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| 2 | Does wearing a ring help?this theory that women flock to married men is a bit tiring. As someone who recently got married but occasionally still goes to bars / parties with my single friends, i've not experienced this magical phenomenon of going from not being noticed to hit on relentlessly by women. When single, I was successful getting attention with a certain type of woman. Now that i'm married, I largely get attention from similar types of women. On average, when i tell women at bars im married, 4 out of 5 stop flir… | /r/seduction | 19/05/25 10:20 PM |
| 10 | How do I ask my neighbor for a hookup ?Yeah OP if i were you i'd reach out to her and plan the exact same thing, except you need to ensure she knows you want to hook up. e.g. get a nicer bottle of alcohol, tell her to come over and make a comment about something like how she looked really good last time, or her shirt, etc. looked good on her. Otherwise she'll just assume it'll be another 3 hours of chit chat | /r/seduction | 15/12/24 10:10 PM |
| 4 | Daygame during quarantine?I'd personally wait until June of July. Patience will be rewarded, lots of girls miss being approached as much as you miss approaching | /r/seduction | 02/05/20 11:53 PM |
| 1 | Is it me or aren't most girls like this?In my experience, girls like this were only after attention in the first place. It used to be hard for me to wrap my head around this concept, but a lot of girls simply want as much male attention as possible and are indifferent about how far things go. Sure, you dont wanna shower her in attention too early, and yes theres always the inevitable push and pull, but if shes genuinely attracted to you, she wouldnt be acting like that the minute you stop texting her. I cant remember a girl I've ever … | /r/seduction | 07/03/20 12:00 AM |
| 1 | How accurate is this post describing European women?because they are super super relationship oriented similar to Italians and Greeks. And I'm not looking for a serious relationship lol | /r/seduction | 30/12/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | How accurate is this post describing European women?No, I just mean not to do sleazy stuff like being very touch feely at first. After you talk to them for like 2 minutes they should realize ur a cool dude and then it's just like normal. | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 11:47 PM |
| 1 | A girl invited me to her place for coffee. How do i make the move ?I see a lot of these posts and everyone over thinks it lol. All you need to do is chill and flirt with her for like 20-30 minutes at most and then just go in for a kiss. After that it's pretty straight forward lmao | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How accurate is this post describing European women?As someone who has travelled extensively through europe and has lived in New york and miami which are the 2 most visited tourist destinations for Europeans in America I can give my 2 cents. About 90% of what this article says is correct. To elaborate on some points.... Eastern european women are amazing. The whole issue with italian, turkish, etc. guys going over there to find women is not an issue if you are someone like me (fair skin, blue eyes, light hair). If you are brown or a bit darker in… | /r/seduction | 29/12/19 09:28 PM |
| 2 | How to shoot your shot at an instagram girl?sometimes it's just tough luck. Same with bar tenders. It's almost impossible to pick them up at their work but when else will u see them? | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 04:27 PM |
| 1 | How to shoot your shot at an instagram girl?yeah for sure. Tbh tho whenever I meet girls in bars who are "instafamous" I almost always go for their phone #. Often times instagram is said girls resource of validation. Ideally you need to go after them in ways that hundreds of other dudes arent | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 04:21 PM |
| 4 | How to shoot your shot at an instagram girl?You gotta differentiate urself, which means understanding what the average guy who hits her up is like. Most guys are only hitting her up with basic copy paste response. If I were u I'd comment on a specific photo and say something that makes you relateable... "Hey I came across your pic of you in china. How was that experience? I had a blast over there but I almost got killed by an old lady driving a fruit cart!" Needless to say regardless of what u do, it's a super low percentage game so dont … | /r/seduction | 14/12/19 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Moved Too Fast and Made Her Uncomfortable. Any way to fix this?that's 100% a winning strategy. I simply misread body language and concerned it fucked up any chances I had. Any ideas you have as something to text her in the morning or say to her if I decide to call? | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Moved Too Fast and Made Her Uncomfortable. Any way to fix this?Yes, earlier this evening from 8 to 10 pm | /r/seduction | 27/10/19 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Girl Comes Back To My Place, And Randomly Leaves As Soon As We Are About To Have SexYeah you're right. I'm going to text her this evening basically saying "hey had fun last night, is everything ok?" | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Girl Comes Back To My Place, And Randomly Leaves As Soon As We Are About To Have SexAppreciate the insight. I've found that in the past girls on tinder and bumble are typically down for quick hookups so I try to pull fast, where as girls from hinge need 2 or 3 dates. I get the point ur making about not coming across as an operator that just fucks chicks and drops them. What I'm gonna try more is spending more time talking and chilling in my apartment before going for the pull. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 01:21 PM |
