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I worked at a restaurant for almost two years where I couldn't wear polish. Every once in a while when I had a couple days off, I would paint them, but mostly they were bare. Now, I have the strongest nails, they grow sooooo long before breaking. I would try that for a couple months, see how long you can go without breaking them!
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/19 05:42 AM
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If you don't want to be outwardly rude, put your hands up in the air, and back away. Don't push her away, that's asking for trouble. I'm a female, and whenever this happens to me, I put my hand in the middle of his chest and push, then when he looks at me I shake my hand at him and that always gets them.
/r/askTRP06/02/17 12:44 AM
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*your *you
/r/RedPillWomen24/01/17 01:40 AM
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A good start would be /r/getfeminine
/r/RedPillWomen03/01/17 07:11 PM
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1 - I already mentioned he has zero aspirations in life, career wise, isn't going to move out of his parents house anytime soon, he isn't social at all, etc. We are close friends and have a great coparenting relationship now. 2 - Of course I know his family. I lived with them for about a year when I was pregnant, until we got married. As mentioned, I live with my parents, so my son is always surrounded by people who love him, either with his dad's family or mine. 3 - Yes, my son has both. He is …
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 04:54 PM
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I have 50/50 physical and legal custody with my ex husband. When we got divorced, I moved to take care of family, and the judge ordered my son go to school in the same little town he was born in. This sub is supposed to be supportive, not judgemental. This is not /r/TRP
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 12:23 AM
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I totally agree. But I feel like I'm running out of time.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 12:20 AM
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The man I left behind is not my sons father. My sons father is a loser, works 20 hours a week at a fast food restaurant, still lives with his parents at 27, and has zero aspirations in life. There is a reason I divorced him. He got me pregnant at 17 when I wasn't making the best choices. Thank you for your response.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/16 12:19 AM
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Do you really mean that? Passion is not stable?
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 10:35 PM
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I have done all of this. I have been RP for the better part of two years, have poured over the sidebar multiple times. I've made myself a way better person than I was when I started. And it's still not clear.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/16 07:57 PM
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My first reaction is, is this the Hill you want to die on? I have a son, and I totally understand your embarrassment. Second, I would try to have your husband take your son out more, and see if he can understand your embarrassment about going out with your son with a horrible haircut. Point being, having a captain and following his lead is the path you have chosen.
/r/RedPillWomen13/12/16 12:34 AM
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These are fantastic! Thank you so much!!
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 12:47 AM
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Yeah, this is exactly what I've done. My goals are clearly listed, I just wanted some motivation to put on there as well. Maybe a dream board won't work for you, but it's been great to visualize my goals.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/16 12:46 AM
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Yeah, I'm not proud of it and I wish my n count was lower. But you live and you learn. The only person you can change is yourself, so focus all your energy on that and all these problems will disappear.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 11:35 PM
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I was the exact same way before RPW. I ate men for breakfast. Every single guy I have dated in the last ten years (I am 25 so since high school), hasn't dated anyone since me. Dated my high school boyfriend again, from 21-22, and he hasn't gone out with a single girl in three years. My ex husband, divorced for over four years, same thing. He actually still has a crush on me. But I digress. I would only like someone if I knew they liked me, then i was over them in a couple weeks. You lack underst…
/r/askTRP22/11/16 11:18 PM
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Okay. You are not listening to me. Read every piece of RP material you can get your hands on. Even if you are narcissistic, you will begin to actually understand how women think and what their actions mean. Read the fucking side bar dude. Read all the books that TRP vets have listed. You are not RP, or else you wouldn't have these problems. Read until you get angry, then use that anger to work on yourself. Read until you can't possibly read anymore because you're drowning in pussy. You would not…
/r/askTRP22/11/16 10:26 PM
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I am a pretty well studied, practicing RPW. This dude hasn't even read half of the TRP sidebar. No offense taken.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 10:21 PM
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Speaking as a woman, what you are lacking is the knowledge of women and how they work. Smoking pot isn't your problem, your game (or lack thereof) are.
/r/askTRP22/11/16 03:15 AM
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I have never commented on this sub. As a woman, I didn't ever deem it necessary. But she will use you to make herself happy. And that's never sustainable. It might be great for a few weeks but then she will fuck someone else. I'm sorry :/ But there are so many good women out there for you.
