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| 1 | OKC PrimerI am the writer of this blog and post, btw. I appreciate what you are saying but I respectfully disagree. As I've stated, it takes literally seconds to send out rapid-fires to 200 girls. "Generic" doesn't equate to "bad", in fact my openers are quite good (imo, but you may disagree based on the one example I've given). I don't believe in batting average and think it's a bad way to improve your success in the game. I don't know or care about what my response rate is. I am operating out of abundan… | /r/seduction | 11/12/13 02:57 AM |
| 0 | All the signs she's interested in you, and why it's so important to pay attention to them.IOI's are amateur shit. | /r/seduction | 04/10/13 08:09 AM |
| -4 | Couple of Alternative Ways To Meet Women If You Just Can't Deal with AADude, just join OKCupid. It will make you a fat lazy complacent slug who fucks women nonstop. Never ending supply. Seriously. | /r/seduction | 29/09/13 12:39 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Friendzoned a 9/10 blonde for the reference experience. Don't be afraid to say "No."Nope. :) | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 11:06 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Friendzoned a 9/10 blonde for the reference experience. Don't be afraid to say "No."Not sure how I said she had to feel bad or unwanted. Can you show me where it was said in the post? I met her again, and I actually really like her. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 09:32 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Friendzoned a 9/10 blonde for the reference experience. Don't be afraid to say "No."No ego. Self-esteem. I am enough. I have nothing to prove. I don't have to sleep with her for her to like me. I met her again, and I actually really like her. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 09:31 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Friendzoned a 9/10 blonde for the reference experience. Don't be afraid to say "No."That's the beauty of it, isn't it? Being able to say "no". If you are truly abundant, you don't always need to take whatever you can get. I met her again, and I actually really like her. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 09:30 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Friendzoned a 9/10 blonde for the reference experience. Don't be afraid to say "No."The tone may lead you to believe that, and I admit I was having a knee-jerk reaction. But we did have a great time together. I met her again, and I actually really like her. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 09:29 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Friendzoned a 9/10 blonde for the reference experience. Don't be afraid to say "No."Of course, I wanted to say "yes". Girls always want to say "yes". Sex is good for both of us. My intention was that I did not want sex at this time, and I was merely using the similar behavior of women as an example. As a man, I did not want to have sex that night. It came from no place but within. I met her again, and I actually really like her. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 09:28 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Friendzoned a 9/10 blonde for the reference experience. Don't be afraid to say "No."I wasn't being an asshole. She wanted to meet at 3am, so we met at 3am. It was empowering because I was doing something without any dependence on the outcome, which was sex. We still had a great time, and that's what I wanted. I met her again, and I actually really like her. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 09:26 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Friendzoned a 9/10 blonde for the reference experience. Don't be afraid to say "No."Only one who makes sense here. I said "no" to sex because I said "no". It's that simple. It becomes more simple the more successful you are. | /r/seduction | 10/08/13 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How to transition a FWB to gf?I just texted her "good night, dear" last night, and she texted back "why are you calling me dear". Welp, /thread. Some people just aren't meant to be in relationships. | /r/seduction | 28/06/13 09:41 PM |
| 1 | How to transition a FWB to gf?I'll risk losing the girl, and if i don't, then I will still see her and sleep with her. Fuck relationships. I am beginning to see that it's all a sham. I was happy sleeping with multiple women and sleeping with a few whose company I enjoyed a bit longer, and I want it to be like this until it fizzles out (like all relationships do). Fuck relatioinships. I won't go as far as to say that it's manufactured by millennia of marriages and social conditioning (rom com movies, love stories, etc), but I… | /r/seduction | 28/06/13 10:03 AM |
| 2 | How to transition a FWB to gf?I think our best chance is to keep our true feelings a secret until she reveals hers. finally a guy who speaks my language. | /r/seduction | 26/06/13 08:12 AM |
| 2 | How to transition a FWB to gf?Being in a relationship doesn't devalue you, but wanting to be in a relationship does. | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 10:24 PM |
| 2 | Date with a virgin tonight. Should I cancel?Yes, living in NYC is fucking expensive. 2 years ago I did the impossible which was to pay off my student loans in full before the interest had accrued (I had paying jobs non-stop since I was 15), but now I'm in a boatload of cc debt. But it's simply too much of a priority for me to skip out on dates because I can't afford it. $14 on drinks beats $14 on cigs or unnecessary seamless food. Plus, this RSD Tyler video pretty much sums it up. | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 05:29 PM |
| 1 | How to transition a FWB to gf?I guess I'm afraid of losing the FWB situation because I really like sleeping with her, and just the low pressure of being around her. I don't know. I'll see how it goes. I will lean towards your advice but I won't do it exactly. I think its challenging and foreign nature means it will make me grow stronger regardless of the outcome. | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Date with a virgin tonight. Should I cancel?Yeah, I have literally nothing to lose. I love going on dates. It just makes perfect sense. Being broke is the only thing that sucks, but whatever - cc debt. | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 04:54 PM |
