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| 3 | A guide on how to stop giving a fuckStruggling with this concept a little - the situation is no longer reality, but it still happened. So what are you saying then the pain is temporary? | /r/seduction | 26/09/19 01:42 AM |
| 3 | 10 Common Newbie Daygame Mistakes To Avoid At All CostsI'm upping the ante on the sexual tension, getting to know her...the real her. What her fears are, what drives her, what makes her happy. I'm asking her questions she's never been asked before. I'm giving her a range of emotions... Could you talk about this more? What sort of questions are you asking her and how is it you are provoking all these emotions in her? | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 02:52 AM |
| 1 | My barrier to approach is being warmed upLOL. This is amazing dude. Robert Horry, love it, won't forget it. | /r/seduction | 12/09/19 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Smooth way to end social interactions (dates, conversations, etc.)This is very helpful, thank you. | /r/seduction | 21/08/19 09:52 PM |
| 6 | The TRUTH About RejectionNicely done | /r/seduction | 12/08/19 11:37 PM |
| 2 | How do I become less normal and serious ond my dates and daygame?This vibe and general coolness on dates...was this honed through experience or a mindset shift or some combination of the two? On a date last week with someone I found attractive I found it challenging to simply stay present - I was thinking about like what’s the next venue I want to take her to, what’s the next topic of conversation, is she into me, etc. I think you are alluding to this idea of simply giving the girl space and letting things unfold, but I have a hard time doing this, I think du… | /r/seduction | 25/07/19 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Just a friendly reminder: You have to believe in yourself.It won’t, but it might help a little bit. | /r/seduction | 03/03/19 05:07 AM |
| 0 | Just a friendly reminder: You have to believe in yourself.Just do it. | /r/seduction | 03/03/19 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Just a friendly reminder: You have to believe in yourself.I agree with you, however I am talking about belief and not confidence. I too, missed the subtle difference, hence the post. See, confidence stems from past success. However when you don’t have that past success to give you confidence, believing in yourself can be extremely powerful. And belief in oneself is an active, intentional thing whereas confidence is more a result of prior action. Anyways belief and confidence are just words. What I’m saying is for those sets you have AA or have a little… | /r/seduction | 02/03/19 11:16 PM |
| 1 | How to look beyond someone's appearance and into who they really are?Yes cold approach. | /r/seduction | 31/12/18 11:00 PM |
| 2 | never-ending painI think you need to evaluate the reasonableness of your expectations. I would guess most guys and girls around your age also don't have anyone this holiday season. Is your expectation to have someone right now reasonable? Or do you just feel entitled to someone, given past experience, your looks, etc. Doesn't feel good to lower one's expectations I know, but if you are feeling sad over unreasonable expectations that's not very smart. Happiness = expectations - reality. If your expectations are u… | /r/seduction | 20/11/18 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Please help guys. I don't know what's wrong with me.Like any other change you want to implement in your life...bigger muscles, more knowledge, meditation, etc., start small, as small as you need. Ask a stranger for directions. Then upgrade to giving a stranger a compliment. Then ask a girl for directions. Then give her a compliment. Then, one day, maybe in a year or two, another beautiful dark haired girl will suddenly appear, and this time you’ll be able to at least say hi. I started off in your position, we all do, but through incremental pract… | /r/seduction | 08/11/18 12:46 PM |
| 6 | Feminism Isn’t Christian, It’s SinThis is not a complete picture of the subject matter. Below is the entirety of the Ephesians passage the author alludes to: 21 Submit yourselves to one another because of your reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit yourselves to your husbands as to the Lord. 23 For a husband has authority over his wife just as Christ has authority over the church; and Christ is himself the Savior of the church, his body. 24 And so wives must submit themselves completely to their husbands just as the church sub… | /r/becomeaman | 30/10/18 04:04 PM |
| 1 | Staying "In Frame" - How to overcome AA and always be in an Approach MindsetAny characters from either books, shows or movies you emulate your banter on? Like that line about splitting social security lol - where do you hear about these? | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 01:55 PM |
