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macscheid/r/Divorce_Men19/02/21 01:13 AM
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Hormonally their sense of committed love tends to wane so I suppose there could be a trend towards a lower voice.
/r/Divorce_Men07/06/21 11:04 PM
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I pay 3500 to my ex a month which helps keep her mouth on another dudes cock. It could be worse. Just sayin'.
/r/Divorce_Men20/05/21 11:17 AM
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She is manipulating you into marriage. Point towards the door. Marriage is now a tool for the weaker party. It's not like it used to be. If u do, you need a lawyer to draw up a prenuptial agreement. When she refuses the prenup, you will know she is after control.
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/21 05:35 PM
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Get sleep even if it means exercising to physical exhaustion to do so. I used lorazepam until I was getting weird cardiac symptoms. It took me 9 months, but with a new lady and a lot of self exploration, life is so much better for me mentally. I did contemplate ending it for a few months, but the new relationship is so much better than I ever had it before that my future is talking more than my past. Talk to your Doctor about your sleep. Fucking helped me but you won't read it in a book. Focus o…
/r/Divorce_Men16/05/21 05:27 PM
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Divorce care if u don't mind a bit of Christ thrown in. Helped me a bunch. Its really fresh now but you will heal. Keep your head up.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/21 03:38 AM
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I pay a little over 3500 per month combined which approximates half my take home, and am on the hook for 3 years when it drops to about 2800 for another 2 years. Its all relative, but now I know marriage is tool meant for only women.
/r/Divorce_Men28/04/21 03:19 AM
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If ur wife owns a business she has to give u half the equity of it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/21 08:23 PM
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8 months into separation. Don't let her win. Take half her business and drag her into a legal battle. Give her the hell ur giving yourself. Stay strong. I was there, and with a new lady you forget a lot of bullshit. You matter and the world needs you.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/21 08:22 PM
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Surround your self with friends, get a lawyer, find a support group. It all gets better but buckle up for a little while.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/21 01:37 AM
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Seems unethical but divorce laws aren't based on what seems fair. Attain a good family lawyer .
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/21 09:20 PM
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Yeah. So basically she has unlimited paid off, plus after half of mine monetarily. Hope I stay healthy for 6 years as I work in healthcare during covid.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/21 08:04 AM
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Because this can monetized as part of my earnings apparently. She was a SAHM with no income. So if I want a vacation with my children or if I happen to get sick, of my pto's cashed out and I have nothing for the next 6 years. Justice?
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/21 05:27 AM
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Done. Emailed about five tonight.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/21 04:09 AM
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7 month seperated here. Time helps. Hang in there. There is hope for you. Amazing relationships await you yet.
/r/Divorce_Men31/01/21 03:08 PM
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You matter. We all fall short. Similar situation for me. Her use of porn seemed to justify mine, but somehow my use was more offensive. 19 year marriage. You can rebuild, and overcome! God bless you man.
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/21 12:53 AM
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19 years married. Glad u are learning this now. Marriage is a legal liability.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/21 02:51 AM
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Marriage is a social trap deployed by greedy women. Don't take the bait. Same boat after 19 year marriage.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/21 11:09 AM
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She's fucking nuts. It will get better. You will forget her over someone new who is not crazy.
/r/Divorce_Men30/12/20 01:05 AM
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Ex parte orders. No abuse or threats on my part. Just her word. Shits done a lot. No justice for men in family courts.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/20 08:10 AM
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Give me your red flags brotha.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/20 02:13 AM
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Thanks man. I'm 5 months into mine still without a signed decree. Kicked out of a house, I alone paid for, waiting to settle, with this person I don't even know anymore, while living in an apt. I work in healthcare, I live in ppe, and the combination of divorce and covid, along with some other lowpoints makes me depressed most days. I'm glad you are better. I want 50/50 custody but right know realestate prices have me basically pushed out of the school district so it's hard for me to get them to…
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/20 02:12 AM
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Question? Was she on an antidepressant? Any admitted infidelity? Seems like she had a change of heart after that night out. My story is very similar to yours after 19 years marriage to someone who struggled with depression/anxiety. She filed for divorce in July, and I've been married to her almost half my life (44 yo). My advice would be to get a counselor, an attorney, and a divorce support group. Still in the midst of my s*** storm, but can see a more calm horizon in the distance. Keep your he…
/r/Divorce_Men03/12/20 07:12 AM
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Preach son!
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/20 12:15 AM
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Get a counselor, support group and whatever other friends you have. Your gonna make it through. If your Christian, I recommend divorce care. You may need an antidepressant or something for sleep for a while. All these dudes have been there, and it sucks. The courts are stacked against men, but you will make it.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/20 03:16 PM
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Is she on an antidepressant or cheating? A med can flip her behavior much like a man could. I suspect one of them. I would get a lawyer, then confront her.
/r/Divorce_Men28/11/20 08:44 AM
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My STBX and I block each other's texts now. This strange foreign attitude has no comparison to where I'm at. Good for you guys
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/20 09:24 PM
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Hope I don't divorce again til the next 100 year pandemic. Being kicked out ex parte of my house as a healthcare provider in a pandemic, really blows.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/20 11:48 PM
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Yeah. 2 kids brings it close to 50 50.
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/20 09:51 PM
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Same here. I was given ex parte orders without a written affidavit, even though I was not abusive or violent or threatened either. Seems to be the start of where things get unfair for men in divorce. I'm on the hook for about half my salary for six year, after supporting a stay-at-home mom for 19 years. 11 and 14 yo kids. I at least partially blame the drug cymbalta as it took away her emotions and her libido. She became a orgasmic. I in turn chose me to look at porn for an outlet (as opposed to…
/r/Divorce_Men12/11/20 09:53 PM
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Weekends are tough. Usually having the kids helps. Not so much this weekend. Renting for a year. Getting my own place will help I think. I'm on the hook for alimony and child support so just crushed from all sides. Hobbies, or diy would be my pick for a Saturday. Good luck!
/r/Divorce_Men01/11/20 01:46 PM
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I was served in June after 19 years of marriage. Surround yourself with friends, counselors and support groups. I feel for ya brother. We can get through this. I think the extra anxiety, and covid are opening women to a lot of soul searching, especially if things were already somewhat strained. Against every divorce book I've read, I have already been on dates I Believe simply to put my mind on a forward-thinking target. The lack of sleep, the low energy, and the anxiety can all be overwhelming.…
/r/Divorce_Men30/10/20 06:00 PM
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