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We get it, it is hard being a woman. But yes, it is literally in both the title and the post.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:48 PM
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No I didn't say that, or mean that, heck the only example of traditionalist values is me mentioning that phrase once.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 12:04 PM
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It seems like cutting internet access has got to be some sort of human right violation. See the updated Maslow Hierarchy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 11:54 AM
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On the male side: There are rarely positive masculine role models in media (I can name zero, but I don't watch much standard media). Especially not traditionalist role models. Sitcoms tend to have an intelligent, wise and capable wife with a bumbling useless idiot as a husband. Similarly advertisement have this same dynamic, of a childish useless husband, combined with a capable realist wife, who can get the job done. On the female side (I actually think this has a far more insidious effect): Th…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 11:46 AM
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I work in business, and there are a lot of them (traditionalist family values, marry relatively young, churn out a bunch of kids, wife could work but chooses to stay at home with kids). Money is a big enabler here. The respect that men get for this is definitely way down. This the MSM bias problem that the manosphere was talking about a decade ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 11:05 AM
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If you haven't seen it before, you will be surprised at how little truth and reality plays into how people make decisions and what they believe is true. I also try to give credit when borrowing someone else's ideas. Which is why I name dropped even though I know that most people on reddit dislike him and that weakens my arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 10:42 AM
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If you have heard of Jordan Peterson, one of his rules is: "Tell the truth, or at least don't lie." That caveat is very important. Most people here are not speaking facts, but they are not lying either. They do not know how to identify facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 10:14 AM
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The can force subs to hide score for a very long time and randomise the top topics (instead of sorting by upvotes). I don't think you can actually remove voting though.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 10:11 AM
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Has there been a post or reply on here that has changed your mind on any subject? I though class was 'almost entirely' tied to wealth (in the mathematical sense). This was on a topic/reply of something like, men would rather have a poor girl who acts middle class, than a rich girl who acts like a 'pleb' (I can't think of a polite term). A reply by someone pointed out that there is much more to class than just money. Mannerisms play a large role. That actually fits much better into my view of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 10:10 AM
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Education is a proxy for a bunch of different traits that definitely effect compatibility, including: Social Status, Intelligence, the big5 traits openness and contentiousness. All of these traits will cause problems if there is too much difference between the two of you. So the question is similar in asking "How important is green in photosynthesis." It doesn't matter much, however chlorophyll is green, and chlorophyll is important in photosynthesis.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 07:17 AM
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Mia Kalifa seems super crazy, she seems like someone who would lie about being pregnant if you tried to break up with her. Rebel Wilson seems to not be crazy, it seems like the standard fat girl who gets really offended if you make fun of fat people. Wouldn't work for me because I give so much shit to fat people. Elizabeth Holmes is the type of mother who would put drain cleaner in her son's porridge to keep him sick, or hit her baby so he cries then comforts him so she can feel like a good moth…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 07:20 AM
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You haven't reached the end of your redpill journey yet. The ‘5 stages of grief’ analogy is probably the best way of looking at it. Right now you are in the depression stage. This is the realisation that the world is the way it is and there is nothing you can do about it. The RP subreddit is in the anger stage. The structure of reddit itself (where a tiny fraction of readers engage, and an even smaller percentage post) means posts written in anger are pushed to the top. The opposite is true for …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 05:36 AM
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Masculinity and femininity is not just macho and girly. There are positive and negative traits for both, for example leading vs domineering, and nurture vs overbearing love. Everyone obviously wants the maximum amount of positive traits and the minimum amount of negative traits. However women specifically will prioritise the positive masculine traits over the positive feminine traits (they prefer a ‘leader’ over a ‘teacher’), and would rather have the negative masculine traits over the negative …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/19 05:21 AM
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Ugly people are less likely to post.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 11:55 PM
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We are on the internet, so everyone is judged purely on some combination of their ideas, writing ability and humour. Everyone lies about their sexual success anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 11:54 PM
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In society, parents contribute extreme amounts of economic value to their families. If we were to quantify the numbers and treat it as a tax, it would easily be something on the lines of 80%+. This is if you take into account, housing, food and schooling of children, then also the inheritance left after they die. The vast majority of people I know are investing money primarily because they want to give their children a better life. Scrap this connection and that would destroy the capital base. W…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 11:03 PM
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Yes, advice from the fish is often this way. This is a guy doing it today. And for some reason people don't understand the saying. It is 'ask the fisherman', not 'ask the fisherman's friend: Frank, from accounting'
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/19 01:51 AM
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When that happens, it becomes more prudish than sluttish, e.g. Victorian Times.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/19 12:23 PM
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All analogies are bad. They are simplifications of the real world so you can point to any of the complexities and it will be wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/19 12:42 PM
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so you wouldn't ask a chinese man how to sell to the chinese market? No that doesn't relate to anything said in this thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 11:20 AM
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You have a misunderstand of the analogy/saying "Don't ask the fish, ask the fisherman" It sounds like you think that you shouldn't ask the fish because fish don't want to be caught, filleted and fried into Bird Eye's Fish Sticks, so they give you bad advice. That is not what the saying is about, it isn't deceptive. The reason why is because fish don't know what attracts them. Ask the person who catches fish for a living, the fisherman. Your logic is not wrong, you just think that that saying mea…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/19 09:17 AM
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No, the scales aren't wrong or outdated, Americans (and other westerners) are just fat as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/19 07:05 AM
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So your saying we might get decent riding weather in 2025? Probably, it depends where you live. I'm already tired with the climate change nonsense. It is real, the damage is easily going to be 100x bigger than the largest catastrophe. But that is worlds away from this extinction level event which reddit likes to jizz over.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:56 PM
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Biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:46 PM
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This is a good example of why we are all fucked. There is a massive delay (probably 5 years) between changing economic policy and seeing the effect on society. But no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:45 PM
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I think this never happens if you take attractiveness to be SMV attractiveness (i.e. the traits, both physical and mental, that members of the opposite sex find attractive). There is the 'fools gold' situation with attractive women with ugly but high status men. These men are rich, powerful or funny. All are attractive traits. Women read more romantic novels than men for a reason. There is the other 'fools gold' situations of a handsome man with a fat woman. With the vast majority of these havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:40 PM
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Have you seen [other side of the political fence]? Those guys are crazy and superstitious! I am happy that we are both the logical [our side of the political fence].
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:21 PM
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The problem with climate change is that there is a lot of dumb people who think they know what they are talking about. They are way off. And then there are psychopaths who are trying to take advantage of people's fear to gain power (read the second half of the American 'new' democrats "Green New Deal"). With climate, you have a bunch of cycles adding together: It is colder in the day than at night. (Duh) This is a 24 hour cycle. It is colder in Winter than in Summer. (Duh) This is a 12 month cyc…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:19 PM
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I have definitely noticed this in life. A girl I know well would love to play these type of games with me (e.g. palm reading, conspiracy theories, astrology, MTBI etc.). If I seriously questioned her on it, she would say that it is a bit of fun (I was never sure whether this was a defence mechanism or not). What I think on this is that belief is the default position, and it is a weird combination of modern day factors that makes men believe less than women. Take away modern society and especiall…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 06:08 PM
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I did when I had a shit job, so I carefully planned my exit strategy. Although if this is chronic, I have a feeling that your basic life fundamentals are bad: You aren't eating enough, and of the right types of food. You aren't sleeping properly. You aren't getting enough exercise. If anyone of those three aren't balanced, you will not be happy. And fix these, these are some of the easiest things to fix, because you have complete control over them. No agreement from others is required.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:39 PM
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This is not modern redpill, but 'old skool'. A long time ago, there was significant discussion about balancing comfort and attraction. There was talk of shit tests and comfort tests and alpha traits and beta traits. No one talks about this any more, but it is definitely still present. In relationships you need to spend a certain large amount of time being intimate every week. This can be sex, but also can be spending time together cuddling to a movie. You aren't forced to do anything, but if you…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/19 05:27 PM
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Hypergamy is about social status not standards. If you are having trouble with women, you best realise this, and concentrate on gaining status within a social circle, preferable one with many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 09:52 AM
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The CDC estimated in the NISVS that, in the U.S. general population, 32.9% of women have experienced physical violence by an intimate partner in their lifetimes, and 3.6% of women have experienced such violence in the past year (Breiding et al, 2014). Studies that employed representative sampling have found that 25.0%-40.4% of lesbian women have experienced IPV in their lifetimes and 10.2% have experienced IPV in the past year. According to study 1. People who claim to be lesbian are more likely…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/19 01:03 AM
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That and identifying themselves as one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 10:21 PM
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There is a guy youtube called Bearing, basically a shitposter, and he asked a really apt question to MGTOWs on a stream. Do you look at pictures of women when you are jacking off? Of course the 'migtowes' didn't want to answer that. MGTOWs were men who weren't investing in women (and wider in society). Basically fucking women but not making them their girlfriend. This is hard to do. Eventually they became men groping their own weiner. Right now MGTOWs are (slightly) less cringy incels. Redpill i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 10:05 PM
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Those 'most athests' aren't 'atheists' because they do not identify as 'atheists', and they do no support or partake in the actions of those who identify themselves as 'atheists'. Same reason why 95-99% of people in western societies believe in equality under the law and culture for men and women, but ~20% of them identify as feminist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/19 09:56 PM
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No-Fault is a bullshit manipulation term (just like pro-choice and pro-life, everyone is pro choice and pro life). A more accurate term is: "Everything is negotiable divorce so the time it takes to agree on everything is extended and divorce lawyers make the most amount of money possible."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/19 11:54 PM
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It is supremely relevant. BUT, and it is a big but, the direction is reversed (to what you would think is logical). There is heavy overlap between who we find moral and those we find attractive, however we don't find moral behaviour attractive. Instead we attribute moral character to those we are attracted to.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:59 AM
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People aren't as smart and socially aware as you are making them out to be. The expertise required to recognise and behave around such an extreme level of sensitivity probably exists in less than 2% of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:54 AM
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How is it dishonest to express interest in someone without wanting anything serious?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 08:12 AM
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Maybe someone here can illuminate some light into this dark flirting practice? Sometimes people just want some fun and validation without a stranger cumming in them.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/19 07:02 AM
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Hypergamy is about social standing, your examples are mostly about being choosy. If it is hypergamy in particular, then you will see a caste system similar to Victorian England or India. This is where families will only want to partner up with members of the same class/caste. If you are just talking about being picky, then those will lower standards will have more partners, and the trait will be bred out of humans after a thousand years.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/19 09:51 AM
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So, do you think that there is someone for everybody? Of course not, if this was prehistory and we were living in harsh times where only 40% of males and 80% of females reproduced, if you asked this question, people would laugh. Some people randomly get sick and die. Or are there some people who are destined to be alone? The thing about this defeatist attitude is that it is self fulfilling. If you think that everything you try will fail, you will not try and will fail. If you think that you have…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 05:01 PM
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It is low resolution thinking from people who are both feminists and vegans. Basically to them, if you are not a feminist or are male you are bad. And if you eat meat you are bad. The concept 'bad' is a single encompassing concept, so those who eat meat = those who aren't feminists or are male. As a result eating meat means toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/19 03:42 PM
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how does this affect said boys' upbringing and mental well-being? For children that tend to be raised 'gender neutral', as they mature they tend to amp up their femininity or masculinity: guys will be called "Frank" and like guns, rugby and beer. Girls as they mature will coat their houses with copious amounts of pink and cute things. According Jordan Peterson who is a experience clinical psychologist, bad parents tend to cause less damage than helicopter parents. I doubt they will be much worse…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 12:12 AM
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People say 'confidence is attractive' which is definitely true. That doesn't mean that being arrogant or pretending to be confident is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 02:24 PM
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RP is not ideologically pure, it is not even an ideology. Pointing to random members actions doesn't mean anything. I don't think you understand what the word amoral means. You seem to think it means 'a shield used to justify immoral actions'. Amoral means that no one gives a fuck if you think that they are a good or bad person. All this attack of character doesn't change the truth or utility of it. What you are doing is akin to accusing Newton of being an asshole to thereby disprove Gravity. Gr…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 02:23 PM
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Milennials (the 'mini' generation roughly 20-30 years old) has definitely bought into the new post-modern feminist/progressive movement. They are however not liberal (which is about freedom and individualism), but progressive (which is about challenging of existing social structures). The new gen Z: the pewdiepie and Fortnite generation are much more conservative than there millennial counterparts. Even if the popularity is growing, feminism is growing faster. I am not sure what you mean by femi…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 02:16 PM
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TF you on about? It is really autistic to take banter literally. Fix that shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 02:03 PM
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That doesn't address the point (you have given a red herring). In short the debate is this: You asked why the subreddit isn't growing faster. I said that the premise behind the subreddit is growing in society. You said that they might be moving to things that aren't true. Whether 3 is correct or incorrect doesn't affect point 2.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 01:56 PM
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If trp works to make for better ltr’s, why do things like mrp fail so often as well? If you ever watched Gordan Ramsay's Kitchen Nightmares, it is the same story. Men in these marriages are not happy. They might be kowtowing to their wife's every demand, but not getting the respect or sex that they would expect in a marriage. The best strategy for fixing the marriage might only work 50% of the time. The marriage might be in such a bad place that divorce is the best option.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 01:53 PM
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I have that if something just works really well and gets results then many (not all) people will flock to it. This is one of those "you'd think this would be the case, but it isn't." People tend to be stuck to their ways. Similar examples is the link between Vaccines and Autism (correlation is 0), and how people think eating fat or cholesterol having any effect on their chance to get heart disease (basically the sugar fructose causes all of the problems). These things are false but I bet that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/19 12:45 PM
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To me this sounds like she is frustrated by his lack of masculine energy but doesn't know how to express herself or articulate the feelings. Or likely she feels that expressing it would make it worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 02:01 PM
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proof of contradiction This is different way to prove something (not a way to disprove something). In short, you assume the opposite is true, then follow that logic and show that it leads to a contradiction. I think you only see it in mathematics.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 06:35 AM
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It is a misuse of mathematical reasoning applied to social trends. In mathematics, to disprove something you provide a single counter example: "I think a times a=a, well 2 times 2 doesn't equal 2 so the rule is false." Of course this doesn't make sense with relationships where there are thousands of confounding factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/19 06:04 AM
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Those women aren't high SMV per se, but high social status, e.g. self-made . I will say though, in my experience. These women tend to be very smart and hard working and realise that looks play a big role in society. They spend the time to improve their appearance and eat well and tend to match up with other successful professionals.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 08:49 AM
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Depends whether I liked the guy or not, and whether it was appropriate for me to intrude. If it was and he was is asshole. I would break it up subtly (ironically using RP girlfriend tactics): "Hi oh you are seeing that boy again? Josh the Chav haha. Have fun." That will break the relationship up so fast that it is not funny. This is basically what you use if you don't want your daughter dating a prick. Saying that she is not allowed to do anything will strengthen her resolve.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/19 04:34 AM
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What do you think 'statistically significant' means?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 09:55 PM
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Thoughts on which it might be, or if there's some other possibility? It is all about money. I am amazed that people believe that giant soulless corporations like Nike and Gillette actually care about social justice. They are simply betting that the exposure gain and increased engagement from their supporters will earn them more money than what they lose from the alienated group.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/19 03:52 AM
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I think that what you are looking for the philosophical concept of Dependence, Independence and Interdependence. These are stages of emotional and social growth. As a child, you are completely dependant on your parents, as you age into adolescence you start to become more and more independent, then ideally as you grow older into a fully mature adult, you start to develop relationships where you provide some needs of others with others doing the same for you. I think you are somewhere in the midd…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 02:26 PM
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No I am not a ideological tyrant, everyone can think whatever they want, whyever they want. I am talking about probable motivation (and the results of that motivation).
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 12:41 PM
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There is two groups: The much smaller: man who understands reality, and the standard envious man. There is a big difference in a high tier man who can or has slept with many partners dropping a promiscuous girl and one with few.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 07:35 AM
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they need to be submissive and have no spine These are not the same thing. There is a big difference between submitting to someone competent and being passive. If you’re married, both the husband and wife have equal responsibility. This is PC bullshit. There is always someone more important, someone who makes the final decision on dilemmas, ironically it is usually the woman. Although if you are in liberal circles, this is a great thing to say and you will get an applause for virtue signalling. …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/19 07:33 AM
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You have the assumption that all TRP members the quintessential elite of the TRP ideology. Why do University Math Students suck so much at Advanced Differential Calculus? You conclusion is wrong because of this. The premise is also incorrect because TRP sub aims to point out the media hypocrisy. (Unless you are talking about the wider alternative media which is not TRP.)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/19 09:49 PM
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How am I supposed to trust sharing my ideas with you if you can't answer 'good' when I ask 'how are you'? I suspect you don't get that question. If you are having a bad day and a stranger asks how are you, you still say 'good'. Because 'how are you' is not a question, it is the second step of a social dance (the first step is hello). It is the human equivalent of dogs smelling each other's butts. It is showing that you are not a threat, that you understand the social game, and that you are willi…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 10:16 PM
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How can you even present or showcase your personality? Dude, by flirting and small talk. That is how we vet people. That is how you do it, you just don't remember.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 09:38 PM
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You think that education is a form of conditioning, and 'everyone else' doesn't see it. Which makes Jordan Peterson a faux intellectual for not recognising and calling it out. Who is an intellectual in your opinion? Someone who can recognise that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 08:57 PM
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I should, but I think I am addicted to the emotions and dopamine hit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 02:29 PM
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How much evidence or suspicion would you guys need before dumping someone for cheating? If a situation like you described appeared, I would simply ask and judge the reaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 02:28 PM
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RP teaches that all women will cheat or leave if given the chance. Yes or no? No, it is no wonder you are black pill with such a bleak view of the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 02:25 PM
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We don't come out of the fucking womb wanting routine. When have you ever seen a 7 year-old child demand a routine? Mummy, daddy, aren't I supposed to start my homework at this time? Please let me. I'm getting out of my routine. That is a bad example. If kids had it their way ice cream would be every single meal. I am at the age where if I wanted, I could have ice cream every single meal, but I don't. If you give in to your child's every whim, that is called bad parenting. Ponces around like he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/19 02:19 PM
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It is what you infer if you do not see healthy adult male/female interactions.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 09:55 PM
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I think that this is probably going to be one of the first genes that people mess with once designer babies exist. Change myostatin in your DNA and you go from this to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:35 PM
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That isn't the claim or it is a misreading of the claim. The claim is that you will not find the love you want in women. This is addressed to men actually boys in men's bodies. They have had no good male role models in their life and were over or under-loved by their mother. These boys are seeking the same unconditional love that mothers give to their children. You can actually get it from other women, but she won't have sex with you too. Her brain doesn't work that way. This is one of the Red P…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:29 PM
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There is some cultural correction when women go for someone completely out of their league in that they are likely being used as a cumrag. I think there is some level of biological or cultural backing to it. Doesn't it make you mad when you hear about innocent too-young girls being shuffled into concert backstages to be fucked then thrown away? Then take that anger and suppose that it turns out that she married the singer and now they are happily married with 2 kids and a house in the suburbs. F…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:19 PM
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TRP makes claims to be based on evolutionary psychology, and it is--but it is also based on what is referred to in political philosophy as a "state of nature". The claims are based on observations, then backed up by evolutionary psychology. The order is important. The moment it stops being useful, you should leave. Evolutionary psychology is useful to generate hypothesises, but if they do not work, the hypothesis is discarded. They say “but look, fat, ugly people get together all the time and fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 03:04 PM
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If feminism is so sex positive, then what is their problem with men learning how to seduce women the RIGHT way? Does anyone know? Discuss. A new idea that I have recently heard is that this is the Left's way of solving the casual sex problem. The casual sex problem is that sex is not casual. I am not against casual sex, but pretending that Hugh Hefner's mansion exists, where everyone can have constant, no-strings-attached, meaningless but fun sex and no one getting hurt is delusional. Sex is pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:50 PM
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You will not learn by reading. You have to see it in action. Find a good male role model of the leader archetype (e.g. a good sports coach, a good boss). I'm speaking from personal experience here when I say watching them in action will change your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 02:32 PM
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People forget that we are in a fucking weird ass time for the human species. That question is like "why does our body burn muscle instead of fat when we are starving", because that was a fucking great idea for 99,900 out of the 100,000 years humans existed for western countries and it is still a good idea in the undeveloped human countries. There are all these weird leftovers in humans that are relics of out evolutionary past. But all of the sexual dynamic ones sounds really fucking unethical, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:30 PM
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For rock stars, literally just fame, which is the most valuable social status marker.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:21 PM
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If you have been paying attention to internet subculture and most public spaces. As a woman you get a certain amount of free power for being a woman. Your views are elevated a certain amount. I hope you are abusing the shit out of it (I basically tell all my close female friends to do it because life is competitive and this boon will not last forever). On TRP you do not get this benefit. You are free however to read and speak as much as you want without saying "As a woman...". If you remain unge…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/19 01:19 PM
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I don't think looks has a significant impact, unless both of you have status based on looks (e.g. both are models/actors). I think there are other factors that are more important (in that she will love you for more than your wallet): Status matching (in that you should be equal or higher on the Social Economic Status ladder). Neuroticism (the less she is relative to the population, the better), it is likely that this is why women initiate divorces more: you aren't measuring male vs female, but m…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/19 07:26 AM
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No there isn't any correlation between video game violence and real life violence. What would be concerning is if he was cruel to small animals when he was younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:57 AM
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I think you are misreading the situation here. I think the resentment that you are see is crab bucket mentality where she sees a guy who was a loser to her now is not and she has to bring you down to justify her lack of progress. You have effectively become a judge of her life choices because you started at the same place but have now advanced far past her. I think like others have said, that was a shit testament you could have hate fucked her if you wanted. It doesn't sound like it would have b…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/19 06:55 AM
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LewisCross wife Sorry, I can only suspend my disbelief so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 07:35 PM
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TRP strongly advocates that men should never bring up being exclusivity with a woman as it throws off the power dynamic/natural order of things and she’ll be naturally happier chasing after you since she’ll see you as “the prize”. The reason why this is the case is because it is not your role as a man to secure commitment, that is her role. Your role is to get her to sleep with you, her role is to get you to stay after. Is it best to gradually become exclusive over time or is it better to simply…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 12:33 PM
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The argument is: this contradicts that so it is hypocritical. Of course, there is enough nuance in everything so that it isn't hypocritical, and calling someone a hypocrite makes good headlines, but hasn't ever changed anyone's mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 12:31 PM
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Legalisation is not the problem, it is the social stigma attached. Until you talk about it openly "I am going to see Stacy the prossy tonight", it won't really change. I don't think there has been any society where prostitution has been so open and was acceptable by the general public (maybe a history buff knows?). Right now visiting a prostitute is career ending for all politicians except one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/18 12:28 PM
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I would GYOW if I could. But I can't. I still need sex. My life would be a even bigger suffering without at least it. GYOW was meant to mean going your own way: i.e. not investing in women or society. Not the new incel version of groping your own weiner.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 11:15 PM
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The resounding consensus amongst TRP is that marriage is a poor deal "for men", but I can't imagine it's any way better for women. This doesn't make sense. In a transaction a better deal for one is a worse deal for the other. The gain for women is status based, and hopefully you will get a life partner. If you specifically look at the women who have earning power equivalent of men, these women tend to be the top 10% of women and have little to no difficulty finding suitable partners. So if marri…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/18 11:09 AM
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What you have written sounds like a behaviour thing, not a class thing (although the stereotype is that they are linked). I am thinking more of the rigid lines you see in the caste system in India, and to a lesser extent the class system in Britain. Where in India your family will disown you (or fucking murder you) if you marry a member of a lower caste. If you mean class as in behaviour, then yes, men specifically (and people in general) will prefer others who act in similar ways. I don't see t…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 05:30 AM
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I think that the cause of this understanding is just bad comprehension. People will see "men don't find status attractive" and read "men find status unattractive".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 05:28 AM
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but prefer a woman who is from the same class as he is from. Is this true. I suspect that it is because people tend to date others around them, and they tend to hand around those of the same class. Not due to a specific preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/18 12:58 AM
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TRP's hate for career women is legendary. But then TRP's hate for hypergamy - women who seek men of higher status / means than themselves - is also legendary. Huh? Then your legends are really bad. TRP doesn't hate career woman, it just acknowledges that men do NOT find status attractive. TRP doesn't hate hypergamy. It acknowledges it's existence. Which is why TRP distinguishes itself from the old (and appears to be dead) PUA. PUA said "here are what high status men do, this is how you pretend t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/18 11:50 PM
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Why is it wrong for a woman to actually like the guy she is with and have a high opinion of him? Why is it wrong for a person to want to buy the $825,000, gold-trim toilet paper? Nothing if you can afford it. No one is telling Gigi Hadid to lower her standards. Why do you think a woman would be happier with a man who she thinks is ‘less’ than her? The comparison isn't between having a top tier man and a second tier man. It is between having a second tier man and no one. This advice is very 'woke…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/18 12:44 AM
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A lot of these you will have to luck out because they tend not to hire or fire, and jobs tend to go by word of mouth (because the managers do not know how to run a hiring process). You will not find these jobs on seek, probably have more luck in the classified ads. Look for: regional (far from major cities) secured market base 'unknown' name A good example is my aunt. She is some sort of accountant for a very specific medical part which has a patent (I don't remember what it is but it is somethi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 10:57 PM
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Maybe you like buying a woman dinner but wouldn't that change if you knew she expected it from you regularly to maintain her attention in a relationship? This is a bit weird, I get where you are coming at. You are talking about the expectation and entitlement, which is a massive turn (on both expecting to be treated, or expecting sex). That said, I completely appreciate that there will need to be a significant amount of time invested into the relationship both for dinners and sex. Think about fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:47 AM
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The problem that you will find is that for most men, sex drive is synonymous with success and attractiveness. Testosterone pushes both sex drive and also assertiveness (and things like fitness, leadership). The ones you will find more attractive will be the guys who want sex more often. The other option is to be in a soft-harem, which is not a good idea because you will get your heart broken very badly. Ask yourself how often that you want to get intimate with your partner. If it is once a month…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:33 AM
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Psychopaths have to constantly move around because they get found out and need new suckers to swindle. Most of them are in jail or alone, only the super intelligent ones can properly raise their social standing for any long period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:28 AM
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Read this topic and understand it. Then you will see why this will never happen. Add in the fact that attacks against someone's SMV are the most personal you can get. The worst insult for a man is to call him a loser, the worst for a woman is to call her ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/18 08:26 AM
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If you are arguing about division of household labour then your relationship has problems far deeper than housework. Housework is the topic of the argument not the cause, removing this will not solve the problem. That said, it is economically better for society if you are a high earner and outsource your cleaning to someone else. They are probably better at cleaning than you, and your time is worth more than how much you pay them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/18 01:49 AM
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at what age should a woman stop exploring her career options and settle into a job and have a family before she becomes too old? It is good that you recognise that there is some sort of trade off between career and family, because there is. You don't have to stop exploring your career, but at some point you have to decide whether you want to gun for the top positions. All of them have ridiculous work hours (or at least the path to them does) and you have to be in the top ~10% of intelligence and…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/18 10:05 PM
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Sluts have a higher risk that you end up taking care of a child that is not yours. Genetically, if you fall for this about twice, you are instantly out of the gene pool, men are hyper adverse to that. Women are not hyper adverse towards cads because they want the chance at a son who is a cad. The genetic lottery for men is sleeping with many women and not investing, while the genetic lottery for women is having sons who sleep with many women and not investing. Which is why you see that the accus…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 09:20 PM
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I also believe men can have oneitis (forsake all others in their heart) while at the same time maintaining an abundance mentality Is about pedistalisation. This is where a man will see a woman not as the women herself, but at the female archetype of 'The Woman'. There is a difference between having one sexual and emotional partner, and seeing your partner (or usual potential partner) as a representation of the perfect female human. The two concepts are different.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/18 08:17 AM
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I always felt that in the dead bedroom sub you should have to post your weight, I think that would explain the lion's share of the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 11:18 PM
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Don't take advice from anyone on reddit The rule of thumb for advice is to look at the person giving the advice, roughly speaking their advice got them to where they are now. On reddit you can't look at the person, and the upvote/downvote system fosters recognition over accuracy (people will upvote a meme that they know over a truth that they don't know). There also is the Dunning Kruger effect blocking you: to be able to recognise good advice, you have to be knowledgeable about the topic, which…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/18 10:01 PM
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My article was about "women being more unhappy over time", your article was about "men and women being equally unhappy". They are not making the same claim. I wanted to read it to see whether it actually went against what I wrote, but it turns out that there isn't a link. I am still being polite here, not assuming that you are dumb and don't see that your response has nothing to do with what I posted. I kindly said that this is not how to use scientific articles. Then straight to the implicit ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/18 06:19 AM
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I think deep was a bad word choice, I mean nuanced.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 09:04 PM
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Wow instant attack, but thanks for showing me how you work.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:49 PM
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It is like he saw that Cathy Newman Interview and was like "Wow that IS the goal in life."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:36 PM
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Have you read the study? When you use scientific evidence to back up an argument, you can't just google your conclusion then pick an abstract that fits your argument. You have to scan the methodology for dodginess and to see the power of the conclusion (likelihood of not a false negative).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:35 PM
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I don't have access to this study, do you have a link that is open to the public?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:28 PM
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They have already 'won' gays. And now we have hit a point where I don't think anyone gives a fuck about them, so much so that some gays are now turning away from the radical left and moving towards the centre.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:43 AM
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I had a room mate from Ukraine, about a year ago she was telling me that it was really fucking bad and she was shocked about how the western media was ignoring it. Russia has been 'leaving' military weaponry 'lying around' in the hands of Russian separatists, and they 'commendeered' one of Ukraine's ships a few days ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:26 AM
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It is one of the problems with reddit: you basically have 20ish words to win someone over. I can make you pissed in 20 words, but to say anything interesting or deep, that is nearly impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:24 AM
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Effectively you have the assumption more choices means that people will be happier. However this is not true. See this ted talk. This is a useful tidbit for life. If you are choosing shit like toothpaste (things which don't matter), the longer you spend choosing, the less happy you will be. Ultimately that assumption is where your argument falls flat. Women are happier than ever before. Women are less happy despite having improved standard of living. And this is by feminist researchers too (alth…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:22 AM
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Wait wtf do you think toxic means: Man: I feel proud that I can make my girlfriend feel really good. You in this post: You fucking misogynist how dare you make others feel good.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:11 AM
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I think that the extent of the lying is the bad part, there is a difference between "I have done some stuff with a couple guys" and "I'm a totally innocent virgin, (shh...except that time when I blew 2 guys at once, and also took off my clothes for money, and the other time...)"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:09 AM
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My only question is do they report other people who receive gifts through Patreon and GoFundMe and whatnot? If you report a crime, you don't have to report every instance of that crime. How is this an argument? You wouldn't say "hey you can't report the theft of that beanbag, you didn't report theft when my bro Leo there got his hoodie racked."
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:07 AM
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What's with black? rap? gangsta? culture and making tonnes of weird acronyms?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:04 AM
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That isn't a solid argument: Hey I think that stealing is wrong and I am going to report you. Well are you going to all the thieves down at the Walmart, they steal all the time. Let's be real yo, every damn thief steal tonnes of shit man.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:03 AM
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Yeah... that is kinda the joke. It is funny because of how petty it is. Then watching everyone get all worked up is the cherry on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/18 08:00 AM
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When you buy cheapo insurance, don't be surprised when they do everything possible to avoid paying you. It is like buying a 25c gas station condom. It'll probably be fine but you never know.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/18 10:06 PM
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Let's say there is a group of women: some are attracted to you some are unattracted to you some are manipulative and feign attraction for ulterior motives For a 'normal person', let's say the numbers are: 20 attracted to you 75 unattracted to you 5 manipulative So of your potential partners 25 (20 attracted, 5 manipulative), 20% of them are manipulative. An unattractive person might see: 5 attracted to you 90 unattracted to you 5 manipulative So of their potential partners 10 (5 attracted, 5 man…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 01:14 AM
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It is basically a concept of 'low resolution' thinking. It is of the level of: Red Pill is bad, MGTOW is bad, therefore Red Pill = MGTOW. One of the problems with the modern left, (who's view is the mainstream view, i.e. 'bluepill') is that because they are in power, the view is not challenged, and most people have no nuance to their views. Or are people not reading before talking about those communities? Most people you see are virtue signalling: they are basically trying to fit into the group.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/18 01:07 AM
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Basically what you are doing is a basic strawman argument. Google that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/18 07:28 AM
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the most stereotypically georgeous women in the world (professional models) are NOTORIOUS for dating bummy DJs, unsuccessful musicians and young layabouts who just happen to be their type Those people may be economic losers, but they don't have the body language of a loser, and often they have bouts of fame where they perform among a cheering crowd. For models, DJs/MCs are the top dog. Business leaders (who are the economic winners) tend not to mingle with models.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 09:51 PM
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Sure I get the whole abstract evopsych aspect of it but I'm trying to see it from a man's perspective. It simply doesn't make me horny. It is literally that simple. I see a woman with the appropriate hip to waist ratio and my brain says "sexy woman". Women having power or success doesn't make my brain say that. The reverse is true, women do find success viscerally attractive. Then you basically throw almost half of that income away because you chose a spouse that makes almost nothing compared to…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/18 07:25 AM
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Is there a difference between being needy and being vulnerable? Neediness is your need for external validation. Vulnerability is putting your self in situations where you are vulnerable to external judgement. They tend to not be related directly, more that being vulnerable is a way that other people can see how needy you are. Is it possible for a man to be vulnerable but not needy? They tend to come together. The first time you act vulnerable, you will be a fucking mess and all of your neediness…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/18 01:29 AM
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I also think that this story is fake, by the way: the sort of women who are down to fuck a new guy every week (which she did) usually don't get engaged with an N of 2. You would assume so, however reddit has millions of users. You can see the top 1 in 10,000 in craziness every week.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 09:17 AM
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It is basic game. You don't get mad at potential suitors, you act unfazed. Context matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/18 01:06 AM
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I think that they think it is shit because men are clueless, so your husband might not have known that she was flirting. My point of view is that if you are more attractive than her, then the chance that he will cheat on you is close to 0%.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 09:45 PM
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Your problem is that you assume people on reddit understand math. As you can see, most people here will prefer the Macdonalds Quarter Pounder over the A&W Third Pounder because the quarter pounder is bigger. Try percentages next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 09:28 PM
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I call her Wannbe Girlfriend. What you are doing is an effective male mate guarding strategy: if you don't want your girlfriend to cheat, you make fun of her suitors and call them 'boys'. I don't know how effective it works on husbands/boyfriends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/18 09:21 PM
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But why bother coming here if you dont actually want to be convinced otherwise? My mind isn't fully made up, I am always making constant micro adjustments in my worldview. A complete mind reversal would take extraordinary levels of evidence: you would have to explain all the RP things and evidence as well as provide evidence for the BP view. Why not stay in TRP sub where its safe? I don't need to be safe, I'm not a pussy. Is it just so you can convince yourselr youre not horrificly biased? Well …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 09:20 PM
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If you mean Pareto in terms of production. The reason why you see it is because your brain doesn't have a good concept of mathematical probability. It just has probability 'sections'. For example: consider rolling a dice and getting '4' 10 times in a row. And getting 20 'heads' in a row. Your brain thinks "fuck-all chance", but the coin thing will happen 60 times more often than the Dice thing. The reason why your brain sees the pareto everywhere is because there is one group around 10-40%, wher…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 09:25 AM
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Well she would be a 9, but you have to deduct 2 points because she hasn't made her bed.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 09:20 AM
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Well if you are in your 20s, you aren't going to fuck someone 40. You can easily rule out most of the population by the age factors alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 09:18 AM
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I have heard that if she doesn't cum when you do you are more likely to have a girl. Is bad sex the solution? (that was a joke, you can't tell my tone over the internet)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 09:13 AM
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"Nice guy" Chad Stacy Dude, ever heard of friendzone, that idea has been around for generations. It roughly encompasses those three archetypes AF/BB I don't know, but I have a feeling if we did widespread genetic testing of all families there would be massive social upheaval. I think there could be as much as double digit percentage of men unwittingly raising children that are not theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 09:10 AM
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In my country, what you are saying is literally true. One of my family friends is Asian with 5 sons. If she was back in Vietnam or China, that is basically the dream, sons to carry on the name and help provide. But her in OZ, she would get comments like "Oh that is so terrible, if only you had daughters" I think already there is a cultural shift towards preference for girls. So you are old news culture wise, what you are suggesting has already happened. Genetics wise is that it depends on the en…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/18 09:07 AM
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Go get rejected 5 times today
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/18 10:27 AM
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Are you sure about this? It seems pretty similar (source): 19% of both men and women say abortion should be totally illegal 31% of women and 26% of men want abortion to be totally legal 42% of female college graduates want abortion to be totally legal It seems pretty even to me, I suspect that the beliefs will be highly correlated towards political lines as opposed to gender lines.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/18 09:09 AM
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It is a societal shit test. If you aren't savvy enough to figure out the subtly between: Being direct is creepy, being indirect is creepy and sleazy. Then you are in the group who shouldn't reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 10:49 PM
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Something that women and the rich never-employed SJW LARPers don't know is that groups of men are filthy as fuck, and give each other constant shit to pass the time. This is standard guy talk. rejecting toxic masculinity This is because the authoritarians (those willing to use violence to force others to have their views) do not have a definition of what this is. It boils down to every masculine action performed by a male is toxic. Which is stupid, and smarter people than me suspect that it is i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 10:45 PM
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Also, I'm in a weird spot right now where I have to work between 10pm-2am (Timezones, bah humbug) so that's why my sleep schedule originally got so fucked. This might be a problem. I work in insurance and we have put aside a lot of money because we think that employees are going to sue their employers about shift work and a link to cancer. I don't know your work situation, but there may be additional costs that you are not considering in late night work. I'm on the fence on whether or not the 6p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 12:51 AM
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Game You are identifying a problem with game: that there isn't a single technique that always works (or arguably often works). Game is like a martial art, it is all about the situation that you apply it in. The social world is far more restricted and complex. It is like a massive battle with changing rules and structures. There will never be a strategy that is 'dominant' (i.e. one that is at least as good or better than every other strategy). But that is not to say that having some sort of game …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 12:30 AM
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You are probably unwittingly doing something that is wrecking your sleep hormones (e.g. looking at blue light late at night). Get f.lux and lower the lights after around 10pm. Your body will take care of the rest.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/18 12:05 AM
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It is definitely a made up/overblown issue. For starters my 10s google-fu says that 0.6% of people identify as transgender. This isn't people who are actively transgender, but just identifying. So let's say 100% of these people are actually transgender. So that's 1 out of 166 people. How many people will you deal with everyday? For me it may be as high as 20. And the number of people that you would know aspects of their sexual life is far less. In general no one will even know that random people…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 11:57 PM
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Or i guess Canada?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/18 10:01 PM
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I think the source of expectations is closest to (1). It is not just that these are stories, if you emulate the behaviour, the results will not be the same. Women in media have to be perfect, compare book Hermione to movie Hermione (mousey loyal friend vs perfect in every way). There are some women on this level, but if you act like movie Ron, she will not like you. The others are true in their own sense: (2) If you come from a traditional culture with happily married parents, you will probably …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 08:40 PM
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If this was indeed true, if evolution biology and nature selection did breed women to be slaves of hypergamy, then how do you explain homosexualism? I honestly don't understand the link between the question and the statement. To me this sounds like "If oranges are indeed orange, how do you explain that the sky is blue?" They are not able to reproduce, so surely million years of evolution would have already weeded them out. It's not a new puzzle in the science community, and many of their attempt…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 08:12 PM
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Looks like I was quite off so pretty much. but now we'll have to listen to the liberals incessant whining about Russian trolls this and nazi-fascist racists that for the next two years. So same as the last two years.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 07:46 PM