/r/askTRP03/11/16 07:33 AM
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No problem, I'm glad it helped. She just wants you to be her beta bitch. So unless that's what you wanna be, I'd just avoid her. Stay strong, you got this.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 08:56 PM
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She wants to still have power over you. As a woman, when you find a good beta you can manipulate, it's hard to let go. But it's not love. Unfortunately, she was just using you to get everything she wants. You probably paid for everything, brought her anywhere she wanted. This is what she wants. Totally ignore her. Or game her, as long as you hold frame. That might be good for your oneitis, if you do it right it will show that she is just like every other girl. Good luck man.
/r/askTRP17/10/15 08:07 PM
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I love this! Chalk paint is awesome, and painting furniture is ludicritive! Makes it looks much better, plus if you ever wanna sell it it's much higher value!
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/15 07:06 PM
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Thank you for this :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/10/15 05:09 PM
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I agree with u/cats_or_get_out. I think the best way to gauge this relationship is to go out to dinner, or on a walk, and talk to him about sex. Talk about whether or not you're on birth control or you're gonna use condoms, talk about what would happen if you get pregnant, ask about past history of stds. If the talk goes well, and isn't terribly awkward and you feel you can talk freely with him about it, then he is ready. If he doesn't, then he just wanted to fuck you.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/15 03:32 PM
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I'm glad you can use it! It's so nice, there were many times we had a mess in the middle of the night. With this little tip, you don't even have to put the baby down to change the sheets! I've even pulled the dirty ones off while I was breastfeeding.
/r/RedPillWomen15/09/15 11:52 PM
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Right before my son was born, I read a trick like this online, and it totally saved me many nights! You get tons of bedsheets for the crib, and plastic waterproof sheets too. Put the waterproof sheet down first, then a be sheet over it. Then put ANOTHER waterproof sheet over that, then another bedsheet. I believe my son's crib could fit three layers of both on his. Then when you have a blowout, just take the top layer off, and everything under the waterproof sheet stays clean! Awesome and quick,…
/r/RedPillWomen13/09/15 03:55 PM
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Perfect! I'm a chick so mine is a little different. You should check out The Walk by Stone Mecca.
/r/askTRP12/09/15 10:23 PM
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She walks away, you walk away. You damn sure aren't gonna stand there and watch her get another dudes number, right? She'll find her way home, and she'll feel real dumb.
/r/askTRP27/08/15 05:17 PM
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"Babe, I don't think we should eat that." I've made my opinion known. If he's making dinner, as a Captain he will take my opinion into consideration while cooking. I make him happy, and in return he wants to make me happy. Now if I'm in the kitchen and he comes out of nowhere and starts pulling stuff out of the fridge, I would playfully slap his ass and say, "I got it babe. Get out of here, dinner will be ready in 10." Then kiss him and go back to cooking. It sounds harsh wrote out, I'm a little…
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/15 06:39 PM
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Thanks for expanding on my point! And I absolutely agree, when you just focus on yourself and make yourself better, he will step into his role when he sees that you've embraced yours. And it's much easier when you reach that point.
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/15 06:31 PM
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Everyone on this sub will tell you that you can't do it like that. When I started RP, I was the same way. One of the main points that RPW will teach you (if you read the sidebar and the recommended books), is that you can't control other people. It's very freeing when you realize that. You can't make him lead. But if you think he is a good Captain, and that he is worth submitting to, then taking a step back and letting him lead is your best bet. Take the values that you've learned, and focus on …
/r/RedPillWomen18/08/15 02:41 PM
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As a woman of RPW, I like to think that AWALT mostly applies to woman who haven't swallowed the pill. I say "mostly" because we still do hamster, it's very hard to control even when you recognize that that's what you're doing. But as far as dumb or constant shit tests, hypergamy, etc, that mostly goes away after you've accepted and started practicing RP. Now, this is coming from a woman who swallowed the pill right after beginning my LTR, so I have only "practiced" RP on him, I have not dated or…
/r/askTRP17/08/15 02:12 AM
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Exactly! She threw her "promise ring" at him, they broke up, she blocked his number, bitched about him for TWO HOURS, then says, "I'm just gonna ignore him. I'll text him tonight to tell him goodnight and that I love him, then that's it until tomorrow." The whole thing is he is very untrusting of her, constantly questioning where she was and who she was with. Why would a man want to be in a relationship with a woman he doesn't trust? And conversely, why would a woman be with a man who doesn't tr…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/15 05:59 PM
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You know you have a good man when just his presence in your relationship makes you want to be the best you can be, just for him. I am so happy for you!
