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You placed yourself in friend-zone. Not sure if you are able to recover. Read Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction24/07/18 12:46 PM
12

don't forget to have kids first before sex
/r/seduction23/07/18 04:52 AM
4

how do you play it safe these days? kissing, oral, are condoms even enough?
/r/seduction20/07/18 05:28 PM
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glad you learned this... though, i might roll back the 'command/authority', not always the case
/r/seduction17/07/18 02:21 PM
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When I use to go out in Hong Kong, I notice women at also sweating and 'wet' as well. I think people just accepted that its the norm that we might touch some sweat here and there. Not sure what the norm it is for CA.
/r/seduction09/07/18 02:51 AM
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Hmm where are you? What is the local climate?
/r/seduction09/07/18 01:46 AM
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Is it possible for you to move to downtown area?? I find owning a car a huge expense. If I could, I rather just pay higher to live downtown for more opportunities and better logistics.
/r/seduction06/07/18 07:30 PM
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I like this. Good explanation and examples. Thanks.
/r/seduction04/07/18 02:33 AM
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If you could elaborate a little more on what is required on to be so 'friendly' with no many girls without ending up as an 'nice guy / doormat / orbiter' that would be great. Like what are you consciously doing in life/behavior/in person/etc that the girls are so invested in your life while not 'tossing you under bus' for getting so caught up in their 'girl talk'. I can't even get girls as friends; ever been through this phase before by any chance? What did you change?
/r/seduction03/07/18 11:49 PM
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I'm kind of skeptic of this. Not that it isn't true but there are a lot of nuances you have not described here or unaware of yourself even though you're doing it. Its quite difficult for newbies or 'unnatural', like myself, to replicate this behavior in a proper way because normally we just get thrown into the 'nice guy / doormat' corner.
/r/seduction03/07/18 10:14 PM
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Still very important. Network and contacts get you places and to new people.
/r/seduction03/07/18 09:59 PM
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Kind of a bummer. What if she was actually really hot in bed??? Hypothetically, was that a way to play the long game, keep her around as someone to hang with, +1 social circle??
/r/seduction02/07/18 01:29 PM
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Yes. You are at a shitty place and so am I. Accept it as it is. Pull every ounce of energy into changing what you can. That's all you can do. RSD Tyler did whatever he could to fix his sexually frustrated situation. He went out practically every night to get good at game. Find a way.
/r/seduction02/07/18 01:24 PM
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You need to access conversations on the emotional level.
/r/seduction02/07/18 12:45 AM
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Worked for me when I was learning to break AA with people in general, but it quickly lost its spark when these went nowhere / 'nice meeting you'.
/r/seduction02/07/18 12:44 AM
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rejection is a huge part of life... most relatable is job hunting... you will have to get used to it one way or another overtime and just learn not to take it personally
/r/seduction30/06/18 02:48 PM
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unsuccessful.... it should be a 'hell yes' - mark manson
/r/seduction30/06/18 01:24 PM
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Just like reading a story. When can we get Part 2? and please add more detailed conversation, it adds to the emotional hype.
/r/seduction30/06/18 01:18 PM
12

She did you a favor. In a way, she knows you're a better person than her, that's why she didn't want to pop your 'genuine guy' bubble and turn you into a douche asshole who just sleeps with people and ghost them right after.
/r/seduction29/06/18 05:35 PM
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I haven't entirely figured it out but I would say start on the path of meditation. Being able to calm, ground, and center yourself. To generate your own emotions, I haven't figure it out, sorry. Gotta ask others here.
/r/seduction26/06/18 03:42 PM
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Inner-game based comment: you're 'state' of feeling good is dependent on others (your friends), as opposed to being able to draw from within yourself, being happy and content with yourself, where you are at the present time/place, and share your enjoyment
/r/seduction26/06/18 04:21 AM
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This is why texting for many instances has been non-sense. Should have just called.
/r/seduction26/06/18 02:37 AM
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I'm chinese so I can't totally relate, but I'm had 0 success with hispanics. I suspect you might be a natural?? and your approach and game is actually pretty good. Also, if you're getting a lot of tinder matches, I reckon you know how to style, groom and present yourself well on camera??
/r/seduction22/06/18 10:38 PM
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Just learn that numbers mean nothing now. Just the interaction, make that count.
/r/seduction18/06/18 12:21 AM
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Either you have negative tunnel vision or you did all the research and you need to move.
/r/seduction17/06/18 12:22 PM
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I don't know about giving this advice to newbies. Each one of the tips on the lists has an underlying set of mindset/skills/paradigms that one needs to realize/acquire/overcome before one can properly exercise those tips.
/r/seduction15/06/18 08:21 PM
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What college course or book is this?
/r/seduction15/06/18 02:31 PM
2

