| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 15 | What can we learn from this video? | Conversation | justarandomuser10 | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 03:36 PM |
| 8 | Is pipe-smoking a turnoff? | Lifestyle | justarandomuser10 | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 08:31 PM |
| 6 | Authentic or Confident? | Conversation | justarandomuser10 | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 11:19 PM |
| 1 | Wingman in Berlin | Conversation | justarandomuser10 | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 02:53 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | I’m considering becoming a pilot, how is dating like for one?Dunno why but this question terrifies me. | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 01:01 PM |
| 5 | Is ‘rizz’ really just the absence of overthinking?Looks like he buried that fact like it didn’t matter. | /r/seduction | 28/05/26 12:49 AM |
| 5 | Anybody here that started approaching in their 30s?Here. It’s more fun now since you are more chill than in your 20s. I improved many things since I started in last few years. I never tried to get better in my game and never approached girls I liked for almost a decade. My ex wife would easily open her legs and fall in love again if she had a chance to meet me these days. | /r/seduction | 10/05/26 02:17 AM |
| 1 | “You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOTI’d say mixed, younger ones have more options and you need to appeal to them and have good vibes. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 12:14 PM |
| 41 | hardest country to game and get women?Yeah, two possible outcomes: you can get killed or get married. Both suck lol. | /r/seduction | 08/05/26 08:49 PM |
| 1 | How to act like a player or a fboiWtf | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Help me turn on my wife.Take the lead on your home. She will fall for you again. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 11:42 PM |
| 1 | game is dropped boysWdym, I pulled out a lot of women using exactly that game. | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 09:08 PM |
| 1 | game is dropped boysWhy? | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 08:03 PM |
| -15 | Men: how often do you get approached by women at clubs?Virgin attitude | /r/seduction | 01/05/26 10:54 AM |
| 2 | This girl literally dm'ed me after seeing what i posted on this subI think she wants you | /r/MensRights | 29/04/26 08:43 PM |
| 15 | I’m confident with people, but I shut down around womenSo .. you’re not confident. | /r/seduction | 29/04/26 03:50 PM |
| 72 | Female boss shit-tested me yesterday — did I pass or fail?Not reacting is attractive to women, it shows you are not insecure and can hold your frame. A great comeback is also very much attractive, shows high confidence. Both are good. If I was you I’d make a move already. You are due. Go to her desk and tell her you had enough of her games (smiling) and that you want to take her on a date (serious). If she fires you, don’t blame me. 😉 | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 11:14 AM |
| 3 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerWhat a dad joke | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 05:55 PM |
| 12 | “You’ll have plenty of time for girls later” NO YOU DO NOTThat depends, I did all of those, built my life and waited. I had only a few connections until my 30s, now I’m having a lot of fun and connections. :) | /r/seduction | 20/04/26 09:25 AM |
| 2 | What's the purpose of game/seduction?Perfect summary. | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 12:32 AM |
| 3 | What's the purpose of game/seduction?Pxssy | /r/seduction | 18/04/26 12:31 AM |
| 1 | How to fix a babyface as I have a feeling it is my biggest barrier to a successful dating life.A lot of girls like babyfaces, what you have to do is not revolve around those girls who don’t for too long. | /r/seduction | 17/04/26 07:51 AM |
| 1 | "Attract, don't chase." I wonder where that has taken you in life. Are there exceptions to chase assertively?That sounds shady | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 12:43 AM |
| 24 | I pretended to be rich on hingeI like these kind of studies. They reveal so much about women and so fast. 😉 | /r/seduction | 10/04/26 05:25 PM |
| 15 | I m28 got unblockedGo save her and hold her until she finds another man who treats her like shit, simp. | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 11:16 AM |
| 4 | How true is it when people say women can sense if you are under confident on dateBullshit. Attraction comes from somewhere or some qualities you have. Confidence is one, height is another etc. | /r/seduction | 07/04/26 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Is pipe-smoking a turnoff?Haha I love this answer. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Is pipe-smoking a turnoff?Agreed and I share the same opinion atm just wanted more POVs. By all means I’m not stopping piping because of women if the consesus is a Turn Off here. This topic does not come from insecurity, it comes from curiosity. | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 10:58 PM |
