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this is your body responding to fear stimulus…not your soul. This is key. Once you realize the emotions you feel are rooted in your physical body and not some ethereal realm, they become a lot less scary. You can just isolate them, and observe them for the sensations that they are instead of the stories and other emotions your brain have linked to them. This not only works for AA, it works for the pain of rejection, pain of fucking up and any sort of intense emotions you feel as you go through t…
/r/seduction27/06/18 01:24 AM
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I leave you with this: How Yesterday's Paradigm Shifting Epiphany Become's Today's Gimmicky Crutch
/r/seduction10/04/14 09:19 AM
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Somebody's been watching Julien's stuff
/r/seduction24/02/14 04:19 AM
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I used to dislike RSD because of their marketing too, but after listening to their free YouTube videos and attending free tours I completely changed my mind. Please remember RSD is a company and their #1 goal is to make profits, so the their marketing shouldn't bother you more than say a coke advertisement. RSD beings tons of value for free to us. I can't even imagine how much content their paid stuff has. I personally won't pick up pimp anytime soon since I'm a broke college student. But I will…
/r/seduction18/02/14 11:14 PM
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This verbal structure is quite normal and simple. But have you checked out Julien's drama? That is borderline crazy/sociopathic.
/r/seduction11/02/14 05:09 AM
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I think what he meant was remember to push pull
/r/seduction10/02/14 09:29 PM
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I want to hook up with this girl in my social circle (I'm in college and we've recently met). Problem is sometimes she's very receptive and sometimes she's very cold and bitchy. So I dont know how to handle her, since i cant just hope that when I hangout with her she's gonna be receptive. What do you guys think?
/r/seduction21/01/14 05:50 AM
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Yeah don't expect them to. If it happens it's nice. If it doesn't you can still talk to the girls in the group like a warm approach.
/r/seduction13/01/14 06:53 PM
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My wingman game got 10x better after watching this video
/r/seduction12/01/14 09:14 PM
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he means www.daygame.com
/r/seduction09/01/14 08:54 PM
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Tyler's videos do that to you. He's a really captivating speaker
/r/seduction09/01/14 05:56 PM
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In my experience you need a certain level of compliance to isolate the girl. How do you achieve that?
/r/seduction08/01/14 10:16 PM
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Smiling in PICTURES is not as attractive as the aloof face. In PERSON it's always better to smile.
/r/seduction05/01/14 10:42 PM
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It does matter a lot how you handle a rejection. If you don't want your state to get affected by it, you should treat it a certain way. Not everything in field is about getting the girl. Also it's entertaining to see what types of rejections the "masters" get. I'm pretty sure it makes a lot of people happy if they see Tyler get blown out harshly or get totally ignored.
/r/seduction05/01/14 10:41 PM
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I get shoved and yelled at sometimes. Nothing as crazy as a knife threat though. Holy crap, these chodes.
/r/seduction05/01/14 10:37 PM
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Models is a book. mPUA is a person
/r/seduction04/01/14 04:39 PM
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If you have enough comfort with a girl to do this to her, you can just use the loud music as an excuse and take her to a quieter area.
/r/seduction03/01/14 05:53 AM
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Remember that RSD is a business and their goal is to maximize their profit. It is true that they use emotionally charged marketing to grab you as a potential costumer. Their videos are designed in a way to make you excited for their bootcamp or hotseat. All this being said, I don't deny the value RSD free videos have given me. They have so much helpful content on these videos that it is really hard for me to hate them. They honestly put out a lot of content for free and even if they are a form o…
/r/seduction03/01/14 05:49 AM
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RSD instructors have different set of methods and approaches to the game and that's what I like about them. They range from the psychopath Julien to the chill Todd Valentine. The core principles they teach are still valid though.
/r/seduction02/01/14 11:25 PM
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Dancing monkey happens when you're entertaining the girl. Of course you need to push the interaction forward towards building comfort. But at least in the attraction phase (of MM) self-amusement helps wonders
/r/seduction02/01/14 06:52 PM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ag0b0-AFQAA
/r/seduction02/01/14 04:34 AM
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Very true. In the beginning I was confused about self-amusement since after listening to some RSD videos I was confusing it with being an asshole. Lately I've realized it much simpler than that actually so I wrote this post.
