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| 690 | Ladies, please stay safe! This was couple of days before the British incel Jake took lives from people. | CULTURAL MISOGYNY | overthinker4444 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 10:20 PM |
| 634 | One guy said:” I wouldn’t have answered it. That was dry.” So what was she supposed to do? Add an emoji?🤨 | MALE DEPRAVITY | overthinker4444 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 05:14 PM |
| 336 | Why do males not accept it if their SO's want to start an only fans account? While it's acceptable for men to watch porn? | overthinker4444 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 11:49 PM | |
| 94 | Her replies in the comments show the pick me behaviour. I am mad. She is teaching other women wrong ideas | PICKME CULTURE | overthinker4444 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 06:03 AM |
| 79 | Jealousy in partners families? Has anyone experienced this? | DISCUSSION | overthinker4444 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 02:43 PM |
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| 10 | A daily reminder to protect your womb from LVM scrotes. Apparently once you have a kid, you are no longer allowed to have standards.This topic made me think about something. What kind of dating profiles do gay men have? All men say that they would've been high maintenance if they were women. Are most gay men pickmes or do they vet a lot? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 09:54 AM |
| 40 | “I Am Just A Simple Man”These "simple" men cause drama by cheating behind their GFS back. And when she finds it out is she "annoying" or "dramatic". "I don't want drama." Kinda positive vibes guys tbh. These guys love cool girls and are looking for mommy's. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/22 09:49 AM |
| 40 | Has a man ever left you or started abusing you when something negative happened to your looks?Some midwives defend these men because "He just had a trauma!" Worst pickmes They forgot what deadly job the wife did. She could've died. Ungrateful scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 05:09 PM |
| 13 | Grieving my former selfI felt emotional reading this. It began to hit home. I am proud of you! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/22 04:54 PM |
| 7 | Quite hilarious...One girl made a TikTok about her friend and the text was saying: would love it to let her have the same love struggle as me." The tiktoker has a culture background where men treat women like shit. Please ladies watch out for that one friend who shames you for being single or motivates you to start a relationship when she has a messed up relationship. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/22 02:21 PM |
| 76 | Male depravity makes it to the front page.Self-improvement male: " I want to focus on myself to impress other males and women. Lying to women is TheRaPy for me." These males can't stand it when women tell them that they would like to focus on themselves. They can't imagine how a woman wishes to stay alone and focus on herself than to be in a relationship. Instead of actually focusing on himself is he still busy with women🤣🤣🤣🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 02:11 PM |
| 18 | Seriously though, this is such a sad truthMy own brother said to me: "Well, you do realize that every man's fantasy is to marry a white woman? White woman are the beauty standard." Why would a guy say this to his own sister?🤣 Am I a threat to him? Loooooool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/22 11:34 AM |
| 51 | What's your phone numberSame for me! I'm not comfortable with giving men my number. I don't have Snapchat so it goes nowhere lol. Google number is not available for country. Any European know solutions? Thanks! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/22 09:00 PM |
| 4 | Basically just discovered a new fetish for myselfMy new fetish is telling men not to have money when they approach me🤣🤚 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/22 02:22 AM |
| 45 | Thank you thank you FDSWauw now you mentioned that, you can screen males who don't respect your boundaries easily with this method. I had males getting annoyed bc of me not giving my number immediately. Just suggest ft on these dating apps instead indeed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | not supposed to represent feminism on a feminist subreddit... what?Yes exactly I was so confused in the beginning! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/22 08:39 AM |
| 6 | not supposed to represent feminism on a feminist subreddit... what?Btw speaking about other subreddits there is another fds subreddit but it seems sartire? Does anyone know this subreddit? I found them when I was looking for the real (this subreddit)FDS | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/12/21 12:42 AM |
| 62 | Beware: don't respond to Holiday / New years Texts from New numbersPutting your phone on only urgent calls is also a good option. Just put your contact list on urgent calls and let the rest get your voicemail. Around celebrations is it excellent | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/12/21 01:27 AM |
