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perchrc/r/seduction13/08/11 04:44 PM
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perchrc/r/seduction08/10/11 01:50 PM
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perchrc/r/seduction20/08/11 03:35 AM
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perchrc/r/seduction12/12/11 06:03 PM
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perchrc/r/seduction20/07/11 04:20 PM
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This might not be too relevant, but I've had a similar thing with dating more than one girl at a time. It feels like cheating to me, or at least dishonest. But having more than one ball in the air at a time is a good idea for a number of reasons, and there really is nothing wrong about it.
/r/seduction10/10/15 11:15 AM
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Unlike what some other posters have said, I don't necessarily think it's your own fault that you're chubby. A lot of people don't watch what they eat and are still slim. Some people are definitely dealt much better cards than others in this life. This is something that you have to accept. It is also a fact that guys are more attracted to slim girls than chubby girls. However, just because you have to put in more effort than certain other people to stay in shape doesn't mean that you should give …
/r/seduction10/10/15 10:35 AM
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What is definitely true is that most people who get into pickup do it because they are insecure about themselves. Not that there's anything wrong with that. Here are some thoughts about the rest: It's normal and expected to act a bit different when you pick up girls than when you get into a relationship with someone. The most important part of pickup is self-improvement/inner game. These are not things you "put on" in social situations, they become a part of you. You can learn how to become a be…
/r/seduction04/12/11 05:48 PM
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I don't WANT that kind of relationship. I want to be with someone I AM super into. I know exactly how you feel. Half a year ago I met a girl I was really into too, and it was fantastic. My life, the world and everything in it suddenly made sense. I was madly in love with her. This didn't work out of course. When we broke up, she explained to me how "people want what they can't have". This made me feel like you do now. I want someone I'm really into too, and I absolutely refuse to settle for less…
/r/seduction28/08/11 04:16 PM
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Reflecting about what you should have done differently in hindsight is a good thing, even though it can make you regretful and bitter for a while. In fact, this is the only way to learn. You're doing everything right. Realize that this made you more experienced and that as long as you keep trying, success is right around the corner.
/r/seduction28/08/11 12:54 PM
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I actually think "no" and "no" mean the same thing I respectfully disagree. I've seen several threads about this particular question on seddit, and they all conclude with the same thing. What she says hardly matters at all, the actual communication is in how she says it and her body language. There were even women there who agreed. 10 nos and a yes means yes. David DeAngelo's book has a small chapter about persistence. Here's an excerpt: Persistence is key. Never give up… if a woman says, “We’re…
/r/seduction23/08/11 07:46 AM
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Good stuff, right? It's not really that hard to come up with pointless jobs. Try saying that you lick envelopes for a living or live on the street.
/r/seduction22/08/11 05:07 PM
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She probably won't come around. But that's okay. Almost everyone will have this experience several times during their life, including the guy she's chasing. It sucks. It really does. But the feelings always pass. I really do not want to admit it but I think you may be right about the mixed signal thing. Why is that? Because the mixed signals are making you unsure about whether you can get her or not. The harder it is to get something, the more we want it (for evolutionary reasons), and her being…
/r/seduction22/08/11 04:51 PM
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I've had more success with replying that I do something boring, like that I screw on the caps of toothpaste tubes in a factory. This works because it shows that you don't feel the need to brag about yourself, and it will lead her to believe that you actually do something interesting. And, the idea of an "interesting job" is better than the most interesting job in the world. Try it! or call her on it for being so gullible? I wouldn't do that, especially if you just met her. It would probably be b…
/r/seduction22/08/11 02:40 PM
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Tough break. I hate getting mixed signals, and I learned the hard way that giving mixed signals is a very powerful way to build attraction. You probably would have been less attracted to her if she had been all over you. It seems to me like you're not thinking straight at this point, so forgetting about her is probably the smart thing to do. See other girls, you'll meet someone else you like eventually. One-itis is generally no good and will make you miserable. Your confidence will plummet and i…
/r/seduction22/08/11 10:55 AM
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I partially agree, but be careful! As long as the girl has a healthy level of self esteem, isn't too drunk etc., I think pushing kino and kissing is fine. It's not a big deal. I did this once with a girl, and she rejected me with a smile every time I tried to kiss her. Eventually she gave in and we made out for a while. I dated her for a while after that. But, you should stop or at least slow down if you're getting actual negative responses, and like someone else said these should be easy to rec…
/r/seduction20/08/11 03:37 PM
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Thanks for taking time to comment. I read your post several times. The stuff about approaching girls as someone to talk to rather than someone to hook up with is right on the spot for me. I'm better than I used to be, but I still need to work on becoming more genuinely interested in other people. Like I said, give us some more examples and we can help some more. I couldn't really remember much from my conversations this night, but I tried to include some examples in my second field report.