/r/seduction02/01/14 03:28 AM
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I used to be in the same boat as you. As I said the notion of dating scares girls (and guys). I understand where you're coming from and I still think you should show your interest in them. But don't frame your meet up as a date. It should just be a hangout. You might think you're not wasting your time if you ask a girl out on a date and she says no, but I tell you what: Even if you get a yes, you might still waste time. I told a girl who is very attracted to me that I liked her and want to go on…
/r/seduction31/12/13 02:40 AM
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Approach 3sets. The other two girls will keep themselves entertained.
/r/seduction30/12/13 08:46 PM
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What I've found is consistent with this article. Usually classic dating intimidates girls. It's far better to just mention a hangout and escalate from there
/r/seduction30/12/13 08:40 PM
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There is no point in lying really. What are you trying to achieve by lying about your virginity to the girl?
/r/seduction30/12/13 06:33 AM
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Do you get asked this right before having sex? If a girl* asks you this she most probably wants to have sex with you and won't care about if you're a virgin or not. Edit: *a girl you're picking up. I think it's really rude if anyone else who isn't interested in you asks you that question, so you can just brush it off.
/r/seduction30/12/13 02:17 AM
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It means the Alpha Male Of the Group. Or used as a verb, the act of taking attention away from another male so that he is no longer a threat. Also referred to as “Alpha Male Other Guy.” Best way to AMOG is to ignore the guy honestly. I won't even acknowledge his existence. If he starts talking to you just say hi and introduce yourself and continue talking to your girl.
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:43 AM
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This is how early PUAs like mystery learned. Since they had no "manual" like us to look at. Having a framework for game can speed up the process by a lot. Having friends that point out your mistakes helps even more.
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:34 AM
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AMOG
/r/seduction29/12/13 05:25 AM
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Still there is no point in just facing rejection after rejection if you don't know what you're doing. It's far better to know why you got rejected and how to solve that problem than just randomly go about it
/r/seduction29/12/13 05:21 AM
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True. People need a minimum of social skills to get by. Whether you call it game or anything else it is still needed
/r/seduction29/12/13 02:10 AM
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If you're living a absolutely amazing lifestyle with a social circle full of women you won't need to approach to get girls. Although it doesn't hurt to know how to. For others that make up most of us approaching is a very important skill that needs to be developed. Hell, I made a good social circle by approaching and talking to everyone. A couple of years of doing this and now I'm reaping the rewards.
/r/seduction29/12/13 02:08 AM
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I think it is possible to skip phase 2 too. But keep in mind everyone on seddit is in phase II basically so might as well finish their journey. It is good for people to find out one their own why at some point game won't be sufficient anymore
/r/seduction29/12/13 01:57 AM
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This advice is 100% true, but only applicable to intermediate-advanced guys. It will serve no purpose to the newbies who have no idea how to interact with the opposite sex. Hate it or not, they need game to build a minimum level of confidence needed to reach levels like what you mentioned
/r/seduction29/12/13 01:20 AM
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If I take a girl to bar I always say "First round's on me". This way you've paid for the first drinks so you don't look cheap and she doesn't expect you to keep buying her drinks.
/r/seduction28/12/13 11:04 PM
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I would like to see posts that tell us what level their advice is targeting
/r/seduction26/12/13 01:23 AM
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In Canada you can have sex in your car, legally, as long as you're not easily seen in the public
/r/seduction25/12/13 07:12 PM
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In the US
/r/seduction25/12/13 12:49 AM
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I thought I'm in /r/soccer for a second
/r/seduction25/12/13 12:45 AM
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I hope they are posting advice though lol. I think a total newbie category should be added too. As in somebody with no experience with pick up.
/r/seduction24/12/13 08:29 PM
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I don't think feeding a girl's ego is honest at all
/r/seduction24/12/13 07:24 PM
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Yes. Waiting a year and confessing to a girl you love her is honesty. Or not talking to a girl you like and hoping and waiting for her to notice you is the perfect example of honesty. Or better yet, being over-nice to her hoping because of your niceness she'll like you.
/r/seduction24/12/13 07:01 PM
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Alright fair enough. I think to avoid confusion later on people should tag their posts with [Total newbie] [Beginner] [Intermediate] and [Advanced] tags
/r/seduction24/12/13 05:24 PM
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Being honest is the best form of game
/r/seduction24/12/13 01:50 AM
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I greatly disagree with points 6 and 7. First of all, you definitely can tell a girl you like her particularly in two situations: 1. If she's less or as attractive as your are 2. If you qualify her and start building comfort. As long as you are not weird about telling her it's fine. Second, It WILL NOT hurt to call her one more time, if you are gonna lose her anyways. If you have a choice between trying or not trying and losing her TRY. Of course there is line for being persistent. Try a few tim…
/r/seduction24/12/13 01:47 AM
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Very true. And not just in the situation OP described, anytime you can't give a good reply, DO NOT send anything
/r/seduction22/12/13 12:30 AM
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Funny because I grew up in Iran and now I live in Toronto. Same male and female dynamics in both societies.
