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| 2 | FDS Users Are Mostly Low Social StatusSpent 3 years in a PhD program. Decided to pursue career and currently making 97k+. Bought a 2,200 sq ft house last year on my own and currently have a blue-collar boyfriend whom I adore. Low social status, my ass! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/04/22 01:01 PM |
| 13 | Dear Men: Your Opinion Holds No Value Here. Did We Fucking Stutter?I love this so much! The patriarchy and men’s opinions have been shoved down our throats since the beginning of time. So true! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 02:17 AM |
| 30 | “And stuff”Ew ew ew nothing dries me up faster than when a guy mentions “cuddling” aka code word for unattached, impersonal, shallow, no effort, quick sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 11:07 AM |
| 9 | I am officially deleting all my dating apps. This is the second time in two days that shit like this has happened to me. FUCK MEN!Also get the sense that he's filling up his time, maybe doesn't like to be alone and is flakey and impulsive too. I bet some women have put up with this behavior. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/20 03:59 PM |
| 17 | Red pill red flagsThese items fall nicely within narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) as well. I encourage you to do your own research on NPD. The tactics above are abusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/20 11:35 AM |
| 3 | Asking if I live alone in the first thirty seconds of getting to know a woman is creepy as shit. And this isn’t even on a dating site.I don’t ask but it usually comes out in conversation. It’s really unattractive if they have a roommate. I’d rather they drive a beater and/or live solo in a crappy but clean apartment than have to have a roommate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/07/20 11:40 PM |
| 27 | I chose to leave todaySame! For your own mental health, suggest counseling and most definitely blocking him so that you can actually, really, move on and forward with your life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 10:51 PM |
| 33 | He also told me he cheated on an ex but he was “just being a guy”Red flag. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 11:22 AM |
| 9 | Oh, so you thought you could hit me up last minute and try to make a “date” out of my errands? Enjoy being “free”cuz I’m not asking you out 😂this is so low effort and soooo unattractive! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/20 02:26 AM |
| 11 | How do you take care of hair ‘down there’?Agree with this. I prefer a close trim with clippers. | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/06/20 11:31 AM |
| 25 | Always keep your own savings, it’s for your safety.And don’t forget the pre nup! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Reminder: don't be anyone's free trialI like the idea of meeting his parents before sex. I just don’t want them to meet mine unless we’re engaged. That’s personal preference. I like to act like my friends and family have no clue about the guy, like I don’t talk about that stuff with them. Guys are usually like well I talk about you or I’ve talked about you to my friend/family. Usually I jokingly respond no way and laugh. And he’s volunteered a screenshot of a convo between friend/family. There’s a lot of things that we need to feel … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 06:37 PM |
| 12 | Reminder: don't be anyone's free trialI’ve never had a guy agree with me and then say let’s see other people afterward. I have had guys say, well I want to test drive and I’m like bye. Fds and The Rules say to have sex after he has said I love you. I’m not saying do it right then and there but make it known this is what it is when the subject of sex comes up. I’ve had guy say well You’re my girlfriend then. I’m like we will see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 05:56 PM |
| 113 | Reminder: don't be anyone's free trialHave the convo before sex. Lay it down with “I don’t have sex outside of a committee relationship”. If he’s like oh wow, that’s aggressive. Say “next”! If he’s like, same, me too. Say “glad we’re on the same page”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 01:33 PM |
| 22 | Can’t be an incel if I’m celibate willingly 😉 Looked at the profile and it’s actually a WOMAN who posts pictures of her boobs on gone wild subs. Pickme, much? Reported & blocked!We’re not incels. We have sex with hvm in committed relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/20 02:53 AM |
| 26 | What can men do to improve their physical attractiveness and not age like moldy cheese?Get their teeth fixed/straightened/whitened, watch their weight, wear good fitting clothes and wear a nice cologne. :) I personally don’t care about baldness, their car or if they’re 6’1 or higher. Those are things that can’t be helped. I only date guys who are well groomed and take care of themselves. | /r/askFDS | 28/05/20 01:22 AM |
| 23 | If you "aren't sure" if you should text him, READ this before you impulsively text him back. A step-by-step guide to deciding to text back or need strength to adhere to FDS principles...Agreed! My last ex had the excuse of "well, if we text every day, we won't have anything to talk about in person". Please. We don't have to have long drawn out convos, but a simple, "hey, hope your day goes well" is how simple it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 05:53 PM |
| 40 | Shut the F*** UpNope. Never argue or call names. A queen calmly states her wants and needs and lets it be. If he doesn't meet them or can't communicate in an adult manner- bye! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/05/20 05:16 PM |