| 1 | How to transition a FWB to gf?Nooooo. I can't ever address it like that. Not yet. I am definitely not ready for that level of vulnerability, and I think it's way too soon. I'm going to tell her to see this movie with me, and if she's seen it already or can't, then I'll just download it and have her come over and watch it. I can't use the words "actual date". Sorry. | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 04:37 PM |
| 2 | How to transition a FWB to gf?I know how you feel, and 99% of the time I make it apparent from the get-go that I am not looking for anything serious. This has always worked to my favor. I've had girls stop seeing me when they had a boyfriend, and then hit me up again when they were single. It's good being that guy. But every once in a while (really only 3 times in my life - I'm 25), I kind of "fall" for a girl. Or I catch this STD called "feelings", and I don't know how to express them without repelling the girl with needine… | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 04:30 PM |
| 4 | How to transition a FWB to gf?That's odd because, as a male who has spent a ridiculous amount of time and energy on attracting females, it seems like all you have to do is exist. This is just my extremely biased opinion. 100% of the reason I fear getting into a relationship is because it devalues me. Well, that's 50%. The other 50% is not being able to sleep with other women, because I don't want to cheat. | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 04:27 PM |
| 2 | How to transition a FWB to gf?I'm going to do this. We are both Star Trek fans, so I'm thinking of taking her to see Trek Into Darkness. I wish I wasn't broke though. Maybe I should fuck her a few more times? Dunno. | /r/seduction | 25/06/13 04:25 PM |
| 3 | The Tipping Point. You know it when you've reached it.This is what I keep telling myself as I get better at this. Muad'Dib learned rapidly because his first training was in how to learn. And the first lesson of all was the basic trust that he could learn. It's shocking to find how many people do not believe they can learn, and how many more believe learning to be difficult. Muad'Dib knew that every experience carries its lesson. | /r/seduction | 01/06/13 03:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR and more] Gain Reference Experiences: girl with PTSD, "girlfriends", and attention whoresMy current sticking point is that, I have real abundance. I have dozens of girls on rotation that I can call up and fuck any day of the week. However, blow outs and rejections still hurt. I'm like Jeffy in Transformations. I'm getting better though. I hope. I ditched my girlfriend tonight so I could go sarging and I had a 10/10 night. No lays, but it was a 10/10 night. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 08:20 AM |
| 2 | [FR and more] Gain Reference Experiences: girl with PTSD, "girlfriends", and attention whoresHaha, yes. Before I got into the game, a single lay a semester would be heaven to me. I would fantasize about having girlfriends with the pretty girl in my class. Then I started to get really good with dates and only this past month did I reach a tipping point. I don't like to keep count because I think it places too much importance on sex, but so far this month I have had a lay with a different girl every single day. It's a ridiculous amount of abundance when I think of it. It hasn't even sunke… | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 12:50 AM |
| 2 | [FR and more] Gain Reference Experiences: girl with PTSD, "girlfriends", and attention whoresIt's so odd to hear that. I see myself as such an immoral person and always fear downvotes whenever I post my FR's. It means a lot that you say that. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 12:44 AM |
| 1 | "You're just not my type" - what does this mean?Thanks for the advice. In my case, it's been in occasions where I get "you're just not my type" before we even talk at all. I've also gotten "you're too young for me" with girls who are 27 (I'm 25). It's especially frustrating when their online dating profile says they date men ages 25-36. Even more frustrating when you call them out on this, and they say "you're just not my type." We've at least concluded that it is purely based on looks. Since I am not the same race as those I get this from, I… | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 07:25 AM |
| 0 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!If you are, you're high functioning and found an excellent way to channel whatever impulses you have. | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 04:13 AM |
| 1 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!Julien, I'm running out of friends who are as dedicated to going out as much as I am. I've gone out solo a couple of times, and it is still very scary. Do you go solo, and if so, do you have any advice? | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 04:11 AM |
| 1 | AMA with JULIEN from REAL SOCIAL DYNAMICS!Julien, why won't you come to NYC anymore? I saw your Hot Field 2 footage but you were not there to narrate. Can you please come to NYC? | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 03:00 AM |
| 1 | [FR] My date with a Governor's daughter? Don't know what you mean. I'm not white, and in fact the only person I'm racist against is myself (I call myself mud-skinned in a few of my posts). I just wanted to share my night with a cool and pretty girl. | /r/seduction | 29/03/13 07:53 PM |
| -12 | [FR] My date with Miss Hannah Minx.You are a girl though, so nothing you say matters and you'd love me in person. | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 10:29 PM |
| 0 | [FR] My date with Miss Hannah Minx.don't know. she won't be getting special treatment though. | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 10:19 PM |
| -3 | [FR] My date with Miss Hannah Minx.I am a douche. | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 12:31 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My date with Miss Hannah Minx.I don't particularly care for her tits because I really like her face. | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 12:29 PM |
| 3 | [FR] My date with Miss Hannah Minx.I saw her at a bar and instantly opened her and instantly recognized her. We chatted and exchanged numbers. I was as persistent as possible. I really did give it my all. If this was a year ago I'd be shitting myself. I've met a few, but mostly male celebrities. No, she was pretty nice and friendly. No idea. n/a | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 01:26 AM |
