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8

The accuracy...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:34 PM
1

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/21 07:27 PM
3

I’m sorry to the woman that lost her parent & posted this. With that said, exactly WHO thinks to post to REDIT j 24 hours after losing a parent?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 03:03 AM
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I have never met a woman over 20 years of age that has NOT been sexually assaulted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:48 PM
89

I hate these assholes and their violent, shitty so called sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 04:53 AM
22

So glad your dr was honest with you and decent.... once visited a female obgyn for annual after my baby was maybe 2 years old... when I brought the issue up, she brushed me off, told me it was postpartum and normal. It was not normal .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 03:01 AM
10

Exactly! Crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/20 02:59 AM
117

Lo and behold, post divorce you can’t even try to keep me from sex... No longer having to mother a grown manchild does wonders for the sex drive. I just wish more women would try it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 06:09 PM
8

Damn the accuracy in her statement....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:23 PM
10

Why tf would they buy him this if he gave it up 20 years ago? Of course the sub rewarded this shit... it’s always applause here when women and children lose.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 03:21 PM
27

Hahahaha males have done lost their tiny little minds !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:25 AM
79

This killed me this morning - your last paragraph tho😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 03:05 PM
26

And why is she answering as if SHE is unattractive? I hate seeing other women downgrade their own selves, we are all beautiful !, due to men’s bullshit.!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 12:00 PM
3

Ya , blocked. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:40 PM
6

Thank you. Yes, I already can feel a non priority vibe and don’t like it. He’s pretty special, but it doesn’t matter if he doesn’t make me feel special. Sadly, he’s the only special I’ve dated. Deuces.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 01:39 PM
5

I need to know if I am being unreasonable here ladies please help me out!!!! Both early 40’s... Stumbled upon a very nice gentleman on OLD, vetted him for a first date , he asked me out promptly but just right not to fast , booked proper date /reservations... damn we had a good time. Kissed goodnight. Very happy. He’s been quiet and I don’t like it. After inquiring that I indeed got home ok from restaurant & my response of yes thank you again, I didn’t hear from him until 4 or 5 days later!!!, a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 07:59 AM
50

We know he’ll treat the dog way better than any woman!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 04:11 PM
4

Dead fucking truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/20 08:30 PM
6

Holy shit how do I unread this? How does she even sleep with that pile of trash? I just can’t anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:33 AM
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I’m sorry he turned out to be a dud! I’m so glad you posted this tho, seeing other women accept this bullshit makes me crazy, I’m so sick of social media and gaslighting asshats. Edit: I’m cackling 😂 at how you just exchanged IG’s this morning and you have ALREADY blocked him. I love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 04:02 PM
6

I think you are on your way to a better future girl. What you said quoted below is TRUTH. Sums up the middle and end of knowing a NVM back when. “..Over time that secure heart turned into something insecure, without understanding that it was insecure in ALL STAGES of dealing with people.”..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 02:44 AM
3

I felt this in my soul!! What a perfect example.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:01 PM
36

Shit, even my 21 year -old super PICK Me Ass knew better and bought my own home (worked my ass off & was much easier 20 years ago!) without my long term bf /turned later husband then turned ex many years later.... I just can’t imagine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:09 PM
11

They really be mad now.... let em.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:07 PM
36

Sometimes it seems to be ESPECIALLY the “childhood friends” that do the most fucking damage.... Edit: I just read OP’s post vs Title.. damn OP. Op, I’m so sorry. That was no childhood friend like the kind I was thinking of, that was an adult (him) preying on a child (you). I’m so fucking sorry that happened to you. And of course, this guy could have done this at age 17, 16 or 15 - still a fucking predator and they start preying young. Stay safe ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/20 06:02 PM
89

“...wearin the grapefruit he just microwaved....” 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:51 PM
47

Fuck Dave. Wait, NEVER fuck Dave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 03:44 AM
1

So true, it occurs everywhere.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 04:53 AM
13

I took a step forward to improve my life in the friends area and joined Bumble BFF today. Experienced a lot of loss and my current lack of friendships reflects that. Excited to see what comes of BFF Bumble - this was a big deal for me as I’m rather reserved at first, and I’m pretty anxiety ridden about making friends right now. The past loss of my lifelong bff at age 40 really hurt, but I’m looking forward to future a little more right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/20 03:19 AM
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What planet is this guy from? “...Men are victims of domestic violence in higher numbers than women...”.. he’s insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 07:36 PM
23