| 2 | Girl Comes Back To My Place, And Randomly Leaves As Soon As We Are About To Have SexMy place has an awesome view of the one world trade center so I told her to come "see my view". We had already talked and gotten to know each other an hour or 2 at the bar. | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 01:17 PM |
| 3 | Girl Comes Back To My Place, And Randomly Leaves As Soon As We Are About To Have Sexyeah, I'm more than willing to lightly overcome last minute resistance when it's obviously a front, but I refuse to cross the line into being a borderline rapist. When she said she had to leave, anything I'd say other than "ok that's fine blah blah" would have come across super rapey. Unless theres an idea I'm missing | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Girl Comes Back To My Place, And Randomly Leaves As Soon As We Are About To Have SexI mean let's be real here I invited her to a dimly lit tequila bar on a Friday night at 10 PM. We were making out in the bar and I blatantly said we should go back to my apartment. Zero resistance at all. Then she was stripping on my bed. I feel like she would be smart enough to realize my intentions long before she even came up to my room | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 05:18 AM |
| 1 | Girl Comes Back To My Place, And Randomly Leaves As Soon As We Are About To Have SexI know what last minute resistance is lol. An example is when a girl says "were not having sex" or something like "i cant I'm on my period" etc etc. This is entirely different. She literally just got up off the bed and started putting her clothes on and was like "I'm sorry I think I have to leave". Any attempt to get around that would literally be sexual assault. I'm open to any ideas u might have to address this cuz in this given situation I can't think of anything that I couldve said without s… | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 05:05 AM |
| 3 | Girl Comes Back To My Place, And Randomly Leaves As Soon As We Are About To Have SexYes but how would I go about doing it? I've kinda already played my hand here. Would u just invite her for drinks again or be super direct and just tell her to come and chill at your place? | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Girl Comes Back To My Place, And Randomly Leaves As Soon As We Are About To Have SexNo, No and obviously yes. I've taken 10s of girls back to my place and have never had anything remotely like this happen before | /r/seduction | 12/10/19 04:59 AM |
| 2 | It's So Hard To Build Sexual Tension Sitting At BarstoolsWell my favorite spots are these speak easies where if u get a couch its game over but if not you are at the bar. High risk high reward I guess lol | /r/seduction | 14/05/19 01:58 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on prostitution? Would you do it?Ok so idk where u were in mexico, but I went to amsterdam and it was the exact same thing. I initially told myself I wouldn't do it but then I walked past rows of model esque women who i could bang for 50 dollars. I then remember a time I spent 60 dollars over the course of 2 dates to bang a girl who was no more than a soft 7. I figured why the hell not. One thing it did that helped me immensely was that it took away the mystery of what it was like to bang a straight up 10. I truly believe t… | /r/seduction | 14/04/19 12:12 AM |
| 0 | First date advice?Depends on how ur date is going. If you feel like theres very good chemistry, take her to urs. If you think things haven't built up enough, take her to a different venue (as close to ur place as possible) | /r/askTRP | 06/04/19 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Is it weird to ask a friend if there friend is single or ask them to introduce me to her?yeah, u should if that's ur style. BUT, make it organic. Don't have ur friend reach out saying x guy wants to meet you. Plan an event where you're both there so that the girl in question thinks its organic and coincidental. | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 02:15 AM |
| 1 | Girl visiting my country wants to meet up but keeps rescheduling..Imma have a different opinion on this one. I think u shouldn't have gotten mad at her for rescheduling and I think u shouldn't have viewed it as disinterest. A lot of people simply suck at organizing stuff. They'll agree to something and then forget they have to do something else. IK this isn't directly related to pick up but I work in sales and I've seen deals close where it took like 8 times to reach out to a prospect. For future reference, I would ignore her for a day or 2 to make her thi… | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 02:11 AM |
| 0 | cried in front of plate/ Potential ltr like a baby . How to salvageeh this isn't as big a deal as people make it out to be. crying in front of a girl shows authenticity and vulnerability, which are huge in building comfort. If it was something genuinely bad / disappointing like not getting a big promotion, or someone dying, then no decent human would hold crying against you. If you're crying cuz ur magazines arrived late, yeah not much u can do to save face. | /r/askTRP | 01/04/19 02:02 AM |