/r/seduction20/08/11 11:41 AM
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Whops. It's repaired now.
/r/seduction20/08/11 11:23 AM
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I've gone out alone a couple of times, and while I agree with everything here, it's pretty tough. I've found that there are generally two problems: You have no social proof. It harder to look busy. Number 1 can probably be solved by becoming friends with or attract someone who's easily approachable first. Not sure about number 2, but bringing a book is one option that kinda worked for me once. Of course going out alone requires solid inner game, and I'll gladly admit that I barely have what it t…
/r/seduction19/08/11 06:49 PM
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Let's imagine that we lived in a world where your looks were the only thing that mattered when picking up girls. Realize that if this was the case, you would get laid all the time. The girls wouldn't be perfect tens though, they would be about as physical attractive as yourself. I believe most people would be okay with this. Looks matter in our world too. However, the way you act is more important. It's possible to learn to pick up girls that are much more attractive than yourself. So man up, an…
/r/seduction05/08/11 02:46 PM
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Kino and sexual interest attention? I haven't tried this (yet), but I think a better idea is to make friends with her/being nice (i.e., using material from How to Win Friends and Influence People). I've had some success with this approach, and I think it's the way to make her fully approve of you getting together with her girlfriend. :)
/r/seduction03/08/11 04:02 PM
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Norwegians and Dutch people are almost always fluent in English as well.
/r/seduction29/07/11 12:34 PM
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I feel that it's sort of a shit test too. (not sure if I'm using this term correctly) If you open with "Hi! do you speak english?", it's very easy for her to brush you off with a "no", even though she does. I've found that it's best not to open with that. It's better to just assume that she speaks english.
/r/seduction29/07/11 12:26 PM
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I think it's fake too. But hey, if he's extremely handsome etc., it could be legit.
/r/seduction29/07/11 11:49 AM
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When you have one-itis the girl will usually not reciprocate your feelings for her, because it causes you to act weak, insecure and needy. This would be the opposite of what women look for in men. It will prevent you from pursuing other women, and usually leave you heartbroken in the end.
/r/seduction28/07/11 07:44 PM
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Here's what I would do: next time you plan to go out with friends, text her "hey, I'm going out with some friends to bar X this friday, wanna come?" Hopefully she'll show up, and hopefully you brought someone interested in the friend so that she's free to talk to you. Experiment with the kino escalation ladder (see "additional links" in the sidebar). If everything goes well, make up some excuse for bringing her back to your place. Remember that if you don't escalate, you are rejecting her! Here'…
/r/seduction27/07/11 03:53 PM
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I decided I was going to some bars and pushing inappropriate kino until I got slapped I think I'm gonna do that too actually. I need to learn to escalate at the right pace.
/r/seduction23/07/11 02:29 PM
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Well, that's how I perceived it. I felt like I did all the work and that he was able to get her interest solely because he was my "friend". I'm a hundred percent sure that I could have avoided that somehow though, any other suggestions than just telling him to fuck off? Are you saying that the same thing could've happened with some complete stranger?
/r/seduction21/07/11 01:33 AM
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I think neediness is based off of negative thoughts. I second that. I think the root of neediness is the fear that you're not good enough for the other person. Needless to say, this is extremely unattractive and ruins all types of relationships. I've found that having other people that you trust in your life helps a great deal, especially female friends. Get some female friends. Also, if you feel needy, don't act on it. Ask yourself whether what you're about to do will make you appear needy. In …
/r/seduction01/06/11 09:33 AM
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I think it's very common to feel the way you feel. Accept that social interaction is extremely hard and realize that you need experience with it. That being your situation, don't you think it's better to try and fail than to not try at all? I for one believe that the people who are most successful in life are also the ones who have done the most mistakes. The next time you hear that negative voice in your head, tell it to shut up. Force yourself to think about something else. It worked for me. A…
/r/seduction30/05/11 04:03 PM
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Man, that's messed up. But it's also a fun story! I don't think you'll ever meet someone like that again. I mean, that was just mean and immature, that girl must've been super insecure.
/r/seduction19/05/11 09:21 AM
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