| -8 | Is pipe-smoking a turnoff?Absolutely not. Smoking cigs carry a stronger masculinity than pipe smoking? Give me a break. We are not talking about Vapes here. | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 09:10 PM |
| -2 | Is pipe-smoking a turnoff?Why are cigarettes different and “attractive” than any other form of smoking, it smells worse and is not even a hobby/fun, its pure addiction. Care to explain? | /r/seduction | 06/04/26 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Late night thoughtsEverytime I rescheduled the first date or avoided getting intimate or sex on first day. I didnt get a second one. Girls are crazy. | /r/seduction | 05/04/26 11:26 PM |
| 1 | Long time between approach/first text and date = guaranteed flake🤓👍 | /r/seduction | 04/04/26 12:32 AM |
| 0 | Don't wear these clothes / items!!!This is bs. Women notice styles in first sight and its a gamechanger before opening the mouth. | /r/seduction | 02/04/26 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Did she want me to take her home?Yes. | /r/seduction | 02/04/26 12:46 PM |
| 7 | Girls, did she wanna talk to me more?This is not a subreddit for drama like this. | /r/seduction | 31/03/26 12:51 AM |
| 26 | Have you learned anything in the field, by yourself, that no theory or coach thought of?I feel sorry for you bro. Looks like you’ve been going through some shit and learnt to lie for your own good the hard way. Completely valid points. | /r/seduction | 29/03/26 01:01 AM |
| 1 | How do I get over my fear of women? 28MHahahahaha | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 04:27 PM |
| 2 | Need help form a person who is good with girlsU gonna learn. In age of 19 I had my first Gf but here we have people who are on their 30s and never had one. :) To oversimplify it, the most important part is Confidence and belief in yourself. | /r/seduction | 24/03/26 12:58 PM |
| 5 | How do I get over my fear of women? 28MThis sucks but it may be legit advice. | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 02:26 AM |
| 52 | What I wish I knew before approaching womenSneaky marketing at its best 🤣 | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 05:30 PM |
| 1 | How to snapchat girls.. because they’re all the same 😉 | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 01:59 PM |
| 1 | How to not hate yourself after fumbling?A day for a reply is a lost attraction. Move on. | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 01:11 AM |
| 10 | women love nice guys , stop with the bad boy bullshitYou’re wrong. I was a nice guy before. They don’t love them, they LOVE the free energy and attention nice guys give, they suck it for themselves to feel validated and seen and yeah, eventually they give some reward back by being there for the nice guy and have some fun (nothing close to intimacy btw). Most of the time if the nice guy asks her on a date, or wants to go more intimate, the girl starts setting boundaries and standards and in the end, eventually she reject him. Why? Because she used … | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Seek out more rejection!This is good advice and it doesn’t look like AI slop :), thanks. | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 06:47 PM |
| 1 | How to DM beautiful women on instagramAnd then? | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 04:34 PM |
| 3 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?That’s my goal actually. | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 02:30 PM |
| 273 | If you had to pick a career to meet women, what would you choose?I can only tell what to avoid: IT | /r/seduction | 13/03/26 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Stand up clips and receiving supportI read the comments. You seem a bit insecure about yourself. Try to learn doing the things you actually like and enjoy most and do not look for external validation (especially from women). Just do the content you enjoy, share it and forget about reactions. The ones that like you will stick. Being insecure of what you did and why a certain reaction did not come from e certain person or a certain gender, that shit will eat you alive if you do not fix it. However, to really try to answer your quest… | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 09:45 PM |
| 64 | Kissing and making out on date is rookie moveFair, this subreddit needs more original posts like this one. | /r/seduction | 10/03/26 06:02 PM |
| 1 | I am crazy person for thinking like this??You spoke for every woman. | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 07:31 PM |
| -1 | How would you compare your experiences dating in London versus Dublin as a straight man?Numbers doesn’t matter if it doesn’t have more women than men. | /r/seduction | 08/03/26 01:39 PM |
| 2 | Thinking of visiting Madrid or Barcelona?Enjoy | /r/seduction | 06/03/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | I can't escalate need helpJust Do It Whatever happens, you will forget after some time. One thing you will never forget is, not making a move (regret). | /r/seduction | 05/03/26 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else thinks how being honest with women tends to backfire?So the first will get you laid and the second will get you ghosted? | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 01:59 PM |
