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The best talk show hosts that shows this balance of showing intent and not being needy is Craig Ferguson
/r/seduction06/05/20 05:51 PM
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Hey Dude, Thanks for the comment. Which clips were out of context? Of course not ALL men feel obligated to talk to all women However, across the past 15 years of being in and out of the community I have first hand seen other men and now currently clients I work with have the problems I discussed. I left plenty of Practical advice in the video. Did you watch all of it? Its not about "trusting" women in total. Its about understanding how your internal beliefs and models of the world impact the way…
/r/seduction05/08/19 03:40 AM
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How so? I agree with a lot of what RSD and other dating coaches say. I simply bring up the points that I disagree with and have learned that causes problems in the community
/r/seduction05/08/19 03:36 AM
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That's a good question to pose
/r/seduction04/08/19 09:40 PM
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It's actually okay to. It might be a brother, cousin, friendzone, or gay friend. Embrace awkward
/r/seduction31/07/19 07:22 PM
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Don't approach. Not worth it
/r/seduction30/07/19 04:12 PM
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Exactly. Well said
/r/seduction21/07/19 11:49 PM
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Thank you Sea God for your unyielding wisdom
/r/seduction03/07/19 09:11 PM
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Choose then???
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:03 PM
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Short and sweet. Just how I like my women
/r/seduction05/06/19 11:02 PM
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;-)
/r/seduction05/06/19 08:48 PM
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Cool! email me at pinnacleofman at gmail.com
/r/seduction02/06/19 05:36 PM
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The how is the long part haha. I would love to talk to you individually man. DM in instagram @joshhudsonmfti
/r/seduction31/05/19 12:43 AM
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I specialize in helping men your age find and keep their perfect ten. I would love to help you out. Just DM me
/r/seduction29/05/19 09:46 PM
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Yea man. Depends on what you are looking for.
/r/seduction29/05/19 09:43 PM
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Awesome man. The power of positive intent and masculinity
/r/seduction29/05/19 09:42 PM
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With shades of grey and other variables yes
/r/seduction19/05/19 05:55 PM
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Good one. I already wrote on a book on that topic haha
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:43 PM
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Haha, been in the game awhile man. I have plenty of ideas and videos already made. Nothing is wrong with getting added perspective you artard
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:08 AM
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Thank you
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:07 AM
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Great one! Women suck at advice giving on dating
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:06 AM
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Sure they want dominance, but only women with low-self esteem want to be treated badly. ​ You can be a leader that respects her...at least outside the bed :-)
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:06 AM
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For short term mating yes
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:04 AM
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Just be "nice"(aka completely submissive) to the girl, and she'll magically fall in love with you. Women don't like that. They would overtly say so
/r/seduction19/05/19 04:02 AM
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How a resurgence of old-fashioned ideas like we see in the book, The Rules, might have led to the PUA movement that we saw really kicking off in the late 90s and early 00s. How our ideas and expectations about love and wedding have changed drastically in the last 100 years. How people who've tried to escape relationship stereotypes by going "poly," have often become just as restrictive in their enforcement of their new rules. Most women wouldn't deny that, but they would also say "NICE"
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:57 AM
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WOW! I love the support. ​ My channel is here if you want to check it later ​ https://www.youtube.com/user/PinnacleOfMan
/r/seduction19/05/19 03:54 AM
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BLUE PILL thinking man. ​ Pickup or guys getting "better" with getting girls is seen as they are losers and should just know it or players that just want to get laid
/r/seduction16/05/19 07:49 PM
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Look at them in one eye and say nothing with a smirk. Think of doing sexual things to them when you do this. It creates arousal in you and her. Only use when isolated and comfort has been established.
/r/seduction15/05/19 09:57 PM
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Its all in your DOMINANCE frame. I can tell from your words alone that you are far too agreeable and nice.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:40 PM
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A lot of truth to this, but the HIGHEST caliber women will NEVER show that much interest and in order to get them (unless you're vastly successful) you must show some persistence IMO
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:39 PM
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Girls get busy man. You aren't the most important thing in her life. UNDERSTAND THIS ​ Also, you respond way too fast bro
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:38 PM
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Good for you man. Keep it going
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:35 PM
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What does that even mean. ​ Saw your other comments on posts man. Are you okay? I'm here to talk to if you aren't happy with you life.
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:33 PM
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WORD man
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:32 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/seduction15/05/19 07:32 PM
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Bahahaaha Judging someone based off of one post. You poor soul. I'll let you think what you want about my dating/relationship life So many assumptions, so little insight
/r/seduction15/05/19 01:17 AM
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True true
/r/seduction14/05/19 10:07 PM
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Word up bro
/r/seduction14/05/19 10:07 PM
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IDK WHAT YOU'RE TALKING ABOUT!!!!
