for just over a year (live in different cities and both have busy careers in law and finance) then normally chatting everyday. History-wise - we’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 03:46 PM
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I was going to post this too!! Made my choke on my tea with laughter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:53 AM
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You go sis 💕 You CAN get that degree. I was the first in my (v v large) family to go to university too and it was equal parts terrifying and liberating and has put me in a fantastic position in my life. You can do it x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:51 AM
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This is the situation with my mum and step dad and it’s just awful. When I lived there, I would do a thorough clean every couple of weeks (clean freak) as I just couldn’t put up with it... now it’s just gross, frankly. I don’t think it’s had the same thorough clean since I moved out years ago....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:37 AM
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I’m so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of hugs 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:35 AM
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Thanks sis. Honestly reading yours and other older ladies of the group’s posts are TRULY inspirational and I’m so glad that I’ve found this source of wealth and knowledge!! Love to you all x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 09:18 AM
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Same! Thanks for this, really enlightening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/20 02:52 PM
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THIS IS MY NEW MOTTO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:20 PM
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That’s a lot of words for ‘I have a micro penis’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 06:17 PM
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Here for this everyday 💕💕💕💕 I used to feel so much guilt for ghosting, but reading this sub everyday (genuinely the first thing I do when I’m waking up) has completely changed my perspective and my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 10:55 AM
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Hahahha absolutely spot on
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 10:33 AM
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😂😂😂😂 so true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 10:23 AM
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I love this woman. So strong. I’m so proud! Hope she’s doing well
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 10:29 AM
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Jesus she should’ve ran out of there as soon as he’d hit her (if not sooner by the sounds of it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 12:16 AM
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That’s so true... it’s more like ‘idiot with no benefits’, because let’s face it, I can give myself better orgasms than any dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 12:11 AM
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I am in this post. But living with the healthy guilt as best I can - gets easier everyday
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 12:07 AM
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I already hate this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 11:54 PM
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Amazing post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 10:23 PM
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Hey! I replied and kept it short and sweet - said I was busy, and we should call it a day. He replied and said it was a shame cus i seemed like a nice girl and I didn’t respond to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 05:04 PM
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Thank you sis 🥰 Lol @ the scrotes in my inbox crying about it and telling me REPLY OMGZ OR HE WILL DIE. it’s not all about you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 08:38 PM
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I went with this approach (just now) and said I’ve been genuinely busy but he’s right let’s call it a day. I didn’t go into massive explanations as to why OR try to caveat it to protect his feelings which are my normal go-tos and it still terrified me to press send on what feels like, but totally isn’t really, a blunt / rude message. Thanks all for your help and advice, I love this community xx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 06:02 PM
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Thank you 💕💕 Yes it’s been a real eye-opener for me, I can’t wait to finish it and practice it in reality!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:50 PM
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I think that’s where it’s going ya
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:49 PM
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Yeah I think that is it... I am trying to iron the people pleaser out of me but it is hard after nearly 30 years of social conditioning! Thank you for your reply (and everyone else’s!) I really do appreciate it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:49 PM
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GIRL LEAVE That shit is disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:10 PM
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This everyday!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:09 PM
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Spread the word sisters!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 04:08 PM
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Very tempted to get this worked into a print and framed on my wall
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 11:07 AM
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Amazing thank you. I’ve sent to my mum to read also (my grandma is a classic narc and is ruining relationships left right and centre, and presently trying to sabotage me and my relationships with the rest of my family, because I won’t give into her demands)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 11:00 AM
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Love yourself girl, it’s the best love you will ever receive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 12:42 PM
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Damn I would’ve loved to have seen this dressing down in person. What a child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 10:56 AM
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LOL oh dear OP true bullet dodged there. Great idea though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/20 09:13 AM
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🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮 dump and block, dump and block!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:23 PM
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That reply KILLED me. Absolutely hilarious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 07:21 PM
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To be honest, I’m not looking to date, this is purely a pastime for me and a friend who laugh at men’s terrible profiles. I’m pretty much against OLD and am content being on my own - if I happen to meet someone in person that fits the bill, then great, if not, never mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 04:03 PM
