Ok so i quit smoking pot and recently have had more luck with girls. Hooked up with one who had a boyfriend of a few years but her friend cock blocked me heavy. Then the other day got to second base with a girl but then she didn't wanna have sex because she was dating someone. Both of these crashed and burned after and I don't think I'll be talking to any of the girls. I have a few female friends but they are mostly friends of a friend. Don't believe in venting to girls, I think they are just for fun/stress relief. I've had 2 previous relationships and they both crashed and burned so I don't think I can ever trust a woman. I want one because that's what normal people do but I don't think I have the attributes to be in one. What am I missing?