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Send me nudes and Ill see if you are worth a $5er.
/r/PussyPassDenied29/03/17 05:18 PM
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I like how she blames society for her shitty choices in life. Yep society made her into the cock slurping whore she is. Booo hooo.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/16 04:29 PM
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Why would any chick go to a cheating site like this to hook up? All they need is their fucking facebook. Plenty of Chads/past boyfriends/orbiters there to give her the dick. Total scam site is what this is.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/15 02:19 PM
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It still helps you to finally realize WTF is actually going on around you, AWALT. It helps you by teaching you how to improve yourself to be a better man. It does not have to revolve around the wife or the relatioship, it all revolves around YOU!
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/15 08:11 PM
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This shit cant be real. I mean it has to be a fake post by some troll or something? I mean lets be real here fellas, no man of any self worth would let his wifey fuck other guys and be ok with it, unless he was fucking others as well.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 07:13 PM
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Yeah its not about the chores themselves but you doing them to get something from your wife. The kitchen is my domain in my house. I do all the shopping, meal planning and cooking/grilling, the wife does all the other shit around the house. It works out for us.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 07:43 PM
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I have 2 boys 13 and 10. And the 13 yr old has always had problems with bullies and such, I dont understand this either, since hes pretty big for his age and has always been so. Maybe just awkward? I just told him to stand up for himself and that he needs to solve his own problems. I just told him to be smart about it. For instance he had a problem with someone on the bus teasing him about some shit, he came home all upset and told us about it. I told him to confront the kid. So he did, he got o…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/15 05:16 PM
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This is why I am the boss of my fucking kitchen. She only goes in my temple when she wants some coffee that I brewed or some water. I also do the shopping because if she did wed be fucking eating box mac & cheese and fucking hot dogs or some other silly shit. It kind of helps that she does not give a shit about food or cooking, lol. Ive always been in charge of the mess hall. She can clean the bathrooms and do my laundry and all that other shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/07/15 02:42 AM
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Thats the first thought that entered my mind. Like women ever pay at a bar, fucking LOL. Maybe if they are hambeasts.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 05:55 PM
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Thanks for your service, bro.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 05:52 PM
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There is a lot more shit to be angry about than just this, bro. Look at our financial system and how broke it is. Look at how our political system is so far away from what our founding fathers wanted its fucking sickening. Look at all the cultural marxism happening all around us. Look at the wealth distribution in this country. Top .1% owning 30% of all capital in the US? Hello Oligarchy! We are fucked if something does not go down.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 05:26 PM
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Big brother. 4 yrs older.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 01:12 PM
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And thats exactly what her brother gave her, "the look" but she did not get it, or just didnt give a shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/15 01:01 PM
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That was a nuclear shit test bro.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/15 02:35 AM
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Youre going to be seeing a lot more of this now that the college rates for women is climbing but dropping like stones for men. Get ready to pay your man ladies. Maybe finally this shit will be over once feminism grabs a hold of it and squashes it down because precious, do no wrong flowers, are now paying alimony. I know of a dude I work with that gets paid alimony. Fucker scored himself a doctor for his first wife.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/15 05:43 PM
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Yep, hard road ahead you will make mistakes, you will have setbacks, but its all worth it in the end.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 10:50 PM
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Your help is right at the sidebar. Read it, embrace it, study it, implement it.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 10:44 PM
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Its so hard reading that kind of tripe through a red lens now. Its all so fucking obvious now its painful. Too bad most if not all of those people will never be exposed to the real truth.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 06:03 PM
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Do him a favor and give him "No More Mr Nice Guy" By Robert Glover for a gift. That one book woke me the fuck up better than any marriage counseling or whatever the fuck.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 05:59 PM
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It wasnt really, It went both ways. Its just that none of that shit touched on the real issues. It was all blue pill shit that didnt fucking matter at all to the marriage. "Communication?" Really? What really made me wake the fuck up was the book "No more MR Nice Guy" upon stumbling on it here.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 05:52 PM
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I went to marriage counseling once. A few sessions at some office somewhere, the wife wanted me to go and I said WTF, lets do it to make you happy. This was way before TRP, late 90s. Total waste of time. "You need to learn to communicate" and shit like that. TRP is the real marriage counseling. 6 months here of reading shit and my marriage went from a 2 to a fucking 7. Six more months of practicing, maintaining frame, squashing shit tests and employing some light dread and now its a fucking 10. …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 05:48 PM
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Yeah, I know Im older than most of you here, 42, and have been married for the past 15 yrs, but today I would never fucking marry anyone knowing what I know now. I have 2 awesome sons out of the deal, and thats the true reward for putting up with shit, I guess. Also my wife came from a different generation than you guys have now. Things were even different back in the 80s, 90s, more conservative although still going to shit. Fuck you guys have it brutal these days, it seems like chicks are 100x …
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 05:27 PM
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Feminism and liberalism, there you have it all in a nutshell. fuck free speech, right? When will people wake up from their SJW induced coma?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 02:43 PM
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LOL, thank god my wife is tech challenged. Other than facebook and clicking links therein, she has no clue about how to navigate the nets or tech in general. and I will keep it this way.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 02:08 PM
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Read, read, and do some more reading, then internalize everything. Get to a gym pronto and start lifting. Yeah I know its hard, but you have to do it. Start with a simple 5x5 strength program. And yes, this shit is like magic for the family. Your family needs a strong leader with frame and stoicism. It will be a hard journey, you will make mistakes, but once youre there, you will see how everything just aligns into order not only in your marriage, family, but life in general. Remember that old a…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/07/15 01:43 PM
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I think respect comes in here too. A woman which does not respect you will not have attraction and desire, or if she did, it will quickly fade. This is why choreplay, oneitis and putting her on some pedestal does not work. How can someone have respect for you when you are a needy fuck?
