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Of course she said long term dating. A lot of women put that because every man in the world will message them if they put casual sex. They already get a ton of messages, there's no reason to increase that number (they're screening). You can always work on your social skills, body type, etc. but there's no reason not to be confident, as you, in this moment. The next time you put your hand on a woman, don't remove it immediately, as though you got scared of touching her. You put your hand there be…
/r/seduction19/08/14 04:09 AM
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I have a few things for you: 1) You're not confident about you. You spent the first part of the article describing (destroying) yourself as though it matters. It doesn't matter. You could be the most attractive man in the room and still not get laid. I have met these men, it's sad. 2) She threw herself at you and you didn't fuck her. That's it. She wasn't there for a boyfriend, she was there to fuck you. I know because a woman did the same thing to me. She drove 45 minutes to my place, then sudd…
/r/seduction18/08/14 09:46 AM
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When she finally wants me I don't care if she wants me. I want her. I go for her and I if she doesn't want me, then I go for the next one. I use it against her and I twist it to make me feel great. I don't need her to feel great. I just feel great. It sounds like your want to manipulate her into desiring you by ignoring her. I've been there and done that, its not confident and it relies on her wanting you. Everything you are saying right now is how women think about men. Read it as though what y…
/r/seduction17/08/14 07:08 AM
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It's not that I like doing it, such that it feels intrusive, but women have an odd perception about what men should do and how they feel valued. I want the same thing as you, but that's not what women want from you. They expect a charming man to take them by the hand and twist them into the evening. They want to know that you really want her, just the same way you feel about her wanting you. Unfortunately for us, we are expected to approach. The greater the risk, the greater the reward. I know w…
/r/seduction17/08/14 05:32 AM
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This reminds me of that time when I tried to kiss a woman, she rejected me, I tried again two more times, back to back, then I asked her to come outside with me. She kissed me harder than anybody ever. This has happened to me multiple times.
/r/seduction17/08/14 01:38 AM
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There's absolutely no reason to show interest to a woman. Maybe you're an attractive man that receives a lot of attention from women, but unfortunately, most woman who are attractive are being approached everyday by men. If you think ignoring them is going to get them, then you're probably already friends and you're playing some sexual strategy to get them, which is the losing mentality, that you need something from them.
/r/seduction17/08/14 01:01 AM
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Do not show interest, showing interest is exactly what all the fucking losers do. I show interest all the time and it works for me. You show interest, you go for it, and if she rejects you then who cares.
/r/seduction16/08/14 09:11 AM
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You just have to practice it. You practice it by doing it. The more you practice, the better you'll get at it. You're not going alone, you are going somewhere because you want to be there.
/r/seduction16/08/14 09:07 AM
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I know, it's like almost the ass.
/r/seduction14/07/14 09:57 PM
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I don't think being straight is relevant. If it was a woman, man, who cares... they made you feel good. I get hit on by gay men on the daily and it always feels good.
/r/seduction28/06/14 11:19 PM
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I expect somebody to take care of their body before beginning a relationship with me. I think there's a limit to how low or high your weight changes before it has serious side effects on your health. I don't expect anybody to be thin or thick, but if it seems like somebody isn't taking care of themselves, then I have no reason to want to form any relationship with them, emotionally or sexually.
/r/seduction28/06/14 03:13 AM
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It's not old. The women that are 35+ are far more mature, know what they want, and go for it. They don't play the same games and I appreciate them far more for it. Also, they fuck you so much better... no joke.
/r/seduction02/06/14 12:53 AM
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Meditate and find happiness in your own being. Be the source of your own light. Then share that with others. When it comes to women, just go for it. You get better with them with practice. That's it.
/r/seduction01/06/14 11:15 PM
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No problem!
/r/seduction03/05/14 01:54 AM
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I feel that you're attractive enough that you really don't have any excuses to not get laid.
/r/seduction30/04/14 12:20 AM
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This is an embarrassing question.
/r/seduction29/04/14 11:12 PM
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I'm just saying that the trend has been sex journals rather than clearly articulating how to effectively communicate our value such that women (or partners) will want to share that value with you.