| 5 | [FR] My date with Miss Hannah Minx.Thanks for liking my blog! I'm just glad I burned it to the ground. I wouldn't have been able to live with myself if I hadn't went balls to the wall. | /r/seduction | 25/03/13 12:34 AM |
| 1 | How to know when you need a break from the game.more info here: projectinvictus.com | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 06:10 AM |
| 1 | How to know when you need a break from the game.Lol, no. I am pre-med but it doesn't mean anything. I'm unemployed and never tell girls about my career (or lack thereof) anyway. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 08:09 PM |
| 2 | How to know when you need a break from the game.it shouldn't be the thing that makes you get up in the morning It literally is. Fuck. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 06:30 PM |
| 1 | How to know when you need a break from the game.He also realized that he was losing sight of who he was because he adapted who he was, in some way, to suit each girl he approached. This couldn't be closer to the truth for me. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 05:24 PM |
| 2 | How to know when you need a break from the game.There is no issue with my confidence. I still consistently make progress in the game, and as of 2013 I have been sleeping with more than one girl a week so my success rate is at an all-time high. However, I still feel scarce. reddit user recyclablebantha's post is intriguing: It honestly sounds as if the game has become hollow for you because you're ready for a different challenge.... actually BUILDING a relationship. Building a real relationship with real emotional connections. THAT'S why you f… | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 07:39 AM |
| 1 | How to know when you need a break from the game.More than 100. It isn't a feat. I spend a lot more time on this shit than most people. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 07:33 AM |
| 2 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.how many things are there in your life that you would choose to do rather than hang out with one of these girls? Virtually zero. Thanks. I need to get my shit together. Women are just so good at motivating me. In my life I've always been most motivated when I had a girl I liked that was going well. I felt like I was breaking through and reaching my potential. Inner game. God, it's fucking challenging. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 10:17 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.Ah, that sucks. I can't imagine how it feels to be in a small town like that. I live in NYC so I really don't have an excuse. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 09:07 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.If I flake on her, I will try to set something up for later, proving that I like her. When girls flake, they just disappear. I have to re-initiate, lowering my value each time. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 08:10 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.There IS a girl who I'm supposed to meet tonight, and she mentioned that she doesn't have to get up in the morning. I (by the grace of god) had sex with someone else last night so I am feeling a lot less needy, and somehow want to focus on myself and get work done tonight. I am considering flaking on her. I just hope I don't regret it a week later thinking "Oh no, another girl I could have fucked fell through the cracks! NO!" What is the feel that a girl feels when she flakes on me? I still don'… | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.Edit: some tactical advice: demand reciprocity. That doesn't mean that you should always expect her to make commitments first; however, it does mean that you should never be more emotionally involved than she is. This is where communicating your intentions and expectations really matters. Don't let yourself get into a FWB thing when you really want much greater involvement on the part of both partners. Yes, I hate feeling more emotionally involved than she is. Like when I first meet a girl and a… | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.Your perception of me viewing pick-up as a reward for being top bloke is true. I work hard during the week lifting and studying, and although I like these activities, I don't love them yet. I love and look forward to the game. To going out at the end of my night or week, to having sex and relaxing with wine, to just talking to a beautiful girl. I can't go slow. Lover vs. provider. I am always the lover. It's best. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.I'm sure they do, but it's still a good idea to constantly push and become better. I just don't understand what you mean by flaking on other girls. Do you mean on purpose? | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.I'm being treated for dysthymia, but it's largely under control. I just have these episodes because I'm a poor loser. I can't take a break because I just can't. It's too important to me and I need to make progress. I feel a lot better by the way, largely because of this thread. I guess I just needed bros to talk to. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.One thing's for sure, when you find that special somebody (and no matter how cynical I can also sometimes be, I do believe they exist) your whole outlook on things'll change. You'll share things you've never shared, express emotions you've never shown. As long as you can maintain your sense of identity and you've got a good woman by your side, it is the most beautiful feeling in the world. And I really do hope that you find it. This is so remote and nebulous to me because I am so afraid to indiv… | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 07:34 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.What was this post? I didn't get to read it and it's now deleted? | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.You're absolutely right. Sometimes when I feel low because of my fuck-ups, I think about how the success I've had in the past three years has been expontential. I am going to try to think of Tim Ferriss' idea of every morning and every night write about things you are grateful for. It sounds cheesy, but I think I need the perspective. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 12:16 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.About the depression. I've been logging every day in an excel calendar since 2011. I log my mood meticulously and compare the days and severity of 2011, 2012, and 2013. So far my feelings of depression are much rarer in frequency but much more severe than the previous two years. When I get frustrated/upset I can't focus on anything else and function. I need to think of an activity to do when I need to get into a meditative state that is also active. Maybe I should start running again. Weight lif… | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 12:13 PM |