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I have more standards in addition to these don’t worry, was just trying to weed out any losers that don’t understand what repressing your emotions means.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 03:30 PM
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ALSO POOR GRAMMAR CAN YOU EVEN WRITE OR WHAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/20 01:41 PM
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You are both awesome 💕 That viral post brought me here and it’s changed my life, genuinely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:44 PM
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Oooooof. That’s it. I’m dead - ‘the thought won’t be so emasculating’
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:31 PM
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Guarantee that the only thing he’s taught her is what terrible sex is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:29 PM
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Ugh this really hit me! I had an ex like this and he was a nice person and all... but my god did he show no emotion. I always just thought I wasn’t good enough for it, turns out he’s the one that’s broken Fuck em all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:27 PM
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I find it really lonely to be honest. I have a couple of friends who think in the FDS- way but most are pick-mes and the worst is my family, who told me just last night that it would AWFUL to be single forever (after I suggested thats pretty much my plan...). I normally scroll through this sub for support to be honest, and make sure I exercise to keep the positivity flowing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:38 PM
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Jesus fucking Christ Trash took itself out again. Sending love to you and I hope a wave hits him real hard and he falls over in front of lots of people on the beach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:30 PM
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Uhh fuck this douche. Block contact immediately and go and buy yourself the BIGGEST BUNCH you can afford girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:26 PM
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Just gonna put one of my exes here too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:12 PM
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Yup yup. I’m considering going celibate for a year to grow and learn, I was gonna document the process too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:55 AM
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Same here!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:54 AM
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Truth truth truth. I was financially tied to my ex and when we broke up it completely screwed me (and still is, slightly). Restarting life meant sorting out a new flat, all new furniture etc, new car because I left the rest behind (no choice) and it put me in significant debt. After a few months of denial, I got my shit sorted and a financial plan put together. I’ll be debt free by the end of the year (potentially before if the lockdown continues - currently saving a ton on petrol etc). There we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 11:48 AM
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Honestly until this sub I was so confused when previous ex’s would lose erections or struggle to finish... I used to blame myself 🤦🏼‍♀️ NOW I get it. They were and are porn addicted losers. It’s so true as well.. the guys who were particularly difficult or could only cum in a certain position were the ones who watched the most porn (by their own admission/that I was aware of).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 07:30 PM
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Amen ☝🏼 I’ve had too many men slither back because ‘I’m such a good person omg what were they thinking letting it end’ and it is repulsive, quite frankly. Letting it go is the best thing ever. I am so GRATEFUL I found this sub every damn day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/20 02:45 PM
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I pick me, therefore I am
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/20 09:35 PM
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I came off the pill for this too, and stupidly got the Mirena... one of the worst decisions I’ve made. My skin has been AWFUL for a solid two years now, I get the worst cramps and have had 2 visits to the hospital to check out said cramps etcetc. All cus I knew guys would refuse to use condoms.... just why!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:36 PM
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Congrats hunnyyyyyyy you levelled up and it feels great dont it?!? 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 10:33 PM
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You do you sis 💕💕💕💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 01:38 PM
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Jesus just use your fucking imagination to masturbate. It’s not that hard.
/r/askFDS10/05/20 01:26 PM
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I admit I am doing this currently out of lockdown boredom. it’s just SO EASY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 12:13 PM
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This was a game changer for me!! This is my worst trait. I always go for potential and now it’s good to finally hear the different types of potential and which are and are not okay...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 11:01 AM
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Really wonderfully put, thank you. OP I echo the above - you have not wasted your twenties, you have learnt from your (early) twenties. You still have a lot of life, time and value to give and it should NOT be on this loser. Focus on yourself, make a plan to get away (ASAP) and stay somewhere you will be safe. Ask any friends/family that could possibly help. This is tough and you will have shitty days but you are on the road to much happier times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 01:23 PM
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Yep I’ve done this 3 times... One time the girl listened and dumped the loser (who was seeing my friend). The two other times MUCH less successful and the girls are still with those gross cheating NVM. I got a lot of abuse but I stand by the fact I would always want to know. Yeah it fucking hurts but better to know than be strung along. At least telling the girls gives them the choice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/05/20 03:30 PM
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As beautifully commented above. The 👏🏻 trash 👏🏻 takes 👏🏻 itself 👏🏻 out. Maintain high standards ladies, quality over quantity everyday!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 07:46 PM
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Yep! Dittoing all the above. Massive thanks to FDS absolute LIFE CHANGER
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 05:41 PM
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I love this sub, it makes me laugh everyday. What a clooowwnnnnn 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 12:54 PM
29

