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| 1 | Why do I get treated so poorlyThat’s another thing you made me realize, when I go out and approach I only approach about 2-3 girls a day but it seems like that’s not nearly enough. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 07:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do I get treated so poorlyI never really took the way I talked or my body language into consideration, maybe that’s part of my problem. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Why do I get treated so poorlyWell I’m 5”8 and I workout every day | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Why do I get treated so poorlyWhen you mean further, in what sense do you mean that? A quick background story of me is I was a recluse when I was a teen with no friends and never talked to a girl until I turned 18 almost 19 actually, I’m 20 now. So when I turned 18 I decided to turn everything around and for the most part I did, I went from staying inside all day and talking to no one at school to forcing myself to go out and start finding friends and hobbies and get a style going with the clothes I wear. This big change got… | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Why do I get treated so poorlyMy approach is usually a whatsup I think your cute then I find something to talk to her about for a few minutes until I get her number. I was always taught that you just simply have to talk to a girl like anyone else and it works fine but it’s worked terrible for me. I wouldn’t know what else to say, I can’t go up and tell her to come over and let’s go at it, I’d probably get slapped. | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 07:16 PM |
| 2 | Why do I get treated so poorlyI’ll give you a summation of my day to day routine and how I approach and talk to girls. First thing I do is go to the gym after I wake up it gets my day going quick, if I see a girl I like at the gym I’ll most likely approach her and the approach starts with hey I saw you over here doing this machine and I think your cute then I’ll start asking her about her routine, I try to talk for a good 5 minutes then get her number. After the gym I play basketball some days, then after that I usually go t… | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 07:12 PM |
| 1 | Might be fucking up my datesWhat's a disqualifier? | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Might be fucking up my datesIt's towards the end of the date and yeah I can tell a lot of the girls wanna smash and I'm fine with that. | /r/seduction | 24/09/17 03:50 AM |
| 1 | Might be fucking up my datesI kinda figured tinder is more of a hookup app, I also like to do cold approaching but it gets tedious after awhile and tinder is a lot of easy girls quick lol | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Might be fucking up my datesThese were through tinder | /r/seduction | 23/09/17 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Might be fucking up my datesWell I created all of that but she didn't say it | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 09:28 PM |
| 2 | Might be fucking up my datesDoes that actually work? I feel like if she's not talking to me she wouldn't talk to someone I "know" lol | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 09:27 PM |
| 3 | Might be fucking up my datesHonestly I'm just looking for anything that comes my way but I've always been taught then if you don't escalate you will get put in the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Might be fucking up my datesSo should I not escalate at all on the first date? | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Might be fucking up my datesEvery time I ask a girl if she likes to smoke she says yes. | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 09:05 PM |
| 1 | Might be fucking up my datesI'm pretty sure the girls enjoyed them, like I said in my above comment one ended in me getting head and the other 2 dates we touched, held hands and made out. A lot of influence of weed and alcohol if it makes a difference. | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Might be fucking up my datesThe first date ended in her giving me head in my car the other 2 had a lot of touching, hand holding and kissing. Also we were drinking and smoking weed on all 3 dates. | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Need advice on what to do after a successful first date.Ok that sounds like a good strategy. | /r/seduction | 21/09/17 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on what to do after a successful first date.Well this has happened about 3 times a while ago and I'm doing cold approach. | /r/seduction | 20/09/17 06:14 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on contacting after a first dateHer level of interest lol probably pretty low because she never responded to my texts and she smashed my friends friend 2 days before I did, so I don't think she's to concerned about it, neither am I. | /r/seduction | 29/04/17 04:07 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on contacting after a first dateLol ok and how does she feel? | /r/seduction | 29/04/17 03:35 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on contacting after a first dateShe hit me with the no text back but it's all good I have other girls that I'm talking to. | /r/seduction | 28/04/17 05:48 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on contacting after a first dateOk, that's a good idea I will text her something funny about our game of bowling | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on contacting after a first dateI texted her last night, pretty late though she probably went to sleep but I'll see if she's free this weekend. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on contacting after a first dateOk and I was just confused, I used to be told that after a date you make no contact with the girl until you plan on hanging out again or else she will run far away due to clingyness. But maybe that's just plain wrong. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 04:23 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on contacting after a first dateYeah I already texted her and there's no need for the name calling dude, I don't appreciate that. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on contacting after a first dateOk I'm going to text her to see whatsup | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on contacting after a first dateOk thanks, I will do that. | /r/seduction | 27/04/17 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Strange tinder interactionYeah I added her on Snapchat and she even called me, it was actually her but she blocked me yesterday when I said hey lol so I really have no clue what that was all about. | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 11:12 PM |