You spoke to this so well, I wish I could have read it 20 years ago.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 04:15 PM
12

Love how you are “spreading the effort” and protecting your boundaries from the start 💗. If I do date again, I’m going to remember this as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 05:11 PM
42

They know it and they HATE it! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/10/20 04:30 PM
44

That was painful to read. I hope she finds her way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:17 PM
41

Keep being you. You do not want anything to do with people-pleasing qualities. From your description, it sounds like you’re already ahead of the game!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 07:12 PM
8

u/lenahope4, the Relationship Advice sub is over there —->
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 05:31 PM
1

Damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:59 PM
6

Best ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 12:25 AM
35

...”...Keep it real & people will respect your vibe..”.. says the lvm actively lying about his age in same sentence... fucking Audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:11 AM
4

Yes!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:48 AM
2

What is he, 16?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 03:54 AM
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When you gotta start your story off with “I know he’s a good person DEEP down......” Please just know it’s not gonna end well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:12 AM
20

This right here... if only right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 04:09 AM
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This has happened to me thru out my life, as most males pull some version of this shit due to their Fragile male egos, but it was especially bad when I was with a ZVM (& a probable narcissist, my first, last and only), and he really loved this trick every once in awhile.... messed me up. Thankfully he’s long gone 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:35 AM
9

Me too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:25 AM
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They are delusional as fuck.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 12:22 AM
26

Fuck yes girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:39 AM
33

This hurts to read, it’s on point. I “knew” this to be true when I’d hear these types of comments out of the mouths’ of ZVM‘s, one of many glaring/obvious red flags 🚩 that I stuffed into my clown car in the past 🤡. Sometimes I had to learn the hard way, but no longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:35 AM
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Baby Jesus on a cracker, I’ve seen it all now...and it’s ugly ...so very very ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 12:28 AM
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Love that you cancelled - take yourself out anywhere you want - even just a drive or something- I know it’s harder with Covid restrictions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:16 PM
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Thank you so much for this response. You got dome good advice OP, I’m so glad I ran into this post too as felt similar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:10 PM
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What a fuckwit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 09:04 PM
3

So glad you cancelled- I felt same as you. He reminds me of a ZVM I once knew.... pretty sure he sent me same text lol. RUN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 02:32 PM
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I threw this exact scenario back to an ZVM I saw, using specific examples of him & me our family/etc, it simply doesn’t matter, they don’t care. Why would they care... most all of them are just as low value as the rest of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:35 PM
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Hahah this last one here killed me
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 01:28 PM
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Fucking scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:29 AM
6

Yes, it just is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:05 AM
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Broke and hit in the face. (go ahead and cry males, but we already know males started this shit to begin with, with your nasty ratings and fucking WAlKING DATES so fuck off)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:43 AM
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DO YOU HEAR 👂 THIS RAISINS? (noT aLl RAisins!)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:31 AM
5

Happy he got sacked, but I also know it’s not even a drop in the bucket of NVM. Reality is, society/employers really do not give a shit. Yes, this ONE did, but likely only because it went public. If ALL took action on the regular for men behaving this way (in & out of workplace), there would be very few men left employed. I mean, the US voted Trump into office - that should tell us all how much anyone gives a fuck about women and these predator males attacking us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 09:08 PM
11

Your brother sounds fabulous u/Pasdepromesses! 🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 08:37 PM
15

Fuck yes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:38 PM
14

Spot on. It’s really that simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:32 PM
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Does he think he’s at Burger King placing a damn order??? Place your order for teenage girls here 🚩 🚩 🚩 (cause, ya know, mAH dICk!) creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:38 AM
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And 98% of them are not worth a first look. And also, the sun rises in the East. All facts!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/20 03:51 AM
15

👏🏻NiCE 👏🏻fOr 👏🏻WHat???👏🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:23 PM
14

Love your response- perfect !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:19 PM
11

Agreed, Ive got four decades of watching them self implode as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:17 PM
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She’s desperate to prove how “cool” she is so the guys pick her...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:50 AM
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I just can’t understand any of the fucking point to her post... it was 100% useless ... nothing but a titty flash for SHORT NVM/LVM attention.... She’s probably great and deserves way more than she will get too.... Nope. Not for me. Hope she didn’t post to Facebook and IG too .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:12 PM
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Good point on revisit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:05 PM
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Could be right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 09:03 PM
11

