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| 3 | How To Show Intent W/out Being A Needy NedThe best talk show hosts that shows this balance of showing intent and not being needy is Craig Ferguson | /r/seduction | 06/05/20 05:51 PM |
| 2 | The Downsides of Staying in the GAME for too longHey Dude, Thanks for the comment. Which clips were out of context? Of course not ALL men feel obligated to talk to all women However, across the past 15 years of being in and out of the community I have first hand seen other men and now currently clients I work with have the problems I discussed. I left plenty of Practical advice in the video. Did you watch all of it? Its not about "trusting" women in total. Its about understanding how your internal beliefs and models of the world impact the way… | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 03:40 AM |
| 1 | The Downsides of Staying in the GAME for too longHow so? I agree with a lot of what RSD and other dating coaches say. I simply bring up the points that I disagree with and have learned that causes problems in the community | /r/seduction | 05/08/19 03:36 AM |
| 2 | The Downsides of Staying in the GAME for too longThat's a good question to pose | /r/seduction | 04/08/19 09:40 PM |
| 1 | What To Do When A Girl Looks At You (Flirting Signs)It's actually okay to. It might be a brother, cousin, friendzone, or gay friend. Embrace awkward | /r/seduction | 31/07/19 07:22 PM |
| 2 | What To Do When A Girl Looks At You (Flirting Signs)Don't approach. Not worth it | /r/seduction | 30/07/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | What they ACTAULLY want you to say to themExactly. Well said | /r/seduction | 21/07/19 11:49 PM |
| 3 | Hank Moody's Game Was UNREAL (Seduction Breakdown)Thank you Sea God for your unyielding wisdom | /r/seduction | 03/07/19 09:11 PM |
| 1 | A little successChoose then??? | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 11:03 PM |
| 29 | Before you approach today remember...Short and sweet. Just how I like my women | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 11:02 PM |
| 1 | Get Yo Mind Right Before You Say "Hi";-) | /r/seduction | 05/06/19 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on my dating life?Cool! email me at pinnacleofman at gmail.com | /r/seduction | 02/06/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Need advice on my dating life?The how is the long part haha. I would love to talk to you individually man. DM in instagram @joshhudsonmfti | /r/seduction | 31/05/19 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Need advice on my dating life?I specialize in helping men your age find and keep their perfect ten. I would love to help you out. Just DM me | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Resources for Getting StartedYea man. Depends on what you are looking for. | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Eye contact! How funny!Awesome man. The power of positive intent and masculinity | /r/seduction | 29/05/19 09:42 PM |
| 1 | Not 'IF' But 'How Much' Do Looks Matter?With shades of grey and other variables yes | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 05:55 PM |
| 1 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionGood one. I already wrote on a book on that topic haha | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:43 PM |
| 0 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionHaha, been in the game awhile man. I have plenty of ideas and videos already made. Nothing is wrong with getting added perspective you artard | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:08 AM |
| 1 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionThank you | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:07 AM |
| 1 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionGreat one! Women suck at advice giving on dating | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionSure they want dominance, but only women with low-self esteem want to be treated badly. You can be a leader that respects her...at least outside the bed :-) | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:06 AM |
| 1 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionFor short term mating yes | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:04 AM |
| 1 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionJust be "nice"(aka completely submissive) to the girl, and she'll magically fall in love with you. Women don't like that. They would overtly say so | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 04:02 AM |
| 1 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionHow a resurgence of old-fashioned ideas like we see in the book, The Rules, might have led to the PUA movement that we saw really kicking off in the late 90s and early 00s. How our ideas and expectations about love and wedding have changed drastically in the last 100 years. How people who've tried to escape relationship stereotypes by going "poly," have often become just as restrictive in their enforcement of their new rules. Most women wouldn't deny that, but they would also say "NICE" | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 03:57 AM |