You’re only 17 kid, I imagine what you can do on dates is limited given this so absorb the info for later when you’re older and can take women on proper dates.
/r/askFDS28/04/20 09:37 AM
5

I’m just so happy to read you already cut it off. Good for you. It’s a hard step to take but you did it pretty much immediately and you did it for the right reasons. Having been in your situation before, it’s so easy to doubt yourself because you might feel like they’re being ‘honest’ and ‘open’ and cOmMuNiCaTiNg so you wanna give them that chance, maybe you can be THAT woman that fixes him. You know it, I know it, we all know it - that is not gonna happen. This idiot is broken and should remain…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:27 PM
10

Couldn’t have said it any better. You know the answer deep down, you pretty much said it yourself. Get some good books on the go and block this idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 11:20 PM
2

Terrible company at that. Better kick that trash out the door ASAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 11:38 PM
5

What a fucking weirdo. And he had the audacity to think he was being SMART and post about this publicly???? Vomit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 11:38 PM
41

Same here. So wholesome and a good distraction from the apocalypse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 01:30 PM
19

This broke me. Like wtf kind of social conditioning has she been through to think this psychotic behaviour is flattering?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 10:12 AM
4

This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:06 PM
56

Exactly. He’s got her trapped truly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:30 PM
126

CONTINUED... But wait, it gets worse. Something I had never told Dave about was that when we first started dating, I actually was talking with someone else. I was not completely into Dave like he was into me at the beginning, so when this gorgeous guy began messaging me on the dating site I was using, I started chatting with him. After constantly being blown off on dates, I was very cautious when I was talking to "Alex". So even though things seemed to be going well, I still kept talking to Dave…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:13 PM
168

From the post in case it’s deleted I (32F) found out last night that my husband (37M) stalked and manipulated me into a relationship. ‘Hi All. I am not sure to even start. I'm not a regular Redditor, but I do sometimes browse the site when bored. I looked online to see if I could find any information regarding my issue, well, at least not anything anything helpful. Never though I'd be making this kind of post, but here I am.... apologies if this gets long, I haven't really been able to gather my…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:11 PM
26

I’m not sure how to link full story but will do shortly when I’ve figured it out!! Hope the below works! Will copy and paste text soon https://np.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/g48qpi/i_32f_found_out_last_night_that_my_husband_37m/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 04:07 PM
4

Dead. I needed this today hahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:35 PM
4

Preach sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:01 PM
21

I turned 28 on the weekend and my mum said ‘happy birthday... 28 and still on the shelf’ And I said ‘Yeah and what? I LIKE it up here’ Fuck the haters, don’t compromise
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 01:22 PM
25

The audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 01:05 PM
1

🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 09:14 AM
6

Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:36 AM
8

Wow. Queen. This was good to read thank you. I feel like I’m always justifying men’s behaviour based of where they’ve come from and letting shit slide if it’s got a sad reason. And I shouldn’t.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:34 AM
14

Yeah that’s very true. God makes you depressed and makes me wonder will I ever meet someone who is decent enough? Probably not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:13 AM
17

True. Just feels like that the norm for men these days tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 11:52 PM
14

I gotta put my hand up here and say THIS 👆 I was the ‘girl’ in your story a few years ago with my ex, and whilst it SEEMS like the guy is being super generous and thoughtful and caring and omg sharing his income, it’s financially detrimental to the woman in the end. When we broke up, I had to leave the house we’d bought together as he’d mainly bought it (I’d bought all soft furnishings with my limited savings, which of course I had to leave) and it financially SCREWED me. I felt like the house w…
/r/askFDS09/04/20 01:10 PM
2

This too!! Hahah
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 04:37 PM
21

TIL about sugaring. But yeah that is nasty wtf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/20 10:18 PM
26

Your mom sounds amazing!! Props to her
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/03/20 03:38 PM
11

Please please do this
/r/askFDS20/03/20 10:48 AM
27

It was her ‘boyfriend’ voting no I bet
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/03/20 06:42 PM
7

There’s a reason he’s alone in the first place. Do not give in. He’s not a child he should be able to entertain himself! And if he can’t, he’s low value and shit and you should not be his saviour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:35 PM
12