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Only if it is negative, you shouldn't be 'training' your partner to do things that are detriment to their long term life. You should be helping them develop good habits and weaker their bad ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 09:44 AM
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At around 30s, it depends on the person. Up to around college age (around 22ish) everyone in a social class is basically exactly the same, they all have the same experiences with the same choices. A couple of years after there are now suddenly so many different ways that people can go, the ones who marry early and have kids will have more in common with the older bunch than the ones who go on a soul searching journey.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/18 07:14 AM
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That doesn't make it ok for either of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 09:15 PM
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This is one of the biological aspects of humans (and probably all mammals and maybe even aliens in other star systems). For humans, using statistical analysis something like twice as many women than men reproduce. So this idea can be boiled down to each women has 1 baby and each men has 2 or 0. If you are one of the men in the half that doesn't reproduce, you tend to take a high risk/high reward lifestyle. you might hang around the alpha's females 'just as friends' waiting for the opportunity, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 12:03 PM
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Just though I should call it now so I can say I told you so (to myself). In the midterms, the republicans will win the senate (gain at least 2 seats). In the House, they will lose seats but maintain control. But much more importantly I am going to predict the media response to show their spin and lies. Right now they are saying that the Democrats will win the house because of Trump and blah blah other things. After this is not true, they will switch the goalpost and pretend that the fact that th…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 11:51 AM
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I realise that this way of thinking is pretty much the opposite to red pill thinking Red Pill is about what the world is, not what it should be. Red Pill is a tool, which you can use as a lens to look at the world and understand things that do not make sense. Should everyone be looking for a real partnership from their relationship? I think it would be good if people did, however not everyone is going to find a good match. There are some people I know who will be lonely forever, and I don't thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/18 07:58 AM
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Automation of vehicles is going to cause mega problems. I think something around 30-40% of employment is in driving, and around 80% are men. When this happens, there will either be a massive change to the economic structure, or massive civil unrest, I suspect: Some sort of massive male version of 'make-work' government programs, a male equivalent of government bureaucracy jobs (useless jobs that have no to negative productivity but give meaning and money to people) Some sort of Universal basic i…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 10:29 PM
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If she is too career oriented the job makes too much money she won't respect him then he is a beta. In my profession, once you pass the gauntlet of exams and qualify, you are basically guaranteed a job with good income for life. A significant number of people use this power to basically check out and work <9-5 or multiple days at home, or 3 day weekends every week. There was a guy at my previous workplace worked what we called 'Julian Hours', which was 2-3 days a week, with who knows? hours. I w…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 08:07 AM
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There is an autistic (or intentionally ignorant) humourlessness. Where certain people fail to see jokes and take statements literally.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/18 07:55 AM
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I don't think you quite understand the AFBB situation. It is not the ideal situation, it is an underlying genetic urge. Soon after, most women will regret it, but that doesn't mean the urge isn't real. What I have noticed is that certain guys sleep with disproportionate number of women, and women love to cover up how many partners they have. One of my female roommate's brother thought that she was very innocent (probably imagined her to be a virgin), while she was far more sexually aggressive an…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:19 AM
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What you are touching on is the meta-debate that turned PUA into redpill/manosphere. PUA noticed that if you pretend to be a high value man, you can sleep with women. But there is many problems with this: Many men do not want one night stands with strangers, many of them want longer relationships (ironically they want short-term relationships instead of ONS). And also high self esteem women do not sleep with men who they think are lying to them. Once you drop the charade many women will leave. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/18 07:11 AM
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Your job in a relationship is to protect your partner's ego. If you are intentionally (or even unintentionally) hitting their esteem then you are fucking up. The problems stem when women use jealousy to test their partner or sociopathic men 'drop hints' in order to keep her more interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 10:04 PM
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You are making this assumption: Scientific is defined as agreeing with the current published scientific literature. Which by this definition nothing gender related that doesn't fit the narrative is unscientific. The most important part of red pill is going out there and testing it in your environment. An example would be someone posting a field report of a woman doing something "awalty" and everyone just responding yeah, yeah awalt based on an unconfirmed anecdote from some random terper on the …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 09:59 PM
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There are certain drivers which motivate people. If you have the 'Please Others' driver, where you really get a kick out of making other people happy, and you are alone. You will go insane. I think that sex is irrelevant here except on the point that women tend to have this driver more than men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/18 09:39 PM
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How about a male version of the trope: e.g. Hyper competent, Intelligent and Attractive, but but hilariously steet-dumb (opposite of street smart).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/18 04:19 AM
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This is not your argument, this is someone else's because you don't understand it. The rebuttal wolf study shows that most wolf packs are of the form: Breeding Pair ('alpha male and female'), and their pups. Packs tend to be related genetically, with the 'parents' leading. However if you get a pack of wolves that are not genetically related then the alpha situation, where the most dominant male and female mate, arises.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 09:18 PM
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There is a difference between avoiding conflict because it is bad verses avoid conflict because you can't fight. The former is not moral, while the latter is. Women are very attracted to men who can cause serious damage but don't because they are civilised. No one is attracted to the weakling with no power. The archetypical story is Beauty and the Beast, not Beauty and the Bitch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/18 07:40 AM
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who by RP definition are naturally inferior to men. Fuck off, this is insulting. You have been on here so long, you are even a mod, and yet you have no clue about what the other side believes. You are far too intelligent and experienced to use ignorance as an excuse. Why are intentionally being so intellectually dishonest? What is going through your mind that makes you have to write something like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 01:07 PM
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I think you don't understand hypergamy. Women prefer partners who are equal or higher in 'status'. It is not about entitlement. I think you are mixing up the problem of alpha widows: women who slept with 'chads' in their prime and think that they are on the calibre of 'chad' well into their late 30s. Women are perfectly fine being with a man on the same social rung as her.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/18 03:38 AM
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What were you expecting? Everyone to cheer you on their shoulders for being brave to be something different? You sound like the kids (interns) in this. Thinking that the real world is anything like the safe space culture of modern university. Anyone in the working world could see the outcome a mile away.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 10:04 PM
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She constantly reminds you that you wouldn’t like her if she didn’t do these things. Her source? The red pill, MGTOW, 4chan, Roosh, et. She knows how harsh and critical men are of women’s appearances and is therefore meticulous about how she looks. Don't let it get to that point. It is okay to share your frustrations with your partner, but if it gets to a point where it is pity-baiting, you have to a put a stop to it. It is unhealthy. What do you answer when she constantly brings up that you tru…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 09:42 PM
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As far as I know, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/18 12:56 AM
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Your argument has 3 parts: 'This study' which shows that countries with higher levels of egalitarianism and wealth has greater gender differences. Feminism supports wealth creation and egalitarianism. Therefore if you want "greater gender differences", then you should support Feminism. I disagree strongly on Point 2. Feminism, especially in modern times, has created an an alliance with socialism with is collectivist socialism. Both of them are very against both points: Collectivism is about rais…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/18 11:19 PM
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I assumed you were joking with the warthunder quip so I didn't respond. That is like applying for Harvard Business School with "I watched all 7 seasons of The Office twice." Find a local flight school and complete the course for a commercial pilot (or whatever is appropriate in your area). Talk to friends and see if you can get in touch with a pilot in your desired location and ask him what he did.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/18 07:06 AM
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would you date an unstable, broke hot girl? Well I did, although I wouldn't count her as more unstable than most people, but her life was not in order, and she has serious family issues. But for next time, I honestly think life would be much easier if I married a moderately attractive professional with two old and happily married parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 09:34 PM
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Right now experienced commercial pilots are heavily in demand so if can afford the licensing you are probably good.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 09:31 PM
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It is one of those fashion trends like emo or duckface. Someone famous did it then popular people copied her so now it is everywhere. It will die when a new fad comes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 09:30 PM
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'advice on my very specific situation which I have presented to you in journal format in an excessively wordy format, which if you printed out on paper would cause an environmental catastrophe that not even Trump could ignore. Fixed for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/18 07:19 AM
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The best strategy is not about age, but culture and personality. If your partner comes from a family with two happily married adults, and her friends are happily married, then there is much less risk. If she is not the comparative type that constantly is looking at what others have to see if she has more, then she probably won't care that some other guy has a little bit more than you do, at least not enough to throw away your history together.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/18 12:03 AM
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This should be framed from a relative perspective. I don't disagree, in reply to another post I said: The receptionist and the surgeon are not the same woman. The surgeon is on a completely different level of capability. A better comparison is: Who would a hot male doctor prefer: A highly stressed surgeon (all surgeons are highly stressed) making mid 6 figures. Or a more relaxed GP who spends her free time on alternative hobbies such as health making low 6 figures. That is a closer comparison in…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:43 AM
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Society? Male fashion models don't do as well as famous singers or actors.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:41 AM
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This isn't necessarily true. Men don't necessarily care about status for casual hookups but not so much for LTRs or marriage. Appearance and health are important but they aren't the only deciding factors when it comes to LTRs and marriage. It is not true then men place zero value on their partner's achievements. Rather that in mate selection the marginal benefit is much lower for women than it is for men. e.g. I think the guy who comes first in a Olympic race will get far more sexual opportuniti…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:38 AM
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How would you explain Harvey Weinstein (yes we both know he abused his power that was rhetorical). I think that status is the first hurdle, and yes physical attraction is required, but without a similar level of status the man would be invisible. I see two common attacks on this: Super ugly famous guy, and super hot loser. Super repulsive famous guy is stuck on the hurdle of being repulsive. Super hot loser will gain status by being in a room where he is the most attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:31 AM
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What is your definition of '[sic]hypergsmy'? I think it is misunderstood. I should have written a list before I posted, but the common ones are: hypergamy being bad (or even good) men being hypergamous too hypergamy being attractiveness/everything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:28 AM
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What you are describing is that people don't believe things they don't like. Which I can confirm happens extremely often. [women] - will dump a guy in a heartbeat if they can get a better deal. I think RP underestimate the sticking power required for a jump. But I am not denying that the moment it is true, that she will leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:24 AM
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This makes it sounds like hypergamy is a man being frustrated that women have higher standards than them. Maybe it sounds like that, but that is not my intention because men and women have standards based on different traits. I don't think they are comparable. Asking whether men or women have higher standards is like asking if cheese is more bitter than a lemon is tart. It isn't comparable. Then you make a jump from: appearance and health will probably give you the best return for your time into…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:21 AM
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I initially put it as a discussion, because I think it is more interesting that simply finding a logical hole that might be meaningless, it was changed by a mod. [hypergamy is] ... generally that "Women who choose men they perceive as higher quality". Which I think is true, and I put a very general "equal or higher in the social hierarchy", although I should have put "equal or higher in her social hierarchy" to be more precise. What I have noticed for very high status women, is that their partne…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 08:12 AM
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The good looking young doctor at the local hospital is not going to marry the pretty young receptionist I don't know about hospital doctors specifically but I know a few optometrists and dentists (specifically Orthodontics) who have their wife taking care of reception. But that is besides the point. The receptionist and the surgeon are not the same woman. The surgeon is on a completely different level of capability. A better comparison is: Who would a hot male doctor prefer: A highly stressed su…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/18 07:59 AM
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I think there’s something socially off if he doesn’t at least offer to pay, assuming the date was his idea. The social convention is: women offer to pay and the man should pay on the first date. Anything else is 'antisocial' in a light sense. Although in today's modern age, there should be a couple of casual meetups like coffee, a walk and maybe anal before something serious like a first date. (I jest)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 01:16 PM
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You argument is making the strawman 'Hypergamy is about wanting the most attractive partner' Hypergamy is about status and achievement, not 'attractiveness'. Men also function the same way. This is a 'no [we're] not you are' argument. Which is wrong: men do not value status and achievement generally. And if it was true, it is a complete red herring.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 01:12 PM
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We are on the internet. Most of empathy is mirroring emotion, language use and energy, you can't do that through text. If you are in a bad mood, you will assume that the other person is in a bad mood and that will make you madder.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 12:58 PM
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It is quite literally a sexual strategy. I have a feeling that it is a hijacking of a past genetic strategy for 'gamma' men who are completely rejected by society. They have a better odds of passing their genes by 'befriending' women and taking advantage of them when the moment is right, than by climbing the male hierarchy and being chosen by an appropriate ranked female. The odds are probably shit: you rape 1 girl and the tribe is going to kill you, but the 1 in 30 odds of impregnating her is p…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/18 12:27 PM
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Yes. Life is not fair. Some people get dealt the worst hand every yet struggle and thrive out from the bottom to become a great success. Some. Most get crushed by the steamroller of life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 01:34 PM
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Majorities don't have stereotypes. Chinese people in China aren't thought of as especially hard working or intelligent because that is simply everyone. Good improvement in brevity. Although if you cut out the Jargon from the second sentence it would be better.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 01:26 PM
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Are there any extra steps you think Indian men need to take? Any thing you can think that would help make me successful in the western SMP? Please feel free to ask questions, I will answer as best as I can. Yes. For all 'non-standard' men. You have to attack stereotypes head on. For Indians the stereotype is: Nerdy, asexual, unfit, weird, smelly (probably more, you know them better than I do). If you don't smell, dress well and are fit, already you have broken most of the stereotypes. Things lik…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 12:04 PM
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I say this as a potential turning point for society. I was thinking nowadays I could never be president because I have looked at porn before. So any election there would be an ad with me looking at porn and it is all over. And then with Kavanaugh you don't even need to have done anything wrong. This is a situation: This guy groped me 37 years ago (which was when we were both in high school). I didn't come forward until it would be an opportune moment for my political party to gain. I can't name …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 11:54 AM
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In short, no one will read your shit because it is too long. If you want to appear smart, brevity is key. Those that get their meaning across in few words appear intelligent. Cut this down to two paragraphs and people will read and discuss it, and you can grow intellectually.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 11:49 AM
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The aim for most people is not to go from zero to hero, but to go from zero to a two or a three, and hopefully your kids might be able to be a 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/18 11:46 AM
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I'm not buying the idea that people just blindly make choices that are optimal for society Really? Assuming you are not a psychopath it is literally in your genes. What is altruism, or helping of powerless people in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 10:11 PM
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Maybe it has something to do with their self-loathing. They don't think they deserve support, so undermine attempts to find some support with the use of "COPE" as an insult or something. It is the 'ironic' defence to a fear of failure/rejection. If you don't really try then you don't fail if you fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:08 PM
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Umm, that is the whole fucking point of Redpill. The bitterness and anger is at society for lying to men. Not at women for being women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:05 PM
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Articulation and thought, or even intelligence are not the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:03 PM
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In terms of physical attractiveness, obviously not. The reason why women choose older guys at all is because women may prefer a high status older male over a low status younger male. The reverse is almost never true. Older men have longer to accumulate power and wealth. Or do men prefer younger women and reject older ones? If you are asking this seriously, then get out in the world and meet people. Women are hypergamous, men are polygynous: Women, which would you prefer: An attractive manager, o…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 02:00 PM
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If there was any alternative to the Democrats: some sort of center-left party concerned about 'traditional' leftist values like welfare, freedom and equality, that party would be completely dead by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:30 PM
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That comment is aimed at their articulation. Most people will know deep in their bones the importance, but be unable to describe it clinically.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 12:13 PM
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Very boiled down it is: We did something in the past, we don't know why but we are alive and thriving now. So we should keep those structures in place. Opposed to the progressive: There are things right now that are causing problems so we should change them. With the conservative response being: When people do this, it usually fucks things up and causes massive problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/18 03:17 AM
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I wouldn't go that far. You can genuinely believe something based on an interpretation of the evidence which changes when you're presented with new evidence. Of course, in reality people engage in lots of motivated reasoning to avoid changing their mind, but sometimes they still do. I think you haven't dealt with many people. In the real world, I am far more convincing when I am in my suit, than when I am wearing pajamas, even though I have the same arguments either outfit. I bet I could convinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:44 AM
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I think you may not have much experience dealing with people because people never change their minds. They only discover that (the opposite view) is what they believed all along.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/18 09:17 AM
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I remember reading one of their posts which is removed now. It started with "I know there has a lot of people are interested about Good Men and how they relate to the purplepill debate, so here is a 10 page essay about it..." I was thinking BULLSHIT! I spend far too much time on here and I have never seen this term 'Good Men' mentioned once. No one give a fuck about Good Men. There hasn't been any discussion about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/18 10:42 PM
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I think that there is a misunderstanding of the distinction between amoral and immoral. Alternatively, what do you think the difference is? It seems that you have an implicit assumption that male happiness and success runs against female happiness and success. On that point, many men will find out that their partners are much happier if they concentrate on making themselves happy and bringing her along for the ride, than if they attempt to cater to her every whim. That old adage has it backwards…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 04:18 AM
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In general that is true. RP is about maximising your life. However it sounds like you are only valuing economics and sex (which is a problem of many of the new wave feminists). Many, and I'd even argue most, women highly value the success of their family and friends. A situation where she was rich but her partner unhappy wouldn't be acceptable to most women. Red pill is not purely psychopathic social manipulation. It is about seeing and discussing the world as it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 04:10 AM
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Never without evidence. In criminal cases we have a very high bar of 'beyond reasonable doubt'.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 04:04 AM
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My friends and family: Yes, assuming you have not thrown away your credibility to me yet. Strangers who go to the police first: yes in terms of sympathy and investigation. Strangers who do not go to the police but only go to the media: no. In a court of law: never.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 03:14 AM
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I wonder why this is the female redpill, it doesn't seem to coincide with the male RP's ideas about amorality, and benefiting yourself over other, in fact on the surface it just appears as old morals rehashed. Because men and women are not the same. Think of selling and buying. Redpilled sellers will know that there is a game that they are playing, and their goal is to create value or the illusion of value to get the maximum price. Redpilled buyers aim to cut through lies and pay the least for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/18 03:11 AM
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These days, women no longer need support from a man for survival. This loss of necessity has stripped men of being able to offer anything of value (to women) in a relationship. If a woman is interested in a man now it's now solely for recreation. She's with him because she enjoys his company. This is very close to the situation. There were many males strategies, but by far the 'provider' role was the most common (probably 80% of relationships was based off the man providing). Since the modern eq…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 10:45 PM
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This is hilarious, you are the quintessential example of BP. Not even understand what you are arguing against, just here to score points be repeating talking points. The whole point of TRP is that while it might not be your fault, it is certainly your responsibility. The reason for most married men is because they have become a loser and a fat piece of shit. So the solution is to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/18 09:22 PM
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It works because people take things for granted once they get comfortable. The dangerous parts of dread show that those things are not a certainty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/18 03:06 AM
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It is an intellectual rationalisation of nice guys syndrometm .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 06:18 AM
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6-7 She isn't ugly but does look slightly off. But then I think most French girls look a bit off.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/18 12:09 AM
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The consequences should be: the aggrieved parties take the libeler to court. They sue and win. The court orders the libeler to take down the libel and pays the aggregated party damages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/18 08:31 AM
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I don't read it much, however it was (maybe is?) a place where woman who acknowledge that RP exists and is true so try and find a place to talk with like minded women about how to play the landscape. E.g. Mainstream BP will tell everyone that being fat is great (because they can sell you shit). RP women will tell you this is not a good idea. Mainstream BP will tell you that you should have as much meaningless sex as you possibly can because men and women are equal and for men having lots of sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 11:49 PM
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Most problems that people have with dread is that people skip the first steps and start reading from the end. Most of the final steps are for men who are in drastic inescapable situations. There is an important part here: To clarify, these are sequential. You don't go past level 5 if you are happy in the relationship. You don't "cheat" until you have tried everything else and the marriage is already over. This is for married men who: Not only do not have sex in years. They have no intimacy (kiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 11:44 PM
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To me, that is like being disappointed at a lanky kid because he can't bench 80kg. Yes she is a human, and other humans are capable of self reflection right now, that doesn't mean she is there yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 11:28 AM
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Not everyone has the same level of open-mindedness that you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 10:04 AM
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Depends on the level of self awareness she can reach, and also the level she is willing to reach.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 10:00 AM
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She is honest and sincere, but not objective.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/18 01:22 AM
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Whether or not this is all TRP doctrine shouldn’t matter as much as y’all want it to, they are still describing toxic masculinity. It does matter because that is what we are discussing here. Trying to find out what part of TRP or BP is right, in all forms of the word. If we aren't talking about RP or BP and just what everyone agrees on, then we are just virtue signalling. This isn't the place for that. Fit into a society that accepts that masculine men hit, they even hit women, but not one where…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 06:22 AM
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The first sentence is a condensed version of: The idea of 'Toxic Masculinity' is a straw man argument. So I am saying that without defining 'Toxic Masculinity' clearly and personally then there is no argument (because there is no one 'RP credible' taking the opposite side). Without a personal definition, ultimately the argument will boil down to circular reasoning or a 'tautology' as you put it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:15 AM
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Huh? The people talking about ghosting women, mistreating them, manipulating them, dreadgaming them, and harassing them are senstitive and caring? Nope, this is the pendulum swinging to the other side. Although if you look into details of the specifics of each of action I suspect they are less harsh than the titles you are giving. I don't think anyone would recommend 'harrassing' anyone else. This is a very poor strategy for getting laid. I suspect you are thinking that behaviours of 'incels-typ…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 04:12 AM
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Sensitivity and being Caring are positive feminine traits. Most men on TRP have a problem that they are too sensitive and too caring. On this point, back in PUA days (so before TRP, reddit and the manosphere), there was a game for newbies to 'try and get slapped'. The reason why is because there is a line which is too far, but for these men they are so far away from the line that they can't see it. What they see as obnoxious, to everyone else is "Oh hey Jim, didn't see you there". Just standard …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 02:55 AM
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There were many fat women shrieking a couple of years back, but they all disappeared to obesity-related diseases.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 02:37 AM
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If you can get on the level of 5% success rate with women, you are good to go. If you are short and have no redeeming qualities, yes you are fucked. But if you are short yet skilled, or strong, or rich, or funny or anything. Then you can have a decent chance. Either way. You will get shit tests about being short (from both men and women), so learn how to deal with them early.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 02:22 AM
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Toxic Masculinity is a straw man argument. It is basically defined as 'what is bad' so of course it is bad by definition. Your argument boils down to "Evil is bad and causes problems for society" Start by defining what you personally mean by Toxic Masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/18 02:18 AM
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Why do you have a problem that people you despise don't agree with your life choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:31 AM
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Yes, that is kinda the whole point of TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/18 08:11 AM
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but IME men ABSOLUTELY value the career of their partners. I did not claim that men do not value the career of their partners at all. Read that sentence again. The rest of that discussion follows of that misconception. He weirdly won't follow this path to its logical conclusion and advocate for men to choose more humane work-life paths too. He doesn't make a claim either way. He does not advocate for men to be taking inhumane paths, rather express astonishment that some do. Think about the disti…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 10:16 AM
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I acknowledge that you might not necessarily believe them, however these are a good summary of the general arguments against RP (with the arguments being implicit in the statements). A big problem is that these statements touch on truths, but push a different angle which misses the point. This means they can take hours to deconstruct. women are children and that they’re actions should be managed and controlled by men, who RP believes are the only ones know what they want and what to do There is …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 05:53 AM
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Treating other people politely. Depends on your status/power. A king being polite is respectable and a role model. A loser has to be polite otherwise they will be ostracized. Playing video games. Watching anime. Doing these things aren't a negative, however if you don't have a job, aren't fit, have no friends and are living in your parent's basement, then there is a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/18 05:34 AM
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In a general sense I agree: "male dating advice will always be considered 'anti-social'". However for specifics, the messenger matters: a well-dressed attractive man in a suit to a friendly audience will be able to say the same things and be thought of as a dating guru.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 03:35 PM
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I would like to see if they have controlled properly for mother's age because that has been shown to be a real factor, and for the 5 listed pairs on table 1, there is really high correlation between the ages of the partners (obviously). I have a feeling that this study is merely measuring the effect of mother's age on de novo mutations since there doesn't appear to be any significant way they have controlled this factor. Post note: The study is simply bad and wouldn't show the effect they are cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 03:32 PM
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I don't think you argued your title. You argued "the notion that women require a man to reach a certain economic or social status is outdated". So I will challenge this. Point 2: economics. It is true in the sense that there is less incentive to marry for money, however partnering up definitely makes living cheaper, and marrying someone more frugal or with better earning power will increase your lifestyle. I think you might be arguing that women are no longer required to marry to avoid starvatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 03:21 PM
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Think of a dog who got bitten by a large black dog when they were a puppy. Then amp its intelligence to human level and ask them to talk about large black dogs. That is the gist of what you are seeing. Then most of your points are normal attacking points for what people to do to groups they dislike (and to protect the ego).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 03:04 PM
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Why is it women's magazine think its a good idea to promote extremely unhealthy lifestyles? "Using data from 1980 to 2013, in the UK 66.6% of men and 52.7% of women were found to be either overweight or obese." Women's magazines are basically advertising catalogs, they make most of their money through the ads and the articles and (recipes or relationship advice are there to build audience to sell adspace). They are simply catering to their audience and clients.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/18 02:12 PM
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It is simple actually. If you are hot then she wants it but if you are an uggo then no, women aren't like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/18 03:05 AM
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It is more efficient in a genetic sense. One of the big problems with biology is that your genes don't give a fuck about you. If your genes can father the next generation, or be the mother of someone who does, your genes will happily make you miserable or fuck up the society that you live in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 02:31 PM
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Your son is very likely: Above average intelligence Highly stressed Tread carefully because he might be putting himself under a lot of stress which is hard to see.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 02:22 PM
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I think I called you out too strongly. Now you are trying to use your vocabulary to bail yourself out of the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 02:13 PM
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Borderline Personality Disorder
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 01:56 PM
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Dread game is "The big book of self defense." Most of the criticisms skip to page 100 which is titled "Get a bat and start swinging." For 90% of relationships and 99% of those who are not bound by law or culture in marriage, working on yourself will solve most of your problems. Many of the actions which you find immoral are when you are with a BPD girl and you can't leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 01:43 PM
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A problem with the argument is thinking that RP is a philosophy. There is no required goal or philosophy. If you think there is, then you might be one of the people who finished Fight Club pumped and went outside to tell your friend to punch you. Completely missing the point of being a faceless drone. It is missing half of the TRP ideas. Probably the most important part. The saying is "Eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap". This is what drives most of nature and forms much of what causes most of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 01:32 PM
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Because anger pushes you to action. Imagine 3 people: 1 is calm, 1 angry, 1 depressed. They all go to an internet forum. The calm one makes 1 post. The angry one 10 and the depressed one 0. If you look at the forum the next day you might as 'why is everyone angry?' Most people are not angry, but you see their posts more often.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 01:21 PM
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There is more to communication than what is said. That is the distinction that it appears you have missed.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 01:18 PM
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Do you find courageous and heroic women to be attractive, Honestly I would find it neutral. I don't look at any brave acts done by any of my female friends and think 'that makes you more sexually attractive to me'. It doesn't make me less attracted to them either. all other things being equal? The catch is, All things are NOTequal. Spending effort building bravery takes time and stress. The same goes from being a specialist lawyer vs being a partner at a big 4 law firm. Both of these women will …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/18 01:15 PM
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So if this girl put herself in a situation a rescue situation is likely does that make it manipulation. What about if she intentionally is ignorant and gets herself into situations accidentally?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 11:45 AM
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What you are describing gets really messy. Much of what I would call 'High Level Persuasion' is about convincing yourself through techniques to use this to convince others. Is it still lying if you truly believe in it yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 10:19 AM
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Feminism is long dead: Only 7 per cent of Britons consider themselves feminists. However if you think that means that 93% of people are sexist then you are probably in that small group. I suspect that there are more furries in America than people who think that men and women should be treated differently under the law.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/18 10:09 AM
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When she says 10lbs, reality means it is way fucking more then 10lbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 11:23 AM
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yet mention of them is conspicuously absent in RP theory If you would guess, how many people are gay people in America? If you watch netflix or Hollywood often, you might say somewhere around 5-20%. However in America (where it is fashionable) it is around 1.7% Gay or Lesbian, so let's say 1%. This is why you don't see it in RP or TRP, there is not an agenda to promote gay people specifically, so you would expect to see <1% of topics related to them. Where do LBGTQ+ people fit in relation to TRP…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 04:06 AM
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Why do Red Pill and MGTOW focus on attacking woman's hypergamy rather than attacking chad's polygamy? Red Pill and original (non-incel) MGTOW is not trying to solve society's problems. RP says hypergamy is part of women, deal with it. When you understand it, you can swim with the tide instead of against it, and acquire status and muscles. Coincidently the girls who ignored you as a loser, will suddenly become receptive and you will not be resentful. MGTOW is either: 'mig-towe' aka incels bitchin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/18 02:45 AM
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Oops that what happens when you write essays while trying to fix jet lag, my mistake. Looks like I'm not going to be able to redeem myself with you so I won't bother.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 01:20 PM
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MRA is doomed to fail from the beginning. It goes against our biological programming. I see it as trying to paddle up a waterfall. Society has no sympathy for weak men. The job of weak men is to fight and die in wars protecting the tribe. Those who succeed become heroes, those who fail die. Trying to get women to sympathise with male plight is inherently doomed, only those with extreme levels of self awareness will be able to understand. It is sad, but no one gives a fuck. Next time call it SOBs…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 05:39 AM
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People try to acquire the highest value(highest SMV or RMV), with the value they have in hand. (Your own value) How does axiom explain fat people? Is it short term value only? Men have an astronomical demand for sex. So women have the power to increase their own price. Only accepting to have relations with people who have more than just sex. Point 1 Agree, Point 2 Yes in a sense that women are choosy. How does point 3 rectify with hyper high status men (e.g. Kings, Movie Stars, Successful Athlet…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 05:32 AM
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I am thinking more about child rearing, as opposed to purely sex, in a sense yes. That is the first female strategy mixing with the first half of male strategy. What is interesting is that everyone knows that powerful men cheat: e.g. the existence of mistresses, the way that 'heir' law is structured that only 'legitimate children count'. In (current) modern times you may see women throwing themselves as mega pop stars like Justin Beiber. With Justin Beiber, women are not demanding any level of c…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 05:11 AM
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Notice the structure of the sentence I wrote. I said: 'bad' women, not bad women. That distinction means that I am using society's definition, not implying my own judgement. I don't pass judgement either way. Assuming you are not doing a power play, I am going to write out the debate tactic: You disagree with the point that I said: BPers paint X as toxic masculinity. BP world view argues on people, not facts. So you aim is to show that I am hypocritical, or morally wrong, thereby showing that yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/18 05:05 AM
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I didn't make a 'positive' claim in my first reply. I was dispelling the idea that I though you had: that I said that sexual strategy is [fully] conscious. I do not think that. I'm trying to cut through the backtracking and figure out what your point is. If you think that I am backtracking, try and understand the law analogy. There are shades of grey in life. so to my original claim, most people do indeed bumble around and date whoever's willing I agree. and available without applying any such s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 08:08 PM
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On your middle paragraph, I think this is why the most common partnership we see in modern human societies is: the female first strategy, and men not following the second half of their strategy. I think it is easily arguable that this results in the most happiness and fulfilment for everyone involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 07:57 PM
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I think that you have black and white view of the world. There is not only conscious and subconscious, there are semi-conscious things. In a court of law, think of the difference between the judgements. The judgement is 'guilty' or 'not-guilty', not 'guilty' or 'innocent'. now that we've established that you were wrong in your previous comment and these are in fact conscious decisions Unfortunately, I do not concede this point, however it seems that you some sort of 'need' to be right, so strong…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 07:50 PM
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Poly can consist of only 3 people and be stable. For a male brain it's easier to understand when it's F/M/F where both females are bisexual. This is the male strategy where the male has enough resources to support 2 partners. This probably sounds like I am forcing it to match what I proposed, but I am doing it for a reason. I think in that case, the behaviours that the man behaves in will be the same as the first strategy (e.g. mate guarding and looking for easy opportunities). And I also think …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 07:43 PM
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I didn't say that these urges are purely and wholly subconscious. Think of something like hunger. If you want, you can have full control over hunger and ignore it, but they are drivers that push you to action.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 07:38 PM
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Good point, I haven't talked about poly/community child raising. I don't actually know any people who are in a 'stable' poly relationship (e.g. where there are at least 4 people involved where everyone is happy and it is the same people, not a couple courting strange lovers). I assume it exists since people are talking about it all the time (and I have seen those post watershed documentaries). Maybe you might know whether they have been common enough throughout time that we have the genetic prog…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 06:42 PM
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This is the 'why bother' behind RP. If you are a women, you can understand that men have a worry about cuckoldry, and if you alleviate this fear properly you will have a much more relaxed relationship. Obviously for men you will be able to play with or suppress your urges better if you know what they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 06:27 PM
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Excluding prostitution, I think that these are all 'misfiring' of the genes that we have for reproduction. To the men, the genes think that they are getting lucky with the second strategy. Let's say we can wind forward our exact society with no technological change for 10 million years, this would update our genes to cope with modern times. I suspect that these things would not be attractive to men anymore. Prostitution is weird, because in the past, prostitutes did have children. It could be a …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 06:24 PM
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I think you are interpreting that I am saying that sexual strategy is conscious. I am not. These urges are as subconscious as hunger. That aside, there is no dispute. PPD is highly esoteric. I think it is easily less than 1% of people would be interested in this topic.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/18 06:12 PM
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Right now there is mainstream advice for women that works, women do not need a secluded community to talk about female issues like men do now. Women can bitch, complain and ask for advice in the public eye without serious ridicule. e.g. Matthew Hussey
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/18 03:52 PM
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You still have to play the male role. Ask a girl out to coffee I suspect that pretty much every woman will say yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/18 12:12 AM
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One they went from: men who date but don't commit to women (because of unfair marriage bias) to 'Mig Tow's bitching about women They completely lost the plot. It used to be men not playing society's game, now it is primary literal incels, men who want to but can't get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 06:17 PM
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If you want no attention you should go complain on an internet forum. Very Sexy!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 06:10 PM
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Ah yes, I forgot that clothes that fit are sexual In short yes. All shoes are heels/flats, so all shoes exaggerate female sexuality? Those two types tend to. Heels more than flats. Both of them more than sneakers. And now makeup is sexual too, great! Obviously, nobody disagrees with this. You are too stupid to use sarcasm. Try it with something that isn't true. Just because it can doesn't mean it has to, or it should. It does. What it should or shouldn't do doesn't matter. Those things you talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 05:48 PM
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Believe it or not, women don't dress for men's attention. It isn't intentional. For example, I wear a suit at work because I work in business and my choices are: suit or pants and suit jacket. Except suits are the uniform of leaders, displaying status which is attractive to women, and I get more female attention. For women, the dress code is fitting clothes and usually make up and heels/flats. These things exaggerate female sexuality. The proposed solution of 'rules so people don't sexualise' is…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/18 11:46 AM
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Why do men ask out women more than the opposite? The male sexual role is inherently more randy, compare the male and female parts of a flower. The male bit: the Stamen, which releases billions of pollen each season, while the female bit: the Style, forces the pollen to go through a long tube in order to reach the eggs. The male/female sexual strategies exists all over nature. Why do women get asked out more than men? Biffaults Law. In humans, men can procreate a few times a day, women can only d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/18 07:55 AM
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I have actually never ever heard a woman mock or attack or insult short men IRL. A recent girlfriend was telling me how she was doing some online dating, she found a guy and they clicked intellectually, having nice long form conversations. At one point they decided to meet up. Turns out he was about 5'6. She is 5'11. She was devastated. She was telling me how annoyed she felt spending so much time for him to turn out to be short.... Later on she was telling me that a girl needs to feel protected…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/18 07:29 AM
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In my short life I have had women who i was sure liked me only to find out they were just being friendly. Odds are they were and you took too long. Or you are socially dumb (I think about 80% of men and 60-70% of women are). If you think it is the second, learn more advanced social skills. The advantages of this are uncountable, every part of your life will be better. I have dated women who i was pretty sure didn't like me at all until they told me that they did. ... How can a man tell if a woma…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:11 PM
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Can most men achieve "enthusiastic consent"? If so, can they achieve it consistently? These type of questions are hard to answer. For many men, IF they are able to get to a level of fitness and mental frame, then easily. But I know many men who are incapable of the discipline and self improvement required. In terms of intelligence, and basic physical attributes, probably 90% of men could reach this if you rewired their brain and they pumped iron for a year. But 19 out of 20 of men will not do it…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/18 10:00 PM
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People on that sub typically side with women. One of the subtle points of RP is that this point is always true of basically every society. There is good human reasons for this, I believe that there is evidence of humans entering male bottlenecks a few times in society (where the male:female ratio increased to levels such as 10:1, probably due to tribal warfare). It is really important to understand this, because this is the default position that pretty much everyone has (or at least polite compa…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 08:42 PM
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A problem with reddit is the echo-chamber effect. It is a vicious cycle where certain themes are upvoted, so they stay more prominent, which encourages more of the same and pushes people with dissenting opinions away, where certain themes are again upvoted. For example off the top of my head, the 'rules' of that sub are: Cheating is always bad (this is interesting because this point is regardless of gender). Some form of 'casual sex=good' A bit of general platitudes (the communicate/be yourself/…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 08:37 PM
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TRP uses this as demonstrate hypergamy as factual (as well as a whole bunch of other claims), but there's a fundamental misunderstanding of what women are actually looking for. Nope, the 'proof' of hypergamy is that women initate more divorces. Men on the other hand are happy cheating and keeping mistresses. Women are hypergamous in that the want a single man who is the best. Men are polygamous in that they want as many attractive women as they can get. The word average is thrown around a great …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 08:28 PM
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However, I've heard that for many women, a guy living at home (especially one in his thirties) is a dealbreaker. This is true. Many women are very self conscious about sex and if you can't be discreet, roughly 90-98% of women are no longer an option. I don't know how you can get less discreet than "boyfriend's parents are watching and listening in the other room". Options are: Upping your attractiveness and game/confidence. If you are hot enough, you can get around it. Going for more traditional…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 10:58 AM
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And if you don't believe it, go to chaturbate: Looking at the viewers: 6000, 4200, 2000, 2400, 2000, 2000.... There are ~1600 camgirls, the last ~1000 have 5 viewer or less.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/18 10:24 AM
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The chance is low, but the potential penalty is very high: there is some SJW asshole with far too much time on his hands, enough to track you down and try to destroy your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 07:41 AM
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If you are attractive then your approaches and inappropriate touches are welcome and desired. If you are ugly then they are sexual harassment. Careful with Feminist Journalists specifically. Many of them are psychopaths and are waiting for any sexual attention so they can throw the guy under the bus and use that as a ticket to victimhood, and fame. I got a heartfelt advice from my 17 years old female cousins of all the people: go talk to girls unless you want a lifelong virginity. She really car…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/18 07:22 AM
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I think it is hard but possible to pull off intimate relationships with many people. I am not dumb, however I find it difficult to keep a track of all the things required to maintain a handful of relationships (e.g. what people like, birthdays, moods and personalities). To maintain the level of girlfriend that with multiple people would mean that it would be the only thing I do. I doubt that most of those in poly amorous relationships are able to maintain the high level of intimacy with many peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/18 07:22 AM
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There is the hierarchy of love and sex: Sex with Love > Sex without Love > Love without Sex > No Love and no Sex. For women switch the middle two.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 10:03 AM
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And the minority that don't skew the ratio.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/18 10:00 AM
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But I don't understand what in your post is specific to them that doesn't apply to other men. If anything, they're the least likely to make advances. It is "I read the incel topic but my women are wonderful genetic drive is too strong that I need to show that the opposite is true".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/18 06:52 AM
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I don't understand your claim, it appears to be irrelevant: THE_END_IS_NIGH said "There is no substance to BP." You retorted (paraphrasing) "There isn't substance in RP either, e.g. they tell you to lift and hold frame" So I said "This is the first step in a diagnostic tool." Then your reply has no relation to anything said by me, or you, or the parent comment, or even the thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/18 08:13 AM
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Using a diagnostics tool, lifting and holding frame is often the first step (although I would add, have you ever tried at all first?) "help my computer doesn't work!" "is it plugged in?" "uh no..." ..."" So with RP, "I have no success with women" "are you a fat shit who is also a bitch?" "Yes" "Change that"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/18 09:55 AM
