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QUEEN SH*Tkimadoll/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 04:12 AM
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Whether it’s the first or third, a child won’t be as exciting for him as it is for you. Men don’t love their children the way mothers do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 04:41 AM
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And the women who put other women down are other PickMes. When it comes to men, they are always ready to defend their gender no matter what.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 07:22 PM
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Good job, love. Let the trash take itself out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 03:38 AM
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Queen 👑🥳
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:59 AM
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What is sad here is the women who are taking the sorry excuse for a father’s story as being true and are quick to judge his daughter. Looks like FDS doesn’t think he’s the asshole either. 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:37 AM
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And he knows all this information about how she is with her boyfriends, how? Lol it sounds like bullshit. I could be wrong but I don’t know any dad who knows the half of what goes on in his daughters’ relationships nor do daughters typically “spill the tea” with their dads... Where is he getting this information from and why does he feel the need to trash his daughter’s name on Reddit? He’s the asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 01:07 AM
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Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 11:42 PM
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Gross
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/05/20 02:19 AM
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Awww precious. Happy Mother’s Day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/20 12:45 AM
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I get it. We are conditioned to give the benefit of the doubt, make excuses and settle for crumbs when it comes to men. It takes time to unlearn this behavior. I just want to remind you (along with the other women here) that you deserve better. You’re sitting here wondering about him while he doesn’t care at all even to send you a tiny text. You deserve a man who wonders about you and makes time for you just as much as you do for him and then some. And the bar for men is set so low that I defini…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 09:17 PM
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The beginning is when a man is supposed to go out of his way to impress you, it is not the time to be “giving him chances”. It’s only downhill from here. You’re going to be happy to hear from him once he decides to make time to text you? Why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 08:33 PM
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What trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 06:24 AM
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If you’re already wondering if he will cheat on you at the first sign of trouble, why stick around to find out? Next him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 10:05 AM
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Absolute queeennnnnn
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 09:00 AM
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Queen
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:44 AM
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It’s the child’s MOTHER!!! Any mom who lets and helps a man harm her child is JUST as bad if not worse. Parents are meant to protect their children. & I’m sure that knowing that her own mother allowed this to happen is what will be the hardest of all for this child overcome. Poor baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:31 AM
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He’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 04:09 AM
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I’m gonna agree with you. It does matter if friends, family, loved ones of your SO likes you and you like them as well. If they don’t/you don’t, then it does cause trouble and unhappiness in relationships. Of course, they don’t need to “love you” or be your best friends, but it should generally feel comfortable and friendly when you’re around his people. I would hold off until you feel more comfortable and you feel you would be able to see the two of you being happy together going forward. Meeti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 03:57 AM
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Please, don’t give your future children two last names. It is the worst.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:21 AM
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Omg my ex would wipe after he pees. I told him how gross it was that men don’t wipe so he started doing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:12 AM
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Anytime I have gotten into a conversation with a man about porn, they always want to tell me it’s not wrong, not cheating and not real. But when I ask if they would be okay with being in a relationship with someone who does porn...all of a sudden it is wrong, it is cheating and it is real. Funny how that works.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:59 AM
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The fact that she considers keeping it a secret for him, to protect him!!! I’m sure he could smell that a mile away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 10:45 AM
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You never need to leave with fair warning...it’s not wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 07:41 AM
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Weird flex tho 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 01:16 AM
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Why make a burner account? It’s going to be obvious who is messaging her, is it not? Are you blocked by them or something? I would honestly stay out of it. Are you going to hunt down every woman he ever dates or tries to date after you? If she reaches out to you then that would be different but it’s not your job to worry about what he is doing or who he is doing it with. If this other woman is smart & has standards for herself then it won’t take long to figure out for herself what type of guy sh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/20 04:28 AM