| 4 | Staying "In Frame" - How to overcome AA and always be in an Approach MindsetThis is good. I was actually thinking about this today - how I’m more reserved at work and then someone else outside. I should just always be “on”. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Recently got into PUA. Having moderate success, but hooked by how empowered I finally feel. Besides approaching everyday what's the best way to improve?sounds good | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Recently got into PUA. Having moderate success, but hooked by how empowered I finally feel. Besides approaching everyday what's the best way to improve?Hey thanks for this, this reply is better than most posts on seddit. But I have a couple follow-up questions... How do you build real emotional connection? I know what it feels like and connecting is one of my aims when approaching, but as to how it’s actually built is a bit of a mystery to me. I’m normally focused on having a playful vibe in the interaction, being confident and grounded, adaptable. The last thing on my mind is mutual love and respect, but I know it’s important. I imagine I shou… | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 05:57 PM |
| 1 | The loneliness is getting to me.Hey - it sucks, but it's a part of life, everyone has felt alone and rejected at some point in their lives. Just be with it, be with the feeling, if you feel sad feel sad. Meditate on it and let it be. | /r/seduction | 11/09/18 07:47 PM |
| 1 | You can be with/meet beautiful women today! Practicing is not a boss mindset.Yes, to add: whether it’s getting that girl, that job, that body...our fear isn’t not achieving our goals, it’s coming face to face with the possibility that we can achieve our goals as we improve. We can get that hottie, that job, that future me. We need not be humble about our potential, as long as we are willing to work towards it. Go get it, don’t be afraid. | /r/seduction | 03/06/18 03:36 PM |
| 51 | You can be with/meet beautiful women today! Practicing is not a boss mindset.Not everyone will resonate with this but this is a good reminder, I think especially for those getting past the beginner level. Two things I’ve noticed about my “practice” mindset: because I’m practicing, and getting “better”, it creates this implication that I’m not already strong enough. That I have to be funnier, more confident, more witty, etc to actually be with a girl. While I can certainly be better, that doesn’t imply I’m not already pretty good just being myself. This transition in mind… | /r/seduction | 02/06/18 03:02 PM |
| 11 | I want to have meaning in lifemicdrop | /r/seduction | 13/11/17 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else have difficulty with kino due to sweaty palms?Lol. It mostly just happens on it's own. I try to regulate it by keeping my body cool, but sometimes the glands just go off regardless. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 04:01 AM |
| 1 | What was the turning point in your game? (Or points)Can you elaborate on evolutionary psychology, what are some of the things you learned? | /r/seduction | 22/09/17 02:45 AM |
| 2 | How many approaches per day/week do you do?Very helpful, will check out the guide, thanks. | /r/seduction | 11/09/17 02:10 AM |
| 1 | How many approaches per day/week do you do?Point taken. Anything you do in particular to forge strong bonds / go in depth? | /r/seduction | 10/09/17 05:02 PM |
| 1 | When a girl is the only vs youngest vs middle vs oldest childI can see that about only children. What do you mean with middle children? | /r/seduction | 27/07/17 07:22 PM |
| 2 | Getting massive AA doing street game on streets of NYC during rush-hour after workyeah you're right. | /r/seduction | 16/02/17 06:10 AM |
| 3 | Unveil your inner alphaCan you expound upon the difference between allowing yourself to have something vs desiring it? | /r/TheRedPill | 30/04/16 07:20 PM |
| 1 | I start out extremely confident and plummet in time and space.Got it. Makes perfect sense just have to put it into practice. Thanks for the clarification. | /r/seduction | 31/03/16 05:21 PM |
| 1 | I start out extremely confident and plummet in time and space.Can you talk about what you mean by focus on her as opposed to yourself? I'm not understanding the difference in a way that would lead to different behavior. | /r/seduction | 30/03/16 11:32 PM |
| 1 | What's your news source for conversation banter?Lol, nice. | /r/seduction | 30/03/16 06:18 PM |
| 1 | What's your news source for conversation banter?Is this a talent or a developed skill? | /r/seduction | 30/03/16 12:38 AM |
| 1 | 7 days left of my 30 day challengeMaybe try letting go of what others think of you, stop worrying about what they think | /r/seduction | 04/02/16 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Just starting out doing solo day game in the city...am I doing this right?Hey thanks for the post, glad to see you're improving. Will keep my eye out for a solid wing. | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 06:19 AM |
| 1 | Just starting out doing solo day game in the city...am I doing this right?Yes. Great point. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 19/01/16 06:18 AM |
| 2 | [8.20.15] Daily pick-up challenge!lol. yeah that was enticing. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 06:25 PM |