| 1 | just fucked a friend of a woman who rejected metbh i think u have to stop viewing casual sex with such seriousness. Sex is sex. I've had casual hook ups with really hot girls and some with very average and even ugly ones. Some of the average ones were more fun in bed than the hot ones. It's an individual basis. Why do you care if a random guy at the bar is with a chick who's hotter than ur date. In a few weeks the roles could easily be reversed. I think ur issue is more that you come across like you're whining in this post, which makes m… | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 01:53 AM |
| 1 | just fucked a friend of a woman who rejected mehahahaha. I love this comment. Have an upvote | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 01:50 AM |
| 11 | Had a girl over who was into me, said we weren't going to have sex. Then some weird shit happened and I don't know whether or not to run or if this is normal behavior.run forest run! | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 01:48 AM |
| 2 | Is it weird to ask a friend if there friend is single or ask them to introduce me to her?You have to consider 2 things... 1) If this girl who is your friend has any hidden feelings for you, she may sabotage your efforts. 2) How would said girl u like react if a guy was too nervous to introduce himself and had his mutual friend do it for him. If I were you I'd simply message her on instagram facebook etc. or just say hi to her in person. Tell her u know x girl and u heard that she was ur friend. At the end of the day, if your friend would ditch you cuz u simply said hi to a gir… | /r/seduction | 01/04/19 01:43 AM |
| 1 | Is This A Shit Test Or A Sign to backoffI responded by making a joke and I'm not going to try to reschedule for another week. Well see how it goes | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Is This A Shit Test Or A Sign to backoffI think people view things way too black and white. "If a girl doesnt say yes to you instantly and make it easy, shes clearly not attracted to you" is the mindset most guys on here seem to have. 1) girls flake for so many different reasons. Most of which can be rectified if u are a bit persistent. 2) I've slept with girls who flaked on me 3 weekends in a row, only to come out for drinks the 4th weekend. As someone who used to be too timid, I can say with certainty that being too aggressive with … | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Is This A Shit Test Or A Sign to backoffYep. Everyone seems to think that girls showing resistance to meeting up with u is black and whit and means she doesnt have any attraction. Ik once I get a girl in person it's a different ballgame | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Is This A Shit Test Or A Sign to backoffShe is interested, normally a girl wouldn't even say that to you they would just ghost. That is what made me think it was a shit test. Any good ideas for a good joke? | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 05:49 AM |
| 2 | Is This A Shit Test Or A Sign to backoffIf your approach works then you wouldn't be here... You don't know if it hasn't worked until she says "I don't want to go out with you" or ignores me. She also followed me on instagram in the last few minutes. Don't worry about relationship status just focus on making her laugh, having fun, and hooking up. I agree with this 100% for first dates, and even second dates. The only problem with this mindset though is that you leave yourself open to wasting a lot of time on a girl who could very wel… | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 05:33 AM |
| 2 | Is This A Shit Test Or A Sign to backoffhonestly could be a reflection of where I live. I'm from NYC and everyone moves so fast here and there are so many things to do, that people always have very packed social calendars (myself included). So sometimes I feel like with every other social activity pulling girls in different directions, you have to be direct and move quickly to get their attention. I've had more success eering on the side of moving quickly as opposed to moving slowly so i guess it's just my perception | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Is This A Shit Test Or A Sign to backoffin my experience, telling them "to let you know when they're available" results in them never getting back to you 9 / 10 times. Usually when I have asked a girl "when are you free to meet up?" I get a response like..." ohh idk i may have this birthday party and idk what my schedule will be like so i'll have to get back to you". and then they never do lol. It's much easier to suggest everything yourself and if she's genuinely unavailable try again. Girls like to be lead, not be the one leading | /r/seduction | 20/02/19 04:52 AM |
| 1 | Gaming Cute BartenderThank you for the advice. Yeah it was super chill. Bartender and I had fun chit chat about travel and she tried to convince me to take a vacation to thailand. I teased her by saying stuff like "why do u keep offering me drinks are u trying to take advantage of me?" That's about as sexual as I made it. Otherwise it was just basic flirting and banter | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 04:01 PM |