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Sounds like he couldn’t afford to have a wife and another child. Sounds like a him-problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:52 AM
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Why are you posting this 💩?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/04/20 02:44 AM
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Wow, well said!!! If someone is going to have a “hobby” then at least be good at it and do something productive. But I am with you on not being a hobby person.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 05:07 AM
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Love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/04/20 04:00 AM
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She starts by explaining how great their sex life normally is but, in my mind, it just sounds like she already knows people will accuse her of not being sexual enough for him (as a way to blame her) so she’s trying to defend herself before she gets to the sexual assault part of her story. And then she goes on to explain how they are both normally okay with the other person feeling uncomfortable with a sexual act...But,to me, it sounds like she is trying to defend or make an excuse or exception f…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 10:06 AM
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Oh my gosh, I want to hug her too! I’m so proud of her for the way she handled it like a true queen and was there for her mom. I agree that moms should tell the truth about LVM fathers. My biodad was barely in my life and would only try to contact us if he was missing my mom or if he was locked up in prison because he had no one else to speak to. As a small child, of course I was always so excited anytime I would hear from him. But as soon as I hit preteens I was over him. My mom never spoke bad…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:26 AM
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She has to take the pill so he needs to pay for it, THAT is 50-50. Not even 50% because he inseminated her and she is the one who needs to take the risk of adverse affects from the pill... If he does not want to do his small part of footing the bill then pay it yourself, ladies, right after you break up with his sorryass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:08 AM
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I’ve had a few conversations with men over the years that goes a little something like this... Him: You must date some real assholes, huh? Me: What? Why would you say that? Him: Because only an asshole would have the balls to try to shoot his shot with you. Me: Hmm, that actually explains a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 07:05 AM
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Thank u, next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/04/20 05:47 AM
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Queen!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:19 PM
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Yup, I understand that. It’s not about judging her, it’s about how women will really stop to consider accepting this treatment when we all know how insane it would sound for a woman to ask a man to do the same. Completely different standards. Imagine a woman telling her husband, “Hey, honey, you hold down the house and children by yourself 5 days a week while I’m out banging other men, but you can’t have sex with anyone besides me. Only I get to fuck around. No worries though, I’ll maybe be back…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:50 PM
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Aww I hope he proves himself worthy to hold your hands, sis. 🙏🏽💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:39 AM
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Aww, I hope you’re okay. I’ve had two so far and it was horrible. I hope your first relationship is with a HVM who makes you feel it was worth the wait. 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 08:39 AM
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It’s not high value. Just bare minimum common decency. Not saying he’s not high value but it takes more effort than that to give him that level of status.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 07:58 AM
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Same. Even though I’ve only been in two relationships, they were both long term. I’ve been in a relationship since early teens. It’s my first time since childhood that I am truly single and I feel very much like I’ve wasted a large portion of my life by dedicating it to unworthy men. I feel like I don’t know who I am. I feel like Runaway Bride, a woman who’s identity was adapted to and revolved around the men I had been with. I never got to develop as my own individual person. I am regretful of …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 06:33 AM
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He is telling you upfront that he is only seeking friendship from you. If friendship is not enough for you, then you should let him go. Don't keep talking to him in the hopes that things will change or else it will be a massive waste of time and waste of invested emotion on your end. Accept it for what it is and make your decision. Do you really want your first relationship to be long distance with a man who doesn't even live in the same country as you anyway? What would you gain if he gave you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:22 AM
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no.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 05:15 AM
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He's trash, but it makes me feel hopeless that it's the norm for women to question if they should put up with/accept this treatment from men instead of immediately leaving them. Why have standards at all? What's the point?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 02:51 AM
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As soon as my boobs started coming in at age 12, grown men would hit on me and tell me how much older I look. Now then I am a grown woman, men hit on me by telling me that I look like a teenager. So gross. I hate men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 06:37 PM
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It doesn’t matter what other people think. You get to set your own standards and boundaries. Live life the way you want to, in the way that makes you happy. You don’t have to tolerate anything you don’t want to just because other people do or think you “should”.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 07:05 AM
