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I aways viewed the redpill as a response to the feminist, gynocentric world we live in. It's not the male version of feminism but how to navigate a society that is inherently biased against men.
/r/RPChristians25/01/24 03:14 AM
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I didn't read your entire post, but the general redpill recommendation for relationships is to work on self-improvement first: wealth building, physical activity, and social skills. After that, you shouldn't struggle as much to find someone.
/r/RPChristians25/01/24 03:12 AM
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Reminds me of this church I visited where the pastor told us the story of how he got with his wife. She was the pastor's daughter, and he had a crush on her. She ended up "making a mistake" with another guy and got pregnant from a hookup. He saw that as his opportunity to get closer to her. He swooped, married her, and proudly raised the kid. This guy boasts about being a literal cuckold. Never went to that church again.
/r/RPChristians23/01/24 01:49 AM
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I think this is more of a reddit cuck thing than a Christian thing (or at least I hope). This is a very blue pilled site overall. The young Christian guys I know irl though are either the frat bro types who don't actually believe and just want to have as much sex as possible or the nerd, rule-follower types who would gladly take a hoe as a wife. Guys who want to maximize their financial success and take the 10/10 virgin as a wife are a minority pretty much everywhere.
/r/RPChristians16/01/24 12:02 AM
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I think the virginity statistics aren't as bleak as you may think. I grew up in a very conservative Pentecostal church and most of those who didn't wait until marriage lost their virginity either with their long-term bf/gf whom they eventually marry or during the engagement. In that case, it's on you, the man, to not sleep with her during that time and wait until marriage so that you can follow God's standard and become one flesh within a marriage.
/r/RPChristians28/06/22 09:01 PM
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Hope your girl was a virgin too
/r/RPChristians26/06/22 10:03 PM
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Problem is that it isn't very realistic to abide by celibacy for 10-15 years.
/r/RPChristians26/06/22 01:05 AM
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So according to the GSS adult men under 30 who have never had sex since they turned 18 is 27%. That is a pretty good proxy for virginity because the number of men who got laid as a teenager and then not once afterwards must be miniscule. No it's not. CDC estimates that about 14% of men aged 20 - 24 are virgins.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 09:40 PM
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>I am a teenage girl So your opinion is irrelevant. >You ought to date people within your own age range You're mad that all the cute girls your age are dating older guys. >Being in an relationship with someone who is very much younger than you has the strong potential for abusive power dynamics Awesome. I love power. >incredibly unloving way of talking about your sisters in Christ, even if they are promiscuous You can be a whore - I'm just not going to marry you. I'm disgusted by whores. Might a…
/r/RPChristians14/06/22 02:35 AM
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You have this misconception that dating is supposed to be "fair." A promiscuous man =/= promiscuous woman. A promiscuous man is typically a high-status man - he has some sort of charm, whether it be looks, confidence, wealth, or a combination of those, which allows him to attract many women to sleep with. On the contrary, any woman can be promiscuous - it's an indicator of low standards and weak self-control when a woman sleeps around. Because the promiscuous man is high-status (and adored by ma…
/r/RPChristians11/06/22 05:02 PM
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unless the man is a virgin, what right does one have to complain? Sex isn't the same for men and women. While it is a sin for both to fornicate, the worldly consequences for women are far worse - men do not get used for their bodies and develop emotional baggage from sleeping around the way women do. It also diminishes a woman's marital prospects if she accumulates a high partner count - a lot of men are disgusted by that. It would be wise for a promiscuous man to settle with a virgin.