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 01:29 PM
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Shit does work, bro. Been married for 15 yrs and when I applied the above about 2 yrs ago when I found TRP, its like fucking magic. dont forget the frame and shit tests. Just last night I pounded her into oblivion so well, that an hour later she came back for some more all rubbing my cock in bed. So I proceeded to pound her again. And then she cuddled up to me like a puppy dog.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/15 01:20 PM
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The average beta male can survive on a pittance, thus not contributing in any way to society. If shit really goes this way (which I doubt BTW) you will truly see a decline of western civilization. Because in essence, you need that 80% to carry the burden of labor. Without them contributing to the labor force means no social safety net anymore. So yes my fiend, even the Alphas will suffer because they wont have those betas doing labor for them anymore. And you know the woman wont fucking do it.
/r/TheRedPill29/06/15 07:40 PM
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Its because todays digital sit on your ass society can harbor more women in the workforce than ever before. But to this day you wont see females in shitty jobs like building trades and the like. They dont want those jobs. The jobs that make shit actually work and run all around us. But they are not happy, feminism has fucked the women just like they fuck men. Do you think average females want careers, be the sole earners with all the added responsibility and stresses of the males? Fuck no, deep …
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 08:36 PM
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Good post. Shitty thing for most men is they they will never find TRP and fuly swallow it and embrace it unless some shitty thing happens to them, AWALT, when they go searching for answers and stumble here by accident, like many of us did.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/15 08:22 PM
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Not sure the name, but I noticed it in Costco one day and bought it, its like testosterone aid or some shit. Its basically a multivitamin with some root extract or some shit that supposedly helps you produce more T. Its been working for me, along with lifting, diet, and rest.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 08:16 PM
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You have to be careful with getting a testosterone replacement from doctors though. Ive read that once you start getting a treatment, your body shuts down its own T making capabilities, sometimes to never fully recover. also there is some shitty side effects like increased risks of some cancers and shit. I chose the natural way to increase it, and it has been working for me. I take a supplement and the gym has really helped me to recover my libido. Ive never got it tested but you just know. Deep…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/15 03:12 PM
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And life is not fair. You think the work I do the company pays me dollar per dollar what I earn them? Fuck no. Just last year I thought of an idea to save the company millions of dollars a year. You think I got something out of it? You need to quit thinking like that. If you can do what you do by yourself, than more power to you, but my skills are not easily placed outside of a company that makes shit so its not as easy for me to do what I do apart from the company. I suppose I could start some …
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 08:37 PM
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I never get angry anymore, especially at trivial shit around me that used to rustle my bridges in the past. As I get older the more I realize that getting angry at shit I have no control over is a waste of my time.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 07:51 PM
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Meh, there is the other side of the coin too. Sometimes starting a business is not worth it for many reasons. Im 42 yrs old and I have been around the block a few times. I am comfortably working my 8 hrs a day, collecting a steady pay as an engineer. Good pay I might add, enough to comfortably provide for me and my family and still have enough left over for shit I want on the side. I have seen many people start businesses to only fail in the long run, and those that do make it are slaves to that…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/15 12:46 PM
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Well its going to stop at some point, when more and more men realize this and just flat out stop marrying and having kids. The truth is trickling out to the masses, movements are starting and the downfall of the west as morals and values has been slowly happening since the 60s and 70s. But the true culprits are the divorce lawyers and family judges. They are the ones really making out in the divorce industry.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 08:15 PM
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Feminism and all that liberal shit on the far left is not even anything political anymore, its like a fucking religion to those people. Its not even worth arguing about. Just smile, smirk, and laugh it off, nodding your head, while inside thinking what idiots these people are. You are not going to change their minds. Remember law #9.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 07:45 PM
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Man you kids today have it easymode. Back when I grew up we did not have intrawebs and all this info freely flying around just to be found. In fact the PUA movement was not even off the ground yet. Man, had I had this info on hand when I was a teen growing up I would be leading a totally different life right now. But the saving grace is that I know for sure both my sons will be exposed, my 13 yr old is already being groomed with some trickle truths coming from me.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 07:40 PM
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Whats even more frightening is how one of your ex girlfriends, or just some chick you met can claim youre the father of some kid because she puts your name on the birth certificate. And the state will go after your ass to pay child support. DNA that shit up!
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 07:32 PM
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Fucking Regan signed the first no fault marriage laws in California in 1970, soon after this Us saw a spike of nearly 300% in divorce rates.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/15 07:28 PM
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I dont know, man. when I met my wife she was 5' 6" and 120. When she had kids she balooned up to 180ish, but for some reason I still fund her attractive as hell. Then she dropped down to 130ish and fluctuates at about 130-140. Still fucking hot. But I never really fund the skinny model chicks to be all that hot. I like women that look like women, not 15 yr old boys.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/06/15 06:21 PM
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Bottom line is that there is no such thing as low libido. Its a construct of the female mind when she is not attracted to you. You need to up your SMV and use RP tactics to get her tingles back. Go lift Go lift some more Squash them shit tests Maintain frame like a 100 yr old oak Go back and lift some more
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 02:34 PM
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Yeah 15% is pretty decent. WTF are you taking about? Dad bod is like 25%+
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 02:09 PM
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That does not sound like bluepill at all. Seems like Gramps was practicing soft dread all the time.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/15 01:39 PM
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This right here! Happened to me and Im betting this is the case right here. She cut of sex completely saying some shit like Im through, go find a girlfriend.... Trickle truth came out a week later that shes boning some dude. AWALT!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/15 01:00 PM
