| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 32 | Overcoming sexual insecurity | Inner Game | ongelukje | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 09:31 AM |
| 13 | female friends? | Conversation | ongelukje | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Lacking sexual confidence | Removed: Specific Situation / post on r/askseddit | ongelukje | /r/seduction | 24/05/21 08:47 PM |
| 2 | Lacking the balls to close | Outer Game | ongelukje | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Need help - social anxiety and BDD issues | ongelukje | /r/seduction | 03/09/19 04:56 PM | |
| 1 | How to increase value with no accomplishments? | ongelukje | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 10:02 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Overcoming sexual insecurityI never said I didnt like my size in erection 😉 | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 02:34 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming sexual insecurityLike 6 inch when fully fully hard. Hooker was my 2nd woman. It was too hasty, and it was sucking off with condom which is just not ideal. The hooker gave me that edge of confidence to try out tinder hook up. Just try it and try different hookers. And I read that getting off the woman first makes them not care about your penis. With the tinder hook up, this was deff true. | /r/seduction | 05/06/22 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Overcoming sexual insecurityJust got my first tinder hook up sex. We had sex, got food and had sex again. Got harder the 2nd time for a while, but soft dick after like 5 minutes. It is what it is - should improve over time. Thanks for your advice dude. Appriciate it. | /r/seduction | 04/06/22 06:42 PM |
| 2 | Overcoming sexual insecurityI just had my first escort sex. She made me really comfortable and I told her what bothered me. She said to relax and close my eyes. During the sex I could not stay hard or cum. Maybe because of the condom or that I was still thinking too much. I also did not know if she really liked it or it were just noises she does all the time. Ill book the next girl in a morning or early noon, so they have the time for me. This girl didnt even stayed for 60minutes and was a bit hasty. | /r/seduction | 01/06/22 07:38 PM |
| 4 | Overcoming sexual insecurityLol, waking up in their hands or mouths. That made me laugh. I guess its just a mental problem. And that I need the exposure to actually rewire my brain the right way. What is your mindset when you take your pants off? That girls would joke about the unerect state makes me nervous. But they did not walk away and still fucked you. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 11:42 AM |
| 0 | Overcoming sexual insecurityIts not my erect state. Its the thought of she seeing my shrinked up non erect penis. Ive been with a woman before for some time and she said it was perfect. Guess the problem is in my mind 99%. | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 11:38 AM |
| 3 | Overcoming sexual insecurityWill do! And should I tell her that I am insecure? | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming sexual insecurityAny tips for the mindset? | /r/seduction | 27/05/22 11:35 AM |
| 1 | Be Yourself Without FearI feel you. I start to open up to random people, doing new stuff I like. But any tips on the sex stuff? I havent got laid in years and still struggle on some days with opening to males and or woman. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 09:27 PM |
| 2 | Am I a low status man?I know a few guys who only work half weeks or get funded by government, yet they have girlfriends. | /r/seduction | 24/03/22 09:19 PM |
| 2 | Lacking the balls to closeThanks dude. Will do! | /r/seduction | 22/03/22 07:56 AM |
| 5 | How to become more physically attractive?Dabbing/rubbing. Both not good. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 05:13 PM |
| 6 | How to become more physically attractive?Dont rub your wrists. It will destroy the perfume molocules. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 05:10 PM |
| 2 | Lacking sexual confidenceAlright thanks man | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Lacking sexual confidenceThanks man | /r/seduction | 25/05/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | The favorite thing I love when men approach me at the barWhat if a guy is shy but still has the balls to approach you without over confidence? | /r/seduction | 20/10/20 02:53 PM |
| 2 | Update: Just lost my virginityI red the book aswell. Its more of a compilation it looks like with positive assets that got you further. Good job | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 03:13 PM |
| 1 | Update: Just lost my virginityWhat is the best information from the book Models for you to get to this point? | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 12:21 PM |
| 1 | female friends?True that. Seems from multiple perspectives that I've dodged a bullet. What is your vision on female friends btw? | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Do my legs look long and thin as hell? Get stared down oftenNobody is perfect. You can start working out, for your own mental and physical health. And I don't see anything wrong in here? | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 12:59 PM |
| 8 | female friends?Partly right. We first talked because we had some experiences in the past that we felt we should discuss in person. Lots of ioi's, even though I knew she had a bf and I didnt want to go any further. It was her that ordered more drinks that day, her that wanted to walk further in town, her touching me (leg touch etc when I made a joke), her standing and waiting for action when I showed my dads house (center city). And when I got home, she sent me within a few min that she really wanted to see me … | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 12:35 PM |
| 2 | female friends?Thats thoughtfull and usefull. Honestly, the damage is done already. She thought I wanted her for sex because I wanted to stop communicating after the day we spent together. She deleted my number too. She was deeply hurt, because the level of conversation was super deep and now worthless. I am also hurt, because I didnt even knew how much pain I gave her by saying we can't be casual friends - after the emotional talks. | /r/seduction | 11/07/20 12:27 PM |
| 4 | Focus On Progress, Not PerfectionWhat makes a guy interesting in your eyes? | /r/seduction | 20/01/20 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Can't take action.I am a noob in the 'game' and read models by Mark Manson. He says that you need to honest with yourself and put yourself #1. But slowly but steady I am improving a bit. You said you are generally not very outgoing. Have you picked up new hobbies or did you do exiting stuff? Did you improve yourself in general life? What country do you live if I may ask? | /r/seduction | 17/01/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Basic escalationI struggle with this a bit. This is pure mentally, because she is pretty. I will try to do the eye contact thing. And we are going to cook something together, so guess thats nice too. | /r/seduction | 16/01/20 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Basic escalationBig response man. Thank you | /r/seduction | 15/01/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | How to increase value with no accomplishments?Thanks. It makes sense. | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 11:50 AM |
| 1 | How to increase value with no accomplishments?Awesome man to read this reply. Thank you! | /r/seduction | 26/11/19 10:39 AM |
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