| 1 | [8.20.15] Daily pick-up challenge!Last time I made a post I got lazy/scared and copped out...had a bad taste in my mouth from the last time I went out solo. So this time I will just have to rely on straight discipline and just get out there. Going to the mall and focusing on the basics. Open, have good energy, don't be afraid to express interest. | /r/seduction | 20/08/15 05:19 PM |
| 2 | [8.18.15] Daily pick-up challenge!hah, nah bro i never skip leg day. squatssquatssquats | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 05:45 AM |
| 1 | [8.18.15] Daily pick-up challenge!thought of driving to and from mall dissuaded me dread of discomfort, fear, and stress of pick up unforeseen event came up that i used further as an excuse | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 05:44 AM |
| 1 | [8.18.15] Daily pick-up challenge!she'll probably text you back? | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 04:25 AM |
| 2 | [8.18.15] Daily pick-up challenge!and...i didn't go to the mall. fail. i got lazy. TOMORROW. | /r/seduction | 19/08/15 04:24 AM |
| 6 | [8.18.15] Daily pick-up challenge!Going to the mall and sticking with the basics: * maintain positive energy * just go with it, don't be afraid to express interest, rejection is the only way out of sets * let go of awkward or painful sets, for now success is process not results | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 07:30 PM |
| 1 | Cannot overcome Anxiety - no confidence at allSlow exposure helped me, take little steps, kind of like bicycle training wheels. Accomplish a small task, then keep building. To acquire confidence, acquire experiences! | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 07:21 PM |
| 1 | How to get in state - Am I depressed or should I just accept my personality?Yeah...this sounds like my life. Thanks. | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 05:41 PM |
| 1 | How to get in state - Am I depressed or should I just accept my personality?how did it demotivate you? | /r/seduction | 18/08/15 04:52 AM |
| 3 | [8.16.15] Pick-up Challenge!Went out solo and spent about 3 hours walking around in the mall, no number, just a lot of mediocre conversations. Felt aimless most of the time. I was never able to get into that groove of just feeling good and going with the flow, having fun. I was too much in my head. Either I would open, and have a very platonic and short conversation, never expressing my interest because I felt like the girl wasn't interested so I just let her walk away, or just not open at all despite there being no reason… | /r/seduction | 17/08/15 12:42 AM |
| 2 | [8.16.15] Pick-up Challenge!this could hold people more accountable, be a daily thing. this is more about taking small steps. i dunno, there was some interest so just trying it out, it could just end up being my own daily field report lol. | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 07:29 PM |
| 3 | [8.16.15] Pick-up Challenge!Going to the mall, get a number from a girl I'd like to take out. | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 05:24 PM |
| 6 | Seduce the world around you.Dude you just seduced me. How do you make yourself become more vulnerable? | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 04:25 AM |
| 3 | [8.15.15] Pick-up Challenge!this is much better than mine lol | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 04:20 AM |
| 1 | [8.15.15] Pick-up Challenge!Went to the mall and had memorable conversations with several different groups of girls. I bought a new shirt and asked girls whether it looked good/should I keep it. Didn't have conversations for too long, there were a lot of moms, a girl w/ bf. AA is better but I can't seem to subtly show I'm interested. Can't tease right. I always seem to start asking her questions as opposed to talking. Anyhow, I'm going to do another post tomorrow. At the very least, it's holding myself accountable lol. I'l… | /r/seduction | 16/08/15 04:18 AM |
| 6 | [8.15.15] Pick-up Challenge!Engaged a woman and asked about her iphone. She was visiting from Beijing so we spoke Mandarin. Her friend later came over and joined us. My mandarin isn't great but I just tried to maintain a good energy. We talked for around 5 minutes and then I asked one of them for their number. Turns out they were 10 years older than me (asian women age really well.) but they were flattered. I brightened up their day and they gave me some momentum for hopefully bigger things later. | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 09:37 PM |
| 3 | [8.15.15] Pick-up Challenge!I will strike up a conversation with 5 strangers through an indirect opener and try to engage them for 5 minutes. At the end of those 5 minutes, they should have a good idea of who I am and I them. | /r/seduction | 15/08/15 08:32 PM |
| 1 | Not approaching againYou must learn to accept the things you cannot control. If you’re a 6, so be it, accept it and move on, not a big deal. What can you control? Pushing yourself to action. Improving your game and ability to connect with others. Increasing your inner-confidence. Let go of your looks and what you are, so that you might become who you want. | /r/seduction | 26/08/14 11:21 PM |
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