I'm juat gonna leave this here

MadamLeFay · 2020-12-19T15:45:28+00:00

Rescheduling is "bad behavior" that must be "punished"??? Who does this dingaling think he is? He can stay by himself with his bald head, skinny ass and two-for-one Applebees coupon.

19Bubbles98 · 2020-12-19T15:35:41+00:00

So he is basically saying treat her like shit if she doesn't act accordingly?

seekindivid · 2020-12-19T15:52:25+00:00

A guy got huffy with me because I cancelled our date (I’m sick) and also our pre-date video chat (I’M SICK). He said he thought of it as me double cancelling.

Ok, be double cancelled, then.

WatermelonSugar47 · 2020-12-19T15:37:32+00:00

"How dare a woman put anything above your dating relationship, and also treat her like a child or a dog until you get submission."

Suspicious-Leg-1407 · 2020-12-19T15:34:17+00:00

shrug it's great that LVM's record themselves. It's like wildlife submitting their own videos to Nat Geo.

He's just looking for low-value pussy. He can have it.

Wtfpwned69 · 2020-12-19T15:54:39+00:00

He is an incel. All his videos are so bad

souredskittles · 2020-12-19T15:40:27+00:00

If she rejects the first meet up my dude should move on, she doesn’t like you. (Esp with that low value date) instead they try to manipulate you with this bs.

I can’t really see his stupid advice even work on pickmes.

2020-12-19T17:35:02+00:00

He's so ugly and tiny lol. Why is always the ugly ones who talk the most?

Espionagess · 2020-12-19T15:51:19+00:00

I'm so glad for FDS, this wouldn't work on any of us. Doesn't gets what he wants so he starts insulting you and insinuating you need to pay to take him out? He would be immediately blocked.

For good reason too, if his mindset right from the get go is to "punish" women with the goal of trying to manipulate their behaviour into something he wants to see, then he is 100% going to be extremely controlling and abusive. From the start his goal is to mould her behaviour, this is 100 red flags.

gutsandgorey · 2020-12-19T16:11:48+00:00

Lol ok bye then. Men really think they're the prize.

thrway01010 · 2020-12-19T16:47:35+00:00

It sounds like he's talking about training a dog. Disgusting man.

CountingDownTheDays5 · 2020-12-19T17:32:08+00:00

Woman: something came out of my control can we please reschedule (a family member died from roni)

Man: I shall punish you that'll make you learn

Woman: BLOCKT

Man: Why would she block me, me not understand. Me followed the rules of other single man who has nobody. Me sad and lonely again

2020-12-19T16:11:38+00:00

???

She's probably going out with him because she feels bad, in the first place.

He's shooting himself in the foot. Hard.

chatrebelle · 2020-12-19T18:24:24+00:00

Is he trying to Pavlov condition women? Jesus christ.

Imagine saying yes to that? If the guy hit me with: Well since you want to reschedule, you will have to pay for everything. I would laugh in his face and block him.

Also, the fact that he consider a rain-check to be "bad behavior" sounds more like this : I dont accept that you have a life outside of me, therefore you have to see me when I want. I have zero respect for your boundaries, and I am essentially a selfish prick.

QQueenie · 2020-12-19T17:53:46+00:00

My favorite thing in the world is unmatching immediately when guys shit test me. Byyyeeeee!

Aocwannabe · 2020-12-19T15:58:20+00:00

I actually relate to the irritation over “flaky” behavior. (I live in California and I’ve even had to explain to “friends” how unacceptable it is.). That being said, his response is RIDICULOUS.

2020-12-19T15:32:42+00:00

Sorry for the format. I didn't knew how to save a video found on reddit&i just noticed a typo I made in the title🤦🏿‍♀️

LevelTurbulent · 2020-12-19T19:57:19+00:00

What woman would ever agree to go on a punishment date? I don't believe this works for him.

KitKat1705 · 2020-12-19T18:02:47+00:00

I wish a motherfucker would. It will be the last thing he can send to me ever.

IgetUsernameScraps · 2020-12-19T21:03:12+00:00

“Don’t reinforce bad behavior with positive treatment.”

Exactly. Girls, don’t date or have sex with these assholes.

balladwilds · 2020-12-19T17:12:07+00:00

as if she would even wanna go on another date w this bum 🤣

eluriaeve · 2020-12-19T19:29:09+00:00

I’m pretty positive this same guy has videos of how to manipulate a woman into sleeping with you.

BlackWidow960 · 2020-12-19T19:39:36+00:00

AND yet when a boy (cause they ain’t men!) cancels on a woman or wants to reschedule last minute on a woman to hang with the boys, they then want a woman to happily accept it and wait on them for another date 🙄

Splatzy19 · 2020-12-19T21:05:13+00:00

His approach to 'bad behaviour' (in his opinion, not mine) is to create a punishment which takes away women's dignity and creates a situation of abuse conditioning and control. FDS approach is to block and delete when bad behaviour happens and let these clowns go on their merry ways. How are we the bad guys again?

devoushka · 2020-12-20T00:59:05+00:00

I know this entitled milk dud did not just say rescheduling is "bad behavior". Okay, how about I just ghost you instead lmao

overthinker4444 · 2020-12-19T18:20:14+00:00

He shows some superior behaviour🤢

VanessaViews · 2020-12-19T23:50:10+00:00

Lmao like he actually had a dinner date originally planned. He looks like a guy that suggests a walk as a first date

TheSuspiciousChard · 2020-12-19T19:41:51+00:00

This is so delusional, like anyone was interested in you anyway you dipshit

berned-out · 2020-12-20T03:13:22+00:00

Yikes I bet he's fun at parties with that tweaker pimp vibe he's got going.