Hope you get better soon sis 💕 I have asthma too and my chest has been really tight the past couple of days... stay safe and keep inhalers nearby x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 05:21 PM
3

Sending love sis 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 10:23 PM
15

A good vibrator
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:27 PM
29

And also provide something of value to humanity. Unlike this dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:24 PM
79

😂😂😂 this whole chain had me dead. 27 and I almost choked on the banana bread I was just eating... and have now gone off. This man is DELUSIONAL. He reminds me of uncle fester from the Addams family. And even that feels too generous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 09:21 PM
1

This is genius. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 02:01 PM
3

Damn I’m jealous All I have is my keys and rape alarm at hand 😔 (UK based)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/03/20 01:59 PM
15

WELL DONE SIS. remember tho he is LVM and you are well rid. Next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:14 PM
14

Gals, invest in a GOOD vibrator. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again MASTURBATE. get rid of the need for a man. Trust me a good vibrator that rotates and has a clit stimulator is 100%%%%% better than any dick. I know you miss out on some parts of sex but trust me it’s so much better than a FWB because it doesn’t come with all the baggage of a smelly man. And you can recharge the batteries these days 🥳 I’ve only had one FWB and I too thought that was the best thing for my situation at the t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:56 PM
3

I’m really enjoying it so far. Massive kudos to the women who are spending their precious time answering the questions, you’re the real MVPs!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:47 PM
7

Hahahahaha Can’t stop reading this and cracking up
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:30 PM
22

Plus these guys are weak as fuck on the inside. I find it mildly interesting that these guys take the time to insult us as if they really gain something from it. It’s baffling really as all they are doing is promulgating how low value they actually are
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 04:55 PM
45

Jesus h Christ I’m sickened by how unsurprised I am...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 02:15 PM
101

Fuck you Miguel you fat slob.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 10:58 AM
1

Saved
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:36 PM
1

😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:22 PM
3

I feel you - on every level can completely relate. Sending love and hugs. This was also beautiful to read, so thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:21 PM
16

They haven’t evolved to experience embarrassment yet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:57 PM
16

This ^ Also what a great analogy, gotta tell all my girlfriends this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:04 PM
103

😂😂😂 except the dog will come and cuddle you after and make you feel loved right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 04:02 PM
18

I hope she goes and meets another man out there that will actually treat her like a human being.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 08:03 AM
5

Have a LONG HOT SHOWER (or bath) when you want some immediate relief. Then exercise daily. Focus on yourself and what you want to achieve - whether that’s finishing a book or running a 5k. You can always find room to self improve and I tend to find when I’m in the flow of exercising or reading for myself I care less and less about the LVMs taking up valuable breathing space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 05:45 PM
5

“I just don’t think [he] was the right person and I feel like I’m an incredible woman and I deserve someone so amazing.” PREACH SIS every woman should believe and know that they are incredible and we all deserve someone amazing. Not some POS that occasionally bathes for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 10:47 AM
6

Ugh. That’s really disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 09:22 AM
21

Yep. Cabin porn really got me there... never thought I’d see that one!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 11:16 PM
3

Congrats sis, sound amazing and you should be so proud of yourself!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:25 PM
48

Just get a vibrator. It’s way better and doesn’t stink up your bed. Fresh sheets and an orgasm.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 07:18 PM
4

Waah this really hit home, thanks sis. Sharing with all my girlfriends
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 04:24 PM
7

Don’t forget this one - 🖕🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/20 03:37 PM
3

Preach. This is the attitude we should all have! WOMEN take life for yourself, don’t expect it from a man because in all likelihood he will fuck you over
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:21 PM
10

Fuck this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 10:18 PM
10

Well it’s MUCH appreciated. I use this sub primarily for the very wise advice doled out as I don’t want to make any more mistakes - life’s too short and men are thoroughly depressing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:55 PM
17

Jesus fucking Christ is it too late to abort him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 08:51 PM
13

This was really inspiring to read - you’re an inspiration truly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 08:36 PM
3

Can we be friends IRL? This is genius
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/20 10:54 AM
25

Hahahaha yes I instantly think they’re a total douche for this one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 05:13 PM
4