| 6 | Anyone else thinks how being honest with women tends to backfire?Now this is strange because being clear with your intentions is always recommended here and everywhere else. :) | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 01:45 PM |
| 1 | Authentic or Confident?Yes | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 12:27 AM |
| 26 | Is Instagram harder than dating apps?Trust me, they read all of them, you’re simply ignored and are on restricted zone because of the “vibes”. | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 02:50 PM |
| 5 | Are you chubbyYeah. Ok. | /r/seduction | 17/02/26 01:46 AM |
| 6 | I suck at small talk post matchYou don’t have to small talk. You tell her what you like about her and after a few exchanges, ask her out. You tell her the same when you go out and invite her to spend the night with you. | /r/seduction | 12/02/26 08:38 PM |
| 11 | Pulled last night but keep thinking about the rejectionsThis is such an easy thing to say on this sub. Everyone does. | /r/seduction | 01/02/26 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Where can i find Night clubs in istanbul???Mods, delete these crap posts, please! | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 08:48 AM |
| 1 | Is cold approach basically a numbers game like sales? Thinking of doing 100 approaches.Explain this. I am not attractive and those below 8 tend to reject more on first date than 8s and up. The last ones seem more grounded a lot of times. | /r/seduction | 19/01/26 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Did I kill the attraction?pretty much, the dude wants her but decides to kill attraction because someone else suddenly knows about it | /r/seduction | 06/01/26 02:42 AM |
| 1 | How to find other guys to game with?Berlin, anyone? | /r/seduction | 04/01/26 04:01 AM |
| 2 | I think I got itBS | /r/seduction | 12/12/25 01:07 PM |
| 3 | 35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start?This guy summed it all up | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 02:59 AM |
| 3 | 35M virgin, quit my job to focus on game. Where do I start?U have time to change course | /r/seduction | 23/11/25 02:55 AM |
| 2 | How do you actually flirt sexually without coming off creepy or too aggressive?Elaborate please :) | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 12:30 AM |
| 0 | Change my view: leading women on is the most effective way to be a man who sleeps around.How much success you had before and after you shifted? Show us numbers. And where do you live? | /r/seduction | 18/11/25 12:26 AM |
| 1 | How do I get the man I fumbled by being too available?You have the right to want and say everything you did. For the men here: Why do I get disgusted everytime I hear a woman explain a situation like this. It really doesn’t make any sense. She wants him bad but is risking to loose that chance forever because she wants him to chase and be obssesed while he dgaf — I try to ignore most women’s date expectations because it’s disgusting and waste of time, but I can’t, and I want that pussy. Meanwhile everyday I’m convinced a little more that they really… | /r/seduction | 16/11/25 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Best ways to spend money to improve your seductionI see. That actually makes more sense than this whole subreddit. I dropped you a dm. | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Best ways to spend money to improve your seductionThis doesn’t work quite well for me, most of them never come back. What’s your story? | /r/seduction | 10/11/25 01:59 PM |
| 4 | Was having a good time with a girl last night, flirting the whole time, but she said she had a boyfriend. She wouldn’t let me kiss her on the lips, but we kissed on the cheeks/neck the whole night. How do I escalate better next time?She chose the ones shes actually fucking with, looks like you’re not one of them. | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 09:23 AM |
| 8 | Was having a good time with a girl last night, flirting the whole time, but she said she had a boyfriend. She wouldn’t let me kiss her on the lips, but we kissed on the cheeks/neck the whole night. How do I escalate better next time?She let you touch her and not kiss, and she said she had a boyfriend — there you already had a zillion reasons to respect yourself but you chose to be clingy and a clown. At this point, you don’t ever deserve taken women. | /r/seduction | 30/10/25 09:09 AM |
| 1 | Those that have same day laid in day game what is your escalation strategy?Nonsense, that only happened 1-2 times in my lifetime. If you ignore her, nothing interesting happens, she will just start exploring other options and forget about you. | /r/seduction | 27/10/25 12:01 AM |
| 1 | Those that have same day laid in day game what is your escalation strategy?Why I don’t understand this? Explain please. | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 01:58 AM |
| 5 | Those that have same day laid in day game what is your escalation strategy?I don’t believe the part “let her come to me”. How? | /r/seduction | 26/10/25 01:56 AM |
| 1 | why she walks past like you don’t existThat could come as offensive. | /r/seduction | 24/10/25 12:25 PM |
