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Rant/Ventingnicholasbuchanan/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 05:09 AM
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Field Reportnicholasbuchanan/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 04:41 AM
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Removed: Specific Situation nicholasbuchanan/r/seduction26/03/21 02:38 AM
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nicholasbuchanan/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 12:33 AM
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Fundamentalsnicholasbuchanan/r/seduction11/05/22 07:30 PM
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nicholasbuchanan/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 07:41 PM
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Discussionnicholasbuchanan/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 01:39 AM
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nicholasbuchanan/r/askTRP28/03/21 03:00 AM
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Discussionnicholasbuchanan/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/22 02:37 AM
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nicholasbuchanan/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:01 PM
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Off Topicnicholasbuchanan/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 05:15 PM
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Field Reportnicholasbuchanan/r/TheRedPill15/12/21 09:11 PM
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Field Reportnicholasbuchanan/r/TheRedPill26/04/22 05:40 PM
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My original argument was that women were more valuable by default because men want them so badly. So just by existing they are automatically on a pedestal. If I want something from someone, then that person has power and influence over me. I was jealous because this meant that most women were more important / valuable than most men, and that felt unfair. They are more important because men are obsessed with them. I don't agree 100% with what I believed before, purely on the basis that women didn…
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 08:59 PM
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Were you trying to win an argument or help me? Just wondering.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 08:48 PM
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I guess nothing. It is ex-red pill after all though.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 08:44 PM
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Doesn't matter if it's true or not, I'm just happy I've come to a helpful realization.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 08:41 PM
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So the reason it's problematic is because I had the mindset of a horny 22 year old man. When most women would have different mindsets entirely, so the things I'm jealous for, they probably don't care about as it's probably not important to them.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 08:33 PM
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Just as a life-long rule really. Men want to be strong, make money, and sleep with women. Women want to be cared for, have a family, and meet their soulmate. Super big generalizations but IDK how else to answer.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 08:32 PM
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Yes, I realized I had the "perspective of a man" when imagining myself as a woman. I have to remember that the two sexes want different things generally. And yes I would say the same about casual hookups, but that's just one angle.
/r/ExRedPill28/05/22 08:27 PM
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I find that weird since I could care less if she has a hobby But i know this advice is truthful
/r/seduction03/12/21 10:43 PM
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Whatever behaviours you are doing right now, if you just stop, he's going to notice it and wonder what's happening (a good thing) Best of luck
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:31 AM
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I do it because it's a massive ego boost and requires low effort I know she fell for me because she is paying me way more attention to me than she will with others, and insists on making constant eye contact and touching me when I never do the same back Also I'm going to sound like an asshole now but oh well. If we're using the number scale, I only do this to women I consider 5 or 6. Anything higher and I can't keep the charade going.
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:29 AM
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IRL is much harder, can't really help there. I've been the guy in your situation and the girl in this situation just never stops, it's very fun. You're under our spell and we feel confident enough to treat you any way we like and we know you'll keep coming back This isn't helpful anymore, just the other side's perspective
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:24 AM
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Pretend he doesn't exist, I guarantee he won't forget about you even if it seems that way You'll know you're the one in control when he messages you asking you how you're doing 2 weeks later
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:21 AM
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I can't keep that dynamic up forever, how and when am I supposed to escalate things then? I have kept some girls on the hook for literally months, and I can get nudes or have sex but then it fizzles out and they grow distant
/r/seduction03/12/21 02:19 AM
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Just my experience i have never had to dm a woman, garner their attention and they will hit you up
/r/seduction03/12/21 01:39 AM
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They usually DM you tbh
/r/seduction03/12/21 01:32 AM
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Thanks Pm the file I'm interested
/r/TheRedPill17/06/21 07:47 PM
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Okay well as long as you realise that nobody cares and that you're going to be banned soon, then we're cool.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 11:22 PM
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Which goes against rule 2, there are different viewpoints here and you should share those view points if you participate here.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 10:58 PM
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You shouldn't be here, reported.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/21 10:43 PM
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I specifically said "Say stop if you want me to" when I made my first real escalation. Simple as that.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/21 02:14 AM
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The things I learn here man
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 08:00 AM
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Hmm okay, so far I've exclusively gone for 6s because they give me the most obvious fucking signals in the world and I haven't been rejected before so I feel like I'm gonna feel awful and depressed if I ask out an 8 or higher and they say no lol. I have much more work to do on myself I realize.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 05:16 AM
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So how is my approach of putting in very little effort and only taking it when it's free basically? Stupid or will it work long term? I don't like the sexual marketplace and how men are disposable so I don't like to particapate too much lol. (Still in the process of digesting the red pill of life).