Thank you for this, it’s such an important message and one I really needed to hear! I’m only 27 but regularly worry about being ‘too old’ to find the right man now I’m about to pass the so-called ‘peak’. This was super sad to read and I’m so sorry for your situation, and those in the comments, but it was also very illuminating and I’m massively thankful for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 04:38 PM
143

I think we should concoct a plan to get this cat back...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/20 02:51 PM
94

YES THIS. this is absolutely VITAL and I’m constantly tweaking emails to get rid of all this guff before pressing send. I’m a junior lawyer with a massive imposter syndrome, and that combined with being a woman has meant I often don’t feel like I am entitled to be straight with people (a LARGE part of my job) but I realised that if I wanted anyone to take me seriously and trust my advice, I needed to start trusting myself and taking the shitty qualifiers out of my emails, meeting etc etc I now d…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:05 PM
12

Wow. This should really be put on a billboards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 06:00 PM
21

Yup. Sigh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 05:39 PM
7

Here here. I was seeing a guy for a few months last year and it ended cus hE wAsNt OvEr HiS eX (who moved on and swiftly had a baby and is now married to a new guy). So I said BYE, unfollowed, blocked. Guess who STILL tries to get in touch to this very day. It’s been almost a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:15 PM
13

Ugh I have these frustrations currently. I’ve now started saying to my friends that if they refuse to listen to what I’m saying, then they should stop fucking talking to me about these dickhead pathetic excuses for men. I don’t wanna hear it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:11 PM
25

Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 04:04 PM
13

Yes same! I wanna give a massive thank you to the mods for this. I quite often have notifications and then they’re gone pretty instantly so I’ve never had my bleach my eyes. Big love to the mods 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:47 AM
10

I loved this post and found it so informative - thank you for posting it and fuck those wankers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:41 AM
3

I’m know I’m repeating what’s already been said, but I also wanted to let you know that you did not overreact. You did the right thing so don’t criticise yourself for being a strong woman. I’m so sorry for the things that have happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:37 AM
11

Cracked up at these. Also my eyes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/20 11:33 AM
37

Ahhhh this resonates so much. This has been me this year. I’d actually be pretty stoked to end up single for life cus I always get to do what I wanna do 🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:18 PM
27

Ugh this is me down to a tee.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:39 PM
6

Omg what have I stumbled upon
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 08:08 AM
40

Gross. I literally cannot fathom why they think this is appropriate to discuss before a first date ??? Their stupidity astounds me. At least he weeded himself out so you didn’t have to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:17 AM
13

This. I might start calling men high maintenance and see how it goes down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:15 AM
102

WHERE DO I SIGN UP? NEXT TO THIS NOOSE RIGHT?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:06 AM
10

I was trying to find out more about this dude today but BBC news was classic vanilla on the detail so thanks for this. Glad he resigned but also slightly gutted his ego didn’t get a big fat sacking first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:05 AM
14

My vulva just shrivelled up and died looking at this. NEXT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 12:02 AM
6

Single is better than this REPEAT
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:21 PM
23

This was lovely to read! Congrats sis I’m happy for you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:47 PM
29

This cracked me up So true. GOD the look of pain and hate on their face when you deny them. It’s unbelievable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:19 PM
8

Good luck, you will do amazing! Self awareness is probably the biggest and hardest step but you’ve already achieved that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:18 PM
3

Ha... reminds me when I told a guy he needed to start wearing deodorant, like it wasn’t completely obvious
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:16 PM
7

Congrats sis, you’ve done AMAZING and sound like you’re super happy. Kick that trash to the kerb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 12:15 PM
3

Great advice. I love this community
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 11:09 AM
15

Some gross neck beard itchiness to pass onto you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:57 AM
11

Can’t see good men for the trash and abundant low value dick
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 10:55 AM
13

The exact same happened to me last year - the dishonesty REALLY put me off too and I didn’t pursue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:06 PM
6

Dear Adam If you haven’t done so already, and I imagine you haven’t because your ego seems rather large to compensate for that tiny dick, please do fuck off. ~ The Militia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 11:03 PM
20

I wax pubic hair every few months because I like it looking trim for myself. However I NEVER shave my legs because fuck being in the shower for that long, and I ain’t spending money on that shit. Also I don’t care if my legs have hair on them. Boyfriend doesn’t give two shits either way... however the girl I sit with at work (total pick me) is mortified I don’t shave. When I first mentioned that I haven’t shaved my legs in 2 years she outright GASPED and exclaimed ‘oh my gosh you can’t have had …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 10:53 PM
14

