TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

m0llywobbles Archive

View 2 posts and 81 comments by m0llywobbles on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
31

FIELD REPORTm0llywobbles/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 06:40 AM
16

FIELD REPORTm0llywobbles/r/RedPillWives30/04/16 02:32 AM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
6

I like hobbies that involve learning some skills. I have lots of stuff I do on the internet--fanfiction, reddit, moderating a Facebook fertility group, group leader-ing a private Bible study Facebook group. But I also cook (like, enthusiastically and for fun in addition to providing sustenance), just recently picked up a sewing machine and took that up again, do counted cross stitch, make knotted rosaries, have a planner/journal that I really enjoy playing with, make hand-stamped cards, spend ti…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/17 02:06 PM
1

So was I, I think?
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 06:41 AM
1

Nobody said don't do those things. What I said was that since my goal was a particular thing, I focused on that. I enjoy cooking because it's just my hobby at this point. I enjoy homemaking because I like being in a clean, cozy environment. I have friends, hobbies, education. I am constantly looking for new ways to challenge myself, and I have a good social support system. I enjoy my pets and being outside, and I am generally good at occupying my time. I'm not catering myself to my husband becau…
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 02:22 AM
3

I guess that depends on what you want to do, though. My vocation is wifehood, so all of those things being a primary focus even when I was single was actually pretty important. I got very lucky in many ways, but even the stuff I was working towards then was about building the future home life that I wanted to have.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/17 12:12 AM
2

Our family motto is, "Fight for together". We borrowed it from a vlog series that I really like, but it stands for a lot and is excellent shorthand for refocusing when there are hard decisions to be made.
/r/RedPillWives16/03/17 01:52 AM
2

I know we say there is 'one holy catholic church' This actually refers to the universality of the church--despite the schism, this particular phrase of the apostles creed acknowledges our unity in Christ. Just FYI!
/r/RedPillWives16/03/17 01:17 AM
3

To the best of your ability, try to find out if prioritizing certain things would help. The chores that my husband most hates doing are usually the ones that he wants done the most often, so throughout times when I don't have as much energy/gumption/spoons to get through everything on my list, I balance with what needs to be done most (animal care, cooking) with what he likes to have done most often (clean bathroom, laundry easily manageable).
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/17 12:40 AM
2

It literally depends on goals. For men, not committing does tend to get them more of what they want. If they can get a plate to give them sex and relationship benefits without having to pay in, why wouldn't they? For women, having sex and giving relationship benefits without a relationship is decreasing their value for long-term prospects. It used to be a fairly mutual situation, where men could expect wife benefits from a wife and were more or less guaranteed long-term benefit because the syste…
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/17 07:12 PM
4

Husband stayed home today and got the inspection on our car updated, which was almost a year overdue. Hallelujah for not being concerned about getting pulled over anymore! I've been investing more time into cooking, and I'm finally starting to feel like the payoff is real. Even when I throw together something that's pretty casual, I feel good about what I'm serving to my family. I'm really grateful to have a supportive partner and the time and space to do that. Nanny job started this month, and …
/r/RedPillWives28/02/17 08:41 PM
2

General daily schedule: morning--start laundry. make breakfast/lunch, pack backpack, lay out work clothes for husband. Either feed the baby or put her down for her first nap depending on what she was doing when we got her from her parents. Pay bills, when applicable. Check planner, take care of personal paperwork. (To do lists, reminders, charting.) afternoon--do any applicable dinner prep when baby goes down for lunchtime nap. Declutter/general pick up, switch laundry. Pack Husband's gym bag. D…
/r/RedPillWives27/02/17 06:21 PM
3

It depends on what you're looking for! Meal planning? Daily rhythm? Etc.
/r/RedPillWives27/02/17 01:23 PM
1

We chart for birth control. By virtue of that, he ends up knowing and understanding quite a lot--from roughly how long my period typically lasts to what "peak day" means in the context of both my BBT, cervical fluid, and the monitor we use. I'm not sure all of that is necessary for him to know, but because it impacts our life on a day-to-day basis, it's easier for me to be able to speak to him fairly plainly.
/r/RedPillWives22/11/16 02:26 AM
1