/r/TheRedPill31/05/21 05:06 AM
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Not gonna lie that's another concern I have.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/21 09:07 PM
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Definitely a relieving feeling, as I could have definitely stayed one until 30 if I had not taken a chance.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/21 08:58 PM
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Kissing her gave me no feeling whatsoever, and my dick only started to work after I thought about some messed up shit (You could say I'm addicted to porn and I believe that was the primary cause). You always hear about that "spark," and there definitely was no spark here.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/21 09:24 AM
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I was a virgin not an incel.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/21 09:10 AM
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I'm not fat but hey I'm looking forward to Burning Crusade Classic . . . Yeah like I said in my post, I was consent crazy because I am not about to have my life ruined by someone I just met.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/21 12:21 AM
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I'm straight but can be a bit of an attention whore sometimes since I am very lonely IRL.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 08:54 PM
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Here's some extra facts I didn't include in the post, just for you: - I've tried to actively work on myself but it's extremely hard to maintain the new lifestyle, the only true change I've made is actually showing a girl who showed me blatant attention some back. Also being more social and friendly to random people on a daily basis. - I'm way better looking than this girl IMO. When I talk to girls that are like 9 or 10s, just like everyone else I unfortunately freeze up and can't be myself. Sinc…
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 08:45 PM
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She is coming to my place tonight. I still live with my parents but it's a separate building on a property. I would just like her to come for sex but she said she wants to come during the day and sleep over night, so that means I'm going to have to find something for us to do which scares me a little bit NGL since my hobbies are not very female friendly. Also my room is covered in video games, movie statues / figurines, LEGO, actor autographs etc. so it's nerd central but I'll just pretend it's …
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 08:37 PM
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I love that. Virginity is quite an outdated term for trying to keep women pure anyways, so I think it can mean anything nowadays especially with gay and Asexual people. Definitely wasn't smart tying my entire self worth to it for years.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 08:28 PM
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Yes, we are meeting at my place this time tonight. She snaps a little too much so another piece of advice I follow from this sub is only use texting for setting plans up.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 08:25 PM
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Shit test or not, for me personally I would have preferred her to ask. I have no problem handing over the reigns if it's agreed upon, otherwise I'm gonna resist and try to do things my way I feel. But listen to the experts I'm new to this and winging it :P
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 08:21 PM
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At many points in life it feels impossible, like you're not good enough. Just remember that statement I just made is bullshit, and I wish I could take back my highschool years of being angry and bitter. Once you stop caring so much and put yourself out there it's so effortless I swear.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 08:17 PM
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She's coming to my place this time tonight :) I really don't want to become a boyfriend by accident so my next thing I need to learn is how to prevent that from happening.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 08:14 PM
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Best of luck to you, yes just remember to take what you want, and don't put all your cards into one girl, if she says no, not the end of the world.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 08:12 PM
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Sometimes she would forcefully move my head and or hand to where she wanted it and we never talked about it explicitly, but we were both kind of animals wanting to be in charge so yeah. Have no idea if that's normal or not since this is my first time.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 06:05 AM
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Thanks for your kind advice, I have a driving test in a few months and I live in a small town where Tinder is basically non existent as well. I have to admit I enjoyed the battle, I just wasn't expecting it. For such a shy person she really came alive lol.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 05:45 AM
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As a TRP rookie I applied a bunch of stuff I learned here, and I can confirm it was all true. I know all rookies are supposed to read the sidebar but I didn't, I just sorted by highest rated posts ever on this sub and read them all.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 04:58 AM
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Thanks, it was quite hard to not want to be the nice guy that is happy with just watching a show and going home. But I wasn't going to let that happen and made it happen.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/21 04:50 AM
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Just a shaming tactic about beauty standards they don't like. Pedophilia is a sexual interest in prepubescent children aged 13 or younger specifically.
