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I don't think OP means completely take on all blame and responsibility, they said it requires setting it aside (externalizations). In any situation you can view it as "What did I do wrong" or "What are they doing wrong." This just suggests to focus less on what others are saying and doing (in response to your presence or actions) and focus more on what you can do to improve or remedy things. It isn't suggesting we maintain a perception that we are responsible for all of the elements around us. J…
/r/seduction18/10/14 07:02 PM
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To break free of Forever Alone Syndrome requires setting aside frustration and externalisation of blame, accepting personal responsibility for making oneself appealing, and then initiating the lifestyle changes necessary to create that appeal. Short answer: Take better care of yourself even if you don't (initially) think you're worth it. Looks aren't everything but appearance is important.
/r/seduction18/10/14 06:56 PM
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I'm confused...all the "good" players of any fighting game have taught me that playing a slower, responsive game is usually best, especially for older titles like Street Fighter and Mortal Kombat. You should wait for the opponent to come to you and then have an attack prepares. The over-eager rush into battle and get countered and destroyed. So yeah, that kinda derails the whole analogy.
/r/seduction28/08/14 04:29 AM
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Yeah, I was implying a masturbation joke
/r/seduction07/06/14 02:10 PM
3

OP fuck her if you think she is hot, you more or less have her in your palm. There's a joke in there somewhere, I just know it...
/r/seduction07/06/14 12:15 PM
2

How to get a girl's number: "Hi, can I have your number?"
/r/seduction29/05/14 12:44 PM
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That's my thought, honestly. I feel like we've gone from 1 to 2 to 5...and 3 is where my opening would have been. We know too much about each other already, a foundation has already been established. EDIT: Sorry, I work nights and haven't slept yet. Just re-read what you said, I get what you're saying now. I care about not making it awkward at work between us, mostly.
/r/seduction26/05/14 02:30 PM
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Online Dating and Tinder are a crutch. If you keep using it, it won't help you become a sex worthy man. It is a cheap way out of trying to push yourself to be better with women and people in general. Are you implying that men who you such things aren't worthy of having sex or relationships? Also, when has this sub been about being better with women and people in general? There's a lot of arrogant "Don't take 'no' for an answer, fellas!" posts on here, that's not making anyone better. Honestly, i…
/r/seduction02/05/14 02:41 PM
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I'm not one to make approaches like that, I'm never that direct. I also have issue with the typical /r/Seduction notion that "No doesn't mean no" and "It's a numbers game, just keep asking anything with a pulse" are the best ways to meet people. It may work but those aren't the people I want to be meeting (personally). I started using Tinder, had one connection with a person, started texting (outside of Tinder) and a week later she stopped replying...so it works about as well as anything else, I…
/r/seduction21/04/14 11:30 PM
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I think you need to consider the context. Tinder isn't OKCupid. It's more instantaneous and impulsive, I've found. People put more time and energy into profiles on other sites/apps, Tinder is "Hey, got a couple seconds? Look at some people. Maybe they're looking at you?" I doubt anyone is terribly affected by these messages, if they were they would just block the person.
/r/seduction21/04/14 11:08 PM
10

Well, you can use the app...it just won't result in anything.
/r/seduction21/04/14 11:03 PM
1

mufasa pubes Heh, nice
/r/seduction02/04/14 11:20 PM
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What I took away from this: A girl can tell when you're actively playing the game. If you're just trying to get numbers and hit up every girl you see, each attempt will not be as sincere or impacting on the lady. A better way I think of it is this: If you go into a room with 50 attractive women and you can only compliment 5 of them, what makes those women stand out? When you know your reasoning for approaching, you'll have what you need to start conversation. (This is probably counter-intuitive …
/r/seduction31/03/14 11:30 PM
5

And compared to some of the seminar length videos that are regularly posted on here, this was pretty short.
/r/seduction31/03/14 11:25 PM
1

Ed is so alpha
/r/seduction21/03/14 06:14 PM
2

Wait, does this work with random strangers and wrong numbers?
/r/seduction04/02/14 06:19 PM
11