| 2 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.I try but there's just so many beautiful women I see everyday at this city, I just hate the thought of wasting the opportunity. It will take discipline, I suppose. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 12:07 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.Do you mean day game? I've thought about this long and hard - to take a break from the game. But I just can't do it. I want to learn and become great at it. I want it as bad as I want my actual career. I can't take a break from that. But I will try to just take a month off from caring about girls or flaking. I'll still game but with less of a priority. What do you think of meetup.org? I'm thinking what other way can I be social? | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 12:06 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.Yes, that explains it a lot. I can't go a week without sex, and at that point fapping is an option but I still feel like a failure after because it just isn't what I want. I just don't view it as productive. I feel good for like 3m when I'm hyper-rationale post-jerk. But then i'm back to frantically horny me. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.Yes, I know that there is a line between what your current skill level is and what you deeply want to be like your heroes in RSD (Tyler and Julien), but I still feel failure if I don't get like three make-outs in a row doing cold approach and sex on the second date. I'm not sure I understand why you flaked on girls? To realize how it feels to do the flaking? Are you saying I should flake on purpose? | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 11:59 AM |
| 2 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.I'm glad you believe that we can still have meaningful relationships. I like to numb my self with cynicism but I lean in your direction. Whenever I like a girl enough to be my GF, I lose congruency and they can just smell it off me. I also have never had a GF, so i don't even know how to make that relationship official. I've only had relationships based on sex, and they are never exclusive. I have no idea how to even get one going? I mean, do I ask her "Will you be my girlfriend? That's exclusiv… | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 11:55 AM |
| 3 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.Yeah, I'm not sure I'd like to know how many guys she's slept with. Don't ask, don't tell. | /r/seduction | 24/02/13 11:51 AM |
| -3 | Doing pick-up for 3 years, enormously successful for weeks but then one flake sets me into a spiral of depression. Seriously starting to hate women.It was one flake, but I've had many flakes over the course of the past few months so it's just compounded. I told her I never had a girlfriend because I thought (in my stupidity) that I could be honest and genuine, and now my knee jerk response is to lie, lie, lie. I know I'm fucked up. I got into this obsessively and my reality collapses when things don't work out. If you've ever seen Jeffy's Transformations video where he talks about how he has great nights and then a bad night and he throws h… | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 10:41 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Girl who flaked on me 2 weeks ago texts me at midnight. She want sum fuk.? | /r/seduction | 08/12/12 03:22 AM |
| 1 | [FR] - two nights and the luxury of having keys to your office overlooking madison square gardenHaha, nice FR. This was this past Saturday. I just realized I meant Madison Square Park, not MSG. | /r/seduction | 13/11/12 11:26 PM |
| 3 | AMA request - Julien from RSDI did. It cannot be unseen. | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 06:28 PM |
| 3 | AMA request - Julien from RSDkay | /r/seduction | 27/10/12 04:12 AM |
| 1 | Too sleepy to fuckShe did say she was working since 5AM, and she does work at a lab (she knew what she was talking about in that respect). I personally don't think she was on anything, and that she was sleepy. I'm just upset at myself for not doing something about it. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 05:52 PM |
| 1 | Too sleepy to fuckI thought about posting it on /r/AskSeddit, but I've been at this for a while so I think I'm definitely at least intermediate. Let me update my original post to clarify what I am asking the community for advice on. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 02:24 PM |
| 4 | Too sleepy to fuckI used to squirm every time I read this on reddit, because I disagreed with it so much. What's the worst thing a crazy girl can do? Up until a couple of weeks back when I had a condom break on me and a girl going absolutely bat shit on me. I got her free Plan B, but she just lost her mind and I had to threaten a restraining order on her to get her to stop calling me and buzzing my apartment. So yes, I concur to a degree. Be very fucking careful sticking your dick in crazy. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 01:26 PM |
| 4 | Too sleepy to fuckShe's mentioned mostly weed, which I also told her I smoke occasionally. She mentioned coke/adderall only in passing to attempt to stay awake. She may not be interested in me sexually, but I wouldn't go as far as to say she is just looking for coke. I don't even know how she'd think I'd have access to those drugs before meeting me. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 01:23 PM |
| 6 | Too sleepy to fuckI've made out/slept with a lot of coke whores/ex-coke whores. I can count 5 in the past year who used to have relationships based on sex in exchange for pure coke with their dealers. I don't care. I wouldn't date someone like that, but I like having sex with them just not if they still do the stuff. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 01:22 PM |