I’m proud of you as well and you are very much NOT alone - I am grateful now to have been “ghosted” essentially as well by my NVM recent ex - this was after 3 years together. It gets better but it’s a challenge daily. In my case , we are well past our 20’s & early 30s.... makes it seem even more crazy making to me that he’s so childish..... it hurts. I’m about 4 months out tho and doing good - blocked him immediately on all platforms. Really recommend you stay busy and positive - plug into every…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:17 AM
4

As any woman should. The dread is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:25 PM
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This one’s gonna send em screaming 😇 Just plain ol truth
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 04:22 PM
7

Love this ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 03:12 PM
3

😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 02:36 PM
18

Damn. This shit should be embarrassing af to Future period... and Summer Walker s/b embarrassed now too for the bizarre rant... smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 06:56 PM
6

Great update!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 05:15 PM
18

RIP Breonna.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:39 AM
1

This above... that’s exactly how I’ve felt too many times, and specifically with recent ex on the regular...Agree, it really seems we’re not people to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 02:01 PM
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Yup
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 08:14 PM
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It hurts, you’re not alone, I’m sorry. Now you can focus on the right path for you to true happiness within yourself. And seriously, this guy can’t go from so very lv to HV in a month - you know this 🤗. Car or not (prob not even his lol)!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 03:46 AM
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Does this video hit on men in relationships liking other “real life” women’s attractive pics with hearts and such, in particular when the other women is a claimed “friend” of man??? (note: they never “like” or “heart” the nature pics lol)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 01:52 AM
4

Needed this today thank you 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 12:35 AM
18

THIS.... “...like men are angels...”. We can’t fit it all in one paragraph- so it doesn’t have time to call out such facts as: to the predatory nature of most men, the cost of being a woman and the danger to a woman in any man period or having one in her life, but you can bet it’s correct!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:15 PM
5

ANY-day Fiancé is just one too many for me - I am so blessed to be single too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:49 AM
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Yes, let me risk my health & safety just for your pleasure - in fact - let me PaY you, dear LVM, to walk near me in the park - what a date!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:58 PM
5

I just can’t get over the Bonus Point portion tho, smh .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:17 PM
4

This. Trust in this. What kind of person does that and do you want him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 02:10 AM
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This can’t be understood or screamed loudly enough by anyone it seems in real life. I’m so tired of the denial.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:30 AM
1

Damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 01:28 AM
4

One thing: Anything on there is out there forever. I wouldn’t delete it yet as you want control of original content. Find a way to make it private from ALL maybe while you figure out? Others will know more :) If not find someone knowledgeable you trust to consult.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:48 PM
2

Hahahahahha . Right asshole, let her get on throwing her life away real quick.....Dummies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:43 PM
5

My experience, it has never been anything but what you are afraid it is, and I’m well past my thirties....it never gets better. One or two males even had me thinking “maybe not” until the last couple years. No gay male friends left either for that matter in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:36 PM
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I love it !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:22 AM
15

I love this comment and saved it! “...so don’t bother....” 💗 it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 04:36 PM
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Report him to the App - violation of terms of use I’m guessing and if not nothing lost. What a creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 07:46 AM
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Awww ... just ... ugh 🤣🤣... UNRAVELED is my new favorite word.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 12:33 AM
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Hahahaha!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 11:11 PM
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You called it - first thing that came to my mind was 1) I am so fucking happy OP was able to get away from that trash - he sounds like a rapist - completely UNSURPRISED this would get most hate from males....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:33 AM
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I’m so glad you got away from him - he sounds fucking dangerous - like most men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 06:30 AM
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Safety first - especially for us women - I ignore or say a firm no and keep it moving . Mature, normal adult men DO NOT APPROACH lone women for assistance of any kind - they fucking know better. Edited to add: This really just plain creeps me out - all of us women- and me too , it’s ingrained in us to be “nice”, but please do not ever allow a stranger to steal your time, security, and possibly safety- for the sake of manners/etc. Nice for what?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 12:03 AM
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Reading his response dropped my fucking gut (and I’m an Internet stranger). What does that say? I only say this with your benefit in mind - because he certainly isn’t thinking it. You are posting about it here- so it’s damn important to you. Yes, your gut is right - dump him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 01:07 AM
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Lol “some drum-shaped balding dude...” 🤣 agree 💯!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 06:41 PM
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I love this... think of the years of shitty 20’s sex you avoided having with men 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/20 05:17 AM
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Was it r/no sleep? Cause if not... oh wait... shit.... nOt AL MeN.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 11:02 AM
20