/r/seduction28/04/14 07:49 PM
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Seriously. He's taller than me and I have no insecurity about this at all.
/r/seduction26/04/14 03:20 AM
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That's been my mentality. I'm the party and any woman would be lucky to be here with me at my party.
/r/seduction22/04/14 10:41 PM
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I'll tell you what I do. I listen to compliments given to me by women that interest me. I look at men who have my body type and a good sense of style. This is pretty much how women determine what they're going to wear and apply themselves. I would focus more on style rather than appearance, or even better, focus on how to create your own happiness within yourself and how to share it with others. The value of your appearance is far less changable than your style and personality.
/r/seduction22/04/14 09:12 PM
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There's nothing wrong with compliments. I compliment lots of people, men too. It's only using a compliment as a means to get something else, a reaction, that's not fulfilling for me. I don't have a strict guidline, but I usually don't compliment a girl that I want to sleep with until after I've kissed or slept with her. That said, if I think she looks particularly good because of something specific, then I'll tell her right there.
/r/seduction22/04/14 09:04 PM
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Are valuable? Yes. How do you communicate it? That's up to you.
/r/seduction04/04/14 05:04 AM
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I hate all forms of online dating and it's definitely a waste of time.
/r/seduction19/03/14 05:10 PM
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I consider myself to be a seed. I want to grow, but there are things inhibiting me. Instead of the impacted ground preventing me from sprouting, it's my self-consciousness that's concerned with how everybody perceives me. Sometimes people don't get over the stresses that inhibit them and they end up growing slower than possible because of it. Instead of worry about who you are, just focus on how you want to grow, if that growth makes you happy, and sharing that happiness with others.
/r/seduction10/03/14 03:30 AM
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Why? How would you compare the areas?
/r/seduction01/09/13 08:18 PM
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Come on. You mean, IT'S BADASS. Why do you think another person will want to hear about it if you're not into it yourself?
/r/seduction01/09/13 07:15 PM
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I did this once, but in a different way. I went for the kiss, then stopped and laughed at her for thinking I was going to kiss her. Rinse, repeat about three times. Then waited and didn't try to kiss her again. When I went for the kiss she did it to me, and I laughed, but then I just grabbed her and pulled her in. This is a woman who tells me later "you're so sly." Ha!
/r/seduction01/09/13 07:08 PM
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I thought you moved to Southern California. What happened with that?
/r/seduction01/09/13 07:00 PM
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What do you want to talk about in general? Okay, then add a woman to that conversation.
/r/seduction01/09/13 06:58 PM
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This is putting it too simple. I think of it as dimensions. You might have a girl who looks better than any other women, but then she could be empty with every other value. There's infinite amount of valued dimensions (hair length, skin color, voice tonality, etc.), but we're attracted to some more than others. Let me give you two examples: GUY 1 Appearance: 10/10 Finances: 3/10 Education: 5/10 Confidence: 3/10 GUY 2 Appearance: 5/10 Finances: 3/10 Education: 10/10 Confidence: 5/10 Who wins the …
/r/seduction31/08/13 02:04 AM
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I would only add that meditation helps create the value of our sensations. If you practice thinking of the future, you will tend to think of the future. If you practice thinking in the present, you will tend to think in the present.
/r/seduction27/08/13 08:45 PM
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No, I don't fail. I go out to have fun. If I didn't have fun, then that would mean I failed. You're trying to imply that you need to number women in order to be successful with them or what it means for you to be talking to a woman because of the number you gave her. Which is pretty low. Failure motivates you to improve. No, I motivate myself to improve. But, if feeling like you're a better person because you can get a "ten" or "top 3 girls in the room," then good for you. I wonder what it means…
/r/seduction26/08/13 11:04 PM
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I'm definitely not outcome independent. I will be genuinely pissed off with myself if I know I could have done better. It's something I haven't grasped in seduction. Great if it works for you, but for me it seems like an incredibly easy way to brush off failure. Exactly! I never fail. I'm always having fun and I do what I want to do without judging my "performance" on how many attractive women want me.