| 13 | Older Women who hit their “sexual prime” post 30-: Has your libido legitimately gone up or do you think it was psychological thing?36 here and yes, never loved my body and looks more. I know how to eat and have proper nutrition, I can afford to dress how I want, get nice makeup, heels and go places. I feel like I think about it alot and when I'm in a relationship, I prefer it daily. In my 20s, I was overweight, couldn't afford the nice clothes and was physically /sexually insecure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/20 06:53 PM |
| 5 | Why FDS's high standards for vetting men are importantNo, that is not my intent. Women on the spectrum are MUCH different and less likely that they are narcissist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/20 12:54 PM |
| 12 | And that is on spotting red flags and not ignoring themJust found her on tik. She’s got some other hilarious ones too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/05/20 10:56 PM |
| 14 | Lesson learned: if you are lonely, it's better to adopt a pet than adopt a hobosexual LVMEw even this late 30s girl has dated this type. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/20 07:46 PM |
| 3 | For those who think that PPD men are all just fat slobsYou mean, meatheads? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/05/20 10:04 PM |
| 33 | Why do men feel the need to correct women all the time?I’ve seen studies that have also applied this to the workforce. Men apply and get jobs that they’re under qualified for (but believe they are). They also fight for pay increases that may not be deserved. While women undervalue themselves, apply to jobs they meet most expectations for. They will fight for raises but not aim as high as they should/could. Men aim too high. Women aim too low. If men lowered their unrealistic expectations, they’d probably be rejected by women less. If women aimed hig… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 08:50 PM |
| 6 | With online dating, I really recommend waiting a few days before giving a new guy your social mediaold enough to know better but I keep attracting LVM haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 01:12 PM |
| 29 | With online dating, I really recommend waiting a few days before giving a new guy your social mediaYep- they’re adding to their spank bank. If they ask for social media before we’ve met, I block/ignore them and talk to others. It’s gross. We’re not naive, we know what you’re doing. My besties, coworkers, and family are on my social, no you. You’re nothing and you haven’t yet earned any place in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 12:17 AM |
| 1 | When I was 16 I got my first bf (Q4redpillers)Why would you want to settle down at such a young age? Your goal should be to pursue your education/training to be independent. Then you could focus on finding a good mutual fit, compatibility and kindness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Should i block my ex pls helpI'm a pretty healthy person (had a great upbringing meaning that good, ethical, body positive/female forward behavior was modeled for me by both parents) and I thought I had dated guys who were misunderstood. Nah, I've been abusers, not the physical kind but the emotional, mental and narcissist kind. So I'm about to start it and as I flipped through it, I'm recognizing patterns of behaviors that i have noticed but thought...oh it's x, or y, or z. Nope. It's abusive and narcissist. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 04:30 PM |
| 2 | Should i block my ex pls helpThe Rules, Why men marry bitches, Why does he do that, The sociopath next door,.. and there's alot of resources on the wiki page https://www.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/wiki/index | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 04:23 PM |
| 5 | Should i block my ex pls helpAnd btw- read the FDS wiki and some of those books to learn more about the psychology of gender and relationships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:07 PM |
| 6 | Should i block my ex pls helpHow can you make room for someone new if you're letting him take up any space? I learned in therapy a long time ago, that if something/someone isn't healthy, good or adding value to your life, than let it go. He's an ex for a reason. Get through that ego by focusing on yourself, your desires, your goals. Your world is bigger and better. You are his ego boost and that's it. Men get off on attention. You've giving it to him. I've seen so many women waste years of their lives playing/keeping contac… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:06 PM |
| 2 | Should i block my ex pls helpew, no. He's a user and if you don't block, you will continue a very unhealthy pattern- plus not sure your future boyfriend will like this... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 03:03 PM |
| 18 | Should I expect a Mother’s Day Gift?This relationships sounds too casual for that expectation, unfortunately. He's a long distance boyfriend, at best. Now, if you were in a committed serious relationship where you lived together, he had bonded with your child and taken on a parenting roll, yes, he should/would take your older child out to pick out a gift to give to you for Mother's Day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/05/20 02:53 PM |
| 14 | Telling men that I don’t have a Snapchat saved my lifeThey use it for their spank bank. Never give a guy social media unless y’all have been in a few dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 08:05 PM |
| 157 | Whenever a man says something inappropriate and tries to pass it off as a “joke,” I like to ask him to explain the joke to me :)So unattractive.. why do they have to mention sex Or anything relating to sex in the first part of a conversation. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/20 12:16 PM |
| 2 | My Dad, a HVMNope, but I do agree with you that men who do go to strip Clubs are NVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 06:49 PM |
| 2 | My Dad, a HVMThey went on dates to honky tonks, not strip clubs. Apologies if it wasn’t clear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 12:14 PM |