| 5 | Strange tinder interactionWell I told her she can come to my place during the week and she said she'd let me know when she's free so I'm still betting on that to go well. But good advice here, I'm not really sure why I thought she's messing with me, I guess it's probably because I'm used to actually hanging out and doing something first | /r/seduction | 24/04/17 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice thanks.Ok that makes sense, how about it a coffee shop setting though would those tactics work in that environment? | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 03:42 AM |
| 1 | Need some advice thanks.That's something that totally flew by me, not setting up a hang out in person was definitely a mistake and when you say intimacy do you mean touching her as I talk to her? | /r/seduction | 07/04/17 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Something that I just can't get passedOk thanks for the advice, I will try that way instead of seeing when she is free. | /r/seduction | 05/03/17 03:00 AM |
| 1 | Weird but funny situationWell she stopped texting me and her friend won't text me lol so I think I'll just move on. | /r/seduction | 24/02/17 11:14 PM |
| 1 | Need advice, thanks.Yeah, I noticed that when I approach, the longer I stay and talk the better things turn out later on. I really have been trying to lengthen my opening approaches. | /r/seduction | 06/02/17 05:17 AM |
| 1 | Do girls really get that offended over small stuffYeah, I tend to be cautious when talking to new girls because each one is different and this has happened before, I try to create my own laws. | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 01:59 AM |
| 2 | Do girls really get that offended over small stuffThanks man. | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 01:58 AM |
| 1 | Do girls really get that offended over small stuffYeah, I was trying to make it seem that he in fact was a freak. | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 01:57 AM |
| 1 | Do girls really get that offended over small stuffGood thinking bro I'll base my career around this idea👌😂 | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Do girls really get that offended over small stuffGlad you think it's funny haha | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 01:55 AM |
| 0 | Do girls really get that offended over small stuffOk man I'll give it to you lol, you cooked me pretty damn well and I don't usually tell random stories like that to girls, it just happened to cross my mind, no sweat to me though, I already got 2 numbers after she blocked me. But still god advice👌 | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 01:54 AM |
| 3 | Do girls really get that offended over small stuffYeah I definitely see it that way, I assumed see was cool with more vulgar conversation because when I talked to her in person she was telling me how she wants her ass bigger. | /r/seduction | 18/01/17 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Opening tips?Appreciate it. | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 05:29 PM |
| 1 | Opening tips?Hey man this was some great advice, I ended up getting two numbers at the mall today due to having a conversation on something that was around us. | /r/seduction | 22/12/16 04:24 AM |
| 1 | Beware of daygame scams (read description)Yep same exact way for me, these girls started bombarding me with personal questions. | /r/seduction | 21/12/16 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Need advice pleaseYes I have taken thought about weather the gym is a very good place or not, also I do as well take my workouts very serious but if I see a attractive girl I'll try while I'm resting only about two times though. What I'm going to start doing is going to better places like you mentioned. | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Need advice pleaseUsually I try to find a girl by herself a lot of my approaches are at the gym in between sets and at coffee shops, I'll start by going up saying what's up and telling her she's cute, and if I'm in a hurry I'll say we should hang out later or if I have time I'll bring up something that she's wearing or something around us of interest. I have gotten numbers and dates but the level of that vs her saying I have a bf is pretty bad lol. I feel like I should have more success then I do. I am confident … | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Need advice pleaseI never really thought of it like that, I do think about it sometimes during approach so maybe there is things I'm doing like bad body language and don't even realize it. | /r/seduction | 15/12/16 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Trying to do daygame everywhereOne thing I don't understand about inroverts/extroverts is if people are naturally either one, I see alot of people say they are a natural introvert or the other way around, I have just started getting good with conversing with people and being fine in big crowds (I used to be terrified of big crowds) but it's because I had an extreme addiction to video games since I was 7 all the way to 11th grade and was a shut in. but I realize that when I get into it I can approach with no fear and can carry… | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Trying to do daygame everywhereThis is actually some really good advice, I honestly go to one or two places a day, I have friends but their mostly busy and I end up wasting to much time at home. I think my biggest issue is that I don't go to enough places to meet people. | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Trying to do daygame everywhereYes it took me a while to gain confidence and I'm still working to strengthen it. Also I have a mall close to me that I go to a lot and I've probably gotten shot down at least 70 times, I've even had one girl tell me to get the fuck away from her, shopping centers seem to be where I have the worst rejections. | /r/seduction | 05/12/16 12:22 AM |