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Assuming that happy marriages and divorces are independent... That just sounds stupid: "happy marriages are just as likely to divorce as unhappy ones"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/18 10:54 PM
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Excuse my interruption, I am not in a chatty mood today.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/18 11:31 PM
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There is normal people consent, which means you pay attention to your partner and escalate or de-escalate based on their reactions. If you are socially calibrated, there is very rarely a time when you will hit a hard no, most rejections are 'that was to fast for me, please slow down' if you do, the night isn't over. In this sense 'kino escalation' is basically consent. Things like the escalation ladder are useful if you are inexperienced. You want to touch her boobs, fine. But she won't be comfo…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:18 PM
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Is this generally true of women? Yes Do you stop feeling any sort of reaction to other men regardless of how small? No, but you should keep an eye on her hypergamy. It female nature to be attracted to status, so pay attention when opportunities for her arise. She probably doesn't want to cheat on you, don't put her in situations where she can't refuse. An then here comes the BP tide. It is exactly the same for men. If you have a partner and you hear that he is going off on a trip with a female c…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:09 PM
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Wealth is generated when you consume less than you are entitled to. When you save money, you forego consumption now. You are rewarded by being able to receive higher future consumption. It is not a one way street. The community isn't granting you wealth, you are allowing the community to consume your extra productivity. America's health system. There is a big problem with the current 'healthcare system' it was set up basically as a tax aversion strategy, this means that unless you are someone wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 08:02 PM
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Higher graduated income taxes and higher capital gains taxes would be beneficial in the US. A problem with this is that high income individuals tend to be very mobile. Pretty much every country will take them in an instant. There is a risk that if taxes (especially capital gains taxes) are raised, people will move. An example is in UK there is a 40% inheritance tax. That is way fucking too high for me. I'm in my 20s but I have already decided that I will not die in this country. I also know how …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 10:55 AM
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That has the underlying assumption that being an "animal lover" means that you love all animals. It is okay to love some animals, like others, and dislike some. e.g. I like dogs, you could call me a dog lover. But my Aunt's has an annoying, yappy dog who tries to bite me at every opportunity. I don't like this dog. Does that make me a hypocrite?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/18 10:48 AM
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Is it that hard to understand humour?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:53 AM
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I don't think so. The people who are commenting in it don't appear to either. That is male humour, seeing if you can convince your friends to do stupid things for your (and the group's) amusement.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/18 12:35 AM
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https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2583786/
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:41 PM
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What if you didn't know that women find masculine traits like ambition and strength attractive, being constantly told that giving in to your wife will make her happy (it doesn't). Then you have been doing this for 10 years and also you have kids who you love so you don't want to fuck them up. Then you might be willing to do some borderline manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:15 PM
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That is why dread is mostly passed around in married circles. If your relationship is less than year old, or you aren't even in a relationship, you should probably leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:12 PM
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There was a study where they got babies (very young) and presented them with doll face-like toys and mechanical thing-like toys. It turns out the male babies tended to be drawn to the thing-like toys and the females towards the face-like toys. Interests are a very biological based instinct. You might be thinking, that is because the male babies were more familiar with things and the females with dolls. There are 2 things that dispute this: The babies are really young, arguable too young to be co…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:11 PM
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Terp dread I’ve seen written in a blog and it’s more like intentionally trying to get her to hamster and be all anxious and in the dark. Not sure that’s so nefarious but it’s certainly not nice. From what I recall that blog came off a little revengy for some reason. Not sure why a woman would stick around for all that for a man who isn’t either a Bf either but whatever, terps are gonna terp I guess. You might have read something like this. All over it sounds like drawing the line between sociopa…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:04 PM
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Dread Level 4: Begin conditioning your availability to your wife with her treatment of you. Your are busy now. You don't have time for a sexually disinterested, annoying, or angry wife. Take up another cause if you need to. This is a great time to join a martial arts club. The important part is in bold. When she is kind and pleasant to you, you are kind and pleasant to her. If she is bitchy and unpleasant, don't sit there and take it, do something else. Think about the guys who need to use this …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/18 11:00 PM
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Because they lie obviously... haven't you talked to humans before? Men lie about the amount of sex they get and the hotness of the women, women lie about how few partners they get and how meaningful their relationships are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 08:13 PM
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You can google the big 5 personality traits. Every trait has positives and negatives (that it why they haven't been removed through evolution). Men and women tend to differ on some of these traits, although this only really is visible at the extremes - there is far too much overlap in the middle.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 08:12 PM
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There is an archetype of the rejected male who traditional would be the whipping boy, or the one to shoot up schools. ISIS and other extremist groups prey on this types because they tend to be lacking meaning in their lives. Even religions tend to prey on their these types of people. If you don't have an identity or meaning in your life you are very vulnerable.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/18 08:10 PM
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Because they are targeted at the man of their dreams, Harry Styles from One direction doesn't need to worry about SMV. One of the key 'secrets' that RP has discovered, besides water being wet, women are shallow too. If you don't have these things, you will be fucking amazed how effective getting a nice haircut, fitting clothes and biceps have on women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:21 PM
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What do you think? I have been with a couple of girls who straight up told me they were asexual. They were not so asexual in bed. I'm an above average male (think a bit uglier that what women on tinder consider 'average'). I would like to watch you watch an 'asexual' girl reacts to an actual exceptional man. guy had a theory that a large portion of women are asexual I suspect that this guy isn't one you should take advice on for women. The guys who do really well are very discreet.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:13 PM
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Why isn’t there a push to make marriage contacts more privatized and unquestionable? The people who have to push for the law to change also have a massive incentive to keep it the way it is. In a divorce settlement, sometimes the man 'wins' more often the women 'wins', but who always wins? Divorce Lawyers. We'll see what happens in a couple more decades where the marriage rate drops and the people who do get married are far more careful.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 11:06 PM
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While true, there is a non-insignificant number of women who (lie) that she isn't that type of girl then goes off and sleeps with lots of hot guys. It one of the drivers into RP anger phase.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/18 03:13 PM
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Well let's have a quick look at the titles of the scientific articles this person co/authored: A Good Sexual Self-Help Book for Women Who Barely have Time to Read It How Investment in Gender Ideals Affects Well-Being: The Role of External Contingencies of Self-Worth When Race Matters: Racially Stigmatized Others and Perceiving Race as a Biological Construction Affect Biracial People's Daily Well-Being Stigma by Prejudice Transfer: Racism Threatens White Women and Sexism Threatens Men of Color Ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/18 06:42 AM
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https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Matthew-Chapter-28/ https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Mark-Chapter-16/ https://www.bible.com/bible/59/MAT.28.esv http://www.bible-studys.org/Bible%20Books/Matthew/Matthew%20Chapter%2028.html https://www.kingjamesbibleonline.org/Matthew-Chapter-28_Original-1611-KJV/ Keep digging buddy. Even have the original English translation there.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 11:53 PM
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literally This doesn't make sense, the original is in a different language, and you have likely only read interpretations or translations. 3 days and 3 nights dude. Don't think so, most of the versions I have read either say 'On the first day of the week', or reference the day after the Sabbath (which is Saturday for Jews).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 11:02 PM
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He rose on the third day, not after 3 days. The first day way when he died.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/18 09:18 PM
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What you are saying is definitely true: women would prefer being exclusive with a high quality man. What RP has noticed is that women prefer to share a winner than have a loser all to herself. There is much debate over the definition of winner and loser though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/18 07:17 PM
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1: Do women seek attention/validation more than men do? Why is that gendered? Yes, because as a man you will never get the same level of attention/validation as you will as a woman for existing. To get similar (and even greater) levels of validation, you have to do great things. It is the curse/blessing. 2: Do women crave looks-based validation more than men do? Why is that gendered? More women crave looks-based validation than men, however I'm not sure if there is a general gender difference or…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/18 09:00 AM
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the Game Read the second half of the book. Mystery His show ran 2 seasons back in 08. I don't believe he is currently a big part of his PUA training business. TRP Besides the roots of coming from PUA, TRP has very little to do with PUA tactics, game or style. The whole point of TRP is to build yourself up in mind and psychology so you don't need to remember lines. That is worlds away from books filled with comical routines.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:58 PM
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Read the Game, look up what Mystery is doing now. Look at the TRP reddit. One of the reasons of TRP itself is that PUA doesn't work in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 08:33 PM
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PUA game and techniques has been shown to not work in the long time. It doesn't transition well to relationships. I think most guys want to sleep with women multiple times, which will have some element of relationship building. If you are an incel, you should learn game (including the basics of PUA gane) while you are working out and improving your presentableness. Odds are you are borderline autistic and you have to know how to flirt and joke if you are going to ever get laid, but the other stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/18 05:41 PM
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When you are trying to catch fish, who do you ask, the fish or the fisherman? It is not the honesty that is the problem necessarily, it can range from them not knowing, to them not wanting to know. I actually know a girl who is very 'woke' and will say which things are attractive and which aren't. (And she is right about most of them), this is rare though.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 06:10 PM
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People are annoyed that your view of the world is so detached from everyone else's reality. The saying goes: you can ignore reality, but you can't ignore the consequences of ignoring reality. In a decade, either you will mature and become more social, or you will be at a supermarket buying the bulk bag of cat food.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 08:30 AM
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When a woman has a shitty dating experience, men tell her she just liked Chad. That she is entitled and picky and turned down a less attractive nice guy who would have been good to her. No. Only if she actually had a man who was a less attractive 'good' guy. Like this woman. If you are a woman but don't have those choices, no one will blame you for picking one of the bad choices you had available to you. Meanwhile, when a man has a shitty dating experience, men rant about how awful women are. Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/18 08:28 AM
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Easier to get laid? Nope. Women aren't turned on by dick pics. They want to be fucked by the status of the man attached to the dick, not the dick itself. More confident? Nope. Porn means that every guy (no matter his size) effectively has a micro penis. Unless you do deep research into dick size you probably are part of that group. Men aren't really in to dicks enough to do research. Partner more willing to forgive other shortcomings? This is actually a maybe. If you are good at sex you can get …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 07:51 PM
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In my experience, most of the people who talk about society's expectations appear to be female. This is very important. It is also why there is a lot more sex going on than society talk about. Women really appreciate discretion, if a women is kinda attracted to you, and can have sex with you with no consequences, then you are getting laid tonight. Compare this with a women who is extremely attracted to you and horny, but in a public place with all her friends (spoiler: it's not happening). This …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/18 11:01 AM
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In sport there is a set of rules that are agreed upon: you can't bring a gun to a football match and shoot your opponents. With olympics, the rules are that any supplements, vitamins and training regimes that do NOT contain the specific banned chemicals are within rules. The teams competing with Russia are probably not cheating because their host countries have specifically used supplementation that is not on the banned list. The reason why it can exists with your first point is because sport ru…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 12:31 AM
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Each upvote is worth a point and every time period, every post that exists loses a point. The post with the highest number of points is at the top. This means: more recent posts are preferred over older ones. higher upvotes posts are preferred over lower ones. there is some scaling factor (i.e. 10 upvotes is worth 2 hours older) (note: I have made up the numbers, and there is logarithmic formulas to make sure posts with 200k upvotes don't stay at the top forever).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/18 12:26 AM
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Women find approximately 50-80% of men invisible. When they say men... they mean those few men at the top who aren't invisible (they can't see the other men).
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 03:39 PM
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Nope, the whole point of divorce law is: No fault, to reduce the barriers of divorce. Complicated and changing law, such that you both need expensive lawyers for a long time. No set amounts and division rules, so lawyers have to argue about every minor detail charging $500 per hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/18 12:57 AM
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It haunts me to think someone wanted to terrorize and kill children. Jordan Peterson talks about this, they are trying to inflict the maximum amount of chaos and evil. This is why they don't go shoot up a police station, it doesn't matter whether people shoot back, they know they aren't getting out alive. It is far more evil and chaotic to shoot innocents. And not just innocent people, innocent children, who can't have done anything right or wrong yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/18 01:11 PM
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Porn is heavily edited by the way. They might film for a day or two and edit together all the good bits. It is why randomly you will see the girl lose all wetness when they change scene and suddenly it is super painful. It is a different day.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 06:05 PM
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The femininity that men like does not mean girly. It means nurture and care. If you like to cook for your man and take care of him, most men will appreciate this, regardless of whether you are made up or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/18 06:03 PM
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LMR is something that takes experience. No can mean anything from playful pushback to fuck off. Usually it means not yet. Which is why the usual response is to lay back a bit and let her come and kiss you.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/18 03:18 AM
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You do realise that male and female humans are the same species right? I really hope you are trolling...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 09:12 PM
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Reddit boards aren't like people. They are tempered by emotion, and the best emotion for action is anger. I think that you expect people to get angry, say some harsh things, then later realise that what they said was hyperbole and apologise. But because there is a stream of people, you always will see this angry hyperbole rising to the top. Another big problem is that on the internet, you can't see the person, just a pen name. You can't tell whether the author is a very successful leader with a …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 12:13 PM
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Probably not. On another note humans are the same animal with both sexes having most of the same goals in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/18 07:00 AM
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What I see on TRP: the hammer itself is amoral, thus I can do anything I want with a hammer and my action is neither good nor evil It is because you are looking for the bad. In TRP, it will say "a hammer can be used to fix building or smash faces", TBP will quote: "a hammer [is best used] to ... smash faces".
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 10:27 PM
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It is a warning towards men that you haven't found a unicorn. In the case for divorced or dumped men, that you though you did when you met her, but it turns out that she isn't a unicorn. Because unicorns don't exist. It can't possibly be something that all women are because not only is that a ridiculous generalisation, it's also laughably wrong. So what is it? Because it's not, it has little to do with women personally, this phrase is for men and the women they pedestalise.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/18 10:26 PM
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Are women as sensitive to being seen as masculine, as men are to being seen as feminine? In the example you brought up it is not about masculinity. It is more about expectations and reality (she expected to get positive compliments from the new hair, not some psycho over-reaction). If, for example, she was forced into that hair colour, and her father trimmed it sensitively, she would have been happy to show off short hair. However I do know many girls from university who would only walk and not …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/18 07:28 PM
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In my experience, I'm amazed at the return that I get from minor improvements to appearance. Things like hair, clothes, nails, one half drop of perfume etc. It is really eye opening to see the difference in looks for each subtle change. There's a lot of VERY naive guys who really actually believe they can "trigger attraction" through their "generosity" and "kindness". These things are important.... later in the courtship. If a girl is heavily attracted to your looks then find out you are an altr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/18 07:19 AM
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Most people do this about many things. In real life we give a bullshit reason, but on the internet we can be blunt.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 05:10 PM
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My current girlfriend was talking about her escapades in online dating. She met this awesome guy, they could talk for hours, in her native language too. When they finally met up, it turns out he was around 5' 7". She is 5' 11". She was telling me that she felt a bit cheated when she met. It is all about a feeling of security that height brings. It is definitely a handicap. If you are shorter than me, you better be much stronger physically, otherwise you are playing at a disadvantage.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 05:09 PM
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No one cares if they go into trades, IT, science or plenty of other professions. In some it even helps them. In our society, people are polite and very judgemental. Only really blunt people will say that you didn't get the job because of your tattoo. The rest of us use societal language in order to get what we want. A while ago I helped show around potential graduate recruits (and yes of course we were watching and were asked our opinion of them). One guy I didn't like so I said "I get the feeli…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/18 05:05 PM
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It is useful for weak betas. That sounds like as an insult but it is not. I mean it to be literal. For most men, they have absolutely no clue where the line of acceptable behaviour is, especially the level between assertive and aggressive, that their doing of the first three points looks like putting their crush on a pedestal to everyone else. After you get some success with women, you might see that these points are far more nuanced. Expect the BP lot to completely over react and lose their shi…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 11:58 AM
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Are you purposely deceptive, or simply do not know the truth? Chart. Paper Source, p22 of journal, p6 of pdf. This shows there is slightly lower change of divorce when the male is older (arguably that age is irrelevant).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/18 11:33 AM
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That was a joke...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/18 06:59 PM
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Don't do it. Mentor men. Mentor multiple women/don't be alone with one of them. Be hyper valuable that if you are accused (or basically if you actually do things), you are too valuable to fire, think Weinstein for the first 30 years of his career. Vet your mentees well, to avoid crazy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/18 08:37 PM
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This is really funny. You know how they say that one way to know a cheater is if they accuse you of cheating? Sorry she isn't loyal mate, find someone else if you aren't married.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 11:44 PM
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This is very rare, so don't stress too much. However, learn how to sex and avoid beta behaviours (there should be no behaviours as if you are lucky, it will ruin the morning after and she might consider that lying that you raped her is a better option. Also learn how to be discreet, and only go for girls who appreciate discretion. Many adults are having sex, but you never hear about it. Go for one of these girls who you would 'never hear about it' from.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 11:39 PM
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why do redpillers think it is fair to trick women? Depends on your morality. Many redpillers believe that it is okay to do the male equivalent of wearing a push up bra or makeup. Of course there is subjectivity. Also why does the man have to be in charge? There is no moral imperative. RP has noticed that men who take charge have more successful relationships than men who do not take charge. In addition RP has noticed then men who are unsuccessful with women, then learn to take charge, get more s…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/18 02:05 PM
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Women have equal opportunities in terms of education and work in developed countries Nope, not true in the slightest. Women have far more opportunity in education: compare male vs female scholarships, I think it is 1:1000; employment compare Job programs, I don't think there exists a male only graduate program for example. Development: there are many 'women in business clubs', where I don't think you could get away with a men in business club. The only thing I can think of is mentorships, where …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 09:19 PM
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Also this is one of the key basis of RP dating ideology: look at what women do, not what they say. Which is basically the common saying with people replaced with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 09:06 PM
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Because feminists criticism all men for male sexuality, and celebrate all female sexuality (except traditional relationships). They criticise white men dating black women, asian men dating white women, and white men dating white women too. Pick your combination of XX men preferring XX women, and some feminist has written an article chastising it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 09:01 PM
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You are trying to argue this: Affirmative consent ideology has these properties. These properties are illogical because if you play them out they have too many moving parts and are too subjective. Therefore the ideology itself is invalid. Which is a real 'proof by contradiction. However, this ideology is not based on fact, so you aren't going to be able to convince anyone. You are better off using an emotion based argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/18 08:33 PM
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Yes of course, you should clean up and cook as a guy, because you are pathetic if you can't keep your affairs in order. Same goes for women. If you can't clean or cook, it is pathetic. But if you think that doing housework is going to turn your women on, then I have some bad news...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 07:30 AM
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I did online dating and I put that I am fat because on Reddit men say anything beyond skinny is fat. Literally every guy insisted that I wasn’t fat. You have to be careful here because men who want to sleep with you will say that you aren't fat because they want to sleep with you. They aren't a reliable source of information. There is also somuch misinformation around what 'skinny' is. All the way from anorexic models saying they are fat, to walruses saying that they are skinny compared to their…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 07:19 AM
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Most guys are chill in my experience. The ones that aren't spend all their time getting angry on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 07:15 AM
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But is the bitter anger towards women necessary? Actually yes. It really is. There is a reason why religion has concepts of the devil (or shit like thetans for Scientology), and adjudication of responsibility. A useful mind trick when you are going through difficult times is to create a supernatural figure to absolve you of responsibility. You tend to be able to take more responsibility and suffering when you do this. It is important for places like the TRP sub to have their boogeyman of evil wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/18 07:13 AM
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A long time ago MGTOW was about not playing into the feminist society and agenda: refusing to fall into the alimony trap, not being reliant on the society, plating women etc. Choosing to ignore women altogether was only one of the multiple parts when it comes to women. You were meant to plate multiple women. After a while it slowly became overrun by incels role-playing the Aesop Fable of the Fox and the Grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 11:36 PM
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Dread game is probably the most misinterpreted part of red pill theories. It is a book on how to defend yourself. Page 1 is about standing up straight, page 200 is how to use a knife. Much of the misinterpretation comes when you read the book from the end first.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 10:13 PM
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Dread. Basically, you have to make your partner fear that you might leave her. Could, not might. Could is attractive, might may fuck her up if she is unstable. What do you think? Does "chores for sex" ever work? If so, when does it work? This has been shown to not work. However, don't take my word for it, try and negotiate sex with your partner. One of the key principles of LTR TRP, MRP and Dread is that you can't negotiate attraction. Women tend to not be attracted to men who try to buy sex off…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 08:21 PM
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There is general Blue Pill. Which is overall the current world view. Feminism, Social 'Justice' activism, marxism all currently have a dominant stronghold on most aspects of society especially film and media. If you are talking about this, you might be mentally ill if you don't follow it. It is normal to do and believe what everyone else does. Then there is the Blue Pill reddit sub, who apparently spend all their time reading theredpill to look for things to get angry about. For these people, I …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 06:57 PM
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For the first question, 'having a similar chemical profile' is a red herring. Think about the craze over natural and organic produce. People place a higher value on these things. On the second question, yeh that would probably happen. Sexualisation and porn has already changed our views towards sex forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/18 01:56 PM
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Expect many responses who misinterpret vulnerability (which is sexy) as weakness (which is repulsive). The Vulnerability that Mark Manson talks about is subtle. This type of vulnerability is probably the most attractive thing to women, except for abs of course. I think most men are not at the point where vulnerability is effective. After a girl is attracted to you, and then you are in a more private location, this is generally when it is the right time to be vulnerable. If you are a man with not…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 05:48 PM
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Then why are you here?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 07:06 PM
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This tells me you have never experienced abundance. This is what people do when they are secure. Their scope extends and they start caring about their friends and family. When that is secure they look out into their community.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 06:55 PM
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Gotta get out more if you are only now learning that men are judgemental too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:49 AM
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Sounds like you are getting very defensive here. Are these 'examples' a bit more personal than expected?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 02:44 AM
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If you want to be challenged, then your argument is based on fairness "the trade deal between men and women is not a fair one because..." Fairness is not a real thing, it is a tactic used to persuade and manipulate others into doing something. Basically, if you want to get real value in life, acting in a way that assumes fairness exists isn't going to work as well. The reason why this 'cost' of sex (in terms of male commitment) is so high, is because the modern society has pushed the supply of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/18 01:39 AM
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Literal autism.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 06:30 PM
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BTW that article was written in jest, don't do these things unless you want to be alone. Say things like “I really value my independence and freedom” relevant to nothing in particular. It’s just a thought that popped in your head. Did you realise it was a joke when you read this point? Or do you still think it is serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/18 08:32 AM
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All the Muslim women ripped off their hijabs and demanded drivers licenses, education, and voting rights. It would be horrific. If you thought Isis raping children and taking them as sex slaves was bad... Chinese women gave the middle finger to the governments one child policy and took back control on their reproductive rights. Chinese women are too proud to do such a uncouth act. Also shows what you know about their laws. If you want you can have as many kids as you want, this will merely resul…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/18 12:24 AM
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That is correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:25 PM
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No, it is about discussing sexual strategy, and other things that interest people there. Similar to a kitchen, or any other place humans gather.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:20 PM
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Obviously not exclusively. To try at help you understand, a kitchen is for cooking. However, some people eat in kitchens, others talk with their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:17 PM
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Have you ever been in rooms with other people? People tend to like to talk about things.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:14 PM
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A place where men can discuss sexual strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 05:03 PM
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Because we aren't a movement, there even isn't a 'we'. So 'we' don't have to agree on anything. I'm not White or American so how the fuck can you call me a white nationalist? I'm even an expat as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 12:04 PM
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but for some fucking reason he nominated a puritan straight out of 1650 to the Department of Justice. Read about "nixon goes to china". If Sessions changes his mind about marijuana, the puritans will too. On that note, I give it about 20% odds that Trump is the one who will change the republican's minds about Climate Change. Did you watch the Republican Convention back in 2016? He made a bunch of Racist Homophobes cheer an openly gay man.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/18 12:45 AM
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Does status in the community matter to women or do they just look at the size of a guys wallet and/or his appearance? If a women is to respect you, you have to be higher or equal to her in what she values the most. The reason why in TRP they scream status, status, STATUS! is because the majority of women value status highly, making it an effective way to improve your attractiveness. A women won't love you if she doesn't respect you. is it common for guys to forgo monetary reward for a position w…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 11:26 PM
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It doesn't make sense to me. I think you have a misconception that people are rational. Everyone is irrational most of the time. I know very smart people, and you can see the irrationality rise up if you subtly push enough. If you can understand this key point. Most of life will make sense to you, including why TRP is so hated.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 11:23 PM
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Any idea why that’s happening? I'm really cynical about this, I suspect it is something like this: In the past, most families tended to have the man working and the woman taking care of the household, including buying most things (thinking back to my parents and many of my friends parents, this is literally true). When advertisements came around, you want to target whoever spends money. So they targeted women. Marketers are really fucking good at their job, they are pretty much specialised to ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 10:32 PM
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Even worse, they actively try and lie about it and say that being fat has no health implications. There is a good reason for this. Fat is caused by a dopamine pathway. Humans will bend over backwards to defend their dopamine pathways. All of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 10:23 PM
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Should career women look for more feminine men to settle down with ? Career women who want to have a high status partner should realise that feminine attributes are important and to play up those attributes when with a potential/ their actual partner. Career women are very masculine. Unless you use circular logic (i.e. define career women as masculine), most women in professional careers (e.g. lawyers, accountants) are feminine, and approach work from a different angle. It is actually really dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 10:20 PM
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Men who have overly loving or controlling mothers will have severe issues being sexually confident I don't think this is the problem. I think the issue stems from a lack of strong male role models. I know many people with terribly controlling mother, but they also have a good father to give her shit about it to teach the boy how to act around women. It is bad in today's society that there isn't media with good male role models, which I think exacerbates this problem. I have had (or arguably stil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 10:13 PM
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If you don't have abs, online dating is pretty much a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:59 PM
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You're on the money. Pretty much an incel here. I know where I am. I'll try not to whine about it. You are wasting your time here. You will get more success with women by working on your fitness, presentation and career than learning how to argue on this sub. Does this apply to both sexes? Yes, on both counts. Sex is quite different from porn. There is a lot of intimate touching which you can only master by sheepishly touching your lover and making her feel awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 09:57 PM
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I question your experience in this matter. Because it is really different. If you want casual sex, you don't want to be someone's first. There is a risk that they will get clingy, and they will definitely suck at sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 08:11 PM
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This is going to be basic as hell, but: women in my city are very picky and overlook me. Most guys have issues with 'lack' of sexuality. They can push to be extra sexual without coming on too strong.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 07:11 AM
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A woman agreeing to fuck me... There is your problem. Until you have had sex many times with a women, no women is every going to 'agree' to fuck you. She wants to say "no we couldn't" then kiss you passionately. There is a final barrier that she needs you to break.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/18 07:09 AM
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I don't think sex is mostly about power, however your argument is not valid. Your argument boils down to: If Sex was Power, then these things would be true, however, they are immoral and/or too much to bear, therefore Sex Isn't Power. There are some issues with this, which are: This logic only works if those conclusions are "necessary and sufficient" (google this), also google "iff" (if and only if). This will improve your deduction if you understand these two concepts. Immorality and truth are …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:57 PM
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If your conversion rate is in the 1 in 100 range, you are doing something wrong: most probably it is a demographics issue (you aren't suited for the type of women that you are approaching, e.g. dressed as a surfer but hitting on Office Ladies).
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:42 PM
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she doesn’t respect you enough This is true. It is normal to take the man's name. If she specifically wants to go against the grain, fucking watch out mate. and isn’t entirely submissive to you. This doesn't matter. However it is interesting that submission is implied as a negative. You probably submit every day to your boss. Submission and dominance is a normal thing that happens in a hierarchy. Personally I come from a culture where women don't change their names, so I don't actually care. If …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:40 PM
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What I see is due to the male media (video games, movies). I think that most men believe that there is a contract: I do certain things, then I get a girl, who is perfect: Adrian Balboa (Rocky's Wife) or Tifa (from Final Fantasy), these women are 'perfectly' feminine: supportive with infinite patience, loving and nurturing. I think that these depictions of women causes issues, women who can provide maternal and sexual love don't exists. But I digress. Overall I think men see these images, and als…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:32 PM
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Girls will want to sleep with you more if you have high RMV.... That doesn't exist and is pure red pill masturbatory theory. Not specifically RMV, but there is much talk over AF/BB. And I have read reports of men having much better success when they move to shitter apartments. Since I haven't experienced this personally and can't offer insight, do you have an alternative explanation why these men have better success if they artificially lower their 'RMV'.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 05:14 PM
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These things are ultimately meaningless. You should do whatever is the prevalent societal wind. Doing different puts your family and especially your children at risk. It is like naming your kid some weird name.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/18 12:53 PM
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Briffault's Law, in short The female, not the male, determines all the conditions of the animal family. This most certainly applies to humans. For the vast majority of couples, the women chooses the man. Which is why much of TRP is cultivating the lifestyle and behaviours of a man who chooses women. That is something that most women want. I feel like the men here think their lack of preference is morally superior to women's preference, and I'm interested to know if you notice that too and whethe…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 07:55 PM
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Women are most attracted to social status and social skills. This trumps all other factors of attractiveness (such as compatibility, strength and looks). I don't know whether you mean literally autism or are joking, but it doesn't matter. In the real world, you are judged on the same set of standards as everyone else. Women aren't going to go, you are a bit weird but since you are autistic I'll give that a pass and be attracted to you. Attraction doesn't work that way. What have I done wrong? Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 07:47 PM
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Ouch, you have a long way to go mate. Again, your word usage is slightly wrong... you aren't fooling anybody.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 07:40 PM
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If you are having issues with women, and people in general, a reason is because you talk weird as fuck. The language you use is very esoteric. This only makes you sound smart to dumb people, people who know what these words mean will see you using those words incorrectly and think you are a weirdo.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 08:05 AM
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So basically this dude makes a move on his friend and asks r/askmen what he can do about it. The thread is brigaded by multiple feminist subs telling the dude he sexually assaulted her. Not really seeing it. Is there a feminist/BP/SJW approved method to physically escalate a friendship into a sexual relationship/encounter when you are unaware of how she feels about you sexually? Yep, you get two copies form SE.X.1, both fill it out, sign and date it, then you get both your lawyers in and notaris…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 06:57 AM
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If a girl is quite frigid but you like her otherwise, you won't be happy in a marriage with her, since most women's libido drops after marriage/kids. You might be thinking that there is no long term future for this relationship. If you see a girl for long enough that she 'took too long', then it isn't a ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 06:48 AM
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Why do people think women are being tricked/manipulated into casual sex? Women say thinks like "one moment he struck up a conversation, and another we were leaving his apartment" because it is hot. They like to put up their defences and have their man know the difference between 'no that means yes' and 'no that means no'. Autists take what they say at face value, which is really convenient for women since they can say 'no' and that gets rid of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/18 06:43 AM
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You aren't wrong per se (ignoring autistic caveats such as literal leprosy). Being received as young and inexperienced is not attractive (unless you have many compensating traits). What is really attractive for men is to be dangerous, but civilised. An important order of attraction is that women prefer dangerous and uncivilised men over harmless but civilised. Many of the people who have issues with their baby face, have what I would call a passive face. That droopy, wide eyes, weak mouth. Signs…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/18 07:01 AM
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I think the reason why is evolutionary: the cultures who have homosexuality as taboo out competed those who didn't. I think it is linked to sexuality generally rather than homosexuality specifically. I think the repression of sexuality allows men to channel their sexuality into productive means. Personally, if I was getting infinite sex I don't think I would ever work, based on my current pay check, I am quite productive. I think the same goes for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/18 07:49 AM
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The words and context used to describe women are anything but objective, least of all by reds here. If you want to call it amoral and you do in fact personally practice it accordingly, we probably don't disagree much- I believe AWALT and AMALT certainly exist. Amoral doesn't mean moral, it doesn't mean moral-less either. It means 'without concern about morals'. The reply to 'you guys are being anti-social and are horrible people' is not "we are actually moral because [male hamstering]", it is "o…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 08:09 PM
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People are naturally drawn to the righteousness of their own gender - I agree that it is less driven by scholarly dispassion and more by self-interest. This is not true. Both men and women are drawn to the righteousness of women. Much of the issues women have with men nowadays is that they are being treated the same way men treat other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 08:01 PM
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Hung out with GF, had sexy time. I don't generally enjoy going partying, mostly I go because workprotip: optional after work company events are mandatory... if you want to do well in the company.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 03:03 PM
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We take those pieces of truth, and others like them, and we spin a massive web, filled with new terminology to make it sound more reputable, about how the reality of dating and gender is actually this massive secret reality in which all you think you know is wrong. There is a good reason why we do these things. It is because it is persuasive to the majority of the people. Ever wondered why every best selling self help book starts with a bullshit story that ends in a cliffhanger? It is because th…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 02:48 PM
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The majority of reds here don't just profess the difference between sexes, they honestly believe men are better in every measurable way. Smarter. Stronger. Funnier. Kinder. More self-sacrificing. They are better in male ways. Wits and Intellect, Physical Prowess, Humour. These are all male feats. Trying to hold women to male standards is as stupid as dismissing an elephants fitness because it can't jump as high as a monkey. Women are better in female attributes: compassion, empathy, social prote…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 02:31 PM
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The thing about redpill is that you are meant to come in, take in the knowledge then leave. You don't become sexually successful by spending all your time on an internet forum. There are a bunch of people who have no hope. Over time the basket cases build up and make up an ever larger percentage of the forum.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/18 02:17 PM
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Well that's some impressive bullshit right there. elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 12:03 PM
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This is a sensitive hot-button issue right now, but I really think it needs to be talked about. What follows is not related to the topic, but very specifically your question: Can we have an honest discussion about what age women start becoming attractive? The answer is no you can't. Have a read of this RP article. If you don't belong to the same group that Powertalk is used on, this will explain why we can't discuss the attractiveness of post-pubescent girls under the age of 18. Key excerpt: Thi…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/17 10:40 AM
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If you watch her expressions and listen to the emotions in her voice at around 4:10, you can see that it is killing her to say what she says. It actually kind of sad. To be an pretentious ass hole for a moment, it looks like she tried her hardest to breastfeed but couldn't and now needs to justify her decision.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/17 11:47 PM
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Yep. Any girl who is roughly the third most attractive or less. If you are in a group of girls and you aren't the hottest, it is going to be hard to find love.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/17 10:37 AM
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That was a joke, don't over-think it otherwise you may have trouble with social situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 10:20 AM
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women having too high expectations? This is highly dependant on the women. In any medium sized town or larger, there are enough women on all levels of the spectrum to negate any strong stance. do... women ... [know] ... what sort of man they are entitled to? There is a theory that women tend to conflate having sex with a man as being entitled to a relationship with them. You can tell me how true this is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 10:19 AM
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I find the last one interesting: ~25% of people think it is inappropriate to have a work meeting with the opposite sex. WTF? isn't that crazy? The sad thing is that in the case where the women is unfamiliar to me, I would agree. If you watch the first ~5m of this. He talks about something really interesting. A fully professional women with a professional resume has an idea that she wants to sell to him. So she wants to ask him for a business meeting. However she is aware of the current social cl…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/17 10:00 AM
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Joking? That girls situation is complicated, and full of land mines. There are thousands of missing pieces of context which would change her situation from "bipolar disorder to a bit messed up about sex to getting constantly raped and enabling rapists". Random internet douchebags have no business talking about any of these situations.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 10:23 PM
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Random internet people are definitely not qualified to advise you. Talk to close friends or qualified therapists. In the bedroom, saying no and stop aren't always signals to stop. Getting up and leaving definitely is. Next time anything happens that you really don't want, leave the area. If he stops you, then we are pushing in to rape territory.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/17 11:10 AM
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Income comes from both employment and investment return. I don't really understand your challenge, seems like you are trying to be right for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:48 PM
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According to 5 minutes of google-fu, $150K is top 5% income in Australia. If you are earning 6 figures in your 20s, then you will easily be a 1% by the time you in your 40s-50s. I'm talking more about the average engineer, e.g. people in the 25%-50% of status/income, who have trouble with women while they are younger, then slowly get married and have kids in their 'middle' years.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 11:17 PM
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Well men don't peak in their early 30's, but their mid-late thirties. This is about the time that the nerds. This is where the people who have been concentrating on their careers, but aren't geniuses, will start to hit 6 figures (and a sizable investment pot), putting them miles above of most people who have been job hopping. The most women prefer men around 4-5 years older, and equal or higher on the social scale. With the increase in status the money brings, their relative attractiveness will …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 05:55 PM
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Don't be autistic but read carefully.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 05:24 PM
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Do some sort of show of strength. E.g. with my current girlfriend, she though I was unfit and lazy, then I raced against her and smashed her because I can sprint). Instant moist panties.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/17 06:17 AM
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Modern feminism has defined all male behaviour as toxic masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:43 PM
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if you're female and attractive at all, almost every single one of your male friends would totally fuck you if they could do so without any consequences. and most of then would be DTF even if there were serious consequences. that's just how it is. I'll tell you a secret. The reverse is also mostly true. If you are male and attractive, most of your female friends (who aren't in a happy committed relationship) will have sex with you, if, and this is a big if, they can do so without any social repe…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:03 PM
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I think you don't know what female IOIs are. Her looking at you for .3 seconds instead of the usual .1 is a pretty damn obvious signal that she is interested... at least in her eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 09:58 PM
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Women want the illusion of "it just happened, one moment he said hi, another and I woke up in his bed". Asking her about her partner status breaks the illusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 09:57 PM
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Most of the game that works is simply "You know all that beta bullshit that the MSM tells you? Don't do that and you will probably get laid."
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 09:53 PM
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Also IQ is trainable to a large extent, I would think that many people don't reach their full potential wrt IQ because they simply don't need to to get by No it isn't, it is easy to make someone's IQ lower (starve them or abuse them), it is very hard to increase someone's IQ. If you could find a way to increase it by 5 points generally you would be a hero in the psychological world.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 08:21 PM
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10 years ago solar was a joke. Now it is roughly speaking cost effective. In another decade it is going to be cheaper to use solar than Coal (and we full, working infrastructure set up for coal). Same goes with batteries. They used to be an expensive and show-stopping joke. Nowadays we run cars on them. Multiple companies and countries are setting up massive large battery factories. Again I think you are watching too much news. They have a financial and political incentive to alarm you (it gets …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 12:29 PM
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Make friends with girls who are socially acute, you can watch them play, and you can ask them questions. They will probably help you too, most people are nice and if you make it a bit fun for them (let them tease you a bit) they will provide you with a wealth of knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:46 AM
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together they form a destructive plague I think you watch too much prime time news mate. In every statistic that matters, the world is getting far better every century: global poverty is collapsing, child mortality down. In richer counters the poor and the middle class are declining in numbers because there are more rich people. Heck we are even dealing with the global warming and pollution issue at a pretty acceptable rate... A decade ago our planet was fucked. Humanity is going to be completel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:43 AM
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But that's dishonest because he doesn't find her quite interesting because he doesn't know her yet, so he's being dishonest because all he wants is sex. If you said what I wrote, most women know you are saying "I'm interested in you". On your date, if you touch her and look deeply into her eyes she understands this as you saying "I want to fuck you". This is the courtship equivalent of patting your tummy to say that you are full. It is not dishonest, merely non-verbal/non-literal communication. …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 10:38 AM
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MGTOW used to mean men who wouldn't play the 'women's game'. i.e. not investing in women (through time or money). Different types would be casual ONS, or spinning plates, or a casual longer fling, or alternatively choosing not to fuck girls. In modern times the 'mig-tao' movement has basically come to mean involuntary celebrate. In this it has grown into a cult, basically through sour grapes. The modern Aesop Fable of The Fox and the Grapes is called "The MigTao and the cute girl": Driven by hun…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 08:08 AM
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Say a man and a woman are good friends, and the woman cares about the guy a lot. She likes him and even loves him in a friendly way, but doesn't allow herself to think about him romantically for one reason or another. It could be that she doesn't find him attractive, but it could also just be that there are life barriers in the way. Ooo I was a bit worried that you are my 'it's complicated' kinda-girlfriend. Luckily I'm about 50% sure that your writing style is different from hers, and a couple …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 05:08 AM
