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So you will discard a pretty girl without knowing her first?
/r/MensRights23/04/24 05:22 PM
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Truth is if the girl is pretty you are willing to go further and see how it works out. You will not be picky right from the start because we all know pretty women are in high demand. The "pickiness" comes later.
/r/MensRights23/04/24 05:07 PM
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Almost none honestly. I was dating this flight attendant girl. Beautiful. After 3 dates she ended up everything through messages because she "wanted to go more slowly" and she didnt feel I care about her period. Basically we were making out, and she had some period pain. She expected me to suddenly tell her to stop kissing because of her pain, which is retarded as she was into it too. This made me realize that she must have so many options. It is so easy for her to throw everything away because …
/r/MensRights23/04/24 04:08 PM
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if you are picky as a man ur options drastically reduce
/r/MensRights23/04/24 04:00 PM
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I know it’s unfair. And under some circumstances women abuse this supposed vulnerability. But there is a real possibility it will happen. I live in an apartment building, and when I enter the elevator with women they legit look scared. It bothers me a little but I try to understand them. There is a lot of rape here (Japan).
/r/MensRights05/10/23 04:36 PM
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In some case it may be paranoid but in others like Japan it may be somewhat justified. The problem is not as bad as it used to be, but it has been a big problem there. I had a Japanese friend who was followed from the train to her house and raped there. It would be understandable to develop some paranoia.
/r/MensRights05/10/23 12:40 PM
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I believe you but what’s your source on this epidemic?
/r/MensRights27/09/23 10:39 PM
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To look at men as human beings and not just their wallets and social status.
/r/MensRights25/09/23 03:37 AM
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Loneliness. Which has many other implications
/r/MensRights21/09/23 11:32 AM
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All women are strong independent until they got to choose man. That moment they want a man with high income, house and car. So how is it?
/r/MensRights19/09/23 07:29 PM
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Anarchism is not politics, I dare say. It’s rather the dismantlement of politics
/r/MensRights14/09/23 02:57 AM
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Become an anarchist
/r/MensRights14/09/23 02:37 AM
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Men love harder. Just look at art history. Men have dedicated an immeasurable amount of art to women. What have women dedicated to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 05:50 AM
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Sometimes it’s just resources man. If you have money most women will look your way. Doesn’t matter if you are a shy beta or selfish tattooed ex-convict.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:44 PM
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I’d say media and propaganda are the main causes whites are seen as superior everywhere.
/r/MensRights31/08/23 09:39 AM
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Perhaps? Being white and blonde is a bonus everywhere in the world.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 01:55 PM
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Unfortunately Japan is still very racist. Blacks and Indians are among the most discriminated groups. White people from rich countries may look even superior to them.
/r/MensRights30/08/23 01:54 PM
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Living in Japan for over a year I have realized something: men are not picky when it comes to the nationality or race of a woman if he is interested in her. Doesn’t matter if it’s a 3rd world country, country at war, etc. Women on the other hand, care for the socioeconomic status of the male. Thus racism and xenophobia applies more to men in the sexual market when they are foreigners. I have learned this the hard way unfortunately. Japanese women prefer European or American men, preferably white…
/r/MensRights30/08/23 11:03 AM
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Male friendships are very different from female friendships. A woman can know literally everything going on the life of her friends, give her advice, help her make decisions, etc. Most male friendships are not like that. There may be a few exceptions but it’s not the norm. A romantic relationship/family on the other hand offers more intimacy because you are inevitably connected. You make decisions with your partner (where to live, what to do, what to eat, etc).
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 10:48 AM
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Many of those rich men and disgusting both physically and personality wise. They must be willing to ensure that shit daily. And they get kicked out once they get ugly too. If the relationship is based only on money one have to wonder if she has a fulfilling life. Being broke gets you no woman, but don’t settle with a gold digger either.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 11:52 AM
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Female orgasm is harder to happen though.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 10:34 AM
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Why? I want a long term partner
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 03:33 PM
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I’m 28 and virgin. Sometimes I wonder how my life would be if I had sex regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/23 07:33 AM
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The fact that she is here because of her sex, while men die because of there sex, means both sexes are not considered equal. That men, albeit humans with rights, have the role of soldier forced on them. In my opinion it is her duty to be aware of why she is here.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 12:19 PM
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If women don’t go back after the war, won’t Ukraine eventually disappear either way? Either because of no children or men migrating to other countries? Has this ever happened in history before?
/r/MensRights19/08/23 12:03 PM
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It’s not a personal attack against her, but a reflection of the policies. We can’t forget that while she lives in Japan with a scholarship, some men in Ukraine are being killed.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 11:50 AM
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Currently studying in Japan and there is an Ukrainian girl. Looking at her enjoy life while men die in Ukraine is weird to say the least. When you see it in person you can see the injustice.
/r/MensRights19/08/23 04:15 AM
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Wearing good clothes has its benefits. You feel better and more confident. Do it for yourself. If you don’t like it, then don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 12:07 PM
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Improve yourself for yourself, not for any whore. If you are very ugly, you will either have to settle with an ugly girl or get a gold digger. Other instances where improving yourself doesn’t work is living in countries where you may face racism or xenophobia. No matter what you do, a woman will prefer a white and blonde man instead of Indian man, even if he lifts more.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 09:03 AM
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If your story is real I feel bad for you man. Sounds brutal. Best of luck.
/r/MensRights17/08/23 06:37 PM
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Women don’t want to date the man who hits on all of their friends. They know you are desperate and willing to settle with any girl. They don’t feel like “the one”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:13 PM
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Point one is the biggest problem. You try to approach a girl and word about your may spread. Now you got to drop that pool and look for another social circle. It’s like if we could meet people infinitely, but we can’t. OLD is dogshit and after I deleted all those apps my mental health improved a lot. No more ghosting, no more wasted money, etc. Cold approaching doesn’t work most of the time. And if you approach in social events, point one may happen (again). It’s a dog eat dog world out there. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/23 03:07 PM
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I feel better mentally after I deleted every dating app. Now I have to focus only on the real women I meet, no longer frustrated by not receiving a message or getting ghosted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 01:30 AM
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It’s horrible. I’ve decided that once I get a girlfriend I’ll get the fuck out of the game. All the effort it takes and shit you have to endure, it’s not viable long term. Get in, catch something, and leave quickly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/23 03:22 AM
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What we need is a social change. To appreciate men more for what they are and can provide, even if it’s not much. I think that would solve a lot of problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 03:56 PM
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As long as she is young, from 20 to 25, then it’s okay. They are the same women. You are just a little older.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 10:35 AM
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I’m still not convinced by the concepts of patriarchy or matriarchy. I believe gender interactions and roles are more complex than that. The word “patriarchy” is commonly used, yet what is it origin? And was its existence demonstrated?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/23 06:06 AM