Racist misogynistic nvm ... I hope she gets away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 07:59 AM
2

Please forget what “turns” males off... What turns you on in life? Go get it and keep getting it - don’t ever let nobody tell you that you are less than anything. That is all you need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:58 AM
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Never date or get close to males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:54 AM
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Fuck that shit - celibate 💯 life now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:40 AM
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This right here ladies, just plain truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:30 AM
2

I just love this 🤗. Miss my sweet old pup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 12:24 AM
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Next this mf gonna suggest that SHE act like Maxine and FIND the girls to blow him on husband’s behalf. I’m fucking sick, disgusted and fuck them all - throw them all out, I’m done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:45 PM
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This is the best answer! 😂 they certainly are defective!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 04:29 AM
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I am so sorry you are sick and having to deal with this shit. You are so strong and smart for ending it - remember - they need to ADD value to your life - not take it from you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:29 AM
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Yes! dump & block he’s a waste of time and energy and he’s a dick- Snapchat is a no go for me period - he’s just trying to or is fucking around with other women. He’s got some nerve too to sit there with a straight face but we all know the Audacity of these asshats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 04:21 AM
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YES YES YES. If FDS had been there when I was 18.... i can’t imagine 💗. I am a grown -early 40’s woman - This sub truly is not about dating for me or many I’m guessing - it’s about becoming the woman you KNOW you are. The common denominator here, hence the Dating sub, is LVM RUIN too many women’s lives- These LVM affect all women on this planet. Many women yearn for a mate from early on - exposing them to the life DAMAGE caused by LVM. Read the handbook please and then again and please stay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:24 AM
2

Thanks for rec! 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/07/20 03:02 AM
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I love this answer so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:56 PM
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Ghost. He’s a racist asshat and won’t change.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:53 PM
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I think HE dropped the ball... straight into H*## & he’s not far behind. What a racist fuck, sorry you even had to see that message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:52 PM
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Pls make sure you report him - (to the Racist, Misogynist Reddit mods) of whatever Sub his dummy ass came from.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:07 PM
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This is the most basic clown article I’ve seen in a while - it reads (especially with the typos) like it’s written by a 15 yo girl or a manchild .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 02:04 PM
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Filthy, violent male creatures. Sometimes I just want off this ride that includes males - anyone got any ideas? A way to fling most Males off Earth itself? A Women only Continent???? Shit I really wish I was more attracted romantically & sexually to women - fuck these males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:59 PM
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😂 dying over here....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/20 01:48 PM
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Love her ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:49 PM
15

😂Mary Fucking Poppins 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 02:48 PM
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Hahahaha 😂😂😂😂😂 These lvm & the audacity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 04:30 AM
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Fucking first - there’s nothing “wrong with you” - forget that noise. I know the other ladies will give you great advice but I can’t get past your title and I hate to hear you talk about yourself in that way. You’re a fabulous young woman -there’s nothing “wrong” with you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/20 03:47 AM
7

That was my thought upon reading his bio - of course he is!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 07:01 AM
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And thats why I skimmed it 🙃 lol no disrespect to poster - just not what I thought 😮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 01:02 AM
3

Ok.. Lol i only clicked due to title too hahahha wayy different “Night Juice” than I was thinking 😂 i only skimmed it - it was a post looking for and discusing health /beauty ideas & was about juicing only at night??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/07/20 12:20 AM
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He has a lot of excuses that don’t add up..... you even had some ????’s on it yourself... I don’t like it. Funny his cell died, he sent you “screenshots” and is out of town & sharing a hotel room w/his dad & went on a Dating App to show his dad pics of his girlfriend??? Editing to add: Nah - staying with what I said above. No benefit of doubt for males.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 06:19 AM
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It’s so fucked up that pretty much 3 of every 3 girls are sexually abused in some way before they have a chance to hit adulthood. How bout that????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:26 AM
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All the above and fuck him. Report him to the dating app if applicable!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:43 AM
10