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Sounds like he has a short... temper... 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:45 AM
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I’m with you. I understand it’s due to conditioning under the patriarchy, but the only way to make change is to actually stand against it. The blame may belong to men but only women can change it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 12:35 AM
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Her next post is going to be about how women shouldn’t leave their man “just because he cheated”. Lmao 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/04/20 02:57 AM
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Aww very sweet ☺️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:38 AM
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I don’t really see the point in doing that? I’m not sure what pointing out which guys I find hot/attractive to my SO (if I had one) would do? Just why?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/04/20 03:43 AM
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I stand with my “girls”, my fellow women. I am a womanist!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 12:22 AM
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Thank you for taking one for the team tho!💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 10:40 PM
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My favorite line in Monster-in-Law is when Jennifer Lopez character tells her soon-to-be mother-in-law “Thank you but no, thank you but no to everything!” Iconic!!! She’s not the asshole for telling the bitch no. Absolutely ridiculous for any of them to think they have a right to dictate what she does and does not do for another person. This woman is so nice. I would have told them all to fuck off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 06:59 AM
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The only point in ever calling someone on their shit is if you think your words will make a difference and that there is some chance that the other person will change. Are you actually over seeing him or is there some hope that you can keep this hook up going? You’re better off leaving things as they are. Leave him alone and let yourself move on in peace. He’s trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 06:27 AM
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Uhh no, I’m good.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 09:47 PM
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My most recent ex tried to get me into going 50/50 with him. I told him it’s not possible due to the fact that women give and do more than their fair share in relationships..:and no matter how much he THINKS he does, it does not come close to being equal to half of what I already bring to the table. #sorrynotsorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:54 AM
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If you are uncomfortable with it then that is all that matters. I personally wouldn’t put up with it. I wouldn’t talk to him about it either. I am very petty. I would have made friends with other males everywhere I went and give out lots of hugs and as much “innocent” physical affection as I could stand. And once he got upset by it, I would dump him. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/20 06:45 AM
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Just go old school. If you’re not married then consider yourself single. Engagement maybe. But I was “engaged” for two years and then I tossed his ring off the balcony and told him it’s not a real engagement if there is no solid wedding date. Also that he can go on the street to find his fake engagement ring for the fake wedding we’re never gonna have if he wants. #sorrynotsorry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 05:19 AM
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Oh please, people know exactly what it is they need to change. They’re just too busy making excuses and exceptions for themselves. I gave my opinion like he asked. Where’s your opinion/advice for him? Or did you just come to be “an ass” to me? Lol 🙄
/r/askFDS28/03/20 09:46 AM
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Men are more likely to die soon after if/when their wife dies or decides to leave him, they are more likely to make dumb, violent “mistakes” without a woman to keep them in line, they are more likely to get sick and/or commit suicide without a woman by their side. The list goes on. Men cannot function without women. Don’t take my word for it, just Google or simply look at the world around you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:39 AM
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Pickme culture is trash but you should not blame yourself for falling victim to it. It’s the world we grew up in. We were conditioned to believe being a Pickme makes us good women. You should feel proud of yourself that you’ve grown to see through the bull shit. Instead of asking a man to Pickme it’s time WePickOurselves. IPickMe! And I hope you PickYou too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:36 AM
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What’s your question? What is it you want to change and why? Looks like you’re just giving yourself a bunch of compliments here? And you sound like your full of shit. Most guys asking for help here deflect and don’t accept any advice or criticism so I don’t bother wasting my time. What is it specifically you want to change? What is it you see wrong with yourself and what do you want/need to improve on? If your question literally is “what to change” I would say stop deluding yourself. Has any wom…
/r/askFDS24/03/20 08:25 AM
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Because he’s trying to hook you on his disgusting worm & once you realize he did the bait and switch and you find yourself hurt...he can sit there and explain to you how it’s “your own fault” because “you knew who he was” from the beginning. Don’t listen. It’s a bunch of bull. I have men now eating out the palms of my hands trying to convince me to let them pay my rent and student loans with out ever laying a finger on them and no they are not my daddy’s age or even upper class men. Average Joes…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 08:04 AM
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No, don’t show him anything. He knows exactly what he is doing. If not, then that just makes him stupid. You can’t reason with stupid. Only thing to do is put up with it and let it go or leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 07:26 AM