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Be man Want to experience sex because why not Must be aggressive as a man Be labeled as a creep Cant win. The problem is when someone starts talking shit behind your back and pool of available women reduces since you are the “predator”.
/r/MensRights04/08/23 02:43 PM
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I agree with most points. But the point about the draft, I believe goes beyond misandry. It is about men being better fighters than women. Of course under equality women should fight too, but for the states a strong army is more important than a feminist quota. Now downplaying it, but misandry falls short to explain draft.
/r/MensRights28/07/23 11:29 AM
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It could be bullshit story though
/r/MensRights24/07/23 03:16 AM
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Recently I was discussing with someone about how patriarchy is not real and has no scientific basis. Yet they said something I didn’t know how to counter: it is about power. And having power does not mean you will have an easy life. Such as the king having to fight in wars even though he was the king. He had power but at a cost. And that women, on the other hand, lacked that power. Do you think that the patriarchy can be justified by “power”? Then again, even if the patriarchy is real, men are a…
/r/MensRights20/07/23 11:20 AM
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Being alone for years without intimacy or touch is not a slight inconvenience. It gets to you eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 07:47 AM
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Being a man is pain
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/23 03:12 AM
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Women are like children. Ignore their actions and logic and just keep trying. Next next next.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 04:18 AM
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I think you are citing extremes as examples, not representative of a regular red flag. Men may not be physically harmed often, but the psychological damage or risk of losing material good is very real.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:27 AM
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Some red flags are acceptable as long as they don’t go out of control. Only way of knowing is by having a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:12 AM
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More like “no person is perfect might as well try”. Depending on the red flag no woman is worth it though
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:57 AM
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That’s the result of having less options, and also the effort it takes to get those options to give you a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:48 AM
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How can you not be concerned about red flags just because you are a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 08:45 AM
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Women who already decided to ghost you before the date. It has happened to me many times. They accept to meet somewhere but for some reason they already have a pre-determined attitude towards you. It would be better if they just cancel the date.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 06:32 AM
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Yeah I didn’t either when I was younger. But I’ve realized that time is clicking, and that if sexual desire is there, might as well try to use it, no point in denying it.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 05:42 PM
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It’s inevitably harmful. Doesn’t matter if it’s supposed to be that way, as I stated in the post. The damage is worse when it affects your public image, or burns bridges, removing possible potential partners.
/r/MensRights08/07/23 02:52 PM
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The chances of getting matched with someone you dislike are very high
/r/MensRights08/07/23 11:18 AM
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Who wants to be alone forever?
/r/MensRights08/07/23 08:51 AM
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I was close one time. We were literally 20m away from my apartment, but she backed off. Another girl she said she had a part time job, to meet next week (I’m still waiting). The problem is that being too pushy can ruin any chance you have. It’s hard to know when to keep pushing and when to back off.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 06:15 PM
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I feel identified with the first two points. I can get dates relatively easy since I’m good looking. But getting to bed is a different matter. When you get ghosted after the first date, you can’t help but wonder if you did something wrong, lack something, etc. This indeed erodes confidence. Then of course, since I can’t get it I lack experience. This may be noticeable on bed or the eventual LTR. I honestly don’t understand women. Their standards are either too high or they lack sexual desire
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 04:22 PM
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My experience is biased because I’m living in Japan for 1 year now. I’ve dated many, but so far zero sex or relationship. It’s surprisingly difficult. But then again, I am a foreigner, and there is the language barrier. If I was living in my country I’d getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 04:19 PM
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I’ve been living in Japan for 1 year. I think the problems are mostly cultural and economical. Building friendships is difficult here, even in places where one might expect it. For example, in my laboratory at university there is no group cohesion. Most people don’t talk each other except when necessary. So if you like a girl of the lab, approaching her may be difficult. This applies to every type of environment. Then most women here expect you to be somewhat wealthy since they expect marriage a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 03:12 AM
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Where is this hook up culture? I live in Sendai and haven’t find it. Only prostitution. Maybe Tokyo, Osaka? I’m foreigner though
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 02:59 AM
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I’ve been in Japan for a year now (albeit in a conservative city), and my conclusion so far is that here nobody fucks except prostitutes and pornstars. Women in general don’t seem to be interested in exploring their sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:13 AM
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Honestly sex is more than filling a hole. Even though I’m not interested in her as a partner, I still value her companionship. I want her to have a pleasurable experience too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:09 PM
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Give it a shot. Almost worked for me once
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 02:03 PM
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Funny because I’ve been thinking the same lately. I’ve been rejected by women who are not even that pretty or have nothing going for themselves (work, studying, etc). Yet it seems that even women who have nothing to offer besides their coochie have the luxury to reject even high value men. I’ll aim high from now
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 01:13 PM
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Perhaps, yes. The reason I do a lot of stupid shit like cold approaching, talking to women, wasting money on dates, etc., is because of the need of sex and physical contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:58 AM
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I’m 28 and virgin. What should I do?
/r/MensRights11/06/23 06:43 AM
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Being touch starved is so sad man. This pushes men to do things they otherwise wouldn’t do. The problem is it’s a physical need that, although lacking it will not kill you, it can hurt you constantly. Strong emotional control is needed. But I think many cope mechanisms are unconsciously developed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:57 AM
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I agree. It’s like having pussy make up for everything wrong with them lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 04:55 AM
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Men face a contradiction. Society expects man to be the initiator. Yet at the same time, such behavior is highly regulated. The problem is that if you cross the line or not does not depend on you, but rather on the woman’s reaction. If she reacts negatively, you will be accused of harassment or worse. If she reacts positively you succeeded. But what is wrong or right is not clear, and changes from woman to woman. Men are forced to act in a self destructive, risky, suicidal behavior in order to f…
/r/MensRights21/05/23 05:40 PM
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This is specially noticeable within sexual context. For example, a man expressing sexual intent in meetings, bars, parties, etc., will make you look like a predator. Women can call this harassment and consequences will come. Nonetheless, when women “lead on” men, basically making a fool of you, is not seen as misbehavior, but rather “playful” or “she’s just having fun with thirsty men”. Unfortunately I’m talking from experience.
/r/MensRights21/05/23 03:46 PM
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On what kind of platform you post you want a FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 05:30 PM
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The study indicates correlation, not causation. Within certain group of men (those with the time and resources to buy and play videogames), playing games instead of socializing with women is just a symptom.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/23 09:19 AM