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/15 05:27 PM
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You sound like me! Except I didn't see the light until I was about 22, and with my current SO. We hit it off immediately, and I knew he was definitely not a beta I could walk all over. I didn't even try to shit test him, I knew he wouldn't have it. But eventually it came out. And he did not take it, at all. I was totally enamored with him from the beginning, it has always been all about him. A few months in I found RP, and I was hooked. Neither of us have been in a relationship that is anywhere …
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/15 05:26 PM
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Yes! I was with my best friend yesterday, she is having issues with her dumb younger boyfriend. And the whole two hours I was listening to her bitch I was thinking to myself, "WHY would either of them want to be in this relationship?" They just bicker, all day. He starts a fight, gets her going, they stop talking, next day they're fine, rinse and repeat.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/15 04:46 PM
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Ditto ^ My stepfather wasn't exactly beta, but he gave my mother a lot more control than she deserved. And she is still horrible to be around, very critical. SO's family is a lot different, his parents are divorced but are both in semi-RP LTR now. They are all so close, there are hugs everytime we come around, and they treat me just like I have been in their family forever. I actually want to try to get closer to my parents, because of the relationship he has with his.
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/15 04:38 PM
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Thank you for that awesome answer!
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/15 01:02 AM
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Usually it's advised to men when they're not getting what they want, i.e. shit testing, no sex, weight gain, whatever. TRP isn't really huge on expressing their emotions through words so it's more of a first step when they're experiencing problems. I have heard tons of examples of bitchy women about to leave their husbands, when they starting running soft dread, and everything turned around. Basically it's just reminding them that you have other options, so step up or step out.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 02:29 PM
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The way I have interpreted it from TRP is that when you run soft dread correctly, it just brings to the forefront of their mind that they might need to step it up to keep up with you (using their SMV, or perceived SMV). Without the intentions of stepping out of the relationship, I see nothing wrong with basically bettering yourself (making yourself hotter), to show your partner what you have, what THEY have, and maybe start them hamstring on things they can do better for you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 02:09 PM
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Should have added this in the post, but I have no plans to run dread in my relationship, this is merely a hypothetical thought. There are so many things men tell other men they need to do, within themselves and their relationships, while women are just told to take better care of themselves and their men. So I'm gathering that men are supposed to have game, while women are just supposed to treat their men well?
/r/RedPillWomen27/07/15 01:26 AM
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Hahaha, literally the whole thing! I love that scene, so adorable. And we always brush our teeth before bed, it makes sex better for sure, and definitely makes BJ's better.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/15 03:51 PM
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So much YESSS to this entire comment.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/15 07:00 PM
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Cooking breakfast. Packing me a bowl. Driving a boat (ahhhhhh, this one took me by surprise and made me instantly wet, and not from the water). Anything that involves tools in hand. Moving heavy things.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 05:24 PM
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I read your whole post a few hours ago, including comments. I didn't have anything worth saying until now. Do you really want a girl with a beta father? Even if you have RP down pat, how do you know she will always go along with it? You talked about marriage, how do you know she will not turn into a scathing bitch like her mother? Even if you aren't currently thinking about marriage, you seriously need to access her and whether you want to spend any more time or resources in the relationship. An…
/r/askTRP11/07/15 11:01 PM
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Thanks darling, you too!