You can judge that? Example??
/r/seduction15/06/18 01:48 AM
3

What about eating a girl out? or is that always a NO with new chicks?
/r/seduction15/06/18 01:05 AM
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Good affirmations.
/r/seduction14/06/18 08:58 PM
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I would say it only partially does. I meditate pretty much consistently daily, so for most of my day I'm pretty calm, especially after yoga. Though I might be oozing out some dense vibes if I'm thinking about a situation at home, but I feel pretty present like you after workouts. However, I don't get any second looks from women or girls. None. So I would reckon that you have the physique and/or looks to go along with it. Next time, just put on a smile and just say hi.
/r/seduction14/06/18 05:20 PM
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matrix as fuck
/r/MGTOW14/06/18 12:34 AM
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You and I are practically in the same position except that I'm not a virgin. First you and me both, need to work on our life foundation, need basic needs, get a decent job and move out. In the meantime, yea still practice game or social interactions. Get casual date first, then consider sex.
/r/seduction13/06/18 04:17 PM
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Interesting question from the opposite side of the table. What do you define as a good man though?
/r/seduction13/06/18 02:15 AM
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This is a solid trick. Cheers. Will test it out.
/r/seduction10/06/18 04:04 PM
2

For reference, can you elaborate more on other factors of your interaction with these girls? What other factors would you attribute to the success of interaction with these girls. Like your confidence level that day, your verbal, non verbal skills, what kind of conversation were you guys having? 'nice to meet someone genuine' sounds much like 'nice meeting you' kinda vibe which doesn't sound so favorable. Frankly, I just get blown out and turned down right away or some after open 99% of the time…
/r/seduction10/06/18 03:03 AM
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many cultures are not welcoming of having a gf/bf over, very traditional black/white thinking, irrational, like you're not part of the family so don't be fucking or sleeping under our roof, its disrespectful... but oddly, bring a friend of the same sex over to chill... all cool..
/r/seduction09/06/18 05:32 AM
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Meh... Doesn’t apply to everyone. The guy could still have been level 0 like me. Practically invisible to society relationship or not.
/r/seduction08/06/18 02:13 PM
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Take it as far as you can get. Though I would anticipate a unfavorable result, but it will be important to gain reference experiences. What references would you like to learn more from? Text-game? or Calling? Also did you confirm if the number was fake or not?
/r/seduction08/06/18 05:03 AM
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Sorry, I cannot advise you in that regard. I don't have the success experience to back it up. So I can only tell you what doesn't work.
/r/seduction08/06/18 04:49 AM
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Nope, first impression is last. As someone who's failed many many times at the newbie level and still, 'just talk' for a couple minutes means jack. You need to 'attract', spike emotions in the interaction. Go YouTube Todd Valentine videos. Unless the next time you see her you're a totally baus, seen having fun and flirting, attracting a lot of other girls, you're already off her radar. Next.
/r/seduction08/06/18 04:39 AM
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Props for taking the chance. But, assess this from her perspective, how awkward and startled it must have been to randomly get asked out from some casual acquaintance within the social circle. Pretext not set. No emotional buildup. Imagine some random girl you know who wasn't on your radar who you never felt attracted to, sudden come up to ask you out.
/r/seduction08/06/18 03:50 AM
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What do you mean the real thing? as opposed to?
/r/seduction07/06/18 12:13 AM