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Whenever anyone talks about equality or fairness ("It should be fair"), it is a manipulation tactic to get you to do something, usually to get you to buy their shit or vote for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 09:50 PM
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Some women are like this, which is why you escalate, which will either turn them on, or push them away, either getting you closer to them or saving you time.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 07:37 PM
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Careful mate, if you are only concerned about winning arguments, you aren't going to get laid, and it won't be easy in the workplace. Smart and quiet people really hate this and will covertly fuck you over without you ever having a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 07:08 PM
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There are two things that you might want to consider reading: The Book of Pook (specifically the lessons) This is telling me that you don't understand why you are falling into love or infatuation with these girls after talking with them: Or, I've had female friends where I was 'eh' about them at first, but with some time I found more to be attracted to them about, and we already got along, so I started wishing we could start including something sexual into the mix. The mystery method, specifical…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 06:57 PM
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So ask her out right away or else you are a jerk? Yes ask her out right away, taking into consideration social norms. Being a jerk is in no way a obstacle to a womans heart or sex, often it is a bridge.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 06:52 PM
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What if that is a lie and he already likes them without wanting to know them better? That is a problem of neediness that needs to be dealt with. In a relationship with a female (of any age), you want to be slightly less invested than she is, hence the basic courtship structure of: female interest> ask for compliance > male interest If you already like her, you should have asked her out 2 hours ago... You can always be blatant and outright say that you fancy her, but that is a bit of a dick move …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 06:27 PM
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It sounds like you have some sort of belief that women don't like sex or men. Many girls there would love it if you were to say "Would you like to come out and get coffee with me? I find you quite interesting and would like to get to know you better."
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 05:48 PM
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And suggesting most women are like this? Most people, not just women. This applies to pretty much all social interactions (especially media and politics). I think this is possibly the saddest thing I've ever read. TRP/Reality is not fun, because we loves to think of ourselves as rational, moral actors. When you start to realise how much of a robot you, and everyone else is, it is depressing. If you can overcome this, you can help the world in your own moral way.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 05:41 PM
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The people who supported him simply though he was 'just another candidate', however, many of the people against him literally thought he is the next Hitler. I made a big note to watch the shift because this is one of the current topics that I am researching and learning about currently: the disconnect between rationality and emotionality in decision making. Watch some of the live reactions to the election. If you have a couple of hours, rewatch one of the whole election result shows (e.g. Young …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 03:50 AM
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In terms of literally unique, I don't think there will be much. Many of the useful aspects are forgotten and forbidden knowledge. The useful aspects are often old knowledge repackaged into modern language. Here is an example of an article whose contents I believe are exclusive to the TRP subreddit. Before you read this, I recommend first removing your blue tag, not because your mind is changed, but because the tag urges your mind into an identity. This is good for social cohesion, but bad when r…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 03:43 AM
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the aggregate of hostile comments I've seen from trp guys yeh don't waste your time in the reddit sub mate. When I was introducing the ideas to my cousin, i did a quick scan of the hot and top posts on the TRP sub and about 90% of them are useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 02:38 AM
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RPers are all talking about how "beta" qualities are bad and not attractive to women, and "beta" men have to become "alpha" and domineering to get women. While this may allow them to get a high quantity of women, it may not enable them to find a quality relationship, which I feel is what a lot of beta type men are after. This isn't what RP says, it is more subtle than this. To build attraction with a women, you need a combination of alpha (attractive traits such as confidence and fitness) and be…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 01:59 AM
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My experience is certainly going to make trusting any women difficult. Hopefully I'm not totally jaded. You'll get over it. Eventually you will realise that women, have a nature that is not exactly like we all love to think. Same goes for most people, as you might notice too. I think you are starting to understand that female love is highly conditional. The thing about female love is that if the conditions are met, it is quite loyal. I never said I believe everything on TRP. Far from it. Indeed …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/17 12:43 AM
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What you are trying to do here is make rational sense of an irrational attack. You will never hit a point of "doing this is treating her like property and doing that isn't" because it doesn't exist. The point of this attack ("treating her like property") is a shaming tactic designed to attack the credibility of the target. If you are interested in the different types of shaming tactics here is a long and boring article. Notice how 90% of the criticisms on this very board is on the list, and also…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 10:19 PM
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http://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/Main/LoserProtagonist
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 10:03 PM
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Her new body gave her new options which she exercised shortly. Wow this is one of the typical stories that many people don't believe it is real. I know of at least two other couples going through the same thing. One of the couple's wife is so honourable that she can't leave him... (attempting to) murder him in his sleep appears to be kosher.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 10:00 PM
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That wasn't the argument. However look at Judd Apatow movies which roughly highlight that archetype.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 09:33 PM
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Of the problem, or the solution?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 09:26 PM
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Why do you think husbands allow themselves to become fat, sick and slothenly? Why would a husband expect his wife to tolerate that? Because the MSM says that women are exactly like men, and most men would stay with their wife as she becomes disgusting and horrible, heck, many do go though that during pregnancy and early childhood. TRP explains the double standards in life, when you realise this, you can play your role effectively.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 09:21 PM
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You've demonstrated why TRP is unnecessary: all the parts of TRP that actually make sense have been common sense for forever. Very close to what has happened, actually it is: You've demonstrated why TRP is unnecessary: all the parts of TRP that actually make sense have been made common sense for forever. In real life, you can never change someones mind, you can only make them discover that they agreed with you all along. For example, remember a year ago, people in the US thought they literally e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 09:18 PM
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Your mind doesn't do that, you see a girl with a sexy ratio and you think "fuck she's hot".
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/17 02:02 PM
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On 4. I think many people misinterpret feminine to mean girly and prissy. Femininity is more about nurturing and support. In fact most guys find the slightly tomboyish girl to be an ideal girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 01:10 AM
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Work on what you can (hygiene and grooming) and be sincere while in private. You will be surprised at the tolerance of most women on inexperience. One of my early girlfriend's basically taught me how to touch her, Kiss her and fuck her.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/17 01:04 AM
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Life is not fair. Double standards exist. And it is impolite to talk about it. These three observations are missing from your worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/17 12:49 PM
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I think there is a lot of women who want to make a good living and feel independent but still want to find love This is mostly true, but not generally true. Women want to appear independent to their peers. Something really interesting about women is that they are exceptionally socially conscious. This is an important observation in the 'Venusian Arts' which distinguishes it from mainstream game or seduction. In this, if a woman wants to sleep with you and she can do so without consequences (i.e.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/17 12:03 PM
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Not everyone in the world want glory. It is really strange that you are arguing for this, odds are you you don't. Want to know how I know this? It is because there are very few people in the world who do. There is a deal that followers make with their leaders. Leader get benefits, but they also get responsibility. The deal is: you get more money, but if there is a struggle, you have to die first. There is a good reason for 'submission', wifely or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 10:02 PM
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The gist is because the BP ideas are the mainstream. In society, if you are the majority, you have the power to bully the minority. This is how it always has been. Watch the BP replies to this post, they are typical.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/17 09:59 PM
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Is weird and creepy. Is fine, that is an invitation. If this is the first touch interaction this is weird, if we have been flirting without rebuff for a while that is okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/17 08:03 PM
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The majority of women are not this type of crazy. They are rooting for your success. Most women dream of a guy coming and sweeping them off their feet, imagine their disappointment when this handsome new stranger turns out to be a 'beta cuck'. There is a small subset of women who are this type of crazy and yes, you shouldn't touch that shit with a 40 ft pole. What do you think? Do you share these concerns, or have any others? In general, you shouldn't be making advances on women without knowing …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 01:29 AM
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I meant more that it is one of the ideas they have. RP is not a pure rational science. Many of the articles have a purpose (usually unintentionally) to persuade. Google: The One Sentence Persuasion Course - 27 Words to Make the World Do Your Bidding It is a very important 'book' and also it will take you about 10 seconds to read. These articles are doing one of these. I will not that this is often unintentional, especially if you look at the top upvoted posts. When I bring up RP to other people …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/17 01:12 AM
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I think that Red Pillers are stuck in "Anger", as shown in their either passive aggressiveness of women, or outright aggressiveness of women. This is partially correct. The RP sub is stuck in anger for a few reasons: Anger is the most useful emotion in driving action. People have empathy, so when they read anger inducing content they get angry This causes them to post more anger related context. The sub itself will mostly exhibit this stage of grief because of this. There are probably similar nu…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 01:13 PM
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Men have said here that showing vulnerability in a relationship can cause it to terminate, No this is not correct. A specific type of vulnerability: neediness is what causes a relationship to terminate. If you can be vulnerable: I am a strong person, you have seen me in public and this is how I act, but actually inside there is a inner struggle that only you get to see. Because you are special. If you do something like that, she will love you forever.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/17 07:40 PM
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Your thoughts? Pretty much agree. If someone were to look at my life they would say "wtf is wrong with you, good looking, smart, decent career, why are you so fucked up and anxious?" What they don't see is that for the first ~22 years of my life I don't remember getting any validation from either of my parents, (which also led to the same from friends). So even with these 'gifts' I had a fucked up attitude about everything and crippling depression. In the last few years, my situation has turned …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/17 12:00 AM
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I hate the topic of shit tests. It's too ill defined to me. I've been trying to make sense of it though, and here's a key question I have. It is vague because social situations are extremely context specific: We are chatting happily -----> Good Then I pull out a knife ------> WTF! But we are in a kitchen and I am cooking ---->normal However it is 3am in the morning -----> what the?. etc. etc. For any situation where I could describe shit tests and their responses, you can easily invalidate it by…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 11:05 PM
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But I see so many RP men here complaining about the dating scene when they have the magic pill to make them successful. Properly taking the Red Pill is not a magic fix all solution. It is more analogous to one of Jigsaw's trials in SAW, where it is a struggle for your life and most people die on the way. For the the Red Pill Journey, the reward is a proper understanding of the social landscape (which includes sex), and instead of dying, you become a bitter husk of a man. Although for many of tho…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 10:11 PM
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It means you smell. Nothing to do with looks here.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 09:05 PM
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Feminine, meaning supportive, nurturing, kind and chaotic, yes. Effeminate meaning bitchy, weak and a pansy, then hell no.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/17 07:33 PM
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You know, when you write it all down like this, I really kinda lose all hope. Get the Mystery Method then and do the most cheesiest bullshit you can possibly handle. There is very step by step guides out there. There are blogs and books on philosophy, game, dressing and presentation. Whatever you are missing it is there on the manosphere. mostly because friendly touch is not really a thing in my culture and I have no romantic experience This is something you have to get over. Back in highschool …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 11:13 PM
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Escalation Ladder - This is imo the best for this. It basically lays out the gist of the order of what you do. There really isn't more to this because each women has different speeds in which they are comfortable. I've have been both too fast and too slow with the same woman before. Get a girlfriend who isn't crazy, and you will have plenty of opportunity to practice. Once you are properly having sex, then try the Sex God Method. Which is not PC so I won't talk about it, but it will give you a g…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 05:56 PM
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I didn't say that "dressing better and lifting" would save every marriage, only many of them. I tend to disagree. I've divorced four husbands and can say unequivocally that their "dressing better and lifting" wouldn't have impressed me in the least. Their looks were not the problem. Why did you marry 4 people whom you did not respect?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 01:35 AM
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I think there is a misunderstanding of the context of "attraction isn't negotiable". From what you have written, it sounds like the context of negotiable means "open to change". However in the base context of the phrase, it is in the literal sense. The phrase "attraction isn't negotiable" is most commonly used in Married RP, but applies equally to Long Term Relationships (LTRs). It is mostly used as a mantra attacking the commonly given advice from (divorced or spinster) marriage counsellors. In…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/17 12:31 AM
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exceptionally mediocre
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 11:52 PM
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poor thing, the truth sometimes hurts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 11:48 PM
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Everything he said was an attack. I have a large circle of wonderful friends and a big beautiful tight knit family. We hardly ever argue because we all have a mutual respect for one another and don't make ride, brazen, unsupported accusations. You could learn a thing or two from us. HAHA, Im sure you do
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 11:36 PM
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Wow the way you turn everything said into an attack. I feel sorry about your friends and family. The funny thing is that I guess that it is their fault and they are horrible people. To your eyes that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 11:20 PM
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I love how he say "You", and you straight away manipulated that retort into him attacking all women. Unfortunately this is the internet so this bullshit doesn't work. However, sadly, what you are doing in real life does work, there are plenty of 'white knight' characters who would beat up the other guy for a chance to sleep with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 11:00 PM
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but that has effectively no meaning at this point because it is outcome dependent. I think it is meaningful. You wouldn't have that same response if we were talking about a less emotionally charged topic. For example let's say you ask a profound question in order to provoke thought. Well that is the Socratic Method you might not have heard about Socrates and you might have even come up with this though originally, however you are living that idea of Socrates. These 'naturally Red Pill', are acti…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 10:57 PM
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I feel like men are more likely to view other men as competition and would never feel the need to support or help another man just because they're both men. I think you are hanging around betas too much. Successful men have far too much opportunity. They dream of finding intelligent juniors in the situation that they were in the past to pawn off all their excess success. Women are discouraged from ever putting other women down or criticizing other women or even thinking negatively about other wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 10:49 PM
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Any difference that MBTI explains can be explained on the spectrums of the Big 5. The reverse is not true. In addition, the Big 5 has predictive power over people's circumstances, while MBTI doesn't. Also recently Jordan Peterson has brought the Big 5 into the forefront which is probably the actual reason why you are seeing this comment so often.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 10:36 PM
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On a personal level, you are not defined solely by your circumstance. Actually a big part of being able to change is believing that it is possible to change. However, on an overall level, you can quite accurately explain tenancies with human nature. I believe that incels are a product of the human tenancy to be lazy, and also the need for a scapegoat. It is very important for everyone to have something that they can blame their failings on. Women are the perfect target: most men are dastardly af…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 10:33 PM
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Because using jealousy will work so well. It isn't really jealousy because she has never 'had' you so she has nothing to lose. This is more using the phenomenon that if there is two sushi joins, one with a 20 person line and one empty. Most new people will join the queue. lol. What backlog? No such backlog exist. It is only really in the last 5-10 years that we have seen such a massive reversal in male vs female graduation rates. There are plenty of men who are older who have graduated who are s…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 10:09 PM
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Okay, for real, there is no point in being good looking enough to get matches and dates when I have no idea how to act, what to do and even what I want from this whole thing in the first place. This means you need game. Read some of the basics (even mystery method lol). I'll give you a quick rundown: (Pre Stage) You show higher status. (present yourself well). She gives attention. (usually through KGB-level subtlety) Then you approach. (Attraction Stage) Here you are trying to match your 'status…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 10:03 PM
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There is the literally incel - involuntary celibate, where you are trying your hardest, but getting no sex or love from women; and there is the reddit definition which include the above, but are creepily spiteful and entitled too. Of course you can become it if your immediate environment collapses (body, room/house, social settings, career all become repulsive and unkept). But it is a binary status in that you are either incel or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 09:44 PM
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Also, CRISPR. People are really excited about it. And scientists should be. But laymen have less to be excited. This could be amazing. We might be able to fully cure HIV, and any other cell based disease. And if it is really powerful, it could be the key to ending biological aging. I actually think that I have a small but real chance of living forever (similar for other people my age and younger).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 09:39 PM
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Yep. Ultimately that observation stems from "Eggs are expensive, sperm is cheap" and is really the only true axiom from TRP, the rest is people trying to make sense from all that follows.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/17 09:34 PM
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That's so cute you have no idea.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 12:31 AM
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Umm, have you ever met other men or women for that matter? When a man says he slept with a 8, reduce the number by about 3-4. Similarly multiply the number of men a women says she slept with by about 3. That guy probably has a uggo and a butterface who really like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/17 12:22 AM
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Agreed. I always understood this as working because women are more obsessed with social hierarchy I have a feeling that the base is nature, not the cultural conditioning: these shows prey off younger girl's social nature. I have noticed that women on average have a much higher level of social acumen: they could probably rank the status of everyone in their group/departmemt (of course they would never admit this, you have to be more subtle). I keep hearing men complain about how women expect this…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 05:09 AM
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Every relationship is different. What one girl has with her ex is different from what she has with her current partner for example. The idea that "I want this relationship to be exactly like the one with her ex" is a relationship doomer. To give you some perspective, what is he is a chef and can make your favourite dish. He made it all the time with his ex, but not with you, it is different okay? Don't expect everything geeze. Sex is very important for men. It is ultimately a validation of his w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 04:56 AM
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Jesus Christ is specifically designed to be the perfect man. He encompasses all traits that you personally consider as positive. That is kinda the point. He is the perfect role model, he even is human and has failings too, to make him relatable. If that translates to women, he would kill on fame alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 04:27 AM
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I think your definition of hypergamy is that people change partners. Which is true for both genders. The RP definition is women prefer men that are of higher status (and about 4 years older). The important conclusions of female hypergamy is: If you want to partner up with a women, the best way is to be valued in the social circle she cares about. Imagine if she could tell all her friends that she slept with you and she would be congratulated. Guess what? You are getting laid tonight. Pre-selecti…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 04:23 AM
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If a shit test is not concious [sic] Most of human attraction isn't conscious, men don't measure a woman's hips before their find them attractive, they see the wide hips and go "holy fuck she is amazing and so intelligent I want her". It sounds more like it only retroactively become of shit test if he does something stupid. Life, and more specifically memory, is retroactive. Much of romance is only romantic after the fact. To me it sounded like red pill thinks that basically everything a woman s…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 04:05 AM
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I really want to understand your distinction here between video-game markets and the sexual/relationship/marriage markets, but it's going over my head right now. Can you help me out even further? Not in a short sentence. I might write an essay about it one day. I understand. So everything is relative to the local market? How "local" is the market...does being the hottest in a given venue or a given room make you a "10?" In a sense, yes. It is highly specific to the current situation. A cute girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 04:00 AM
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In other words, does the Red Pill perspective have any productive suggestions that may lead to a better society for men and/or women collectively, not just for those few men who have the most game at the expense of those who don't? RP is individualistic for one, it doesn't make any claims about society. There is the Jordan Peterson idea of "the way to improve the world is not to protest, but to clean your own room (space)". Collectivism is bullshit, it needlessly divides groups. The point of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 03:38 AM
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if you're too obtuse to see that women cream themselves over fit, attractive, independent guys The interested part is what women find attractive, and how little 'niceness' matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 03:17 AM
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By this definition pretty much any socialising can be called a shit test. That is correct. Note your wording, all socialising isn't a shit test, but it can be, depending on the situation. If you show yourself to be socially incept you fail. Literally yes. That is kinda the point in shit tests: to test your social aptitude. Women are attracted to highly social men, so they tend to be attracted to men who pass their shit tests. Men shit test other men, but instead they give respect instead of attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 03:01 AM
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I'm way more cynical about it. I think if you didn't know that Hollywood and the Music Industry is seedy as fuck, then you are living in a nice sheltered life. Many of the people calling out the behaviour are doing the modern equivalent of praying loudly on the side of the road, aka virtue signalling. I remember talking about the Kpop girl industry with friends and they were surprised when I was telling them how many girls get eaten up and thrown out every year, it is basically a sex ring.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 01:49 AM
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I'm not a gamer; can you elaborate? In video games, shops are like a retail supermarket: prices are fixed and there is infinity of everything. But real world markets (like the dating market), prices are highly variable (people date others in quite a range of their own attractiveness, and the number of men and women in an area matters). Wait...why does a "10" not have a "any pick of the guys" in the city? I mean a '10' as the hottest person in this place. A girl who is a 4 in the city could move …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 01:43 AM
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Which is why the game solution is to assume that she wants you until proven otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 01:15 AM
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The analogy of markets is very applicable to human pairing, however I think video games 'shops' have ruined what people understand about markets making the analogy not work as well. In real life, markets are very biased, inefficient, and highly subjective, compared with video games where 'items' have a fixed price and the vendor has infinity of everything. This causes people not to understand the dating and relationship markets well. For example, if you are an average looking girl, get out of th…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/17 01:14 AM
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In the past I've given multiple green lights to shy guys, "Are you coming to Joe's cookout tonight? I'll be there!" But if they say something like "No, I wasn't planning on it" I'll take this as an indication that they aren't interested in me. Is this true? What would keep the shy guy from saying that he will go to the cookout? Yeah... no guy I know would realise that what you said is a signal.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 07:37 PM
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I mean, here's some of the frequent upvoted advice from TRP: Do you realise that this was a joke?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 04:28 PM
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Fair enough, I'm just saying that while TRP would definitely help men that will incorporate it - It will hurt men in a general sense and I think it's an important criticism that should be made. Just like a culture of cutting in lines would help people who would do it but I would make society a worst place. That conclusion assumes: * all men follow TRP * all men who follow TRP can succeed at acting out the theory * there are no other benefits to what TRP suggests
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 04:26 PM
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See, when I first encountered the red pill, this was one of those things I got really confused about because I didn't observe in myself a behavior that is constantly testing my boyfriend to see if he was the best I could do. These 'tests' are your body's (brains) ways of checking that he is still what you think he is. When you are in a happy relationship, you already trust that he is confident and won't leave you, so the tests you subconsciously give are easy with a high margin for error. You pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/17 04:07 PM
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Hypergamy is about status, not money. A high earning professional woman would be very happy to marry a respected professor, despite the massive earnings gap.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 06:37 PM
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what is interesting about what RP people have found is that for most women, it is not mercenary, the power is actually attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 08:34 AM
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Even with celebrities it is not what I would call rape culture. With Harvey Weinstein, everyone in Hollywood knows the deal: you suck his disgusting cock and you get a part.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 08:32 AM
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While true, it is a bit silly for them think that. Do we think people who read loseit have lost weight? Most of the readers are fat people looking to get motivation. The same goes with TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/17 08:28 AM
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Most men can self-improve from an unattractive man to attractive men. If this your attitude, you aren't in the most men category, you are in the "why am I putting up with shit from you, I was trying to help, but now I'll let you keep walking towards the cliff". This writing probably took you an hour or two. If you spent that in the bathroom, you could have groomed yourself up and raised your SMV by a point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/17 06:18 PM
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The theory isn't set. RP is a bunch of guys trying to describe what they see, if you don't get input from women, BPs and others you will slip from reality. Listening to what women say rather than observing what women do is just counterproductive. The point is to look at what women say then do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 07:29 PM
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It is important to see how women, and the wider society thinks. BP people are the vast majority and in life you are dealing with them most of the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 11:42 AM
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It definitely does suck for women who are in the homely to unattractive range. For them, you would need to move to places where you are more favourable. For this self-reported ugly 22yo. She could be a 2 in the major cities, but if she were to move to a county mining town with 80% men, she could be the hottest girl there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 11:40 AM
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Other way around, it doesn't matter if you think you are a leader or not, only their belief.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 12:21 AM
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That is okay. Leadership comes with hefty costs. Costs so high that it is a good strategy to be a follower. If you have to claim to have leadership over someone, then you aren't a leader, and don't have it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 12:17 AM
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Rarely using the power. The modern organisational leadership model is all about aligning interests then giving autonomy to your followers. You shouldn't have to use your final veto power often. I think you misunderstand leadership. I recommend Simon Sinek's Leaders Eat Last. Watch it, it will make you feel good. To illustrate this, I'll give you a story about meeting my company's finance director (I was effectively a drone at this point). He is a big gun. He makes over $1 million a year, and eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/17 12:11 AM
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Since there's no real way to tell if it is the case do you think that maybe dating is a mistake entirely? Make friends with people who are socially acute. Listen to them and they will protect you from manipulative women (and men too). Am I being way too bitter and "black pill"? I do recommend working on your finances and (employable) skill set. When you have excess, you will be less worried about losing a bit of money on a bad date. This will make you less bitter, and will allow you to attract b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:54 PM
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I think you are under the impression that these allegations and punishments are based off justice, they are not. In this case, and in most of life, justice is incidental. I suspect Polanski was much more shrewd and didn't abuse anyone with power or with connections to power. Or he is continuing to pay his dues, or there is no benefit to 'impeaching' him (i.e. with Harvey, he might have been blocking someone to making a bunch of money).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:46 PM
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To me it seems that giving compliments, buying gifts, and stuff that “empower women” are considered beta and weak. Does withholding these things prevent you from being in a romantic relationship, and if it does, is it the woman’s fault for expecting these things? Do some more reading and more importantly test if what is written works. If you are a man and you don't ever do things like giving compliments, buying gifts and empowering your woman, you won't be able to keep her, especially not if she…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:42 PM
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Unlike the Movie, you can't leave the Real Life Matrix. Taking the red pill only allows you to see the programming behind the system. It alone will not allow you to escape.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/17 11:34 PM
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Does answering the question mean you have to “admit” to being hypergamous? What do you think hypergamy means?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/17 06:09 PM
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When I say high intelligence I mean competent and witty, with a talent or two I can comprehend and enjoy. I have no way of knowing how smart somebody actually is. And even if I could, your ability to rotate boxes in your mind or do complex boring tasks that have nothing to do with me is not impressive. There is a claim that women can't appreciate certain male intelligence aspects, ie. the ability to do math isn't sexy. It is argued that women are dumber because of this. Ironically the guys makin…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 09:52 PM
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That isn't what the 80:20 rule is, it is about 20% of the guys getting 80% of the sex, the rest is shared out among the remainder.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 09:25 PM
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On the actuality of female love, I think we agreement except on this point: Their "love" is just an expression of their desire to raise their status through a successful spouse and it will disappear once you can't provide that anymore. The point which I think is missing from your analysis of his argument is that while female love is opportunistic, it is still real. For example with a real gold digger type, she is literally turned on by wealth. If you are wealthy, she will love you completely and…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 08:50 PM
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Some of these posts are complicated, with subtlety. I know it is really easy for you to dismiss them as sexist. It is easier and won't make you comfort ugly truths. I'll even help you, if you are trying to shame me, or other readers, don't waste your time with this sexist/misogynist label, calling me a loser is a way easier and more powerful label. Call me a loser then go and fuck off. No one gives a fuck about your moralising.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 07:44 AM
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There isnt' "escalating punishments" these days where are you gettin that? As the severity of the crime increases, the punishment increases: rape is worse than stealing, and murder is worse than rape. So Rape has a higher punishment than stealing, and murder is even higher. What does that mean? Crimes have both a legal cost (prison time, fines etc.), and a social cost (people won't associate/trade/employ [with] you). I think that the legal punishment (imprisonment) should be higher, but it shoul…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/17 07:41 AM
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If you have some time, we could go over one in detail. For example in the first, personally I don't like his writing style but he makes a important point: Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved. This is actually a important and ugly truth. There is a thing called maternal love which you mostly get from your mother. I think this might be the purest form of love that can exist. It is actually unconditional, it is warm, loving and comforting. Boys get …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 11:50 PM
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No for a non-BP/RP reason. The reason why there is escalating punishment for crimes is to act as a deterrent for criminals to escalate. To take an extreme example, pretend that all crimes from Jaywalking to Murder are punished by death. If someone caught you jaywalking, you have an incentive to kill the person because you might get away, but no deterrent as there isn't a larger punishment. False claims aside, if you raised the punishment for Sexual Assault, you will see a lot more murders. With …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 10:47 PM
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There was no malicious conspiracy to inhibit your social development Obviously not, it was far worse, we had a benevolent non-conspiracy that coincidently hindered out development. Jordan Peterson, a clinical psychologist, suggested that he has seen far more people ruined by overprotective mothers than neglective ones. You were not brainwashed by those who love you most Agree we weren't, at least not intentionally. You always knew what women respond to, who women respond to Bullshit, I had no fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 10:40 PM
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One of the basic tennants of TRP seems to be that women prefer assholes. This is of course bullshit but there is a reason why people believe it. Women for the most part (exceptions exist) don't seem to like men who are unsure about themselves in a conversation. Where is the second part of that tenet? Women will prefer an asshole over a pussy.... Now, Red Pill often claims that women are only attracted to the top 20% of men and that every one else needs to use game to essentially trick women into…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 10:33 PM
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Nobody participates full time and I'm beginning to think that this is normal, except that I have relatives who stay married for sixty years. How I don't know. It was a different time. Women really care about their social status. In today's age divorce and casual sex is very prevalent, as such your potential is constantly hearing about the glamour of divorce. I also don't know about your age, but as I got older, I learned about how all these old happy marriages that your relatives had were not so…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 05:46 PM
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It sounds like she didn't buy your response. You would have to deflect again.
/r/askTRP05/11/17 05:39 PM
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I would ask them to tell me what they did, then lightly give them shit about it (this is important, advice needs to be light and non-serious), then you can bring up more RP theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 05:26 PM
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There was this story about a guy and his gf looking for another for a threesome, she goes and writes his profile: *Good at sports *Likes Dogs *6'4... He stops her and goes "Hey I'm only 5'11", She retorts "not on here you aren't." I don't think most women know what 6ft even is. They just know it is good. Another story is that I'm exactly 6ft (183cm) and my girlfriend is about 5'11-6' (178~180). I'm still getting shit tests about being short and shorter than her. So yes I can't perfectly empathis…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 05:21 PM
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I do aswell. I was messing around with it for a bit and bought 1 bitcoin for ~320. Which I used as currency. If I only bought 2 (or like spent all my money on it). I don't know whether it would have been different if I was about 10 years older and actually had disposable income to blow on risky crap like bitcoin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 05:15 PM
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Depends what you mean by radical. People like AIDS Skrillex and Carl the Cuck (and trigglypuff) are hillarious because people assumed that the anti-feminists were bullshitting about the existent of people like this. It is also funny because these nicknames are horribly mean. When you go completely overboard with insults it becomes funny again. But in real life I haven't really seen people like this, there are Feminists (we live in Feminist society now so everyone is Feminist by default). From wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 05:11 PM
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That is so funny, you are so warped that you label children with flesh lights, slaves and dogs (also dogs too). And labeling children and dogs as a negative too. I'm hope you won't have children because there are enough fucked up people in the world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 04:16 PM
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Is a highly masculine appearance just as much of a turn-off to women as an overly feminine one? No, but it is a turn off. Most women do not find the hyper muscled body builders attractive, however, they all tend to find muscles attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 02:15 PM
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Who knows, it could be as silly as their friends will make fun of them being with a ginger. Either way, it is real, and if you are a ginger, you have to compensate by having higher status/more money/more game etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 02:12 PM
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Red pill seems to want to miss the entire relationship. There are people that are only having sex with others not even in order to form a relationship. Remember that TRP on reddit is effectively a school, which takes in broken men and spits out men fixed enough to face the real world. It won't be able to advance like a university, and grow and change. At some point people there will need to leave after they have learned enough. So change my view, are there any red pill people who value love? Wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 02:07 PM
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What are your experiences with women who are voluntarily childless? On average, they were the worst primary school teachers. Especially those who are the semi-voluntary type (not biological but because no man could love them). How does the proclamation of voluntary childlessness change your perception of a woman and how does she behave in relation to TRP? Let's assume that she is attractive enough to receive male attention and reproduce within a LTR/marriage. A big fad right now is all about vir…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 11:48 AM
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Other way around: being attractive (or more accurately being liked) makes people think you are good.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 05:49 AM
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if sexual success and moral character go hand in hand, which is false I disagree here. The thing about morality is that it is not objective. I would bet you that if you were to run a study on attractiveness and 'morality', you will find a remarkable correlation. I propose that people who are seen as being moral, are those who have above average attractiveness, which would then translate to more sexual success.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/17 08:10 PM
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Because life is unfair. If you think it is fair you have no experience in real life. Get off the internet and get into the workplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 08:57 AM
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The problem is that they don't apply the same standards to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 07:10 PM
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In general I think many TRP concepts have at least a little grain of truth to them, they're just way too hyperbolic and stretched to ridiculous extremes. The reason why it is extreme is because the advice is talking to hoverhanding losers. Yes there is a line that you aren't meant to cross, but these guys are so far from it that they can't see it. To these guys, them being an outright dominant and abusive ass hole, looks like a shy guy trying to speak up to everyone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/17 06:47 PM
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This type of view (a pure separation of alpha vs beta) is too simplistic and won't have any predictive power. e.g. Being a pushover is bad and 'beta', Being assertive is good, but being overly assertive is bad, but is not 'beta'. But then if you are so aggressive that is not allowed in out society (ie. actually killing people and forcing your will), this will work again (you will get extra resources and more women), but you will also be a target. It is better to start with your aim: e.g. succeed…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/17 12:00 AM
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It is only relative, absolute hypergamy literally doesn't make sense. Hypergamy is the tendency of women to prefer men who are equal or higher on the social scale. Because social scales aren't objective in the general sense, hypergamy is always relative. Or maybe both mechanics are at play: being "better than her" is the bare minimum to even register on her radar, and from that pool of "better males" she picks the best? A mostly useless tip for relationships is that for any relationship to work,…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 11:53 PM
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You can never tell because the first rule of Power Talk is "don't Straight Talk about Powertalk" (google the Gervais Principal if you don't know what I am on about). But that aside, I don't believe what you are saying from experience. Accepting that I will sound pretentious, I am smart enough to understand many arguments: let's say in the field of economics and religious. When I go online, I see many people using other people's arguments incorrectly, they will spout common sayings and rebuttals …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 11:42 PM
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This view is, I say, at odds with TRP theory... The post got 71% upvotes and most commenters agreed with it, going as far as calling TRP another “blue pill”. Many of the top comments disagree. It is against TRP in a sense, but only in the PUA marketing material sense. PUA marketing material: Even Fat Kevin with a pedostach and neckbeard can get that Zooey Deschanel look-alike, pay me $1000 to find out how. Result guaranteed or your money back! Realistic TRP: Wherever you are, if you learn some g…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 11:29 PM
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I'm going to tear apart your argument a bit, consider rewriting it to make it more persuasive and logical. Red Pill is ultimately predicated on the idea that, "Nice guys finish last." It is not, your premise is wrong. If this was at work, I would throw away the essay because the conclusion that follows won't be useful. Be careful with how you open essays. An arguable premise that RP is based on is: "Sperm is cheap, Eggs are expensive." This implies that if you want to be successful, you must aba…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 11:14 PM
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From what I understand, RP belief is that TRP is a tool that can be used morally or immorally. At a more high level, this is the point. RP is about what works, then you can use it however you want. According to BP, TRP could be seen as deceptive, selfish, and destructive to established society. I'm pretty RP and I would say that certain TRP strategies are deceptive, selfish, and destructive to established society. A difference between the discussion between RP mindset and BP mindset is that the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 10:54 PM
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Redpill claims to be the unvarnished truth about sexual relationships but it's been around for years and has so far utterly failed to catch on beyond a few thousand redditors and anonymous manospherians. Hundreds of thousands, inching towards the millions. Where are the RP books selling millions of copies? Where are the succesful handsome RP men appearing on TV to spread the word about the TRUTH behind women? Where are the RP infomercials? Why is RP a strictly online phenomenon? Don't RPers like…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 10:43 PM
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What is the best way to judge it/make an opinion about the effectiveness/accuracy of the Red Pill? Start by looking at your aim. Most BP's aim is to understand enough to ridicule, it is really easy to do that. Most TRPers are losers, it is very easy to ridicule losers, because loser is worst insult you can give to a guy. The female equivalent is 'ugly'. I'm gonna assume that your aim is less malevolent. Let's say it is to understand, in hope that you might get something useful out of it. Persona…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/17 10:29 PM
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In the workplace, there are far more workers and leaders, probably somewhere from 5:1 to 100:1. If you have the agreeableness trait, you will be able to more easily navigate through most of the working world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/17 07:20 AM
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WTF, how does nobody see how these feminazis are so toxic for normal folks? Because the feminists won. They are currently in charge of the media, Hollywood, universities, all the big social media sites (ie. modern media), youtube and most businesses. Most people (men and women) don't give a fuck, but you don't insult the king while in his court. Right now, feminism is king. That is why everyone turns a blind eye to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 11:50 AM
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It is funny. I go to these things. And I am sitting there, loud pumping music and noise. Roughly at my voice's pitch so no one can hear me, not drinking because it doesn't work on me, thinking "I'm not having a good time." That is life.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 11:46 AM
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But a crack whore mom of 5 who was a hot babe would make a good plate, wouldnt "it"? She might to some people. Plate spinning is one sexual strategy, but it is by no means the only one. Are there men in the redpill for the purpose of getting into a LTR Yes. LTRs is another sexual strategy. everything I've seen rp say is that the purpose is lifting, dominating, and fucking hot babes, not trying to get into a healthy relationship with a good woman, The purpose of TRP the reddit board is to discuss…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/17 12:34 AM
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Thinking with your dick is a metaphor/cliché. It means ignoring reality because you want to sleep with a girl. eg. If there is a girl who is a crack whore, single mother of 5 all with different fathers, but you think she is 'kinda cute' and would make a good girlfriend. That is thinking with your dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 11:32 PM
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RP is about using your brain to get what your dick wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 11:17 PM
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It is not the same thing, teasing is a type of flirting that works on most girls, but negging is specifically for girls with heavily inflated egos. The point of negging is that it takes an extra second for her to realise that it is an insult, in this time you have moved on the conversation with the rest of the group who won't realise it. This creates a disconnect between her and the group, shattering her ego. Proper usage is pretty immoral. Teasing on the other hand is light flirting to get a gi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 10:13 PM
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Do we have a fundamental misunderstanding of RP and TRP... Probably, most people do. because we are 'out of the game' so to speak? But not because of this. If you are in a committed relationship, and have gone through all of woman's cycle many times, then you will probably have a much better understanding of women then guys who spin plates. [why do I disagree so much with TRP] All writing needs to be suited to the audience. You have probably heard of the statistic that 50% of marriages end in di…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/17 10:08 PM
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In our society, 'everyone' has the default label of feminist. When you pay lip service to equality, and any of the language rules then you are playing that role. If we take it to the people who self-describe as feminist, then yes, on average it is basically mostly uggos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/17 07:46 AM
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why does the nice guys "covert contract" imbue her with a duty to DEMAND they stop being "friends" or to not hang out with him as friends? This is the key lie of the Mainstream Feminist media: that women and men are interchangeable, so men play out the feminine part of human courtship and wait for the female to play the masculine part. This almost never happens. The gist of courtship is: Males and Females in a social area. Female gives permission to approach. Men approaches and displays status. …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/17 12:13 AM
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The evolutionary science it is based on is often neither up to date, nor conclusive... There is no solution to this point, any social studies that goes against the current zeitgeist is taboo. eg. here. If this is a real requirement for you, then this won't be solved soon. You can literally go away and stop debating. You won't be convinced, and you won't be able to convince anyone else. They concern themselves with the incidence of a behaviour over its frequency. Indeed, the mere fact that a cert…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/17 11:44 PM
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...They once traded their youth/beauty for looking after their husbands, but now just trade their youth/beauty to get things from men without looking after them. They once had their older female relatives teach them to catch a husband while they were young, but now, fashion magazines and the Feminist media is now telling them that the will be beautiful forever and will always have a chance at the prince. Is mostly right-wing. Only if you count right-wing as not radical left. Which is the current…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/17 10:58 AM
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You writing pattern is strange, I would work on that (and fitness/fashion) before worrying about the colour of your hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/17 06:46 AM
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When I say male dominated I mean in term of culture. In places like construction, the speech is so fucking dirty and vulgar and blunt. The business world is purely feminine communication, through subtlety, plausible dependability and tact. The same goes with the media, and tech.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 02:05 PM
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so its a massive flaw in attracting women Not quite actually, something that is really attractive to women is being secure in almost all aspects of your life. Then revealing some flaws, because that makes you human.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 12:39 PM
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It is not a massive flaw, but it is unattractive to women (and women are amazing at sensing insecurity.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 12:26 PM
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Thread 2 is Straight Talk which is not used in society, especially not societies with feminine communication: eg. the media, the business world, the tech world ie. anywhere that isn't a male dominant industry (like coal mining, or construction). I speak both languages because I have worked in both areas. I'll go through it a bit and give context to translate and then you can tell me whether it is still sexist (or whether you think I am the sexist). In the first observation, I'm guessing that you…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 11:26 AM
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We have the ladder of expertise: Potential - which is the ability to learn flexible skills, leads to Skills - which is the ability to complete tasks, leads to Achievements - which are manifestations of the skills Things lower on the ladder are worth more to society that the top. worthy of being called an accomplishment I think you mean "worth being called an accomplishment", not "worthy". Which is an interesting distinction because I disagree with the literal "worthy". Worthiness is dependant on…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/17 11:11 AM
