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Seems like she liked you right off the bat True. It's upsetting, but it seems as though this is basically always the case when someone gets laid, which is why most people think 'it's all about looks', I guess But still, good job on not screwing it up, OP
/r/seduction30/03/17 01:58 PM
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lots of guys send dic pics, so the girls know who's packing and where to find good dick
/r/seduction23/03/17 11:48 AM
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can you send me your face when you're done with it! :)
/r/seduction23/03/17 11:47 AM
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This isn't a million miles away from what my approaches look like, although I never have success, lol. Usually she is VERY cold from the open and everything I say is met with confusion as to why I am talking too her, even if I've already told her that I saw her sitting there and wanted to say hi! I think it's just that MOST UK people find cold approach so weird! Some girls LITERALLY don't talk back! Now, on the rare occasions where I meet a more receptive girl, I tend to struggle to sexualise it…
/r/seduction22/03/17 08:58 PM
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I think you're dead-right about my main mistake being to try to engage her in a conversation when she was on the dancefloor. In hindsight, it's quite embarrassing! I was partly 'thrown off' as my brother noticed these girls, and he actually advised me to use that opener (her dress was ridiculous in fairness) and I just didn't realise that it wasn't very socially aware of me to do that on the dancefloor and just ploughed ahead taking his advice! But at the same time, I do often see guys approach …
/r/seduction22/03/17 03:08 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yxYIyUbpcvM
/r/seduction21/03/17 07:03 PM
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There's a guy on youtube who gets laid all the time from his daygaming in places like Target
/r/seduction21/03/17 08:45 AM
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I imagine most of them lays came from his travelling. Especially since he mentioned Asia (and if he's white!). Hard to fail over there. And People can get laid with traveller girls super easily since they are on 'party/experiment mode'. He's also probably fairly handsome
/r/seduction21/03/17 08:42 AM
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thanks
/r/seduction20/03/17 01:57 PM
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I'm sure if you held on to that enthusiasm and kept it playful the conversation could've gone on a little bit longer. But I still have no clue as to what I should have followed it up with? What I should have said in order to 'keep it playful'?
/r/seduction20/03/17 01:12 PM
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I actually agree with you. Lots of men think they are 'good in bed' and brag about it, as if they have some sort of secret technique. But there's only so much you can do with your cock. You can't make it do backflips or anything. If you ask girls what makes a guy 'good in bed', it's always things to do with passion, dominance, eye contact, foreplay etc. Never about the actual penetration which is the bit most guys worry about being 'bad' at. End of the day, all guys basically fuck the same! Ever…
/r/seduction19/03/17 04:51 PM
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give us a transcript of the convo from open to number
/r/seduction22/02/17 09:19 AM
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Did the mdma improve your 'game' a lot like some people claim it does? Just by making you super social, no anxiety etc?
/r/seduction22/02/17 08:34 AM
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“I don’t know what to say” syndrome is an excuse. With all the limitless YouTube vids, ebooks, and online courses covering “What to say to girls” there is no excuse. Actually, I don't think there is much out there on 'what too actually say'. There's lots of openers and stuff, but when it comes to conversation topics, what to talk about after you have opened etc, there's not a great deal out there - especially since the move towards 'natural game'. Often after I open a girl in a bar and say 'hi',…
/r/seduction07/02/17 09:35 PM
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This is me. My friends all think i'm crazy when I approach absolutely stunning girls in bars! After I get rejected, they're all like ''You're crazy! Girls like that can choose the best looking guys or even celebrities! Aim lower!!'' But personally, sex with a girl who I don't find that attractive isn't that much better than indulging in good porn, personally!!
/r/seduction07/02/17 11:29 AM
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Oh. OK. But your example was an example of what I could have said to follow on from my previous sentence. I still am none-the-wiser as to what I am supposed to say after I open a girl to start a 'fun' conversation and not bore her. Thanks for replying, though.
/r/seduction07/02/17 12:01 AM
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give me 4 examples or something of 'fun'/'emotional' things to say after you open you've just opened a girl and said ''hi'. She's said 'hi' back. GO!!!!
/r/seduction06/02/17 11:02 PM
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haha. Last got laid 8 months ago. And again about 2 year before that. And again about 3 years before that! So i'm gonna say 'no' :)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/17 08:41 AM
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Learn game Surely everyone here has already studied game? Certainly people with some sort of posting history here. I myself am around 600 approaches in with very little joy, but I've bought 2 programs and read 9 pickup books, so I don't think I need to learn yet more game. I'm not sure there's many other books worth reading? I think for a fair few of us, it's the Philippines or nothing!! :)
/r/seduction02/02/17 10:24 PM
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Yes Sir.