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Hmmmm.... Although what you're saying is very true, women want to be approach and will tolerate a little awkwardness, but honestly, I feel like this 'awkwardness tolerance' is such a narrow window. There is so much more nuances than just going up to women and 'simply cold approaching'. I don't know about the rest of you guys, but trying to catch up 20 yrs of social skills experience has been and still a grueling experience and crude awakening on how far behind I am.
/r/seduction06/06/18 11:32 PM
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Noted. Thanks.
/r/seduction05/06/18 05:24 AM
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Besides straight out refusing, is there a win-win 'game' proposal I can suggest? ex. I'll do it if..... ?? This a good idea?
/r/seduction05/06/18 01:28 AM
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I'm not sure how and what I should stand my ground for to be honest. Its like a 3min poking with them squirming before they run out to play. What's an example I could test with next time they ask me?
/r/seduction05/06/18 01:13 AM
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hmmm 1) Not sure what you mean by don't touch their kids, but they know I'm Pro and I've been around them already for quite awhile, not friends exactly but we are well acquainted and rapport is established. 2) I like the idea of talking to them with the practice of setting boundaries, though I'm not sure how to do it in a way that is assertive but fun at the same time. I've tried proposing like, "I'll give you kids a massage if you give me a massage?" But they like just randomly beat me and step…
/r/seduction05/06/18 01:05 AM
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good pointers, thanks
/r/seduction04/06/18 08:53 PM
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not that i'm interested in any of ones from the meetup group, but why do you say that?
/r/seduction04/06/18 08:49 PM
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good starters ideas thanks for this
/r/seduction01/06/18 06:07 AM
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Is there any particular category of meetup or social gathering that would be more beneficial or avoid for level 0 idiots?? I would like to avoid the randomly 'creeping' more people out, 'burning the bridge' on more social groups, The biggest problem is that I don't get the chance to 'revisit'/learn the mistakes with the same person since I get sidelined after 1 or 2 interactions. I don't have enough time/experience to figure out what I did wrong or if any other thing works. Hmmm... I guess I hav…
/r/seduction31/05/18 04:27 PM
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Ok so I suppose I could attempt to simulate this by just observing at malls or eventually find P/T security work or something. Can you share what you're looking for when you observe and what have you picked up overtime?
/r/seduction31/05/18 04:09 PM
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So for example, lets say I decide to go to a 3 class cooking course. I can and will probably meet and greet a couple of people, blah blah blah, nice to meet you. But by the second class, I can tell they are already playing it extra nice or polite, I suspect they think it might set me off or something. I make sure to think twice or 3 times before I open my mouth to make sure my verbals are 'neutral' as possible. Another example would be a coworker I used to work with. We got along pretty fine for…
/r/seduction31/05/18 04:00 PM
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why not build the tension higher over the course of the night??
/r/seduction31/05/18 01:01 AM
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from minimum wage to COO in 5yr?? is there a really good story here?? care to share your story a little and some details in between that might be relevant here??
/r/seduction31/05/18 12:59 AM
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question to the girl just out of curiosity: from your own self-experience, lets say, would you prefer overtime that the guy: 1) becomes regularly available, like no delays in communication, lots of yes and time suggestions, like a very simple ez accessible fwb 2) or do you feel this 'game' of cat and mouse is necessary to keep the sexual tension high??
/r/seduction31/05/18 12:46 AM
1