/r/seduction22/12/13 12:23 AM
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Out of curiosity, what culture did you grow up in?
/r/seduction21/12/13 08:06 PM
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OP keep us informed!
/r/seduction19/12/13 09:54 PM
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Dude he just said he's not reading it to learn. He's reading it as an interesting book
/r/seduction18/12/13 10:58 PM
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The Game is by Neil Strauss. Models is by Mark Manson.
/r/seduction18/12/13 10:57 PM
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True. RSD has facebook groups for all major cities too
/r/seduction14/12/13 12:19 AM
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Right on bl1y. The stress can be unbearable. The outcome dependence it creates is crazy.
/r/seduction11/12/13 06:56 PM
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Yes! It has to be dead silence on your part
/r/seduction09/12/13 06:10 PM
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Honestly i don't have any tricks for that. I just find where to put in the pauses after a lot of practice and noticing patterns.
/r/seduction09/12/13 09:06 AM
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I myself like direct a lot better. It does scare some girls off but I'm OK with that. I know roosh advocates indirect game but i like direct PUAs like yad or sasha
/r/seduction09/12/13 09:04 AM
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That is older theory. You can lightly compliment a girl (especially during the day time) as long as you don't over do it or do it to get a reaction.
/r/seduction09/12/13 07:39 AM
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Exactly the biggest reason to pause IMO is to let the other person contribute and invest in the interaction
/r/seduction09/12/13 05:19 AM
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She might be overdoing it. If everyone finds it annoying then she might be doing it wrong
/r/seduction09/12/13 05:17 AM
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The pause between paragraphs is sooo useful. If you accidentally start telling a long story or go into a rant, this gives the other person a chance to contribute or change the subject.
/r/seduction09/12/13 12:01 AM
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Thank you sir! Although the "be confident" posts sometimes serve a purpose, it becomes a problem when they dominate seddit. I remember this was a problem a couple of months ago and I posted something about it. Thankfully after that we a had a surge of outer game posts and now we have a good balance I think. Anyways I'm always happy to contribute! I've learned a lot and I need to give back. I'm a long way from being a master but when I notice something useful I tell y'all!
/r/seduction08/12/13 10:58 PM
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I'm not really looking for drama. I was honestly looking for other people's opinion on this. I am from Toronto and a fair amount of PUAs here are actually really creepy. What I don't like is them giving us a bad name and normal people over generalizing that every man who strikes a conversation is creepy
/r/seduction06/12/13 10:29 PM
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There goes the whole argument for direct game. Is going direct and implying you want to get to know her first without explicitly asking her out a better approach?
/r/seduction04/12/13 06:25 PM
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I escalate like i would do at my place but I get much colder responses. Also I get responses like "I have to wake up early tomorrow" or "I need to finish this assignment/study for test" a lot more
/r/seduction02/12/13 07:54 PM
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more than enough times, both with ONSs and regular girlfriends. It is true that its easier to go the girl's place, but once there it is harder to do what you wanted to do. After all in your own place you can have a much clearer plan on how you want to escalate.
/r/seduction02/12/13 07:35 PM
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Quite to the contrary i found that girls at their place usually get reminded of the essay they need to write or the work they need to do tomorrow. that might hinder your chances
/r/seduction02/12/13 07:21 PM
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Yeah if you know you might not be able to pull and you care to see the girl again, don't get too sexual.
/r/seduction28/11/13 04:29 AM
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In day game most girls dont have a bitch shield
/r/seduction28/11/13 03:07 AM
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I was mostly talking about day game. but in night game i follow Vin dicarlo's escalation ladder
/r/seduction28/11/13 03:06 AM
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I found out a lot of time it's a just line girls have memorized to use on guys who hit on them. If you disarm and continue gaming her for a few minutes you still might get her. If not she's gonna mention it again. Anyways my point is don't give up that easily, but don't waste your time either
/r/seduction21/11/13 01:31 AM
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I'm gonna push it further and say most of the game is also about not fucking up too
/r/seduction21/11/13 01:26 AM
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I think the title should be Billy's guide to not knowing how to open. This one seems like its a guide to keep the conversation going. Anyways keep posting awesome posts Billy. They are super helpful
/r/seduction21/11/13 01:12 AM
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Although I 100% agree with this fact, I say there is no way you can identify these favorable situations without approaching and talking to her. And it is true that identifying these situations and using them in your favor is beneficial, lack of them is not an excuse for not escalating.