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After being bullied in university by a group of women, and seeing how easy it was for them to hide it, and at the same time demonize me while they were the action villains. That’s when I realized my own and society’s bias towards men
/r/MensRights13/05/23 10:27 PM
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I sometimes think this hook up culture only exists on the internet. Of all the people I’ve met only gay men can easily fuck. Heterosexual men can barely fuck unless they get a gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/23 08:46 PM
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I dated twice a girl I cold approached at a store (she ghosted me afterwards), and got the number of another one but I think she did it because Japanese can’t say “No”. I tried other times but it’s risky. Staff of the store may intervene or she will rise her voice, etc., making you look like a creep. I don’t think I’ll cold approach ever again. Most cold approaches end up in rejection or being ghosted, and honestly I find it a little degrading towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 06:38 AM
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I got to agree with this comment. I live in Japan too. Some weeks ago I volunteered at a camp where foreigners and Japanese children interact (even sleep in the same room!). I couldn’t believe there were parents willing to leave their children with unknown foreigners. Specially men. I guess perception is different
/r/MensRights06/05/23 06:37 AM
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All women are “independent and strong” until the moment to choose a man. That’s when they want a man with a higher salary, car, house, and 6 pack. Yet, if they are so strong and independent, why don’t they own the house and car? And share it with a man, as we are expected to? I think men should start demanding the same requirement
/r/MensRights03/05/23 04:19 PM
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I think that capitalism and the relentless marketing and consumerism are at fault too. Women nowadays are less willing to invest in a man with future prospects, like a university student, etc. They want you with the resources before even starting a relationship. I think that if we lived in a society that not based on wealth, women would look at other characteristics.
/r/MensRights30/04/23 03:01 AM
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I agree. But experience and observation have taught me that often looks don’t matter. Money or social influence matter more. I’ve seen many fat and bald men with hot ladies or lots of sex. Idk how they do it (besides money)
/r/MensRights28/02/23 06:56 AM
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I got late into this of dating (27M), and as I expected, dating is a shit show and often discouraging. Honestly only reason I do it is because I want to get my dick wet, but rationally I know this game is rigged. As a man you have to approach, plan the date, etc., and get nothing as reward besides wasted time and money. Many of these women are “regular” in the sense of physical beauty, job, income… idk what they want.
/r/MensRights28/02/23 05:09 AM
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For example?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 11:15 AM
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Approaching that number full speed lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 12:18 AM
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Could you elaborate further? I’ve only one and yeah, she was somewhat annoying. But I can’t generalize
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 11:13 AM
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I heard Italian women are unbearable
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 10:48 AM
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Passportmaxxing
/r/MensRights23/02/23 05:52 AM
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Passportmaxxing
/r/MensRights23/02/23 05:51 AM
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You kept looking for it or gave up?
/r/MensRights22/02/23 02:11 PM
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Well maybe not right or legislation, but social expectations. Although idk how this could be changed. I think that if men and women interacted more often without prejudice there would be less problems. But nowadays both sexes are very separated
/r/MensRights08/02/23 06:20 PM
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But you end up alone though
/r/MensRights08/02/23 04:58 PM
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It makes you feel a little bad though. You feel people talking behind your back making you look like a predator
/r/MensRights08/02/23 03:25 PM
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I think being a young “whatever color” male is hard
/r/MensRights28/01/23 04:01 AM
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I’ve always thought that what exists is the division of roles by gender due to nature. If we were incapable of thinking like every other animal, we would not be able to break through these roles. The concept of patriarchy would not exist. Through history men have always fought at wars, due to natural reasons. Is this product of the patriarchy?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 05:13 AM
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I used to be a shut in due to many circumstances going on in my life. It did me no good. I am now living in a different country, and have tried to become more outgoing. What I have learned so far is that, in order to find worthwhile people you have to put yourself out there. You will have every kind of experiences, some good, and unfortunately, many frustrating ones. Many unexpected too. But all of this helps you grow as a person. I think that pushing through all this uncomfortable, and often pa…
/r/MensRights03/01/23 04:45 PM
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See it this way: by being a man you can see the world crystal clear. Personally, I prefer truth over comfortable lie. See as deep as you can as a man.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 05:38 AM
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I think we are hardwired to desire a partner. It goes beyond love or sex. It’s about doing activities together, sharing, intimacy, etc. Yeah I could go to the cinema or hiking alone, but it isn’t the same. We all know it.
/r/MensRights01/01/23 05:37 AM
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It’s insane all the implications the insult “incel” has. It means you are ugly, broke, socially incompetent, small dick, no confidence, shy, a potential shooter, etc. It’s like it encompasses all possible defects and disorders just because you can’t (supposedly) have sex.
/r/MensRights26/12/22 10:56 AM
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The idea that men should “conquer” women is so ingrained into peoples mind that if you are rejected it’s your fault. Somehow you did something wrong. It’s like woment can’t reject you even if you do everything okay. Which can happen repeatedly leading to frustration.
/r/MensRights23/12/22 11:37 AM
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I still have mine so idk
/r/MensRights15/12/22 03:54 PM
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I think it heavily depends on the culture. I moved to Japan some months ago, and it’s so different from the west. Approaching women doesn’t make you feel like a creep, and most women react respectfully even if you end up rejected. Today I cold approached a girl at an anime store, got her number and will meet her next week. Unthinkable in my country.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 03:19 PM
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I think when men are not used to being more direct, they rely on simping expecting the woman to reciprocate. I think it’s related to self-esteem too
/r/MensRights19/11/22 10:58 AM
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The more I live and approach women after the other, the more I realize money might the number 1 trait in a man. Yet they try to hide it under “other” characteristics. Which is sad, really.
/r/MensRights07/11/22 07:15 AM
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By popular definition I mean the second one.
/r/MensRights31/10/22 06:56 PM
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I’m what I consider a little bit above average, and even then it’s still difficult and disheartening. Looks can get you on the door, but it still takes other skills to get to the bed. Besides, sometimes women just don’t feel sure of what they want, or are insecure of themselves, and will eventually ghost you. It takes two to tango, and sometimes women simply are not willing to. Problem is as a man you need to make the approach, spend money, etc., for nothing. It’s tiring…
/r/MensRights17/10/22 05:30 AM
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He gonna end up alone lol
/r/MensRights30/09/22 02:53 AM
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I have a gay friend and he tells me how easy is to have sex with other gay men, specially through apps. But to have sex with women or even a kiss, it requires so much work
/r/MensRights28/09/22 10:04 AM
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No. The phimosis is already fixed. It never causes any emotional problem besides the physical limitation. I would not say is that I am completely involuntarily celibate. I have had my chances. I just don’t want to do it with those women.
/r/MensRights13/09/22 01:40 AM
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I don’t quite understand what your question means as if it only depended on me. But there are many factors. I was in love with a girl who never liked me back, and during those years I never looked for another woman either for sex or a relationship. I also had phimosis until 23, making sex impossible even if I had the chance. During my student life I had almost no social life. I also developed some sort of resentment towards women due to bullying. I had no desire to approach them. As a man you al…
/r/MensRights12/09/22 10:09 AM
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I’m a 27 old virgin and considering prostitution. And honestly I feel like the one being exploited by my sexual needs. I’m putting myself in a dangerous spot just to get my dick wet
/r/MensRights06/09/22 02:31 PM
3