| 14 | How does a HVM approach a woman?How does an HVM react when you give him your email instead of your number? I don't like it to give strangers my number nor google numbers. One guy agreed and we had a conversation on mail. But, it didn't take long for him to say:" Well, why not your number tho? It's easier than the emailing" He was LVM on the end so I am glad how I handled it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 08:05 PM |
| 30 | Why do males not accept it if their SO's want to start an only fans account? While it's acceptable for men to watch porn?Yes, so true. They are so delusional | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/12/21 06:32 AM |
| 26 | Is it me or are the dating apps dead or declining in numbers of men?These LVM/NVM males finally realize that the person they are looking for males are. They don't like women. HVM can stay tho lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 08:36 AM |
| 55 | Help! My Husband Threatened Divorce After I Got Mad About Him Being on Adult Dating Sites.She should have said:"Then divorce me." Watch him panicking. A tactic used by many NVM/LVM. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/21 05:47 AM |
| 586 | They really tell on themselves. They do not find sex work empowering nor do they respect it. Yet, we are told the opposite.The comment saying:" The question is, will the girl with only fans date you?" 11 sensitive toddlers replied I guess💀🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/21 02:15 PM |
| 4 | LVM traits and pick-me behavior in popular romance books. Spoilers.Loooooool me too🤣 I did upgrade tho. I went from reading bad boy/alpha stories to real romance at the end 💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 04:06 PM |
| 29 | LVM traits and pick-me behavior in popular romance books. Spoilers.I cringe at the "Alpha and the submissive girl" Wattpad stories I read as a teenager too embarrassing🤣💀 nah I'm glad that I now know how wrong that was💯 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/21 04:02 PM |
| 35 | The kids are gonna be alright! (Scroll for comments)Okay everybody let's laugh? Where is the joke 🤔 Sir, you need some retinol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/21 09:30 PM |
| 27 | On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losersTrue. Some guys will make jokes about to looking for a sugar mommy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Mamabaiting 101: Beware of the manbaby! How LVM trick you into taking on the leadership role in a relationship 👶 🍼 Watch out for these red flagsLooooool he probably uses the excuse to heal his mommy issues trauma | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 04:49 PM |
| 38 | A guy once wrote me a huge paragraph on how when a man offers to pay a bill, you need to argue and insist to pay for yourself. Pls, share your funniest and dumbest interactions about first date courtesy.What a joker. This male is probably one who says: "Women and children eat after the man of the houses eated." Upper class greedy male get out of here please. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 04:17 PM |
| 24 | Just FYI…if you or a loved one are hospitalized, it is ALWAYS ok to insist on having female-only staff.Exactly! Also, parents should not tell their kids to just "accept the help they get". My aunt heard what happened and told me:" Why are you so dramatic? It is his job to help you". Nah ma'am if I don't want it, I don't want it lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 01:32 PM |
| 105 | Just FYI…if you or a loved one are hospitalized, it is ALWAYS ok to insist on having female-only staff.So true. I once needed a scan for my back. I was 14 and I noticed that a male specialist was going to assist me. Which meant that he was going to see my upper body fully exposed. But, I felt uncomfortable for some reason. I asked him politely for a female specialist. He told me how discriminated he felt and left the room. I was feeling sorry for him at that time. But, now I don't. He was guilt tripping me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 07:32 AM |
| 85 | Break up songs by guys that make you laughHe says IDGAF but still makes a song about the girl. How ironic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/12/21 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Sexual issues in a HV relationshipI watched a while ago a video about different stages of intimacy. Intimacy can start days before the actual sex. For instance, "warming" each other up by making deep eye contact? But more to create a special bond between you two if you get what I mean. So not foreplay but creating a special bond before you start the actual sex. If someone knows what I mean please help. I don't remember the vid name or tiktoker. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 05:43 PM |
| 3 | If the genders were reversed..I saw a while ago advertisements circulating where men were paying women to stand on their peepee lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/21 04:59 PM |