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A couple people are missing the key here: there is a massive delay in the markers of success. Imagine you are a farmer learning all the right things, you have the equipment, you have measured the soil pH and added the right amount of phosphorus and nitrogen and you finally start planting some seeds. A week later you cry "Why haven't my corn sprouted yet?" It doesn't work that way. If the people who are improving keep it up, and start racking up achievements, not just skills and knowledge, they w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:55 PM
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It depends what you mean by masculine: There are the masculine traits and masculine appearance. The appearance is more of a turn off than the traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:02 PM
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Did you manage to improve your romantic life with a help of trp? Yeh definitely. Used to be an incel in the literal sense (not the new reddit meaning of fedora wearing basement dweller). Now I am doing okay. Are you satisfied with current results? Not yet. I want to be so good at sex that I mess it up for her with others. What was the most important change that you had to make in order to achieve results? Action and implementation. There is far too much noise on TRP, go in, pick up the important…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 08:00 PM
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certain men Yes obviously Most men I don't believe so.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/17 11:06 AM
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So he can win all her 200 quid. Lucky him.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/17 03:21 AM
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Definitely not. It is a waste of time. Read the sidebar, think back to your experiences with women and the feminised society, then go and live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 09:39 PM
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then why not MGTOWEWM (except when masturbating)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 09:31 PM
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i agree with most of the principles and getting laid it's all well and good but surely it gets to a point where banging the next chick or mentally manipulating them is morally reprehensible. Yes you are right, this point happens at the first girl you meet. It is always morally reprehensible to manipulate someone for you own benefit at their own demise. Manipulation is not what TRP is about, it shows you the tools that are being used against you. It is amoral.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 09:02 PM
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The way people talk about "nice guys", it seems like it's painted as being an exclusively male behavior that no (or almost no) women are horrible enough to engage in. However, I'm sure there are at least a decent number of needy women who also participate in this behavior, right? I have definitely met a few. It is less creepy. Women are definitely turned off when their man is more into them they they are into him. For men this effect is less. Heck some of my friends are really nice girls and I a…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 08:59 PM
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There is the assholey joke (asked of a MGTOW): When you rub one out, do you look at pictures of naked ladies?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 08:37 PM
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and then cram it down their throats. This is the arrogant intellectual archetype. This is the Scar (Lion King) or the Voldermort, or the Syndrome (the Incredibles). Why are you trying to be the bad guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 08:35 PM
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Basically I had to re-convince her that evolution was true but she would strawman the shit out of every topic. If I said that women value men with the ability to gather resources that equated to women are all gold-digging whores. If I said that women are attracted to physically masculine traits that equated to women only liking ridiculously jacked dudes. Your problem is not the women part, it is actually your persuasive strategy. There is a certain way of presenting information that makes it mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 05:38 PM
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I think it is the same as the college graduate underachievers: they feel like life is unfair and they gotta let everyone know about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 05:34 PM
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The way you write says you are not looking to discuss, you want to shout into a crowd that already agrees with you. Basically virtue signalling. Anyway, enough about the 'Rational' male, how do you 'rational' men define Hypergamy? It is simply the observation that women date across and up hierarchies and men date across and down. What Rollo is trying to do is write a general model of what hierarchies women value as they mature. Effectively, as a male, you should be looking at women who are equal…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 05:33 PM
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For example: here are some common generalisations/deal breakers I see from feminists or women in general, particularly on askwomen, tbp and some other radical feminist subs. Here on reddit, the Overton Window is heavily skewed left. I would guess that 50% or more members would agree strongly with all the general feminist viewpoints. By comparison, I think in my company it would be nearer to 10-20% of people with at least 50% in the I don't care group.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 05:24 PM
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Would the world be better if it was ruled by women instead of men? It depends what you mean by better. So let's take my definition of: good health, general satisfaction and prosperity. Then let's say, our current society's leaders are instantly replaced by women, whose leadership skill matched that of the male they replaced (eg. the 200th best male leader is replaced by 200th best female 'leader' who isn't currently a leader). Then let's say that for some reason all males lose interest in taking…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 05:20 PM
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Just like when the Sunnis led by ISIS lost power, so when the Shites came back they murdered and raped the Sunnis back as revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 05:02 PM
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They don't mention the irrationality of men because the TRP men reading it won't find it relevant. Nope, waaay off the mark here. What do you think the point of AWALT is? It is to remind you that men are the real romantics and are blinded by love.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/17 04:58 PM
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For starters, define: alpha better off I think you are assuming that alpha means dominant in a masculine sense. Alpha females are not necessarily masculine. Unless you are defining alpha females to be masculine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/17 08:52 AM
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Help people.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 11:33 PM
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I have seen many example on theredpill where they said that woman have it easy in life That is not the claim. It is women have it easy for the first half of their adult life. If you are a woman. You are going to approach a time in your life at 20-30 where you get all of life's advantages: If you are looking for a partner, this is the age when you are the most physically attractive. At any traditionally male job: tech, engineering, business, if you are just as qualified as a male candidate, you w…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 10:58 AM
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Can you go on /r/parenting and reply to this comment, which challenges your views, and then link me to the reply? No. It is not good to get others to fight your battles for you. I would say that his view of the world is idealistic. In real life, the modern self esteem movement does not say that, and trophies matter. Why not? Why shouldn't hot guys escalate physically? This is taking 'hot' to mean specifically sexual and sensual guys (there are other ways of male attractiveness besides sexuality)…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/17 10:52 AM
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It is mostly normal. Most women don't have close male friends, the same is true for men (who tend not to have close female friends). I've heard a fair amount of TRPers saying that a girl having male friends is a total dealbreaker You could argue that I am a TRPer, I know a decent amount of the ideology. Here we are being metaphorically an asshole. All girls that only have male friends are NOT all crazy. However many of certain types of manipulative girls have only male friends. If you do not hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 10:50 PM
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In what way? I don't agree with the premise that you are either too hard or two soft, there is a large gap in the middle where that is the right amount of parenting. Even if you aren't in the gap, you can always adjust your behaviour: if you are too soft, be harsher, and the opposite if you are too harsh. The next paragraph are examples of the above. There is a spectrum of idealised 'good' behaviour, we can all agree that the hyper extremes are important detrimental. My mistake, that is me writi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 10:44 PM
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It's a lose-lose these days. If parents are too soft and kids don't like where they end up then they blame their parents for being weak. If parents are too hard on the kids and they fuck their kids up then their kids say they had abusive parents. Either way the kids blame the parents. It is a false dichotomy: How about: I was too soft so I had to cast out my child for a bit. After they get independent I welcomed them back in. or I was such a hard ass because that is the way I am. I later realise…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/17 06:32 AM
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If you want a happy relationship, it is more important to get your life in order than to placate your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 08:27 PM
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What about introverted women? The introverted women I know like to have a small number of close friends that they do things together with.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 08:08 PM
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Haikus are so shit Trash Poems that really suck Go away you cunt
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 04:20 PM
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There is the saying Happy Wife, Happy Life. Anecdotal evidence suggests that is backwards, it should be: Happy Life, Happy Wife
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 04:16 PM
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would women branch swing en masse to men aligning with their newly changed values? Yes. See Stockholm Syndrome or the shit that women do in the war torn countries of Africa or Japan after WW2.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 09:41 AM
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The amount of money my job pays me says I'm not. I can never know though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 09:23 AM
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I have read on askwomen threads that the mere sight of a tall man makes for wet vaginas. Is this true? No. Most women don't even know what they find attractive anyway. You don't ask the fish how to catch fish, ask the fisherman. There was an article somewhere that was looking at relationships, this wasn't the focus of the study, but they also noted that out of the 285 couples, in 284 of them, the man was taller than the woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 09:15 AM
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Alpha females aren't dominant in the masculine sense, they are the ones who are hyper feminine, eg. supermodel's body and superhero's girlfriend's personality. I meant sexually dominant people That means people who can get tonnes of sex, so are you asking about "attractive females"? They tend not to go for androgynous males.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 09:12 AM
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The final act in mastery of an art is making it seem effortless. This goes the same for presenting yourself as a man. After you have finished improving yourself, which is a long and painful process, the final step is to make it seem as if you were always like this. The funny thing is that women know this. There is that classic line "he is a loser who tries too hard", and also how women won't let guys know the amount of effort that goes into maintaining healthy skin and applying make up. There is…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 09:08 AM
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There are, I know a small number. But it is definitely not the norm. However, I don't think there are many (of any) men who are happily married who wouldn't be happier single. The point of marriage isn't happiness. It is long term fulfilment though children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 08:46 AM
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Do you mean "dominate sexually "? Dominant just means at the top of the sexual market, which TRP say it goes: Alpha Males Alpha Females Beta Females Beta Males Gamma Males & Gamma Females
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 08:43 AM
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I don't think all nice guys are sex crazed perverts. I don't mean sex necessarily as literally sexual intercourse. It is a metaphor for a large amount of vulnerability on the girl's end: things like physical intimacy or emotional intimacy. but I think it's understandable why some of them might get frustrated No one expect feminists (eg. the point of TRP) is giving them shit about it. We were all there at some point. We understand. We too have been told the lie that doing the things that Ryan Gos…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 08:35 AM
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Have a watch of this (~15m video. There is a thing called Self Authoring which is a program to help you organise your past (emotionally significant memories), present (current desirable and undesirable personality traits) and future (goals and aims in life). That might be able to help if you keep getting the feeling over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/17 08:27 AM
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I was thinking - are people sometimes too hard on "nice guys"? 'Nice guy' is a sarcastic/derogatory term. It describes someone who is missing the point of being nice/kind hearted/altruistic. An altruistic person does good for nothing in return. That is what makes them altruistic. A 'nice guy' emulates these behaviours in exchange for sex. They are not 'nice'. That is the joke. The ironic thing is that if they were honest about their intentions, TRP suggests they would have better luck: The guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/17 09:13 PM
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Excuse me while I try to walk off this existential nightmare and overall futility in life. Everyone I know has had to go through this at some point. Welcome to adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 04:56 PM
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I think the point of PPD is to train your thought processes. You aren't going to convince the other side, heck, we are on a tiny isolated internet forum, even if you convinced all 12k users here, and the 260k in TRP and TPB, you haven't done shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 02:25 PM
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Are you trolling? Women aren't into comically big dicks. On gold diggers, only a small fraction (5%?) of women are actually turned on by money itself. Most women are attracted to the traits with bring in the money: ambition, intelligence and persistence. I think you are assuming the wrong direction. I think it is more that women who can't form healthy monogamous relationships have a higher partner count. Women don't want to be pumped and dumped, they would prefer 1 partner who is the best (that'…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 10:55 AM
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Can you elaborate on what exactly (1) pacing and (2) leading are? Pacing and leading is a persuasion technique. Google it if you want to find more about it because it is the best persuasion technique. A short on it is: you start by matching the target until they let their guard down because they trust you, then when you change your tone slightly, they will follow. With all persuasion techniques, most people do it without knowing. eg. Trump: there is a good reason why 1. all the working class rur…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 10:41 AM
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The claim is 20% of men have 80% of the offspring. ie. 20% of men have 80% of the offspring another 20% of the men have 20% of the offspring
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 10:29 AM
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>Dr. Baumeister explained that today’s human population is descended from twice as many women as men. Maybe 80 percent of women reproduced, whereas only 40 percent of men did. There are estimates that around 40% of males and 80% of females have offspring. The guess of 20:80 is using the pareto idea, that a smaller number of people achieve almost everything. This is seen through things like wealth, creative arts, scientific papers researched. I don't know of a source which shows it in dating (bes…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/09/17 09:17 AM
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Why exactly are the other 10,000 bullshit/meaningless? Like all writing, TRP is persuasion. One of the major techniques of persuasions is called pacing and leading. TRP is for men who have been terribly wronged by society (yes in their opinion). Many articles lead with this: all women, yes all of them are evil. Then when the tone shifts to: to get back at them, lift, fix your life, get a good job and speak well, they follow (the leading part of pacing and leading). Important to note, they are no…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 11:11 PM
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People often argue that women are uninteresting, and I want to what standards they are being held to and what makes both sexes interesting or uninteresting. Are you sure? I think the argument is that in the dating game, being 'interesting' is less important for women than it is for men. In this context, 'interesting' is subjective to the partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 10:27 PM
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Why do men feel like they need to be in control during sex? I don't think this is true in general. The adage might come from men being higher in disagreeableness on average (if you randomly took a random male and female, there is a 60% chance that the male will be more disagreeable), so it might be slightly tipped on that side. There is the other side that many 'love specialists' suggest that sex is better when the man is in charge, but I'll let you decide whether that is true for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 10:18 PM
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I think it is linked to big5 personalty traits: conscientiousness (disgust sensitivity) and neuroticism. These traits appear to be around 40-60% inheritable, with the remaining being nurture. If you have an OCD/anorexic parent and you grew up around these types of behaviour, watch out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 10:13 PM
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If you haven't been heartbroken or at least cheated in life*, TRP is meaningless. For example one of my cousins has a good life and a stable relationship. To him, there is one TRP article that is important, the other 10,000 are bullshit and meaningless to him. Same goes with everyone who had a stable and good childhood that was leveraged into mature adulthood: you don't need TRP. I mean cheated in the sense that men watched Disney too. Just like girls were promised Princes, boys were promised pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/17 10:07 PM
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Don't forget smashing random fuckers with bike locks.
/r/PussyPassDenied14/05/17 11:10 PM
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Making people laugh is more about power than about wit. They want the power side.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/16 08:26 PM
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That's because there is no set guidelines for what trp is. On point here, this is arguable by design. You are supposed to test the shit you read here. On TRP, I've seen things that are insightful and life changing, and on the other hand, shit that is completely bonkers, and other shit which will make you seriously unhappy. Part of being an adult is learning how to take advice, and not being completely trusting, especially not to strangers on the internet.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/16 03:12 PM
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Not if you say no homo first.
/r/TheRedPill20/06/16 02:28 PM
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Try changing your title to "6 TRICKS TO GET ANY GIRL (You won't believe number 5)".
/r/TheRedPill17/06/16 03:59 PM
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Seriously, what the fuck is with all the talk about globalist conspiracies or something? I'm actually really fucking confused. Taking your confusion literally, go through this list of books, yes I am an asshole for saying read twenty books. But see how you go, you might find something you like. The jist is that people need something to blame because people need a scapegoat. (Here I'm talking about the 90+% of people). The people who subscribe to these theories are all a bit smarter than average,…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/16 12:57 PM
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It really is all about attitude. Some guys just want excuses. All people everywhere want excuses for their failures. By being able to provide some to them (feeding their hamster), you will be able to persuade them. Most commonly this is used to sell them shit.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 10:20 PM
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We already see the consequences of that sort of thinking start to bear fruit in places like Germany. And Sweden! I want more people to bring that place up. Just 5-10 years ago, it was being lorded as the ultimate socialist paradise. How quick has it fallen.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/16 06:24 AM
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This isn't from the man's perspective, it is written for the woman's perspective, the test isn't sex but what comes after sex: creating a lasting relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/16 07:21 PM
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There isn't a direct meaning, just like colloquially theory means guess, but in science it means a tested explanation. My understanding is that sociopathy is physical lack of empathy, and psychopathy is someone who can only gain pleasure through other's suffering. It should be noted that other colloquial meanings are related to morality: a sociopath is someone not concerned with societal morality. A psychopath is someone who purposefully breaks that morality. Of course since your are on TRP you …
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 09:22 PM
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Everyone manipulates everyone, or at least they try to. Why do you think children say please pretty please? Some people are just honest about it, and through that honesty, they can take the things that work and build on it.
/r/TheRedPill24/04/16 09:18 PM
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Women are much more emotional than men, and men are very emotional beings. The 1800s with the legitimate discrimination of women is likely to be a relic of the past, in the past you had to maximise efficiency: women can't die because if you lose too many, your tribe will perish. Towards the 1700s-1900s, smart women were able to navigate the landscape, attaching themselves to powerful men and using that to gain influence. As the productivity of humans increased, you can have a larger proportion o…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 07:50 PM
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I know many English resources that are pretty high level English, depending on your level they might make no sense. For now, grab autobiographies of controversial people and understand their decision making.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 07:33 PM
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Learn about morality, how it is flexible and how to justify what you have chosen, to be the only righteous option.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/16 07:12 PM
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So he's tall, built and has an attractive face. That's three major physically attractive features, and she lists them first even though she qualifies herself only as "accomplished". And he's a 9+, even on the skewed female attractiveness scale. 6ft 6pack, 6 figures, so you know he is average, ~5, maybe a 6 on a good day.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/16 12:40 AM
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Of course, there's room for enjoyment along the way, but you should do so knowing that pointless fun things (namely, women) do not have a solid return on investment. I really like this caveat. To explain why I'm taking a phrase out of Rich Dad Poor Dad. Rich people buy luxuries with the returns from their investments. Middle class people buy luxuries with their savings. Poor people buy luxuries with debt. Same goes with women. You want to get women as the returns of your investments (in yourself…
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 07:03 AM
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Gender ratio tells us about ~53% are female Marriage rate is about ~40% Lesbian is about ~10% Obesity/overweight rate is ~66% Age range (18-44) is about 40% nationally Well multiplying the odds you get ~5.3% (taking the complimentary values when appropriate), you could divide your population by 20 to get a rough idea.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 04:29 PM
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And if anyone is still reading, holy crap did I just find the perfect example: girl asks for advice Obviously don't read the whole thing (it is like 3 pages long), but look at the general gist of the conversation. [Girl] asks for advice about something, guy gives thoroughly validating response (you are doing fine, keep at it), read her ecstatic reply. Wow, thank you so much. This actually made me feel so much better. All night I was thinking of ways to get out of going but I think I will go and …
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 12:00 PM
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The only argument you need is: their advice simply does not work. This is the scientific/utilitarian argument which yes, totally agree. If the shit doesn't work, then it doesn't matter how neatly it can be put into theory. 99% of the time women communicate using powertalk, and handing out advice to men is no exception. (Powertalk = using words to get a result while maintaining plausible deniability) "Please help me get women" gets translated in her mind into "Convert this man to support the fema…
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 08:06 AM
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It actually does. Try this for me (will take about 2ish minutes). First I'll tell you exactly what its going to do to challenge this idea: if you know that you are relying on the placebo effect the placebo does not work I'm going to ask you to visualise scenarios to create the emotions, to reflect those emotions in your body language. Okay now this is what you do. Go to your bathroom mirror and look at your face. Close your eyes and visualise your best friend dying, after a shitty day where you …
/r/TheRedPill09/03/16 08:00 AM
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...is a lifelong project. This is the key. Until you actually experience it yourself, we are the crazy ones. The whole fucking world is pushing this one narrative, our own biology is pushing the same exact narrative (wiki: women are wonderful effect). If you believe what we are saying without experiencing it yourself, then you are a gullible idiot. Eventually, by following the narrative you will get burned, and that will be the time. If you are lucky, that will only be a small discomfort during …
/r/TheRedPill01/03/16 09:00 AM
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Are we arguing about two different things here? There is a difference between the scientific arena and the social/public arena. It seems like we are pushing different arenas. When scientists discredit/debunk conspiracy theorists, they either attack the premise or the claims. Scientifically doing one instance of it is enough to discredit the claim. But that isn't what you are talking about... You know how when you focus on something, it pops up everywhere? For me, the current topic is the social …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 05:55 PM
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I'm not sure what you are trying to express here. Is your focus on that guy, or "conspiracy theories", or the tools that people use to discredit people. Just watched that video, I hope that guy isn't you because he is fucking stupid. He made an offhand remark about in 1920, people now only thought that there was 1 galaxy, now we know there are billions. In order to justify the idea that scientists are usually wrong, and usually really wrong. It was in 1923 that Hubble discovered another galaxy, …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 04:49 PM
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"Think as you like, but behave like others." This is that it is based on your current context. For example, one of our mods/endorsed contributors could actually be the king of SJWs, facist and misandrism, but on here he is acting like us. In this case he would be following the law. For Trump, the things he said are the things that people are thinking, but can't say since of the current political climate. For example him 2nd amendment argument: ...If one you, or you... were in the audience with a…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 02:20 PM
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I swear, I saw a TRPer this one time, he was praising Donald Trump because of how he made him feeeeeel. Because he felt like a winner. Because he wakes up and feels good about his support for trump and can't wait to hear what his favorite candidate says next. That's emotional. That's what women do. The tingles. It's feminine. That is literally the whole point. All the jokes about feels>reals, not being able to negotiate attraction, women are by default non-rational. Capturing the emotional mind …
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 10:40 AM
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I fail to see what a woman's opinion on illegal immigrants has anything to do with TRP, even if said women was married to Donald Trump. Assuming what you said is literal (over the internet I can't tell whether this is a sarcastic jest). Read this article. The gist of it is that arguments in the public arena are based off absolute morality, and relative truth (as opposed to relative morality and absolute truth). Thus the goal of an argument is to find any single character flaw in the opponent. If…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 12:15 AM
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You'll notice that whenever he does a rally he always mentions how he's winning in the polls. Actually he does something slightly different than this, this difference is important. He doesn't say "I'm winning", he says "We're winning". He spends most of his speeches glorifying his followers. People who say that Trump is egotistical hasn't watched him at all. He glorifies his supporters, that is one of the reasons why people love him so much.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 01:33 PM
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Is this real life? (from wikipedia) Rousey once dated fellow UFC fighter Brendan Schaub.[142] In August 2015, Rousey was rumored to be in a relationship with another UFC fighter Travis Browne, who knocked out Schaub in a bout the previous year It's like a RP ironic joke.
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 11:44 PM
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Google game theory, prisoner's dilemma. Certain situations can cause two logical participants to always choose the lesser negative solution, instead of a lesser positive.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 12:16 PM
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Dating only involves two people close enough in SMV that there has to be a negotiation in order for there to be an exchange. If there was a clear advantage, there wouldn't be any need to date. They'd just get what they wanted. That is an awesome explanation. It neatly ties in all the relative SMV relationships.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/16 01:16 PM
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Is this a troll? It reads like one of those I am a fat cisgendered multi-coloured, cis-black, trans-squirel-kin vegan eco feminist and this is what I believe in.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 01:21 PM
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If you use a condom that you brought, it is 99.99% effective. The 0.01% comes from the girl who poked holes in the condom and doesn't want to tell. According to google 5 minute research. The chance of conceiving is about 25% per cycle (with frequent unprotected sex). So if you used a condom and only fucked her once, odds are she is trying to find a beta to buck up. Stay the fuck away.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 07:57 AM
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You mean reddit, or trp? On reddit, he is saying all the shit people want to hear. Justifying their lack of achievement due to a shitty college degree. Blaming all the rich people for their lack of success. On trp, I haven't really seen a bias. But he plays the exact character you want to create (you Machiavellian bitch): explaining their position, shifting the blame from his supporters to the 'boogieman', then offering a solution. Notice this is exactly the same as things like: Religion: origin…
/r/TheRedPill09/02/16 07:22 AM
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I like the flowchat, it is so blunt. I'm unsure that anyone who isn't RP'd would be able to appreciate it. Although I don't like the use of the term "inferior position", it is not the 'inferior' position, implying a possibility of transcendence, it is the "follower" position (juxtaposed with the "leader" position). The follower position is a long-term stable position. Back in tribal times (and unspoken today), there is a deal that is made between the leaders and the followers. The leaders get fi…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 03:44 AM
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Most of TRP is unlearning your mainstream feminist upbringing and re-embracing your natural instincts. Things like hypergamy, isn't that fucking obvious: women want the best mate. But thanks to your 'women are wonderful' bias, and the current social zeitgeist, it is hard to appreciate that thought.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 03:23 AM
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Sidebar read the powertalk article. Politicians job is to say as much as possible without conveying any information.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 05:25 AM
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There isn't a quantitative way to measure this, the only takeaway is that a overwhelming significant part of communication is through body language.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 03:21 AM
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liberals being the real racists I have a [conspiracy] theory on why liberals hate white supremacists so much: in their eyes they are all fucking talk. The liberals are going: "You say you hate blacks but what have you done? We destroyed the black community through family destruction laws, our laws created ghettos and poverty. Our welfare has kept them poor, our minimum wage stops them from getting onto the job ladder, our affirmative action destroys the achievements of the actual successful blac…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 03:06 AM
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Women don't have a greater capacity for compassion and support than men do. You are judging women by male standards, which yes. Women suck at being men. Even in your disagreement you misjudging women. In trp it is a given that women suck at being men. This is what I gathered you are saying logically. Men are supposed to reach their potential (ie. build society), women support them. Men have a higher potential for supporting others. Therefore men are better women. However, reaching your potential…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 02:48 PM
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You are mistaking girlishness for femininity. Femininity is qualities like compassion, support and nurture. It is about helping others achieving their potential. Masculinity is qualities like strength, stoicism and braveness. It is about achieving your potential.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 07:30 AM
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Watch this 4 second futurama clip. Why is it funny? Go to the reddit theydidthemath. Why is it so cringe worthy? There is an issue here that you are technically correct, but missing the point. Read up on Powertalk (sidebar). Here, among other places, generelisations exists to make navigation easier.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 04:00 PM
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That's why the powertalk maxim of TRP is don't get married.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/15 01:35 PM
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Not one enemy can attack you like your mother and it is very obvious why one's trust in women is compromised after so much pain induced by a loved one. Opening yourself up to a female is too high a risk after that, especially as men tend to invest emotionally when they seriously mean it. Wow that hit home so hard. I'm getting that feeling (it has always been there lurking) that this is the cause of pretty much all my failed relationships. In my case an inability to open up to anybody, not just f…
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 03:37 AM
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Actually this is the start of the end of alimony... at least in NY. After a few decades, inflation will wear out the numbers making alimony effectively nulled. They may control for inflation, but there is a large difference between actual inflation and government inflation (which they will use), so as long as you are somewhat tied to inflation (high paying job, or you sell things), your children will have an out. This is the same thing that happened with the income tax. When it was introduced, i…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 09:49 PM
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Simple minds want simple answers, of course, so there's no sense in wasting time with these folk. I think here you hit on a deep issue. After a quick scan I have seen many replies of the form: Why the fuck can TRP not make an argument in under a thousand words? Ugh, I like the crazy feminists better. They keep their weirdness to five sentences with a punchline. It isn't a fucking thesis. Bad Red Pill! Bad! It's a weird world when the reader brags about not being able to read a complete page. Wha…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/15 01:15 AM
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In the king's court, only the jester can speak the truth.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/15 06:01 AM
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I don't understand your angle: If I'm not willing to put up with her shit she will find someone who will? It is my moral duty to put her in her place?
/r/TheRedPill04/12/15 07:17 AM
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I used her own words against her. Being completely calm and polite: I have tried this many times (I am really analytical, abstract and articulate so I can rephrase what people saying to explain how their own logic is inconsistent). I have also found that most people's arguments are over their head: they themselves don't understand the core logic behind their arguments, making it impossible to change their mind, or even their reasons for believing them. Simply put, they say that A implies B, I sh…
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 02:00 AM
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This is the less talked about bargaining phase: "Are you saying if I do all this stuff and hold frame then I too can be Chad?".
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 12:30 AM
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That's the think, he knows the game: Woman gets dumped, then she trashes the house, beats herself up then goes to the police saying she got raped. Everyone sides with the woman. He specifically counters that by videoing his escape with no rage. Then posts it online first. This makes the public side with him. Legality isn't the point, the fact that he reversed the direction of the point is the great bit.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/15 10:30 PM
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you need to be an expert if you want to pick up on [micro expressions]. Not as much as you think. Micro expressions are actually pretty easy to read. The difference between his analysis and other pop-micro gestures, is that he blatantly states that there is less information that expected. A 'tic' only really tells you "the thing that you just said is not completely neutral" (or the thing they were thinking about is not completely neutral). Nothing about lying, truth, good or bad. But it gives yo…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 09:18 AM
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Take a step back and think about what you want to get out of the speech. Do you expect swaths of disillusioned boys/men rallying to your cry? Do you expect all the babes to gush at your well evidenced arguments? If you are looking for an 'out', do something like: I was supposed to talk about gender equality, but that's too dry let's talk about kittens, or delicious foods (with lot's of pictures).
/r/TheRedPill24/11/15 06:01 AM
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Always remember, we're in an arena where only one side is held to any kind of rules. Not only are they not held to the 'rules', it is their moral imperative to break them against 'us' (us being anyone who gets in their crosshairs, including their own allies). They are rewarded with fame and in many cases fortune.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 01:34 AM
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Why use 455 that which can be said in 22. A key that opens many locks is a master key, a lock that is opened by many keys is a shitty lock.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/15 01:30 AM
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If you can remember any way to find the post I would be interested in reading it. Vulnerability in Models is akin to outcome independence, the different term appreciates the difficulty of putting yourself out there. Approaching is being vulnerable, performing is being vulnerable, expressing your real feelings is being vulnerable. The last term is not necessarily RP ideals, with Models saying that if she tries to fuck with you, next her right then... Mark Manson is ruthless with his instant rejec…
/r/TheRedPill20/11/15 09:08 AM
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It is definitely true that there is significant overlap, when you lift heavy (a domain of physical strength), you need to match up the angles and your body position(good form) and also have the emotional strength to push past the pain point. Specifically on the separation, I made a distinction to highlight how many people who are known as 'intelligent', still can't take failures, or constantly need others to acknowledge them. The article linked shows the early stages much better than I can descr…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 04:48 AM
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I aimed for a more general "these things exist" type post, instead of really in depth exploration of the topics. Your interest is noted though and I will start forming thoughts on the topic.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/15 03:19 AM
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let's change that to "asian and indian men are especially beta" and then it's true Why? That makes it more general, making it easier to be correct, and harder to be useful. Why not describe the specific beta traits, to help them identify and improve on them? An example of what you are doing is turning: "Bohemian Rhapsody is a harmonic song with varying intensity" into "Bohemian Rhapsody is good". More correct, but less useful.
/r/TheRedPill18/11/15 03:05 PM
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One will break your heart, the other your face.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 01:13 PM
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If you are arguing: A lack of belief in a collective, accepted higher authority leads to our current predicament: women doing what they want without thought for the consequences. Then you are consistent with the quote: Religion is regarded by the common people as true, by the wise as false, and by the rulers as useful. - Lucius I'm not sure where you stand on this idea in terms of TRP thinking, but Whisper isolated two key spheres of differences between BP/RP thinking. These are Factual and Mora…
/r/TheRedPill11/11/15 12:57 AM
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but what is the difference between this and the vulnerability that is central to Models by Mark Manson? He does say to not just spill out emotions for validation, that is has to a an honest expression. or do you guys not like that book in the first place? It's much simpler than it seems. This comes from a position of neediness, while the vulnerability suggested comes from a position of confidence. He was probably seeking comfort or pity. This is different from the I'm going to show you some of m…
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 11:40 AM
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The tone in your choice of words precisely illustrates my point.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 09:43 PM
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“Everything everyone thinks they know about [Mother Teresa] is false. Not just most of the things, all the things. It must be the single most successful emotional con job of the twentieth century.” Christopher Hitchens
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 12:56 PM
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There isn't enough information here to tell you what to do. This could be a case of him being generally friendly and simply teasing everyone and you are taking it too personally (the fact that you are saying he gets laid often says something, gronk style doesn't pay off most of the time). If he is doing a weaksauce 'Alpha male', gronk style. You counter it by pausing what you are saying, then after he finishes, you continue exactly what you were saying, without acknowledging his comments. This o…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 11:42 AM
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They sell delusions for 14.99/month.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 04:33 AM
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The idea for Models is to force the maybe's into the hell yeah or hell no category quickly. By using heavily polarising (true) statements such as something like "I'm a serious furry" (guy who dresses like a mascot). You will turn off most women, but the few women who aren't turned off will be really turned on (either, hell yeah, or hell no). For your example "I don't do being toyed with, it is disrespectful". You would say, or imply, that you don't accept being disrespected. Either the girls wil…
/r/TheRedPill30/10/15 03:50 PM
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I don't like his videos because I get what he is doing, purely emotional based arguments. Yes they are supported by facts, but the vehicle of choice is anger and they are specifically crafted to incite anger. It is the same reason why I won't waste my time on some Blue Pill/Feminism Today posts. It is a gift of anger that I don't want to accept.
/r/TheRedPill29/10/15 08:52 AM
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This is a talk by Simon Sinek which inspired me. I am combining a bunch of different talks and research to get this conclusion, with that talk being the base.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 08:58 AM
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Exactly the same way you counter any other addiction, whether it is caffeine, gambling, heroine or video games. You need to remove the pathway (unlikely), and you need to up the social happiness chemicals Oxytocin and Serotonin. This is done through real life achievement in front of peers/mentors releasing Serotonin (Pride) for both the person and the peers/mentors watching, creating meaningful relationships which are secured by the Oxytocin (security) released. Dopamine is supposed to work in c…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 05:59 AM
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The whole experience made me think that there should be an organization for guys faced with these things. If you are brave enough, try it. However in our climate, expect "New misogynist boy's club encourages rape and even defends accused members".
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 03:21 AM
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All women are like that. They all want your attention and your validation. This doesn't mean what you think it does. Watch that animated video about AWALT that was posted a few weeks back. Here's where you can improve (even though based on my opening, you are already tuned out): Women want guys who are less invested in her, than she is in you. At the moment you started dreaming about her and being actually concerned what she was doing with her mouth is the point that you lost her. This doesn't m…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 12:33 AM
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Actual story: Sally Slut tries to wing Barry Beta When they first met, Sally, liking Barry at the time, gave Barry all the signs and signals hoping that he would take control. It turns out that he didn't so he must have not wanted her at the time, because no one would ever miss obvious signals like 5% longer stares and standing close by. Sally was hurt a bit but that's okay, Barry turned out to be such a good friend all these years. A couple of years later, Sally notices her friend Barry has bee…
/r/TheRedPill25/10/15 03:23 AM
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What the fuck did I just read? Marxist nonsense. How does any sane person rationalize this thought in their head? This is the difference between equal opportunity and equal outcome (as ideals). In the equal outcome ideal, it is legitimate to penalised the people at the 'top' to balance the result. You will notice that people who follow socialist ideals on trp will say that the issue is that men aren't at the top (we haven't been for decades), so they shouldn't be penalised. While those who follo…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 11:03 PM
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Hi I'm Dustin how are you? (look for body language tells).
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 10:50 PM
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I have a theory that women choose to do these easy and useless degrees without considering the job outlook because... The flaw is that you are assuming that women think exactly the same as men, ie. they act mostly rational. For most women it isn't that complicated. It is much more likely something on the lines of: all my friends are doing X, so I'm going to too (I literally know at least 20 cases of this). There is significant evidence that women aren't concerned with the long term (or at least …
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 01:51 AM
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Honestly? To feel better about myself. There you go, that is your problem right there. You can't be confident and be overly affected by other's opinions of you. You can't be the center of attention unless you are confident. The path that you are trying to take is really unstable: I want others to feel good so that I feel good. If you can reverse that idea in your head: I feel great so I want others to too, it is a much healthier idea. That's the ideology part, so the action part. The problem tha…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 01:41 AM
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"Borderline personality disorder" WHAT THE FUCK DOES THAT EVEN MEAN? She manipulates people? Lies? Elicits emotional responses to counter your logic? THATS WOMEN. THATS ALL OF THEM, lol. It's really not, there is a whole fucking extra level of crazy that comes with BPD. This isn't the normal cray girl this is the "I'm literally going to kill myself after write a note telling everyone that I was scared that you raped/beaten me" crazy, "Just kidding I love you and we are going to be together forev…
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 12:56 PM
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When you make a claim for insurance, there is an excess fee: so you will have to pay the first $450 and they will pay the rest. So the accidental crashes which cause minor damage have very little effect on your premiums.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/15 04:11 AM
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What if his reasons are: I have a bunch of friends in my church and I'd like to keep seeing them. Me expressing what I feel about the religion is less important than my relationships with those people. Not necessarily saying that this is the case for Milo, but you never know.
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 05:18 AM
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Next time I saw her, she greeted me first, smiled, played with her hair and held eye contact. IOIs across the board. Did she already like me? Probably, but saying her name would not have helped build attraction. Are you sure about this? I think that it is a misread of the pattern: she is attracted to you, so you are looking at things that happened right before then to explain it. My current favourite book (ie. the book that I'm reading which provides bountiful epiphanies) is Models by Mark Manso…
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 03:46 AM
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What I'm saying is that I straight up reject my current SMV and am withdrawing from the dating market until I improve it. That is what monk mode is for, am I correct? Reclusive monk mode is for people who are literally repulsive: Overweight, neckbeard, my little pony pajamas, pillow with an anime character on it (wifu pillow?). Otherwise monk mode should include as many of your SMV areas as possible, including the physical body, the social circle, and communication/social skills. Make sure that …
/r/TheRedPill21/10/15 02:07 AM
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Terrible post. You apparently lack life experience. This is really, really ironic. Also great idea to blame your boss for at least 50% of each mistake you made. Way to go! It is a joke, most people will realise this and it is up to the user to know whether it is an appropriate joke to play with your boss. You recommend us to openly admit ones fault and weakness? Smart fucking move. Models by Mark Manson describes this in more depth. You want to be in the emotional state where admitting faults an…
/r/TheRedPill19/10/15 07:50 AM
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That's the most peculiar thing about the mainstream feminist advice, it is decent, just switch the genders: Women Men, be strong, attractive, independent, don't take shit from nobody. Men Women, be sensitive, supportive, kind and be yourself (stay innocent).
/r/TheRedPill16/10/15 02:21 PM
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but loyalty is a trait that can be present in women, even if it's not found all that often. The thing about loyalty is that for men it is standard: a man who isn't loyal isn't a good man. For women, it is a feature: a woman who is loyal is a better women (heck, barring serious disfigurement, just being loyal is enough for most men).
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 12:16 AM
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Would a man who, by outward appearances, enthusiastically supports and furthers female causes gain power in the workplace? Thinking about this pragmatically, going through the various options. Note that there is more 'rational' males and females in higher positions. There is a bias towards irrational females because of affirmative action. If your higher boss (boss's boss) is a feelings based female (95% females), would you gain power? No because they are looking for other things like whether the…
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 01:28 AM
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I think that was a very obvious ploy so women could read it. Just like how women can read Atlas Shrugged and think it is a love story, they can read The Game and think the same.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/15 12:43 AM
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Ever heard of the "Keynesian multiplier"? It's the claim that if government taxes you and spends that money, the economy grows by multiples of that spending, as the money is repeatedly re-spent by its subsequent recipients. The Keynesian multiplier is not wrong, people just don't know how big it is. Studies show it is about 1.03 (ie. spending 1 dollar gets you about an extra 3 cents of value). Let's not forget that the the basic mechanism behind the Keynesian model is that government can tax pri…
/r/TheRedPill08/10/15 05:49 AM
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Watch That Sugar Film: he basically switched healthy fats into sugar, kept the same caloric intake (within ~50cal/day) but gained significant fat, among other precursors to health problems, all in about a month.
/r/TheRedPill06/10/15 12:33 AM
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Personal responsibility is the fundamental core of trp. AWALT subtly communicates that you shouldn't expect to be treated differently (if you act weak, she will probably cheat), this implies that you need to take responsibility.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 04:45 PM
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AWALT is sometimes used in a wrong way, it refers mostly to hypergamy, not crazy psychopathic behaviour. Some women are legitimate psychopaths, not all of them are. There is another saying "don't stick your dick in crazy, yo". But I digress. But it is a problem if AWALT is used as a means to avoid personal responsibility. This is a very good point. A way to look at AWALT is "All women would have behaved in a similar way, so you should have..." Depending on the situation it might be "next'd her",…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/15 01:27 PM
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Not only are men not taught how to attract girls, we're actively being misguided. 'Just be yourself', 'share your feelings', 'buy her presents'. It's funny you say that, because women are being misguided to shit by the same crowd: fat acceptance, become a lawyer, fucking losers will make you happy, you can have it all. The feminist crowd has fucked shit up for everyone. Lastly, you're an idiot for mentioning TRP in real life. You're playing with fire and you will get burnt. It's different when i…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 03:38 PM
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Drink some water and get a good sleep, then come back tomorrow and reread your post.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/15 07:23 AM
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When you describe physical or mental challenges yes, but let's say you are in a social setting and you want to know who is lying, then would you want a woman there? I know I would.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 06:08 AM
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Our economy has responded by becoming more service oriented but even this is still too efficient, we have more people than we need. So sooner or later we're going to have to get to the point of people being subservient simply to make themselves worth their 1500 kcal/day. This is an interesting idea, slavery happens when the productivity of a human is greater than required to keep them alive. But now that we are so productive, a small number of workers can keep everyone alive, and provide a high …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/15 05:25 AM
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The premise of determinism is that if you can know all the variables then you can calculate the next state of the universe. Quantum mechanics has shown that the premise is impossible: it is impossible to know all the variables as they are continuously being created.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/15 07:35 AM
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I seek to understand the motivation for human behavior. What he said is so very important so I will repeat it, Life, like game, is played in the field. You won't be able to understand the motivations without seeing them in action. Real life is completely different from internet chat boards. In real life, I would simply go "actually Anne tell me what you did yesterday", and the argument would be over, and everyone would think that I 'won'. Get the fuck out of your head and into the game. There ar…
/r/TheRedPill25/09/15 02:34 PM
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You are probably a troll, but start with a paternity test, the chance of conceiving is around 20-25% per month to a woman in her 20s. The chance that you fucked her while she was ovulating as well as she conceived at that time is very low, much lower than she fucked a bunch of other guys and is trying to pin it on you.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 02:22 AM
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Okay replace addictive personality with lack of discipline. That doesn't change the point.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/15 12:38 PM
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Get 20 girls, and do "k" to 10 and your response to another 10. See which one is more successful.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 08:33 AM
0