Being busy with life isn't an intentional demotion of your spouse. Yep, and that's kind of the problem. If you're not intentionally prioritizing your spouse, you're intentionally prioritizing other things. And if you don't put that time, emotional/physical energy, and effort into your relationship, it's going to stagnate and eventually stop being a relationship. This is why people get divorced when their kids go to college.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/16 01:16 PM
1

Plan so that the things that are most important are the things that automatically get done. Can't stand being behind on laundry? Get into a routine that encourages you to do a load of laundry as often as you need. (For my house, this works out to about 1 load of laundry a day, once you factor in towels/throw rugs, bedding, and animal linens.) Have problems consistently pulling off dinner? Do meal prep Sunday, and once a month prep 3-5 freezer meals that you can put in your slow cooker/skillet fo…
/r/RedPillWives12/10/16 12:54 PM
1

Certainly! Anything in particular you'd like me to talk about?
/r/RedPillWives11/10/16 10:00 PM
1

We switched to charting because hormones turn me into a bitch. I don't like who I am on hormones, he doesn't like who I am on hormones. Worth learning to chart to avoid that.
/r/RedPillWives06/10/16 02:49 AM
5

Essential oils. I use rosemary and lemon in my cleaning supplies because it smells earthy and homey and fresh.
/r/RedPillWives26/09/16 09:47 PM
1

I get a lot more emotionally unstable on hormonal birth control, so we chart using the Marquette method of natural family planning.
/r/RedPillWives18/06/16 09:10 PM
3

DoYouYoga and DoYogaWithMe are also excellent resources with at least some free material available. DoYouYoga has some paid programs, but they're designed as followable programs. DoYogaWithMe is a little less structured (although they do have some recommendations for program ideas you could follow) but has more free material available.
/r/RedPillWives13/05/16 03:46 AM
3

We've been together 3 years as of this Wednesday. By the end of year 1 we would shower together but use the toilet separately ahead of time. Then he started peeing with me behind the shower curtain, the the reverse happened. Then we moved into a house with roommates and 1 bathroom, so sometimes it's a little busy in there. I like my shower time so he started coming in for bathroom reasons while I showered, and then it progressed from there. I use the Marquette method of NFP, which (in part) mean…
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 03:38 PM
3

I avoid farting in front of him whenever possible; I excuse myself when it does happen. We've gone from being the most prude relationship I've ever had (we didn't even shower together until we'd been together almost a year; we never EVER talked about bathroom business). I don't know when all of this started changing, but now our morning routine is me joining him in the bathroom while he finishes his morning constitution and then me taking my bathroom time--including peeing in a cup in front of h…
/r/RedPillWives25/04/16 01:11 PM
2

There have been times I wish I'd had some experiences, but they are all things that occurred before I met my fiance. I really wanted to go to college, but the funding didn't work out for me, and there are times I wish I'd had that experience...but honestly, I'd be in a lot more debt with probably not a lot of benefit, since I'm a happy stay-at-home-future-wife right now and will probably be a SAHM in the future. I get an insane amount of joy out of making my home homey, preparing meals, successf…
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/16 03:39 AM
2

Getting up before my SO gives me time to shake out some of the morning grump. When I wasn't working, I'd get up and get his work clothes/lunch together while he was in the shower so that I had time to get my head on straight before we did a lot of interacting.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/16 11:33 PM
2

Yes, I use it on my eyes. I just keep my eyes shut and use a little bit on my fingertips, rub it all over, and then wipe off with a hot microfiber cloth before moving on to my next step. Hope that helps!
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/16 10:17 PM
2

Supplements This prenatal, which contains probiotics and red raspberry leaf tea in addition to normal the normal prenatal mix An extra 1000mg dose daily of vitamin D, since I am chronically deficient and live in an area that makes it difficult to get enough sunlight exposure. Skincare Currently working on refining my routine. Right now I use coconut oil as a makeup remover, followed by jojoba oil with lavender and rosemary EO and rose absolute. This is, by far, the best thing I've found for clea…
/r/RedPillWomen17/01/16 05:06 PM
2

I use the Caya diaphragm in conjunction with FAM. I know you mentioned FAM as not a good fit for you, but a diaphragm, the sponge, or a cervical cap might be!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/16 05:21 PM
1

Loosely Christian although technically Catholic. Not really motivated by religious reasons, although I find the guidance of a lot of the religious-centered RP ideas helpful.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/15 08:42 PM
3