| 1 | What Are Some of The Biggest Lies Mainstream Society Tells Itself With Dating/SeductionWOW! I love the support. My channel is here if you want to check it later https://www.youtube.com/user/PinnacleOfMan | /r/seduction | 19/05/19 03:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do you think people don't want guys to be taught game?BLUE PILL thinking man. Pickup or guys getting "better" with getting girls is seen as they are losers and should just know it or players that just want to get laid | /r/seduction | 16/05/19 07:49 PM |
| 1 | How can I be more sexual with women while interacting with them and give off more of a sexual/ masculine vibe instead of a lets just be friends vibe?Look at them in one eye and say nothing with a smirk. Think of doing sexual things to them when you do this. It creates arousal in you and her. Only use when isolated and comfort has been established. | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 09:57 PM |
| 1 | I feel attractive (21M), but never have been in any relationship or any significant romantic involvement.Its all in your DOMINANCE frame. I can tell from your words alone that you are far too agreeable and nice. | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Becoming impatient with women and no longer putting up with their shit has improved my game a lotA lot of truth to this, but the HIGHEST caliber women will NEVER show that much interest and in order to get them (unless you're vastly successful) you must show some persistence IMO | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Was I too fast in asking her outGirls get busy man. You aren't the most important thing in her life. UNDERSTAND THIS Also, you respond way too fast bro | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Just tried Day Game for the first time at the Mall.Good for you man. Keep it going | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 07:35 PM |
| 1 | 13 Years In Game (ONLY 3 Things You Need To Know)What does that even mean. Saw your other comments on posts man. Are you okay? I'm here to talk to if you aren't happy with you life. | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | 13 Years In Game (ONLY 3 Things You Need To Know)WORD man | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 07:32 PM |
| 1 | 13 Years In Game (ONLY 3 Things You Need To Know)What does that mean? | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 07:32 PM |
| 2 | 13 Years In Game (ONLY 3 Things You Need To Know)Bahahaaha Judging someone based off of one post. You poor soul. I'll let you think what you want about my dating/relationship life So many assumptions, so little insight | /r/seduction | 15/05/19 01:17 AM |
| 1 | 13 Years In Game (ONLY 3 Things You Need To Know)True true | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 10:07 PM |
| 2 | 13 Years In Game (ONLY 3 Things You Need To Know)Word up bro | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 10:07 PM |
| 3 | 13 Years In Game (ONLY 3 Things You Need To Know)IDK WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT!!!! | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 10:07 PM |
| 1 | Pick up begins even before you leave your room for the night outYea, sounds like you just need to have some closure around her man. That's all | /r/seduction | 12/05/19 05:32 PM |
| 7 | So after this, I'm pretty much done asking girls out in my college. . .TOUGH LOVE Why shouldn't she judge you based off of what you convey on social media? She wants a high value man and if you are not conveying that then why should she like you? Secondly, it sounds like you don't want a girl that is only into guys and there social media, isn't that good then that you dodged a superficial woman? | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 06:21 PM |
| 1 | I dont like 70% of girls with whom I have datesYou have to build up your skills. Just enjoy the process and don't focus on it too much. It will come | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | How do you know if a girl wants to take things further?She will interpret it however you do in your mind It is just as likely that you made her wait to sleep with you because you are a high value guy Get it? | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 06:18 PM |
| 1 | How To Get Laid On The First Date Nearly Every Single TimeAll great advice, also should mention something small -Challenge her a bit/make her qualify herself to you. (Is she good enough to be around you frame) -Don't be too logical either, try to keep it light and fun. The girl will realize that you aren't looking for something serious, which means you are not LONG TERM guy mateiral ie, i won't sleep with you on the first date | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 06:17 PM |
| 2 | is part of being a man, in game, rocking your own imperfections?TL;DR But yes, not so much focusing that you accept them, but just a general self-acceptance is by far the most attractive thing | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 06:13 PM |