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Im kind of in the same boat my friend. Its hard to let go of something you built up for the better part of your life. For me its been 15 yrs of marriage, 2 kids 13 and 10, house and all the bullshit that goes into one. I know TRP theory tells us to be ready to walk away from all that at a moments notice, but Im not going to walk away from my life I have built for myself and my family. Yeah I could walk away, lose it all, lose my kids, and I would be fine. But why should I is the question I posed…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 05:51 PM
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This is where I still fail most of the time. Not so much with the wife, but with 2 teenage sons I have to contend with. Its so easy for me to lose the temper and just go off on them when they dont listen or try to bark back at the top alpha. And trust me the wife notices this shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/15 05:24 PM
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Ive built things with my hands, like any real man does. I have thought myself that which I dont know, like a real man does. And now Im passing these skills, knowledge, wisdom down to my two sons, like a real man does. I dont think you have to fight in wars and face death to become a man. I think there is plenty of battles men go through in their lives to help shape them. And its how you deal with these battles and how you withstand the pain of life how you end up in the end.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/15 03:14 PM
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Not to cheat on me, then proceed to take 3/4 my shit, my kids, 1/2 my salary, while shes living with Chad T in my house? To be an indentured servant for her for the rest of my life? And when I dont pay I go to jail? Thats what I want. I dont care if she has a career, degrees, all the freedom she wants.Thats fine. But at the core the system is skewed to fuck the man. And I dont care if youre TRP or not, you should be smart enough to realize this, because it might happen to you my friend. This is …
/r/TheRedPill12/06/15 08:07 PM
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Read more More reading Lift and STFU
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/15 12:32 PM
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Well this is not the case in all marriages. Also a best lay does not always mean best looking or whatever, just more game, more assertive, more dominant could be the case. I know for certain that my SMV was a lot higher than some of the dudes my wife dated before me. (We ran in the same social circles) Of course I did not know all of them or saw all of them, but I did see a few. It all comes down to the relationship itself. This shit you need to work on. Dont get fat, stay fit, lift, etc. All th…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 08:37 PM
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I feel sad for the millennial generation and our nation as a whole. This PC and feminism crap has basically taken over our great nation and turned it int a big sloppy vagina. Hope we get our shit together and soon and stop this runaway crazy train.
/r/TheRedPill11/06/15 02:04 PM
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Yeah there is absolutely no reason for you to "work this shit out". No kids, not married, probably does not fuck you, does not do shit for you so its a no brainier. You were her beta bucks while obviously shes been getting her tingles somewhere else. Time to cut the support cable and next her ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/15 01:58 PM
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No because as soon as censorship happens in a place like this, people just up and leave. Sure some will stick around, but people are like herds, they will simply graze to the next free speech forum where they can express themselves without being censored. Rinse and repeat.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 08:37 PM
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If thats true, and im sure it is since it makes sense, than at least there is a reason for it other than SJW bullshit. But either way, once the censorship starts, its the beginning of the end. Saw it at 4chan, somethingawful and other places.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 07:47 PM
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Bah, soon as reddit goes the way of swj, it will just become another place people leave for some other place that will inevitably show up that is pro free speech. Its baffling how our society is caving to this shitty feminist/pc movement.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/15 06:53 PM
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If my wife approached me with this shit I would laugh in her face... HAHAHAHAHAHHA.....NO!
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 02:23 PM
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How old are you guys?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/06/15 02:22 PM
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Recently ive been getting it about 3-4 a week, sometimes twice on a good weekend day. But yeah, the vag needs a break, shit even my cock needs a break after a weekend of good pounding. Either way like the professor mentioned, 3-4 times a week is better than 1-2 times a month, and most times its hot sex not starfish type shit where she just lays there and bears it, so its all good. But what I notice is the little shit when were not having sex now. We both flirt, she grabs my package all the time …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/15 07:40 PM
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Oh dont worry, bro. It will always be in the back of my mind. Fool me once type thing. Shes smart, but Im way fucking smarter.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/15 05:09 PM
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Meh its not that easy. You say all this shit, but after 15 yrs of marriage, good times and bad, losing my kids, be prepared to walk away? fuck that shit. Its worth fighting for, at least to me. My wife emotionally cheated on me about 2 yrs ago. Hooked up with some past boyfriend on facebook. Fucking loser who was in prison for some time but obviously a chad that gave her tingles in the past. I knew something was up, she wasnt acting herself, but one day she fucked up and left the facebook chat t…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/15 03:18 PM
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Yeah, I know my situation is a bit different because my kids are older, 13 and 10, but I pushed my wife into working part time in her field, dental assisting. She didnt want to do it because she got used to the stay at home and do nothing shit. But push came to shove and she got a part time job, 2 days a week. The extra money is great, but the best thing about it is that it introduced some much needed drama into her life. She bitches about her job, but she is much more happy now having a life of…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/15 02:21 PM
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So take the boring sex and pound the shit out of her. Take care of your needs and leave her there as a quivering mess. Grab her hair, pull it. Smack her ass, finger her hard. None of this nice guy shit. Take her and use her like you want to. Like I said in another post, the more slutty I treat my wife, the better our relationship has gotten. We were hanging out Friday night playing cards, listening to music and drinking. We start foolishly dancing around, changing up the music. While dancing she…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/15 01:58 PM
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It seems odd, but the harder and meaner I fuck my wife, the closer she clings on me.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/06/15 01:36 PM
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It does not take Brad Pit, Bro. It only takes one of her past tingles reconnecting on facebook. And trust me, if she is from the 80s-90s generation of growing up, she probably has a few. Being an alpha widow is a bitch, they always remember those which gave them the best tingles. Men always look upn themselves as being the best their wives ever had, in fact why would they marry you if you werent? Truth being told you were probably never the best, far from it, only an option she took. Its human n…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 02:20 PM
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LOL, this rings so true. And all that shit said in the OP is true as fuck too. I caught my wife chatting up with some old alpha boyfriend on facebook. Looser fuck that went to jail, but she still had tingles for the dude. Shut that shit down right away. Its what brought me here in the first place. So yeah all that shit is true. Some women will behave better than others but dont let that shit fool you. You need to be constantly improving yourself, not letting yourself just sit idle fat and happy …
/r/MarriedRedPill05/06/15 01:57 PM