Me too 💗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 01:14 AM
3

That flair tho is spot on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 05:33 PM
4

Creepy as ever! Damn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 08:27 PM
1

Proud of you for seeing this for what it is - cause you know this guy isn’t even ALL that - keep moving forward towards your better future and leave the past in past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 06:20 AM
2

Yes!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:56 AM
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Men aren’t your friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:53 AM
8

❤️ it!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:41 AM
1

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 09:28 PM
1

Lol, I never zoom in but did this one time... ugh never again!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 04:40 AM
2

Yes you do for sure!!! Smh at these guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 03:12 PM
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How about the woman’s bare ass FOOT in pic??? Zoom in pic around the “40” Age of this green monster! Smh 🤦🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 02:56 PM
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To answer your questions: No, No, and No but YES to Throw That Whole LVM Away please!!!! And read the handbook for real please 💜- although I know you know in your gut what to do here OP....I hope you do it, for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 03:06 PM
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That’s funny - my mom wouldn’t get it either - she said the same being and I think she was right :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 07:27 PM
3

This was very well written OP- 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 03:29 PM
14

I am amazed at OP’s career - can’t imagine for myself - what strength. Grateful for these smart women working to help us all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 02:51 PM
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Good on you for removing yourself 🙂💜
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:10 AM
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And good on you for getting away from him! That’s right a lot of women pretend they don’t see it etc Maybe you should let her know, if your willing/comfy. Your post hit my gut - was scared you were my bf’s ex for sec lol (clearly not 🙂). Still don’t know if I’m crazy or he’s a cheater. Prob never will.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:08 AM
12

I am MORTIFIED.... 🙃😅 send my ass back to PMe wanna be land ladies- cause I’ve been wondering why I can’t understand or enjoy that stupid fucking movie - and the last 2 lvm acted like it was all that???? And I must be dumb or something..... Fuck And these men were grown (supposedly).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:49 PM
2

If you’ve ever worked in a care home/dementia unit etc - you wld see this is way too common 😐 Gross Men DONT change
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 04:33 PM
4

Yes!!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 05:31 PM
17

Yes, you do deserve so much better ! Do it!!! You’ve got this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 11:47 AM
24

😂 exactly my questions and 😂 Weekend at Bernies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 08:51 PM
27

Report him to OLD platform as well! Good job in block ! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 12:42 AM
1

So happy for you! Love seeing more women pursuing trades!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 05:22 PM
1

All what you said above exactly- thanks!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/20 05:13 PM
15

Without fail... lvm cling to any potential future women “friends” to “connect” with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 05:32 PM
14

Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/05/20 05:28 PM
6

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:19 PM
8

Perfect example- and well done!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 12:12 AM
1

It is so painful and lonely. Great post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:53 PM
1

So true! It takes a lot to see it for what it is and swerve it right before it even begins!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:52 PM
3

I feel you , it hurts, 💗 - you are not alone & seems a huge number of lvm pull this shit... it’s not YOU. He’s not magically changed for the new woman - I promise. Lots of good stuff on this sub on that particular subject too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:49 PM
2

Thank you all for your kind words and inspiration 💗.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/20 07:40 PM
5

Huge congrats!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 11:49 PM
6

Thanks - gotta assume so at this point - feels like the gas station attendant treats me better most of the time....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 06:05 PM
15

We know this wasn’t the very first time he pulled some shit like this with her - but little did he know it would be the last lol! Love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:32 PM
35

I find myself typing draft after draft of a seeking advice post- that I will never post - I think I’m seeing the 🤡in my own words, PAGES of useless “love history”, pages of excuses for him written by my own damn self, as to why I should put up with his most recent shitty behavior - the behavior he’s somehow, again, shifted its blame to me. Many draft posts later (none posted), I’m worn out and know there’s really no getting around it ladies....... he’s a lvm and not doing right by me on top of i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 02:02 PM
4

Saving your comment - I just love this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:59 PM
1

I’m here! !! It’s for all of us women 🤗. Glad you are here too!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 02:57 PM
17

Me too - good for you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:34 AM
4