I just recently started a friendship with a gay man due to university. I could not have guessed it had he not told me. He looks masculine. I have learned a lot through him about homosexuality. Your new pals will probably learn a lot through you too.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 04:09 PM
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I know such a statement benefits our cause, but that’s very unlikely and taking it too far She probably had some other forms of mental/physical problems. I think she suffered from depression throughout her life.
/r/MensRights03/09/22 04:48 AM
1

Is height really that important in the USA? In my country that standard was never brought up
/r/MensRights02/09/22 02:42 AM
15

Curfew for men. That’s a new one
/r/MensRights26/08/22 09:56 AM
2

I don’t know man. I think environmental factors and social groups are more important than just looks, etc. Although money does make a huge difference. I’m a fairly successful man, 27, graduated from the best high-school and university of my country. Currently getting my master and doctor degree in Japan . Speak 3 languages. Fairly handsome. No smoke, no alcohol, no drugs. Yet I’m still virgin. Women don’t magically fall on my laps. When I walk on the streets (and specially since I’m foreigner), …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/08/22 03:56 AM
1

I’m virgin so I don’t know lol. I just want to fuck someone
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/22 11:35 AM
4

I think that’s exaggerating. She probably suffered from mental problems throughout her life.
/r/MensRights23/08/22 11:53 AM
2

I mean what made her kill herself?
/r/MensRights23/08/22 10:52 AM
2

What was the cause of death?
/r/MensRights23/08/22 10:13 AM
5

Funny thing is when we were discussing, he said that in the past most societies around the world were matriarchal. Somehow they are all patriarchal now. Isnt it weird?
/r/MensRights15/08/22 04:47 PM
12

And how was this patriarchy established? By nature or men?
/r/MensRights15/08/22 10:54 AM
27

I’ve noticed that belief eventually turns into personal attacks. It’s like if by being a man I’m unconsciously perpetuating the patriarchy and I need to change myself.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 10:52 AM
9

This logic of “my body my choice “ sounds illogical to me. Women can’t have a kid without a man. Just because the fetus is in your womb doesn’t make her own it. What would happen if it was the other way around? I’m sure women would be saying they have a right on the fetus.
/r/MensRights15/08/22 03:56 AM
1

If you still feel bad about it you should seek professional help. Sexual abuse trauma is very heavy, and can have life lasting consequences. It’s better to learn to deal with it with professional help.
/r/MensRights14/08/22 07:58 AM
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I think the main problem is that even if man is handsome, women still like being seduced, conquered and all that bullshit. Which is in itself a hassle and work. Only very few, exceptionally handsome men can jump skip that obstacle. But that aside, it really depends on your environment. If you go to towns with low education/poverty, most men there who are not handsome nor rich get their dick wet. Because women there belong to the same social stratus. If you aim for women of higher status it’s def…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 06:03 AM
4

I’m 27 and virgin. I don’t really care about it. Don’t judge yourself for being a virgin. Chances are nothing will change after losing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:46 AM
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She Locked her profile
/r/MensRights22/05/22 04:54 PM
2

Reciprocal love, and then building a successful relationship upon that love is very rare, I think. It exists. But few cases. Most relationships are based on some sort of transaction
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:51 AM
0

The most a woman has approached me is to just stand or sit besides me and wait for me to talk to her. Wow, big approach. By the way, idk if this is different among cultures, but here in my country being “Chad” or handsome has drawbacks that can actually make it harder to get a girl. For example, groups of friends are against you because one of the boys likes the girl who likes you. Or groups of female friends trying to hurt you because you don’t like them back.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:15 AM
2

From my experience the biggest approach a woman will do is to stand/sit at your side, flirt, and expect you to talk. Women never initiate conversation which is the most important part. Many interpret this as the man not being interested, but that’s not always the case. Sometimes the man just doesn’t know what to say, isn’t sure she is really flirting, or in the worst cases she is doing it for fun and not really interested in you. Why can’t women initiate conversation?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/22 12:56 AM
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Great comment. Never though about dating being dehumanizing for men, but it definitely is. And yes, men have constantly on the back of their head that the reason she is dating them is because of their resources.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:12 AM
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I agree with the technology part. As a 27 yo man who only has dated twice, I met them both through the internet first. Which honestly makes me sad. Why can’t I meet women naturally? In my country dating apps aren’t big so it’s not really a factor. But in the US it’s probably a huge factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:10 AM
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I agree with what you said at the end. I’m 27 and now I just want sexual experiences. But when I was in my early twenties I just wanted a girlfriend and a relationship. I think that is was not only age what changed me, but also the fact that building a relationship is so difficult I just gave up. If I can’t have a girlfriend, I might as well just have sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:06 AM
3

I think there are social factors in play that make it difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 10:02 AM
1

From personal experience, social influence is very important when it comes to finding a partner. Many women will date a man just because her friends tell her. For example, my university crush was girlfriend of a professor probably around 10+ years older than her (she was 19) who was fat and bald (aren’t women supposed to like chad)? Why would I then spend time effort at the gym, if looks clearly don’t matter? Years later I saw her dating a good for nothing guy with no presentable appearance. I l…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 10:00 AM
1

You are starting to see reality. I think most men have very different expectations from dating and women for some reason. Thing is most women behave like a hive mind, and they say do what their friends say. Since they have many options and are constantly praised by men, you are just another one for them. I have “dated” only 2 girls in my life, and unless you really like the girl, it is not that fun or exciting. Feels just like going out with a friend rather than a woman. As a man you have to tak…
/r/MensRights11/05/22 07:28 AM
1

Two questions: How do you find sugar babies? How do you know the escorts have no diseases?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/22 10:13 PM
1

Through my university life this is the behavior I noticed the most. Not chad, but the “friend recommendation”. Women will date anyone her friends tell her to, regardless of the characteristics of the man. That is why it’s very common to see very attractive women with very low value men. Because of peer pressure. This man is usually friend or brother of one of her friends. This behavior is one of the things that discourages me the most when looking for a partner. You basically need the approval o…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 11:51 PM
1