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Ye, same here. Quit most if not all my shit I used to do. But now I feel like im actually contributing to my families and my well being, instead of lounging around, playing games and watching porn.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/05/15 06:53 PM
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The key here is to work on YOU. Fuck her and fuck ultimatums or lists. You will not change her by reciting some list of demands. You will only change her by changing YOU. Yes its a slow process, no it will not happen overnight or Friday. But it will happen. And if it does not? Next her ass. Its not like she is of any worth as it sounds? Does not cook, does not clean, does not suck cock, bitches at you, tells you what you can and cannot do... Sure does not sound like anything worthwhile there. St…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/05/15 01:24 PM
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Yeah dude, this shit is over, too late for No More Mr Nice Guy here. Get your shit in order and tell her to GTFO of your house. I know its hard to believe, but your wife is gurgling on some dudes penis while youre at home playing Mr Mom. There is no girlfriends, its only Chad T, bro. She is so caught up in this affair, that she does not even care about leaving her child alone, never mind you, think about that one.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/05/15 07:35 PM
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Im assuming less sets, more reps. strength is all about the 5x5 or the equivalent, so hypertrophy would be more like 3x10 or 3x12. But its always good to start with simple first and stick to it. I chose a 5x5 because its simple, easy and great for starting out. I will be doing this for 12 weeks, and then change it up.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 07:31 PM
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Get my fitness pal for your phone and start tracking those calories. Its free. They even have a barcode scanner for packaged foods. You can set your caloric goals per your weight and weight loss goals and track it, everything that goes in your mouth, including alcohol. You would be surprised at how much you actually normally eat. It has opened my eyes more so than anything. Losing weight is all about diet, calories and decreasing them. What has worked great for me is something along the lines of…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 07:06 PM
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42 yrs old, 6'2". Started at 260, down to 230 now about 3 months. Losing weight is all about diet. Dont be schlubs, get my fitness pal on your phone and start tracking that shit. Started to lift 5 weeks ago, definitely need to lift. Feels fucking great. I was having reservations stepping in the gym, being absent from it for the better of 20 yrs. But I gathered my balls and did it. Cool people at the gym too. I still need to drop about 20-30 more, but the wife is definitely noticing, feeling me u…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 06:14 PM
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Just this week my wife pulled that one on me in bed. "Are you mad at me?" I said why, should I be? What did you do?
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/15 12:27 PM
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I think that women are led astray with all this feminism bullshit as well. Do you think women want to be stressed out execs/managers pulling 80% of the money in a household? Fuck no! Deep down inside they want to be the caregivers to their children, to take care of the family, to nurture, to nest. Instead they are all plugged into some pink pill bullshit that the feminist society is feeding down their throats.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 08:21 PM
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Its been 5 weeks for me so far. Been taking the 13 yr old with me. Just sticing to basic 5x5, but I did add some pulling exercises and some curls in there. I originally thought I would do the same routine every day, but the first weeks DOMS fucked me up bad so I could not do squats, so I split the routine up into 2, one day its squats, dead lift, press, bench, and the other day its bench, bent over barbell row, lat pull downs, and curls. 3x week it seems to be working out for us. I have missed a…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/15 01:50 PM
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Thanks for that. Thats all I was trying to say.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 04:30 PM
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Its not that Im superior to 20 somethings, its that I have been around for a while longer and seen some shit. And its not black and white like you guys make it out to be, no matter the culture. 30 yr old good looking female will have no problem securing long term beta bucks or alpha fucks. World does not stop once a female hits 30, or even 35 for that matter.
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 03:04 PM
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I dont really believe this. If a chick is 30 and relatively fit and attractive, no kids, she will have beta sharks and even some older alphas trying to fuck her, betas circling around her to no end. Yeah there is a wall, but its not black and white like you guys make it out to be. Im 42 and I find 30+ yr old chicks which take care of themselves highly attractive. They will just have to settle for some beta schlep, but trust me dudes, they will be provided for. What are you guys all 20 somethings…
/r/TheRedPill18/05/15 02:35 PM
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Yeah you cannot rationalize that stuff with them. Either they get all butthurt, get outright pissed off, or just say they will improve and never do it. Like others have said, work on yourself. Its the only thing you have control over. You said your peace, she now knows how you feel, leave it at that and maintain your frame and keep improving yourself. And I would definitely stop the cold shoulder crap, thats just games.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 07:42 PM
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Dont be down on that crappy fast food job, bro. I used to work them during college as well, and one thing that made those jobs special was the never ending revolving door of hot young chicks working there. Pulled many nice flings throughout my fast food career.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 06:56 PM
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Yup, not had to do the porn thing in a while. Sex with wife has been more then enough to fulfill my needs lately.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 06:11 PM
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Nothing rustles my wifes panties more than doing manly shit around the house. Truth be told, my step pops was shit, total beta couch potato. But I worked with his dad which was a master woodworker and learned tons of shit, not just woodworking either. The rest of the crap I learned by myself. Its not hard these days with all the resources available. Just this week my washing machine was not agitating, wife was all like "Oh no, what are we going to do? We need a new washing machine!" Looked that …
/r/TheRedPill12/05/15 06:06 PM
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Thats exactly how it happened to me. Best shape of my life, 190 and buff. Then comes the relationship, and slowly all that fitness shit fades away. Then she moves in, the beta bullshit starts up...Then marriage, then kids....15 yrs later, take the pill, I look at myself in the mirror with disgust.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 05:50 PM
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She is the agent of Broki! do not listen. Keep praying in the temple of iron. http://www.reddit.com/r/swoleacceptance/
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 05:35 PM
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The low T thing definitely has some barring in this discussion. Men of this generation have lower T than the generation before then, and its dropping every generation it seems. http://finance.yahoo.com/news/low-testosterone-men-american-epidemic-170000402.html But yeah, nothing can drop a mans libido than a 200lb harpy, lol.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 01:13 PM
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Meh, my wife put on a little weight, a little, not 100lbs, more like 15-20 lol. But I was still attracted as fuck to her. Just something about her still excites me after 15 yrs. But, yeah, I could see 50-100lbs more being more than just a little off putting, and even more so if shes a fucking harpy to boot.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 12:58 PM
1