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He didn’t just do a LVM thing, he is a LVM. He made the “joke” to disrespect and belittle you while objectifying his client. Absolute disgust. Are you staying or no?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/03/20 04:28 AM
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With guys like that, their gf stops dressing so sexy and then he complains that she never does anymore. Never change yourself for a man, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/03/20 03:35 AM
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Facts
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 08:01 AM
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He’s disgusting. You dodged a bullet. Don’t ever let a man, let alone a stranger, make you feel bad for putting yourself and your safety first.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 04:49 AM
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Oh my god, she won the fucking prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 07:02 AM
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And the Pickmeisha Award goes to... 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 09:05 AM
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You’re with someone who knows how you feel and who completely disregards that. I hope you re-evaluate and figure out why you’d be with someone like this. It might not seem like a big deal to some (we’ve all seen the coronavirus memes on social media) but with billions of people in the world, why are you settling for a guy who is blatantly telling you through his actions that he actually doesn’t care who you are, how you feel and has no concern at all for your feelings and could care less about p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 08:21 AM
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Never tell a man what you’re looking for or what your deal breakers are because then you’re just giving him a cheat sheet, letting him known exactly what to pretend to be to get you attached to him and make you feel like he’s Mr. Right. Keep it vague. Don’t tell him what you want or what you are looking for or what you will not tolerate. Just observe him as he is. That’ll tell you everything you need to know if you don’t make excuses for him. And that’s a big if.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:55 AM
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Care about others only as much as they care about you. Only do as much for others as they do for you. Do what you want and what makes you happy. Problem solved.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/20 07:49 AM
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I see no logic in this. Imagine the majority of women going after men? Can you honestly say that would make the situation better? Women completely giving up on men and just doing it all solo might not be a bad idea, but doing it all and also going after men is the most horrifying idea ever. Please explain how this makes any sense? What is in it for women!? Would this not give men even more of an inflated ego? Even more of an excuse to rape and commit violence against women? Even more reason to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/20 07:41 AM
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I don’t know what you mean when you say average normal short guy because if you ask many women who have dated short men, the height insecurity on the man’s part caused him to take it out on the woman he was with... I can’t speak on your behalf on how you are, though. But it sounds like you’re insecure about it based on your post so I would say work on that before you start dating again. As women no matter our age, height, weight, body type, race or socioeconomic background, we experience discrim…
/r/askFDS13/03/20 03:22 AM
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This. The last guy I dated was barely an inch taller than me even though he claims to this day he’s “5’7”, which isn’t tall for a man anyway but he clearly wasn’t even that tall. I don’t even wear heels, not because I was trying to avoid being taller than him, it’s just not my thing. Anywhooo...he would measure himself against me on a semi-regular basis, the way growing children tend to do, just to make sure he was still taller than me.🤦🏻‍♀️ Soooo weird.
/r/askFDS12/03/20 06:40 AM
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I’m not sure what the meanest is because it takes a lot to piss me off but once you do, I see red and I know exactly what to say to make them cry because the truth really does hurt. It’s only ever men who make me that angry though. On a lighter note, there was this loser on my Facebook not too long ago who made a post asking women to leave a selfie in the comments so he could rate them A-F...He ended his post with “Don’t get mad at what I rate you, tho.” I was annoyed that so many women responde…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 06:27 AM
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So he thinks you’re going to rob him for his information or something? He doesn’t trust you? Come on. You know better than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 04:19 PM
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Yes, literally the same thing. He straight up told me he was being the person he thought I wanted to be with, but he’s not that person, he was just pretending and he could only keep it up for so long. Smh. Lying and tricking me into a relationship. Bait and switch. But I guess I’m supposed to “appreciate his honesty” after lying to me and wasting a year of my life, amirite? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 06:09 AM
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He enjoyed the date. He wanted more. He should be grateful she spent any time with him at all. People calling her an asshole for letting him pay for her meal are people who believe women owe men sex for taking them out on a date. Disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:57 AM
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You have to not care what they think about you. They’re butthurt over your polite rejection and they can sense that it will make you feel bad/guilty for rejecting them if they call you names. They’re trying to knock you down a notch because “how dare you reject them!?” Proudly reject the bastards. It’s your right. When they treat you like trash for rejecting them, they’re only proving that you made the right decision. I used to feel bad rejecting men and tried to go about it the “nice way” but t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 05:13 AM
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