I’d happily bathe in his tears. Cry on ain’t nobody listening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 10:43 PM
9

I got a new number this month and the timing was too perfect. Hello peace
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 10:37 PM
103

I used to work with a POS who was getting married and was SO PROUD of the fact he would not be buying or wearing a wedding ring. He justified it by saying he doesn’t like jewellery so doesn’t want something on his hand. His wife to be accepted it because her dad similarly did not wear one... but then her dad literally built houses for a living so that was why he didn’t wear his. This couch creature worked in an office all day long. What won’t surprise you all is that this same POS hit on me the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 04:56 PM
7

Beautiful and so true. Thank you for writing this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:31 AM
3

Firstly you have to just think about yourself. Fuck their feelings, take care of your own. There’s no easy way to first do it, my friend told me to do it and was like NOW. so I thought well yeah I literally just need to click him name... scroll down... block. Then delete. Just let yourself do it and see how it feels. Honestly you’ll be surprised at how easy and satisfying it is, and you’ll wish you’d done it sooner!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 12:11 AM
2

Ditto this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 11:12 PM
16

Block and delete, babe. I know it’s hard initially and I struggled to do it myself BUT MY GOD when you do it’s so liberating, and you’re not waiting for another text from them. regardless of the fact you’re not replying to him, you’re still giving him the headspace by THINKING that he might text, and waiting for it to happen. Block and delete now, you’ve nothing to gain by waiting and everything to win by doing it now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:57 PM
17

Always this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:51 PM
7

He’s just straight up rude and thoughtless. How anyone can defend that is bonkers to me. You would never even do that to a friend...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:39 PM
9

Wow. This poor woman. I hope she gets out ASAP
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:33 PM
3

Wow. Props to your friend, hope she’s doing alright - she should be proud of herself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 10:03 PM
42

Such honest and uplifting women
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/20 11:01 AM
19

Luckily he showed up with flowers and dinner, without me asking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 10:08 PM
6

You dodged a bullet there sis. Enjoy your evening it sounds lovely x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:49 PM
4

LOL what. Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:48 PM
8

“Omg I know right girls are toooottttally demanding these days and not even that attractive LOL but not me I’m so not demanding at all and I don’t even rate myself that highly!! Please treat me like trash so I can cry myself to sleep at night, pretty please!!!!!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:42 PM
41

Haha loved this. Thank you. Much needed. Just sat at my flat waiting to see if my bf manages to do anything for our first vday and I am not hopeful... if he doesn’t come through, I’m reading this post to him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:32 PM
2

God I wish this was my evening
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 07:17 PM
76

Amazing. Happy v day you awful incels, enjoy being the scrotes of the earth and getting mad at some cartoon that accurately depicts your low value ways.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 06:34 PM
12

Proud of you, well done sis 💓 I’ve done similar recently and have been selling loads of old clothes, shoes and shit I rarely wear cus it’s uncomfortable and for the male gaze only (and shit I RARELY wore anyway). It’s felt v v liberating and now I’m like WHAT ELSE CAN I GET RID OF?!? (Men amirite???)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 04:46 PM
7

Damn better get updating my cv to thorn back!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:02 PM
19

So so sorry for you sis that’s awful. You did completely the right thing however and you should be super proud of yourself. Walking out immediately? Some queen shit right there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 12:43 PM
28

Preach preach preach This is incredible news!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 12:05 PM
16

FDS gets a mention in the comments too...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/20 09:03 AM
7

Good on ya gal, I’ve had similar ‘well now I know for sure’ experiences and they can be v helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/20 08:18 PM
5

Couldn’t think of anything worse than wearing nice underwear to bed... fuck that shit and fuck this guy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 11:03 PM
8

Well done, stay strong xxx
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 04:00 PM
12

Yes! Then a roundhouse kick to their face afterwards
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 03:23 PM
14

Always choose you and you will never be let down
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/20 03:34 PM
5

Amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/20 10:46 AM
40

Wish I’d heard of the three outfits sooner in my life. So applicable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/01/20 10:25 PM
3

Well done, sis, it’s the best thing!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 11:38 PM
7