I have no problem being single I think, but I do want sex. I am still virgin so I guess that’s a factor. I would like to experiment with multiple types of women, but it’s so hard 😫 I really would like an advice on how to either get pussy or stop wanting pussy lol
/r/MensRights21/04/22 06:49 PM
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I used it and only got matches with trans and ugly women. Not once an attractive girl. Most didn’t reply messages. That shits a torture. I tried to redpill a friend about tinder and he called me a bad influence and bad for his mental health lol. A Tinder simp.
/r/MensRights19/04/22 04:58 AM
4

Could you share videos of him begging her to turn the camera off? Also, I wouldn’t be surprised if she reacted that way on purpose at the Oscars to provoke Will, and make him do something unreasonable to hurt him (which he did). Women like Jada feel no sympathy for their man and manipulate them.
/r/MensRights09/04/22 05:02 AM
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I have had so many opportunities with women who are either married or have boyfriend, it is almost unbelievable. One married woman once touched my face and talked lovey lovey with me at a party before opening the door to her husband. I was right there. Many such similar events with the same woman. Other time a girl with boyfriend was flirting with me, her boyfriend was at her side, and she was making bad faces towards her boyfriend like saying “but this guy is an obstacle”. I feel bad for those …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 03:00 AM
1

What do you mean? Sad how?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:58 AM
3

Out of my league? How can you conclude that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:58 AM
1

I don’t like that kind of environments. I’m sure there are very easy women, but they probably come with diseases too!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:42 AM
3

This one. Sometimes you just can’t help but like someone, even if you rationally understand it’s impossible.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 07:41 AM
4

Russia is using conscripts now? They should have plenty of soldiers for such a small invasion
/r/MensRights05/04/22 07:13 AM
1

What for?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 06:50 AM
1

I want to add that the reason is because the new president was accused of sexual harassment while working in the World Bank. All accusations were basically discarded. Yet feminists groups say we live in a “patriarchy” that oppresses women.
/r/MensRights04/04/22 06:50 AM
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Yes I would go. There are women who intentionally tease you. In addition some men go to the gym with their girlfriends and this can cause trouble too. It’s simply annoying.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 05:17 AM
2

I would shoot my shot if I had any group of friends of social circle but I don’t
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 01:25 AM
7

In the last few years the feminist movement has gained a lot of traction. Maybe not as bad as in other countries, but I get the feeling it will get there eventually
/r/MensRights26/03/22 06:38 PM
1

Compared to other countries of the region it’s not that bad. I think those other countries have higher suicide rates
/r/MensRights26/03/22 04:56 PM
1

Costa Rica.
/r/MensRights26/03/22 04:39 PM
1

Costa Rica
/r/MensRights26/03/22 04:34 PM
10

Costa Rica
/r/MensRights26/03/22 04:31 PM
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Whats the cause for this post?
/r/MensRights25/03/22 05:57 AM
1

There is limited time to experience certain things. Relationships (not necessarily love), and sex, are meant to happen during your youth. If you don’t mind missing on those things, and won’t regret it at old age, then stay as you are. But really can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 03:29 AM
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I’m telling you I was the same. You won’t necessarily change, but when opportunities start becoming slimmer, you might feel the urge to seek either relationships or sex. Unless you don’t feel need as a human being but I doubt it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:58 AM
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I used to be similar to you. Unless I strongly felt attracted to a girl (which happens rarely), I never felt a motivation to either pursue relationships or sex. Specially since they requires so much effort to obtain. But now that I am 26, I realized that I’m getting older. And that eventually it will be very hard to find relationships or sex. You could say that time has beat me, and changed the way I see things. You are 20, but once you start getting older like me, you will understand. Unless yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 02:30 AM
1

I would say it’s pretty normal to talk to people around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 04:00 AM
8

How would you say you broke off the male gender role?
/r/MensRights19/03/22 03:28 AM
2

I agree with the part that going outside and socializing is important. I have been trying to the last few months, but I just can’t. I have no friends to go out with to clubs/bars. Going alone would be weird? I would just randomly sit and walk like a weirdo. Thing is as a man even going out can be difficult. And I know because I have been actively trying (searching on the internet for cultural events for example), bu then again, if you are alone it’s too hard. Idk what to do tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 06:34 PM
1

I had made a post about it recently. Check my post history
/r/MensRights17/03/22 06:03 AM
1

Making it easier to meet people (women) in real life? I just don’t know how/where to meet people. And I’m not gonna go to a club or bar alone since I don’t have friends either. I just need to meet women lol but can’t
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 03:49 AM
3

Are most women worth it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:31 PM
1

I don’t have a revenge fantasy. I simply don’t care. Hatred towards the opposite sex only hurts you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:09 PM
3

Your teachers does not consider the amount of art (statues included) that MEN have dedicated to women through history. Whereas women have dedicated almost no art to us men
/r/MensRights08/03/22 11:12 PM
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Someone made a post about this in a university group and was utterly humiliated and personally attacked. Feminism is like a plague
/r/MensRights02/03/22 11:16 PM
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If she is an old woman she might be different from young women. More understanding and caring.
/r/MensRights20/02/22 07:00 PM
2

I think having hairy legs and ass can be shamed by people
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:43 AM
2

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:59 AM
2

Well i think that’s because women need some sort of emotional connection to sleep with a man even casually. A man just needs to find her attractive enough. For a man it can be annoying to invest time, money and energy just for sex that you might or might not get.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:12 PM
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There are two scenarios: man only feels sexually attracted which means what you said above. Or, he feels something more and wishes to invest time k owing the woman. The latter is more rare though.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 11:01 PM
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I am not socially active. I don’t have groups of friends, male or female, to go out with and meet new people. Wish I could meet more women…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/22 10:49 PM
1

I cant feel pleasure unless she is into it too.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 06:55 PM
2

In my case it’s because I barely meet women, and entering groups made up of women or developing lasting friendships with is very difficult. As a man you not only need to meet some standards, but actively try to show those standards to women and approach. Basically as a man nobody approaches you which makes it very difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/22 05:30 PM
1

Many women do those actions you just described too. No need for a personal attack either, calling me part of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:43 AM
4

You mean like my crush and her friends at college who bullied me for years? I suffered it myself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/22 12:06 AM
0

How would you define pervert?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 09:33 PM
6

What do you do when you see her dating/fucking a man objective inferior to you? What now? It means it’s not about being “good enough” then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 03:04 PM
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Many times is not only rejection, but humiliation and a desire to hurt the man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/22 02:35 PM
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I have noticed the influence of their friends is really important too. If they tell her to fuck you she will
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/22 12:57 AM
3

Honestly loneliness and not enjoying life can be painful and later on fill you with regret. As a 26 year old man who has never had a girlfriend or hook ups, I want them now. I realized that I’m not gonna be young forever and I have to enjoy while I can. I don’t really care anymore about the woman herself, but more about the pleasure they can give me. It’s easier that way.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 06:26 AM
3