| 1 | Too sleepy to fuckI agree. Don't worry, I have been setting up plenty of dates from OKC and going out for 2 hours/night 3-4 times a night everyday during my MCAT prep. I am fully in support of keeping other girls in rotation, but I do want results and I want to know what went wrong in this interaction and if I can salvage it. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Too sleepy to fuckI made out with her, had her sit on my lap on a recliner, and reached for her zipper (on the back of her dress) and that's when she mentioned she wasn't going to sleep with me that night because she was "sleepy". I'm not sure what I did wrong. She does work hard at a lab as a neurophysiologist, and had been working since 5AM (according to her). Although I believe a better me could have still successfully fucked her that night, I do believe (to an extent) that she was simply too tired. My only qu… | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 01:18 PM |
| 0 | Too sleepy to fuckYou're right, I agree with you. But she's still new to the city and I don't think she's found many yet. If I wait too long, she could have found someone. I just had another girl with whom I flaked on earlier this week find someone 3 days later and is now exclusive. feelsbad | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 06:37 AM |
| 0 | Too sleepy to fuckI tried, but she kept saying she was falling asleep whenever I went in for the make-out. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 06:36 AM |
| -2 | Too sleepy to fuckHow could she have found a better deal when she was with me. She lost interest during the interaction, not after. | /r/seduction | 16/09/12 06:35 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Solo and Sober - Night 2pussy on a pedestal buzz-phrase of the century. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 09:01 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Solo and Sober - Night 2outcome dependent I disagree. I mentioned many times that I had no intention to get laid at all that night, but simply to work on my approaches and improve my game. I had no intruding thoughts about what I should be doing, and was simply present. I think I was very process-oriented. ignored the guy I guess it was douchey to ignore him, and being able to talk to anyone and everyone is important in building momentum. I just preferred to keep it focused and compact. In hindsight, I would've had a l… | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 08:57 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Solo and Sober - Night 2Your major gripe with my FR are: 1. there's a perceived douchey tone 2. not talking to guys 3. not trying to impress girls Don't know what to tell you, man. I'm not going to bars to talk to guys, I'm not trying to impress girls, and I write the way I write. My gripe with you is that you are still at a basic level of game. You want to be everyone's friend, and you fear being direct. Talking to a possible lay and having them catching on to that is a problem to you. It isn't. You have to be direct.… | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 08:35 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Solo and Sober - Night 2I consider the night a success because I went out, made approaches, and wrote an honest field report about it. I consider the night a success because I did all of these things, and others seem to agree. If all you got was "TL;DR - he didn't get laid" then this is the wrong sub-forum for you, man. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 08:17 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Solo and Sober - Night 2Social Proof is an outdated concept that doesn't mean anything. No one pays enough attention to single out a guy who's there alone just to pick up chicks. In fact, I've told some girls directly that I was there alone and it didn't matter. Have you read anything past The Game? | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:57 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Solo and Sober - Night 2Thanks. I'm going to continue doing this for a while, so it's not about results with me. I am at that point where it's less about sex and more about knowing I can pull, even when I am completely out of state. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:53 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Solo and Sober - Night 2I roam off-topic in my FR, or in my conversation with women? If it's the FR, then that's just my personal input and the way I write, so I accept the feedback. As for conversations with women, I think it's best to move around and keep the sands shifting. | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:52 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Solo and Sober - Night 2How so? | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:51 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Solo and Sober - Night 2I don't think he "upstaged" me. This isn't about results, it's about overcoming psychological barriers. I didn't want to waste time talking to males - that's the reason. Going out solo and sober is the best way to purely accelerate your game. You have no safety net of friends to return to between sets, you have no alcohol to dull away the pain of set-backs, it's just you and the world. If you still use the word "creep", "upstage", and don't understand why someone would go out solo and sober - th… | /r/seduction | 13/08/12 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Every once in a while, I come across a crazy chick. I am intrigued to see how far I can take it. Here's a transcript - enjoy.I've been using this site for the past year, and I have never had a problem with online communication. It's what we (you and I) are doing right now, and it's fine. This is the first time I've ever come across a girl who is just a complete and total bitch for no reason just from looking at my picture. It was just completely uncalled for. I was intrigued in that I wanted to know why she had such a chip on her shoulder. I don't know what you mean by "figure your shit out". What do you mean? Either … | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Every once in a while, I come across a crazy chick. I am intrigued to see how far I can take it. Here's a transcript - enjoy.My thoughts exactly. I was really starting to get worried that seddit was full of white knights like reddit typically is. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 08:50 AM |
| 0 | Every once in a while, I come across a crazy chick. I am intrigued to see how far I can take it. Here's a transcript - enjoy.I completely disagree. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 08:47 AM |