| 1 | Stop looking like a hobo!!I cannot fully agree. While you are making a good point about self-respect, attention to detail etc. A lot of women like when you look like a man, that can include hoodies and baggy clothes, torso pants etc. it signals masculinity to them. Just don’t wear tight clothes, that shit’s’gay. I would like to hear other opinions and experiences on this. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 04:39 PM |
| 2 | Do you attract unattractive women or do you attract them because you think they are unattractive?Being an ahole requires a lot of effort! just don’t care or at least don’t show it, the moment she sees she won you over, she starts looking for someone she hasn’t yet. Of course that doesn’t go for every woman but most of them, in my experience. Ask yourself, what did she do to deserve you open doors and pulling chairs? Most of the time the answer is nothing. She brings nothing to the table. The moment she understands your opinion of her is shit, she sticks. | /r/seduction | 23/10/25 08:44 AM |
| 1 | Do you attract unattractive women or do you attract them because you think they are unattractive?Literally | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Do you attract unattractive women or do you attract them because you think they are unattractive?Bro, I have the same question in my head for a while. But again it comes all down to treating them like shit — always works. Where there’s an attractive girl, subconsciously, I know I’m putting them on pedestal and I have little control over it or none. However, it’s a bit dangerous to apply this “cheat” on your mind I would say, when I tried doing it, I was getting no p because I already told my mind they’re unattractive and ended up pushing them away, unconsciously. If that makes sene. | /r/seduction | 22/10/25 12:41 PM |
| 1 | Why women pull away even when things are ‘going well’— and how to react when it happensExactly my question too, waiting for responses. | /r/seduction | 21/10/25 09:04 PM |
| 28 | Men who get one-night stands, how do you do it?That’s a good advice in general but that is not an answer to a question about one night stands. | /r/seduction | 12/10/25 11:36 PM |
| 7 | Lay number three: How I accidentally took home a married womanWhy is this downvoted? I completely agree. Doesn’t make fucking sense. | /r/seduction | 21/09/25 01:18 PM |
| 12 | How to seduce my male colleagueGirls don’t wanna do that. Feels off for them if he invites her after she tells him. She wants to seduce him so he makes the move. They never do. She’s clear as any other woman. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 04:34 PM |
| 4 | From socially anxious to confident but now I feel like a fraudIt sounds to me that you are still not confident enough in yourself, even though you think you have reached so far. You may have overcome fear of girls, but you still underestimate yourself. Six Pillars of Self-Esteem by Nathaniel Branden helped me a lot when I was feeling like this. I recommend. | /r/seduction | 06/08/25 11:11 AM |
| 10 | How do you distinguish the difference between love bombing and putting in effort?That’s very generalized, when it comes to women it’s always more complicated. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 12:47 PM |
| 3 | Why she pulls away when you ask "where is this going?" and demand spoilers from herThis is really helpful. I just made that mistake recently with a girl and I can see her going cold. | /r/seduction | 25/07/25 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Got way more attractive -> Way harder to get girls onlineThis is the correct answer. | /r/seduction | 23/07/25 01:22 PM |
| 4 | Date #2 set for 6 days later. When should I text her next?You gotta keep her hooked. Text her but don’t overdo it and don’t be always available for her, waiting 5-6 days is long and could make her go cold. | /r/seduction | 17/07/25 12:11 PM |
| 1 | How honest should I be when sharing my dating life with a girl I’m interested in?What?! | /r/seduction | 16/07/25 04:31 PM |
| 16 | You want her? Don't tell her. Show her just enogh to keep her guessingSame. | /r/seduction | 15/06/25 07:44 PM |
| 14 | Is it still possible to recover?Forget her. Move to the next one. | /r/seduction | 30/05/25 12:25 AM |
| 5 | How do I even be "clear with my intentions "I don’t think an avg woman would say to herself: “Ok now I know this guy, I’m ready for his first move.” within a week. | /r/seduction | 10/05/25 12:54 AM |
| 8 | Finally beat my anxiety and cold approached. Getting rejected felt way better than regret!Thisssss. Happened to me too. Feels better and more easily forgotten than regret. | /r/seduction | 06/05/25 01:28 PM |
| 8 | Texting girlShoulda - Coulda - Woulda. Ask her out bro. | /r/seduction | 25/04/25 03:29 PM |
| 16 | How to escalate? At what point do you ask to kiss/shag and how?Hardest question of all IMO. | /r/seduction | 21/04/25 05:56 PM |
| 2 | How far have you come?Fascinating. I’m interested in the details of your success. Let’s DM. :) | /r/seduction | 11/04/25 01:43 AM |
| 1 | How do I approach guys at the gym? How do I approach guys in general!?Can you approach me on me DMs. 😉 | /r/seduction | 10/04/25 05:31 PM |
| 1 | How to disagree with women without being cocky?Choose words carefully. | /r/seduction | 29/03/25 08:40 PM |
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