Interesting.....if I recall right, that particular app has a poor history of failure to shut down live broadcasts featuring actual rape, murder, etc..... Nothing to see here people. Keep it moving.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/05/20 05:13 PM
3

R/relationships isn’t the first Sub to ban our members (me included, many years positive, supportive and generally sane history!) just for being FDS Members - it’s like at flip of a switch. Silenced. Keep posting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:29 PM
7

First, you are fucking great. Period. And please don’t be thinking for one second that him giving you an sti reflects poorly on you.... any “shame” is just another cute little “built in benefit” of living in such a shit society for women - women expected to carry shame for mens’ shitty, abusive behavior. I’m sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/05/20 02:20 PM
19

I swear we married and divorced the same man. I’m sorry.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/20 02:16 AM
12

Hate to say it when this shit doesn’t surprise me.... unreal. 2017!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/05/20 06:54 PM
2

That was your gut and you were so smart to listen to it - wish I had more at your age !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:17 PM
12

You’re not dumb! I wondered myself lol. And he is cute 🙂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 01:06 AM
5

Preach it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 09:22 PM
25

This might be the most accurate thread title ever !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:45 AM
19

Fabulous and appropriate title! 💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 04:38 AM
15

Wish I could upvote this more - especially your detail ;) it’s needed 😇
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:52 AM
15

For what tho? You know these answers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:49 AM
83

My only New Years “resolution” was to live more authentic to my own self, always. . . Your example is THAT! 🙂. Love it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:48 AM
8

This post nails it for a lot of us I think.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 05:31 PM
4

You know what, this shit makes me so ducking mad... the one time we do out of our way, to bake the damn cake, after some asshat sold us a big fat lie..... This is WHY we don’t Bake. It never fucking works. Edit: just clarifying - I’m angry af at these men, and never OP :) - I am angry FOR op on this one. What an asshat this guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 12:36 AM
58

Males try to act like they don’t spend ridiculous amounts of time gossiping and lying and trying to bring women down to their shitty ass, unwashed level - most of them behave like high schoolers until death. Cary on ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:00 PM
23

Louder for all of us ladies in need of a reminder on what constitutes basic human relationship expectations !!!! * yes, this one hit home hard extra on me today - I needed to see it and did at exactly at the right time .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 08:47 PM
6

Damn - this got me. Indeed it is some scary shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:40 PM
43

I’m so damn sick of it with lvm - this guy’s not worth the time it took her to post this shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 07:38 PM
8

Preach. Nothing but truth here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 01:19 AM
15

I am feeling this hard...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 11:52 PM
4

This is so true.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 11:21 PM
5

Me. Never posted there or visited.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 06:31 PM
1

Inappropriate. At best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 05:13 PM
2

I chose my name on Reddit to sound Male to avoid all the creepers. It helps. For years! It also got me banned in FDS .....for a day as they assumed my many-years old account was male - thankfully they fixed that. The shit we go thru just to protect ourselves from men....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:53 PM
2

Yes yes yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 04:05 PM
1

This. Thank you. I am scared for the aftermath too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:40 AM
6

This just hurts.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:32 AM
5

He’s always been known as this, and I c as my believe how many people continue to ignore it... so done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/04/20 12:30 AM
47

When he tells you who he is, please listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 02:05 AM
20

What a dickface. You sound like a genuine normal human woman here. He’s an immature and lvm asshat. Edit: Sorry, no edit. This guy is such trash for not thinking or giving one clear anything about anything else BUT getting HIs dICk WeT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/20 01:55 AM
4

I understood on first read where you were coming from here - men are gross. I’m tired of us women talking about each other vs the behavior of lvm - would love to see us give each other more kindness especially right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 10:14 PM
16

About time. This has been well known many years and I’m sick of him getting the old “white male pass”... it’s gotta fucking stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:20 AM
30

One of the scrotes even turned it all around into his own whine fest about how he has it ThE wORst because he get no sex ever and all you feMaLEs bad... this is all gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 12:19 AM
2

“SexyPREDATOR”.... is all I read on the 2nd scrote ....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 11:56 PM
33

Too real. And tho this LVM example made a decent ish income, imagine if the lvm didn’t even have a job that brought your home any financial comfort/stability at all - that’s how the majority of women live with their lvm - in poverty or close , while still doing all the above for their lvm and being treated like dirt.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:11 PM
7