TIL: Don't say "Hot diggity"
/r/seduction26/01/14 02:31 AM
1

Familiar with accountability, but I know myself too well. Sooner or later I stop caring, then they stop caring. Basically, I have to find a reason to stop doing something on my own, for myself. Like re-writing my understanding of something so that things are perceived drastically different.
/r/seduction16/08/13 05:06 AM
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Yeah, I understand. There is a lot I good intent there. I actually have realized (moreso in the hours since I watched this video) that its not just one issue. I'm stimulating things all the time and I'm always bored (games, TV, movies, sexual stuff). Thinking I need to pull back on all fronts and see what happens, cause trying to minimize one part isn't going to resolve the other parts.
/r/seduction16/08/13 01:25 AM
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1) I am familiar with the sub 2) After a while it starts becoming a lot of words meant to inspire and motivate but not actually help. It's a personal struggle, a lot of people to there looking for "the answer" (similar to why people come here, I assume).
/r/seduction15/08/13 06:48 PM
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Yeah, I just got home from work and my thoughts were, "What do I watch, what do I play or do I just rub one out and take a nap?" My name is moxiedrinker82 and I'm an arousalholic.
/r/seduction15/08/13 01:05 PM
2

So...this got removed? Why? Or is this meta rejection?
/r/seduction29/07/13 01:14 PM
2

You powers of observation and recollection are superb.
/r/seduction29/07/13 01:12 PM
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Attractive woman, you say? In my area? Must be a porn link.
/r/seduction29/07/13 01:11 PM
1

Clearly it would have been a challenge for things between us to escalate.
/r/seduction29/07/13 01:10 PM
13

Well, that first message wasn't a good way to start things rolling.
/r/seduction29/07/13 08:38 AM
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I have a dating profile. One of the images of me was taken at a driving range. A girl from several states away looked at it one day, so I looked at her profile out of curiosity. I noticed that she was sitting down in all of her pictures. In the final image I realized she was in a wheelchair. "Oh, now it makes sense!" I thought. Still, she lived too far away for me to have any real interest in. A few days later I get this message from her: Sorry pal, I'm not interested. I don't golf. Get over it.…
/r/seduction29/07/13 07:54 AM
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Now THAT is the cheesiest...
/r/seduction23/04/13 11:25 PM
3

Hrmmm...
/r/seduction23/04/13 09:48 PM
7

Too much free time today
/r/seduction23/04/13 09:46 PM
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The dark undertone of this is that men will be happy as long as someone is in their life. He can't have the woman at work he never talked to, he fantasizes about the cute girl in the sportscar and then a moment later he lights up with another woman pays attention to him. And the notion of "The right woman isn't going to bump into you" is totally lost by the woman at the end bumping into him.
/r/seduction23/04/13 09:22 PM
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Imaginary women.
/r/seduction23/04/13 09:20 PM
6

Mostiest cheese.
/r/seduction23/04/13 09:20 PM
1

I'm gonna have so much confidence now...
/r/seduction12/04/13 11:55 PM
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When that video was posted there were plenty of people talking about how: Brigham Young is not really like the rest of the world. It's a private university run by the Church of Latter Day Saints (ie - Mormons) These guys have done plenty of other videos (I wouldn't be surprised if people have come to expect this sort of thing from them by now, just going along with whatever comes up).
/r/seduction28/02/13 03:02 AM
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Going against the grain here, but it sounds like you probably came on too strong. (Believe it or not readers or r/seduction, that happens.) Maybe just focus on being yourself, don't push for direct one-on-one interactions but become part of the atmosphere at events, parties, etc. People see you, you don't need to further advertise right now. (All of this is pertinent to the moment, not down the road when you've shaken the "campus creeper" vibe.) Work on rebuilding your personal foundation before…
/r/seduction19/02/13 03:59 PM
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If a man is naturally attractive, why does he need/have guidelines?
/r/seduction19/02/13 03:49 PM
4

