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#HeAin'tTheOne2021mynameisrominka/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 08:01 PM
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MINDSET SHIFTmynameisrominka/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 01:47 PM
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DISCUSSIONmynameisrominka/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:47 AM
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NICE FOR WHAT?mynameisrominka/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:37 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEmynameisrominka/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 06:45 AM
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LEVEL UPmynameisrominka/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 02:10 PM
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#KickHimOut2020mynameisrominka/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 10:38 PM
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SEEKING ADVICEmynameisrominka/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:45 PM
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mynameisrominka/r/askFDS17/11/20 01:36 AM
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#KickHimOut2020mynameisrominka/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 07:12 AM
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#JustLVMThingsmynameisrominka/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:14 AM
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mynameisrominka/r/askFDS10/01/21 08:51 PM
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RANTmynameisrominka/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 08:55 PM
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PICKMEISHA HALL OF SHAMEmynameisrominka/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 11:10 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
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The fact that he needs to ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 05:34 PM
12

Let them go on their merry way without a second thought. This is them telling on themselves, and it's saving you time. Good riddance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/22 06:24 AM
11

I'm so glad she ran for the hills
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/21 07:17 PM
35

Imagine being so deluded.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/21 11:06 PM
11

No. It means he has no empathy and I would not count with his support. So nope, not dating material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/21 04:09 PM
49

But it's a fact, I'm really comfortable 😍👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 06:38 PM
50

Please, tell me he is being roasted to hell and back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/21 08:29 AM
10

Sorry I got the answer lost in there. Treating me with spa sessions, weekend escapes with myself, a new workout plan, even sitting down to make my glow up list, I love it. I'm just starting to do it now again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:31 PM
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Up until the last one, for me every break up lead up to a glow up, without even thinking. Didn't matter whether they left or I left, I always found myself feeling lighter, happier, afterwards. The last one should have been the same, because he put me through love bombing, manipulation, gaslighting... And I didn't have a name for all of that. I went straight down to hell. Depression, anxiety, ptsd. 2 years later, I start to see the light and to see it for what it is. What saved me is that at the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:23 PM
4

Can't compare, but the most disgusting sh*t was a good friend' ex, who I only met once while they were together, sliding into my dms like a worm. 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/21 08:04 PM
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Girl, no. As a human being who works and studies, I'm also taking care of living in a CLEAN place. So do all my girlfriends, some even take care of pets or are single mothers ON TOP OF ALL THAT. So no. No amount of hard work is an excuse to living in absolute filth. And my ladies also have their share of mental struggle. I would only do that for them, because we tend to take on SO MUCH, that sometimes it is inevitable to break and end up with anxiety or depression. If it came to that, I would ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/21 11:07 AM
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I can't
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/21 08:17 PM
6

BUT did you include the xbox?? 😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/21 07:43 AM
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Based on my experiences, I feel exactly the same. And, most importantly, I take all precautions but don't share shit with anyone outside my closest circle about those or my concerns. For many reasons. The first one, I don't want to have the "people are not so bad, you need to trust and be open" conversation with a pickme for the 1000th time or, even worse, give clues to a possible predator. (or waste valuable time of my life trying to make some scrote at the very top of the privilege chain under…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 11:58 PM
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I feel so disgusted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/10/21 06:50 PM
47

😂😂😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 03:00 PM
72

VISIONARY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/21 07:59 PM
14

This comment is a piece of art, and I'm here for it ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/21 02:38 PM
8

Absolute queen, yes!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/21 09:46 AM
233

I see this ending in an mlm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 08:15 AM
42

GROSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/21 11:20 PM
10

Dumppppp himmmmmmm, you have fpr sure friends and famiñy who really value you. DUMP. HIS. SORRY. ASS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/21 12:28 PM
3

These disgusting dudes live in their porn fantasies and actually believe it's any woman's dream. Ugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/21 06:09 PM
45

All the loove and attention for him, I don't want them 🙏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/21 09:29 PM
16

That's the spell to summon couch creatures and other lesser goblins.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:46 PM
12