| 5 | The ‘damsel in distress’ is a lie- it’s men who can’t live without women, and men are no heroes.So true. I am a COVID test customer service agent. The amount of women I speak to make appts for their husbands is crazy. Their wives know everything. But reversed? Nah, the man doesn't even know the date of birth of his child and laughs it away. Insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 01:26 PM |
| 13 | Avoidantly attached men like to pretend securely or anxiously attached women are “needy” when avoidants are actually very, VERY needy.Me too avoidant here, they see us as a challenge. Most anxious men are attracted to avoidant women. I now realize what issue I have and am willing to treat that. While most men use it to manipulate and gaslight others to have some "understanding". | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/21 12:56 PM |
| 19 | Intuition vs Being TriggeredButterflies do not always come from "love". I remember a therapist saying that it can be anxiety. I once talked to a guy and I had a weird feeling. I did like him and had butterflies but they were not love butterflies. My intuition was early on was telling me that I wasn't feeling safe. Listening to my gut saved me a lot in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:34 AM |
| 12 | "women's value is looks, men's value is resources"Isn't it lool? They act like they are above us. Funny fact: Incels have a platform where they rate eachother. They ask eachother how screwed they are as in being unattractive and not being able to get a woman. They insult and downgrade eachother. Kevin Samuel 2.0 I would say. Do you see women rating eachother? No, so scrotes y'all are so delusional. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/21 08:17 AM |
| 31 | Help me out of this spiralDon't respond. He thinks he can have access to you. An ego boost. It is an ex for a reason. Remember the reasons why you left him. It gets better on the end. Don't worry❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/11/21 07:19 AM |
| 47 | Stories and examples of sensitive/emotional men being abusive or manipulative?Emotional guys are the worst. They will tell you sob stories but don't you dare to tell your story. Careless guys I would say. They can manipulate well. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/21 08:34 AM |
| 23 | Whoever needs this reminder! 👑YESSSS SO TRUE! It drained my energy. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/11/21 01:47 AM |
| 412 | Which one of you is this aboutAlso that his girlfriend may suffer from MeNtAl hEaLtH issues so he needs to have some patience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/21 01:36 PM |
| 17 | Men don’t have sexual needsThey have desires to hurt you or shame you. Insulting women while having sex, sharing nudes etc. In short sick people | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/21 04:06 PM |
| 7 | A reminder for you ladies *remove* the pickme’s in your life today including family - A moody synopsis and someone who understands *you* for once.True some women can not be saved. A girl shared anonymously her story. In short: she was getting abused by her husband. The girl asked if this was okay and if she should leave. One girl in the comments said:" You should stay till you die. Seek couple therapy and give him some time." I wanted to vomit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Another stage of the vetting process- are they there for you in times of grief?Wauw never noticed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/21 12:06 AM |
| 14 | Do you apply FDS to non-dating spheres?I don't get too much in detail when I talk with coworkers. They tell me to be more open lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Another stage of the vetting process- are they there for you in times of grief?You mean they don't socialize? I thought that they faked it | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/11/21 03:32 PM |
| 16 | Asking a man for his zodiac sign can be a great vetting strategyI tried it with MBTI personality tests. Wauw, they get so angry. One man was mansplaining me what it was. And was telling me to not believe in that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/21 01:07 PM |
| 3 | MYTH: Marriage is NOT hard. The media should stop glamorizing their abusive relationship.Thank you for your reply!❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 01:58 PM |
| 2 | MYTH: Marriage is NOT hard. The media should stop glamorizing their abusive relationship.Off-topic: Do HVM perform voluntary tasks? At a shelter or something like that? Because Volunteers make time to help people for free? What is your opinion on that? Much appreciated! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:05 AM |
| 6 | MYTH: Marriage is NOT hard. The media should stop glamorizing their abusive relationship.Do HVM perform voluntary tasks? At a shelter or something like that? Because Volunteers make time to help people for free? What is your opinion on that? Much appreciated! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 10:03 AM |