/r/seduction14/05/19 10:07 PM
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Yea, sounds like you just need to have some closure around her man. That's all
/r/seduction12/05/19 05:32 PM
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TOUGH LOVE ​ Why shouldn't she judge you based off of what you convey on social media? She wants a high value man and if you are not conveying that then why should she like you? ​ Secondly, it sounds like you don't want a girl that is only into guys and there social media, isn't that good then that you dodged a superficial woman?
/r/seduction10/05/19 06:21 PM
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You have to build up your skills. Just enjoy the process and don't focus on it too much. It will come
/r/seduction10/05/19 06:19 PM
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She will interpret it however you do in your mind ​ It is just as likely that you made her wait to sleep with you because you are a high value guy ​ Get it?
/r/seduction10/05/19 06:18 PM
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All great advice, also should mention something small ​ -Challenge her a bit/make her qualify herself to you. (Is she good enough to be around you frame) ​ -Don't be too logical either, try to keep it light and fun. The girl will realize that you aren't looking for something serious, which means you are not LONG TERM guy mateiral ie, i won't sleep with you on the first date
/r/seduction10/05/19 06:17 PM
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TL;DR ​ But yes, not so much focusing that you accept them, but just a general self-acceptance is by far the most attractive thing
/r/seduction10/05/19 06:13 PM
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All great early lessons to learn my man. You are on the right path. Keep on going. ​ Its called a GAME for a reason (#3) :-)
/r/seduction10/05/19 06:12 PM
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When a girl smiles at you
/r/seduction09/05/19 07:09 PM
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BRO....They don't
/r/seduction09/05/19 07:09 PM
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BETTER TEXT ON THUMBNAIL BRO
/r/seduction09/05/19 07:09 PM
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TALK TO HER FACE TO FACE!!!!! ​ Say you think shes chill and want to get coffee with her or some shit
/r/seduction09/05/19 07:08 PM
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Reply to her stories sure but say, "I want to tell my dog hes adopted but I don't know how to break it to him?"
/r/seduction09/05/19 07:08 PM
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LITERALLY BECOME MORE BUSY. ​ CREATE A PASSION OR HOBBY
/r/seduction09/05/19 07:07 PM
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Bro, just go for it. You are scared of rejection. Worst case scenario you learn and feel great about going for what you want
/r/seduction09/05/19 07:07 PM
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Thats a limitation you put on yourself
/r/seduction08/05/19 07:16 PM
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DONT KNOW TIL YOU SAY WHATS UP
/r/seduction08/05/19 06:45 PM
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SHES NOT INTERESTED
/r/seduction08/05/19 06:44 PM
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ACCEPT WHAT AND WHO YOU ARE FOCUS ON WHAT YOU CAN CHANGE, WORKOUT, FIND YOUR PURPOSE FOCUS ON MAKING MALE FRIENDS FIRST THAT ARE COOL GUYS SEEK HELP VIA THERAPY
/r/seduction08/05/19 06:44 PM
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100 FUCKING % ​ Many attractive women don't date assholes. Its about not being A PUSHOVER. It means you are okay with friction and disagreement, but you don't need to seek it out
/r/seduction08/05/19 06:42 PM
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Focus on your bigger "WHY" Find a purpose or something that drives you in live that is bigger than women's validation
/r/seduction08/05/19 06:42 PM
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Bro, you can't. Just focus on whats in your control
/r/seduction07/05/19 11:49 PM
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There are things you do and thoughts you think that are holding you back
/r/seduction01/05/19 05:23 PM
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Dude, so much here to help with. DM if you are serious about changing things.
/r/seduction01/05/19 05:23 PM
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GOOD TO HEAR. Push yourself more
/r/seduction01/05/19 05:22 PM
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I make friends with the friends then tell them I am going to borrow their friend (Girl I like) for a sec then bring her back.
/r/seduction01/05/19 05:22 PM
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I don't do openers man. I just say whats on my mind. "You look cute and i'd regret not talking to you"
/r/seduction01/05/19 05:21 PM
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Love this, Great content!
/r/seduction01/05/19 05:20 PM
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There are deeper psychological reasons as to why you are this way at the core. There are no surface solutions to your issues. This means that you should actually see a therapist to go after the root of your low self-esteem. That's just my humble opinion being one myself and seeing how it changes people
/r/seduction12/04/19 01:21 AM
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Did you not watch him get rejected?