/r/MensRights04/05/21 08:36 PM
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Banned from r/offmychest for existing, I guess; never actually posted there.
/r/MensRights04/05/21 08:31 PM
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Alright well I'll try today then ;)
/r/seduction10/04/21 07:38 PM
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I guess so, I was just wondering if there any steps to take before that since it's my workplace and I have all the time in the world.
/r/seduction10/04/21 07:09 PM
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Hey I'm not rude but forget it, either I can't get my point across or you guys don't get it / can't relate
/r/askTRP28/03/21 06:40 PM
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Ah, got it, I thought this was the case but wanted some confirmation
/r/askTRP28/03/21 04:08 AM
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I think women like men with goals and ambition which you will or have succeeded in so probably yes
/r/askTRP28/03/21 03:53 AM
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From my point of view I'm not being an asshole, assertiveness and choosing how to be treated and talked to isn't a bad thing imo
/r/askTRP28/03/21 03:44 AM
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I like my job ​ I just want to know if red pillers can dominate their workplaces or if they fall in line for job security's sake. And then see if I can do the same.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 03:13 AM
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Their goal from my understanding is to find a relationship where the man is better than they are But because of the internet, they now realize how powerful and valuable they are, so their standards are sky high Just my personal belief
/r/askTRP28/03/21 03:06 AM
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Yes but they have their own goals, and I'm sure we would think their bizarre goals were valid if we were them ​ If you and I were women, we would love the power and not complain about it I bet.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 03:03 AM
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I told her I wanted something casual and she said she wanted a relationship, she's still interested in me so I don't know what to do anymore
/r/seduction26/03/21 06:53 AM
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That's stupid as fuck but whatever I guess that's how it is
/r/seduction26/03/21 05:20 AM
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Lol that's exactly what I'm doing and anticipate this will work I just think it's dumb shit like this matters
/r/seduction26/03/21 05:19 AM
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So women are cats and men are dogs?
/r/seduction26/03/21 04:16 AM
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But why
/r/seduction26/03/21 02:51 AM
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That plausible deniability stuff is the most bizarre aspect of women to me
/r/seduction26/03/21 02:40 AM
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It's really obvious usually, if she wants to interact with you she will, if she doesn't she won't
/r/seduction26/03/21 02:35 AM
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Your spelling is making it hard to read FYI
/r/seduction26/03/21 02:34 AM
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Okay shut up troll, have a terrible day
/r/TheRedPill22/03/21 04:34 AM
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Well I'm not since we still work together and enjoy each other's company now that we aren't considering a relationship anymore
/r/TheRedPill22/03/21 04:31 AM
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She told me she's a virgin so... I would be well equipped if that were to happen. I see what you're saying though
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 10:15 PM
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Yeah it's kinda bullshit, wish i could just be myself 100% of the time since they absolutley can
/r/TheRedPill21/03/21 12:25 AM
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Lol all fair points I took the time to read this and will remember it
/r/TheRedPill20/03/21 12:21 AM
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It doesn't make any sense I get angrier the more I try to understand it The wall pic shit also makes no sense, like I can't believe I'm saying this, but I'd rather be left on read than be sent a pic of a wall without text LOL
/r/TheRedPill18/03/21 03:23 AM
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Inspiring as fuck bro thanks
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 10:45 PM
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Hey it's why I don't want to... but I think I will, and I'm getting ready for the gym right now I've been lacking motivation recently
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 10:38 PM
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It is a bit yuck the more I acknowledge it
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 09:48 PM
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Solid take actually I was eventually just seeing how much shit I could get away with saying until she would stop being interested in me, so I eventually pulled out the virgin card and it still didn't work
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 08:30 PM
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I'm totally new here but I would guess 3 then 1 then 2
/r/seduction17/03/21 06:36 PM
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I made so many I'm cringing about the aftermath
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 06:35 PM
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I did have some idea of this concept, half of me wanted her to leave me alone, and the other half wanted to lose my virginity without any effort put forward Wow I sound like a dick lol
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 06:30 PM
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I blocked her on all platforms after telling her nothing at work would change and I would treat her like everyone else :)
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 05:51 PM
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Yeah, she is entirely legal here in Canada and I thought her exact age might rub some of you the wrong way, which is not the point of the post at all anyways. I googled what grooming meant and that's not what I did. I simply bluntly asked her if she wanted casual sex or not after her needing my attention and approval for a week. Edit: I'm 21 and she's 16 for anyone who really wants to know, and I specifically told her at the very first sign of flirting that she was probably too young, and that s…
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 05:38 PM
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I do have other reasons why I don't want to anymore which I haven't shared here It involves age, home renovations and the fact she's a coworker
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 06:56 AM