| 2 | Friendly reminders to block and delete your ex and live in peace 😌LVM spend every waking moment of their days thinking about using women. And get butthurt when they get used | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Even the plants know what’s upThis made me chuckle haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/08/21 03:20 PM |
| 17 | He’s dumb af if he thinks we won’t be able to pick him outWell somebody is mad💀. He sounds so hurt. He is not having it that FDS let women know what tactics LVM/NVM use to hurt and use women. Women have finally a space where they can learn and apply beneficial things in their life’s! We don’t even think a second to block and delete when things don’t value us anymore. Men need us but we can live without them. And that is why they hate us so much. Stay mad scrotes | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 08:47 AM |
| 226 | Ladies, please stay safe! This was couple of days before the British incel Jake took lives from people.Even the most rejected woman would not start a murder tantrum. I have no mercy for these incel psychos. Yet, do they call women emotional. They can rot in hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/21 11:38 PM |
| 12 | After being told by men more than once that my standards were "too high", last weekend I got given the proposal and ring of my dreams by a man who meets those standards!Congratulations!!!!!!!!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉 There is still hope!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/21 03:11 PM |
| 50 | Men are **farrrrr** more sensitive than womenWhen men try to justify what they said and use caps lock. It makes me chuckle💀🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/08/21 04:08 PM |
| 4 | This.I cant see the emoji😩 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/08/21 07:46 AM |
| 12 | Pick me women make for awful friends. They don't value female friendships and/or are obsessed with men should be avoided.Another sign: - When they say:” Ohh but why do you want to study so bad? You are going to be a housewife and look after your kids.” When they do not let you vent. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 06:05 PM |
| 41 | Love seeing women not falling for manipulation tactics.Why did he crop the picture? I bet he was begging afterwards lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Halal datingSis men on OLD are not it. You might have been lucky to find a HVM man but another way of meeting new people can be through Islamic conferences/events. One about interesting topics. So not about marriage. You can meet other women and network from there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/21 05:45 PM |
| 25 | Getting hit on by gross old men is so bewildering to me. Do they really think I'd ever f*ck them?I was travelling alone and was sitting next to this man. He was in his 40’s but seemed to be kind. We had different kinds of conversations. When I was about the leave the plane did he ask me for my number. I said no. He said: “Yes, but it's normal. I am not a creep”. So he then said:” Wait you think I want to hit on you?” Well yes, why would you ask me for my number then? Asking a 20 yr old girl? They still think that they can get any one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/08/21 06:09 AM |
| 16 | It’s amazing when they out themselves, men really are self-aware wolvesAnd they say:” I don’t find women funny but you’re an exception”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/21 03:52 PM |
| 12 | Know your worth and don't accept less, this engagement ring and an engagement announcement popped up on my newsfeedHe and his friends will make fun of her in the gc so sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/07/21 02:11 PM |
| 11 | Dirty Scrote Starter PackTheir duvets and pillows do not have sheets btw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 04:41 PM |
| 4 | This queen spitting truths about men and their feelings. So nice to see this knowledge in the wild tooThis!!!! Assertive? Masculine energy. How pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/07/21 11:24 AM |
| 3 | 44 years old with mommy issues🤡 the jokes write themselves atp5’2? Always the toddlers💀🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/07/21 03:44 PM |
| 8 | Low effort is now the bare minimumMukbangs in cars haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/21 05:33 PM |
| 8 | Never open up about your traumas until you know he's a HVM. Even then, be careful.Act like the happiest woman till you know that you’re dealing with a HVM. LVM and NVM don’t like it when you act too happy or like yourself a lot in my experience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/21 09:39 AM |
| 218 | This is why you shouldn’t take other peoples opinions about your body seriously.The truth is that we as women will be considered “beautiful” if we meet the beauty standards that men admire. Women, in general, find beauty in every woman. And that is what matters to me. I would rather be called beautiful by a woman than a man. Women know what beauty means. You don’t need to have the modern beauty standards to be beautiful to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:56 PM |