/r/seduction26/08/13 10:46 PM
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First, that's like saying success is based on how much money you got in the bank when success is determined by your own interpretation. Second, I don't believe in a scale because of what it means. Either I'm attracted or I'm not attracted. Third, if you're going to have a scale in seduction, you have a target, that target has a scale based upon her opinion of herself, and we use that target's scale to determine how to respond to that target. Which is why I'm against it, it's not outcome independ…
/r/seduction26/08/13 10:32 PM
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You're stressing about it. That doesn't help. Instead, just think of it as practice. Practice on everybody. Think: I won't cower in fear, she will look away before you. It's not an accident you're looking at her, you have nothing to hide.
/r/seduction26/08/13 08:31 PM
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Hmmm. I thought seduction stopped using this scale. How a girl looks and how she thinks she of herself are different. It's pretty objectifying to rate a person as a number.
/r/seduction26/08/13 08:15 PM
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Maybe I should let you in on my secret. I actually did it for a long time without understanding it, but it works every time. Pick a simple date, any date, and make it a surprise. Or similar, a secret. And if it's a food place, you can just say you have reservations. People are more turned on by the idea of you thinking about them enough to make "a surprise" than if you just gave it to them. There's one way in particular that is great. I had the opportunity to be near a great sight seeing place, …
/r/seduction11/07/13 04:36 AM
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Meditate and challenge yourself. The reason why you want to meditate is because it creates value of your environment. It helps you detach you from the self and become present with your sensations. It's how you become outcome independent and appreciate your sensations without the need of something other than yourself (money, women, etc). As for challenge, I think of it as adventure. For instance, I've hitchhiked a couple thousand miles now and I didn't bring more than thirty dollars. The first tr…
/r/seduction13/05/13 04:22 AM
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She's not really a friend considering what you said about her. She wants money from you, you want sex from her. You don't need to pay anybody for sex, but the women you get will have to relate to how valuable you are... either through money, personality, sex, etc.
/r/seduction17/04/13 04:33 AM
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Try to kiss her the next time you're alone and don't look back. If she rejects you, then move on.
/r/seduction17/04/13 03:24 AM
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It doesn't matter, but considering it's a fun interaction, the usual response... is agree and escalate. As in, "Thank you! I can't help it if I have so much cock." But when you're thinking about how to respond to these questions, I will have you know that's not how you become seductive.
/r/seduction17/04/13 03:22 AM
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I met a guy who said he was in soccer, track, national guard, and business marketing. He said, "I have to otherwise I'll start using drugs." Do what you like doing; she won't be the focus of your value and it won't be on your mind all the time.
/r/seduction16/04/13 10:39 PM
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I am serious. We're already getting told enough that were not good enough. That's not something that's going to help this community.
/r/seduction16/04/13 10:32 PM
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I wouldn't say it's ever stopped me from getting laid. Which is why it has nothing to do with pickup. It's like saying you need to know how to dance to get laid.
/r/seduction16/04/13 03:32 AM
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This has nothing to do with pickup.
/r/seduction16/04/13 02:39 AM
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Respond at the same rate as her... she sends you a text, then send a length texts back. You don't want to burn bridges unless it's necessary, she could be a friend in the future.... who knows... you can't read her mind, we all go through things. If you mean she's your girlfriend and it's not working out, just say, you don't have time for me, so I want to see other people.... however you feel towards her, let her know, then she can make an honest decision for herself.
/r/seduction14/04/13 09:24 AM
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Talk to everybody.
/r/seduction13/04/13 05:40 AM
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The ability to feel good about yourself takes time. You have something missing in your mind, that you need something, to be something, in order to be happy. That's not true. Look around your room. Look anywhere, it's fucking awesome. Go outside and feel the awesomeness. If you're not feeling it, I suggest you meditate so you can feel it. Even though you're constantly told that you're less than somebody else with something, it's simply not true. You decide if it's true. I wish these words could c…
/r/seduction13/04/13 05:30 AM
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For me, I think it's important to remember it's about being in the moment. It's not about getting her to orgasm, but to enjoy it. Although, I will say, it helps to figure out if she gets more pleasure from penetration or clitoral stimulus. Most girls I have been with get more pleasure from their clitoris, which means for me, my dick size doesn't matter that much. I push forward, then down against her clit, then same pressure going backwards. Which also means, she's going to get off more from mis…
/r/seduction12/04/13 09:43 PM
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But masturbating is outcome dependent. At least speaking for myself.