| 2 | Been approaching for a year with no luck need adviceI try to shoot for one number a day but some days are just streaks of rejection and they are all cold approaches. | /r/seduction | 28/09/16 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Question about textingah ok I see, yeah I was pretty busy when she texted so I didn't have much time to think about what to text her so it ended up being boring. Also I heard people say texting should only be to set up dates. | /r/seduction | 27/09/16 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Question about shyness and daygameOh ok I see, Iv'e read a bit on it but I really only know people with it tend to dwell on only one subject. | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Question about shyness and daygameYou just gotta practice and they shyness will go away and honestly i'm not a scientist but I feel like when people say they got aspergers they just don't have enough to talk about. My shyness used to be way worse like incredible but now it's really not that bad, it's just when I break for a while I have to jump start myself. I feel like to cure aspergers you just gotta get more hobbies, maybe I'm wrong never have having it but it kind of sounds like only liking one thing in life. | /r/seduction | 14/09/16 04:39 AM |
| 1 | eye contactWell don't start out with anything like I think your cute or hey do you have a boyfriend. Girls get nervous because this is a form of escalation and you want to save that for after you have talked to her for a bit. Start out with hey whatsup and give her a compliment on something she's wearing and then start talking about clothing or her favorite store to shop at. Or if your at Starbucks and she's in line next to you start with asking her what she's going to get and tell her what you think is gr… | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Finally had a successful daygame session!!!Yes this is probably the best advice on daygame so far, thanks! And I believe I read your story a few days ago where you were in the park and the girl was playing a guitar and you just started talking to her like you would a friend then escalated it and made out. That's awesome! | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 08:11 PM |
| 2 | eye contactIf you have strong eye contact the girl should always look away first. If you two connect eyes and she looks away very quick or stares at you and smiles then go in quickly. Don't wait for her to look at you a second time, most women are to nervous to look up at you again. | /r/seduction | 21/08/16 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Wondering about a couple places to do daygame.Thanks for the advice! Yeah I'm going to work on my game | /r/seduction | 20/08/16 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Wondering about a couple places to do daygame.Haha thanks man, yeah same hear I've said a lot of cringy things to girls after they told me they have a boyfriend, one was play your cards right and you'll have two boyfriends and another was all my girlfriends have boyfriends lol it was bad. But I learned that a lot of them really do have boyfriends, the girls I asked at the gym all said they had boyfriends and days later well the really did haha. | /r/seduction | 20/08/16 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Wondering about a couple places to do daygame.I live in Las Vegas which is kinda busy at certain times. Also every girl shot me down almost instantly giving me no chance to go any further then whatsup I think your cute. And it was mostly girls in a group of two walking. And I've only ever tried malls really. | /r/seduction | 20/08/16 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on inner gameI don't understand what not yanking it does for inner game, not trying to be rude but could you explain to me how that helps, It just doesn't seem to correlate but maybe I'm wrong. | /r/seduction | 19/08/16 06:29 AM |
| 2 | Need advice on inner gameThis is all really great advice, thanks! I realize that inner game is something that is worked on step by step and takes a long time to develop a solid inner game, so I will start day by day fighting off negative feelings and approaching more women. | /r/seduction | 18/08/16 05:10 PM |
| 1 | This has got me asking what on earth went wrongYeah thanks man, I know now to just escalate and go for it with girls and see where it goes and also she told me about three times how hot I am and I still didn't act on that, at least I know for next time. | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 06:56 PM |
| 1 | This has got me asking what on earth went wrongYeah I should of connected the dots when we texted before the date and she asked me how I like it in bed. But she also told me she doesn't have sex until the third date, so I told her ok I won't try for the first two dates and she said ok but some guys still do. | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 06:04 PM |
| 1 | This has got me asking what on earth went wrongOK thanks for the advice and actually at the beginning of the date I was doing some kino escalstion, I complimented on how pretty her hair looks then touched it a bit and she laughed I guess that means she liked it but not sure, but of course I got nervous and starting asking everything alse | /r/seduction | 16/08/16 06:01 PM |
| 1 | This has got me asking what on earth went wrongoh yeah I made a huge mistake, after she sent me the text later I told her I enjoyed it also and we should go hiking for our next date. | /r/seduction | 15/08/16 05:35 PM |
| 1 | This has got me asking what on earth went wrongThanks for the advice, I had a feeling asking to hold her hand and the other stuff may have been a bad idea, I remember sitting at the coffee shop after she left thinking about if that was going to lead to her not wanting a second date. and also i'm not sure if this is good advice but I have been told by a couple friends that I shouldn't touch her at all on the first date and keep it strictly to talking except for a opening and closing hug. | /r/seduction | 15/08/16 05:33 PM |
| 1 | This has got me asking what on earth went wrongThanks for the advice man, this is really good I will definitely learn from your information, it's very helpful. | /r/seduction | 15/08/16 07:55 AM |
| 2 | This girl cancels every single time. Need advice thanksThat's exactly what I'm going to do, also I'm deleting tinder, I have gotten about 30 matches in the past month and only one successful date. I'm going back to daygame, | /r/seduction | 26/07/16 07:39 PM |
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