| 2 | my journey so farAll great early lessons to learn my man. You are on the right path. Keep on going. Its called a GAME for a reason (#3) :-) | /r/seduction | 10/05/19 06:12 PM |
| 1 | What qualities do seductive women possess, in your opinion?When a girl smiles at you | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 07:09 PM |
| 2 | RSD maxBRO....They don't | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 07:09 PM |
| 2 | Debate Strangers - Do WOMEN want to be EQUAL in RELAtioNSHIPS?BETTER TEXT ON THUMBNAIL BRO | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 07:09 PM |
| 1 | Last days of classTALK TO HER FACE TO FACE!!!!! Say you think shes chill and want to get coffee with her or some shit | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 07:08 PM |
| 1 | How can I slide into this girls DM’s?Reply to her stories sure but say, "I want to tell my dog hes adopted but I don't know how to break it to him?" | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 07:08 PM |
| 4 | "Are you busy?" How should I respond?LITERALLY BECOME MORE BUSY. CREATE A PASSION OR HOBBY | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 07:07 PM |
| 2 | How do you “make” a moment?Bro, just go for it. You are scared of rejection. Worst case scenario you learn and feel great about going for what you want | /r/seduction | 09/05/19 07:07 PM |
| 5 | i'm frustrated.Thats a limitation you put on yourself | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 07:16 PM |
| 1 | Question about body language (eye contact)DONT KNOW TIL YOU SAY WHATS UP | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 06:45 PM |
| 2 | She hasn't replied in two days.SHES NOT INTERESTED | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 06:44 PM |
| 2 | i'm frustrated.ACCEPT WHAT AND WHO YOU ARE FOCUS ON WHAT YOU CAN CHANGE, WORKOUT, FIND YOUR PURPOSE FOCUS ON MAKING MALE FRIENDS FIRST THAT ARE COOL GUYS SEEK HELP VIA THERAPY | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Can I be really nice and date an attractive woman?100 FUCKING % Many attractive women don't date assholes. Its about not being A PUSHOVER. It means you are okay with friction and disagreement, but you don't need to seek it out | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 06:42 PM |
| 2 | How do i stop chasing attention all the time?? How do i be a man? How do i have a personaltiy? How to stop being boring/bland??Focus on your bigger "WHY" Find a purpose or something that drives you in live that is bigger than women's validation | /r/seduction | 08/05/19 06:42 PM |
| 1 | I wish I was able to exchange my height for good looks.Bro, you can't. Just focus on whats in your control | /r/seduction | 07/05/19 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Why am I the only one that can't get girls?There are things you do and thoughts you think that are holding you back | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Why am I the only one that can't get girls?Dude, so much here to help with. DM if you are serious about changing things. | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 05:23 PM |
| 2 | Approaching Is Getting EasierGOOD TO HEAR. Push yourself more | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 05:22 PM |
| 0 | How do you isolate girls in a group?I make friends with the friends then tell them I am going to borrow their friend (Girl I like) for a sec then bring her back. | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 05:22 PM |
| 1 | OPENER — Do You Know All the Oceans? (Oceans Opener)I don't do openers man. I just say whats on my mind. "You look cute and i'd regret not talking to you" | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 05:21 PM |
| 2 | 5 exercises that will make you attractive to the women you wantLove this, Great content! | /r/seduction | 01/05/19 05:20 PM |
| 1 | How can i make friends? And stop being a people pleaser? How to improve self esteem? How to stop being r/niceguy Confidence? Get social skills? How to have my own personality? How to not be boring? How to stop anxiety, How to stop looking for approval? How to be a man? How to get girls to chase me?There are deeper psychological reasons as to why you are this way at the core. There are no surface solutions to your issues. This means that you should actually see a therapist to go after the root of your low self-esteem. That's just my humble opinion being one myself and seeing how it changes people | /r/seduction | 12/04/19 01:21 AM |
| 1 | Fucking EASY With College Girls Using This Line (Infield)Did you not watch him get rejected? | /r/seduction | 30/12/18 09:21 PM |
| 2 | What's the best way to talk a girl when waiting to talk her?Talk to other girls | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Every girl on tinder wants to "get to know me" online before a meetupUse some empathy man. Women want an emotional connection often times before they open their legs. Maybe start to actually become interested in the girl, otherwise just go out at night | /r/seduction | 23/09/18 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Do You Even Realize How Your Voice Sounds To Women?A tool to get you better with women | /r/seduction | 25/01/18 03:16 AM |