Jessicajf7 · 2020-12-20T05:31:58+00:00

I am not a dog. If you come at me like that, I'm done. You can't change me, just like I can't change someone else. Showed my daughter, told her, if a man ever treats her like that, block and delete.

honeybeeroll · 2020-12-20T06:26:49+00:00

Wtf kinds PUA bs is this? These guys really think they're going to score by insulting someone? These dudes must have no fucking game lol. Nearly all the men I've gone on a date w/ have been LVM, but even they knew how to be very charming. Like. It is not hard to respond to this in a way where if she's legit rescheduling, the man keeps himself available, and if she's "rescheduling" cuz she doesn't want to do the date, then okay, she doesn't respond and no lasting harm done to him. Like??? Why tf would you be snarky with someone you're trying to date or have sex w/......lvm logic indeed lol

ZoyaPaul · 2020-12-19T17:14:35+00:00

He is Myron Gaines, loser red pill guy who teaches LVM to manipulate women through OLD. He comes on Donovan Sharpes show.

Carrot_Light · 2020-12-19T18:38:23+00:00

He probably thinks he’s Pavlov training ‘bitches’ .. Male dating strategy isn’t looking to protect themselves, it’s them trying to get the submission they think they deserve

sunologie · 2020-12-19T19:34:20+00:00

Lmaooo the way if some man said that to me I wouldn’t respond and would just block 💀💀 that’s what some psycho would say, huge red flag.

papanezismysaviour · 2020-12-19T22:01:55+00:00

or the woman could just move on to another one of the many men that ask her out

Example-Opposite · 2020-12-20T00:35:27+00:00

Woah, this has my ex written all over it. He claimed he could ‘no longer wait for me’ when I had to cancel on him several times to meet with my grad school advisor... he made me feel like shit over that. Now I can see how much of a NVM he really was, trying to pin that shit on me. Sorry, not sorry, my education is more important than you scrotes.

poison_snacc · 2020-12-20T00:44:01+00:00

Yeah like I’d even bother to reschedule with this trollface

waddamelone · 2020-12-20T01:05:20+00:00

So women are little kids that need to be disciplined now? What in the living fu-...

Cool-Fill9819 · 2020-12-20T06:38:42+00:00

Why are men always giving advice on behalf of women. That's what I can not stand! Like who are you? Certainly not a woman. So shut up! They really out here thinking they know the ins and outs of everything. No wonder relationships and marriage are declining worldwide. They are the problem, not women.

They just don't get it.

saxxha · 2020-12-19T19:30:17+00:00

Not them talking about women as if we’re animals who need to be trained... Anyway... NEXT

viell · 2020-12-19T21:48:44+00:00

Ofc positive and negative reinforcement for women as if they were dogs, OMG he is SUCH a catch!

MACMUA · 2020-12-20T05:04:41+00:00

I would never even consider going on a first date with this guy

pinkcloudzzz · 2020-12-20T06:49:17+00:00

I would laugh all the way to the block button

understatedalways · 2020-12-20T11:04:52+00:00

I wouldn’t even look twice at this dude. Bald. Sickeningly skinny. All the audacity. I’m sure treating women like dogs to be rewarded and punished will go well for him.

daisy_0720 · 2020-12-20T12:30:40+00:00

They're so desperate to believe women have no options. As if any woman wouldn't simply unmatch after a message like this and just schedule a date with one of the other 500 thirsty dudes that matched with her.

mirodus · 2020-12-20T08:13:49+00:00

Hahaha! Okay! Blocks

mirodus · 2020-12-20T08:15:34+00:00

Who is letting this mans run his mouth....?

swatir24 · 2020-12-20T09:26:02+00:00

That only works on dogs!

And why is he filming this on the streets?

VanessaViews · 2020-12-20T15:00:20+00:00

Showed this to my boyfriend and he said " has this guy ever actually been on a date before? Maybe girls talk to him and realize what a jerk he is and that's why they cancel"

lessadessa · 2020-12-20T12:44:50+00:00

Lol that creep thinks I’d even give him the time of day? Wow, keep dreaming buddy.

2020-12-20T13:20:38+00:00

What are we, dogs? 🙄

Descendant_of_Innana · 2020-12-20T14:44:29+00:00

English is not even my first language but since when is flaky=rescheduling? I thought flaky means not showing up. Wtf, hope he dies alone.

2020-12-20T19:35:15+00:00

Lmao I can’t believe he said “punish” just for a reschedule

MariaDolorosa · 2020-12-22T23:52:24+00:00

Jean-Ralphio’s life coach

Title	I'm juat gonna leave this here
Author	caramel_blondie
Upvotes	234
Comments	94
Date	December 19, 2020 3:30 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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