Yeah my wife bitches at her work constantly. All they want to do is be heard. They dont want resolutions, your input, just to sit there and listen. Sometimes I will give her a hug at the end to reassure her that I give a shit. But sometimes I dont want to hear that bullshit being spewed out at me, because I had a bad fucking day myself, so I calmly tell her to stop.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/05/15 12:45 PM
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See, I still cant do this shit, especially the dirty talk part of it. I never did it in my past 14 yrs of marriage and it just seems so forced and off putting to her. I tried to start a little here and there, but still feel uncomfortable. For instance I would not dare to call her a slut in bed. I dont think she would react well based on our past of me just being quiet and fucking her. Now the dominance I have no problem with, the emotional shit, yeah that too. Its just the dirty talk part of it …
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 06:29 PM
1

The big problem, and we probably all went through it here, is expecting results right away when we swallow the red and do some reading... Then maybe introduce a little frame, start working on ourselves, but this, my friend, is a long process. Its like building, brick by brick, and trying to erect that 20 story statue of your new self. Its not going to get done in a week, nor a month. Its a long drawn out process where you constantly improve your game, your frame, your mind, and of course your bo…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 06:14 PM
1

I have to say, over my 15 yrs marriage I have done many a chores, for example, the kitchen is my temple. I shop, plan, cook, and clean. Partly because my wife would burn water when entering my temple, and thats unacceptable. But unfortunately no, I dont get tingles out of her. Not in the slightest for keeping my temple fully stocked, clean and filled with treasures of the belly. What I do get tingles out of is when I do manly type shit around the house. For instance sanding and refinishing my ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 05:56 PM
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I personally would say that im overweight, not in good shape and its time I started to take better care of myself. Which goes along with probably 80%-90% of men. And if you are the 10%-20% that is 15% body fat and built, then you just say I miss praying in the temple of iron. Its not rocket science here, bro.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/05/15 02:52 AM
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That you are trying to work on yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/05/15 01:39 PM
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Absolutely not. Dont say shit. Let your actions speak for themselves. 1. Lift heavy 2. Eat right 3. Start owning your shit 4. Learn frame and maintain it 5. Shrug off her shit tests like a pro 6. Start doing shit for you, not for her. 7. Lead like a boss and she will eventually follow. 8. Profit?
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 06:22 PM
5

