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Yes. The power to say NO to a woman, especially around sex, is always a big turn on for then, she will respect you for that (even though she will act mad), you will see results later, she will even be more hungry, but only if she is attracted to you already and is exclusive with you. Otherwise, let’s say she was a party girl or a promiscuous attractive woman, she will just move to the next guy available … Hash Truth
/r/seduction30/10/25 04:49 AM
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Haha good one, yes
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:37 AM
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Did you changed your vibe ? Luck is also a very important thing I was in a club one day and a girl was there for that day only, she was having a “single farewell” party and you may guess what happened between her and me that night ! But I was happened to be at that place, that day and I chose to talk to her. In hindsight I was not even planning to go that place but I just went there and I saw her. Perhaps you need to change places or go out more Numbers game after all
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:35 AM
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Yes. How do they say? I caved my own grave? Thing is… You never know when the “just for fun” can turn into other feelings. I didn’t know bro! Didn’t saw her for “love” until I met her more
/r/seduction24/10/25 10:00 AM
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Feelings are not rational though..
/r/seduction24/10/25 09:52 AM
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Yes, agreed I’ve been played and this was a ton of learning Yes in hindsight there were clues She has loose skin in her belly, common in woman after pregnancy. But she always hid that part of her body. She always covered during sex At the beginning I playfully joked about her having no boyfriend… She was like …. “Uhm yeaaa no boyfriend” with some kind of tone. I didn’t care then, it was just fun date and sex for me and her until feelings appeared … now I care .. Stupid me, I know
/r/seduction24/10/25 09:50 AM
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Irrelevant. I’m in Asia and the girls are quite tiny here. Im way taller than her Not too much of height requirements here compared to the US
/r/seduction24/10/25 09:40 AM
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Already got the bite… ! Yes, no pain no gain.
/r/seduction24/10/25 09:38 AM
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Yea biggest challenge in game so far. Very true. Actually she was by far the hardest.. a lot of shit tests (and she keeps doing them), biggest one was right before sex… To this day, I’m happy I scored her, she is very attractive. Im not sure I’m old for gaming already, I didn’t do anything on my 20s, but now that I am on my 30s is when Ive had more success. I will think about the feelings part.
/r/seduction24/10/25 09:35 AM
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Sounds like a lot of time But we see each other 1-2 times per month. Close to no texting.. she chose to hide that information… and in a way I get it… many single mums get immediately filtered out when they say that As weird as it sounds… it was impossible to know about the kid and marriage unless she told me or I asked. Kid and kid father live in her home country. Yes I was supposed to keep my frame, and I still kept it… though internally, I already broke it… as you said, she convinced me to thi…
/r/seduction24/10/25 09:26 AM
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Yea. That can also be. At least after so much playing… now I understand better what I want in a woman, thanks to her… Now I just need to make sure the next one doesn’t bring luggage …
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:25 AM
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Same For now she and I are fuck buddies because I keep my cool, I have not expressed my emotions to her. she keeps chasing me. But her looks and attitude and the fact she cannot be mine… that is breaking me I will research that
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:18 AM
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Uhm.. yes. Makes sense… I didn’t fall for the others, but I did for this one. Just happened to be the wrong one… Well, lesson learnt… anyway
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:14 AM
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Now that you mention it. You are right. My current options are not… but I have not meet the other ones .. Cool
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:12 AM
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Absolutely 👍
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:09 AM
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Thanks for this. Yes. That’s what’s happening. Is a very different type of Crush. Quite frankly, one of the most complete woman Ive met in terms of what I want. I need to cut this too
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:08 AM
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In game… at least past girls.. I got attracted, then seduced, flirted , got sex, sometimes ONS.. but that’s it… Many times I failed.. didn’t care at all. I think once you get emotional… you lose the game. In my country we say “the one who falls in love, loses” Other context but… whatever … I just needed to vent
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:04 AM
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My mistake is that I stoped seeing her as just for game. That’s why I said I failed …. Damn
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:01 AM
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I have been playing so much and I thought I found the one to settle. Yes I’m smashing this 9/10 girl.. total win. But my interests moved once I saw her as wife material and then learnt she can’t be. Game is dangerous too
/r/seduction24/10/25 06:00 AM
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Yes haha! At least I want to lose with my body straight up ….