| 3 | My Dad, a HVMMy mother cheated on my father during what I would call a mid life crisis. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:40 AM |
| 1 | My Dad, a HVMHe didn’t go to strip clubs ever. Where do you see that? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/05/20 11:38 AM |
| 12 | My Dad, a HVMMy mom has been unhappy with him for a long time. I think the weight was part of it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 10:21 PM |
| 24 | My Dad, a HVMSure. My mom is like a sweet Pitbull, you never want to cross her. :) Mom was never 100% invested in Dad (more like 95%) and it just made him want her more and work harder for her (whatever it was that she wanted). He definitely loved her more than she loved him. She didn't treat him like the "king of the castle" or anything like that. She treated him like a partner. I do remember her vocally boosting him up/complimenting him when he did stuff around the house or had a good idea. She always pull… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 09:43 PM |
| 35 | My Dad, a HVMWell, my grandparents were married in the 40s and a dad is from a strict farm family. There was work and school. It might be a generational thing. However, dad has told me that the best times, the highlight of his life, was being our dad, especially when we were kids. He said we were funny and always into something, mischievous, playing with animals. etc. Some people love parenthood. I think those that love parenthood are because it was modeled for them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/20 09:27 PM |
| 9 | How do I determine my value?Did you read the read of the wiki? Level up girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 07:44 PM |
| 18 | Media loves representing vulvas as fruit, and even more, they love promoting unhealthy hygienic practices that do more harm than help. Pussy tastes like pussy - and all you need to stay clean is some warm water. That’s my PSA for the dayI feel like women are overly sensitive with this thread- yes vaginas smell but it’s supposed to be a nice earthy human smell, not a sweaty infected yeast, assy smell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 10:50 PM |
| 15 | Media loves representing vulvas as fruit, and even more, they love promoting unhealthy hygienic practices that do more harm than help. Pussy tastes like pussy - and all you need to stay clean is some warm water. That’s my PSA for the dayThank you for putting this info. I’m a woman with 2 sisters and a circle of female friends and we don’t douche, we do use gentle soap on the outside parts and the rectal area. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/20 10:23 PM |
| 1 | HVM and HobbiesHobbies make us interesting even if they’re weird. What differentiates you from others? What brings you happiness? What are you into? I just can’t imagine a life without hobbies or endeavors, even if it’s a subject you’re reading about. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Fed up with a man child!I just wonder if the therapist was supporting this as a trial run- get your feet wet type thing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 01:47 AM |
| 8 | Have we labeled the anxious-insecure attachment type pickmeisha?This. How much of the whole insecure attachment style in a woman is a natural reaction to someone who is a bread crumbing sociopath and unhealthy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 01:42 AM |
| 35 | Quick Question Ladies... Is it ok if the person you're in a relationship constantly checks out other people when you're in public?Nope. I ended a first date because the guy checked out a woman that walked by. If you can’t give me your attention for an hour, then I’m out. There are plenty of men who will give me their full attention. I mean, how hard is it to wait until I go to the bathroom or something. It’s completely rude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/20 01:24 AM |
| 10 | Too busy? I tried to post this as a reply to another post about ppl not making time. I’ve heard the “I’m too busy” excuse too many times (this is reposted from r/memes)Ugh eff that. Mine, a committed relationship, went 3 1/2 days without texting me and couldn’t make time to see me more than once a week on the weekends, and we had been dating for 6 months! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/04/20 12:31 AM |
| 1 | Protect your energy and pay attention to the messages you consume via the media. Especially the music you listen to on your way to a dateSomeone add these to the fds playlist on Spotify! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 11:14 PM |
| 3 | It’s not always possible to have fast confirmation of low value behaviour. Which is why it’s important to vet and CONTINUE to vet throughout your relationship.It’s that 2-3 month mark when they’re off good behavior. Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/20 12:12 PM |
| 8 | It’s not always possible to have fast confirmation of low value behaviour. Which is why it’s important to vet and CONTINUE to vet throughout your relationship.I just posted about this earlier -are they lvm until proven otherwise? How long does the vetting last? You really don’t know someone at 3 or 6 months. I’ve seen some posts on here that say vetting lasts for a year. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 07:49 PM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered April 12 2020I’ve seen some say the vetting process should last from 3 months to 6 Months and even longer? How long does the vetting process last until you find out if he’s lvm or hvm. I get that you never really know someone. Edit* Should we just assume they’re all lvm until they prove otherwise. I feel like I meet men, sleep with them a few months In and while they are eager to commit and or tell me that they love me, they end up being emo unavailable, narcissists etc In 2-6 months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/20 12:58 PM |