/r/seduction30/12/18 09:21 PM
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Talk to other girls
/r/seduction23/09/18 11:25 PM
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Use some empathy man. Women want an emotional connection often times before they open their legs. Maybe start to actually become interested in the girl, otherwise just go out at night
/r/seduction23/09/18 11:25 PM
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A tool to get you better with women
/r/seduction25/01/18 03:16 AM
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Try to get to know them asap. That doesnt mean say whats up and lets kick it. Girls need to feel as if it was their decision to meet you. They also want to meet a gy who is witty for sure. I would say the average amount of back and forth you should send is around 12 total messages at MAX. After that you should go for the hang out.
/r/seduction23/01/18 05:29 PM
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Seems like you are hyper focused on one girl which is not "Alpha". I would try and authentically try talking to other girls. Once you are at the point where you are compromising who you are for a girl then its pretty much over for you.
/r/seduction23/01/18 05:27 PM
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Your drunk self will never be the same as your sober self. If you want to develop skills that stick then you will need to start to approach sober. If you just want a better chance at getting laid then go ahead and approach drunk
/r/seduction23/01/18 05:24 PM
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Hey man. I live in SD and I help guys with dating and confidence. Not saying this to get you to buy anything from me. Just saying PM me if you need to talk or meet up for coffee. I've been where you HAVE multiple times and I know how much it sucks. So much props for you getting out there and trying. As for some small advice. Just try saying whatever is on your mind more in interactions "I feel so awkward. I haven't approached girls in a while because my ex just broke up with me" It's refreshing …
/r/seduction01/01/18 03:36 AM
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SHAME, its a good vid
/r/seduction15/12/17 05:05 AM
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I'd recommend seeing a therosit or mental health professional about all of this my man. There are some deep underlying issues that only a licensed pro can aide.
/r/seduction02/07/17 09:27 PM
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Sounds Good!! Make it self-amusing
/r/seduction12/12/16 04:35 AM
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Of course looks matter. I'm ignorant (most days). I talk about it in a vid, but looks aren't everything. I am very pragmatic about dating and attraction. Having bad looks can hold you back, but they can also serve to motivate you more to improve all other areas in your life. Thanks for the sub! :)
/r/seduction02/08/16 04:28 AM
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The cockiness/confidence line is hard to walk, but I have asked hundreds of women what they would rather have... A shy, timid and humble guy Or A confident, leader who is cocky sometimes. Every single woman answers confident. Women only call a guy a douche or cocky as a shit test to see if it is manufactured or real confidence.
/r/seduction04/04/16 01:17 AM
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Great tips. All spot on. Too many people focus on the girl and don't let go. You have to lead her and show her its okay to be "primal"
/r/seduction04/04/16 01:15 AM
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Clearly none of you actually watched the video
/r/seduction02/12/15 04:45 AM
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You're on your journey man. I felt the same way awhile back. It is a point that only experts get to on their journey with women. Bask in it and realize that you are progressing and solidifying your standards.
/r/seduction26/11/15 03:58 AM
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You might be right. I don't live in your environment. What implications does viewing the world and people this way have on yourself? Think about it man.
/r/seduction07/10/15 09:05 PM
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What is "a ton of game"? And I think by you saying my tactics are bullshit, you are completely missing the point of the video. You don't use 'tactics' or tricks. You are yourself! Have you really ever tried this? To be completely you and not care what others think? Girls are attracted to emotions. Looks are just one of the plethora of factors that evoke emotion in them. By the tone of your message I can tell that you are losing before you even try with girls. Give yourself more compassion man.
/r/seduction07/10/15 06:50 PM
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Girls tear guys apart about things that the guy is insecure with. You deep down feel that because you lack a job and are in "bad" shape that you do not deserve a girl. Ultimately, it is up to you to perceive what is valuable and whether or not you can change your life.
/r/seduction07/10/15 06:44 PM
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Have you really tried to be your 100% authentic self to someone? Especially a girl you like? Maybe it hasn't worked in the past so you are fearful to now. But I bet that if you really were then it would work for you.
/r/seduction07/10/15 06:38 PM
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You are always thinking something. Why not express it? I was introverted for a majority of my life.
/r/seduction07/10/15 06:37 PM
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As I have been saying to everyone. Looks aren't everything. They do play a role, I'll admit, but you can't let that hold you back. I cover it more in the book.
/r/seduction07/10/15 08:33 AM
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That can be true, but you'd dramatically reduce the learning curve if you just when it vulnerable and real. I've used lines when I started out as well. So I get what you're saying.
/r/seduction07/10/15 07:24 AM
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Thanks brotha!