I had made a thread similar to this one a few days ago. Indeed female sexuality is celebrated and encouraged. Whereas man’s sexuality is usually frowned upon and harshly judged.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 08:58 PM
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Actually she is right. The boogeyman around the corner waiting to rape you in the middle of the street is a myth.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 03:17 PM
1

I didn’t approach women for a variety of reasons, but the negative consequences is definitely one of them. If you approach a woman and she rejects you, she will go tell her friends and everyone will know. Women like to do this kind of thing. It happened to me, and it developed into years of bullying through my university life. Those people who think the consequence is only embarrassment are very wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 03:12 PM
3

Maybe not never but it definitely doesn’t carry the same consequences
/r/MensRights23/12/21 11:01 PM
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I’ve noticed the same. Women can date whoever they want (older men, rich men, hot men, even ugly men), and don’t you dare judge her. But if you make any move, people look weird to you. Pretty? Out of your league. Older? What a loser, can’t get a younger woman. Ugly? What a loser, can’t get a pretty girl. Just do what you want man. People will judge you either way. But don’t give up! In your case consider a prostitute. Just make sure she doesn’t have STD.
/r/MensRights23/12/21 01:37 AM
2

I’ve noticed women say they want Romeo but end up with the crackhead around the corner. Don’t pay attention to what they say they want.
/r/MensRights13/10/21 07:09 PM
2

I have up years ago. I discovered the hard way women are cruel and mean. Besides approaching women is extremely difficult, and even degrading at times. I’d rather keep my self respect and dignity than chase tail and look like a loser. Women only flirt from afar, and they expect you to get close and speak to them. They can wait all their life cuz I ain’t moving a finger.
/r/MensRights10/10/21 06:04 AM
3

Been there bro. Hate only hurts you. I have mostly become indifferent to women. It is easy, as they don’t approach me either. I still have little contact with a few women, but not much. Don’t expect anything from them, not even the minimum respect towards you as a human being, and you won’t be disappointed.
/r/MGTOW214/07/21 06:31 AM
22

Same here man. University is an eye opener. Full of young women taking advantage of the so called feminism and everyone praising them for it
/r/MensRights12/07/21 05:09 AM
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I am 26 virgin (due to some of reasons you mentioned), but I got a question for those who say it is overrated. Doesnt touching tits, ass, kissing, feeling her warm, hearing her moans, feeling her body, boost the experience? How can you say it is the same to wanking when there is physical contact beyond your dick? Do you not touch her while fucking? Legit question not trolling
/r/MGTOW220/05/21 03:33 AM
8

Happens particularly with video games and anime.
/r/MGTOW207/05/21 07:11 AM
2

I had the same problem but I opted for a “preputioplasty”. It is also a surgery but you keep the foreskin. Unfortunately this procedure is not popular. I literally had to ask the doctor for it since he recommended circumcision. Wishes you had done more research about it
/r/MGTOW207/03/21 03:43 AM
1

My way of contributing is to be vocal about it. Publish opinion on newspapers , internet, forums, etc. But I’ve no interest in joining a specific group.
/r/MGTOW227/02/21 07:46 AM
2

Have you considered working with kids? Or volunteering? Like in a orphanage or school? It may satisfy the need to interact with kids
/r/MGTOW227/02/21 07:33 AM
8

Sounds really rough man. Hang in there
/r/MGTOW223/02/21 08:19 PM
8

It’s not about women joining or not. It’s about the expectation of men going to war.
/r/MensRights14/02/21 06:56 AM
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Yes, but the regardless of the cause, it’s men who die on the battlefield. What would society think if I say women have to give birth to children and stay at home because that’s their nature?
/r/MensRights14/02/21 06:55 AM
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I think it’s fair to say this came from nature, not men per se. In nature it’s always the male who fights/sacrifices himself. Of course wars go beyond gender issues, but someone has to fight them. But who? Men
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:33 AM
13

Cringe
/r/MensRights14/02/21 05:21 AM
6

One have to fight being a nice guy sometimes. Simping is deeply programmed in us. But you can fight it back
/r/MGTOW225/01/21 08:11 AM
1

Thanks. I had many bad experiences with women when I was university. I’m probably going to to Japan next year to study, so I plan on trying with a Japanese woman. But I just don’t want a girlfriend here.
/r/MGTOW213/01/21 06:43 AM
4

Just wondering but isn’t Sweden one of the best countries to live in?
/r/MGTOW209/01/21 07:05 AM
2

Being the only breadwinner is a big responsibility and stressful. Everything relies on you. Better to share the responsibility with the wife
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 11:26 PM
1

I think OP isn’t talking exactly about sex. He is talking more about the emotional connection. About the bond that makes you want to start a family. I’m 25 and virgin too, never had a relationship. Mostly because I don’t go around looking for one. What I can tell you is that with time, it gets easier. Those couples you see are not happy 24/7 as you may think. Focus on your goals. A passion. It is time well invested.
/r/MGTOW203/01/21 10:16 AM
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Completely agree with the attitude of women part of nowadays. I met so many selfish women at college. They straight up lie to the face to many, and feel no remorse whatsoever. Thing is, they aren’t happy either, but won’t let u be happy. Tbh I’d say this behavior is borderline sociopathic. Society encourages it though, as they face no consequences.
/r/MGTOW203/01/21 09:57 AM
4

From my experience there’s no much point trying to approach a woman nowadays. It seems that to have a higher a chance start a relationship with a women, you need friends in common who introduce you. As long as her friends “push” her to be with you, she will
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/20 11:47 PM
2

Economic and social changes will most likely impact your lifestyle directly. Why would you want to disregard them?
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 10:58 PM
1

It’s important to keep yourself updated about the events of the world/country, so I disagree with some here who say they prefer to disconnect. That doesn’t mean that one should let that impact your state of mind.
/r/MGTOW229/12/20 09:48 PM
0

From my experience women first “move” is to flirt with men from afar. The man still has to go and speak to her. Very annoying
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/20 04:31 PM
3

This doesn’t belong here
/r/MGTOW230/11/20 04:04 AM
10

Don’t fight over women is very important. It can have some very nasty consequences
/r/MGTOW230/11/20 03:58 AM
5

Some girls really tempt me when I go to the gym though. I mean I don’t speak to them but I stare sometimes. How can I focus only on my workout? Or is it impossible?
/r/MGTOW229/11/20 01:24 AM
3

First take a deep breath and accept that things won’t change in the blink on eye. No matter if it hurts, just accept it. Ask for help if u need to. Don’t give away your life without asking for help. Go little by little.
/r/MGTOW224/11/20 07:56 PM
1