Do your cooking at home. Yes, it takes time, effort, and creates more clean up. I average 2-4 hours in the kitchen on a weekday between breakfast prep before my fiance leaves for work/packing his lunch, cleaning, making and serving dinner, and cleanup after dinner. I've learned to love it and use it as a way to unwind--music or a podcast, intermittent playtime with the cats, taking pride in what I do. It can easily cost $30/night to eat out; I generally keep dinner around $10-$15 for three peopl…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/15 03:34 AM
7

Kitchen: Actually meal plan, and schedule your meals in things that require similar ingredients. Ex: BBQ chicken pizza and pulled chicken in the crock pot in the same week, then work on what you'll know you'll have left over from making meals (eg. half a bag of shredded cheese, breadcrumbs, etc) and work on meals that also require those things. Keep lunch making supplies together (I have that routine down to about 10 minutes a night).
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 11:41 PM
7

This is what RPW always comes down to--I have some chronic health issues (food allergy, mental health problems) and it impacts my day to day life and my relationship. The red pill part of it is where you don't use it as an excuse to be self-centered, overly needy, etc.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/15 03:18 AM
10

You do what you can, withing your capabilities. You find ways to love him, you minimize your hamster as much as possible, you stay aware of the way your disease affects his life as well as yours. You give him opportunities to take breaks from taking care of you when possible and necessary. You take care of your physical features as much as possible. You take care of domestic things when it's possible and appropriate.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/15 02:02 AM
8

We've only been over for a little over 2 years and I didn't think there was a rush. If what she wants out of life is marriage and kids, you're wasting her time by playing "wait and see" when she's on a very real deadline. She would try her hardest to please me and she never seemed entitled. She was supportive, and would do all the wifey duties when we were together and it was wonderful. So you want all the benefits of a wife, be able to waste her time and decrease her value without having to mak…
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/15 08:32 PM
0

This doesn't sound emotionally abusive to me. It sounds like this is how he tries to have fun with her. He's not insulting her, controlling her or her social interactions, or her financial situation. Some teasing is fun and even pretty normal in a relationship. If she's feeling hurt enough that she feels abused, she should talk to him about that, but it doesn't sound like he's crossed that line to me.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 04:57 PM
1

"I'm spending my time and energy on the things that are important to me. I see marriage and my home life as the most important."
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 03:49 AM
7

How did you ladies remind yourself in the moment or to stay in this frame for longer than just sitting here reading RPW? I pick one thing to work on a week and focus on that. First was meal planning--although I'm relatively flexible with it (ex: he orders out when he has the craving for something specific), I have all of the meal planning done so that every day of the week, I can take care of breakfast, lunch, and dinner. I've instituted a daily cleanup routine and a schedule of what I take care…
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 03:43 AM
4

Cleaning, cooking and taking care of yourself aren't man/women things.. They are adult things. It depends on other factors, though. My fiance works, so I take care of the house. No exceptions. He doesn't do laundry, cook, sweep, take care of dishes, etc. The only thing I ask him to do around the house is make sure all of his trash/dishes/snacks get taken out of the office and put away. Everything else is my jurisdiction.
/r/RedPillWomen07/02/15 03:26 AM
1

Put this on my laptop, as it's the best reminder I've seen in a long time. Being a soft place to land is such a good analogy and encompasses so much.
/r/RedPillWomen26/01/15 08:49 PM
15

On one hand, I get the appeal. It's nice to feel wanted. On the other hand, the downsides have never seemed worth the trade off--I'd rather work hard on what's important and end up in a LTR with someone worthwhile than decrease my eventual value by doing things that are temporarily fun--because it does end up being hollow and shallow, and there's a good chance that when you do meet a worthwhile man, he will judge you for it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 06:52 AM
15

Aw, c'mon, don't random hookups make you feel empowered? /s
/r/RedPillWomen08/12/14 05:31 AM
11

Are you talking about sex or in general? I'm not always in the mood for sex, but I am always open to being in the mood for sex. I would never push him away if he starts making advances--he knows how to get my motor running, and I've never felt like that was time wasted. It's a wonderful bonding experience for us, we both feel better afterwards, there are health benefits, and it is one of the ways to show that I love him. He's not the kind of man to approach me if I'm very sick or otherwise serio…
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/14 03:27 AM
1

I follow TFAB for exactly the opposite reason--I use NFP, and I've found following other people's charts to be hugely informative.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/14 02:43 AM
2

