How much attraction is too much attraction? Or How to avoid overgaming

2013-11-28T03:48:19+00:00

They're probably just trying to tell you to stop trying so hard.

mhrdth · 2013-11-27T22:35:05+00:00

How do you run your kino?

marrukt · 2013-11-27T22:54:00+00:00

As soon as she lets down her bitch shield.

upright619 · 2013-11-28T04:19:29+00:00

Are you me? I have this problem so much. I've met 2 girls in the past who within the first 1-2 dates get overgamed. Things like heavy make-outs, heavy petting, dirty talking and plans for sex happen. I go home feeling like I f-closed the girl but then they reject my calls and messages. I make them feel sleazy and slutty because I take it too far too soon.

Anyways to answer your question, once she is hooked and interested in you. Then you can take it from attraction to comfort. Don't be an idiot like me and get girls excited in attraction without comfort and losing an f-close because you took things too far too soon.

Make her interested enough to stay with you. But not so much that you 'overgame' her. Once sufficient time is spent together. Then you can overgame it a little until you sleep with her.

I hope this helps mate!

2013-11-28T04:20:57+00:00

I had/have similar problems, I'd say the trick is mostly to just calm down. don't let the reactions they make spur you on to tease more, bare in mind also push pull/teasing is something to create attraction rather than maintain. so joke a bit, then talk, then every now and then tease a bit.

also you can tease and kino at the same time

snwborder52 · 2013-11-29T02:17:34+00:00

You do them all at the same time. Stop thinking about it as steps in a process. Start thinking about it as components.

You're talking about growing up and she says something about how she was a huge nerd as a kid. Glasses, braces. Whole nine yards. You can tease her about it and then share your own experience of being the outcast as a kid.

You have just built and broken rapport in one fluid motion. You have developed attraction through teasing and created comfort by sharing yourself through compassion.

Title	How much attraction is too much attraction? Or How to avoid overgaming
Author	mhrdth
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	November 27, 2013 9:30 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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