| 0 | Every once in a while, I come across a crazy chick. I am intrigued to see how far I can take it. Here's a transcript - enjoy.There's nothing I can even conceive of that would have worked to OP's favor. The chick was brutal from the start. She simply did not like OP from his picture, and continued chatting because she was'bored'. There is nothing OP could have done to build attraction. If you can think of something that would have worked, I'd like to hear it. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 08:40 AM |
| 0 | Every once in a while, I come across a crazy chick. I am intrigued to see how far I can take it. Here's a transcript - enjoy.What do you mean? How could he have been less insufferingly irritating? The girl wasn't having any of it. There was absolutely nothing he could have said to make it work. | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 08:34 AM |
| 0 | Every once in a while, I come across a crazy chick. I am intrigued to see how far I can take it. Here's a transcript - enjoy.how did OP fail? how would he have done differently? | /r/seduction | 25/06/12 08:24 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, let me introduce you to Project InvictusA blog focused on many aspects of self-improvement. I categorize them into Body, Mind, and Spirit. It's not just about the girls, but about a life worth living. Hope you enjoy! *FOr the record, the girls' pics and names I've used, do not mind | /r/seduction | 12/04/12 07:25 AM |
| 3 | How to tell a girl is really into you.I was about to start a tirade, but then I read "It doesn't matter what she thinks!!" and stopped right there. That's all you need to know. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 07:45 PM |
| 3 | Over heard a guy say this today while he was on the phone. It was brilliant.Yeah, if you're a pussy. "what made ___" makes it sound like you're passing the time 'mingling' at a party. If you're establishing intent, and man-to-woman tonality from the get-go, then it doesn't really matter what you say anyway. | /r/seduction | 23/02/12 07:43 PM |
| 3 | Alpha response to "It was nice meeting you"?THERE IS NO ALPHA RESPONSE, THIS MEANS YOU HAVE FUCKED UP AND NEED TO MOVE ON. -Jeffy | /r/seduction | 28/01/12 11:54 PM |
| 7 | [FR] I won New Years Eve! 2 F-Closes in same night, one with a friendzone/oneitisI understand, but I'm such an introvert (I understand many of us who read about seduction are), that most of all interactions are mentally exhausting. I am fine with women because I can be calm and collected, and whatever I say is focused and intense like a laser beam. However, when out with friends, I'm the same way except without sex as a goal I have nothing to focus in on. I sometimes do enjoy my experience of just being there with my friends, but there's always part of me nagging me to talk … | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 07:32 PM |
| 9 | [FR] I won New Years Eve! 2 F-Closes in same night, one with a friendzone/oneitisGetting the condom from woman #2 and subsequently using it on woman #1 - ni[...]ce. I often picture myself in the OP's situation when reading FR's to see if it can be possible in my reality and if I flinch. Surprisingly, in your FR, the only thing that I can't stomach to deal with is being that other guy who was hitting on woman #2. Not because he was hitting on her unsuccessfully - I can deal with that, always have. Only when you come in as the charming guy, or just another guy, do I not know h… | /r/seduction | 02/01/12 05:57 PM |
| 1 | [FR] On Being. My day includes various interactions, ending in an F-close of course. But the take-away message is being present. Just enjoy it all. Hope you enjoy.Fake names. | /r/seduction | 24/12/11 10:15 PM |
| 0 | [FR] On Being. My day includes various interactions, ending in an F-close of course. But the take-away message is being present. Just enjoy it all. Hope you enjoy.Ah, yeah since this was originally just a blog post with references to people mentioned in previous posts it may be misleading. I'm 5'8". I did just met this Amanda. Jennifer is the one I work with, and someone I used to date but that ended horribly. I met Amanda on OKcupid. We shot a few texts back and forth to meet, and this was the night we finally met. Thank you for your feedback. | /r/seduction | 24/12/11 05:03 PM |
| 1 | I'm tired of one night stands. Have you reached a moment of disillusionment when at first sex was all you were after then realized that it always felt empty in the end?I spent a full-year doing nothing but going out 3-4 nights a week having one-night stands. At first, I wouldn't stop there and would try to see the girl again the next week and basically exhaust the mutual possibility of sex until she wanted something more. There came a point, I think 4-5 months after I graduated college, where my momentum just exploded. I would set up dates back-to-back and have sex with a few different women a day. It wasn't even about the sex anymore at this point. I was just… | /r/seduction | 13/12/11 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Once you get them into the house, how do you close the deal?WHEN WILL REFERENCES TO THIS MOVIE END? | /r/seduction | 13/12/11 01:01 AM |
| -4 | Short Indian Kid Picking up Girls at a Club [Infield Video]Eh, they both suck. | /r/seduction | 12/12/11 06:25 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Show intent from the first second. Don't let the table come between you two.Thank you, sir. | /r/seduction | 23/11/11 11:58 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Show intent from the first second. Don't let the table come between you two.Yep, it's me. I posted this field report because I like the seduction community, and we can all learn from each other. I hope you can take away more from this than my personal issues. | /r/seduction | 23/11/11 11:53 AM |