I just got banned there too. Never even went there in my life.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 06:17 PM
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The problem is today there is just too much of that shit. You go on any porn site and there are thousands of videos. Sometimes it takes you a hour to find the right one to fap to. Its sensory overload. I don't think watching other people have sex is cukolding or wrong, it is what it is. If that's what tuns you on, then by all means do it. If it does not, then dont watch it. Again in my days I still remember to this day, we found some dudes magazine stash in the garbage one day. We all took one a…
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 06:12 PM
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Dude, internet and even videos are a pretty new thing. I grew up in a time when even VCR was new (70s-80s) but we had magazines. But there was a time even before magazines and pictures. Im sure people still masturbated to their imagination. Seeing that HB9 in their mind nekkid and spreading her legs. FAP FAP FAP....
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 06:00 PM
1

Its not what they say, its how they act.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 05:53 PM
1

No, just saying dont stop because you won a battle. There is a long war to be won.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 05:39 PM
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You cannot stop. I used to lift like a mad man, fit, run few miles every day, best shape of my life. Then I met my current wife. Fucking beata'd out, stopped lifting, stopped running, all my attention was committed to her. What a fucking mistake that was. I lost my frame like a schlep. God only if there was resources like this back in the mid 90s. Thank god I found this place and others like it. Made me re frame my life around shit I enjoy and what I want. Then the marriage soon improved and is …
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 03:42 PM
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No body gives a shit about you other than yourself. Hope you realized that.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 03:15 PM
0

One small victory in a long life of war.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 02:15 PM
4

Definitely. I have been at this for roughly a year or so now and I stopped all the choreplay. I still do shit here and there, but nowhere near what I used to do. Especially now (last month or so) since she is out of work and just sitting her ass home all day while im at work. I dont think I was all beta, but I definitely engaged in choreplay thinking of those covert contracts and shit, in my mind at least. Instead ive been doing more of the manly shit around the house that needed to be done. Lik…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 02:03 PM
1

You need to get the fuck out of the house. Fuck dinners, she needs to step up. Also gym at home? Fuck that, get a membership at a place, somewhere cheap, like fitness 19, and work out there. Have a few beers with a few buds. Break up your daily routine so it starts the dread inside her. "Going to get a beer with Jonny, be back later" And let her imagination hamsters take over. As for dinners, I grill 5-6 chicken breasts/ skirt steak on a Saturday, and they last me all week in dinners, snacks. Yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 01:27 PM
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Its no different, bro. STR, LTR, or a plate youre spinning, its all the same. The point is to never show neediness. You making stands, telling her no, or discussing it all shows neediness, jealousy. The frame you have to show is IDGAF what you do. You cannot make her want to be with you, cannot make her desire you. Ultimately its her choice if she wants to stick around and hang with you or go out with her GFs. All you can do is keep on working on your self, working on your game/frame and if she …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/05/15 01:16 PM
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All pretty much explained here, bro... http://therationalmale.com/2012/08/27/girls-night-out/ "This is a very common shit test. Don’t even pause to think about it and do NOT let her perceive for a second that you’re even contemplating it. Be matter-of-fact and tell her you’ll see her when she gets back. Don’t tell her to call you, and don’t you call her. If she calls be concise and ask her if she’s enjoying herself, nothing more – no details, nothing. Let her be as forthcoming as she wants and n…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 05:19 PM
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And who the fuck is she shaving her muff for anyway? Its definitely not you.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 12:29 PM
0