| 1 | What is a good approach to tinder convos?Try to get to know them asap. That doesnt mean say whats up and lets kick it. Girls need to feel as if it was their decision to meet you. They also want to meet a gy who is witty for sure. I would say the average amount of back and forth you should send is around 12 total messages at MAX. After that you should go for the hang out. | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Asked a girl out in my class, but honestly I made myself seem pretty beta with bad texting mistakes and a small personal issue that was botheribg my self confidence. Better now though. Possible to make her see my alpha side?Seems like you are hyper focused on one girl which is not "Alpha". I would try and authentically try talking to other girls. Once you are at the point where you are compromising who you are for a girl then its pretty much over for you. | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 05:27 PM |
| 1 | OK to get drunk?Your drunk self will never be the same as your sober self. If you want to develop skills that stick then you will need to start to approach sober. If you just want a better chance at getting laid then go ahead and approach drunk | /r/seduction | 23/01/18 05:24 PM |
| 2 | Approached a lot last night, went home cryingHey man. I live in SD and I help guys with dating and confidence. Not saying this to get you to buy anything from me. Just saying PM me if you need to talk or meet up for coffee. I've been where you HAVE multiple times and I know how much it sucks. So much props for you getting out there and trying. As for some small advice. Just try saying whatever is on your mind more in interactions "I feel so awkward. I haven't approached girls in a while because my ex just broke up with me" It's refreshing … | /r/seduction | 01/01/18 03:36 AM |
| 1 | NEVER Worry About Rejection Again (EASY)SHAME, its a good vid | /r/seduction | 15/12/17 05:05 AM |
| 1 | What if you're kind of screwed up on the most basic level?I'd recommend seeing a therosit or mental health professional about all of this my man. There are some deep underlying issues that only a licensed pro can aide. | /r/seduction | 02/07/17 09:27 PM |
| 1 | What To Say When She Doesn't Respond (+Examples)Sounds Good!! Make it self-amusing | /r/seduction | 12/12/16 04:35 AM |
| 0 | How To Bumble Like A Boss (+Examples)Of course looks matter. I'm ignorant (most days). I talk about it in a vid, but looks aren't everything. I am very pragmatic about dating and attraction. Having bad looks can hold you back, but they can also serve to motivate you more to improve all other areas in your life. Thanks for the sub! :) | /r/seduction | 02/08/16 04:28 AM |
| 1 | How to be confident/show you worth it with coming off as a arrogant douche?The cockiness/confidence line is hard to walk, but I have asked hundreds of women what they would rather have... A shy, timid and humble guy Or A confident, leader who is cocky sometimes. Every single woman answers confident. Women only call a guy a douche or cocky as a shit test to see if it is manufactured or real confidence. | /r/seduction | 04/04/16 01:17 AM |
| 3 | 4 ways you can be better at sex right away...Great tips. All spot on. Too many people focus on the girl and don't let go. You have to lead her and show her its okay to be "primal" | /r/seduction | 04/04/16 01:15 AM |
| 1 | How To Get A Girl's Number When She Has A BFClearly none of you actually watched the video | /r/seduction | 02/12/15 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Losing faith in women, or, the trouble with successYou're on your journey man. I felt the same way awhile back. It is a point that only experts get to on their journey with women. Bask in it and realize that you are progressing and solidifying your standards. | /r/seduction | 26/11/15 03:58 AM |
| 1 | The Last Pick-up Line You Will Ever Need!You might be right. I don't live in your environment. What implications does viewing the world and people this way have on yourself? Think about it man. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 09:05 PM |
| 1 | The Last Pick-up Line You Will Ever Need!What is "a ton of game"? And I think by you saying my tactics are bullshit, you are completely missing the point of the video. You don't use 'tactics' or tricks. You are yourself! Have you really ever tried this? To be completely you and not care what others think? Girls are attracted to emotions. Looks are just one of the plethora of factors that evoke emotion in them. By the tone of your message I can tell that you are losing before you even try with girls. Give yourself more compassion man. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 06:50 PM |
| 1 | The Last Pick-up Line You Will Ever Need!Girls tear guys apart about things that the guy is insecure with. You deep down feel that because you lack a job and are in "bad" shape that you do not deserve a girl. Ultimately, it is up to you to perceive what is valuable and whether or not you can change your life. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 06:44 PM |