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I read all of that word for word and I'm feeling a little sick I don't want to be taken advantage of, so should I just go MGTOW or what? Do men feel real love? Do women? Is it fake for both? Don't women feel like shitty people for exploiting men for resources? I see it frequently with white men dating asian women actually now that I think of it
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 06:48 AM
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Yikes... very scary feeling. But I'll admit my confidence and life has improved since adopting the DGAF attitude (way before this post's event) It's just so bizarre to me that we as men don't really give a shit about women's personalities and quirks etc. but it can be a total dealbreaker the other way around
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 06:40 AM
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I hear you and will keep it in mind
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 06:22 AM
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I guess the point of the post is that I'm normally a blue pill pushover trying to treat everyone right... but she pushed me to the "dark side", which could be the red pill, and I loved the small taste of it
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 06:16 AM
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I will remember these and think of you when the times comes ant
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 06:14 AM
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I was bluffing, so I guess I don't know how to close this one out. I'll focus on reading up the knowledge here regardless of what happens But I feel kind of out, I saw her nude body, it wasn't epic. What was epic, was me feeling empowered for once!
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 06:12 AM
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I sounded like a dick not gonna lie But it worked... sorta? At least it got me interested in TRP again
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 06:08 AM
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Fake it till you make it And I won't be settling I have one specific goal thankyou :)
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 06:07 AM
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It came out of nowhere I was just fed up with her being sexually charged one day and then talking about her niece I've never met another day Sometimes she would just send multiple snaps of a wall without text as if to see if I would reply... I got angry
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 05:51 AM
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You know what that was so simple and makes perfrct sense, thanks. Fair enough if both sides play it different in the dating game Why do people think TRP is toxic? I've only seen positivity and uplifting comments and posts where in every other sub it's negativity and arguing Don't have to answer the 2nd question, just speaking out loud
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 05:37 AM
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I'll check out Saplosky it sounds interesting Idk I've never valued sex that much in my life and women have given me a lot of attention so far which helps with self esteem But I'm socially awkward as fuck which holds me back so much and is hard to grow out of My goal is basically to have sex once without paying for it and then not again until I find a real long term relationship (Idk what TRP teachings are or if I'm wack but I'll see the sidebar now)
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 05:34 AM
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Okay I will do that, I only got that idea because it's been a year since I last looked at this sub because my IRL friends said it's all bullshit But my real life experiences keep drawing me here, this provides sense to a confusing world I will try to learn but fear it will be difficult to change some of my old habits Thanks again :) I have a bit of a tough guy persona irl but I always turn it off when talking to fellow men like yourself
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 05:30 AM
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Thanks I kind of expected you guys to tell me to kill myself but you all are really cool and helpful it turns out
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 05:25 AM
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I FIND THAT TRUTH SO ANNOYING... I don't want to accept it
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 05:23 AM
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This feeling is way better than the sex would have been Like I feel like I own a human being now I love how she's responding to this Edit: To clarify I don't think I'll be pursuing her anymore, if she wants to make it happen then fine but overall I learned a lot from this and it will be useful for my next girl
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 05:23 AM
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This is so stupid dude, at first I felt kinda bad, but then this overwhelming feeling came about me that is hard to explain and made me proud of my masculinity and what I had just done
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 05:21 AM
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I'm a lurker and believe you, but how is it that half of the entire population is like this? It doesn't make sense to me, why are they so complicated. I would like to think men and women are the same but it just continues to not be true in my life
/r/TheRedPill17/03/21 04:59 AM
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I'm just a visitor seeing if TRP is for me, and power to you all... But if this is true, then I'd rather die alone I think lol
/r/TheRedPill02/03/21 12:21 AM
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Nobody: ​ This girl: I BUILT A HOUSE FOR THE HOMELESS
/r/PussyPassDenied16/01/21 07:32 AM
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But why? Lol
/r/seduction23/07/20 02:49 AM
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Welp, enjoy loneliness then you're clearly not motivated to better yourself
/r/askTRP17/06/18 12:41 AM
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Lower your standards or become more attractive, you are not attractive, women date up, not down. So currently you can only date fat girls until you better yourself which is certainly possible.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 12:17 AM
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Hit the gym and read the sidebar, your confidence is probably pathetic too.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 12:11 AM
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You sent 2 completely different replies and deleted one, and no not really since I don't text much now that I think of it. Edit: but it probably would bother me yes if someone did it constanly
/r/askTRP15/06/18 05:16 AM
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Being left on read is quite irritating, why not just ignore the text and swipe away the notification for 15 mins, why open it up and then wait?