/r/seduction24/10/25 05:58 AM
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Well actually that’s what I’ve been doing the last months… I don’t text her.. normally she is the one initiating chats.. I do only initiate texts to setup dates. We see each other 1 per month. 2 at most . I guess I will need to withdraw attention more and more then . Thanks !! And yes, is brutal. I’m 33 and 20s girls are not always free of kids nowadays
/r/seduction24/10/25 05:56 AM
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“Re-discovers” Yes… The thing is… it shouldn’t have happened.
/r/seduction24/10/25 05:53 AM
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I tell you something I gamed a girl from a bar and we eventually had sex… but after several tries… she likes me more now, but her “animal” desire was not there at the beginning. I gamed another girl and she had sex with me the same day I met her .. and she asked for it. She desires me a lot… sometimes I’m even scared 🤣 What I learned from ONS is that women will sleep with a man immediately if she is very attracted to him. If it’s just a maybe.. she will delay it until “she is ready”.
/r/seduction24/10/25 05:51 AM
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Yes And they shouldn’t. It turns them off if you let them do it too much. They want to feel protected, not to protect (unless it’s her child) The girls that take initiative are either one of those very “independent” women or those that have a hard time getting men attention… or she just likes you too much and is confident that you will like her too.
/r/seduction22/10/25 04:47 PM
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In Asia? Yes. They have all the advantages (language, culture, looks, etc) and I know many that are very good at it. Asians outside Asia? Confidence is key, so I think they can but I also think an American will do better in the US compared to an average Asian .
/r/seduction21/10/25 06:11 AM
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I would prefer a bar Some bars are a mix of bar/night club Good for practicing If you have approach anxiety I give you a tip no one else will give you: Start with working girls at bars, strippers, the bar tender.. and even hookers They will most likely follow your frame, they will likely not reject you instantly (some will) but you will develop confidence and practice, specially with flirting Then you try with girls outside of these context. They are harder and likely will reject you but the con…
/r/seduction18/10/25 07:38 AM
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She has kid, 11yo. She was a teenager when it happened Kid was left with family in home country.. so there was no obvious clues She said she is separated from the father.. but don’t know more details.
/r/seduction09/10/25 07:21 AM
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I really liked this response. Gold Women need emotional roller coasters, that’s why push/pull works so well. I’m playing my next move
/r/seduction08/10/25 07:11 PM
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You damn right Easy to hide because kid was left with family back in her home country while she makes a living in the country we met. She claims she is separated from father since long ago but… do I believe her? Who knows… she is a liar in my eyes now. Do I still want to smash? Yes But what a waste of feelings…
/r/seduction08/10/25 06:13 PM
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If you were me, how would you do 3
/r/seduction08/10/25 03:53 PM
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Exactly! That’s how I feel I thought I was the player…. And having my fun… but I was actually being played! Got to admit.. she never took any advantage from me, financially or on any other thing. Her behavior tells me she also grew feelings… and perhaps she hid the truth about her situation because she also thought it was a short term thing… Who knows..
/r/seduction08/10/25 03:33 PM
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Get an Airbnb or a suite at a nice hotel (and say you are traveling or fixing your dorm or whatever) I don’t think is much about convincing them, they may also have reasons just like you. So if you want certainty, make it easy for them to say yes by having a place
/r/seduction14/03/25 01:27 AM
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Doctors, well known for playing with the nurses. I’ve heard lawyers have some success but not sure really. Tennis coaches and the like, personal trainers
/r/seduction13/03/25 02:38 PM
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Tourist Women. Especially in bars, nightclubs.