I'm sort of hoping it's a joke...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/21 08:42 PM
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My take is: Dump him, like yesterday. Not worth the mental gymnastics and the disregard. And very likely he has created a new account you don't have access to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/21 06:22 AM
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HODOR
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/21 08:05 PM
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Wtf did I just read I hope it's a joke
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:42 PM
5

Ewww this dude
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/07/21 03:35 PM
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I love all of these 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:44 PM
12

But in a relevant context. I think neither coworkers, teachers nor nosy acquaintances etc have any need to know. And it also pisses me off that men in the same room are not extended the same questionnaire.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:42 PM
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Wow, thank you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 12:45 PM
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Yep, indeed. Uncomfortable, context doesn't make it any better but it may shed some light on HOW do they feel it's ok to jump to that inappropriate question: Course related to my position, first day, introductions, we are 4 men, 2 women, the men state their marital status, no further questions asked, my female colleague went ahead and explained she is engaged and getting married in one month. I say I'm single, and the question automatically follows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 11:18 AM
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I mean, if it's a guy I'm vetting asking that question, he is done 🤷🏼‍♀️ whatever comes after is not very promising.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:59 AM
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Totally agree, but when it comes from teachers and coworkers... I still have to see them on a daily basis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:58 AM
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I'm so sorry, the only thing I could tell you is... You need to limit your contact with this guy to strictly your child/children. Through attorneys, needed be. And stop listening to wHaT He WaNtS, I feel really sorry you have been through all that abuse, and your health and what you envisioned for your future are at risk, so listen only to what you want to do, you will have to make the decision yourself. Lots of love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/07/21 10:57 AM
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This needs to be upvoted to the heavenssss
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:09 PM
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Congratulations, queen ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/21 10:08 PM
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I hope he is being roasted to a crisp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:33 PM
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SEVENTEEN YEARS OLD
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 09:16 PM
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I tried ok cupid and they tell on themselves answering the screening questions. Such as "Mansplaining is nothing".... Yeah, perhaps becayse YOU are not on the receiving end, probably in the giving end. Not to mention the sex and kink and drugs related questions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:00 AM
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I felt mostly anxiety in the red flag woods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:33 AM
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I lasted 2 days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 08:18 AM
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It's too late to start a mission, she already gave birth to this scrote's child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:15 PM
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🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤢🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 11:29 AM
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Disgusting
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/21 05:39 PM
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Nope. I'd rather die alone and be eaten by my cats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/21 08:43 PM
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Why is she so concerned with him not feeling attacked????
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/21 09:15 PM
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I hate the word communicate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/03/21 03:57 AM
35