/r/askTRP15/06/18 05:13 AM
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You have some serious issues my friend
/r/seduction30/05/18 07:56 PM
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No, no and no. Women ALWAYS find out the truth eventually ;D
/r/askTRP28/05/18 08:37 PM
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I'm 6'1", weigh 155lb and currently trying to bulk to 170ish.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 06:12 AM
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On their profile if all of the pictures are selfies and not a single one you can see their figure in it, she's probably a larger woman. Ask to exchange pucs if you want to be sure, you can joke around saying you don't wanna be catfished or whatever.
/r/seduction28/05/18 06:07 AM
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That would piss her off to no end but idk what to suggest
/r/askTRP23/05/18 04:14 AM
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I'm no expert, but it sounds like your openers were boring / obvious. Try to hook them or make them laugh with the first sentence you say, and if they look like they don't want you to leave them alone, success!
/r/seduction22/05/18 06:57 AM
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Are you only interested in her looks?
/r/seduction22/05/18 06:45 AM
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Lol are you serious right now? Females mate to secure resources, you have none
/r/seduction22/05/18 06:42 AM
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He's self-conscious and or depressed. Should've laughed it off and been like "Are you crazy of course I like you!" And then physical affection.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 07:16 PM
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24-48 hours
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:23 PM
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Why are you posting exactly? You're hoping to be whipped in to shape?
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 03:50 PM
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Princess Leia
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:18 PM
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You think sending "thanks for letting me know" or something js better than radio silence?
/r/askTRP16/05/18 12:20 AM
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But I have a feeling this could be great entertainment value
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:19 PM
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If she is persistent with more messages after I never respond for a few days should I just block her? Read them? Ignore?
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:16 PM
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This is kinda tough to do but I also think it's the best thing to do...
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:06 PM
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It's truly horrible, why do they want a new design so badly?
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 08:19 PM
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A breath of fresh air, love it.
/r/seduction14/05/18 07:21 AM
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This post kinda scares me, I'm doing so well right now and don't want some girl to ruin it
/r/seduction14/05/18 06:25 AM
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Ah then yeah go for it and wait for her to contact you first, do not like instagram photos or anything, may send her off the haywire
/r/askTRP14/05/18 06:22 AM
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Is this a matter of pride or making sure you don't lose this plate?
/r/askTRP14/05/18 05:53 AM
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You could make a movie out of this
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 05:36 AM
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Absolutley do not send that
/r/seduction14/05/18 04:57 AM
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This makes no sense at all
/r/askTRP13/05/18 02:53 AM
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Are you... "openly red pill" with these people? They scare easily from this sort of stuff.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:13 AM
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Date if you want to get things rolling and to make your intentions clear Hangout if you're not sure you want to date this person yet, ie: get to know them in a more chill setting this is my 18 year old guy's advice
/r/askTRP11/05/18 12:34 AM
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Why are they mad at you if it's a pointless reason?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:01 PM
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Lol this happened to me a few days ago, learned my lesson and it won't happen again :D
/r/seduction01/05/18 03:40 AM
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Revert back to the old reddit layout, there should be a button in the top left
/r/askTRP30/04/18 07:51 AM
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Wait 24-48 hours and text, Line 1: Hey it's that sales guy "name" you met! Line 2: What day are you free this weekend? She then tells you a day and you say cool, see you then. And then don't initiate texts at all until the date.
/r/seduction27/04/18 03:16 PM
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Is this a movie plot
/r/seduction26/04/18 06:36 PM
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Damn I really got into this story, you must post more!
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 06:19 PM
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