The stoic's argument: If you can change it, then why worry, if you can't then why worry?
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 01:51 PM
1

The problem is not how you spend your entertainment time, it is that you are somehow angry, so angry that you have to tell the world. Why do you feel that you need to share this with everyone? Edit: I do want to point out for others, that this was down voted less than a minute after I posted it (as I reviewed the message), your lack of apathy betrays you.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 01:45 PM
1

Since trp is constantly having this problem where submission aren't following the standard, how about adding something like this. Then you can use the auto moderator (or maybe not) tool to instantly delete all troll/low effort posts with a simple message "please follow the rules", without giving away the game by having every single post start with "I read the rules". This reply has two bolded special spaces, one at the start, and one between 'Since' and 'trp'.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/15 01:37 PM
5

How do you deal with people that interrupt you when you speak, though? First take a quick check of the situation: Check the body language, are others facing you? Is their dominant foot facing you? If it is one on one, your goal is to be getting the other person yapping as much as possible (that's how they make you their friend) so there isn't any harm done. You shouldn't feel defeated because the goal of the conversation: to create rapport, is being achieved as they speak. If they are saying not…
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 10:12 PM
2

This reminds me of a discussion/story I had with my cousin a while back: When I was young I was arguing with a kid who wouldn't try something else, I called him stubborn. The teacher came about and said "who is the one being stubborn here?" We all know roughly where we want to end up. We also know that we need to kill the male hamster in order to progress. Nothing kills it faster than seeing the exact same words that your hamster whispers to you, spoken proudly and defiantly by another.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 02:12 PM
1