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/15 10:10 PM
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I've only been practicing RP for a year, I feel like it's one of those things that gets better with age, and becomes more natural, not to say I'm faking it now. What I mean is I hope the hamstering ceases after a few years, lol
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/15 08:15 PM
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I was thinking this same thing the other night! I got into a bit of a disagreement with my man, nothing major and we were fine the next morning. But I thought about it all night. It is very frustrating to be aware of it, and still not be able to control it. I don't nag, or try to control what he does, controlling your words are easy when you know what happens if you don't. Thoughts are a whole different beast.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/15 08:00 PM
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I tear up ALL THE TIME. Especially browsing Reddit. Mostly when reading about people being really nice to someone, or love stories, or hearing of people who have been together 75 years and died in each others arms. I'm actually tearing up just writing this. My man told me of the aforementioned story of the couple who died together, I teared up hardcore reading it, then again a few hours later when I was on my way home thinking of it. I told him later when we were talking about it (he shared it o…
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/15 07:58 PM
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Definitely. But you have to understand two things: you can't control other people, and his drop in libido is NOT about you. He's stressed, I can guarantee it. I have a very high libido, and when I find myself getting frustrated, the best thing to do is take care of it yourself :) Then focus on yourself a little bit more, it WILL cause him to focus on you more, too, which to be honest is what you're looking for. Best of luck to you darling!
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 04:07 PM
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First, let me say I totally understand. I am young too (23), and I am in a relationship with the man of my dreams. Second, you are thinking wayyyyy too much. He loves you, you love him. You have been with him for this long, and you trust him, yes? The biggest thing in relationships for me, especially when it comes to RP is trust. Trust that he will make the best decisions for your relationship, and let go. I know, it's hard, you wanna control everything, just like every other woman. But just fak…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/15 12:52 PM
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/r/seduction22/06/15 08:52 PM
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Where did you find these? I would love to listen!
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/15 07:10 PM
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So much yes to this!!
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/15 07:18 PM
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Wow. Bernie would have got one comment put before my man shut it down. Then we would have had the quickie :)
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/15 01:44 PM
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Glad I could help! Like I said, I'm in the same boat, I started about six months ago. It is much easier for everyone involved if that's the standard protocol, he makes one big decision and you handle the rest. Then there is no room for assumptions ("Babe! I thought you were handling the reservations!"). Everything is ten times easier if you know your place, and you can expect your man to handle what needs to be done. Men love having responsibility. Women love planning it out. Win/win.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 07:40 PM
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I'm in the same boat, send him links in pages on the sidebar. Start referring to him as Captain and you're his First Mate. Take a step back in all decision making, let him take control. The way I look at it in my relationship, my man makes all the "first/main" decisions, then I come behind him and finish all the details. We both have equal roles, he just decides all the big stuff, and I plan out all the little details that make life run smoothly.
/r/RedPillWomen27/04/15 06:57 PM
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Good idea!
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/15 01:33 AM
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For the record, I am horny all the time and have never refused sex with him. I think it was new and exciting and that's why he enjoyed it. We actually talked about it a couple weeks ago, he said "I think there's something wrong with me. I could go without." And I haven't changed since we met, I weigh and look the same. My hair is longer. And I work a desk job now, I was a server when we started dating, working at a bar. He much prefers my current job.
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/15 01:32 AM
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We waited about a month to have sex, then for a couple months we fucked every chance we got. But after the initial new phase, he wouldn't mind if we never had sex. And no, he's not getting it elsewhere. I look the same as when we started dating, and actually not far off from when he first crushed on me when I was 16 (I'm 23 now). And he is gorgeous as ever, ripped with nice arms. He's one of those men who can eat garbage all day and still be skinny-ripped.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 11:38 PM
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I didn't want to put a lot of personal info on here, but he has low libido. He's a very healthy 24 yo, I think that if he worked out it would up his testosterone. There are no emotional or physical issues, he is just uninterested in sex. He said he doesn't need it, the only reason he would need to do it would be for the emotional connection. (We have fantastic sex, best I've ever had and it makes me feel an emotional connection I've never felt with anyone, and I know he feels the same.)
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 10:53 PM
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Good idea! We both have tvs in our room, but we rarely watch TV together. Movies every once in a while, but we did watch the Justin Bieber Roast, it was hilarious!
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 08:47 PM
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I love this. I've been known to dabble in butt wiggling.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 08:34 PM
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I've been with my SO for almost a year and he doesn't initiate. I don't want to feel like I'm begging for sex, that's awful.
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/15 08:26 PM
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