| 2 | Scrote on the street told me he wanted to r*pe meOh dear that is a horrible experience! I am sorry that this happened to you😞. I can understand you. I also don’t know how to respond back. It feels like I become numb and don’t know what to do. I would recommend you to seek therapy. I hope it gets better for you! Never forget, you are a flower🌸🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 08:48 AM |
| 5 | Scrote on the street told me he wanted to r*pe me🤢🤢🤢What a disgusting individual. Sis how are you? I hope you’re okay🥺 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 03:15 AM |
| 8 | Her replies in the comments show the pick me behaviour. I am mad. She is teaching other women wrong ideasSome women have so much empathy for men that they will defend them as much as possible. This behaviour can come from growing up with a single dad or a brother who had bad experiences with women (got cheated on). So some women grow up empathize with men or hating other women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 01:15 PM |
| 7 | Her replies in the comments show the pick me behaviour. I am mad. She is teaching other women wrong ideasAccurate. When we “communicate” our feelings do they call it complaining. And when we don’t want to communicate and expect him to behave how he should, are we wrong because he didn’t know🤨 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 01:05 PM |
| 3 | How to spot LVM/NVM by the compliments they give youThe things I used to do for this needy guy is so sad. I got so mad after joining FDS. I was his therapist💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:14 AM |
| 4 | How to spot LVM/NVM by the compliments they give you“You call me down-nobody can do that”. Where is his mom? Is he a child?💀 This is how teenagers speak | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 02:12 AM |
| 37 | How are women meant to feel safe when a woman disappears from a city in a well lit area?Telling the readers:” It could have been worse! London is not that bad.” Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:34 AM |
| 8 | Article on Vice about FDS is laughably inaccurateSounds like “When a man tells you to shut up, shut up.” She:” As I should”☺️ 🤢🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 01:14 AM |
| 7 | He cheated and she still got married to him and had his children.Bet he suggested the title | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 04:10 PM |
| 3 | Twirling for the patriarchy. More in commentsSo she is the Madonna in the house while her lvm husband cheats I guess. I would have trowed myself from a rock byeeeee | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 04:06 PM |
| 27 | Found in another sub; shining example of the audacity of men and the ties between fundamentalist religion and the patriarchy.So he made another woman pregnant and gets mad when she won’t share information with him anymore? Sis, you did a good job but you shouldn’t have to given this guy another chance. Please divorce this backwards manchild | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 01:15 PM |
| 3 | NVM afraid to be judged like he judges single moms, cry me a river. The *last* interaction I will ever have OLD, 7 months clean and a much, much happier life without it!Hahahaha he is butthurt awhhhh . Why can women not have preferences? It seems like only men can have them. Poor scrote🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 04:52 AM |
| 6 | Ex LVM tries to use me as his theraphistThis gives me “I am not like the other girls” vibe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/02/21 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Friendly reminder before the 14thShe is so cute❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:41 AM |
| 3 | Comments full of women saying "just communicate" and "that's toxic"😭 Some really say:” Yeah, so what if my bf looks at other women their butt? I would say yes babe that butt is fine.” 🧢 I get mad on men bc of this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 02:39 AM |
| 4 | Ah yes, my mission in life.Looooooooooooooool🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀 HAHA Nah I can’t believe it🤣💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:38 PM |
| 8 | Author of “Cannibalism Play” Cosmo Article Responds.The world is getting crazier. First giving pedophiles a voice in The Netherlands and now this? What’s next? I want to live on another planet asap🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 08:24 PM |
| 21 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣I call them toddlers | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:15 AM |
| 30 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.It can be deeper then you think. He maybe wanted you to cut off your friend. Some men like their woman to be theirs only. It sounds evil, but I heard a lot of stories like these. Some make stories up to cause problems in friendships. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:02 AM |