As someone who has never done it, I don’t really care. Sometimes I feel really attracted to some hot girls, but then I think about all the hair you have to go through to get a chance, and feel discouraged. I’m not the kind of man willing to spend so much resources on getting laid. I also don’t like the idea of escorts so idk if it will ever happen.
/r/MGTOW223/11/20 08:21 PM
1

Professional cuddler? That exists?
/r/MGTOW223/11/20 08:15 PM
11

The more I speak with male friends the more I realize relationships between men and women are on the edge of extinction. Most of them have a negative outlook on relationships, some simply don’t try, some will never marry, etc. The old concepts of love, loyalty, all seem lost. It’s like a maze with no exit, and nobody wants to enter.
/r/MGTOW219/11/20 02:18 AM
9

I’ll wait too. It is always a good idea to doubt Pharma companies. They are rushing it for a quick buck.
/r/MGTOW218/11/20 04:10 AM
3

I wouldn’t fuck an ugly woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/20 05:48 AM
3

I think you should contact your family to avoid being homeless
/r/MGTOW209/11/20 08:07 PM
3

Troll
/r/MGTOW207/11/20 06:57 AM
1

You probably had negative emotions.
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 09:27 PM
3

I have up at the age of 23, I’m 25 now. After having a very bad experience which taught me a lot about the nature of women, and seeing how most relationships fail and how men suffer because of them, I decided I don’t want to be part of it. Why would I go through so much hassle to get a girl if I’ll only suffer afterwards? I never had a relationship and no longer care about it. It now seems like too much trouble and no reward.
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 03:01 PM
1

What do you mean by overwhelming and terrifying?
/r/MGTOW204/11/20 02:56 PM
1

I think the women who are into video games are usually not very physically attractive. Average woman usually spends time talking shit with her friends and going out. Men are usually socially more distant or rather pushed back by society, which is why men look for hobbies inside the house. One being gaming. Basically the differences between the nature of women and men and the way society treats men is the reason
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 08:38 PM
2

Buy the steak, not the whole cow
/r/MGTOW227/10/20 11:30 PM
1

Not to sound pessimistic but taking your own life is also a possibility if your health is too fragile. Someone said: “Living is not necessary, but living with dignity is”.
/r/MGTOW226/10/20 06:09 AM
14

One day I was speaking with a female friend on messenger. I told her that “femicides” do not really exist as nobody kills a woman for being a woman and that society does not support or ignore the murder of women. She said she was going to reply next day. Weeks have passed and she never did.
/r/MGTOW221/10/20 04:20 PM
2

In my case I don’t post anything because I don’t know what to post. I just graduated fro university, looking for a job, play games, self teach Japanese... what am I supposed to post? A picture of my Japanese books? Yes I am going my own way, but I have a normal life. I don’t know how to correlate both things.
/r/MGTOW212/10/20 10:35 PM
3

Completely agree.
/r/MGTOW212/10/20 07:01 AM
2

My case is actually a combination of both, hatred and moving forward. You could say hatred is one of my motivations. It’s complicated
/r/MGTOW205/10/20 11:44 PM
4

Find a language you like and self teach. I self study Japanese and, even though it can be difficult, I really enjoy it.
/r/MGTOW227/09/20 11:47 PM
5

As you yourself said, it is nature. And you will always desire it. Not obtaining it will hurt you a little, but do not let it get to you too much. You have to learn to live with it. As you get older it get easier. Masturbation works as post nut clarity makes you realize you made the right choice.
/r/MGTOW227/09/20 03:46 AM
1

I personally dislike the idea. I think it will make me feel worse afterwards. Would rather stay alone and fap than dealing with existential crisis
/r/MGTOW223/09/20 09:02 PM
3

I’m 25 virgin and I never feel worried about it. I mean sometimes I do, because of what my future first woman would think. But since I see that happening very far from now, idc.
/r/MGTOW222/09/20 10:01 AM
1

Serial killers have mental problems. Which would be the cause itself
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:23 PM
1

People seem to ignore that there are men with mental problems and have grown up in a terrible environment. Most men are incapable of rape and murder. And you yourself said it, they kill them with the purpose of hiding the evidence. Not because they were women specifically.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/20 10:19 PM
1

I see. Well my comment comes from a documentary I had watched. It was about a place in which prostitutes lived, a lot minors. And many women in India, as far as I know, once they get old and can’t sell sex, basically end homeless.
/r/MGTOW216/09/20 05:55 AM
10

Isn’t India famous for being a misogynist country?
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 11:34 PM
1

If you only focus on that you will always be miserable. I think you should accept your situation and find something else that makes you happy. Look at it this way: there are handsome men that are unhappy. Unhappiness can have many sources. Accept yourself and do something else.
/r/MGTOW215/09/20 04:48 PM
6

Even if you get a girl people will still talk. If she is ugly they will tell you to find a 10/10 gf and that you don’t need to be a chad to find one, just be a SIMP lol. And if she is hot people will say she is a gold digger and that you can’t find a girl by being yourself. You can’t win
/r/MGTOW214/09/20 07:57 AM
0

Don’t take it too serious man. I believe that MGTOW will always talk about women as that’s the cause of GYOW. But this sub is for posting more serious discussion or about your life GYOW. You can post that in the other MGTOW.
/r/MGTOW213/09/20 12:28 AM
3

Costa Rica. Radical Feminism has invaded us and women are always seen like the angel victim incapable of doing wrong.
/r/MGTOW212/09/20 04:29 PM
8

That’s some crazy shit. I remember one businessman in my country was order to pay $16 000 a month in child support. He ended up in jail multiple times as he couldn’t afford it. He lost hearing in one of his ears because of a cockroach while in prison. Crazy. Stay single lads
/r/MGTOW211/09/20 03:47 PM
1

I don’t even know
/r/MGTOW209/09/20 07:16 AM
5

Completely agree. It should be a more “mutual” sort of thing. But having to do all the work when you don’t know if it will give results, it’s simply too much work. And sex is not guaranteed to be amazing either (unless she extremely hot I guess). That’s one of the reasons I am virgin at 25 lol
/r/MGTOW206/09/20 06:48 AM
7

I think women were more humble back in the day. Now we have to deal with egocentrism at its peak
/r/MGTOW02/09/20 02:52 PM
16

Recently I lost contact with a female friend because she asked me for help with a homework online. I said no problem, solved the problem and sent her a picture. I told her if she had any questions to go ahead. She didn’t even say thank you. I felt completely used. I deleted her and don’t plan to speak to her if I ever see her IRL.
/r/MGTOW230/08/20 11:09 PM
7