/r/seduction07/10/15 03:55 AM
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Check out the free book if you want full "Notes" :) http://www.amazon.com/Social-Savant-Psychology-Transform-Authentic-ebook/dp/B015USACM2/
/r/seduction07/10/15 03:54 AM
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Right! And then she thinks, "Wow this guy isn't trying to hard, he is actually normal"
/r/seduction07/10/15 03:53 AM
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Thanks. It makes things so much easier.
/r/seduction07/10/15 01:56 AM
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80% of communication is Non-verbal. Its not what you say. Just experiment with that thought in mind.
/r/seduction13/09/15 02:28 AM
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100% yes. The people that get laid the most just want it more than others. That is how success works for most things. NO FAP gives you more motivation, polarization and persistence. I recommend trying it
/r/seduction13/09/15 02:27 AM
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You are truly a saint
/r/seduction25/07/15 04:23 AM
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Wow! Thank you for that. I'll edit the second one
/r/seduction25/07/15 04:00 AM
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Who doesn't
/r/seduction25/07/15 03:59 AM
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I would have had to delete more of it lol
/r/seduction25/07/15 03:59 AM
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Thank man
/r/seduction25/07/15 03:59 AM
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Great post man
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:24 AM
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2 is gold. I never thought of it
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:24 AM
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Yea, girls that aren't as attractive have a lower self-esteem so they tend to question guys' motives when they are approached
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:23 AM
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Congrats man. The journey has only just begun
/r/seduction21/07/15 07:15 AM
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Any behavior can be broken down and analyzed as a "science". It is simultaneously both an art form and science. It is fluid and changing with the times and certain tenets of truth about social dynamics will never change (abundance, evolutionary drives, power).
/r/seduction26/06/15 08:20 PM
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"I could care less about rejection" Then what is holding you back from just going up to a girl? A recent post on another forum site said how good-looking guys are at a disadvantage with women because there is an expectation for them to get results with women. The best advice I could give you is... Go up to girls and fail on purpose. Literally act stupid and blow yourself out of the water. This will tell your mind that it is okay to be rejected because I really think that is the issue. Explore wi…
/r/seduction26/06/15 08:18 PM
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Read and meditate
/r/seduction26/06/15 08:15 PM
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tl;dr Congrats!!!
/r/seduction26/06/15 08:14 PM
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It is in California
/r/seduction25/06/15 09:34 PM
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Well said. To each his own
/r/seduction12/01/15 01:19 AM
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Breath...This isn't the end of the world. Look at your experience through a comical lens. Were they rejecting you or someone you were pretending to be? Be happy that you are taking action and let go of expectations
/r/seduction12/01/15 12:05 AM
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Looking like a "try-hard" is a natural step as a beginner. Actions are more of the symptoms. The cause is beneath. Do you approach girls with the mindset that you are the prize that is offering something to them? You might have a vibe that you are needy. As an exercise. Next time you approach. Say to yourself. I am getting no numbers or make-outs W/E. All I am going to do is amuse myself. You'll be amazed at the results.
/r/seduction12/01/15 12:04 AM
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"Great game is like great plastic surgery. People won't even notice it." -Owen Cook. Try to make it more natural man. You can also try online game a lot more too. Don't worry about what others think
/r/seduction12/01/15 12:01 AM
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Smile more. Be more relaxed. Focus on breathing while talking to girls. Try listening and asking question more instead of talking yourself. Talking yourself builds the attraction. If you already have that then start asking questions more and build that comfort. Hope this helped
/r/seduction11/01/15 11:59 PM
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The argument against it is that you will you will be obsessive over a girlfriend when you get one. If you come from a worldview that it is okay to hit on a taken girl then when you finally have a girlfriend, you will be more inclined to believe that she will cheat on you. You are also avoiding potential drama and aggression from a pissed off boyfriend. It is coming from the mindset that you should treat others how you want them to treat you. Good Karma essentially. :)
/r/seduction11/01/15 11:21 PM
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I've read ethical slut. Thank you.
/r/seduction11/01/15 08:22 PM
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It's all about ownership. We want to have control over other people's actions when that is next to impossible. You are ahead of your time in my opinion and I hope society catches up. That is why I am going to write a book on this.
/r/seduction07/01/15 08:35 PM
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I think what you are doing is the "future" of our dating. People will have one "Wife", soulmate, etc. Then other people will just hook ups etc. More egalitarian and less jealousy=More love and less violence
/r/seduction07/01/15 12:42 AM
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/r/seduction06/01/15 04:50 AM
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Thank you! Its interesting you ask that question. There are little to no books from Therapists on dating. Therapists are not taught much in the dating realm, but more on relationships. The best stuff out there comes from RSD in my opinion. Other than that, just research evolutionary causes to explain dating phenomena. With more knowledge comes power!