| 3 | [FR] Show intent from the first second. Don't let the table come between you two.:rolls eyes: | /r/seduction | 23/11/11 06:39 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Show intent from the first second. Don't let the table come between you two.Sarcasm aside, if we had a table between us it would have been impossible to have any physicality between us at all. It would have been a cerebral chat between us two, with a possibly heavy-handed make-out later on. Since I had already kissed her, it wouldn't have been a big deal, but it's far from ideal. If there's any take-away message from this FR, I want it to be about the fucking table. | /r/seduction | 23/11/11 06:38 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Show intent from the first second. Don't let the table come between you two.This is a subreddit where we read about hitting on women. It seems like we should all be past this point... | /r/seduction | 23/11/11 06:34 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Show intent from the first second. Don't let the table come between you two.Damn, tough crowd. The post is true. She is a bit on the crazy, manipulative bitch side (maybe more than a bit), but I'm not looking for a wife or girlfriend in her. Did I just stumble into 4chan by mistake? Ironically, I did post this exact same field report and website to 4chan and got much better responses. | /r/seduction | 23/11/11 12:13 AM |
| 1 | Seddit, allow me to introduce you to - Project Ubermensch.Although it incorporates "standard contemporary values," what stays true to the Nietzschean theme is that I (try to) follow it to a religious degree. It may not be as cool as Ozymandias' supreme belief in his morally ambiguous choice to destroy the city of Manhattan in order to prevent a full-scale nuclear war in Watchmen, or Batman's complete devotion to the ideal of stopping crime, but it is all I have at this point. Right now all I have for goals is that of relentless self-improvement. I don'… | /r/seduction | 22/11/11 05:59 AM |
| 2 | Seddit, allow me to introduce you to - Project Ubermensch.How so? I'm aware that the concept is often butchered by everyone from here to Hitler, but I think I supported it well in my "About" section. | /r/seduction | 22/11/11 04:50 AM |
| 4 | What's your best first date greeting/intro?When you see her, walk towards her with a big smile and your arms extended as if you are ready to give her a big hug. Give her that big hug, but lift her up and say "I'm taking you home with me" and walk away with her for a couple of feet, length directly proportional to how big your balls are. My favorite opener ever. | /r/seduction | 21/11/11 08:47 PM |
| 0 | Getting into state. Two kinds of approaches.Good post. I like to write in a journal every night before I go to sleep. It helps me both organize and catalogue my thoughts, which salves my introverted nerdy side. I like your list of things to do to get in state. I'd like to add singing to that list. I can't sing for the life of me, but there's nothing like belting out lyrics at the top of your lungs for getting out of your own head and just feeling good. Another thing that Owen from rsd likes to do is scream at the top of your lungs the sec… | /r/seduction | 31/10/11 07:14 AM |
| 1 | TofuTofu here to answer your questions...It doesn't happen frequently. Like maybe twice in the past 6 months. This has happened with close friends. I don't really feel upset, but they just notice change in my behavior and my voice. I would prefer to not be in their presence when this happens, so I guess I am upset, but I don't lash out and break stuff. Maybe I am making mountains out of molehills, but when do you know to be firm and assertive, and when do you know to let some shit slide? I am a relaxed and lenient person, but my roomma… | /r/seduction | 27/10/11 11:02 PM |
| 1 | TofuTofu here to answer your questions...I'm a big proponent of RSD. I just got back from the free conference, hot seat, and new Foundation series that they were filming. Really great stuff. I don't really have many sticking points, but I do have some confusion regarding dealing with other people (people who upset you, AMOGs, friends who are being tools, etc). The best thing to do is to address it, but not let it affect you. Whenever I address it, my voice betrays me and they can sense either fear or anger in my voice. It sucks. I do v… | /r/seduction | 27/10/11 10:39 PM |
| 4 | How can I improve this kind of eye contact?Anything. The point is that you should be vibing from the first look. Show intent. Don't beat around the bush, don't ask her what time it is, don't talk about anything you don't want to talk about to make her comfortable or go under the radar. You are a man with a dick. The only thing holding you back from kissing her less than a few minutes is basic social conventions and possible lawsuit. Anything longer than a few minutes, it's fear and no attraction. | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 06:46 PM |
| 2 | How can I improve this kind of eye contact?You don't have to smile. This is something that I have always found came to me naturally, but not for some others. I recently went to a summit, and there were some questions about the issue of "holding eye contact, with nothing else" and that means, don't let it turn into a stare. When you hold eye contact, soften your eyes. Your eyes should be smiling, bright, and happy. They also call this bedroom eyes, when your pupils are slightly dilated and you just have a positive seductive energy about y… | /r/seduction | 26/10/11 06:07 PM |
| 1 | Can't get myself to not pay for dates.When I go out for drinks I usually start off by saying "I'll get this round". When we're done with drinks, I'll say something like "Let's get another round" and she'll take the initiative to order and pay for the second round. You can also let her know what you want, or tell her to order you something that she recommends to give her the idea in a casual way. If you're at a sit-down place where there's a bill, you can let her take the initiative. If the first thing she does is check the bill as s… | /r/seduction | 03/10/11 04:20 AM |
| 64 | Just Be Yourself: The Worst Dating Advice Known To ManYou have to be awesome first, then you can be yourself. | /r/seduction | 26/09/11 04:50 PM |
| 0 | [mini FR] Gave a cute girl on the train my number, she texted, what would you reply?I can't imagine how much you must have to mess up in person to give off a demeaning vibe. I think camp is fine, and I always err on aggressive rather than passive. YMMV | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 11:50 PM |
| 10 | [mini FR] Gave a cute girl on the train my number, she texted, what would you reply?I always get a creep vibe from the wink smilie face. It could work in a naughty, double-entendre context, but I'd stay away from it. I try to stay away from all emoticons, but sometimes I throw in a ":)" if I feel some friendship-like connection (this being after you have slept with her). But even still, I'd use it as a stand alone message instead of tacking it at the end of something. Visualize your texts being sent to her without any care about her response, as confident, monolithic entities. … | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 08:19 PM |