That's how Facebook has always worked, isn't it?
/r/seduction07/02/13 06:32 AM
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Yeah, I thought I'd give it a shot but then I saw the list of women on my friends list. Relatives and married friends. Hrmm...
/r/seduction07/02/13 06:31 AM
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You have to wait for her "Uuuuhhhhh...." then you go in for the kiss.
/r/seduction24/01/13 11:23 PM
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I'm 30. I think that makes some difference. I think guys between 16 and mid-twenties probably fall more into the "Active Participant" category of pick-ups. Sure, there are times when older, matured men still think purely physically, but I think as one learns more about who they are as a person, their interests and needs change.
/r/seduction09/01/13 09:14 PM
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To be completely honest, I am far too easily distracted and side-tracked by other elements in my life. With the New Year I'm trying to really focus on "me" and clean house a bit. I'm not opposed to meeting people, I just want to get my house in order a bit before I go out and start sending out vibes that I'm ready for something to happen.
/r/seduction09/01/13 08:56 PM
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The posts I loathe here are "Hey guys! I went out, said all these douchey things and laid some girls! This shit works!" I never like that approach. Sure, there are methods that help people step outside of their shell a bit, but like the video says, you're pretending to be someone else. I wouldn't be emotionally, mentally or physically satisfied if I just hooked up with some girl, but that's just me.
/r/seduction09/01/13 08:54 PM
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You can't let people see this! The industry of self-improvement books, clothing, etc will crumble when people realize they have everything they need already! Seriously, though... I have put picking up on the back burner for a while as I focus on self-improvement. This is a great video for that, too.
/r/seduction09/01/13 08:11 PM
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I only commented because some people may think any waitress is approachable, but I know from semi-personal experience (a friend) that asking out the waitress at a place you frequent is not a good idea. Then again, this gives you incentive to try new places.
/r/seduction24/12/12 05:13 AM
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I think an important part of this is OP was travelling. If you try this at a place you frequently go to, and it goes south, you'll be shitting where you literally eat.
/r/seduction23/12/12 08:25 PM
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Reaction to reading just the title: "Does she know you're there?"
/r/seduction17/12/12 05:12 PM
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I was looking for the "Smoking..." impression, but this was all I could find.
/r/seduction17/12/12 04:13 PM
3

Like this?
/r/seduction17/12/12 03:08 PM
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Just be yourself and say anything. Works every time.
/r/seduction17/12/12 06:40 AM
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Possibly commend him, sure. But the point I was making was, say she leaves this other guy and now she and OP are free to be together. Then the real relationship begins. What has happened was under the context of the situation, without that atmosphere present people will be left to their own devices and show who they really are, how they act, etc.
/r/seduction13/12/12 09:00 PM
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It's posts like this that make me consider unsubbing. First of all, sleeping with someone after three days of knowing them...well, that's fairly common, but her saying she loves you on day four? I would consider that a warning sign or I'd be concerned about what it is she "loves" about you. I doubt she could get to know you completely in that little time. But the real kicker, and what you all apparently find is the big joke here, is she has a boyfriend? Congratulations, sir...you're an ass-hat a…
/r/seduction13/12/12 04:45 PM
2

Strong Bad Email #64: English Paper
/r/seduction21/10/12 04:16 AM
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This won't be of much help, but all I can think about is Strong Bad now.
/r/seduction21/10/12 04:00 AM
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Ballsy? That's a step in the wrong direction...
/r/seduction05/10/12 01:10 PM
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It's worse that when I saw it was an hour long I closed the window. :-/
/r/seduction05/10/12 12:37 AM
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I can see why people would think it's sad, but the last line really secures the sense of hope and purpose. I guess someone could take it as he's going to end his life but combined with his action (while he's thinking that final line) it's more of a need to act instead of just questioning things.
/r/seduction13/09/12 02:00 PM
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Sploosh
/r/seduction20/08/12 12:22 PM
2

Wow, way to overly read into things way too much. It's a show, I get it. I don't dream of killing people when I watch Dexter, I don't make meth because I watch Breaking Bad. All I was curious about was, in the opinion of those here who consider themselves authorities on the subject of seduction, if there's anything to glean or take away from the show. If anything, I would consider his "I'm interested, but I don't need it" attitude something valid. Time and time again I hear people talking about …
/r/seduction16/08/12 12:13 PM
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Sorry, this is what I think of when you say "Frank discussion about STDs"
/r/seduction15/08/12 06:59 AM
1

Do not pretend to be someone you're not in your profile This is part of why I stopped using OKCupid a few times. I go in with good intentions but slowly over time I realize that I'm adapting to what they're looking for. The problem isn't with them, it's with me sorting things out in my own life, getting a better idea of who I am and what I'm about.
/r/seduction05/08/12 12:44 AM
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Damn, this almost hurts to think! Archery metaphor, "I used to love archery, but then I..." and your name is goodknee? My brain wants to jump back 9 months and make a Skyrim joke.
/r/seduction29/07/12 12:08 AM
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Too many posts here are about hitting a mark and not about properly equipping and filling your quiver (archery metaphor).
/r/seduction28/07/12 09:01 PM
10

