Or can we even do it?

I feel is bad for seduction as we want to keep emotionally stable like a rock. But when and how can we be vulnerable ?

Context

I’ve been dating a girl for 8 months, When we started, I stated to her that I only wanted fun, but she has always wanted a formal relationship.

this was supposed to be a short term thing.. but everything has been so intense that I eventually fell for her.

Without giving details, she just confessed me something super important about her (she should’ve told me months ago)

Had she told me before… I would probably ended our situationship earlier or consciously avoided feelings.

I want to express my feelings of disappointment, anger and the fact that I had started to make plans with her.

For now, I’ve kept my feelings to myself.