/r/seduction12/04/13 09:25 PM
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Or meditate.
/r/seduction11/04/13 04:24 AM
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You're going up expecting something from them. I don't think its fair, because men are already taking the effort to going up to them, but until the girl like you, they don't typically try to express value (give you a reason to stay around). And some of them expect you to buy something too. I was at a bar one night and I saw three girls. I went up without a thought and the next thing I know I'm standing in front of them telling them they're in a bridal shower. Of course, I was the stripper and th…
/r/seduction08/04/13 11:27 PM
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I don't understand why the comments are regarding him being an asshole, I clearly emphasis it, but the point is you can cultivate your own paradise. He did it in a way to justify being an asshole, but I'm saying beyond that, you can use it to hold yourself as the amazing person.
/r/seduction08/04/13 08:39 PM
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You didn't get it. The subject is epistemology and how it relates to your interpretation of self.
/r/seduction08/04/13 06:45 AM
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I would like to hear somebody with experience compare New York and Venice Beach, because I know the girls by the beach are the hottest anywhere. If you're from anywhere else, you would assume they're all models. When watching material from Adam Lyons, I would see a lot of landmarks of the Santa Monica and Venice area. The point is, it's a rich area, and there's a lot of women there to find a rich man. Which is why there's such an overwhelming amount of hot women. I have had a few women ask me ve…
/r/seduction07/04/13 12:16 AM
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This is a band-aid to the symptoms, in not getting laid, thereby prolonging your development.
/r/seduction01/04/13 01:09 AM
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Thank you! That's what I'm saying...
/r/seduction28/03/13 06:27 AM
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My point was that the fight through failure makes you a stronger, more confident person. And what I'm saying is there's no such thing as failure if you do what you enjoy. Confidence is another thing being claimed as something you need to get women. And to get confidence, you can "fake it until you make it" or "fight the fight" until you become confident. Where, to me, I don't need anything. Which makes me seem confident to others, when I'm only enjoying myself. Then, once you have your confidenc…
/r/seduction28/03/13 06:24 AM
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For instance, sometimes I go out to talk to women, but it's at bars and nightclubs. I don't like it sometimes because there's a lot of sexual tension and people either are boring or being outrageous... all to impress. However, sometimes I give out educational material at my local college. I like doing it, I happen to talk to women in the process of it. For the first situation, I like meeting new people and talking to women, but that's my reason for going out. Sometimes I get a feeling that if I …
/r/seduction28/03/13 02:34 AM
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We're not dependent on social validation. You could be independent, but most people choose not to be... think of monks, they don't need anything.
/r/seduction27/03/13 02:28 AM
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That's an issue though, because you're comparing yourself to yourself. I have improved my language skills, should I feel better about myself? I have also forgotten some words, should I feel worse about myself? Instead, I could interpret myself to be a god or the best guy in the field. Is that interpretation going to help me? I would suggest thinking of it as: I like talking to women (or people) and some of them want to sleep with me. There's no failure in going up to them to talk to them. Even i…
/r/seduction27/03/13 02:24 AM
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The more you concentrate and think about something, or even avoid thinking about it, the more attached you will feel to it. It's called addiction. Work on yourself or talk to somebody else. Do something you enjoy.
/r/seduction26/03/13 11:20 PM
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See, that's why this community has issues. A lot of guys on here are isolated and don't have a social life. And most of the benefit of this community is encouraging guys to go out and talk to people. What constitutes as a failure? Nothing. What constitutes as a success? Nothing. Enjoy what you do, share what you manifest from within. I used to frequent here, but I noticed it only made me feel more inadequate or self-centered with "confidence." One of the ideas that's been here is "don't give a f…
/r/seduction26/03/13 11:08 PM
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