The level of audacity hurt my eyes and now I need to renew my glasses' prescription
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/03/21 09:00 AM
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For the sake of my peace and mental health, I mostly check this sub and few others related to hobbies and interests. I try my best to avoid my peace being disturbed by scrotism because I'm very sensitive and reading awful sh*t takes a toll on me and my flawless skin needs to remain that way. I feel you. It's awful pput of here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/03/21 10:32 PM
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NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 01:07 PM
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We pay dearly for "little mistakes" such as overlooking or justifying red flags. I feel like I MUST be alert at all times around men, all men, not just the ones I'd be in a relationship with, because for men, it is enough that they want you, don't give a shit about reciprocity. It's so unfair and draining and scary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/21 10:56 AM
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This is a horror movie, nightmare material, all in one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:39 PM
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That exists 🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 08:10 AM
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My anxiety is triggered. This is why I don't do OLD and all my social media is closed to the universe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:02 PM
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I'm sorry you went through all that sht but I'm also very glad to see you know what you want and won't take sht. And I'm here for it!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 07:06 PM
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This is so important. Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 11:22 AM
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It worked for me, in my early 20s. After sunday night's argument I told her I'm taking time off her because I need to meditate. It also took me by surprise how much it affected me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:54 PM
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The job for sure was not what triggered this because she has been there before, in part due to a series of poor decisions on her side, but in the middle of all this she found herself struggling to get another job and several people, not just me, were already helping her because she couldn't make ends meet. Work and finances related, I already suspected she was a mess, even though she is very highly valued by her employers, but it's always retail jobs, where they can easily dispose or replace her…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:24 PM
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My other friend and I have talked about exactly this since we started noticing this reckless behavior and we suspect there is something deeper. And you are right, we don't even know how to help because for her... Everything she has been doing is perfectly ok. So helping it's beyond us and I feel burned out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 07:55 PM
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It's a no. Those men are not your friends, and it has two possible endings: Him lashing out or turning on you as time passes by and his "niceness" is not awarded with sex or him kicking you to the curb once he loses interest/finally assumes sex is not going to happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 09:59 PM
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I swept left on the actual image. Gross.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 10:02 PM
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Reading this has given me so much hope ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:57 PM
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I'm done with basic hygiene arguments with grown ass men. If I ever felt the need to do so, I'd already be out the door. NO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:31 AM
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And yes, be careful with that. If you have your own place in Spain I would not advise advertising it to men you start dating. You may end up with a low value squatter. Give them some vague explanation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 10:04 PM
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I would expect him to not allow me to even make the gesture to draw my wallet. They do that for their buddies, I'm not settling for less. My last boyfriend was as low value as they come but even he would be livid if I tried to pay. Even once he picked up an order I placed in a store for me, that had to be paid upon pick up and he would not let me give him the money back. That's the attitude I want to see, even though I am perfectly able to support myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 09:57 PM
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On the other hand, I have experienced Spanish men who can roughly guess my income because we work in the same field have openly asked me to pay the dinner bill in a date. To which I flatly refuse. I have to admit my experience is that men from other countries in Europe are indeed more inclined to take care of everything money related in dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 09:51 PM
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You pay your 50 and block them, no explanation, no more dates, no more nothing, NEXT. The good thing about ruthlessly vetting is that you make yourself unavailable for most unworthy men, so you find yourself less and less in that situation. I once told one of these guys I didn't know we were meeting as friends, after the bill was lying there for an awkward while and he ended up asking me to pay 50/50. Then proceeded to pay while he mumbled about equality (men and their fragile egos). I find the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 09:45 PM
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Spanish here, not paying for shit involving any man. I have my life together, interesting career, lots of hobbies and interests, I'm hot as f*ck, AND I'VE SEEN THE LIGHT, so whatever man wants to have a chance to be a part of my already wonderful life, better come correct and bearing offerings. Otherwise puede irse a cagar. Besitos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:11 PM
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I'd very much rather draw the whole deck, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 06:41 PM
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That's no concern of mine, since they are all blocked 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:41 PM
45

Please somebody tell her to NOT SETTLE and DUMP HIS CHEAP LAZY ASS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:35 PM
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Lovebomber alarms blaring, get to the bunkers!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:29 PM
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It is VERY SAD that my parents know I'm at risk because I'm a woman and feel the need to tell me that, if it comes to aggression, to try defend myself in any way possible because "you can get out of jail, no one gets out of the cemetery".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 04:17 PM
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I'm not saying wow to what I just read. So... Nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 03:03 PM
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I wish this was sarcasm so much ☹️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 10:29 AM
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He can try and touch me, and will get a mouthful of eau de pepper spray. It's an automatic response, he will be warm enough in seconds.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 07:53 AM
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I'm at a point in my life where I wouldn't touch a man with a stick, and all this keeps adding up to it, although, very luckily, I never ran into something so very obvious irl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 10:04 AM
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It's apparently common. I still haven't overcome the shock of seeing posted here 3 times the story of the guy with sh*t in his asscrack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 09:40 AM
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Yeah, because just being thousands of women fed up with men's bullshit sounds pretty unlikely, right?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 11:36 PM
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Yeah... I found a lesson there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:19 AM
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I totally agree with both of you, but I lent her a lot of money (pandemic hit her hard, but she found no lessons there, either) and I'm afraid I won't see it back of she doesn't take those words well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/21 08:04 AM
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"Where are you going to find your you fulfillment, where are you going to find your happiness?" I'm SO TEMPTED to send this to my pick me friend, who CANNOT and WILL NOT live without compulsively swiping right on scrotes with "FUCKBOY" tattooed on their foreheads IN THE MIDDLE OF A MF PANDEMIC, repeating the same pick me use-me-as-a-rug patterns to exhaustion, then crying to me she is tired of being the one night stand. I dont feel like a life coach, I feel like a f*cking fortune-teller, every t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:51 PM
11

