Might be fucking up my dates

mep8 · 2017-09-22T20:30:31+00:00

Did you escalate on these dates? How far sexually did you push things? Why did each date end?

MagnusRoundstone · 2017-09-22T20:38:29+00:00

If the dates went great, asking them to hang again wouldn't turn them off. Sounds like the dates went great for you. How was it for the girls?

Lambdal7 · 2017-09-22T21:23:37+00:00

Don't say that. You need to create such rapport, comfort and attraction that you kiss her around 2h into the date and let her be the one to say it.

If you do that already, but they dont say it, then just text them again the next day, and set up another date with some callback humour and a bit upbeat mood, but don't try to set up another date om the first date.

Austonmatthews345 · 2017-09-23T04:03:07+00:00

Guys here are clueless, they're telling you to "slow down". To be fair, you did mention tinder AFTER they replied so maybe calling them clueless is a bit harsh. They're from Tinder dude, it's merely a hook up app, they're expecting you to take them home and have sex with them at the end of the first date. Then they will bolt hoping to never see you again as soon as the sex is done. They're not receptive to meeting again because they will be with another Joe and rinse and repeat. So yeah, escalate to sex with these tinder girls, do not try and relationship them, there are way higher quality women out there just waiting for you man.

grabbymouse · 2017-09-22T21:15:25+00:00

If you can dm me the girls' number, I can act as a middle man and ask them what is wrong with our johnny. Maybe they can tell me something specific that made them to refuse 2nd date.

johnnysway · 2017-09-23T00:30:30+00:00

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pragmaticmystic · 2017-09-24T03:14:19+00:00

Yes.

Why do you mention seeing her again while you're on a date with her? Just enjoy the date. Sounds like everything is going well and the girls are into you.

People are flaky af nowadays and she'd way rather sleep with you then be committed to seeing you again some day in the nebulous future. Plus when you tell her you want to see her again during the date it kinda sucks the excitement out of it. Maybe she wants a bit of a rollercoaster not knowing if you'll hit her up again or maybe she wants no strings attached hookup.

When exactly are you inserting this statement into the date?

Title	Might be fucking up my dates
Author	johnnysway
Upvotes	1
Comments	24
Date	September 22, 2017 8:18 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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