Exactly!! I do the same - those little clues & looking thru pics /etc can reveal a lot - especially when one is p as good at reading between the lines as we are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 03:03 PM
29

Thank you. All of this. I can’t believe at my age (40!) this shit goes on but it does!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 04:37 AM
11

Too bad about that move to isolation - he’d have so much fun in the general population tho!!! As much as I loathe Rikers, it gives me happy chills to know his ass is rotting there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 03:08 PM
2

Shocking. (sadly not). Two of the most Woman Hating & Pro Life governmentally controlled states we have...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/20 02:32 AM
2

Thank you - I just ran into that post as well, had 💯 same take as this from jump.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/03/20 03:11 PM
7

Block. Racist lvm, looking to use you. These guys make me sick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/03/20 08:41 PM
15

Fucking gross misogynistic mods on THOSE subs, on the troll for anything that could potentially get in the way of ANY man on earth not getting their “nut”... Sick. I’m so done with it all, and r/.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:07 AM
2

This is fabulous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/03/20 12:06 AM
3

Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 11:45 PM
5

Thank you! Which author? I am seeing two of them.... thanks! :)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/20 10:12 PM
24

Your response was Queen shit tho! You did right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/03/20 01:33 AM
1

I’d report his account and block.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 12:46 AM
13

Nothing but truth here!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/20 01:46 AM
4

Yes, and early on!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 01:35 AM
27

This shit needs to be upvoted.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:53 AM
16

Date & local change ones are so spot on - your descriptions really nailed it 💯.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 12:51 AM
15

Damn op, that’s a good one! Had an ex that HATED my vibe, but loved to watch me use it 🤷‍♀️... but then would bitch about! And.... drove exbf to work (lol when he worked) and picked him up 5xweek for a 1 year in Seattle traffic, let exbf humiliate me in public once and stayed with him.... I could go on. thankfully it’s in past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:23 AM
48

Bless you for sharing this - we need to be going in with our eyes so opened up they get dried out. The lengths they will go to deceive require us to be ruthless in protecting ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 05:40 PM
2

I think the error is in it trying to calculate the tiny, ittybitty, percentage of HVM on the market.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/20 09:09 PM
5

I loved reading this, thanks for sharing your thought process !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 03:45 PM
13

Yes sis,same 😁.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 01:31 AM
1

Only people that think of this question are LVM. Queens don’t need to answer this question and HVM don’t ask it. Think about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 06:05 PM
21

the “Learning Annex”... 😂..... love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:57 PM
51

Exactly, right here with you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/20 03:47 PM
17

This is really smart and helpful, thanks for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 08:47 PM
2

This response made my Monday 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/20 04:09 PM
69

What...is going on ??? Is this guy really acting like he’s a company ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/20 05:47 AM
24

I think your observation is likely 💯! All we really need to know, and we know now, is that 1) men aren’t women’s friends 2) see number 1. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 02:14 AM
5

Enjoyed reading this, you wrote well... the way you phrased it to recent ex makes sense.... interesting thoughts... watching :) .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 02:29 AM
7

I think they hit their wall at their own birth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 03:56 PM
17

Hahaha! 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 03:44 PM
2

Thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 03:38 PM
33

Just when I think I can’t be surprised anymore at male delusion ... the Scrotes outdo themselves ....again .... smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 08:39 AM
13

“There seems to be this really…bent push for extreme centrism and equality between the genders in “all” ways. A willful refusal to understand that in some ways things are just unfair....” What you said above (quoted) really nails it..... I’m so tired of hearing these lvm popping off about “equality “ between men and women - they remind me of white people (in the US) that say shit like “race no longer matters” and the “I don’t see color...”. 👀. Smh. Lvm can’t understand and don’t want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 01:05 AM
35

Exactly. Sounds like he is not only dumber than dirt, he’s clearly looking for an “out” on relationship with her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 12:23 AM
32

Love
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 10:19 PM
2

I feel this so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 09:47 PM
6

Bless this post. Such truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:45 AM
15

RP CRAP. I recall reading a description once about “setting the scene” with the “apartment near by the bar, the walking to and from the bar” etc. The entire fucking thing. This is literally a script.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 02:43 AM
22

The bottom pic of this creature’s face looks like a mugshot....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 05:27 PM
25

Even when women post on that sub they gotta act misogynistic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 04:43 PM
40