Of course its not new, but some of us waking up from the blue and stepping into the red, it is like new. Its like getting slapped in the face with reality. I understand that some people have an innate knowing of all this before reading shit like this, but they are rare.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 12:24 PM
1

Not to mention the gallons of steroids it took Arnold to get that swole. Not humanly possible for an average dude with average physique, doing it clean.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:19 AM
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I am 42 and just went back myself 3 weeks ago. Took my 13 yr old son along with me to teach him the way of the iron. Just started with the basics, squat, deadlift, bench, press, and some pulling exercises like row and lat pulldown, and of course some curls for the guns. Split it up into 2 rotations and went 3 days every other day with 2 days off at the end of the week. Just went light to start off, working on form, and now im slowly adding in the weight. Son likes it too, good bonding time and g…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/15 02:13 AM
1

They scream equality, but they cannot control their feminine urge to be dominated by a man's masculinity. You cannot un-teach tens of thousands of years of natural selection with 30 yrs of feminism.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:35 PM
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Monk mode in the gym for a few months will cure you of the oneitis, fuck that whore. dont feel sorry for yourself, she obviously didnt feel sorry for you while she was fucking some other cock.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:07 PM
1

Fucking right! He should be lucky to learn the truth about women early. Some of us did not have these resources when we first stated to hook up.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/15 04:05 PM
1

Ive had some recent problems in this arena. Probably like the last 6 months. I was put on blood pressure meds and I think thats whats contributing to the problem, but I also think its like 90% mental, Its like a vicious cycle you enter and its hard to escape. You start to worry about it, and then it exacerbates the problem and then it happens again. Then the next time you start to worry about it and the cycle continues. I found that not thinkling about it too much helps, also, believe it or not,…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/05/15 12:26 PM
1

Well of course it affects him. Why did he even write the post? One does not have to give in here, just stepping up as a grown up and telling her that games and shitty shitty attitude wont be tolerated. If there is a problem it needs to be discussed. Instead she feels like shit, he feels like shit and nothing gets resolved it only festers. But thats just my opinion. Thank god my wife does not play games like that. But I used to do this when I was upset, untill reding some of the stuff on the side…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 07:03 PM
1

I would just confront this in a calm and rational manner. Tell her you do not appreciate her playing games. If there is a problem she should talk to you about it instead of pouting about it for days. Its how adults interact.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/04/15 05:03 PM
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Agree, you can find a PDF out there somewhere, just do a search.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/15 07:38 PM
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Dont apologize, tell her the truth. You had too much to drink, cant remember what was said and you will work on your drinking problem.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/15 01:47 PM
1

You need to get over your oneitis. YOu already went through with the toughest part, the divorce and all the bullshit attached to it. Why would you want to go back? Go fucking monk mode in the gym, take care of your shit and get back in the meat market. If you really want marriage again, there is tons of better that you can pull, emotionally, spiritually, love, sex... You need to be working on you for yourself, not you for her. Life is too short for this BS. Its been 4 yrs of divorce and youre st…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/04/15 01:45 PM
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I cant blame the anti marriage sentiment on TRP, but like was said, many of us just recently took the red pill and Im not about to just drop the 15 yrs of marriage, 2 kids, and all my shit to go spin some plates and MGTOW, thats fucking silly. Thats not even what I want in my life right now. Besides the basic human imperative is to reproduce. Thats like the number one driving force in pretty much everything we do. We just need the tools to maximize our marriages in the best way possible. This wh…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/04/15 01:01 PM
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Yeah and you know Im going to be slowly introducing him to red pill theories. I wish I had someone that did the same when I was a teen.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 07:13 PM
2

I do have a plan. http://rippedbody.jp/the-big-3-routine/ and the diet to go along with it. I have ben researching this for a while now. I want something simple at first and this fits the bill.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 07:05 PM
1

Its not what they say to you its how they act towards you. That is the true test.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 06:45 PM
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Today is my firs official day. Im taking my 13 yr old son with me since he shows genuine interest and is excited to go with me. Im just going to start slow at first, probably the core 4 barbell exercises like dead lift, squat, bench, and press. Do this 5x5 style and work on form first, along with teaching my son. Its been a while since I lifted the last time, like 16 yrs so wich me luck, bros!
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 06:36 PM
1