| 1 | Gaming Cute BartenderI like that insight. I'm in no way becoming a regular. See my response to the other comment about why I dont think it's the best idea to try to take her as the bars closing | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Gaming Cute BartenderThe only issue with that approach is that the bar is family owned so her cousins, brothers etc all work there too. Since shes kinda fresh off the boat, shed most likely be incredibly hesitant to go off with a random dude in front of her entire family. I was thinking the best move would be to get her number then ask if she wants to go to a nearby bar and if she says yes, then id leave / text her | /r/seduction | 16/02/19 03:19 PM |
| 3 | Qualifying Girls Before The First Datedude that is a great talk track. much appreciated. | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 09:50 PM |
| 1 | Qualifying Girls Before The First DateWhat context was that comment in? Did you tell her you were going to cum on her back after the sexual tension was already built or before? Like I said I'm asking these questions from the perspective of qualifying before any kind of date or meetup. I really like the example of the credit card, but I'm not sure I agree with you about my "what are you looking for" comment not being good. I've had plenty of success with that, so long as i ask it in a tone where i'm not coming across as seeking val… | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 09:38 PM |
| 4 | Qualifying Girls Before The First DateThe european vibe is a bit different from that of NYC. However, there are lots of free wine tasting events and gallery tours that I am going to start doing more often. I'm just trying to get an idea of good ways to figure out how likely i am to get laid with a particular girl before i invest too much time / money in her | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 09:34 PM |
| 2 | Qualifying Girls Before The First Datewhat are some good lines you like to say that set the frame as a sexual conversation without coming on too strong? I like saying stuff like "so what do you like most in a guy?" basically open ended questions that get them rambling so i can effectively choose where to take the convo based off what they say. Also this is in the context of before the date not during the date. For instance if I'm talking to her as part of a social group prior to any kind of dating or if i'm messaging on tinder | /r/seduction | 10/02/19 09:07 PM |
| 2 | Warming up before going out: High-energy (trollish) vs normal "social guy" vibe?Yeah so often times i find it's as simple as just walking up to a girl and saying hi and asking for her name. if she seems receptive, then my go to opener is to either comment on something specific, like their outfit, drink, hairstyle, etc. or to playfully ask "so this isn't really your favorite bar in the city is it?" Usually what will happen is she'll start rambling and the conversation will naturally flow. To respond to your point about being outlandish, I've found that often times dudes mi… | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 06:37 PM |
| 102 | Have any if you ever gotten the "as friends" text and still ended up hooking up/dating the girl who sent it?"I'm not on tinder for hookups" wound up banging that same night lol. My favorite expression is the "pizza analogy". I don't walk around new york city to find pizza, but if i come across a cheap place and im feeling a bit hungry i'll be spontaneous. Just cuz a chick isn't specifically looking for something doesn't mean she's not open to it if the timing is right ;) | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 06:18 PM |
| 3 | I draw blank after saying hello, speacially at night game, I just don’t know what to say at alli always just start off with the "hello" or "hi" as you do. Then I do one of two things assuming I'm feeling her being receptive. #1) i comment on something unique such as a drink she has that looks cool, or her outfit if is isn't some ordinary club dress. #2) if nothing from #1 applies I'll usually say something like this... "so this is your favorite bar in the city right??" I'll say it in an upbeat inflection and usually they'll start rambling about other places they like. It makes the… | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 06:16 PM |
| 3 | Warming up before going out: High-energy (trollish) vs normal "social guy" vibe?here's what i do when i go out solo... step 1) go to chill bar underneath my apartment and chat with bartender step 2) go to 1 dollar pizza slice, chat with cashier, and other random people in the shop. step 3) go to chill bar near my final destination, get cheap drink and talk to bar tender and random people. step 4) go to final bar / club This way i've had enough social interaction and moved around enough to have organically built energy and i'm also buzzed enough to be in a generally happ… | /r/seduction | 03/02/19 06:12 PM |
| 2 | 2nd date soon, tips on this particular case?dude... you've found a girl who respects your wallet and seems independent by nature. Consider yourself lucky. Let her be her true self and carry her own bag and pay for your meal. Also if you are hesitant to hook up with a girl who may be a bit sweaty you shouldn't be dating | /r/seduction | 15/09/18 09:01 PM |