/r/seduction10/11/13 11:04 PM
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a lot of times i eject before i even get to know the person. like before i know if i like then or not
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:05 AM
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i think I'm just hooked on the validation they give me. so i eject before i can fuck it up and lose the validation
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:03 AM
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Take it even further, if she's still there keep going
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:02 AM
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I'm going out as borat
/r/seduction15/10/13 06:50 PM
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I think there is just one rule in the game, as a good friend of mine says: "Shut the fuck up and approach"
/r/seduction15/10/13 04:47 AM
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There is a cultural diversity in the city where i live. A lot of girls have unusual sounding names. Now most people have no problem remembering unusual names and forget common names. I'm the exact opposite
/r/seduction20/09/13 09:52 PM
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Like a lot of other things in pick up, it seems initially weird. After a while you'll get used to it and realize its a great tool
/r/seduction20/09/13 09:44 PM
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That definitely works to establish lot of things. But a lot of times when I re-approach a girl she asks me if I remember her name. Also I think its a nice gesture to memorize someone's name
/r/seduction20/09/13 07:20 PM
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These socially unskilled girls make me wanna pull my hair out sometimes. Do you by any chance go to uoft?
/r/seduction19/09/13 04:36 PM
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The fact that it states attraction comes before comfort and that comes before seduction. I don't like how it only advocates indirect game in the beginning though.
/r/seduction16/09/13 01:47 AM
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I actually think if you start simple and implement techniques as you see sticking points you'll progress faster. What do u think?
/r/seduction15/09/13 08:30 PM
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a lot of time I ask outer game questions and receive inner game answers back.
/r/seduction15/09/13 02:40 AM
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For me if I'm in state I have 0 AA. If I'm not I can't approach for the life of me. Even if she gives me invitation. :/
/r/seduction15/09/13 12:42 AM
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Very true as a community we should post more outer game posts. The problem is when we do, it might get several upvotes and show up on the front page for a while but then again there is yet another "10 ways to be a man" posts with 100+ upvotes that get a lot more love and attention from the community. EDIT: I actually checked the top posts from this week and I saw quite a lot of outer game stuff. Maybe I should stop checking seddit daily and just check the top posts once a week.
/r/seduction14/09/13 11:00 PM
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I found that if there is a magical pill for seduction, it is kino.
/r/seduction14/09/13 10:24 PM
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Very detailed and good comment. My biggest sticking point is between opening and hooking sets so I use routines quite liberally there. After I hook my target she usually have my undivided attention so I just switch to normal conversation. Even the dreaded "interview mode" isn't as boring when the girl likes you.
/r/seduction14/09/13 10:22 PM
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lol sounds like lots of fun i like it
/r/seduction14/09/13 09:48 PM
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I think the reason is the majority of seddit audience are neck beards and geeks with shit self esteem who might benefit from some of the inner game advice. I wish there a separate subreddit for intermediates and outer game
/r/seduction14/09/13 07:52 PM
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For a lot of newbies (including myself) the advice of improvising is counter productive. Sure routines never let you reach your full potential but they are great training wheels. That being said I don't think new puas should completely rely on routines but having a few in your pockets is a great asset
/r/seduction14/09/13 07:50 PM
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Exactly. There is only so much you can achieve with inner game. Funny thing is better outer game improves inner game too and makes you happier.
/r/seduction14/09/13 07:47 PM
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I don't have that much experience to post advice, so I ask questions related to outer game on seddit. Most of the times I get answers catered to inner game. There are good posts on outer game from before. That's why I say these days we almost only see inner game stuff (and not necessarily good advice either)
/r/seduction14/09/13 07:41 PM
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His play by play attraction chart is good
/r/seduction14/09/13 07:39 PM
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One of the best pieces of advice I've ever read on seddit. This should be it's own post IMO. thanks a lot
/r/seduction09/09/13 07:32 PM
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True. I've seen them getting banned by the campus police. What I'm talking about is that I've read a lot about how social circle gaming is the best way to go on campus and cold approaching is inefficient at best. Do you think this view is wrong?