No. No decent partner I’ve ever had has ever forced my hand anywhere when I said no or resisted - laughing or not
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:23 AM
2

Nicely said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:02 AM
16

Also loving this. Has always been issue for me :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 03:01 AM
2

Bumping this. Hope some others see!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 01:35 AM
57

Nice work! (Sorry about bag, grab that shit in the am!!). Imagine 5 years from now, tucking his drunk ass into the couch, nightly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 06:01 AM
36

That’s accurate af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 05:25 AM
2

I went back to read my Birthday one (pick a year - I was pickme).... such shit and sadness. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 03:43 AM
4

Proud of you. There’s lots of good info on distracting yourself. I like to journal and go back and read what I was feeling and do I REALLY want to go back to that????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 03:30 AM
19

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/19 09:15 PM
1

Love it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 07:26 PM
3

“Window Licker..”..... lol what is that? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:54 AM
14

The last one....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 04:37 AM
2

I would block him. Serious potential bad news - don’t get with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:20 AM
32

I find myself so angry and disgusted by this shit from men.... If this was my husband, I would have no choice but to get him to Energency Services ASAP - clearly he is delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:08 AM
18

Thank you OP!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 05:25 PM
19

Great examples...these lvm act like they are 12 year old little boys...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 04:34 PM
11

“you know....you’re going to be 41 soon....you’re not getting any younger...” said to me when trying to push to stay together so he could keep using me... And ...we’re done. .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 06:01 PM
6

You are so not alone OP ! “ ...I’m cool with just High Value Me right now “. I love this!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 04:21 PM
9

Your advice on timing (do it sooner in relationship/dating- will hurt less, etc) really hit me - this is smart. Looking for doing before getting heavy feels or any-way really invested - so much easier to walk away when you’ve only been dating/seeing for two months or something, and you see proof they’ve already done you dirty - much easier to leave than 1 year in, 2 years, 10, etc.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 11:20 AM
14

Dying over here at “he’s doing the push/pull confusing shit of the disordered....”.....It makes so much sense. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:33 PM
8

So glad you posted this. Forgot #3 recently for a sec - and knew as soon as the words left my mouth that they shouldn’t have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:23 PM
3

I gotta say, how is it that so many of us women (including myself) - figured out to work shit out, over & over, but so many men just can’t?Why are we always picking up the pieces? Op, I feel your pain. Good advice advice above. Please don’t set yourself up for a potential life of picking up other people’s pieces. Men always focused on #1 first - themselves. It’s not even a question. Self preservation. You need to do the same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:18 PM
1

Shit, they allow it everywhere. Without fail.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:07 PM
17

Love to understand how it is I can see so much violence, misogyny, hatred by men on this place (Reddit) and rarely an issue for the men. As usual they be coming for the women....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 04:07 PM
23

We all need to read this. Again and again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 05:05 PM
13

Men really need to work on their communication skills... they go straight for the throat whenever shit don’t go their way....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 04:59 PM
11

Yes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 06:31 PM
11

These men are fucking horrifying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/19 05:57 PM
11

That post is beyond appalling ..... and sadly likely a common thought from men (starting to think they don’t have much for thought)..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 12:05 AM
10

In PDX, it’s beyond painful. Seems many guys here just never were able to grow up? smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:14 PM
3

Completely agree, wish I had understood when younger..... smh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:07 PM
15

You may feel inexperienced in dating, but it’s clear your instincts are good - even when can’t quit out your finger on it - yet something is setting off your gut - listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 12:29 AM
22

Gut. Trust your gut. The above is why.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 09:49 PM
9

I learned this was truth the hard way .... it hurts when one of your few close friends (or so you thought) never really was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 01:02 AM
24

He’s looking a little thirsty with all them words LOL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 03:40 AM
1

Looks like another PDX guy! ;) Terrified to load the apps again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 11:14 PM
13

I can so relate to this.... Experienced a lot of loss past few years, including friendships... it’s hard to make new close friends after 30..... men are a dime a dozen - female friendships are not! I agree with poster above that it‘s more important just for you and your well being vs anything to do with a guy. Sadly, it’s a lot easier to find dick than friendships... For me, I’m working on building and/or re- building my female friendships now, then I will consider dating again.... I made the mi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 02:45 AM
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