So many things on here are simply about getting a girl, not about keeping one.
/r/seduction24/07/12 02:00 PM
1

"Quit worrying about how to attract girls. Focus on your goals, your hobbies, etc. Get your shit together. Do what makes you happy. Then girls will be naturally drawn to you." That hasn't been my observation IRL. I've never seen a girl attracted to a guy because "Oh, he's just so driven and responsible!" I think there's some miscommunication here. People saying what you've quoted are, imo, suggesting that guys spend less time worrying about if a girl is attracted to them and should spend more ti…
/r/seduction18/07/12 12:16 AM
5

I just know that I hold doors for women regardless of their beliefs or feelings. It's like I don't do it for them, I just do it.
/r/seduction04/07/12 06:10 PM
3

Actually, this is one of those things that women sort of expect even if they're full-on devout feminist. Ironic...
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:35 PM
35

aka - heaven
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:34 PM
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If you leave the house with the purpose of meeting someone to hook up with and you haven't prepared your bed/house, you're not doing it right.
/r/seduction30/06/12 10:33 AM
1

"...now that that's out of the way..."
/r/seduction27/06/12 10:14 AM
1

I wonder why...lol
/r/seduction27/06/12 10:14 AM
2

Touche. I guess for me, I can relate to the wanting someone to fix/mother/care for me, but that's in the past. I came to the realization that I wouldn't be growing or bettering myself if someone just told me everything would be alright and didn't challenge me to press on and improve my life.
/r/seduction27/06/12 06:00 AM
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I think it is a great time to enjoy myself. There really aren't any more skills that I feel like learning. I feel like I have the skills I want at this point. This is part of the problem. The moment you feel like you're complete or that you deserve something you start becoming selfish and elitist. You expect people to understand your side of things, you're failing to realize their own perception. As 3wolfgang mentioned, twice, you should work on you for right now. Think of it this way: You're on…
/r/seduction27/06/12 05:57 AM
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o.O This doesn't strike me as r/seduction material. All this talk about having confidence and taking steps to meet people, then you say "Make them feel sorry for you." It's counter productive. I don't see how emasculating one's self would be a positive thing, unless he was simply trying to manipulate and use the potential interest.
/r/seduction27/06/12 05:55 AM
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And now that song will be in my head for the rest of the day...
/r/seduction21/06/12 04:05 PM
14

What are you sirs talking about, sirs!
/r/seduction19/06/12 05:59 AM
125

I was walked out of the gym Were you in trouble?
/r/seduction14/06/12 12:20 PM
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That way you walk off with honor and respect... These are two concepts I find strongly lacking in this sub. Also, like you said, if you're out at a bar and you see a girl enjoying a drink by herself, maybe the boyfriend line isn't 100% true, but you should take the hint that she's not interested, not continue pressing her until she caves.
/r/seduction14/06/12 12:11 PM
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I consider myself a passerby, too. Part of that is because most of the posts here come across as too aggressive or one-sided (my perception, anyway) but I appreciate your words and candor.
/r/seduction14/06/12 12:10 PM
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There is a difference between persistence and annoyance. A clever man can tell that difference. Not sure if this will track properly, but the first thing that came to mind was firearms. Sure, most people can buy a gun, but a clever man knows when and how to properly use it. My issue isn't with the tactics but the approach and mentality. Telling people to have unstoppable confidence, be persistent and ignore signs of negativity are all good things, in context, but without a proper understanding o…
/r/seduction14/06/12 11:56 AM
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"The more sexual tension you build, and the faster you build it, the more a woman will want to sleep with you inorder to release the tension." I don't know if r/seduction is for me. I see stuff like this all the time. How I read this is, women won't take personal interest in you, you're just orchestrating a situation which makes it uncomfortable (in a pleasing way) for the woman to just sit there, and you're providing her an opportunity to resolve that. You're the cause and effect, essentially. …
/r/seduction14/06/12 10:43 AM
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Stuff like this annoys me. I don't like how r/seduction has become "I won't take no for an answer and I'll keep assuming you want to have sex with me until I lose interest and decide to move on."
/r/seduction14/06/12 10:28 AM
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No smartphone, has a smart bone
/r/seduction03/06/12 01:54 PM
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My family used to go camping every summer when I was growing up. One summer, when I was about 14(?), my brother and I were taking a walk when we came across three girls walking the other direction. We passed each other, walking on opposite sides of a parked pickup truck. Our eyes met through the truck's windows and as we continued walking there we a few moments of looking back to see if the girls were looking still. They were. About an hour later, my brother and I were walking again and a truck …
/r/seduction03/06/12 04:21 AM
9