/r/RPChristians11/06/22 04:42 PM
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. If you accept that, then certainly have your preferences but don't complain about your loneliness - as it is a consequence of your own criteria. I already found my virgin. If you go to a conservative church and target women aged 18 - 22, there are plenty. Beyond that age range, good luck. But I agree that if you're a low-tier guy approaching 30, you either have to go full Jesus celibate mode or take a promiscuous woman as a bride - the former being much more admirable in my view. With a 50% di…
/r/RPChristians11/06/22 03:06 PM
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I actually made a thread about female body count and got downvoted into oblivion by everyone. There is definitely a double standard when it comes to preferences between men and women. When women have a preference, the guy is expected to do whatever he can to meet that preference. When men have a preference, we're told it's sexist - something that needs to be abolished from society (e.g., no fat shaming, no slut shaming, etc.).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 05:06 AM
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The vast majority of women in the dating market have 0 kids - this is more of an expectation, not a preference. Low debt is equally valued in both men and women. The biggest thing that makes your 000 comparison off is that you didn't mention looks. A high-status woman is mostly looks + feminine persona.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/22 01:12 AM
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I never cold approach - I feel like it comes off as cringe and desperate, and more likely than not, her values do not align with mine if she is just some rando on the street. I highly suggest that you join some sort of club or community like a church, political organization, environmental club, etc. It makes things a lot less awkward, and you know you have come compatibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/21 06:27 PM
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Yeah, obviously preferable if I could just lock her in the basement, but that's not legal so I need to find alternative methods to keep her trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/21 03:56 PM
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There are many factors that contribute to a high divorce rate. Those who wait until marriage, have children, and attend church weekly have far lower divorce rates than the general public. The divorce rate in my religious community is only around 10%. In my case, where the chance of me cheating or refusing to provide for my family is zero, my odds of divorce are likely lower than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 09:15 PM
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I typically don't date outside my religious community, so finding women like this isn't a problem. I have dated girls from different backgrounds while I was in college and made it clear what my plans for the future are, but of course it's harder to find college women who want 5+ kids and to be stay-at-home mothers, so those relationships didn't go very far.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 08:31 PM
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I would feel that we have different values if she also wants to work, prioritizing work over the family. If the kids are in school and she has some excess time for a part-time job, I would be okay with it. If she plans to work full-time for the duration of the marriage, I would say we are incompatible.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:09 PM
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My mother, born in the USSR, told me a story about how she was waiting by the bus station. It was getting dark, and she was only 14 at the time, looking to take the bus back home, when middle-aged men began approaching her and asking her to come home with them. She said that at that moment, that changed the way she perceived men - she had no idea that creeps like this exist, and she feared for her safety from then on, never again traveling alone at night.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 03:01 PM
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Andy was clearly a low-status guy, a boy who never grew up if you will. While I agree that it is undesirable for a childless man to end up with a women who already has kids, he clearly did develop some sort of fatherly connection to the children, and considering his age and social status, it wasn't necessarily "marrying down."
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:54 PM
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I never liked the concept of cold approaching women you see on the street - PUA-type approaches. I mean, if your endgame is just sex and you cold approach a dozen women, you may get it, but for the sake of monogamy, commitment, and marriage, you are unlikely to find a good partner for the long-term with this method. I much prefer meeting people through a mutual interest event to know there is some compatibility which will serve as the foundation for the initial conversation. It can be a religiou…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:49 PM
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Both are obviously bad and grounds for divorce, but I agree that it's worse when a woman cheats. It's more so due to how men are going against their biological imperative by not engaging in sex with multiple women. The male of every species was designed to impregnate as many females as possible - we are fighting our own nature by going against this standard. We (typically) have stronger and more frequent desires for sex which makes it harder to resist, and when a man cheats, there is usually ver…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:38 PM
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As someone who values the traditional lifestyle, where the man is the provider and the woman stays at home with the children, a woman's earning potential is naturally irrelevant to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 02:19 PM
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Obviously this is anecdotal - hard to find studies on this actual topic, but I grew up in a very religious community. My maternal grandmother had 10 children, and my paternal grandmother had 14. I have 5 siblings. All my uncles and aunts married - the two who did end up divorcing over the duration of a 20-year marriage were two on my uncles. One married a literal ex-prostitute, and the other married someone outside the religious community. They were the only two who engaged in premarital sex. Al…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/21 04:46 AM
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I don't ask for partner count - just whether she's a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/21 12:43 AM
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