So I just indirectly invited her like the other commenters said, the said she was too busy with school, didn't seem disappointed nor proposed alternative. Next.
/r/seduction28/05/18 04:32 AM
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Yea this is most likely. Thanks.
/r/seduction27/05/18 04:07 PM
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Thats a great idea, Thank you. I will do that. I guess if she says shes busy, doesn't offer alternatives or reach other for something else, shes not interested right??
/r/seduction27/05/18 03:30 AM
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If she was never interested, I don't want to make it awkward between us by asking her out because I frequent the yoga studio.
/r/seduction27/05/18 02:42 AM
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Hmmm yea I've thought about it, but like I said, 'I can't find' (duno how) to create an opportunity where I can isolate and ask her out, shes always surrounded by a bunch of people guys and girls. I also don't want to make it awkward if she was never interested because I go for yoga at that studio regularly.
/r/seduction27/05/18 02:34 AM
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wait im confused... 1. why did mentioning you had a puggle make them switch modes?? 2. what 'value' exactly are they competing from you if they didn't really want to dogsit?
/r/seduction24/05/18 03:32 PM
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i wonder what she meant by 'acts like he can't'
/r/seduction19/05/18 07:28 PM
7

you are already too attached if you're asking... its you're first one, there's going to be a lot more, just keep it fun, nothing~~~~ serious, tell as little as necessary, hold the frame, keep up the game and mystery
/r/seduction13/05/18 03:50 AM
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to play devil's advocate, there are many cultures where when the woman says no, the guy will assume "challenge accepted" mindset.... and i'm sure there are plenty of guys who do put more effort as an ego thing
/r/seduction13/05/18 02:01 AM
0

myb... works for me sometimes coz i'm a really good cook (dumb as it sounds, yes i have 'proof' from instagram)
/r/seduction09/05/18 06:45 PM
-1

cook dinner together
/r/seduction09/05/18 01:12 PM
1

my game is 0, i've just been through the theory nerd stage.. my practical skills and social acuity is 0, hence my question
/r/seduction08/05/18 12:40 AM
7

"owes date" = she already intended a 'romantic interaction', but you have to lead the date, from start to close... she literally opened the door for you, lead her through a fun date and close
/r/seduction07/05/18 10:05 PM
2

if you get it setup as 'sex for hw' its worth considering to get some experience under the belt. otherwise, girls are well aware of the abundance of nice guys that they can easily get help, attention and things from. if a girl who seems more warm to you asking for favours, you can find ways to tease about 'whats in it for me =)?'
/r/seduction07/05/18 06:39 PM
14

stay cool, lead, spike those emotions, laser eye contact, tease, make it a home run
/r/seduction06/05/18 09:39 PM
9

best not to shit where you eat...she's a hot chick +1 social circle, you work with her +1 networking..... but you can always push/pull tease how it wouldn't work out between the two of you because you guys work together
/r/seduction01/05/18 11:12 PM
1

hmmm dress is only but a small indicator... inherently they know can be sexy externally by working out right and wearing the right clothes but can they truly embrace it as who they are??? you really need to engage with her in person, see how she reacts verbal and non-verbally to different topics and situations... obviously, do it in a fun (game) way.... her dances with you should give really clear IOIs... if the situation is hot enough, i would definitely try to escalate to sex, but if you're th…
/r/seduction01/05/18 12:08 AM
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My anecdotal college only experience with this group of women (persian, arabic, muslim, middle east) who fell under this general category seems to have baggage, issues, strict family ties/pressure/values/beliefs about dating that raised a lot of red flags. For example, one super hot arabic girl I met in 4th year college still had to live by a curfew. So I would get to know her more first, see how liberal she is about dating/sex, ask about dating / logistics, etc...
/r/seduction30/04/18 07:46 PM
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i'm not a pro by any stretch but, what age / type of girls have you been dating?? and where are you specifically meeting them?? i know plenty of 'women' who are looking for LTR, but like you probably guess, they are older 30+ i also know plenty of girls who also SAY they are fishing for 'the fantasy of the one', but their actions and choice of men prove otherwise
/r/seduction28/04/18 02:27 PM
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I dont use FB and don't want to get started on snapchat. I used instagram for while to post only pics of my cooking, no face pics of me on it though. Got bored of it atm and stopped.
/r/seduction24/04/18 06:25 PM
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