| 9 | I used to think my boyfriend was HV but now I’m not so sure. I need to know if I’m being too harsh.Or mom or grandma or sister or a child he refuses to acknowledge | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/20 01:55 AM |
| 20 | A real winnerHahah gross | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/20 11:21 PM |
| 35 | Nice advice from a webtoon 😂I needed this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/20 07:08 PM |
| 12 | Cuddling with strangers during a pandemic 🤔 I have soooooo many messages like this. I’m just on dating apps for giggles at this point. They are cesspools of LVM. Usually out of relationships, on the rebound looking to get revenge because of the ex.Ugh yep been getting this a lot too. I actually said, so you’ve mentioned this twice, does this actually work for you? He goes, no, not really. I WaS jUsT Joking. Block. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 12:24 PM |
| 6 | #vanlife- is that code for #nojob?Bahahha! It’s okay. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 10:07 AM |
| 28 | #vanlife- is that code for #nojob?Just seems like men will run or avoid any responsibility- kids, child support payments, jobs, responsibility, commitment. I’ve dated guys that refused to have plants or animals because they couldn’t commit taking care of them. So unattractive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/20 01:34 AM |
| 2 | Finally! Not saying he’s hvm but nice to see a like minded male. They lie though. Time will tell.That’s how I approached it but I’m rethinking the strategy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 04:09 PM |
| -1 | Another one! Doesn’t make him hvm but time will tell.Lol share a screen shot that has a higher bar than this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Another one! Doesn’t make him hvm but time will tell.Hadn’t thought of that. I just thought I was being upfront with setting expectations early. I’m not so easily impressed. I won’t meet a quarter of the men that I talk to on these apps. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 11:03 AM |
| 3 | Finally! Not saying he’s hvm but nice to see a like minded male. They lie though. Time will tell.This is helpful- thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 11:00 AM |
| 2 | Finally! Not saying he’s hvm but nice to see a like minded male. They lie though. Time will tell.Oh. Gotcha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Finally! Not saying he’s hvm but nice to see a like minded male. They lie though. Time will tell.I have no expectations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 10:58 AM |
| 4 | Finally! Not saying he’s hvm but nice to see a like minded male. They lie though. Time will tell.I’m confused. I thought fds would say to weed them Out this way. How would this question be handled by both parties via fds perspective? Why would I want to meet up or continue talking to a guy who is only looking for hookups? 🤷🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:59 AM |
| 10 | Finally! Not saying he’s hvm but nice to see a like minded male. They lie though. Time will tell.How am I being defensive? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:56 AM |
| 15 | Finally! Not saying he’s hvm but nice to see a like minded male. They lie though. Time will tell.His response doesn’t mean I will sleep with him or even meet him in person. It guarantees nothing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 02:10 AM |
| 10 | Finally! Not saying he’s hvm but nice to see a like minded male. They lie though. Time will tell.I don’t tell them anything first. But I see what you’re saying. I feel like I weed out the guys who aren’t looking for anything serious but discussing this early on. I have about 8 guys who say they aren’t vs. the 1 guy who says they are. Time will tell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:52 AM |
| 20 | Finally! Not saying he’s hvm but nice to see a like minded male. They lie though. Time will tell.Not saying he’s Prince Charming or any thing. Guys lie. Time reveals all. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:50 AM |
| 5 | Finally! Not saying he’s hvm but nice to see a like minded male. They lie though. Time will tell.They do but I thought it was fds to ask them first to see what they say? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:17 AM |
| 7 | Finally! Not saying he’s hvm but nice to see a like minded male. They lie though. Time will tell.Why? I always ask them first. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/20 01:17 AM |
| 3 | “I’m just lookin for fun.”That’s what I’m saying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 04:42 PM |
| 32 | “I’m just lookin for fun.”Yeah I don’t even want to waste time getting to know someone. Either we’re looking for the same things or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/03/20 12:58 AM |
| 29 | Why are you a queen?I like this!! I’ll play. 10 things that make me amazing. I’m smart, take care of my skin and body, put effort into my appearance, keep my apartment clean, have a few 000s in my savings and investment account, adventurous, creative, open minded, emotionally healthy and successful in my career. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 06:55 PM |
| 11 | Why are you a queen?They love doing that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 06:52 PM |
| 3 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)Some trauma can’t be left behind because it will resurface later and in other ways. Positive thoughts your way. I would text her, she gave you permission to. There’s no better time than the now to start leveling up. Think of where you could be emotionally in 3 months? 6 months? Etc? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 11:28 AM |