I told him I am not interested in being spanked or him being more dominant. So you're not willing to experiment with him sexually. He would want me to be some 50s housewife so after fights about housework we hired a maid that comes 2 times a week. You don't really talk about what you have to offer your relationship. The RPW approach is not about being "broken", it's about bringing all of the good things you possibly can to a relationship. In general, those things include sexual openness and dome…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/14 08:46 PM
1

There's a lot of unhealthy things going on in this scenario, but as far as this: "Why should I keep my mouth shut?! Me talking to him and letting him know wtf he's not doing is the only way he's going to grow the crap up!" It's not working for you so far. There are obviously some other issues that need to be addressed, but this approach a) is perpetuating the cycle and b) doesn't even come close to improving things for you.
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/14 04:00 AM
5

The manner in which you interact with your boyfriend/husband both in public and private shapes a significant part of your dynamic; and the mentality that women can say and do whatever they want and men just have to put up with it is really destructive. This, this, this. A thousand times this. I've watched my biological mother be in a terrible, abusive relationship for the majority of my life, and while physical abuse is never okay, I also find it abhorrent that she wants to pretend she has no pa…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 07:23 PM
1

Unfuck Your Habitat. It's not strictly RP, which is sad, but it has fantastic cleaning advice and a really good strategy for building good habits.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 10:26 PM
3

My current biggest focus is working on my insecurity. I do much better when I submit to him and trust in the process of being his girl, but when I start feeling like I need to control things in order to keep my relationship operating at optimal levels, I immediately slip back into stressing out about all of the things that could possibly go wrong. Trusting him when he says that we're going to be fine and focusing on the things I can do to keep us happy is enough to keep me busy. Right now focusi…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 10:23 PM
1

If you don't know about it, the Unfuck Your Habitat tumblr is an amazing resource for building good housekeeping habits. It obviously can't do the work for you, but their base ideas (small bursts of cleaning, putting things away as soon as your done with them, making your bed daily, unfucking your morning as much as possible) have already made huge differences for me.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 10:19 PM
3

We are both very into gaming. We do a lot of tabletop RPGs together, some board gaming, and we like to pick out video games to go through together, which mostly involves me watching him play and getting to enjoy the story without having to participate in the combat. We both write and share our work with each other, sometimes even prompting each other on things. We also have separate hobbies--I love audiobooks and podcasts, rubber stamping and card-making, cooking, and gardening.
/r/RedPillWomen07/07/14 12:18 AM
1

Apparently it means "grandmother" so I totally get why it's a little weird.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 01:13 AM
1

It makes me smile that someone else has "bubby". Everyone always thinks that one is weird, I think it's cute.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 01:01 AM
1

He calls me sweetie, honey, baby, bubby, lovey, lovey-dove, and sweetie-B (a play on sweet pea). He's baby, bubby (or bubs), love, or lovey. Bubby and lovey are probably my favorites. I don't really know how they started. He does tell me when I'm being a "good girl" or he will get all cute and go "Who's my good girl?!" but it's not really a nickname. Occasionally I get baby girl and that makes me melt all over the place.
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 12:59 AM
3

The biggest thing that works for me, besides doing my very best to separate my feelings from expectations of behavior, is the Five Love Languages. I already had a lot of domestic experience because of how I grew up, and while there is still room for me to improve in that area, it's less concerning than other behaviors I had when I was younger. The love languages gave me two important things: The idea that love is always a choice, but not always necessarily a feeling. You can choose to act loving…
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 10:45 AM
2

"Why should this article only be about what women can do in their relationship?! THEY ARE OBVIOUSLY IMPLYING THAT WOMEN ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR THE ENTIRE HAPPINESS OF A RELATIONSHIP." No. No, that's just the topic of this article. Sometimes a person writes an article, and when they do so, they pick a topic for it. And then they write on that topic. It's craziness, I know.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/14 08:58 AM
3

that it only focused on women Yes. It only focuses on women. That's okay! There's no magic article about how to make someone else do something because that's not possible or healthy! You can't control what someone else does, but you can control what you do. What's to be lost by doing your part? I hate that argument. It's the biggest one I hear and it kills me because it doesn't really make any sense. Why would someone write an article about how to make your husband like you more? Why wouldn't yo…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/14 08:32 AM
1