/r/seduction02/02/17 09:14 PM
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Do you disagree with the following quote in this thread from user 'kaloliklo' out if interest? looks: they are not everything but they are very significant to girls - looks count for 30%, status 30% and how good your game is counts 40% pretty much. You strike me more as a game is like 99& kind of a guy?
/r/seduction02/02/17 06:36 PM
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I'm 30. I don't have much of an education. Tried hard in school, but lacked the intelligence to get good grades. I just have a manual labour job. I'm fairly short and not great looking facially, but I work out and dress well However, from everything I read about 'game' (including the mods here on seddit) NONE of that SHOULD matter when it comes to getting girls. Regarding expression, it's actually something I've thought about before since I've been told (though never by a girl i'm trying to pull…
/r/seduction02/02/17 06:06 PM
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but not the more recent ones such as natural game, getting her to invest in you, making her chase you, qualification. Hi. I've paid for a number of the more recent game programs (not just the older stuff) such as RSD Max's 'the natural' product in which he speaks about makin her chase etc, so i'm kind of aware of those principles. I did see Max make girls chase in some of his infields in his product, but this only happened when SHE was the one who was clearly the most attracted immediately upon …
/r/seduction02/02/17 05:44 PM
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Focus on getting laid by using all the cards you have at your disposal I think that's what i'm already doing, though? Focus on getting laid rather than getting attraction Not sure I understand that. How does one get laid if the girl isn't attracted to him?
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:58 PM
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Is it possible that they were all varying degrees of 'no girls' (as Mark Manson puts it) and that there was nothing I could do to change their minds?
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:56 PM
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converstation/topic/question examples of engaging the emotional side? I never know what 'I'm supposed to be actually saying (although I do read that what you say does not matter, but that it's how you say it?)
/r/seduction02/02/17 01:07 PM
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Well I approach young, hot girls in bars and clubs. (i'm older than them) I'd say that out of that 600, about 300 of them have been instant rejections so we can almost write them off. I could maybe open with an observation about something they are wearing, or a question about their drink, or maybe i'd go direct and be like ''Hey, you're cute. I'm xxx'' etc etc But with the girls who reject you instantly, it doesn't seem to matter how you open. I guess they are just superficial and so if you aren…
/r/seduction02/02/17 12:32 PM
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Hi. I only do night game, so not really sure an instadate would work. I try to go for a same night lay, and failing that a number to set up a date. I've managed to get maybe 5 numbers amongst them approaches, but never a reply. I don't have much 'social proof' I guess, as the guys that I go out with are probably about as unsuccessful as me. However, I understood that with game, none of that stuff (good looks, money, social proof etc) mattered
/r/seduction02/02/17 12:01 PM
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It's not magic. It's not as complicated as you guys make it out to be. Interesting convo between you two. Good to see you both keep it civil, too! So as someone who is also not very handsome and, like you, short, could you tell me your simplified 'game 101' (since you say it's not complicated) for someone like me who has read lots of game books and made rather a lot of approaches now, but can't seem make girls sexually attracted to me. Basically feels like game doesn't seem to work for me. In th…
/r/seduction02/02/17 11:56 AM
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maybe go into a routine? If it's a choice between a routine that she might find amusing and just standing there not knowing what to say or just asking interview questions, I think maybe routines win. Open. tell her she's cute (I know the guy above me said not too, but about 90% of pua's open like that, so it must be fine to do). And ask her if she saw some fictitious fight you just saw or pretend to recognise her from tinder or something - Use that everytime you go out for 2 months and see if it…
/r/seduction16/11/16 11:45 AM
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what do you feel as though you've learnt? what skills? When you were 'clueless' with women, what were you doing wrong, and how would you describe what you do now?