I want to scream. I'm really sorry you are going through all this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/21 09:31 PM
90

What a catch, ladies, line up to take him off his mom's hands, HE IS READY TO START A FAMILY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 11:16 PM
2

Yayyyyyy!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:50 PM
60

I don't know who taught them, but I took good note of it and since I heard it for the first time, it's become my favorite and default reply to mad scrotes👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/02/21 07:47 PM
16

Also, he is short.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 08:20 PM
15

Whatever their reaction, what follows is (leaving), block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 10:09 AM
31

These dudes very swiftly refrain from insisting on anal when you tell them you'll agree once they allow you to ram them with a strap on for 30 min.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 09:04 AM
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Also, for all his issues, the gym and "girls throwing himself at him" (to me it sounds like what happened in his mind may not be the same that actually happened, but, who knows?) are prefect substitutes of therapy... Yay!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 08:33 AM
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Fake concern for my wellbeing. To then proceed to ignore me for weeks, trash my wellbeing and try to gaslight and manipulate me into feeling guilty for bringing up the effects of him being shitty. Emphasis on "try" because that's what ultimately set off the alarms. I should have realized earlier, because even in the "honeymoon" phase I was triggered. Everything was apparently ok but I was not, my body was telling me, I didn't listen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 01:36 AM
23

THIS
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:31 PM
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Mind you, he is neither affected NOR bitter, he needs closure 🤣🤣🤣🤣 P. S. Your levels of engagement are BoRInG. Nah queen, outstanding performance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 08:18 PM
50

Omg the headache. You can put the reality in their face, they'd still refuse to see it. Don't preach to the deaf, you time is gold.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:15 PM
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Maybe they though he had an imaginary girlfriend... Guess we'll never know now
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 04:10 PM
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whoaskedyou2021
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 09:16 AM
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I bloked him first thing because I knew the "why" would be nagging at me... And sadly, I know all the possible answers, excuses and bullshit in general... So no. Preserving myself first and foremost. When I have not listened to reason because AlL FoR LoVE, it has always been one sided, and it has always been me suffering, my mental health and self esteem trashed, and the human worms who caused it... Fresh as a cucumber. Even one of them turned around the fact that I spent MONTHS not sleeping, cr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:24 AM
50

I'm dying with the comments, ladies, you are AWESOME
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:07 AM
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Thak you, believe me, it was hard to keep it together. Like HARD. But I felt so attacked all I could think of was keeping my dignity at all cost. I learned the hard way that men have no empathy and if you break down in front of them, they will turn it around and use it against you. I would have said he was a HVM, but then this gigantic red flag showed up and slapped me in the face. No point in sticking to find more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 07:02 AM
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The moment I heard him say "friend" my heart started racing. It was so fast, and I was trying with all my strenght for my voice not to crack, to keep it calm and collwcted, to not stumble while walking away in high heels to give NOTHING. Once I got in the taxi, I was just pissed. Not sad. Mind you, I have been SO PLAYED before, I'm not tolerating shit, and I for sure did not want everything, shitty apologies / explanation / promises o even gaslighting that would come next. He showed me, ON THE W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 06:51 AM
38

TL,DR: Horrid. Run.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/21 12:16 PM
5

Yesss!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 09:37 PM
7

Chidera Eggerue's "What a Time to be Alone" and "How to Get Over a Boy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:55 PM
10

Chidera Eggerue's "What a Time to be Alone" and "How to Get Over a Boy".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:54 PM
7

Words of wisdom: DUMP. HIM. Like, yesterday. This poor woman deserves so much better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:52 PM
19

I really needed this, thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/21 03:04 AM
82

Downvoted to the 9th circle of hell, right next to the bar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/21 11:01 PM
48

Also he can put 2 and 2 together, find the same information you found and go after that lady who inavertedly warned you. It is safer to assess, make sure you are out of reach and block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:14 AM
55

And he makes it crystal clear he is not truly interested in being your friend, either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:03 PM
78

You don't need to be friends with that scrote. You need to bock and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/21 02:01 PM
50

Watching myself begging for THE BARE MINIMUM. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 05:52 PM
67

I was thinking corporate spy 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/21 08:22 AM
15