| 9 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)No. Men like attention from women whether they’re attracted to them or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/20 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)Same and we dated for 6 months but he changed at 3 months. I’m upping my vetting game and it’s hard but I’m putting off sex. You really need to spend lots of time with someone 2-3 months before commitment and sex. Again, see multiple men so you don’t get attached. I turned down 3 dates that I had lined up when I met this guy. I’m just grateful I didn’t waste more than 6 months. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 12:13 PM |
| 7 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)You should continue seeing your school counselor and you should mention this to them. You have suffered trauma and in order to move forward to be healthy, you’ve got to address this. Your future self and life will thank you. You got this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 12:09 PM |
| 14 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)I wouldn’t break up with someone who lost their job but I would not let them “move” in. He can start working on a home life with you when he’s stable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)He sounds kind of lvm with trying to make you jealous. Have you read the fds sidebar? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 12:03 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)Download Marco Polo - I send my besties messages all through out the day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 12:02 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)Everyone has different types but men are driven by ego. He was stringing you along for his own ego. Thank god you didn’t waste more time on him. Focus on yourself - did you read the fds handbook? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/20 12:01 PM |
| 1 | This is all it takes, gentlemen. He read my profile and created a great message.Whooooooa, Nelly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:45 PM |
| 6 | This is all it takes, gentlemen. He read my profile and created a great message.Yeah, just trying to show an example of effort. Nothing else. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:45 PM |
| 5 | This is all it takes, gentlemen. He read my profile and created a great message.Yep, only time will tell if he’s a hvm or a lvm but for this message, I appreciate the effort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 03:44 PM |
| 99 | This is all it takes, gentlemen. He read my profile and created a great message.And yes, he will get a thoughtful response and some of my attention. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Wow! Tinder doesn’t disappoint!Out of all the things in the world to say.... bye Lvm. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/20 01:40 AM |
| 11 | Don't tell him you love him firstI think 6 months but I have a history of dating emotional unavailable men so idk. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 02:07 AM |
| 8 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered (March 23rd 2020)Ex is already on OkCupid. I’m confident he saw me. If he doesn’t have time to date me, how does he have time to date anyone else? We broke up because he couldn’t give me more than once a week when we were in a 6 month committed relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/20 12:10 AM |
| 1 | A nice honest pictureOk Cupid | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 01:27 PM |
| 8 | A nice honest pictureOmg I love this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 01:31 AM |
| 9 | Broke up with my boyfriend- ready to launch fds full throttleYep. I didn’t know at first. And things were harder and he didn’t react the same way a NT would have. I tried to make it work because aspie men are loyal and they don’t lie. But we couldn’t communicate and he wouldn’t make time for me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 12:11 AM |
| 17 | A nice honest pictureNothing optimis about this. More like scrotus avoidtus. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/03/20 12:08 AM |
| 3 | Broke up with my boyfriend- ready to launch fds full throttleSo I’m getting mad messages from scrotes now. Where can I post them? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 08:14 PM |
| 29 | Broke up with my boyfriend- ready to launch fds full throttleYeah. He was surprised when I told him I got him a gift (less than $30). He didn’t care if he spent Xmas day or New Years with me or not. To him; they were just other days. To me, they were holidays meant to be spend with your loved ones. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 04:36 PM |
| 12 | Broke up with my boyfriend- ready to launch fds full throttleDefinitely and I could have done a better job or keeping up with the shedding hair. However, he knew I had a dog when we began seeing one another. I didn’t know he was not a dog person. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/20 04:35 PM |
| 6 | Feminine Hobbies?Painting and I do ceramics at a local non profit for a Nominal monthly fee. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/03/20 05:25 PM |
| 23 | On Monday I had a great second date with a guy who lives 20 minutes away. Today he cancelled our plans he claims because of the virus? I call bullshit.One of my gal pals cancelled brunch with our group. Totally not like her. She’s super adventurous. The virus has a 10 day inclination period. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/20 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020That’s what I’m saying! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 03:48 PM |
| 2 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020He’s tired and says my bed is too hard. Uhg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 11:24 AM |