| 1 | The Last Pick-up Line You Will Ever Need!Have you really tried to be your 100% authentic self to someone? Especially a girl you like? Maybe it hasn't worked in the past so you are fearful to now. But I bet that if you really were then it would work for you. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 06:38 PM |
| 1 | The Last Pick-up Line You Will Ever Need!You are always thinking something. Why not express it? I was introverted for a majority of my life. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 06:37 PM |
| -7 | The Last Pick-up Line You Will Ever Need!As I have been saying to everyone. Looks aren't everything. They do play a role, I'll admit, but you can't let that hold you back. I cover it more in the book. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 08:33 AM |
| 1 | The Last Pick-up Line You Will Ever Need!That can be true, but you'd dramatically reduce the learning curve if you just when it vulnerable and real. I've used lines when I started out as well. So I get what you're saying. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 07:24 AM |
| 3 | The Last Pick-up Line You Will Ever Need!Thanks brotha! | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 03:55 AM |
| 1 | The Last Pick-up Line You Will Ever Need!Check out the free book if you want full "Notes" :) http://www.amazon.com/Social-Savant-Psychology-Transform-Authentic-ebook/dp/B015USACM2/ | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 03:54 AM |
| 2 | The Last Pick-up Line You Will Ever Need!Right! And then she thinks, "Wow this guy isn't trying to hard, he is actually normal" | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 03:53 AM |
| 1 | The Last Pick-up Line You Will Ever Need!Thanks. It makes things so much easier. | /r/seduction | 07/10/15 01:56 AM |
| 1 | Seduction in a club environment80% of communication is Non-verbal. Its not what you say. Just experiment with that thought in mind. | /r/seduction | 13/09/15 02:28 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about NoFap?100% yes. The people that get laid the most just want it more than others. That is how success works for most things. NO FAP gives you more motivation, polarization and persistence. I recommend trying it | /r/seduction | 13/09/15 02:27 AM |
| 1 | Master Notes (5 Years of information Unedited)!!!You are truly a saint | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 04:23 AM |
| 1 | Master Notes (5 Years of information Unedited)!!!Wow! Thank you for that. I'll edit the second one | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 04:00 AM |
| 1 | Master Notes (5 Years of information Unedited)!!!Who doesn't | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Master Notes (5 Years of information Unedited)!!!I would have had to delete more of it lol | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Master Notes (5 Years of information Unedited)!!!Thank man | /r/seduction | 25/07/15 03:59 AM |
| 1 | A seddit success storyGreat post man | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 07:24 AM |
| 0 | Notes I have found doing pickup2 is gold. I never thought of it | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 07:24 AM |
| 1 | Don't be afraid to approach hotter womenYea, girls that aren't as attractive have a lower self-esteem so they tend to question guys' motives when they are approached | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 07:23 AM |
| 3 | I am so proud of myselfCongrats man. The journey has only just begun | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 07:15 AM |
| 1 | [Discussion] Pickup: Art or Science?Any behavior can be broken down and analyzed as a "science". It is simultaneously both an art form and science. It is fluid and changing with the times and certain tenets of truth about social dynamics will never change (abundance, evolutionary drives, power). | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Handsome Shy Guy"I could care less about rejection" Then what is holding you back from just going up to a girl? A recent post on another forum site said how good-looking guys are at a disadvantage with women because there is an expectation for them to get results with women. The best advice I could give you is... Go up to girls and fail on purpose. Literally act stupid and blow yourself out of the water. This will tell your mind that it is okay to be rejected because I really think that is the issue. Explore wi… | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 08:18 PM |
| 1 | How does one go about building inner game and a positive life?Read and meditate | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 08:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] First F close since reading Seddit.tl;dr Congrats!!! | /r/seduction | 26/06/15 08:14 PM |