| 17 | What do you do when you get her in your room to get laid?be really alpha and let her know exactly what you want. Of course you need to wait and build a bit of rapport doing stuff like "netflix and chill" first. Let's be real my friend, girls aren't stupid. They come over to your place because they want to fuck. They're using the tv as a mental excuse to justify their sluttiness. "Oh i didn't intentionally be a slut and fuck a guy i just met, we were watching tv and things just happened". All you need to do is wait like 5-10 minutes after u sit down ne… | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Asking Her if she's got a boyfriend.so typically i do not like asking, but one scenario where i always ask is if im having a conversation with a girl at a bar and i'm on the fence about how its going. Like for instance if you feel shes average in terms of her reception / interest, and you feel the convo going stale, bring it up as a direct question. If she says no, then ask her if she thinks you're attractive. If she says anything other than no, the ask her "so what are we doing here, lets go on the dance floor" | /r/seduction | 02/09/18 01:23 AM |
| 12 | Is there a guide for solo-travelers or solo club game as a traveler?As an American who recently spent a month and a half in Europe, nobody cares where you are from. If you are a nice cool guy people will treat you nicely. If you are a jackass people will not like you. This is regardless of nationality. There are tons of crazy politicians in Europe too so people aren't going to judge you for trump unless you go around telling everyone you love him. I met a very beautiful Norwegian and italian girl while traveling! Have fun bro! | /r/seduction | 30/08/18 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Tinder Techniquei didn't mention it being cheesy. just creative / witty | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 01:33 AM |
| 1 | Tinder Techniquei never said it has to be cheesy. i just mentioned to comment something relevant. So for instance one girls bio i matched with said "If you captured my attention than be super proud of yourself." And i opened with "im feeling super proud of myself right now" Thats just one example | /r/seduction | 13/07/18 01:31 AM |
| 1 | Tinder Techniqueill usually open with something that is referencing her bio. Either that or a funny gif. If the opportunity presents itself, I'll make some sarcastic joke, tease her etc. As far as pictures go, one thing that I've learned is that girls don't care nearly as much about action shots as we do. I'm guilty of having my whole profile of pics with me snowboarding, boating, traveling etc. I've gotten better results with simple pics of me doing nothing. You want to show them first and foremost what you lo… | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 11:28 PM |
| 12 | How do I get laid on vacation?ok so im a consultant who gets to go to miami every 2 weeks on the weekends. Then answer to your question is to approach like a mother fucker. Id approach girls in bars, clubs, the beach, etc. If there was a hot girl in an uber pool or my hotel lobby, or any other random place, I'd strike a conversation. I found that on average I'd get laid for every 20 chicks I approached. If I were to tell you I go into bars alone in miami and get laid most of the nights I'm there, you'd probably think i'm som… | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 11:23 PM |
| 5 | Should you always aim for a kiss on the fist date?here is the thing u should know. girls want to feel desired. That is not done simply by single acts such as kissing. That is done by the manner of how you talk and interact etc. If you're not creating sexual tension before the kiss, the kiss itself won't do any good. Does a quarterback usually have success throwing the ball before he reads the field? No. If you want to make sure your kiss attempts / moves are well received, simply lock down the rapport building | /r/seduction | 06/07/18 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Easier meeting women while traveling?as a guy who has gotten laid a good bit travelling, i think its partly easier but also partly all in our heads. When traveling, you have an exotic appeal to the locals and the tourists have their holiday mentality of not caring/ when in rome. But also I've noticed men are more likely to have that when in rome mentality to approaching women when on vacation. Often times at home men will come up with excuses to not approach and be cautious about what they say where as when travelling, you know mos… | /r/seduction | 21/05/18 10:42 PM |
| 5 | 5 Tips to Never Run Out of Things to Say With Girlsget life experience on your own. Travel, learn new skills, get new jobs, go out with friends, build memories and create stories. When you do this there is always a situational way to refer to these events. | /r/seduction | 13/04/18 08:16 PM |
| 0 | Good answer to the “wow your short” shit test"yeah so i went to the doctor the other day and he said all the pussy ive eaten over the years stunted my growth" | /r/seduction | 11/04/18 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Right amount of flirting over text?yeah im not going to lie, in your situation its almost always best not to text unless you are directly setting up logistics for a meet up. The only times ill ever text a girl consistently are girls who I know I cannot see for a while who I just want to casually keep in touch with. For example I go to europe every year and if I meet a girl I like / hook up with, i'll message back and forth once every week or so. This is different though because you know you are seeing her very soon. Don't text le… | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 08:11 PM |
