Was reading a thread earlier and as is common, the 'do looks matter' topic came up.

That naturally lead to 'it's all about confidence - looks don't matter' stuff, and then, most of the posters were saying ''Looks matter, but they are easily compensated by SKILL

Here's the thing, though. Where's the 'skill'?

From what I read here, it's basically all about 'inner game'. Getting lots of hobbies and a well paid job etc, and the girls will be hunting you down.

I also often read ''when talking to a girl, what you actually say doesn't matter''

Putting them two ideas together, where exactly is the 'skill'? How does skill come into it? Give examples of skillfull 'game'