/r/seduction06/01/15 04:46 AM
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In this video I interview Nick Cordova who is a Marriage Family Therapist Intern. We discuss dating paradigms of @2:11 A Man's role in dating @4:30 Evolutionary reasons for approach anxiety @7:00 The fear of failure and being considered "creepy" @9:00 Social Conditioning's role of the "Fairy Tale" Narrative @10:00 Why "assholes" are good with women @12:00 Sperm Wars @16:00 What an Alpha Male is @18:30 What Attraction is @19:30 What Rejection is @21:00 What Manipulation is
/r/seduction05/01/15 07:12 PM
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HAHAHAHA!!!
/r/seduction04/09/14 03:57 PM
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You are focusing on tactics and routines. You are trying to use attraction tactics instead of BEING attractive. Just go up and believe that you are of high value and have fun. Then amp up the intent. Dont make things so complicated for yourself
/r/seduction25/06/14 06:59 AM
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There is no "technique" to bait a shit test. Just being interesting and attractive will do that for you. Keep on working on Voice tone. Physicality etc and youll get more tests. You shouldnt be putting so much attention on shit tests to begin with
/r/seduction24/06/14 06:55 PM
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Best way to reply is to go with the frame "Oh man you are soo cool. I mean look how awesome you are with those insults making girls giggle by whispering jokes in her ear." Also taje things as a joke. Dont be phased ever. As for that girl. Someone who enjoys watching others being picked on is lame. You should move onto another girl
/r/seduction24/06/14 06:50 PM
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Nothing is more motivating than trying to prove who you think you are (A Successful Sexual Sedunctionist)
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:31 AM
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I suggest finding a women that is down for an open relationship and threesomes. This seems like it would appease your dissatisfaction.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:26 AM
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You are correct for some guys. But other men who do this know how effective it is and that is why they do it. These men are usually sexually adundant and indifferent towards most women because there is no challenge. Once there is a girl they like, they usually crash and burn. These guys also dont cold approach because their ego wont allow rejection. Interesting take on this type of guy though.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:23 AM
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This is common. Especially when you start to see success. Try to balance your life out man. Go on dates. Work out. Read a book (Specifically "A New Earth" by Eckhart Tolle) Write a blog. Attraction is not something you do. It is something you are.
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:18 AM
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Those were pretty soft rejections. Great work conquering that fear. Keep it up
/r/seduction24/06/14 03:14 AM
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Well said man. Everyone started somewhere. Keep it up
/r/seduction24/06/14 01:07 AM
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Girls are easier to talk to during the day. Their gaurds are down.
/r/seduction22/06/14 09:53 PM
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Not enough context to go on, but the guy who commented on state sounds about right. It could all depend on how hot the girl is, her ability amd willingness to hold a convo (its not all you) how tired you are, the situation you are in (confidence) etc etc.
/r/seduction22/06/14 07:22 PM
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Well said. Basically any reaction to a test is bad. You could say anything, as long as you are not. Fazed....I usually dont say anything and I just look at them and smile. Knowing exactly why they are testing me....They want me
/r/seduction22/06/14 07:17 PM
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You are put in a situation to where you could falter or shine. Make sure you speak up and still hit on the girl. Dont fall into the "friend" frame. She just doesnt feel comfortable enough to do a one on one yet. Stick with it
/r/seduction22/06/14 07:13 PM
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To put it simply they are hating on you. Friends dont like seeing you change because it doesnt fit into what they are comfortable with. You play a certain role that they are going want to stay the same. If they cant accept the new you then find new ones.
/r/seduction21/06/14 09:43 PM
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Solid approach man. You are taking great action
/r/seduction21/06/14 09:40 PM
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It is a common fetish for ppl who are cheated on. Once you find another girl it will fade away. Start getting with other women. You are normal man...Dont fret so much 😊
/r/seduction21/06/14 07:01 PM
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A woman wont outright enjoy you going around lookong for fights but evolutionarily woman are attracted to aggressive men because it shows alpha status
/r/seduction21/06/14 06:42 PM
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Just work on closing all of the time. Girls love Vegas bcuz they can get away with being a slut. Just isolate them and its game over
/r/seduction21/06/14 06:00 PM
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Just follow these tips. Start approaching and you will naturally start to learn and get better
/r/seduction21/06/14 05:52 PM
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Just say whats on your mind. You can literally say that you dont know what to say. Being authentic is what is most important
/r/seduction21/06/14 05:50 PM
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