| -6 | [mini FR] Gave a cute girl on the train my number, she texted, what would you reply?Keep it shorter, with less emoticons (as in none). Something like "Hey you, let's get a [coffee or drink] this [day or night]" | /r/seduction | 06/09/11 06:20 PM |
| 1 | The old Catch 22 rears its ugly head once moreI totally understand what you are going through. A couple of months ago I met a girl who I was really into, and who was really into me. It wasn't a typical pick-up, we knew each other for a while, and it was a mutual crush. Things were golden. Sometimes I feel such strong emotion that I rationalize by "being alpha". For example, I will feel really happy about something that happened to me, and although the rules of the game state that you shouldn't be too available, I would contact her anyway ju… | /r/seduction | 28/08/11 04:51 AM |
| 1 | Do I ever need to apologize for being cocky? DITNo. | /r/seduction | 29/07/11 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Adultfriendfinder / Craigslist's casual relationship section - Anyone used these?feelsgoodman | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 05:39 AM |
| 6 | I don't drink and I'm young. Where do I take the ladies for a good time?You can still go to parties and bars, just don't drink. I rarely drink when I'm out now. A lot of PUA's are teetotalers. You won't be able to justify the hooking up while drunk thing, but drunk sex sucks anyway. | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Adultfriendfinder / Craigslist's casual relationship section - Anyone used these?Nah, it was Rosanne. She used to have a blog up with her pics, but it's gone now even the cache. | /r/seduction | 28/07/11 04:07 AM |
| 5 | What actor in a movie do you think is the ideal PUA example?He's actually quite intelligent. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 11:43 PM |
| -1 | What actor in a movie do you think is the ideal PUA example?Batman. He doesn't give a fuck and has an ideal that he subscribes to. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 11:20 PM |
| 9 | Adultfriendfinder / Craigslist's casual relationship section - Anyone used these?I've slept with one woman I met on CL. She was actually beautiful (tall, thin, did amateur modeling) but she was also very depressed. It was good sex, but like everyone else has said, extremely rare to find a girl like that on that website and ultimately not worth wading through the spam and dudes. The strategy I used is the only one you can use: send a pic. There's very little game involved with CL hook-ups. You can get a feel for which posts are created by real people and which are fake, it's … | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 07:06 PM |
| 1 | RSD- Blueprint; by far the best material I have ever come across right here in pdf form.This is true; edited. | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Don't ever waste your time on someone who doesn't appreciate you.There's a video series by RealSocialDynamics (which is the best pua, no, social self-improvement material imo) called Transformations. This particular video featured Jeffy, and it served as a cautionary tale. This man, like many others in the PUA community, went out every single night for 1000 nights, and exclusively had threesomes for all of those nights. He would do this, but every once in a while he wouldn't have luck, and he'd come home and throw his TV out of his window. You can study game … | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 05:29 PM |
| 10 | Why neediness is bad, why it exists, and how to fix itI'd strongly recommend Eckhart Tolle's Power of Now. It basically says that everything that you experience is fleeting, except the now, which is all there is and all there ever was or will be. You deal with setbacks and other problems in your life by identifying them as "life situations", rather than your "life". Your "life" is one thing, it's the present, it's you now. I prefer to listen to his audiobook because he has a very soothing voice. Another interesting thing he talks about is the "pain… | /r/seduction | 27/07/11 12:04 AM |
| 3 | Highly condensed seduction processI'd say that the hardest step is "just fucking approach", followed by keeping the conversation going without worrying about the outcome or any of the arbitrary goals you may have set for yourself. For example, don't necessarily worry about how interesting you are, or if you have a relevant story, or anything. Just breathe. Be comfortable in your space and in the conversation. Let her speak about whatever she's speaking about. But do not stay silent. When you speak, you must speak up. You project… | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 08:36 AM |
| 1 | Girls I have talked to say that I am out of their league. Is this a bad thing?Sometimes this happens. In the past, I would have girls approach me with obvious interest, but I would not demonstrate congruence with the value they initially believed I had. Work on your inner game, and realize that your looks or whatever inherently valuable characteristic you have is irrelevant and do not acknowledge what they say about it at all. Good game is independent of such feedback. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 08:27 AM |
| 5 | What does seddit think of this "get out of friend zone" lifehack?Don't even google "get out of friend zone". Move on. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 08:18 AM |
| 10 | I'm a moron. I said this to a girl...Whenever you feel you have fucked up saying something stupid to a girl, answer with blind and utter confidence. | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 08:17 AM |
| 2 | Don't ever waste your time on someone who doesn't appreciate you.I felt this way with a girl I used to sleep with. I was the only one initiating, and once I stopped contacting her I hadn't heard from her in over a month. We were not dating, but I still found it mind-boggling because we had hung out very often prior to that. I decided to send her a text this past Friday night, and she was very receptive. We ended up meeting up and having sex again. Later on, I realized that nothing had changed and she only wants the sex. As a guy, I should revel in this fact, … | /r/seduction | 26/07/11 08:14 AM |
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