That's it. I'm signing up on tiktok, too many queens to follow.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:12 PM
314

OTHERWISE WE COULD GO FOR A WALK. GIRL.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 11:45 AM
11

"You can cook for your roommates". Or even better, dump him because he also considers not a problem to show up in your place empty handed expecting that you feed him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 08:50 AM
29

Neckbeard day parade
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 08:04 AM
34

After reading about that dumpster fire, I suspect the "good things nobody else sees because they happen in private" are that sometimes he says "good morning".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:18 PM
175

What's with dudes telling women what to do? Don't they have anything else to do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 05:05 PM
37

And the mirror is filthy
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/21 08:00 AM
9

He told me he loved me. He asked me to be his girlfriend. He was married. And willing to stay married.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 11:21 PM
9

Lose the dead weight this subnormal is. Not able to find a more accurate word to define him in English.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 12:18 AM
-1

Too bad she did not marry the father in law
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/12/20 02:19 PM
61

First line already translates to dumpster fire
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 09:08 PM
13

Good luck with life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:23 AM
5

GeE, It wAs JuSt a JoKE
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 06:22 AM
6

Is this guy for real?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 12:17 PM
7

There's nothing to argue about with a GROWN ASS MAN. He either aims better or starts cleaning after himself. No 3rd option.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/12/20 02:48 PM
14

"or something". Wow. He actually knows he is shit but is still looking for a free pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 11:10 PM
2

NoT aLl PaJAmAs!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:02 AM
3

Yeah... If you are calling that a boyfriend, you're doing it wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 10:00 AM
19

... "Without hurting his feelings"... Aren't these boys the most delicate flowers?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 09:50 AM
6

Cringeropia
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/20 06:53 AM
22

Didn't block and delete because he blocked me immediately after calling him out... His feefees 💔🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/20 07:16 AM
4

This guy is trash and so is his friend, once again your SO's friends also tell A LOT about who he is. Nah, he needs to dump him and enjoy her winning in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 09:21 AM
18

This poor woman 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:40 PM
14

PSA your approval was neither required nor needed. Please, leave and take it with you, k bye.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:16 PM
5

"My relationship ended 💔🗡️ and it's winter 💔🗡️ but I'll be fine, thx 😭😭😭😭😭" Poor little misunderstood fella, you should be elated to be his plan B 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:05 PM
54

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:04 PM
9

In spite of all the words he's managed to write, I can only read "I'm a sour scrote with a life SO SAD that I will go out of my way just to neg you oout of the blue to see if I can get a second of your attention. Also, I have a teeny wiener."
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 09:02 PM
36

I have a severe allergy to cats and would never hate them... I just wonder what the f*ck did I ever do to deserve such punishment. I'd have at least 7 by now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/20 10:10 AM
16

This reply needs more upvotes
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:24 PM
15

WOW. Reading our comment I just realized why thinking about being on OLD feels grueling to me. I used to feel I was obliged to start and maintain the conversations, when many if not most of the guys were only interested in casual sex, and it felt so draining I haven't touched an old app in over 6 years. This is why I love FDS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:20 PM
4

The INSINCIRE compliments part really got to me. That's how an emotionally abusive lovebomber hooked me up, plus the "soulmate" bullshit and other red flags I was not able to spot because not even in my wildest dreams would have I ever imagined that kind of thing (lovebombing and everything that comes with it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:12 PM
47

Aaaand totally agree. The forehead thing 😂😂😂😂 perhaps it looks big because it actually hosts BRAINS??? Something unknown to him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:08 PM
42

Where is the AudacityScale app? This one whould break it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 08:06 PM
41

This person works with elderly people??? I'm horrified
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/20 03:54 PM
3

Run!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 10:43 PM
57

Their ability to provide unrequested input will never cease to amaze me. Perhaps they feel it counts or something?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:37 PM
7

I hope they are roasting him to a crisp
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:17 PM
74

... Who asked him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 09:12 PM
10

🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 07:05 AM
6

No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 09:42 AM
84

Imagine being attached to this for life because you have a child in common. This is nightmare material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 06:58 AM
12

They are madddd with women because we won't fuck them, but make these guides... The delusion is real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 12:22 AM
5