/r/seduction06/03/25 01:02 PM
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Lead. Very simple, girls don’t want to think about the place, the food, the restaurant, the entertainment venue, etc. You do all the plans. But keep it flexible if she wants to do something different, but never ask her where does she want to go for a first or even second date… she will lose interest quickly
/r/seduction27/02/25 07:28 AM
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Happened to me with one. Just walk away, she is not sexually attracted to you. She will tell you things like “I’m not ready”, “I only do that with boyfriend” etc So it’s a combination of two things, one, she is not that attracted to you, because if she was crazy attracted to you, she will fuck you, trust me. Two, she is probably not experienced enough, not liberal enough, has religious or whatever boundaries, but again, if she is really thirsty for you, she will not care for any boundary. Look e…
/r/seduction27/02/25 05:37 AM
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Exactly
/r/seduction27/02/25 05:29 AM
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Won’t work. She is either there because a friend ask her to join her or she is there for the event but not interested in you or maybe she is just doing the shit test, I always rather think to myself that it is her problem, not mine. Wash it out and move to the next one
/r/seduction23/02/25 02:14 AM
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What do you want to achieve? A relationship? A hook up? We Men are simple. But if he doesn’t look at you with desire, I’m afraid is either your body or face/looks. Both or them can be improved. Most men are driven by physical attraction first, then the rest. Doesn’t matter how slutty or cute you dress. Although clothes help a lot, if your body type is not what he likes. It’s going to be hard. Smell is another factor, change the perfume as well. And not all men want big boobs or big ass or both. …
/r/seduction27/12/24 12:59 PM
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Yes there are stigmas and prejudice hard to come by, I think is not just that that woman wants to avoid certain minority, but she worried about what other people, family and friends will think about her for going out with someone of a certain minority. The more open minded women are, the better the chances she will play along. Game can work but needs more effort
/r/seduction12/10/24 08:35 AM
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I think is a natural selection thing… younger woman have it easier to pregnancy. Not saying is a general thing but I kind of have a natural attraction for women these age and I suspect is because of fertility… there must be something primal. Who knows
/r/seduction02/10/24 10:54 AM
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This made me laugh so hard… well I guess success rate is 100%
/r/seduction02/10/24 05:20 AM
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Yea that similar to approach anxiety and it gets worse when you see someone else approaching her, making her laugh etc.
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:38 PM
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This is gold. Thanks
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:35 PM
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I had a similar experience and now I regret not going for it. I know the feeling Yeah I think we regret more that stuff we didn’t do rather than stuff we did
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:35 PM
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True that. I should change the mindset to me being the prize Good story bro
/r/seduction30/09/24 07:33 PM
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Interesting. I think is about losing value as well. Good story
/r/seduction30/09/24 05:05 PM
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Good one for getting a gf. His stuff works
/r/seduction30/09/24 02:38 PM
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Go train near him… Casually ask him for help with something …
/r/seduction27/09/24 05:05 AM
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Thanks for this
/r/seduction27/09/24 12:56 AM
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I recently went clubbing in Asia and mostly stayed as observer as I just came back to this game. The successful men were mostly dancing and enjoying, with a lot of party vibe, king of the party kind of. Then they will go dance near a group of woman and slowly “party” together. The music helps to justify getting closer and closer to speak to her ear. Escalating physically is faster. The thing is, you have to be fun. The other way to succeed is being utterly attractive or be lucky and some cute gi…
/r/seduction24/09/24 04:40 AM
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Bold. But could work
/r/seduction15/09/24 05:42 AM
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This makes total sense. The question is asking me to validate myself to her.. makes sense to flip that over to her and make her validate to me, change the control. Great responses, I’m going to try them out
/r/seduction15/09/24 05:38 AM
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Well I think most shit tests are filtering tactics. yes honesty shall work. If she is not for that, she is not for that and move on to the next one.
/r/seduction15/09/24 05:36 AM
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You need to add sexual innuendo and see how she responds If she follows the game, then don’t waste any more time and go for the date, kiss
/r/seduction14/09/24 12:54 PM
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