"Hey baby, wanna come back to my place?" Yeah, sure. "Oh?" On second thought...
/r/seduction31/03/12 11:23 AM
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I clicked on this and then was called away from my computer at work. Some coworkers were asking me why I was reading it. Didn't see the title of the article until I got back to my desk. I'm a guy, btw.
/r/seduction05/02/12 01:39 PM
2

I'm usually worried I'm staring so I tend to alternate eyes or, as others have suggested (in other posts) focusing on the bridge of the nose. But I do think it's natural to focus on one eye more than the other (I think it depends on how you and she are positions, be it at an angle or directly across from one another). Interesting thought, though.
/r/seduction04/02/12 09:56 AM
4

"Also, when talking to them, look them in the opposite eye..." Can you clarify that?
/r/seduction04/02/12 02:04 AM
6

Many thanks. Adding those to +subscribe
/r/seduction22/01/12 01:59 PM
4

I wasn't thinking this would be a good move but I recommend trying it out on a week-night. I think that's the key. If you go out on Friday or Saturday night it won't be as effective. I think the atmosphere and psychology are different during the week than they are on the weekends. People are usually out for a specific reason on weekends, whereas during the week you're just grabbing a bite and a drink. I think that's the key to this: your intent. All the talk about game and confidence, you're sor…
/r/seduction20/01/12 11:29 PM
1

Interesting... I just saw this posted in r/AdviceAnimals and figured I'd x-post this post there as a comment.
/r/seduction12/01/12 08:30 PM
4

I'm sorry. As much as I wouldn't like to help, I cannot stand seeing things I don't like. FTFY
/r/seduction12/01/12 07:35 PM
2

The moment I started to think "Wow, I can learn a lot from this girl, she's really knowledgeable and cultured," was the moment the "Out of my league" notion set in. It also became less about the girl and more about her interests, and practically nothing about me. I couldn't keep up. It fizzled fast.
/r/seduction11/01/12 07:01 PM
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A guy saying you're "out of their league" means they don't feel confident enough to be paired with you. They consider you above them. Sure, they may feel lucky to spend time with you, but if they're so quick to say that you're out of their league, I wouldn't waste much time on them. You'll quickly find that they take almost no control in the relationship, are probably boring (waiting to hear what you want to do all the time) and probably want someone to take care of them. They haven't become com…
/r/seduction11/01/12 11:24 AM
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I think men are more concerned about looks than women are, therefore we think "attractiveness" means looks.
/r/seduction10/01/12 08:16 AM
1

Yeah, I'm usually the one to help brighten other people's day. If I ever take a moment and speak about how bad my own day is going, I usually kick into defense/deflect mode and refocus the conversation to them. Not sure if that's healthy (long term) but it gets you through the moment-to-moment.
/r/seduction06/01/12 02:55 AM
1

Well put. I'm not out there looking for someone's shoulder to cry on, but relating to people is a genuine human interaction.
/r/seduction05/01/12 06:17 PM
1

I think I'll need to read this book to better understand Mode One, but my question (at the moment) is this: Honesty, no BS talk. Is there a better way of defining and discerning that? One criticism I've received is that I'm "too honest" sometimes. It's not when picking up women, but like if someone asks how my day is going, I will actually tell them if I'm having a rough day. (not that I'm having a pity party, just simply "I'm alright, but things could be better.") Just wondering if the book has…
/r/seduction05/01/12 08:36 AM
1

Since the 1980's more people are visual learners and thinkers. I usually come up with my own visuals in my mind but it's always good to see something in front of you.
/r/seduction05/01/12 08:32 AM
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You know, A U E O I is exactly the proper order for vowels when you're drunk, so this is going to be easy to remember. thumbs up
/r/seduction01/01/12 02:40 AM
1

Two things: Simply saying a cashier is attractive won't work, or at least (in my experience) they just think you're a creep. Point is, don't target them directly. They're a sounding board, not a target. Secondly, cashiers can do this, too! I worked for a book store during the holiday season a few years ago and I told them I didn't want to work at a register, nor did I want to work at the mall kiosk. I ended up working at a mall kiosk register for two months, usually working by myself. I soon lea…
/r/seduction30/12/11 08:28 AM
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