I know a lot of guys who don't speak a word of english but know all that slang from porn. Which says a lot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 02:06 PM
1

Vaggingin 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:57 PM
3

Surprised he went to highschool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:55 PM
3

OnE oF tHe NiCeST GUyS YoU WiLl EvER TalK tO
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/20 01:54 PM
7

He sounds like a treat 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:16 PM
32

Not to mention the IGNORANCE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/20 07:15 PM
32

Hello there! 35 here
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 06:40 AM
5

Thank you for your recommendation
/r/askFDS17/11/20 07:27 AM
1

Thanks to you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 01:36 AM
29

How disgusting, I wish I could unsee it 🤢🤢🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 01:49 PM
49

Poor chickens 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/20 09:03 PM
1

My best friend and me are in the same situation. We have both been single dealing with situationships for a looong time. The last one left me seriously damaged because I fell in the crutches of a type of abuser I had never heard of or expected, a love bomber. Thankfully, in the middle of all that, I found FDS, and while the ruthlessly vetting, the block and delete and many other things sounded too harsh for me at first, as time goes by and keep seeing the same shitty low value patterns from men,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/20 08:16 AM
12

There's no CoMmuNiCaTioN that will fix the fact that he physically attacked her. She should be runing, fast.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 07:00 AM
27

But... Who asked his opinion? Also, the audacity, as if Taylor Swift or any other woman would look in his direction.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/20 06:55 AM
55

Run for the hills
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/20 09:06 PM
6

I really hope this prick is being ruthlessly roasted
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/20 07:25 PM
9

This resonates with me. 12 years in the military and I fucking refuse to leave to make their lives more comfortable. In the beginning I would be too scared to report in case it would affect my career. But when I saw other women struggling, I found my voice. And no, I'm not fucking leaving until I'm done. It is no longer a male only space and times are changing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 09:57 AM
2

Giiiiiirl, you lost A CATCH 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/20 09:10 PM
6

Sounds like a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/20 10:18 PM
8

be tHaNkFuLlllll 😒😒😒
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 06:32 AM
4

I don't even know where to start. And I have questions. What is this "colourist" thing he keeps repeating? Is this a thing? It sounds aggressively disrespectful, the whole thing. Trashiest Prick Award nominee 2020. Edit: Please, excuse my ignorance, I just googled the term. The deadly combo OF WHAT he says and HOW he says it triggers me. I'm disgusted. Edit 2: There is gold in this post's comments
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:35 PM
12

I have always known I don't want children. But if I ever decided to have children, I'd have them on my own. I see wayyy too many AMAZING women around me suffering because their babies' daddies are interested in ANYTHING but raising children, or behave like children themselves, or fail to pay child support AND weaponize anything to do with their children to make the mothers' lifes as difficult as possible as some sort of payback... So nah, hard pass.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:24 PM
1

It looks like Google translator, but dreadful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/20 10:11 PM
10

"and a huge sense of entitlement to overcompensate"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:12 AM
13

That's scrote to "I have no manners"
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 10:11 AM
6

Thank you, I did and do document every interaction of this kind. In the past I found HR would brush it off but recently there were changes and now there is zero tolerance to this kind of behavior. Caught some by surprise. In time I also found that making them feel uncomfortable usually makes them refrain from such behavior, but I agree it is absolutely inappropriate and I see it as something extra I had to endure and waste energy on, when I simply should not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 08:48 PM
35

For instance, a few weeks ago, my boss appointed me to a task that absolutely nobody wants to do, for obvious reasons of longer working hours, including nights, weekends and no benefit at all. I suspected a pattern because, out of other 40 people, all of them men, he and his superiors were adamantly intent it should be me, the only woman, doing that. When they informed me, the reason was because "my predecessors did it". By "my predecessors" they meant the two ladies before me. The issue is, I'm…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 03:31 PM
63

You know... I took a page from that book. After 12 years working in a male dominated field, I learnt how to turn their shitty sexism against them and then, when they act up all butthurt and offended, I give them the most heartfelt "owwww I'm SO SORRY you feel that way". They walk on eggshells around me, no idea why, I'm all kindness and smiles 😊
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 01:06 PM
9

I saw the post, and I was pissed. You deserve so much more, and your dad is awesome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/10/20 10:07 PM
3