/r/seduction15/11/16 10:01 PM
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Yes, and that was my concern when I watched him. There was definitely positives, because it was hard to deny that she was enjoying the conversation, and also didn't disappear on him after it was clear that he was into her which I guess is a good thing. But at the same time, like I said in the OP, i'd be worried thinking ''OK, she thinks i'm fun and stuff, but what do I have to do in order to do what is required to get her to want me to bang her!!?'' The reason is that recently, I feel as though …
/r/seduction15/11/16 07:12 PM
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Yeah, I guess you're right there. So we can agree that the 'tell me how you got so pretty' line WAS bad!? In fact, I can actually imagine that 'noobthoughts' guy who posts his videos here say something like that as he lays on the cheesy compliments very thick, and he supposedly DOES understand the ideas and structure of game since it's his life and livelyhood. I guess there'll always be differences of opinions on what's actually 'correct'
/r/seduction15/11/16 07:01 PM
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Interesting that you think he has game - I mean, I guess I thought he had game, too, but i'm very confused at the moment since I read so much conflicting info about what 'game' should look like etc But what about the bits where I think he seemed over keen (even though he kind of seemed to be aware that it was over-the-top/cringey) such as ''tell me how you got so pretty'' and ''tell me everything about you!'' I'd have thought ''tell me how you got so pretty'' is BAD game, considering I mainly re…
/r/seduction15/11/16 06:54 PM
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I'm sure he does fine and I'd be skeptical if he said he didn't read blogs or news feeds like seddit. He could have been a good actor, but he seemed to have absolutely zero idea as to what I was talking about when I mentioned a few bits and pieces about 'pickup'. To be honest, when everyone was all over PUA stuff in the US back in the mystery method days, basically NOBODY was even aware of it in the UK, so it's possible he's telling the truth. I bet people could run MM game on UK girls using all…
/r/seduction15/11/16 06:36 PM
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There is no correct way to game. There are many many ways. But at the same time, surely what you say is important, too (despite the 'what you say doesn't matter, it's how you say it' mantra). We communicate with language. Imagine the following conversation in a bar Guy: ''Hi'' girl: ''Hi'' Guy: ''how are you?'' Girl: ''Errr...i'm Ok. Guy: ''how is your night going?'' Girl: OK Guy: I think you're very pretty Girl: OK. thanks Guy: Would you like to dance? Girl: No thanks Guy: What do you do for fu…
/r/seduction15/11/16 06:26 PM
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I think I went wrong in this area the other night. I was having a conversation with a girl at the bar. SHe seemed to like me. Was laughing at me when I teased her. She 'opened up' to me and told me some personal stuff and I was touching her a bit I thought ''Ok, she seems into me'', and then I thought ''OK, time to get her to chase me'' and I kind of purposely acted slightly aloof thinking....and then she disappeared, never to be seen again!! lol
/r/seduction15/11/16 10:30 AM
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I get that, but you're kind of doing what everyone else does, which is tell me what NOT to talk about, without telling me what I SHOULD say/talk about directly after I open a girl. Give me some ideas.
/r/seduction14/11/16 09:39 PM
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nice. Give us a 'mini field report' :)
/r/seduction14/11/16 02:40 PM
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But it seems as though most books seem to suggest it's fine to ask about their job and stuff (especially in the form of assumptions) and to enquire about their night, but whenever I do it, people tell me ''Don't talk about work and stuff. it's boring.'' Give me some more examples of what to talk about after I open, other than asking about their drink so that I have a small list in my head that I can memorise
/r/seduction14/11/16 12:43 PM
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I need to convince them with game Give me a basic rundown in how you do this. I'm interested in your definition of game.
/r/seduction12/11/16 12:28 PM
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I've experienced the same issues. Although, I unlike you, it happens to me in bars, too. It's worse when the interaction is fairly short. Say you've been talking too a girl for 5mins and you've maybe touched her arms a few times. And a few minutes after she leaves. Sometimes I think ''Damn. Maybe if I had have just told her that I think she's cute I would have at least have had a shot! Did she even know I liked her? Too late now!''
/r/seduction11/11/16 08:58 PM
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thanks. You have at least put a little meat on the bone. How do YOU adapt your game based on what type of person is in front of you? How long does it take you to figure out what type of person they are? Do you speak to them as if you had no sexual interest in them, find out that her father left her when she was young, and then think ''Ahh,,,,daddy issues! Tell her how special I think she is''! (or be mean to her.....whatever the correct gameplan is for them sorts of girls)?
/r/seduction11/11/16 04:57 PM
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I was expecting a different story entirely, lol. Doesn't sound like you were 'aggressive' at all?! At least to me! You simply suggested going out for a drink. Maybe you read her signals wrong and she's not into you 'like that'?? Or she really does have some crazy hectic busy lifestyle? Other than kino and eye contact, how have you been 'gaming' her would you say?
/r/seduction11/11/16 02:09 PM
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I struggle with this idea, too. The idea sometimes reads like if you build up the kino and stuff, then it just 'happens', but in reality, it's rarely like that. Sometimes you're touching her and stuff, maybe struggling to move the conversation to something more sexual instead of talking about computers where it might feel weird to kiss her, almost waiting for a moment where she looks at you and you both kind of 'feel it' and it never happens. Sometimes you wonder whether you did something wrong …
/r/seduction10/11/16 03:09 PM
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