| 3 | Why is it that the longer you know a woman, the least the chance of entering a relationship with her?depends on the girl. In my experience you have spectrum of quiet/ insecure girls, middle of the road girls, and super extroverted and forward girls. On both ends of the spectrum (quiet and extroverted) it is best to move quickly because the insecure girls will think you are rejecting them and its their fault thus them going into autorejection (a girls way of shielding her ego from pain by rejecting a guy before he can even make a move). For the ultra extroverted party girl, if you don't move qui… | /r/seduction | 09/04/18 02:39 AM |
| 3 | 44% of young women arrange dates with men only to make them pay for their restaurant nice mealsThere are 2 very easy solutions to this issue. 1 don't take a girl to a restaurant on a first date. If your going to pay for her meal at least make sure there is some investment on her part 2 be upfront about expectations regarding pay. What I do when I go on a first date with a girl is I usually do something very cheap and pay (because its pocket change so whatever) but if I wind up doing something more expensive such as say bowling, I'll typically pay for it on the condition that she buys me f… | /r/seduction | 08/04/18 01:18 AM |
| 5 | Is it possible to get women to have sex with you when they know your a virgin?i agree with both posts below. If she asks, be honest and frame it in a way that makes it seem like you turned down options instead of getting turned down yourself. Example; "Yeah so I'll be honest, I am a virgin. I want my first time to be with a girl who i feel a strong connection with mentally not just physically." If she doesn't ask, there is absolutely no need to tell her. I lost mine when super drunk so the sex was going to be subpar regardless. We had a good laugh afterward and the girl i… | /r/seduction | 06/04/18 02:10 AM |
| 5 | [HELP] Flirting with an interni was about to make a joke about bill clinton but then i saw you are a woman oops! :D Anyways being serious, I think that often times a lot of young men expect girls to be a bit timid and want men to approach. HOWEVER, given recent trends in workplace sexual harassment, guys are often advised not to mess with women from work and this could lead to even the most forward men being hesitant to make talk with the cute girl from the office (or in your case the hospital). I think in this case you shou… | /r/seduction | 28/03/18 01:26 AM |
| 1 | How to tell if she likes me and not my connectionsyou just have to slowly escalate. Like if one minute ur in a private area such as a hotel room and you are just sitting and talking you have to go in for the kiss to get her to start making out with you. Its the same with sex you escalate slowly and go as far as you can until she either says yes or no. For instance in the middle of kissing, you can start kissing her neck, feeling up her legs, etc. And if she likes in start going for more intimate areas. I've found its a good strategy to at some … | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Approaching girls with friends at clubs?I agree 100% that its important to have a good night. Read my last line. I should have included the fact that the only instance in which you try to take the girl home is if she is giving you really heavy signs. Anything less than that and just dance the night away get to know her friends and get her number. Sorry for the confusion | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 01:46 PM |
| 2 | How to tell if she likes me and not my connectionsTo be honest I kind of see this situation as a bit of a self fulfilling prophecy. You are worried about the fact that she only sees you as a source of business advice. Normally this isn't anything bad, but in your context it could be puzzling to her because you kissed her were chilling in her hotel room, and then backed off because you didn't want to "be sleazy". Then you proceeded to give her actual business advice to her about her business venture. If I were her I would be thinking you are mor… | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 03:31 AM |
| 2 | Approaching girls with friends at clubs?here is my go to strategy and has worked for me on occasion but by no means is it fool proof. I think of something witty or some compliment to say to the girl im interested in and then go up to the group and open with that. For example: I see a cute girl in a group of friends wearing a sparkling shirt. "I'm not gonna lie, I love that shirt I saw it sparkling all the way from the end of the club!" then introduce myself to the group have a bit of idle chit chat etc. Then comes the most important s… | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 03:07 AM |
| 1 | How to bounce back after rejecting girl when I was in a relationship, now I'm single and would like to initiate again?ok so i've personally never been in this situation but i've been on the opposing end, and from my perspective you have 2 things going against you. 1... you did reject her. You said you'd go and then didn't show up. That is basically a straight up rejection. 2... you don't seem like you are really aware of what you want with her and this will make your interactions with her harder When a girl who previously rejected me comes and hits me up out of the blue, my first reaction is honestly to be skep… | /r/seduction | 24/03/18 02:58 AM |