| 42 | Literally every guy I meet that I’m nice too thinks this. It’s why they hate women who are snarky. Unkind women are the worst thing on the planet according to them.That is so true. A girl I know had the single status on Facebook. One guy messaged her and asked her if she wanted to start something with him. She then said no. She told him that she wasn’t interested. He then became mad and said:” Then why do you let us men know you’re single? You invite men to message you.” 🤣🤡 I never laughed so hard💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 11:57 PM |
| 11 | Being single is not an insultShe spoke facts😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/02/21 05:35 PM |
| 5 | 3 lessons I learned from my dad's two mail-order brides.These women are genius HAHA! They did what they needed to do. They knew what they were getting into. But hey, if you can benefit from it why not? A passport, money and a house. That is a whole strategy🤣❤️. The worst thing you can do to a narcissist is making them think that you used them. And that ladies, is what they deserve lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/02/21 10:16 AM |
| 15 | Encountering men who overshare: RUN, SIS.The guy I was dating knew that I wasn’t an open person. So the moment I wanted to share an issue, did he say:” Finally, you share something with me”. I felt weird. Why would someone say that? And of course, I did not share my info. I shared an issue where I was dealing with those days. He then said:” You don’t trust me”. I found later on out that he had narcissistic traits. He just tried to get my info to use it against me🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 11:25 AM |
| 30 | Your presence is a present 🎁Why buy a ps5 for them if they appreciate you if you buy them simple socks💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:52 AM |
| 21 | Your presence is a present 🎁She is a whole mood😂💀❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:50 AM |
| 20 | This is one of reasons why FDS is successfulEspecially the part where they try to tell us how we should think. They try to tell us that they want the best for us. But at the same time do they see us as dumb individuals. And when you refuse to follow their opinion, are you difficult? It doesn’t make sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/21 10:47 AM |
| 52 | These trash ass menA gorgeous woman I know was married to a guy. She was was basically A MODEL. She got all the attention. And trust me you all would her a beauty! Her lvm ex husband physically abused her and cheated on her. And she became insecure by him. I hate this guy till this day | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 09:01 PM |
| 7 | This is what a real man is aboutThis message is excellent!! Thank you for sharing❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 08:54 PM |
| 32 | I'll believe "not all men are like that" when I see more men actually standing up to other men when they see women being treated like shitThey become “legally blind” Same guys that call themselves “the nice guy”. Can you back off, clown🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 03:51 AM |
| 8 | The average male redditor starter packDo you know the ones that complain about women being catfishes by wearing too much make-up? Their beard is a whole catfish🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/21 03:47 AM |
| 62 | What LVM really mean when they say...One guy said that I deserved better. And I replied with thanks for letting me know. I will listen to your advice. You know what he said💀 He said:” No no no that was not what I meant. Don’t do this to me.”🤣They are hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 08:37 PM |
| 83 | Men casually admitting that they are willing to lie about their intentions just to get sex. Nothing surprising...Sexual frustration? This guy sounds like a rapist🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/01/21 08:54 PM |
| 45 | One guy said:” I wouldn’t have answered it. That was dry.” So what was she supposed to do? Add an emoji?🤨She just matched his energy | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 09:37 PM |
| 8 | Patron saint of women who don’t want to talk to you on public transitI had this days ago. I was waiting for the bus. A busdriver had his break and his bus was near me waiting at the bus stop. He litterly opened the back door and offered me to go inside the bus to let me wait for my bus. Mind you the bus stop was busy and he made the situation so awkward. I don’t believe in his kindness. A man know what to do and what to say to make a woman comfortable. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 04:12 PM |
| 15 | I swear most men aged 20-30 are power obssesed and it's creepy.I remember a moment were my sister had an issue with parking her car. A man saw her struggle and he first had a mocking smile on his face. And he said:” Let me help you. I will park the car for you”. Excuse me? He could’ve give some directions. But asking her to park her car is too much? And my sister said immediatly no ofcourse. Why do some men think that they are better than us in parking a car? It doesn’t make sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/01/21 08:15 AM |
