One of the past threads made me want to share something that I think we most know deep inside or somehow noticed.

While women can express their sexuality freely and openly, and nobody judges them (to the contrary, praise them) men are harshly judged. This leads to discrimination, bullying, pushing men to solitude, low self esteem, self blaming, etc.

Women can date whoever they want (older men, rich men, hot men, even ugly men), and don’t you dare judge her. People praise her.

But if a man makes any move (which ironically is expected from you) people start judging you. Pretty? Out of your league. Older? What a loser, can’t get a younger woman. Ugly? What a loser, can’t get a pretty girl. She rejected you? You must be pathetic, learn to talk to girls (but if you reject a woman they call you faggot).

One girl of my university uploaded a picture with a man on a bed showing her nipples with piercings. Hundreds of likes and commentaries in the picture. Society enables this behavior to women. But what if it was a man?

We are expected to “conquer” women yet if we fail we are humiliated. Such a dilemma.