| 2 | The "I don't want you to think I'm a slut" testhaha there is a difference though. Usually the "I will not sleep with you tonight" is merely a feeble last resistance that she wants you to ignore. I've never at any point had a girl tell me that past the hours of midnight and not bang her. I think next time I'll just take it a bit slower and use your advice regarding being flirty | /r/seduction | 20/03/18 04:09 AM |
| 1 | The "I don't want you to think I'm a slut" testi agree with you 100% but at the end of the day you can only fake it so much. Its one thing to respond in a light hearted joking manner when things are getting escalated, but at the point where she agrees to come to your hotel room and you are making out and groping each other, there is only so much I can do to make it seem like "an adventurous experience". I know what my intentions are and have shown her, she knows what they are at that point too. I guess what I'm trying to say is that I agree … | /r/seduction | 19/03/18 10:03 PM |
| 4 | Shit-Test: "What would you say, if I say that I have a boyfriend?"here is what I have personally found regarding this particular shit test, just like other shit tests is that its not just the context in how she says it. Its the timing. If a girl tells you she has a boyfriend very early on in your interaction it almost always means shes telling the truth or is lying to get you to go away. If a girl says she has a boyfriend after flirting with you for a while and seemingly brings it up out of the blue, it means 2 things. She's either leading you on and just usin… | /r/seduction | 18/03/18 10:12 PM |
| 6 | Regarding girls that don't text backI think that when it comes to following up, you can send one double text at most. No triple, quadruple etc. If u have only sent one text with no response, then go for it. I've hardly seen any instance where the man didn't have to at least be a bit persistent at the beginning. If you are persistent in a non desperate manner, girls who fancy you will like it because it shows that you care. A common mistake men make is that they assume girls think just like we do. When we flake or don't respond its… | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 06:25 PM |
| 4 | She wants me back, but I'm not sureWhat I am about to say is not something that is conventionally said on this board but here are my thoughts... When making decisions regarding relationships, its important for you to act based not only on what you think she is feeling, but how you feel as well. You mentioned that you felt a really strong connection and that your break up wasn't for a malevolent reason (infidelity, etc.) With that being said, look at real life evidence. If you ask a bunch of married couples their relationship hist… | /r/seduction | 27/02/18 06:10 PM |
| 2 | What to do at a college party when a girl is showing some interest but you both are just standing there?here's what I do. I never go straight into grinding as that comes off as you being overly forward. I always dance with her facing me at a small distance, spin her around a couple times. Then Look her in the eye, gently grab her left hip with my right hand, and naturally pull her closer. Assuming she responds well to coming closer I always put my face up to hers to the point where our noses are touching to build up the sexual tension. I then find myself in a position where literally all I have to… | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 04:34 PM |
| 1 | Asking her out - Getting a Read on Gym GirlsGo for both brotha One thing that really helped me with situations like this was learning not to care about the vibe if things didn't work out. There was this super hot waitress at a restaurant i'd frequent regularly who I hit on, and found out she had a boyfriend who worked at the same place. So what did I do? I kept going to the restaurant, she'd still be my server very often, I'd be civil, smile make jokes etc. Its only as akward as you personally let it be. If "ruining the vibe" and "not shi… | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 06:56 AM |
| 6 | What to do at a college party when a girl is showing some interest but you both are just standing there?you should have said "this line isn't moving, lets go dance" and then grabbed her by the hand and led her to dance floor. As much as I hate to say it girls expect guys to be the lead in every possible situation and diffusing an akward situation is no exception. If there was no dance floor then you do the same thing but take her somewhere quieter where you can lean in tell her "you look really pretty tonight" and then give her a peck on the cheek. Assuming she was into you, both of those scenario… | /r/seduction | 26/02/18 06:42 AM |
| 2 | Ignoring a girl for too long?update: she just texted me how much she missed hearing from me. I think ive got this lol | /r/seduction | 16/02/18 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Ignoring a girl for too long?No i didn't apologize. Also won't double texting her make me seem desperate? What would I even say? | /r/seduction | 15/02/18 06:17 PM |
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