Have to remind my friends of this more often
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 09:07 PM
9

Congrats sis, feels great right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 09:07 PM
11

Exactly this. Don’t let them have the choice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 06:05 PM
11

Hahaha perfect. Tempting to get posters printed up around town to be honest... more women need to know
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 05:56 PM
3

Same!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 05:47 PM
7

LOLOLOL no thanks
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 05:46 PM
11

So sad I used to do this thinking it was MY idea. Ugh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 05:41 PM
8

Even worse when the noise they make is pure mansplaining
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:21 PM
16

I’ve really learnt over the past 12 months (of being single for the first time in pretty much my whole adult life) that being single is a GOOD thing and I much prefer my life this way. Took me a while to get my head around the fact that marriage and babies may not be my future but I’m happy about the fact that I only need to rely on ME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 04:19 PM
2

Wow this really hit... I’m so bad at ‘keeping the peace’ between family, friends and in relationships but no more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 10:27 AM
1

Thank you for this, very considered and I appreciate it x
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:11 PM
3

Gross. Perv
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:56 PM
2

I have faith in this but I have little patience and I wanna get on with my life. I have a great career, good friends, hobbies etc I just want my equal that takes me out for a damn dinner (and isn’t told that’s what he has to do)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:55 PM
6

Ha definitely using ‘what do you bring to the table then - well I bring another man that can take care of his business’. Preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:53 PM
6

This all rang true. Gotta stop making excuses for the shit just because it’s slightly less shitty than the usual shit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:46 PM
10

This makes me consider being single forever
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:41 PM
3

Just got back from the gym ✌🏼 Go for it queens
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 07:40 PM
2

Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 05:41 PM
2

Hahaha love this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 05:34 PM
1

This is amazing. Thank you. I’ve also started on non-relationship ones like You’re Dead to Me (history). The philosophy one sounds great - will check out today
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 10:19 AM
2

My block list has rocketed and for the first time I’m questioning men I date and no longer making excuses for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:17 PM
2

Pls recommend some podcasts! All I find are shit men excusing ones
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 10:14 PM
2

2020 is gonna be amazing for you. Stay strong
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:54 PM
6

This is a great tip! What are your other rules out of interest? I really struggled to sort the shit from the, quite frankly, shittier shit when OLD. I wish I’d done this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 07:57 PM
6

Literally this. It baffles me when they pull this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 07:52 PM
7

I love the self awareness of it. Me 5 years ago for sure
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:45 PM
0

Amazing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 09:25 PM
6

Literally this for all of my exes bar maybe 1
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:14 AM
16

Hahhaha. Girl you don’t
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:14 AM
3

It’s like... they actually talk about it as a lifestyle! Crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:13 AM
6

‘My sexual fantasy is having sex with other people’ oooooook den 👋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 09:28 PM
1

Hmmm I’m really split about this stuff - she sounds like she is young so just needs to be better educated.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 09:26 PM
5

Lololol go on mate pull that trigger and do us all a favour
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 09:24 PM
14

Oh god I just found this sub and I wish I’d never
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 09:20 PM
2

Ha this gave me a good laugh, good for you! What a lil shit. Also why’s he asking about your pay, rude (that may be me just being English tho...)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 09:06 PM
28

Fuck that. Put that blender to better use I say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 07:18 PM
6

😂 amen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 08:47 PM
4

I’m so sorry you had to go through this. You deserve WAY more
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 07:28 PM
5

Hahaha my ex did this (after we broke up and I saw his profile on an app.... bearing in mind the house hadn’t fully transferred to him yet so technically he was advertising my home too)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 03:09 PM
7

Preach
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 02:48 PM
5

I think it’s their tiny brains that can’t think of anything more creative
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 11:11 AM
10

And he’s too lazy to try. He’s been blocked y’all
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 11:07 AM
4

Ha yep. People don’t change. This is the first time I’ve ever NOT gone back to a guy after he grovels and it feels 💯 It is also providing much amusement for me and my friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 11:05 AM
11

Haha nope! Even when he’s grovelling he’s still thinking of himself first 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 10:38 PM
25

He’s massively grasping at straws! I know. Finding this sub has been like a lightbulb switching on. I think it’s time for the block!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 10:33 PM
1

I need to come back and read this daily
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 10:20 PM
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