| 6 | Forgive yourself if you can't follow FDS principles perfectly. It's okay to slip up as long as you recognize your mistakes and you vow to do better next time.May I ask, how do you quote what OP said? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/01/21 07:58 AM |
| 6 | Don't take the bait if a scrote from your past contacts you. They are only contacting you for nefarious and selfish reasons.These photography guys are most of the time amateurs. He just wants validation and praise from you to compliment his photography ig “achievement” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 01:59 AM |
| 3 | Don't take the bait if a scrote from your past contacts you. They are only contacting you for nefarious and selfish reasons.😂😂😂 good job queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/21 01:52 AM |
| 5 | Call 1-800- unpicked today🤣🤣🤣🤣 this made my day! Hilarious!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/01/21 06:46 PM |
| 54 | Comeback queen🤣😂 Or why you so sensitive? Are you not a man? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 06:41 PM |
| 24 | Bets on how many times she told him not to drag dirt in after she mopped? And ofc hes upset that she didnt immediately praise him for doing the bare minimum and "letting her sleep in"... Sure her outburst was mean but it sounds like pent up frustration to me wonder which parts he left out 🤔So if it is the other way around is she horrible? But if he would have done this, was it her obligation to communicate with him? This man is a whole joke. He is definitely a gamer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:27 PM |
| 5 | Take a wild guess as to why he suddenly sprung this on her...He was never physically attracted to her? Lies men tell. She is gorgeous!!!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 01:18 PM |
| 9 | He didn’t wanna get a giftThe “you’ll find better than me” phrase is manipulative. They say this to use it against you. Sounds weird but they will make excuses that they were on their lowest point of life. The goal they have is to make you empathise with their “feelings”. And want you to take them back into you life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 09:27 AM |
| 17 | It was bad from the start yet I still was not ready for the initials tattoo 😬😬I wonder who the therapist is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 07:09 PM |
| 9 | I occasionally get messages from male lurkers asking for dating advice. I seldom respond because when I do, the conversation typically goes something like this:Ah we got the needy guy over here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 03:08 PM |
| -2 | Witnessed NVM behavior at grocery storeWas it necessary to mention her race? You could just have said: a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 08:03 AM |
| 2 | Witnessed NVM behavior at grocery storeI’ve seen some discriminated comments towards Islam. If someone dislikes a religion than she can do so. But they still need to respect the religion. I like this sub but this is the only issue I have with this sub. So discrimination and racism is seen here. I hope that the mods agree on this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 07:53 AM |
| 92 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.🤣🤣 You’re hilarious | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 08:06 PM |
| 26 | LVM antics spotted on a dating app subreddit.Same sis!. But that is the trick. They want you to believe that. They are the most insecure creatures ever. You are beautiful do not forget that!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 08:04 PM |
| 86 | LVM antics spotted on a dating app subreddit.People like him do not compliment their gf. They believe that complimenting their girlfriend would make their SO leave them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 07:14 PM |
| 11 | Who's the aggressor they're scared of tho? Someone brought that up and someone else claimed "that's irrelevant" 🙄-Men do not get catcalled -Men do not get raped on the streets -Men do not carry pepperspray to protect themselves -Men do not harass other men -Men do not need to worry to be kidnapped (sex-trafficking) etc. The only place were men get raped is in prison. This individual got clearly no idea of what difficulties women face. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/21 12:23 AM |
| 5 | Being in you 20’s should be about self development, your eduction and to lay the foundation for financial independenceYes! Education first as they say😂❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 07:59 AM |
| 7 | Being in you 20’s should be about self development, your eduction and to lay the foundation for financial independenceOhh I didn’t see that poll! So our generation is gonna make a change hopefully :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 07:58 AM |
