I'll say right now that I've been testing an approach that contradicted everything taught here. I asked for everything from women.

But before I continue, I have to say that sexual consent is very important and people deserve respect for their boundaries. At all times.

I tested this approach on about twenty or thirty women over the last couple of months. I would convey value in all my social interactions, then allow a woman to hit on me, and then ask for a date or a kiss. The reason being that it seems fair that women should be approaching women just as men approach women. Not only that, but I would be everything that women say they want from men (good communicator, affectionate, responsive, etc). I wanted to know if being these things would change the gender dynamic between men and women.

Despite many women approaching me and hitting on me, I will say that I did not kiss or date a single one of them. And it wasn't until this week that I gave up on this method.

Why? Because not only did I ask for permission to kiss somebody, but they rejected me, told me they didn't want to "prevent me from kissing them in the future", then proceeded to try to mess with my emotions by hitting on my friends. An absolutely frustrating situation that made me decide I wasn't going to ask for another kiss, ever.

Anyways, the following day I was still sad that this person seemed like they intended to hurt me and I went out to a bar.

I walked into the bar, talked with my friends for a few minutes, when my friend approached one of two girls on the dance floor and I grabbed the other one.

This is always a good move! Even if the girl isn't into you, she doesn't want to be alone on the dance floor while her friend gets a guy. Between the women, both of them hope that they get somebody if their friend got somebody. That woman wants nothing less than to be able to talk to her friends how she met an amazing man.

I know almost all the pickup theory, but I was even asking women to dance with them. It was part of a theory that I wanted to test, and no, it does nothing. You don't need to ask. You just do it. Go to them and grab their hand or their waist. If they don't want it they will walk away or smack your hand away. This isn't violating consent, this is how majority of women expect men to ask for a dance. Especially considering the dance floor is loud and it's very difficult to talk. In other words, do not feel scared or guilty about potentially violating consent.

Back to the story, I dance with this woman for a minute, spin her around and move about the dance floor, then when I was close enough I kiss her on the forehead.

This wasn't exactly me avoiding kissing her lips, she just happened to be short and a kiss on a cheek or forehead feels nice. She smiled, so showed me she liked it and then I kissed her. After a minute, my friend left her friend and eventually she noticed and seemed concerned for her friend. I then said something valuable, “your friend is alone, so I'll dance with you in a little bit.” I went to talk to a few other people, went back to her, kissed and danced a lot more, went outside with her, then never saw her again. I should've gotten her number before leaving her the last time.

Then I danced on the dance floor again, mostly by myself, then a couple of transexual women kept complimenting me as being a good dancer and “adorable.” I wasn't into them, but the compliments felt really nice and I dance with them. The funny thing is that people are laughing because they think I don't know that these women are transexual women. I am smiling the whole time so they think that I am totally into them. I was just having fun and eventually walked away when the song was over.

I dance with a few other women but more in and out of groups when a fucking unbelievably beautiful woman walks through and smile at her, obstruct her path, then say “somebody has to dance with me” and then start dancing with her. Just as I was dancing earlier with the other women, people are staring because they just saw me (in their minds out of ignorance) dancing with transexual women and now dancing with woman that looks like a model. This woman is totally into it and smiles like no other smile and we've pretty much taken over the dance floor when I go for a kiss. She stops then says “I'm kind of here with somebody.” I say, “don't be afraid” and grab her hand again and keep dancing until this really tall guy shows up, in which I just grab and push him into her, then walk away. My mentality is I dance with models and it's nothing new.

At this point, I think the night can't get any better. I just mind fucked everybody on the dance floor.

I see a woman standing by the water and she's looking at me, I go to her, ask her name, and start initiating contact immediately. She's definitely smiling and I try to kiss her, rejected, try again, rejected, try again, rejected. This is over about a minute of talking about random things, but she rejects me every time when I ask “you want to go outside?” She says yes. We go outside we kiss for about ten minutes and she's grinding on me, giving me every test she can imagine, but pushing herself on me. She indicates that she thinks I've slept with thirty women or more, but tell her it's much less, which then only gets her far more excited and she starts dry humping my leg against the wall. She doesn't want to leave her friends though and I give her my number and text myself. She runs away.

The next day I text her it was nice to hang out then ask her what she's doing that night. We go to eat, talk for hours and hours and hours. She says a lot of things about how we're not going to have sex, but it's late into the night (2am) on a weekday when I say I really want to cuddle and I would prefer not to sleep alone. This might seem like shit, but I was telling the truth and she could tell that I meant it. This means, you don't have to be afraid to tell the truth and be sincere with women. I doubt it would've meant anything to her if I hadn't been honest with every other discussion we had that evening.

We go to her place, talk a lot, massage her, talk a lot more, then fall asleep. She wakes me up in the morning and we get down.

tldr; Went wild, went up to a whole bunch of women, kissed two of them, fucked one of them. Noted the change of difficulty in getting laid when I asked for permission and just going for it.