My wife shave for me when I asked her to try it, but she told me that it was severely uncomfortable, itching, too much upkeep and all that. I guess I just respect her wishes if she wants hair down there. Its not like its some unruly bush that you have to wade through to find the good parts. She keeps it manicured and looking nice for me and thats all I ask. I just dont really care enough to pursue it further.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 06:30 PM
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Not to be a downer, but it could easily be a phone fling with someone. It does not take the physical act alone to call it cheating. A few years ago my wife did the same thing, upped her sex game towards me, it was like a night and day type of thing. But I had a bad feeling in my gut and sure enough I checked the cell phone stuff and she was chatting up some dude. I finally caught her messaging him on facebook one day and not deleting it. Not to say that this is what is happening to you, m friend…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/04/15 06:21 PM
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And thats the fucking crux of the problem right there. Absolutely no leverage. Dude looses his kids, house, money, retirement, and gets to support her while shes banging new strange in his own house he used to live in.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:46 PM
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Cant blame them though. I was in his same place like 5 yrs ago. Total trust and in denial. I thought my wife loved me unconditionally like marriage was portrayed to be. Red pill was the wake up I needed.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/15 03:43 PM
2

There is no reason you shouldn't help out to relieve some of her burdens then. For instance around my house Im the master of the kitchen. I shop, cook all the meals and do the clean up. The wife takes care of the rest of the shit around the house, laundry, cleanup, bathrooms etc.
/r/TheRedPill17/04/15 08:38 PM
1

Your feelings are all pretty much summed up here... http://therationalmale.com/2015/04/14/managing-expectations/ Its just not going to happen. Women are incapable of loving the way we do. You need to accept this. What you are looking for does not exist.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/04/15 01:50 PM
2

That was me as well, bro. Except it happened to me way before the internet so no resources were available like this 80s-90s. I was never into feminism per say, but I sure was into the nice guy frame. Put myself through school, great career, bought a house, and yet I was still alone while my pizza delivering friends were getting laid. Then I met a soon to be hitting the wall chick. It just all makes perfect sense now, but too little too late. Bet your damned ass I will be teaching my 2 sons about…
/r/TheRedPill08/04/15 02:15 PM
1

Yep. It sucks, but if you have gigs worth of selfie nudies, chances are one day you will get burned. Moral of the story? If you dont want nudes of yourself to get out, simply dont take any. This is not victim blaming either. Its common fucking sense.
/r/TheRedPill08/10/14 01:30 PM
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Ahahahaha! Looks like the cock carousel is over.
/r/TheRedPill26/08/14 02:24 PM
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But thats the thing, bro. You dont know her agenda beforehand. she strokes your dick and then wants favors. Some of these cunts are sly as fuck. Get a gang of blue collar workers in your corner after playing with their weneses. Also I work in engineering, and im with you nerd bros. Its liek 90% males. So when a female gets hired, its nice to have around, even if shes a heffer. Its like your perception gets askewed because of the streight up pickle party at work all day every day.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 08:35 PM
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This just reads like someones wet dream. I mean really? I see his point but he just goes so overboard with it. Im sure all those "good wives" in the 50s acted like sex slaves/maids/nannies to their husbands. /rolleyes I understand how the modern westernization of our women have ruined them, but this is just going overboard a little, dont you think?
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 05:36 PM
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Yeah, if story is true this is bordering on being creepy as fuck. I dont blame her at all. Who would want to work alongside creepy stalker dude making advances like "lets just fuck". This is definitely crossing that line.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:10 PM
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Yeah, nerdy dudes that work on games for 12-16 hrs a day in some dungeon somewhere. Anything might start to look good at that point.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 03:06 PM
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It does not matter if it was actual rape or not. we will never know the truth. She put herself in a position to cheat on you willingly and knowingly, shit by your story it started way before in the car. Something stinks about this entire story. It seems like she "might" of had last second remorse, but she went through it anyway. Trust me, if she wanted to get out, she would of got out. And in fact she would of not even went in the house in the first place. The hamsters are spinning now and she c…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:59 PM
2

We were brainwashed from childhood to believe that being fit and taking care of our looks is a bad thing. Wha? I think you have some shit confused, bro. Being fit and taking care of yourself is totally independent from being a nice guy or alpha as fuck.
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 02:41 PM
2

Shes a hoe. Dee, how the fuck you know? Cause everytime I see the how shes with a new negro.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 03:35 PM
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False, men still cheat more than women.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 03:27 PM
4

Why bother? Well maybe I have over 15 yrs invested into this marriage, 2 kids I dont want to lose? And 1/2 my shit taken away? Were not taking about a casual relationship here, bro. Were talking about being married to a 35-45 yr old, some for many years.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 03:25 PM
1

How bout "I love taking care of men that take care of me." Im an all star at laundry and cleaning and I will fuck you up with my mean ass meatloaf." Now THATS attractive!
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 09:01 PM
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I agree, this is just sickening to read really.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/14 06:22 PM
4

Its funny how he labels it "his hypothesis".
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:57 PM
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