I've read the first page and it's interesting enough that I'm considering checking it out for $3.99, especially because a devotional would be nice for me right now. I'll let you know how it goes.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/14 08:29 AM
2

I would post this on Facebook if I didn't think people in my life would see it as an attack. Damn that's sad when all of this SHOULD be common courtesy. "Be nice to him, don't tear him down, grass is greenest where it's watered..." I mean, none of it is rocket science.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/14 08:29 AM
3

On the assumption that most of you ladies are dating/married to RP men, do your men treat you like children? How does it work? Yes and no. Clear as mud, right? In general, I make my own decisions, have my own responsibilities, and get treated like an adult in a mutually trusting, loving relationship. During the times when I'm letting my emotions get the better of me and/or otherwise acting like a child, he tends to treat me like one, but not in a demeaning kind of way. He tends to deflect me wit…
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 06:24 AM
1

C's pet name for me is "good girl," if that says anything. Occasionally I get, "Who's my good girl?" and it's basically the best praise ever. It only comes when I'm being, you know, good, and it's a great way of reinforcing relationship roles and letting me know when I'm doing something right.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/14 05:00 AM
3

I'm feeling like "Manipulated by the Patriarchy" might be a good band name.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/14 02:35 AM
5

There is nothing wrong with satisfying your man out of love D:! Theres nothing wrong with making him a sandwhich, cooking him dinners, Giving him sex, making him feel appreciated, and just LOVING HIM o_o How dare you do that without expecting exact reciprocity in return?! /s As far as I can tell, that was her biggest argument about things. "This article was only about what women can do to please their man! How dare this article not imply that there should be perfect reciprocity in all things?!"
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/14 07:38 AM
5

Right? A blow job to completion with nothing in it for me is a special couple-times-a-year thing when I'm feeling generous. Emphasis mine. But seriously, this article was about what you could do for your relationship. It's not about what men should be doing for the sake of their relationship, it's about what they could be doing. And seriously, you only want to do this nice thing a couple times a year? Why should doing something fun and giving for your partner only be a couple times a year? Could…
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/14 07:36 AM
0

Of course not, but "secure" isn't the same thing as unbreakable. My girl game isn't always top notch, and I can't always bring my best self forward, but having a good understanding works.
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 07:19 PM
9

There's a limit to the "be cool" part. Yes, I joke around with his friends, and I don't get my panties in a bunch when things don't go my way, but I don't want to be one of the guys. I'm the lady. I do the lady things. And that's okay.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/14 08:04 AM
0

There's a difference between showing weakness and not being able to handle your shit. I'm perfectly content to be there for my SO in the ways that I can be when he needs me. When he's stressed, I do everything I can on my end of things to alleviate that stress (oral sex, cooking/otherwise providing meals, laundry/cleaning, backrubs, being supportive of him taking time for his hobbies). But I know what I don't bring to the table, so if I'm supposed to magically be the strong one in the relationsh…
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 07:18 AM
2

I do what I want and I'm selfish, I do what she wants and she acts out more. I thought I had to make her happy but she did nothing to make me happy. Some of that is being with the wrong kind of girl. There are RPW who are varying levels of good at bringing their own good things to a relationship.
/r/TheRedPill05/05/14 02:16 AM
2

Girly-casual. Lots of jeans and comfortable shirts that are still flattering. I would like to start wearing more dresses/skirts because it's what I'm happiest in, but it's not practical for right now. When I'm with my SO, I straighten my hair and leave it down, because that's how he likes it, and I have a simple makeup routine. When I'm home alone, I'll pull it up for practical reasons.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 02:45 AM
3

Hello! I'm fairly new, and I don't post a lot. I'm currently in a monogamous, LTR with a great man. We live out a lot of RP philosophies, although we've never really discussed it outside of my talks about how hard it is to have friends when I'm in a very liberal city--it's a lot easier to find poly, 3rd-wave feminists than it is to find girls with my interests and hobbies who aren't constantly spouting off. I would like to participate more/read more RPW blogs, but I have a hard time feeling like…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 02:42 AM
3

They don't debate that. They don't take an aspect of the opposing ideology and say "does this have worth?" like we might do with a tiny facet of feminism, etc. They are merely an echo chamber of hateful circlejerking Tumblrina feminists. The one that kills me is the idea that RP is inherently misogynistic and that we hate ourselves. I have pretty decent self-esteem, especially in the context of what I have to offer my relationship. /r/twoxchromosomes talks about how we're all a bunch of self-hat…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 02:37 AM
2