This subreddit suggests that once you know the rules, the only thing you can do is to play by them. You are thinking that in this context, rules are guidelines, but they are more laws than rules, like the law of gravity. Women are hypergamous, women are solipsistic. Those are the laws that govern the interactions between males and females. There is no playing against them or destroying them, ignoring them is a sucker's bet.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 02:02 PM
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The progression element in (most/all) modern video games is built off the dopamine pathway, there is an interesting phenomenon on dopamine addiction in that people will vehemently defend the activators for their dopamine pathways.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/15 12:03 PM
10

A woman can't even fathom the difference between the two. They are incapable of comprehending a problem at its source, let alone confronting it ... We'll figure out how to have direct conversations with dolphins before we invent a technology that lets us do it with women. Actually the rosetta stone was found by /u/Whisper/ (I'm basically a Whisper apostle). If you haven't read it read whisper's post on female solipsism. An excerpt: A woman who says you should do X or Y, therefore, isn't talking …
/r/TheRedPill17/09/15 02:08 PM
9

Poor role understanding within the sub has caused the mods to have to post about the leadership and direction of the sub multiple times in the past 12 months. This post tries to solve the root of the problem. If you believe in the overall goals of the sub, then you'll read it in full. I think this is a systematic bias stemming from the design of reddit. There is constant updating and reshuffling of the front page of TRP. Heck if you look at the bottom of your page you might be only seeing conten…
/r/TheRedPill10/09/15 10:23 AM
1

Based on your lack of history, this is probably a comment troll, move along boys.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 11:19 AM
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(from the article) "He does smoke cigarettes, he smokes many many cigarettes. But then what I do is I nudge him with a little reference to a newspaper article he happens to glance at which just reminds him that these things will give him cancer. Oh God. Here's an excerpt from the next book: ... as James walked out the door holding it for the voluptuous womyn, he tipped his fedora as he thought to himself "what a sexist act this was I am outraged"...
/r/TheRedPill09/09/15 02:08 AM
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It's always with an obvious or hidden tone of disgust and contempt. That is not constructive and people get hung up in the anger phase. These post just act like fuel for feeling vindictive or induces victim puke. This is the problem with the FRs that I have been feeling, but was unable to articulate. Just like you were blinded by wonder1 , you too can be blinded by rage. 1 “Women are wonderful” effect.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 12:34 PM
5

It's too many lessons jammed into a made up story that is unrelatable. The story serves no purpose, this could be a list of things to do (Top 10 things to be Chad.). I don't want to directly criticise the piece since he created something and all I'm doing is shitting all over it, but I would recommend picking one or two lessons and really elaborating the idea (read the Book of Pook). For example for a lesson like "If you keep making excuses you will end up with the same fate caveman Joe did." Jo…
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 12:28 PM
1

In fact, it's a myth that any type of food makes you fat. Getting fat is 100% a question of Calories In > Calories Out. This is a spiel that has been repeated time and time again (possibly created by players in the food industry, but that is not the point.) The body is a bit more complicated than this, and while Cal in vs Cal out is true, it isn't the whole truth. It is similar to saying getting rich is 100% a question of Money In > Money Out. While it is technically true, it would overlook very…
/r/TheRedPill06/09/15 06:09 AM
3

That is correct, the promotion is done after the fact.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 11:05 PM
2

If women talk with each other, they usually just validate each other. They are not good in defusing tension. They cause unneeded tension. All true. Young women have less social skills than young men in general. Not true in the slightest. You have to understand how fucking clueless most men are, heck, if you are the normal RPer, you might have been the same 5 minutes before you came here. Don't believe me? Go to any regular bar, park, place where there are both males and females. A high powered c…
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 11:01 PM
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TEDx is their new way of limited liability talks, if they are really good, they claim them as proper TED talks, if they aren't they they are written off as "just TEDx, they don't count". I will put it to TRP readers to decide which category this talk falls in.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/15 11:35 AM
1

It was ~$3/1000 views, but I heard that recently that the amount was gutted so it is probably in the $1/1000 range.
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 12:22 PM
1

Which is why it is often called niceguytm because these guys aren't nice, or 'guy's, and the assholes are more of the 'uncaring asshole' (coined by roissy I believe). The trick to being nice is doing it out of power: I am so well off that I make the people around me well off: true altruism, not the I am being nice because I want you to sleep with me but I'm not going to tell you my secret plan. In the same vein, the trick to being an asshole is not actually going out of your way to hurt others, …
/r/TheRedPill02/09/15 01:00 AM
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I wonder what gender those attackers were... My guess is female. Wolves aren't like humans, both males and females are disposable which is why there is very little sexual dimorphism between them. In human society there is a clear gender based hierarchy of 'Alpha' males>females>other males. Your point that the hierarchy is institutionalised is a good point as time and time again we are shown that great leaders are made, not born, and the vitriol of this transition weakens society.
/r/TheRedPill01/09/15 03:18 AM
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Doesn't work that way, to follow the Nazi example, it was only 'organised harassment' after they lost power. The SJWs won last generation. If you remember the fatpeoplehate sub, what they were doing was nothing compared to the SJW level of profiling (not to mention doxing, and harassment). But they were never the ones in power, only those in power get to bully (referencing the concurrent bullying post).
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 03:40 AM
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Correlation can never be asserted as causation. It's correlation does not imply causation. Not correlation is never causation. Correlation is a neccesary, but not sufficient condition for causation. To repeat, every variable that is causal is correlated.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 02:56 AM
5

You leave a delicious steak on the floor and then walk away. Your dog eats it. Are you angry? Why not?
/r/TheRedPill25/07/15 05:14 PM
3

Is this self promoting? Why is the only review a 5 star, one review account that makes an overly wordy text that is similar in writing style to the author of this post?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 03:09 PM
2

I was in a similar position to you a few years back, people are empathetic, when they see you feel shit, they feel shit, heck they say that communication is 90% non-verbal, yet we can all read the despair in your writing. I'm one of the 'non-normals' you speak of so I will throw you a bone. I very specifically chose those last 4 words. Notice how you instantly hate me for writing those words, ready to dismiss what I am about to say, the first thing you need to learn is to take everything less pe…
/r/TheRedPill06/07/15 02:41 AM
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I also do mathematics, finance and derivatives so I understand the meaning of all the words you used. I'm not so sure that you do.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 06:12 AM
5

I'll tell you the same thing that I told my brother when I pushed him into RP, after he realised his wife was a horrible person (read: a regular women). You have a choice, you can take the financial and emotional hit (in my culture there is also an extreme social hit), or you can play the game for the rest of your life. If you are already married, you have to make that choice. If you are not married, you better be fucking sure that you know what you are doing, and let me tell you that the 50% of…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 03:34 AM
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Well, one time on the couch, one time on the cabinet, one time in the shower...
/r/TheRedPill27/06/15 08:18 AM
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This isn't exactly RP related, but you should understand that some people are jealous (no shit). If you want to defuse such a situation, you treat it like a shit test. Quickly realise that he is cut because he thinks he is better than you (or some variety of the issue), so do an agree and amplify. Actually now that you mention it, back when I was younger, around 10, I used to mow the lawn for his family, I did such a good job that they said that when I was older if I ever wanted a job managing f…
/r/TheRedPill26/06/15 01:07 PM
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Being an introvert, I had already wasted all my 'battery' that day by hanging out with my sister... A bit of a spiel I thought as I was reading this. This sibling banter is something that I have noticed when I'm with my sister. I get so much shit from her and I never understood why. I do now. And the "It's Okay to Cry", "Men should be able to show their emotions too" doesn't help. Growing up with this mindset, the relentless teasing that you get from your female siblings is downright cruel. This…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/15 04:47 PM
1

I ask her "Why are you so interested in a guy that treats you like this?" her reply "I'm not interested in him!" "Oh so thats why you want to stalk any girl he's seeing?" "Oh whatever, you just don't get it! " "Yeah.. whatever". Of course you shouldn't be angry at anything in line with their nature, but you should understand that aggressive questioning never solves anything. I would say: "Getting your teenage son to facebook stalk. Good job, way to show her how little you care!"
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 04:41 AM
1

For me I always look at it as all women aren't like that. What I mean is all the media portrayals you see, all the fairy tales, they are all pretty lies. Women have always had this nature. Women are not now, and never were the romantics, never the idealistic lovers, never the loyal friends... That being said, too many people take the phrase literally, just like There are no girls on the internet, "you mean that there are literally no girls? Well my friend (who is a GIRL By The Way) uses facebook…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/15 02:12 PM
2

Wheres the (3). Not open to new behaviours or opinions or willing to discard accepted values.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 04:13 AM
1

Yes, especially if not backed by sources or supporting evidence.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 05:04 PM
13

No shit, if we were all super alpha sex lords, there wouldn't be a TRP.
/r/TheRedPill21/06/15 05:22 AM
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On top of that, I gotta admit, there is still a bit of internal lingering doubt, "did she mean it this way or is it a Just Friends thing?" There is a reason why XIII. Err on the side of too much boldness, rather than too little Is a commandment of Poon. You have to kill this thinking for 2 reasons. As I learn more and more about body language, and social cues. There are so many and they are extremely obvious... when you know them. You are probably missing hundreds of 'obvious' signals: things li…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/15 02:27 PM
5