| 11 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered 3/7/2020I want to breakup with my boyfriend of 6 months this week. He’s got some good qualities but he doesn’t text/call Me every day, says he can’t commit to future plans because of his work and that he’s an extrovert(social stuff wears him put). he tries to get out of staying the night because my bed isn’t comfortable to him. Any hot blooded man would beg to sleep next to me. He complains about my dog’s hair, she sheds, so what. He only sees me when it’s convenient for him and he’s not affectionate wi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/20 01:45 AM |
| 5 | Low budget beauty tips?Vaseline | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/03/20 02:06 AM |
| 6 | Me and my impossible standards. If only I was hot AF I could get a man.Hahah haha! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 01:27 AM |
| 7 | A follow up of sortsAgreed with therapy- that’s what it’s for- these temporary rough patches. Your ex wasn’t the man for you, he couldn’t be the man that he needed to be. Just know that mourning your relationship and the ex as a person are normal. Do things that make you happy, every day. Read self help books. Stay busy. Get through school and spend time with friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:55 AM |
| 3 | Strawpoll: How many men (in percentage) do you believe are HVM, worthy of an exclusive, monogamous relationship?That’s what I wanna know. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/20 12:45 AM |
| 10 | Me and my impossible standards. If only I was hot AF I could get a man.I love me some dad bods but that’s me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 11:33 PM |
| 12 | Making this thread to prove male shallowness: What physical features you have no control over has a man criticized on you before?First boyfriend told me I had too much skin, I was 16 in high school and I weighed about what I do now. I used to be a hairstylist, plus I love in Texas, so I like big hair. I regularly back comb my hair, 60’s Style because it lasts for days and it’s voluminous. Current boyfriend says he prefers my hair curly, natural and less “frizzy”. I told him I liked it and this was me. Idk why men feel like they have the right to comment on women’s appearance but I have to admit- I did tell him to trim his… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 11:29 PM |
| 15 | MusicSomeone made a female dating strategy on Spotify. https://open.spotify.com/user/21yo5qm7rzpnicaqlbgjnt6ei/playlist/2tQGzxeUeuVVFYgiExaaoo?si=3v4Yqe6IRLSTdpUyd-mHAg | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 01:04 PM |
| 36 | Yes they do...The minute you show COLDNESS.Truly is. I’ve been on the fence with breaking up with him for atleast a month. Like all you have to do is be kind, be open, and make a freakin effort. Effort! Ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 12:37 AM |
| 83 | Yes they do...The minute you show COLDNESS.Boyfriend of 6 months hasn’t been as attentive and kind as he usually is. I cancelled our mid week dates and started working harder at work and delving deeper into my hobbies. He’s all of a sudden texting me more, calling me asking how my doctor appointment was and sending me photos. I hate men. This is a new relationship. Haven’t decided if It’s worth it or not. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/20 12:20 AM |
| 1 | I’m having major problems with too much feelings too soon. How do I limit these feelings for those who deserve my affections?Ah! I feel like this is me too. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/20 01:37 AM |
| 25 | So... giving this one personal information (that he claims to not care about) would make me REAL aka a Pickmeisha! He can miss me with that BS.Yep and very insecure. Doesn’t want competition. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/20 12:58 AM |
| 33 | The golden pussyHelen of Troy- the face that sailed a thousand ships | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/20 11:26 PM |
| 2 | LVM Starterpack:Needs a beard on his neck | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/20 07:30 PM |
| 5 | Join FemaleDatingStrategy's buzzing Discord community! We maintain an active server where we talk about FDS essentials, how to become a high value woman, and other fun topics. Be a part of the FDS sisterhood now!How is discord different from Reddit? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:58 AM |
| 12 | Talk me down!!I’ve had to use this twice and it works like a charm! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/20 01:38 AM |
| 5 | 20 dark psychological tactics undercover LVM will use to manipulate you into thinking they’re seriousWho is this guy? I’ve seen these tactics over and over again but I like the way he explains them so I can prepare for combat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 02:28 AM |
| 3 | What FDS principle has helped you the most?Where is this rule at? I haven’t seen it. :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/20 01:54 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, don't fall for these lies. He sent this over an hour ago and still no pics up? You're supposed to post pics and fill out your profile BEFORE you start messaging people. He's in a relationship or butt ugly. I guarantee it. I immediately blocked. Also, I am 39. What wall?Married or bald or fat or bad teeth or no teeth! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:07 PM |
| 32 | Moderator help!We could also do an annual conference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 01:58 PM |
| 13 | Moderator help!Or maybe a travel network? I’m in Dallas, Texas USA and would definitely play your guide to any fds members. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 01:57 PM |
| 37 | So he waited 4 days to tell me he’d gained like 40 pounds. He sent me this along with an updated photo after organising a date with me for tomorrowIf the tables were turned, he’d cancel on you in a heartbeat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:30 PM |