/r/seduction09/09/13 01:44 PM
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Agreed. What do u mean you can't pinpoint the time you meet?
/r/seduction07/09/13 06:01 PM
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I 100% agree. Even if this works, you probably need to stack with another opener. To me one of the lines in the comments is a much better approach: "Do you mind if I join you?". Stack another opener after this and you're set
/r/seduction07/09/13 05:59 PM
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"fuck it. I don't know what to say or how to continue this" Honestly my later stage game is OK. I don't know why I get anxiety right at this moment
/r/seduction04/09/13 07:25 PM
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I finished it about two weeks ago. He has a few rants about feminism that I think are unnessecary but overall great material. It's not just about seduction but about being a manly man.
/r/seduction03/09/13 09:26 PM
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My direct opener is "Hey I saw you from over there and thought you are cute, so I had to come over and say hi. What's your name?" I usually stack another opener right after "how's it going". It usually gets good responses. I think my issue is more of an inner game issue than outer. I think my AA has transcended from not being able to open to not being able to stay.
/r/seduction03/09/13 09:02 PM
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Excuse me! Hi! Aren't you from ___? (e.g. PSYCH101 class, ABC company, ...)
/r/seduction03/09/13 04:39 AM
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Isn't staring at her until she says something Nick Spark's advice? It works but only after you've been in a conversation for at least 5 mins IMO. If I reach that far, I usually do OK. The problem is I eject too early. I do use direct openers and I think they're great. But they usually never help with the transition stage.
/r/seduction03/09/13 04:37 AM
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I have three main openers: A direct one A situational one "Hey, how's it going?" I get 50% positive/warm responses, 25% polite rejections and 25% weird looks/rude rejections. This is for night game. For your second question, I'm not sure if I understand it right but I'm gonna say no.
/r/seduction03/09/13 04:31 AM
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Andy Yosha in Toronto?
/r/seduction04/07/13 12:43 AM
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sure man. PM me how to access it
/r/seduction03/07/13 03:45 PM
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Well, it doesn't bother me that much, but I feel like I'm losing some opportunities to make friends.
/r/seduction02/12/12 01:46 AM
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This . When they start talking about insider stuff that they only know about. I think it's offensive to do so, when someone who has no idea what they're talking about is around.
/r/seduction01/12/12 09:01 PM
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I really really like this advice
/r/seduction01/12/12 08:59 PM
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I almost always do the second option you mentioned. I don't think it's gonna make me go out of my comfort zone, although it is a good way of preventing being weird
/r/seduction01/12/12 08:58 PM
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Damn! I can't edit the title, can I?
/r/seduction01/12/12 08:56 PM
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Exactly! It's like I can't make the same emotional impact with English although I am almost completely fluent. One thing that has helped me a lot was watching late night TV shows. They have a great deal of humor and inside jokes related to the culture here.
/r/seduction21/10/12 04:59 PM
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It's funny because about a year ago I started forcing myself to think in English. I am at a point right now that I automatically think in English rather than Farsi. I cannot stress enough how much it has helped me. I like the idea of turning my lack of knowledge in something into a conversation point! Respect!
/r/seduction21/10/12 04:56 PM
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I can use metaphors, but not as much or as good as a native speaker. This is a really interesting point, because in my native language I use A LOT of metaphors and other literary devices in my day to day conversations to have more impact. In English though, with strangers, I use more mundane language which gets boring for both parties involved. I want to stress the "with strangers" part, because I am comfortable using "more fun" language with my friends.
/r/seduction21/10/12 04:49 PM
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I think it's because people from different countries use their own idioms and things they know like inside stuff that is related to their culture, so when they use it with an ESL person they don't get that reference and that's why it doesn't have the same power. Most ESL people translate what you're saying in their heads and interpret it. So what might sound funny to a native speaker isn't that funny in that language. Thankfully I'm past that stage (of translating to my language), but still ther…
/r/seduction21/10/12 02:07 AM
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I think it was more assholish for him to fuck her and leave. This is better in comparison
/r/seduction05/10/12 02:33 AM
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I found it useful to go to the extreme of being alpha -an asshole- and then balance it out with being nice. It's like taking a pendulum to one end and let it swing until it finds the sweet spot to stay at. I, myself, after being an asshole for a while ended up on the right place.
/r/seduction05/10/12 02:14 AM
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Upvote because of the Forgot About Dre TLDR
/r/seduction04/10/12 02:05 AM
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