How can you not understand? You grew up in the same environment saying that being nice gets you laid and being a slut is something to be proud of.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/15 04:53 AM
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100k/month... That is one $3000 prostitute every day, or alternatively 3000 $1 dollar prostitutes.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 07:22 PM
0

You'd have to have some system in place to prevent children's lives from being ruined by shitty parenting. The thing is we do have these things, things like Child Protective Services, schooling, child support and others, all of which suck. That is exactly the point of libertarianism. 'Your' argument (nothing personal) is "I can do those things better". But the libertarian response is "I have no idea, and I don't think you do either, it is best for both of us to stay out".
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 03:35 PM
2

Don't talk about red pill. Some people take everything to be literal. But remember the second meeting from that movie "...which means a lot of you have been breaking the first two rules". There are some rules that are meant to be broken, at the right time, in the right amounts.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 02:51 PM
3

I think this is an extremely powerful move. In the real world where truth is absolute, the answer to "I'm offended about..." is "who gives a shit?". But our current reality is the subjective truth reality. In this reality there is no answer to the "I'm offended" move. It is an instant win where the only counter is to ignore (but this is a secret move, just like how an acceptable answer to shit tests is to ignore). In fact, it is so powerful that we have effectively destroyed our governing system…
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 05:04 PM
4

Actually Arabic scholars gave us number theory, then their civilisation was destroyed by religious fanatics and haven't progress technologically since then.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/15 04:18 PM
12

It has to be a protected class comes out and says these things. He is literally repeating what has been said over and over again by other men, but because of the environment, they can't say it. At least not without instantly being dismissed, while also risking their jobs, careers and status by saying it.
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 08:50 AM
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Now realize that Beta was successful in his sexual strategy. Remember the study that showed that women are 17x as successful as men at securing offspring. This one chance, seizing on a moment of vulnerability which may happen 1 in a few lifetimes is apparently enough to justify us all having that pull in our genes.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 09:44 AM
2

But being angry is on the same level as feminazis complaining about men looking at women. I'm a man so I look, she'is a woman so she shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 03:32 AM
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Because men don't get angry at sick children. She is sick and acting like a child, he held frame like a champ.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 02:33 PM
0

How about the small issue of lionesses killing their cubs when a new male goes in charge, and how lionesses never share with their cubs (only the male lion shares food with cubs).
/r/TheRedPill09/06/15 02:17 PM
3

My problem, and I'm sure the problem of some men here, is that we are fucking sensitive. We take things personally. We are reactive. We are emotional. My problem, and I'm sure the problem of some men here, is that we are fucking weak. We take the small weights (and don't put them back). We swing the weights. We have shitty form. To train physical strength, you lift weights that are almost too heavy to handle. To train mental strength you take emotional pain that is almost too heavy to handle. Bo…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 05:16 AM
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I've heard (might be hearsay) that the community is toxic and fucked up. Anyone who shows any inklings will instantly be pounced on and convinced that they are not in the right body and must fix it to feel normal. They might just be a gay guy or a lesbian, or even unsure, but they would be pushed into hormones and surgery to get more poster-boy/girls? to push their cause. This study did a long term 30-year review of follow-up studies after sex reassignment. It shows a 19x suicide deaths of post-…
/r/TheRedPill05/06/15 04:43 AM
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And please don't listen to the dumbasses that will inevitiblely comment on this post about polyphasic sleep cycles and famous people who didn't sleep much. Shit is retarded. I tried it, it doesn't work. Back in the 2000s you could fake it with blogs, but now in 2015, everyone has access to webcams and can make videos. The fact is that there is no recorded evidence where it was successful without significant costs to creativity. In the real world, absence of evidence is evidence. For my case, aft…
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 03:07 AM
8

Try the search function.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/15 03:40 PM
7

Pretty messed up in my opinion. You give crash prizes to divorcee's, divorces goes up. You give victims blanket diplomatic immunity à la "don't blame the victim, for anything, ever", You get crazies trying to out victim each other. You incentivise false rape claims, guess what goes up... That being said, there is education mobility. Best thing to do if you are a male in California is to avoid college, or move to another state. The system will collapse itself, it's not your job to fix things.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/15 09:56 AM
3

The dangerous part is her friends. Everyone is a reflection of the company they keep. Even if everything suddenly worked out well and you were happily married to her, she will always have those friends telling her how great it is to have no partner, sleeping around while their child listens, trying to sleep.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 02:26 PM
4

Handsome and charming > Ugly and Charming > Handsome no game >> Ugly no game. At least for me, knowing that I had to get plastic surgery would fuck up my psyche. It is admitting that you are ugly beyond repair.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/15 02:08 PM
1

True, he got his fanboys to do it for him.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/15 04:14 AM
4

This is a very important point. Genes are sneaky fuckers, they don't care about your long term happiness as long as they get their way. This is what RPW is all about, understanding that their hypergamous genes are trying to trick them to abandon their livelihood and fuck an alpha male, so that that gene has a chance to spread itself wide. The previous vessel (the post-wall female) can fuck off now, the gene doesn't care about it anymore. Same goes with the nice guy/white knight strategy. Fuck th…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/15 10:36 AM
1

Are you a troll, if so you are really convincing. I'm not sure about where you have been living, but the feminists have already won, they won 30 years ago. Everything you buy: food, electricity, water, entertainment is feminist. Every business that you do business with is either feminist, or is directly linked to companies that on paper support feminist issues. Call up any of them and ask whether they support "gender equality" (the codename for feminist misandry) and they will say yes. Do you kn…
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 04:12 PM
6

It's feminist per se. In that the female lead is basically a weaker man (bald, masculine, aggressive), that's about it. None of the illusion/blue pill perpetrating nonsense you see in most movies where the nerd gets the girl by being himself. Go watch it, it is good shit.
/r/TheRedPill27/05/15 08:55 AM
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Was going great until Sir Whiteknightington grows up to be a miserable, mal adjusted male feminist or just flat out commits suicide. You mean: 5. Gets beaten up by stepping into a domistic violence case. Posts on feminist forums and gets them sweet, sweet likes.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 11:47 AM
3

If you include being looked at by unattractive 'creepy' guys, the number of rape cases is actually pretty high.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 05:34 AM
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Also, your .76% is true, but still consistent with the 1 in 6 statistic that feminists tend to cite (which is taken from the same study...). The .76 refers to the rate at which women between ages 18-25 are raped/sexually assaulted every year, whereas the 1 in 6 refers to a lifetime. So, it might be 76 women in a 1000 that get raped/assaulted ever year, but over say 50 years, those odds start to add up. Nice math fail, .76% is 76 in 10000. You just overstated the problem tenfold.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/15 05:32 AM
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"How to win friends and influence people" for the ultimate in no shit primer (helps for people socially stunted like me) (ironically this is the "The Big Book on Not behaving like an asshole"). Most important is to get out there and practice. When you start changing your talking style it will be fake, and everyone will be able to tell. But it is worth the effort.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 12:52 PM
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Translating from english to womanese (so you understand what she heard): english: "Unconditionally my love" womanese: "You made a mistake, I tricked you into making yourself vulnerable for a lesser male and you just had sex with him and now risk pregnancy with lesser genes, dooming yourself out of the gene pool." No female wants to hear that she is the best you can do, she wants to know that you can easily replace her, but you choose her because she has some non-beauty trait that you like.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/05/15 07:39 AM
20

That's how normal people act, you start by meeting their state of mind, then you bring them into yours. If you clash too much on meeting everyone will close themselves and check out of the conversation.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/15 03:03 AM
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between two women, the one with the higher apparent SMV will almost always win That's a interesting point, I would add that it is independent of gender: If Robert Downey Jr was added in, you would see everyone defend him, same goes with any glaringly high smv male. A average-looking white guy with killer game doesn't count since there it isn't obvious but if he is surrounded by babes...
/r/TheRedPill22/05/15 10:53 AM
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While I don't doubt the benefits of the selection, the genes for female sexual strategy has no care for civilisation. For example, for the hypergamous gene, if 99% of the world population dies, but the gene stays alive, that is okay, actually it is better. Competition and crowding out removed, this will allow the gene to be relatively more common. Comparatively, male genes have incentive to keep things running (because if you fail, barbarians come in, kill all the males and take all the women, e…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 06:40 AM
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When they say you can't win an argument against a woman, it's because you're arguing on completely different playing fields. Your argument may be driven by logic but hers will 9/10 times be driven by her emotional state. For that reason one should never argue and be reactive, but make statements and be proactive. /u/Whisper has got this down. Both in his solipsism posts and ppd/ why purple pill debate is useless (search yourself). He explains how women are naturally unable to understand other pe…
/r/TheRedPill20/05/15 01:52 AM
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This is really not as feminist as it is made out to be, they are just using that to dupe the mainstream media into getting free publicity. Any sitcom, chick flick or Seth Rogan film is much worse in its bullshit. A single highly masculine female showing weak femininity isn't a problem.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/15 05:48 AM
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Most businesses aren't in the show business: any publicity is good publicity. They have to let him go so they don't risk the business and the jobs of the other 100s of employees, bullshit as it seems.
/r/TheRedPill14/05/15 03:20 AM
2

It's just that when it comes to women, 100% of women are sexually obsessed with fucking 5% of the men. Thanks to the rising obesity rates globally, it is roughly the same for men.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/15 03:15 AM
1

Can't believe no one mentioned How I Met Your Mother. The first few (plugged) in seasons were great, the last few I had to skip most of the episodes to not throw up they were so bad. Trp is the unspoken reason why I rarely watch movies or tv shows. I can't stand all the cringe humor? and bullshit fairy tale nonsense.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 03:43 PM
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Because in the past, you get one try with the one/two fertile women in the tribe, it is a big deal if you screw up (such a big deal that you are out of the gene pool).
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 08:22 AM
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When trying to look the best, you can either strengthen yourself, or weaken the competition. Sabotage it is a legitimate strategy I am guessing it is due to the same reason that men have approach anxiety: in tribal/village life, which happened far longer that most other types of human life, there is probably 1 or 2 women of childbearing age that isn't attached. If you fuck up your approach, there isn't going to be any little larrythetomato's running around. Similarly if you are competing against…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/15 05:06 AM
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The counter argument is that the attraction to masculinity and femininity is just a social construct, and encouraging the playing with toys is another way to go about demolishing it. There is no evidence that this is true, and a plethora of evidence that the contrary is true.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/15 05:39 AM
2

TRP is one of the very few places that you can discuss male sexual strategy and masculinity without your reputation at stake. That is why when people who are angry come here to rage about women not being what they were promised (we all saw those disney films too), they are permitted.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 02:00 PM
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Wtf is there to dislike about it? Because he took action and fixed his life, both are antithetical to deadbedrooms, a sub dedicated to whining and depression.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/15 12:20 PM
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...[wooing women] is actually NOT a TRP principle, it is a misconception. I think this is because TRP came around as a child of game/PUAs, and people are confusing the two. In game, certainly. Women are the end goal and the whole study arguably amounts as sleazy tactics to 'game' women. Visions of forums filled with various tactics and their success rates come to mind. TRP comes from people who have widespread goals, but cannot discuss these things in public. For example, you can discuss busines…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/04/15 02:26 PM
1

Looks like cartoons called it again.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 07:44 AM
3

simply out of spite because they are not included. Careful not to give yourself anger needlessly. Women aren't consciously spiteful or antagonistic, they are simply playing out their evolutionary fine-tuned role. They invade spaces because in the past, if they didn't they would probably die. Just like generosity for a complete stranger (with no chance of reciprocation), it is a vestigial behaviour.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 06:29 AM
2

This isn't something you spout on forums and expect people to listen. Why are you even wasting your time trying to convert people online anyway? You can talk to people in real life if you have earned their respect about RP concepts (not terms) and slowly change their mind.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/15 05:43 AM
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Why the fuck is Gwyneth Paltrow of all people taking an issue with this? At best, she is only making a bunch of wild guesses. Because you literally forgot about her until this stunt, I certainly did.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 01:56 AM
2

Looking at your past comments, I hope you are a troll, otherwise I feel sorry for you, your friends and family.
/r/TheRedPill18/04/15 01:34 AM
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Does anyone else see this sort of thing happening in other countries especially with the feminization of society? Probably not, China has the absolute worst combinations (or best if you want to collapse a society). You have high status conscious girls (by culture). Due to their one child policy, you get a massive gender imbalance, extremely spoilt, highly educated females all seeking extremely 'high-tier' males. Most males don't have proper masculine role models as their fathers are out working …
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 02:44 PM
3

Hormones denature when cooked, or exposed to a low ph environment.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 08:35 AM
5

Me: Baby I need a favor. Her: what is it? Me: I need you to blow me. Her: Why? I am not into blowing. Me: That is what I want. Her: Let's have sex. Me: No, I don't want sex. I said what I want. This doesn't make sense, why would you do this? From her view, translating to male view, you effectively physically transformed yourself into a 400 pound 'female' with a mustache and went with a manly voice "HEY BABY IM SO HORNY".
/r/MarriedRedPill16/04/15 02:04 PM
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Catch yourself when you slink to bad posture. Eventually as your muscles adapt, good posture becomes more comfortable. If you have weak back muscles (like 90% of people), do back exercises (rows) and ab exercises.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/15 02:09 AM
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However, I wanted to make sure I wasn't succumbing to some sort of confirmation bias or any other sort of bias that might be the result of anger or bitterness. This is a balancing act. You have to give yourself enough alternative (read: mainsteam) media so you have a balanced viewpoint. But if you go overboard, you will corrupt your mind (having every single male 'role model' being negative takes a toll on your psyche). A reason why I avoid reading most of the blue pill examples, I'm already sur…
/r/TheRedPill12/04/15 03:56 AM
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I introduced a little bit to my neutral friends: I'm talking extremely tame like "men and women are different" and "double standards exists". I doubt I could have gone much further than that, and this was after we were chatting for hours. arguing is useless Arguing is one of the least effective way of convincing someone. If you take RP as a praxeology and you want to convince people you should be taking the most effective method. In most cases this is emotional appeal and asking questions.
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 05:20 AM
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Sometimes i think i'm just too much of a "critical thinker" and i can't interest ordinary people with what i have to say. I don't really like to talk just for the sake of talking. I don't like to speak without saying something meaningful. Spend some time thinking whether this is really the case. If you could magically gain charisma and social calibration, would you still be silent, or would you prefer to be the center of the attention with everyone laughing? Once you decide what you want, there …
/r/TheRedPill11/04/15 03:18 AM
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Read whisper's posts on solipsism (A woman cannot tell you how you must proceed. She can only tell you what she wants to experience). Their world is the social world, what people think is more important than the truth. The winner of the argument is the person who acts like the winner: she is playing by the rules and you aren't. This is why things like agree&amplify and walking away are so powerful. You act like the winner so you are the winner. Anti-religious leader bonus (committed religious pe…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/15 04:29 AM
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The only guys that fuck exclusively 10s are virgins.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/15 07:35 AM
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The counter to 'bad speech' is to leave, and avoid participation. Otherwise, TRP would have been killed years ago.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/15 10:33 AM
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Best way is to RP your wife, she won't leave you if she thinks you are the best she can get and all her friends want to fuck you. While you should not get married, once you are, it is in your best interests to stay married.
/r/TheRedPill16/03/15 07:03 AM
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Obviously because there are no good men.
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/15 01:53 PM
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If you have a good system, it would be good if you could save a copy of the top maybe 100-1000 of the all time top threads. It would be a shame to lose everything.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/15 09:43 AM
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Do you hate a North Korean when they believe that North Korea is the greatest country in the world and every other country is jealous of them? They are simply parroting the only media that they are getting, and what everyone everywhere is saying. It is not your job to change their mind.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/15 11:08 AM
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Its amazing how many people criticize the RP as manipulative and mean and ineffective on ANY woman that actually has a brain. I thought this too, until I read this post. It describes the difference in thought patterns in BP/RP. For RP, truth is objective, arguments are about determining truth: how certain actions result in certain outcomes. For BP (the group which actually spends time trying to discredit RP), truth is subjective, arguments are about establishing moral superiority over the other …
/r/MarriedRedPill01/02/15 04:29 AM
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concern troll I never really understood the term, but since I read the OP, I get it now.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/01/15 04:29 AM
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Men don't have The Wall. Our clocks tick slower. No need to kid yourself, men have a wall too, it is around 50.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 11:52 PM
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On Casanova, while he was feminine in appearance, he was not weak. You can be sure than in the bed he was slapping them around and not asking her what she wanted to do. There are some things that are more flexible, you can be polite and altruistic, or a selfish asshole. But you can't be meek. You can be aggressive or diplomatic, but you can't be a chump. There are many things that you can be that doesn't negatively affect your SMV. Just avoid things that clearly (through testing) do.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 06:43 AM
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This reminds me of the post about reversing feminism. If you take the advice (swapping male with female), it isn't too bad. Go out and get rejected, don't take it personally. That is part of being a man. I will admit it's pretty funny that she things that men will be attracted to pushy masculine, confident women though.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/15 06:22 AM
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use it in a sentence please "Equanimity has a difficult to understand meaning."
/r/TheRedPill24/01/15 07:46 AM
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Initially the advice seems like a trap, but it is actually quite deep. Of course most women don't understand the depth. Women are inherently solipsistic. It takes concentrated effort for them to conceive different viewpoints. When they tell you to "be yourself" they mean, you have to appear to be sincere (which is actually extremely good advice). You will get better success if you tell a girl (indirectly) that you want to fuck her, then pretending you don't and doing shit for them (nice guy synd…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 02:13 PM
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Its a little narcissistic assuming EVERY girl that steps near me is down, but its solid for building assurance and really, any downside? You are probably accurate 95%~99% of the time, unless you are creeping out and blocking the bathroom/door/bar, no one is going to 'just walk near you' after sexy eyes.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 10:08 AM
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Personally for me, I have always been cynical, and recently (a couple of years) have switched to being pragmatic. So from my point of view I already assumed the worst in everyone, and once I found TRP and TRP-like blogs, I just realised oh, they weren't being malicious, just following their nature. I don't hate a dog when he eats food I left out the same way I don't hate women for defaulting to their solipsistic nature. Either way, I would recommend that you do not avoid the anger/depression sta…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 05:28 AM
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It is definitely a case of cultural differences, I know a couple of Asians who are around the age (25-30) who are high earning professionals (60-100k/year) and still living with their parents. My brother for example lives at home, but owns a nice car and a house (investment property), his girlfriend is in a similar situation, living at home, but decent job and owns an investment property.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/15 04:58 AM
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Write a professionally appropriate letter (thanking them for the opportunity they gave you) and do not say anything negative. If you know that your current employer can't match the salary, don't say anything or ask for a better spot, you are simply burning a bridge. My friends uncle who is a rich fucker, owns a massive 3 story house in Singapore (you know the country where over 80% live in shitty apartments) and has fucking $20k carp. He had a similar situation earlier in his life where he had t…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/15 03:57 AM
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"Our wedding is next week, you're invited by the way."
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/15 10:22 AM
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I just find it oddly sublime that it works out this way. If you read the bible (I'm told the koran too, but haven't read it personally), you will see that it justifies so many viewpoints, from genocide to pacifism. With such a wide spectrum, you can expect it to hit a few good points.
/r/TheRedPill22/01/15 10:04 AM
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Wholly fuck...my family did this to me over years. Like, almost this exact scene but over years. I am really late (3 months), but this wasn't addressed properly. Most women are not sadistic. It was never their intention to break you down. I know that because that is exactly what my elder sister had been doing to me me entire life. What they see is your insecurities: you on your 'balding', on your 'crooked nose', on the fact that you react to these things, and they think it's funny. They think yo…
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 12:43 PM
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What if she's genuinely not attracted to muscular dudes? Isn't that perfectly plausible? What if you are an ass guy, but your wife suddenly grows perfectly shaped, firm Ds. Also, how is looking at someone dead in the eye and saying "I'm not attracted to big muscles" considered "hamster overdrive"? Seems like a pretty direct, collected response to me. People's idea of beauty is less different than you think.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/01/15 11:21 AM
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honour It is something to choose to do. Take it like sportsmanship (basically the same thing). You can either be a gracious winner or not, it is up to you. But don't expect everyone to treat you the same way, and don't expect to gain brownie points with females for doing it.
/r/TheRedPill21/01/15 09:43 AM
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Reminds me of this. 100 cringe points if you can last the whole video.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/15 04:33 AM
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Problem here is with confusing Chinese with Asian, Chinese have always been very pride centered. The concept of face (how you appear to others) has always been there. I'm a very removed (~5 generations), but of chinese descent, and I remember my parents talking about the concept of face from their parents/grandparents. This concept is shared with the northern asians: China, Korea, Japan who are really concerned with pride (and the things that it entails such as superficiality and racism heh). So…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 07:45 AM
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Missing the point, awalt means that this is the default behaviour, exceptions prove the rule. I bet you think "there are no girls on the internet" is wrong too because your sister uses facebook.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 06:39 AM
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WAAAH I'm so sad that I'm not beautiful, yet I am too lazy to improve myself. Life is so unfair #cutdowntheriver. Yes, but lucky you that you are a male. bald: wig fat: lift skinny: lift glasses: lasec/contacts shitty clothes: buy them posture: stand straight social skills/no game: learn, apply, practice Take a look around you, and ask yourself if the overwhelming majority of people around you dont have perfectly congruent personalities with their respective looks. Most of the males that are soc…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/15 02:00 AM
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Talking bad about others, that is something to avoid. You can only gain very short term benefits by doing so, with so much more to lose. There are very few situations when it is beneficial. However, sometimes being honest about yourself can help you grow. If you are really brutally honest with yourself, then the truth cannot harm you.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 02:55 AM
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Have a watch of How to Demolish Your Deepest Insecurities, one hour speech. Those beliefs that you have are crippling, and are going to wreck your confidence. Don't forget that women say they want a lot of things, but will drop all of them for someone who gives them the tingles.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/15 01:10 AM
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(Length x Diameter + Weight/Girth)/Angle of Tip2
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 05:35 AM
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I think you need to try your strategy yourself and tell us your experiences with it.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 04:59 AM
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Read mystery method, ignore 90s game.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 04:52 AM
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This could be a comfort test or a shit test, you have to know the context. If you are getting sex whenever you want, try upping a bit of beta right after she comes all over your dick. If you are not, then it is likely a shit test.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/15 10:30 AM
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While I certainly agree that the use of correct language you use is essential. I think this is less important than you emphasise. You can be a confident (sexy) leader, and be polite. 'Thanks you' and 'Please' are not even that important as you can be grateful with a smile or smirk. I think a bigger issue that is being indecisive. Knowing what you want is something leaders always have and something to strive for. Dump that "I don't know" and replace with "I haven't decided yet". Sprinkle in the o…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/15 09:45 PM
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nothing is genuine. Social interactions are genuine. Social skills being learn-able, doesn't make them insincere. This is something you will have to contemplate. It is a personal morality question. If you learn that smiling and remembering names gets you more friends. Is it manipulative to do that? Even if you choose that this is not the path for you, I would recommend learning about gender differences (there are some). I think you will be able to make a better choice.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 11:24 AM
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Wow this is eerily true. This reminds me of my gaming days. In our gaming group, there was this one girl who always sucked. She slept with at least 3 of the group and was boyfriend with 2 or more of them. I hadn't met her for many months, and by the sound of her voice and personality I thought she must have been pretty hot. Surprise surprise when I met her (ok, not so much surprise). Her attitude would be justifiable by a 9, she was maybe a 4 with a 6's body. Not related to the group, I also kno…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 11:09 AM
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Excellent Post. You watch athletes and movie stars and tv, and people live through them. Most people don't realize it takes thousands of hours of grueling hard work, pain and suffering to attain the skill level they have. They don't waste time fantasizing about living other people's lives. Very few of us are willing to put in that level of sacrifice. This reminds me of Penn (Penn and Teller) said about magic. I paraphrase: The tricks are actually really simple, it is just that [magicians] are wi…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 07:33 AM
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Just saying, how the fuck can you believe this world view and not hate everyone? You get over it. We have all been there, thinking about our previous social interactions and knowing how they were just trying to get something from you, whether they knew it or not. We have all gone through it. If there is something that I wished I did a long time ago, it would be to embrace the emotions. Not to read, masturbate and forget, but to understand properly the depression and the anger. Without that under…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/15 07:21 AM
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I used to be extremely angry at everything, even as a kid, I had no idea about shit tests and how I was getting shit constantly for various reasons (the major one being that I reacted to the previous ones). A few months ago, I cut out all the things that make me angry. When gaming, I realised that 80% of the time I felt unsatisfied at the end of the game. So I stopped. The hour investment and the many hours practicing isn't worth the payout. Other things like 95% of TV shows, they just make me c…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:54 AM
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Modern Feminism: "You are free to choose and do anything you want to do in the world, as long as it follows our rulebook." Christopher Hitchens has iron strong frame.Watch him tackle a heavily interrupting woman ~around 1minute.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 06:12 AM
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Decades ago, the traditional concept of finding that special SO, getting married, settling down and having children was an important aspect of life. It's not so important now in this particular generation. Actually I feel it is the opposite, in the past people knew that they weren't going to find a special someone (may be coloured since my parents came from a poorer background). They understood that they had to work hard to get what they want, both males and females. Nowadays we get all this med…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/15 01:50 AM
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How do I put this girl behind me? Because I can't stop thinking about her. I can tell you that every girl I have felt strongly for goes away after you get the next one. It might take longer since she was your first, but it'll go away. Don't be afraid of what you are feeling, feel it and let it pass. Read this.
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 07:37 AM
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Consider reading: Men on Strike- Why Men Are Boycotting Marriage, Fatherhood, and the American Dream - and Why It Matters by Helen Smith It talks about how men are turning away from marriage and work towards video games and minimal contribution to society. I know a bunch of people who are basically opting out of society (choosing weed and video games over it). Although it tries to encourage change in a MRA-esk direction, I personally believe that we are probably going to drive our society into t…
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 05:20 AM
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Shit tests are everywhere, when you go into a job interview and they ask you "What do you say is your worst attribute?" or "Why wouldn't we want to hire you?", do you think they are serious?
/r/TheRedPill06/01/15 05:02 AM
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Do it anyway, instead of 99% walking out of your way, it'll be 95%. Still a massive confidence boost.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 03:34 AM
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what would you guys have done in a situation like that ? Stare at her in the eyes for around 2-5 seconds as appropriate, then ignore completely/laugh it off. I used to have problems with pronunciation (still do sometimes) and it really isn't an issue (anymore) because I can laugh it off. You definitely need to work on it since it is actually affecting you, and can easily be changed. For 'sss' pronunciation you put your tongue at the top of your mouth, instead of behind your teeth. Practice in fr…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 03:27 AM
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Realistically around 90% of people (especially males) are NOT socially adjusted. You need to read more sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill05/01/15 01:17 AM
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Why delete facebook if you don't mind me asking? It saps your time, and erodes your brain and psyche. Unless you are really cynical, all the attention whoring and default [Blue Pill] responses will get to you. If you are literally making money off there, count the amount of time you spend there and compare it to a minimum wage job (or whatever your going rate is). If you are earning less that your worth, delete it.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 07:33 AM
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Both of my brothers are passive and pushovers (I'm the youngest) and I was too around a year ago, one of them is okay since his gf is very passive, the older one might be in trouble (realistically speaking, he is definitely going to be in trouble). Sister is a lost cause as of now. I have been pushing a bit of the logic and methods on RP at them, but obviously not mentioning the name. I also helped to ease the tide of my parents marriage a bit, it was pretty bad. Make sure your life is on a dece…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/15 07:11 AM
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Social mores tend to have more influence on women than men... It's evolutionary I feel, females who were ostracized socially in the past would be extremely likely to starve to death, and not pass on their genes. They do everything to show their loyalty to the group. In many cases however, I have observed that they are willing to completely disregard this group herding when they find a 'good' man (see all the cases of women defending bad boys, yet whine about their pushover husbands).
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 10:32 AM
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So they may curl in the squat rack because they are fucking clueless. Bahahah, I literally saw this today. And another tried to 'steal' the squat rack away from me. He was resting his head on the bar (no idea). I just stared at him, confused, until he left, didn't say a word.
/r/TheRedPill02/01/15 06:37 AM
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My little pony fan, are you joking? I don't see a way where this could end well for you. For hats, you have to be tall and skinny for them to work, better to get ripped and get sexy hair.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 10:42 PM
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https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2014/08/27/the-difference-between-promiscuous-men-and-promiscuous-women/ (scroll down a bit) Note the fake smile (no eye wrinkles when smiling) and the soulless eyes.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 11:06 PM
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I've seen a lot of posts about how to raise our kids with TRP. But how do we raise our siblings? Build trust and talk with them (by doing male things together) and lead by example. As long as you slowly sprinkle advice instead of jamming the pill down their throats, they will grow up properly.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 10:47 PM
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Now here's the kicker, do you think it is a conspiracy, or just stupid people being dumb?
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 03:11 PM
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It's mommy porn to cater to the fragile egos of trophy wives and spinsters Now that you mention it check out 15:12.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/14 09:53 AM
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Made it through 4 of the movies and said fuck it because the story and characters were almost completely different. Don't watch any more, by the last film the characters just become parodies of themselves.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/14 05:51 AM
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A farmer can't increase the value of his crop by cutting production (supply). Why? Because he's in competition with other farmers. He doesn't have a monopoly. This is semi-correct and leads us to the other principal: product differentiation, just like how coke and pepsi are basically same thing (black, cola flavoured sugar syrup with caffeine), they both have loyal consumers. Which is why you need to do appear to be different then every other guys.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 11:33 PM
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If you are arrested, demand your lawyer and then shut the fuck up. You will not talk yourself out of the situation. You will not outsmart the cops. You will just fuck up and make yourself look guilty. Leave it to a pro (lawyer) to handle the cops There is nothing you can do if they take something you said out of context or even lie about you. It would be a cop's word verses a random person's word. Better to have a lawyer on your side. see https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6wXkI4t7nuc (posted on tr…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/14 11:12 PM
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Good on you, voting with your money is the only way to make any change happen (or the other option is wait 100 years for the feminist state to collapse).
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:08 AM
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In australia, if a specific officer gets 5 complaints, he has to be investigated, you can make 5 anonymous complaints and give him some beef to deal with.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 06:03 AM
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