| 1 | A Novel Way To Flirt With Girls! (Tease them to have fun WITH them + Infield Footage)It is in California | /r/seduction | 25/06/15 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Should you hit on a girl with a boyfriend? Two types of guys that doWell said. To each his own | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Just got brutally rejected 14 times in a row, I feel pretty shiity right now...Breath...This isn't the end of the world. Look at your experience through a comical lens. Were they rejecting you or someone you were pretending to be? Be happy that you are taking action and let go of expectations | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 12:05 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop myself from being a try hard?Looking like a "try-hard" is a natural step as a beginner. Actions are more of the symptoms. The cause is beneath. Do you approach girls with the mindset that you are the prize that is offering something to them? You might have a vibe that you are needy. As an exercise. Next time you approach. Say to yourself. I am getting no numbers or make-outs W/E. All I am going to do is amuse myself. You'll be amazed at the results. | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 12:04 AM |
| 1 | I know too many people to daygame."Great game is like great plastic surgery. People won't even notice it." -Owen Cook. Try to make it more natural man. You can also try online game a lot more too. Don't worry about what others think | /r/seduction | 12/01/15 12:01 AM |
| 3 | Sometimes girls find me intimidating, what should I do?Smile more. Be more relaxed. Focus on breathing while talking to girls. Try listening and asking question more instead of talking yourself. Talking yourself builds the attraction. If you already have that then start asking questions more and build that comfort. Hope this helped | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 11:59 PM |
| 5 | Should you hit on a girl with a boyfriend? Two types of guys that doThe argument against it is that you will you will be obsessive over a girlfriend when you get one. If you come from a worldview that it is okay to hit on a taken girl then when you finally have a girlfriend, you will be more inclined to believe that she will cheat on you. You are also avoiding potential drama and aggression from a pissed off boyfriend. It is coming from the mindset that you should treat others how you want them to treat you. Good Karma essentially. :) | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 11:21 PM |
| 1 | A Paradigm Shift (Are We in The Community Emotionally Unstable?)I've read ethical slut. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 11/01/15 08:22 PM |
| 1 | A Paradigm Shift (Are We in The Community Emotionally Unstable?)It's all about ownership. We want to have control over other people's actions when that is next to impossible. You are ahead of your time in my opinion and I hope society catches up. That is why I am going to write a book on this. | /r/seduction | 07/01/15 08:35 PM |
| 3 | A Paradigm Shift (Are We in The Community Emotionally Unstable?)I think what you are doing is the "future" of our dating. People will have one "Wife", soulmate, etc. Then other people will just hook ups etc. More egalitarian and less jealousy=More love and less violence | /r/seduction | 07/01/15 12:42 AM |
| -3 | How An ABUNDANCE Mindset Will Solve Any Problem With AttractionVisit pinnacleofman.com for more | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 04:50 AM |
| 1 | A Therapist's view on Dating: A practical and evolutionary look into this paradigmThank you! Its interesting you ask that question. There are little to no books from Therapists on dating. Therapists are not taught much in the dating realm, but more on relationships. The best stuff out there comes from RSD in my opinion. Other than that, just research evolutionary causes to explain dating phenomena. With more knowledge comes power! | /r/seduction | 06/01/15 04:46 AM |
| 1 | A Therapist's view on Dating: A practical and evolutionary look into this paradigmIn this video I interview Nick Cordova who is a Marriage Family Therapist Intern. We discuss dating paradigms of @2:11 A Man's role in dating @4:30 Evolutionary reasons for approach anxiety @7:00 The fear of failure and being considered "creepy" @9:00 Social Conditioning's role of the "Fairy Tale" Narrative @10:00 Why "assholes" are good with women @12:00 Sperm Wars @16:00 What an Alpha Male is @18:30 What Attraction is @19:30 What Rejection is @21:00 What Manipulation is | /r/seduction | 05/01/15 07:12 PM |
| 3 | What It Means to Be A Man With WomenHAHAHAHA!!! | /r/seduction | 04/09/14 03:57 PM |
| 1 | What are your best ways to bait shit tests?You are focusing on tactics and routines. You are trying to use attraction tactics instead of BEING attractive. Just go up and believe that you are of high value and have fun. Then amp up the intent. Dont make things so complicated for yourself | /r/seduction | 25/06/14 06:59 AM |
| 1 | What are your best ways to bait shit tests?There is no "technique" to bait a shit test. Just being interesting and attractive will do that for you. Keep on working on Voice tone. Physicality etc and youll get more tests. You shouldnt be putting so much attention on shit tests to begin with | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 06:55 PM |
