Met this girl on OKC a week ago. She keeps telling me how "sexy" I am and wants to meet ASAP. I tell her Friday night. She tells me she likes whiskey (way better than girls who can't take it). She texts me a few times before Friday saying "I can't wait to see you tomorrow!"
Friday rolls around, and she comes by. She's hotter than her photos.
Keep in mind, her profile clearly states that you should message her if "you want to go on a date or hookup, if you are not looking for anything too serious (think summer fling not engagement). Her questions regarding sex are excellent: she joined OKC to have sex, she has an insatiable sex drive, she fucks on the first date - 14 pgs. of sex questions answered.
Anyway, we get together and I notice right away that she doesn't remove her jacket. I always found this rude because this shows she has no intention to stay and get comfortable. I bring out a bottle of jack, and she seems a little reluctant to drink. We chat, and admittedly it was mostly about her. She's an idiot btw (thinks her ex-bf gained 80lbs of muscle in 6 mo. because he went vegan), butI i try to contain my laughter.
I have 3 drinks in, she hasn't finished her first. She tells me that she paid for her ex-bf's rent because she would get to fuck everynight. She tells me she just moved into the city and fucked her neighbor the second night. Clearly, she wants to fuck (if not me, someone, anyone).
I make out with her and it's going well,and I'm feeling up her ass. I bring her to a recliner and have her sit on my lap. I reach for her zipper but she tells me "I can't have sex, I'm too sleepy."
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So I say "Okay" and continue making out with her. She says "I am just going to fall asleep right here, I'm so tired." Do you have any coke or adderall?
I tell her "no" and to get off me. I get ready to leave and we both leave. She goes her way and I go mine.
TL;DR: had girl who seemed to love promiscuous sex and was interested in me end up flaking and saying she's too sleepy to have sex.
How should I handle this? I have other girls I can work on, but this seemed like a done deal. Did I fuck up or was she telling the truth? I understand if she's sleepy, she's sleepy, but to set up a date days in advance and come over sleepy is fucking rude. She should have drank coffee or something.
Should I contact her again? I don't have anything to lose.
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