Somebody tell her to dump this deadweight. Can't get over how rude this prick is and the whole thing, just nah.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:15 PM
25

Next level audacity
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:07 PM
13

I don't want to live in this planet 😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/10/20 09:01 PM
160

Who asked him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 08:34 PM
4

That edit is GLORIOUS.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:49 PM
135

And his response to being called out for being a dick is... To be a dick x2 "MuH Wife's BeINg EmOTiONaL" He can go suck a dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 02:21 PM
8

Thank you, gorgeous ladies, this community is so amazing, so empowering ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 05:05 PM
7

Let's hope he is no professor
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:16 PM
21

What a treat, no wonder he is soooo busy 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:15 PM
42

And tired. That's why I feel the need to remove attention from men. Sure, it feels lonely, but better lonely and invested in loving myself than lonely, heartbroken, lied to and dragged through the mud.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:47 PM
36

I feel the same. Hopeless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 05:44 PM
8

The fact that he needs to ask.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/09/20 12:43 PM
19

It's obvious she really needs to lose the weight of that scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 05:48 AM
7

Sounds exactly like that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:06 PM
115

O. M. G this is NIGHTMARE MATERIAL!!! HE WANTS TO FORCE THIS PREGNANCY ON HIS WIFE, after being assaulted he actually wants his SO to carry on with the pregnancy. I CAN'T EVEN, I don't know where to start. She should be the one dumping him. Willing to force trauma over trauma he can go f*ck himself with a screwdriver. Nightmare material, LITERALLY. The lack of empathy, sensitivity, compassion.... Through the roof. This man is NVM. This is giving me chills.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 03:56 PM
29

Wow. The first paragraph sums up all my past relationships. What's the book's name?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:12 PM
1

Thank you, I was also wondering 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:22 PM
8

Girl, why? The red flag forest 😭😭😭😭
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:21 PM
7

The point being "ON THE GROUND".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:02 PM
68

I hate the word "vibing". He can go vibe with his hand.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 05:32 AM
61

HIS FEELINGS. Send HELP, nobody is taking HIS FEELINGS into account!!! 😂😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 08:50 AM
2

They need to start bottling and selling that kind of self esteem, wow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/09/20 07:59 PM
284

He considers himself an 8 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:02 AM
18

And his bulletproof self esteem / AUDACITY
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:14 AM
42

This unbaked loaf with yellow fever 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:13 AM
4

I had a mini panic attack
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 07:18 AM
6

And all of them very likely ugly old f*cks. The pedophile part is obvious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 08:45 PM
41

What a treat. Don't even know where to start. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 08:20 AM
2

Organically bullshit. NEXT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:33 PM
14

The comments are horrific.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 04:45 PM
14

THE AUDACITY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 11:38 AM
5

So that's how a butthurt misogynistic prick sounds. (Edit: typo)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:15 PM
35

You don't have to. And if your SO makes you feel bad about it, dump him. You owe sex to NO ONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 10:07 PM
43

Surprisingly enough, many of these pieces of meat with eyeballs came out of the crotches of enabling parents who would laugh about their "creativity" and brush it off. Disappointing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:04 PM
36

Pepper spray must be his signature cologne
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 01:02 PM
4

Nay, would rather play UNO.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 08:02 AM
8

She is making excuses for him, I can't 😭😭😭😭 sis, run!!! So upsetting I can't even type
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 05:21 AM
10

Who is this idiot & I strongly hope he does not reproduce
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 10:33 PM
2

Thank you very much, I went to her IG and it feels SO relatable, it really helps
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 09:36 PM
12

What I find more challenging is the fact I left with no explanation, like I have no closure... But for sure, having a conversation with him would not bring me closure anyway because before getting to this point, I vocalised very clearly, many, MANY times what wasn't working for me and how was I feeling (miserable) and he either did not get it or would say something on the lines of "I'm sorry you feel this way, I wish I could give you everything". "Everything" was the bare minimum. That was all I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 08:00 PM
2

Thank you for sharing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:59 AM
2

I gagged reading the whole thing. Scary af.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 09:52 PM
1

The delusion is real
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/08/20 04:58 PM
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