| 1 | How to handle a relentless guy trying to AMOG?Best way to reply is to go with the frame "Oh man you are soo cool. I mean look how awesome you are with those insults making girls giggle by whispering jokes in her ear." Also taje things as a joke. Dont be phased ever. As for that girl. Someone who enjoys watching others being picked on is lame. You should move onto another girl | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Don't let yourself shut down after a rejection!Nothing is more motivating than trying to prove who you think you are (A Successful Sexual Sedunctionist) | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 03:31 AM |
| 1 | The game got boring. What next, seddit?I suggest finding a women that is down for an open relationship and threesomes. This seems like it would appease your dissatisfaction. | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 03:26 AM |
| 2 | The truth about bad boys - not what you think.You are correct for some guys. But other men who do this know how effective it is and that is why they do it. These men are usually sexually adundant and indifferent towards most women because there is no challenge. Once there is a girl they like, they usually crash and burn. These guys also dont cold approach because their ego wont allow rejection. Interesting take on this type of guy though. | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 03:23 AM |
| 2 | I think that I am becoming addicted to seduction.This is common. Especially when you start to see success. Try to balance your life out man. Go on dates. Work out. Read a book (Specifically "A New Earth" by Eckhart Tolle) Write a blog. Attraction is not something you do. It is something you are. | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 03:18 AM |
| 1 | First cold approachs, rejected!Those were pretty soft rejections. Great work conquering that fear. Keep it up | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 03:14 AM |
| 1 | A Deep Look Into Why You Are Afraid of ApproachingWell said man. Everyone started somewhere. Keep it up | /r/seduction | 24/06/14 01:07 AM |
| 1 | How hard is doing cold approach in university?Girls are easier to talk to during the day. Their gaurds are down. | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Inconsistent when talking to girlsNot enough context to go on, but the guy who commented on state sounds about right. It could all depend on how hot the girl is, her ability amd willingness to hold a convo (its not all you) how tired you are, the situation you are in (confidence) etc etc. | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 07:22 PM |
| 3 | I don't think it can be overstated how effective "agree and amplify" is for disarming.Well said. Basically any reaction to a test is bad. You could say anything, as long as you are not. Fazed....I usually dont say anything and I just look at them and smile. Knowing exactly why they are testing me....They want me | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Going ut with a group of girls, smart?You are put in a situation to where you could falter or shine. Make sure you speak up and still hit on the girl. Dont fall into the "friend" frame. She just doesnt feel comfortable enough to do a one on one yet. Stick with it | /r/seduction | 22/06/14 07:13 PM |
| 1 | Im getting 'teased' for trying to learn?To put it simply they are hating on you. Friends dont like seeing you change because it doesnt fit into what they are comfortable with. You play a certain role that they are going want to stay the same. If they cant accept the new you then find new ones. | /r/seduction | 21/06/14 09:43 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Daygame field Report and some of my techniques.Solid approach man. You are taking great action | /r/seduction | 21/06/14 09:40 PM |
| 5 | Ex Girlfriends, self doubt and cuckolding.It is a common fetish for ppl who are cheated on. Once you find another girl it will fade away. Start getting with other women. You are normal man...Dont fret so much 😊 | /r/seduction | 21/06/14 07:01 PM |
| 2 | Women showing interest after I got into a fist fight? Are women turned on by violence?A woman wont outright enjoy you going around lookong for fights but evolutionarily woman are attracted to aggressive men because it shows alpha status | /r/seduction | 21/06/14 06:42 PM |
| 1 | What is your best crash course on picking up women?Just work on closing all of the time. Girls love Vegas bcuz they can get away with being a slut. Just isolate them and its game over | /r/seduction | 21/06/14 06:00 PM |
| 1 | 5 Tenets of Successfully Attracting a WomanJust follow these tips. Start approaching and you will naturally start to learn and get better | /r/seduction | 21/06/14 05:52 PM |
| 4 | How to improve conversations?Just say whats on your mind. You can literally say that you dont know what to say. Being authentic is what is most important | /r/seduction | 21/06/14 05:50 PM |
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