| 26 | Being in you 20’s should be about self development, your eduction and to lay the foundation for financial independenceI am 23 too :) Nice to see people from my age on this sub! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/01/21 12:26 AM |
| 39 | Being in you 20’s should be about self development, your eduction and to lay the foundation for financial independenceYes, this is accurate. To get a man is easy. To find a HVM can be difficult. We should not loose hope. Better to settle late in life with a HVM than to settle early on with a NVM or LVM. Self improvement and focusing on yourself is way more better than to focus on a man. Especially in your 20’s. When I speak to relatives or friends do they ask me: “And did you meet someone yet.” The moments I say no and mention that I am focusing on my study are they impressed. But I want them actually to ask me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 08:13 PM |
| 39 | Just realized resting b face is a misogynistic termWorst of all they say is: “Well, we approach women that smile or seem to be kind. We don’t like women with RBF” You think that I go outside to please men? To get your attention? Do these scrotes seem happy when we see them outside? No ofc not🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:57 AM |
| 58 | And then they proceed to tell the woman to 'smile more'Loool good way to test them sis! We need to use the same energy they use against us. Good way to test them actually | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:01 AM |
| 22 | Interpreting men's social media useThose toddlers are never satisfied. I feel sorry for the women that deal with these men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/01/21 09:59 PM |
| 16 | Time traveler??Ask them for hand pictures. You can see from someone’s hand how old he/she is. A man claimed to be 30. So I then pointed out the fact that his hands were not matching his age. Mind you this man was actually 50 and I was 18. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/01/21 10:50 PM |
| 7 | Beware of manipulation, ladiesHe looks 30+ when is he growing up? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/01/21 08:17 PM |
| 137 | Men respond better to silence vs cOmMuNicAtIonI once sounded enthusiastic when a guy told me he wasn’t interested anymore. So he became mad and mean. He later said that he didn’t like the fact that I was behaving enthusiastic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 10:02 AM |
| 17 | Thought you ladies might like this. Men mad that women are focusing on themselves instead of men.Is it not sad that scrotes can’t stay single and improve their lifes? They need to clean their room and wash their socks and leave fds alone💀🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/01/21 12:07 AM |
| 5 | I love the “Here’s my hand with my new ring I bought myself” pics. This is my “here’s my hand with the keys to my new house I bought myself!” pic. Resolve to evolve, sis! Here’s to our new year!Congratulations!!!!! Proud of you!!!🎉🎉🎉❤️❤️❤️❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 10:34 PM |
| 7 | The final boss PickmeishaYou’re hilarious loooool This sub makes me laugh always😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/12/20 08:27 PM |
| 3 | They can’t even be bothered to pretend to make an effort. I set my preferences to 200 characters min for 1st messages to avoid meaningless “hey”s, and this is what I get sent - oh, & this loser claims to have a master’s degree in his profile.Hahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 11:16 AM |
| 16 | LVM letting his family harass his girlfriend and then says they were just jokingThis is bullying! She told him several times that she didn’t like it. Is this guy a toddler? His cousin called him out and he still can not see what he did? I hope she leaves him. This is not the one🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/12/20 09:56 AM |
| 10 | If you take nothing else from FDS, take thisProud of you!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 09:22 PM |
| 8 | I'm juat gonna leave this hereHe shows some superior behaviour🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/12/20 06:20 PM |
| 81 | Be THAT KIND of direct, lol!Loooooool I would’ve burst into laughing but everybody is sleeping | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 10:39 PM |
| 29 | Abusive men are attracted vulnerability 😨They also complain about how much they’ve spent on their SO or the household (if they spent money). Like why would they bring up this during an argument? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 09:24 PM |
| 9 | An appreciation meme for all the relentless work that FDS mods do to keep unwanted comments from such people at bay. You're the real MVP.Much appreciated!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 04:41 PM |
| 10 | Breaking things = domestic abuse. It’s physical intimidation that counts as DV.The audacity he had | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 06:17 PM |
| 5 | Let's sing a song: WOMEN🎶ARE🎶NOT🎶YOUR🎶THERAPISTS.Genius haha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/11/20 01:02 PM |
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