I have never dated, but my reasons are very similar to the ones you guys stopped dating. I just feel it takes too much effort. Going out, faking you care about what they say, etc. Then you may or may not get sex. And even if you get it, doesn’t mean it will be an amazing experience. It may be uncomfortable or simply not worth it. This is why it’s not worth it. Too much effort that may not even pay off.
/r/MGTOW230/08/20 02:22 AM
1

I’m Latin American and the concept of MGTOW is virtually non existent in my country. I’m not white nor do I have any political association. All that talk is just bs.
/r/MGTOW227/08/20 01:39 AM
2

I think many try to GYOW but still feel tempted. Like they want a relationship but since they can’t get it they try to go GYOW. You are kinda right IMO.
/r/MGTOW223/08/20 11:03 PM
3

You should leave her just because of the drugs she used when she was younger. That says a lot about a person. IMO when someone has a lot of sex with a lot of people, it tells a lot. It says that person can’t think beyond instant pleasure. Be it man or woman. I’d say leaver her immediately as being a whore is just one of the many red flags.
/r/MGTOW221/08/20 08:05 PM
1

By sex I mean everything.
/r/MGTOW220/08/20 01:30 PM
2

I am willing to try to have a relationship with a Japanese woman. If they fail me too I’ll stay MGTOW all my life
/r/MGTOW220/08/20 01:27 PM
1

I could get an average looking girl if I wanted but I’m not interested. Not interested in sex either, as I think it takes too much effort and isn’t worth it. If you want to have that option go ahead. I’d rather GYOW.
/r/MGTOW220/08/20 01:24 PM
7

I am a 25 year old virgin too. And I gave up on women too. Bullying from women in university and seeing how other men get destroyed by women, has crushed my desired to be with women. I feel sexual attraction for them, but I don’t act on it. Besides chances are they will just bully me again. I know my parents would like me to have a girlfriend, and I’m kinda sad to disappoint them, but I’d rather stay alone than face hell.
/r/MGTOW220/08/20 12:06 PM
5

It’s all about influence man. You can get any girl if her friends tell her to date you. That’s how it works.
/r/MGTOW218/08/20 05:50 PM
4

In my case I have decided to dedicate my life to science as a researcher. To know that I am making progress towards my dreams and the dreams of millions is really fulfilling. Many scientists through history lived difficult times, and they inspire me. I don’t feel alone. Find a purpose and give your life to it.
/r/MGTOW217/08/20 03:26 AM
2

That must be hard bro. And yes it is unfair. I’d say take it easy for now. Don’t think. It takes time to get used to new and drastic changes, specially like this. When your mind clears try to define a new north.
/r/MGTOW216/08/20 12:08 PM
1

I’m kinda on the same boat tbh. I have never been in a relationship, but I have seen so much that it pushes me back. I’m in like a limbo. I don’t want to go through what other men have, but I’d like to feel the joy of a family. If there is any.
/r/MGTOW216/08/20 01:09 AM
9

I feel somewhat related when it comes to the “be a nice guy with women”. My mom have always told me that and I have been severely bullied by women instead. You have to be a dick if you want to be respected by women. They either fear you or abuse you.
/r/MGTOW12/08/20 05:23 PM
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Even if it’s harder, and more painful, I’d rather be a man. As a man my value is not on being pretty. So instead of having my mind filled with egocentrism and vanities, I can have it filled with science, philosophy, wonders, etc. There is nothing greater than seeing the truth. I prefer that over compliments of my ass.
/r/MGTOW211/08/20 06:33 AM
3

Been there and tbh I could never change my emotions. I just learned to endure it. I have no advice besides this.
/r/MGTOW208/08/20 02:55 PM
1

Vasectomy is a very simple procedure. You don’t need to pay a lot or find a spectacular doctor.
/r/MGTOW207/08/20 10:32 PM
4

In my country most people don’t really talk about marriages. Most marriages fail anyway so they aren’t like a “sacred” thing. Honestly nowadays when a family member gets married I expect the marriage to fail eventually. Marriages don’t last anymore
/r/MGTOW207/08/20 10:16 PM
1

Prostitution is definitely not the same experience
/r/MGTOW207/08/20 05:33 AM
18

What if you could be happier with female interaction? I ask this not with the intention of contradicting our statement, but because of physiological reasons. Idk if you know, but our bodies are literally made to respond to human contact. The touch of someone else makes wonder to our body and psyche. I ask this as an honest question. Lacking the touch of the opposite sex is like wasting your body potential to feel good.
/r/MGTOW206/08/20 05:03 AM
10

I used it for a few weeks and it was terrible. Besides it being a scam specially for men, I only got 5 matches: 2 were transexual (I didn’t know), 1 never replied my first message, the other deleted me after I sent the first message, and the other one lived 350 km from me (probably a tourist). That said I didn’t put much effort in my profile but idc tbh.
/r/MGTOW231/07/20 06:32 AM
1

I started becoming redpilled around 20 perhaps? Maybe a little later. I’m 25 now. After several bad experiences with women, and looking at many other men suffering and sacrificing for women, I started to notice a pattern. That changed my view on women and became MGTOW. Unfortunately I have no sexual experience and still crave for women, but I try to control it.
/r/MGTOW223/07/20 06:16 PM
9

I don’t understand the point of nofap. Masturbation is normal and a necessity. Just don’t do it too much. Controlling the sexual desire for women is very difficult and I’d say impossible. The only thing you can do is stay away from them. It’s a battle you can’t win.
/r/MGTOW219/07/20 07:03 PM
1

In my case I had a crush on a girl of university. She and her friends bullied me for years. That opened my eyes and made me see the nature of women. Well, that and a lot of things more.
/r/MGTOW208/07/20 06:03 PM
1

Late reply but I think GYOW doesn’t mean loneliness. To the contrary, it is an option to meet people. Join clubs, practice sports, go to meetings of topics that interest you, etc. Sharing time with people is one of the things that make people the happiest.
/r/MGTOW205/07/20 10:33 PM
-4

I have never understood why some people say Japanese women are some of the worst. I have some Japanese female friends, and they are all very respectful. The complete opposite of the women in my country.
/r/MGTOW14/06/20 06:59 AM
1

What’s the movie?
/r/MGTOW05/06/20 10:27 PM
1

Dont do it bruh. Never give up your dignity for a woman.
/r/MGTOW24/05/20 08:40 PM
1

Name of the video?
/r/MGTOW20/05/20 06:38 AM
1

Werent those rumors?
/r/MGTOW20/05/20 03:39 AM
4

Indeed I think concepts like love are looked down upon nowadays. It became a myth, something that belongs to novels. If you are a man people will think you are a fagot.
/r/MGTOW19/05/20 03:13 AM
0

what is AWALT
/r/MGTOW14/07/18 12:00 AM
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