| 2 | Just my personal observation of IUD and sex cultureI don’t like condoms and I like the way skin on skin sex feels. My current boyfriend and I both got std screens, -my idea, and I got an iud so that I can have the kind of sex that I want. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 11:46 AM |
| 15 | Rich guys & skinny girlsYep! Men cheat on beautiful, thin, woman all the time! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 01:21 AM |
| 3 | Squirtmeisha: Used on/off in FWB for four years, dumps LVM, lets him back in a year later.It’s pee. It’s urine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/20 12:53 AM |
| 17 | Squirtmeisha: Used on/off in FWB for four years, dumps LVM, lets him back in a year later.Omg this! If I see one more post about a girl Saying she squirts and it’s natural And not pee, I will lose it! It’s pee. You’re peeing. It’s not normal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 02:08 AM |
| 15 | I don’t know about you, but I’m proud knowing I’m not being used as anyone’s “plate”.No man is going to spin me. He can properly and respectfully date and court me. Wonder what their moms would think about them calling women plates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/20 01:05 PM |
| 16 | FDS works and I’m bummedHe did you a favor and ended it with grace so you can move on to find the right fit. It’s admirable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 12:55 AM |
| 4 | Just called it off with the guy I'm seeing. Did I do something wrong?Yas! This is what I was thinking. Imagine that her future Could be with this immature LVM who “isn’t ready” Or “doesn’t know what he wants.” He was keeping her as a placeholder. eff that! Life is too short! Move on to the next men, hopefully the batch holds atleast 1 HVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/20 12:51 AM |
| 6 | All I did was ask him what his does for a living. That was my second message and he sent this 🚩🚩🚩Second what they are saying. He’s basically saying “I may not be super successful but my family is and that, by proxy, also makes me successful”. Pathetic. Just be honest and upfront. Your family member’s accomplishments are not your own, scrotastic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/01/20 12:45 AM |
| 9 | Want to block pesky LVMs from PM'ing you on Reddit? Here's how!Ugh. Men are so ridiculous! Evidently, they don’t have enough places for their “voices” to be heard. These men messaging fdsers are pathetic butter bullies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 11:10 PM |
| 17 | Straight to degradationMusicians = poor | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 11:03 PM |
| – | Self CareWeekly face masks and salt baths. Caffeine free tea in the evenings. Lighting a scented candle (circle e) | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/01/20 05:51 PM |
| 9 | Getting DMs from angry guys 1 day after joining this sub.I don’t understand why this guy feels entitled to contact you about it. Like, okay, this sub strikes a nerve with you, fine. But no need to lash out at us for it. I don’t know about y’all but I have never reached out to anyone who has the opposite of my political beliefs (in America) to defend, insult, bully etc them. It’s pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/20 01:46 PM |
| 15 | Just a rantMen can’t be alone. Being single is uncomfortable for them but promise you, the same issues you experienced, their new partner/gf/spouse will also experience. Her problem now. A leopard can’t change its spots unless they go through extensive counseling (but men rarely do this). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/20 12:49 AM |
| 1 | I created a Spotify playlist with all your recommendations.Can’t wait to listen to this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/20 01:35 AM |
| 20 | Idk why anyone would immediately send you this and then think you would want a relationship with themMakes me think of some lonely mid 20s guy who only interacts with women online or via text. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 02:12 PM |
| 5 | So do women communicate what they want in bed or not?Women provide feedback when they feel Safe enough to provide feedback. Some men are so aggressive in their attempts to please, women are afraid of upsetting them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/20 02:09 PM |
| 6 | Boyfriend cheated... where did I go wrong?Yes! Past behavior is the best indicator of future behavior. Dump, block and move on. There are loyal men out there. Don’t waste another second on this damaged guy. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 01:50 PM |
| 16 | Boyfriend cheated... where did I go wrong?Not about you being better than her, he’s a lying narcissist loser child who took advantage of you, and her. Men will take what they can get where they can get it. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/01/20 01:48 PM |
| 5 | I FINALLY ENDED THINGS!!God help the future girls in his path. If he’s doing this at 27, imagine what he will be doing in his 30s and 40s. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 01:43 PM |
| 10 | I FINALLY ENDED THINGS!!I would tell your management that if he comes back again, you’d like to call the police and/or they need to escort him out. I hate that he felt like he could harass you at work for a stupid petty lame ass hoodie and a hot dog. That’s sooo petty. How old is he, 13? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/20 02:44 AM |
| 19 | Jobs that can be green flags?Some Nerdy jobs in computers, it, security, telecom, design and maybe medical profession. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 01:12 AM |
| 9 | What are the jobs you consider a red flag? Why?Same reason as pilots except they’re around a lot of young folks and like to power trip. I was a phd student and saw this at numerous universities. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/01/20 12:49 AM |
| 14 | What are the jobs you consider a red flag? Why?Yep yep. The thing is, is that certain personalities (disorders, narcissism, psychopathy) are drawn to certain occupations. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:13 PM |
| 57 | What are the jobs you consider a red flag? Why?Bartenders, pilots, photographers, doctors, massage therapists and probably professors and coaches. I would avoid them all like the plague. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 02:07 PM |
| 2 | When a guy says "you're lucky you're cute"I say this to my bf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 01:51 PM |
| 5 | How do you ladies view cohabitation?Yeah, I’m leaning more and more towards this. Moved in with my last ex at 9-10 months. Turns out he didn’t renew the lease, had debt and decided he was moving to another town within 3 weeks of my moving in. Finding an apartment in Dallas is hard, most have 1-4 Month waitlist. He left me high and dry, broke up with me via text message and then blocked me. I was stunned. Called my family and friends, they packed me up the next day, put my stuff in storage and got an apartment in 3 weeks! I just do… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 04:03 AM |
| 26 | Guys with relationship memes all over their social media..thoughts?Makes me think they’re needy and obsessive about relationships. I have a fb friend who posts stuff all the time and he goes through women/fb official relationships like socks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 03:57 AM |
| 1 | ResourcesDo you have more fds friendly podcasts? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/20 03:42 AM |
| 4 | Own Your Shit Weekly - December 31, 2019Love the way you handled that with your son! Great parenting! Wish more would set and keep boundaries like this with their kids. | /r/MarriedRedPill | 31/12/19 01:43 PM |
| 6 | Struggling to build attraction for HVM. Advice?This is what I was going to say. What is drawing you to unhealthy situations? This is what therapy is for. I realized I attracted narcissists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/19 01:28 AM |
| 1 | How much contact?Well, I spent the weekend with family so I think he was being considerate. I didn’t ask him a question, I sent him pics or my replica work and nothing... Until 24 hours later which I am sooo proud of myself for not texting. I still didn’t respond and then later on yesterday evening he asked if I was alive and if I made it home safely. I waited a few hours and sent a short response. Funny. Woke up to a text from him today. He takes me out, cooks/serves me meals, flew in to spend thanksgiving with… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:21 PM |
| 2 | How much contact?Yep. Exclusive. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/19 02:33 AM |
| 7 | My Embarrassing Wake Up StoryVery proud for you! The world is your oyster. Know your worth. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 03:01 PM |
| 8 | F*ckboy Defense 101This is brilliant! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 02:49 PM |
| 11 | I think I'm learning their code...Queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/12/19 03:10 AM |
| -9 | Top 116 Posts of Female Dating Strategy are MemesNah, y’all call each other “captain” | /r/MGTOW | 28/12/19 09:17 AM |
| 1 | Do you find the rugby player physique sexually attractive?I love dad bods! A little bit of a belly to cuddle into. I like a little bit of meat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/19 03:53 PM |
| 18 | "Women never give a chance to the ugly guys" How does it happens that the ugliest guys are always the ones with "open to non-monogamy" in their profiles? He said he is manly looking for friends. But he went out of his way to delete the "friend" option on his profile and leave "non-monogamy"Neck beard alert! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/19 03:19 PM |
| 2 | what's not to like about xmasIs this your mom’s house? | /r/MGTOW | 26/12/19 12:20 AM |
| 10 | Maintaining FDS in a committed relationshipI can see that. And I stopped at initiating, he didn’t make plans with me to see me for Xmas either. He’s having dinner with his family and working (yes, working during the holiday, he’s next to top in the company and everyone took a vacation so he’s expected to take their workload). It annoys me that he’s not making more of an effort to see me. We will see. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 10:56 PM |
| 14 | Maintaining FDS in a committed relationshipWhat is wrong with them? Ugh. We’re y’all committed and exclusive? I wouldn’t play with that either. Put time into you and then not land you for NY? I honestly think my bf just assumes that we will end up seeing one another but there needs to be effort. Effort! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/19 10:53 PM |
| 11 | Dating Report: W/E 15th December, 2019Screw Carlos! Gross. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/19 01:27 AM |
| 3 | Guy im dating just SHOWS up out of nowhereIf it happens a lot and interferes with work etc; it’s kind of like stalking I think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/19 11:44 PM |
| 5 | Should I cancel my date with him?Eh, see where it goes and report back. 😈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/19 02:48 AM |
| 5 | Where to find HVM?Met my guy on okcupid. Spent years on paid sites meeting narcissists. Some guys prefer free sites because they already pay for the date. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/19 06:40 PM |
| 1 | How do you find girlfriends or serious hobbies?If you’re artistic, look up Makerspaces or hackspaces where you can make things. I do ceramics and love it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 12:27 AM |
| 1 | Whats the best course of action when a girl thats into you tells you she likes to take things slowChick here, who studies gender persuasion and seduction. This times 10! | /r/seduction | 16/11/19 03:40 AM |
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