Hi Ladies

I am new to the sub, so I’m sorry if this has come up before or if I am breaking any rules. I have taken a look at the Female Dating Strategy Ideology and while I completely agree with rule 2, I am needing help understanding and internalising it.

Rule 2 states: “if a man isn’t chasing you, he’s not that into you. A man’s role is to be the pursuer, the one to convince you that he’s the right man for you. As a woman, you don’t have to prove yourself to him. He either sees your value or doesn’t. The only thing that’s within your control is working on becoming your best self”.

Please can someone expand more on this? I wholeheartedly agree, but am currently suffering with self belief issues. Please can some explain my value?