Isn't it weird that they think being nice to your husband will get you abused? No people! Being nice to your husband and putting him first will MAKE HIM APPRECIATE YOU MORE!!! I think it's two things: a misunderstanding of who we are and what we do, and a lack of awareness in their own relationship. I generally don't tell people that I have a RP mindset, but I do tell people that I find my relationship works better when I focus on the good things I know I can bring to a relationship. When I pres…
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 02:31 AM
3

That was one of the best things I've read on here. I have a hard time finding good, applicable RPW stuff to read. Partially because I am still working on basics and partially because all the stuff I seem to find is geared towards men spinning plates, which is not where my relationship is at.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/14 02:23 AM
1

The bottom line is that the best way to avoid your guy cheating is by doing everything for him that you expect him to do for you. This just shows a lack of understanding of what people can offer in a relationship, which seems to be a common thing.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/14 04:04 AM
6

Although I'm totally guilty of the occasional PDA. There's an acceptable time and place. My SO is very affectionate, and I think he would be put off if all of a sudden I was against holding hands or accepting reasonable kisses. I think we both like the little bit of territory-claiming that happens with affection, and since physical touch is probably his most important love language, it helps him feel loved.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/14 05:50 PM
1

That's my SO's birthday, so I decided we celebrate the week before Valentine's Day. He was thrilled. I think this kind of attitude should be prevalent throughout your relationship though--I know that he thinks of me and does things that he knows I appreciate, so I make it a point to go out of my way to love on him and appreciate him. And that ranges from a morning blowjob followed by a breakfast sandwich to nice emails telling him how wonderful he is.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/14 03:42 AM
2

Today, when I ask that, I am asking 'does he treat you right, keep a level head', etc. This is what I mean when I say that my SO is pretty easy-going. He's also receptive to hearing/responding to me when I communicate with him. But I wouldn't describe him as easily controlled, or a pushover, or anything like that. He's a steady guy, and it takes a fair amount to ruffle his feathers, but he has firm boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/14 06:36 AM
2

e. She gave a speech at the beginning of the reception that was basically a roast of her husband, making fun of him and saying mean things in an EXTREMELY failed attempt at being funny. Nope. Nope, nope, nope. A thousand times nope. This just gets under my skin so badly.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 02:38 AM
2

I don't care about the gift, but I love that he thinks of me. He went way out of his way to make my birthday very, very special for me this year, while I'm not a big birthday person in general, it was the thought behind it that made it so amazing.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 02:37 AM
3

You could even buy yourself a simple claddagh ring and save up for a nicer one, that you start wearing after you and your SO have been together for a certain amount of time. I love my claddagh for basically this reason. It's inexpensive, simple, and reminds me of him and my commitment to us wherever I go. I don't think he's planning on continuing with the claddagh theme when we get to that point, but I wouldn't mind it. Plus I find the whole concept so much less cheesy than a promise ring.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 02:28 AM
2

The only way I would want a diamond is if it was an heirloom or something--I was supposed to get my Nana's ring. She doesn't speak to me anymore, so that's probably not happening, but I wouldn't feel bad about a diamond in that scenario. Honestly, I don't want to feel apprehensive about wearing my engagement ring, and if it was very expensive, that would worry me.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/14 02:27 AM
6

This runs much deeper than not having sex--she doesn't respect him or his needs. or treat each other like they're in love. I don't think this has to do with kids. I think this has to do with time together and letting other things become more prioritized than the health of your relationship. Other couples get like this, too, they just aren't as open about it because they don't have the ready-made excuse of kids.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/14 09:25 PM
1

Breakfast for dinner can be really cheap and impressive. I love making omelettes--eggs, shredded cheese, some salt and pepper, frozen peppers and onions, and maybe some hot sauce to top it, if that's your thing. It takes some practice to make it look pretty, but it's a great base thing to know how to make. Some alternative topping/filling ideas: spinach, mushrooms, and feta; salsa, taco cheese, and avocado; ham and swiss. The possibilities are pretty endless, and if you do have the extra cash, s…
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/13 04:44 AM
1

I exist last time I checked. I am 21, turning 22 this month.
/r/RedPillWomen04/10/13 07:59 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter