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| 17 | [FR] "You make me want to do things I've never done before."I'm sure I'm definitely not full alpha. 60% is a good measure and I'm always improving. Even if I "failed" that shit test, she came crawling back for more and more afterward. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 04:41 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "You make me want to do things I've never done before."I've had sex with girls on the first date enough to really not care. If she comes back she comes back, if not, there's always another. She came back and kept coming back. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 04:33 PM |
| 1 | [FR] "You make me want to do things I've never done before."I'm definitely aware of her "girl game." I read that post recently about this subject and made myself more aware and unaffected by it. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 04:27 PM |
| 101 | [FR] "You make me want to do things I've never done before."Whether she did or not doesn't matter to me. She's doing them with me. I'm getting great sex for zero dollars down. The point I'm trying to make is she's letting me have my way with her in a way that indicates to me my SMV is high enough. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/03/15 07:03 AM |
| 1 | How to "Fit In" with an Alpha GroupIf you're trying to break into a conversation at a party, wait until you have something to add. Don't say "hey guys what are you talking about?" Make yourself likeable by asking questions about others and being genuine. Even the most alpha male will love to talk about himself. Let him. He'll like you for it and keep you around. Read Dale Carnegie. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/15 03:10 AM |
| 4 | What is the source of the stigma against older men going for younger women?The sexual capital of older post-wall women has dropped immensely and they know it. That doesn't stop them from believing they are now entitled to a man of their age and of high stature. Of course, they also know they can't compete with the sweet tightness and youthful perk of their fertile younger versions. So, they have to somehow mess with the market to skew competition in their favor. Their two choices are to shame the hunter or shame the game. And since they used to be young CC riders in th… | /r/askTRP | 28/02/15 03:03 AM |
| 0 | What about "just calling her"?Yep, that makes the most sense. Won't leave a message either, but it will maybe get in her head a little bit. That's I think what I remember this post saying. | /r/askTRP | 25/02/15 06:53 PM |
| 8 | [FR] solo night, girls begging for drinks, eye contact and girls bringing up boyfriendsI've used "you get me beer and I'll get yours" a few times. We both end up with drinks and I've made it clear I'm not buying her shit without anything in return because "she's a woman at a bar." I've also flat out told girls I don't buy girls drinks at bars. When they get pissy and slap my shoulder and say, "whyyyyyuh?" I give them funny reasons like "my friend posts a snap of ever free drink she gets" and basically make them understand I'm onto their game. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/02/15 02:10 AM |
| 14 | 'Like a Girl,' or how biological differences between the sexes ought to be ignored.We are told not to tell boys to act "like a man" but are somehow encouraged to redefine acting "like a girl." | /r/TheRedPill | 02/02/15 05:16 AM |
| 3 | On coming out of Monk ModeYeah, I just feel tighter as a person, physically and mentally.. I was in good shape but now I'm really lifting and it's starting to be noticeable, and I'm more aligned with my career and passions, and have read some non-fiction too. Feeling this way helps with confidence and holding frame too. My game is tighter. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/02/15 03:29 AM |
| 4 | Re-watching The MatrixThis is almost exactly what I say to friends as I'm unplugging them. They eventually ask "wait so you're basically saying I'll be able to pick up chicks? How is this different than just r/seduction or whatever?" RP doesn't REALLY necessarily teach you how to pick up chicks, though game is part of it. It teaches you the right way to view yourself and view the world. It gives you the right perspective, a lens through which to view the decisions you will make in your life. So, my soon to be unplugg… | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/15 07:21 AM |
| 2 | [48 Days of Power] Full List For SidebarThe final post, "Assume Formlessness" is done! That will complete this. Thanks for putting this together. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/01/15 09:10 PM |
| 1 | [Video] Mark Rudov really gets it. I encourage you to watch the whole thing.Beginning approx 40:50 he begins to knock it out of the park about rape allegations and continues to talk about women needing to be responsible for their own sobriety. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 03:10 AM |
| 2 | [Video] Mark Rudov really gets it. I encourage you to watch the whole thing.I really enjoy listening to this guy. In the first speech from the long compilation, he said that women are more sexual than men, and then goes on to say why would you pay a woman to have sex when she wants it more than you do? I'm not sure I agree with the idea that women want sex more than we do. I believe there has been some discussion here about this. A man's mind thinks about sex uncountable times per day. It's our biological imperative. Women have no idea what it's like to desire sex like … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/12/14 02:39 AM |
| 15 | Top post on /r/AskReddit: What can you do that is NOT appearance based to make yourself more attractive? - Top comments are all TRP traits....Top answers are RP, and then one answer itself says not to listen to RP. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/12/14 10:21 PM |
| 118 | Wrapping the pill in humor. Thanks, OnionYou're so funny and smart and amazing, any girl but me would be lucky to date you. You'll find someone, I know it. More than anything, TRP helped me understand why girls said this sort of thing and why it bothered me so much. Because they want to ride the CC while you sit around and wait for them to hop off the final stallion, and have your sniveling beta ass waiting on the other side so they can Beta Bux you up. I was called "marriage material" a lot by girls, and now I find this to be the bigg… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/12/14 02:58 AM |
| 1 | [48 Day of Power] Day 31 - "Control the options: Get others to play with the cards you deal."Yeah, I know. People yell at me when I don't have a link, and then when I add the link it gets kicked off. Can't win 'em all! The mods were actually really good about letting the links through for a while, but recently it slowed down so I'm just going to have to remove them from the posts entirely. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/14 04:55 AM |
| 1 | [48 Days of Power] Full List For SidebarWow, thanks so much for doing this. Somehow I've only just noticed this. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/12/14 05:57 AM |
| 25 | [48 Days of Power] Day 16 - "Use absence to increase respect and honor."Transgression This one made a huge difference for me. Back in my BP days, my text game was sub-par. I'd ask my female friends for advice. "Text her back" or "don't make her wait" or "don't play games," they'd say. And I liked it because they are girls so they MUST know what it is they are looking for. And I didn't want to play games either. The result was: I looked far too eager and available. My opinion was "well come on, everyone has their phone all the time, not responding right away is just … | /r/TheRedPill | 30/11/14 05:22 PM |
| 3 | [48 Days of Power] Day 15 - "Crush your enemy totally."each post has the last day's post in them. Otherwise the list would just get too long every time. Day 10 had links to all previous days. You can also search [48 Days of Power] | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 09:46 PM |
| 15 | [48 Days of Power] Day 15 - "Crush your enemy totally."This is a really great point, and why cutting a girl out completely is really the best way to get over oneitis, or cutting out alcohol completely and not just "I'll only drink on the weekends." | /r/TheRedPill | 29/11/14 07:34 PM |
| 13 | [48 Days of Power] Day 14 - "Pose as a friend, work as a spy."From my experience, when people answer the question "how was your weekend?" they are likely to tell you something important. Maybe they saw a concert for a favorite artist. Maybe they worked on a personal project. Maybe they just needed time to relax. People are quick to talk about themselves, even when given a vague prompt. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/11/14 05:59 PM |
| 64 | [48 Days of Power] Day 5 - "So much depends on reputation - guard it with your life."Observance This is one of those laws I was lucky enough to figure out, without really calling it a "law of power," of course. In school I sat the front of the class, asked good questions, and participated well. I would build a positive reputation with the teacher. I was a good student who cared about class, was clearly learning, and was obviously putting the work in. That is all true and genuine, and did it because I wanted to. But then I figured out the power I had just given myself. When I nee… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/11/14 04:39 PM |
| 3 | [48 Days of Power] Day 4 - "Always say less than necessary."You got it. Glad you're enjoying it! | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 09:46 PM |
| 89 | [48 Days of Power] Day 4 - "Always say less than necessary."Transgression Back in college I was auditioning for something. It was going really, really well. The guy auditioning me was really enjoying himself and we were getting along just fine. At the end he thanked me for coming in with a big smile. I should have just thanked him and left. But no. For some reason I felt the need to explain to him how much I wanted the part, how it was something I've always wanted to do, and how much fun I think it will be. I rambled for a long, terrible minute and in th… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 04:39 PM |
| 2 | [48 Days of Power] Day 3 - "Conceal your intentions"There is also now r/the48lawsofpower for further discussion. I know some people may not be thrilled about the format, but I did make a post gauging interest and the reception was mostly positive that this would be a fun and helpful addition to our community. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 12:34 AM |
| 2 | [48 Days of Power] Day 3 - "Conceal your intentions"This was suggested by another user, but pretty soon there will be many many links on the post and I think it will be annoying. Every 8 days I will link back to the previous eight, so, six times you'll get a nice group of links. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 12:32 AM |
| 1 | [48 Days of Power] Day 3 - "Conceal your intentions"Yes, the response from the community was very positive. Additionally, it's fun to hear stories about the laws from real people, in our times, instead of just from historical figures. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 09:54 PM |
| 3 | [48 Days of Power] Day 3 - "Conceal your intentions"For pickup, I interpret this to be when there's a girl in a big group at a party or something. Don't forget to talk to the other girls and guys in the group. Build social proof. Be genuine with other people and they'll give you value. And she will begin to desire you because clearly you have importance and status. That doesn't mean don't flirt with her at all, but think push-pull. In this situation (and has worked from my experiences) not coming out guns blazing can actually be very helpful. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 06:08 PM |
| 5 | [48 Days of Power] Day 3 - "Conceal your intentions"The first story in this chapter is about a young man attempting to seduce a girl. There is much RP in that story, and it's from the 17th century. If you haven't read the book and are just enjoying these posts, see if you can find this story somewhere online - it's very relevant. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 04:47 PM |
| 1 | [48 Days of Power] Day 3 - "Conceal your intentions"The first story in this chapter is about a young man attempting to seduce a girl. There is much RP in that story, and it's from the 17th century. If you haven't read the book and are just enjoying these posts, see if you can find this story somewhere online - it's very relevant. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 04:37 PM |
| 3 | [48 Days of Power] Day 2 - "Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies."I thought about this and decided it's a little too much to type up. Sometimes the reversals are a paragraph, and sometimes much longer. Sometimes there's no reversal at all. I also don't want to be copying too much out of the book, as this is just a place to discuss. | /r/TheRedPill | 17/11/14 02:52 AM |
| 3 | [48 Days of Power] Day 2 - "Never put too much trust in friends, learn how to use enemies."Posting all the previous posts' links might end up being a little much. How about I post "yesterday's link" also? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 10:23 PM |
| 1 | 48 Laws of Power series - one power per day and discussion. Any interest?It's already begun! When it's all over it will be cool to have them archived for future reference. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 10:53 PM |
| 1 | [48 Days of Power] Day 1 - "Never Outshine The Master"Yeah...but hey, better than nothing. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 10:53 PM |
| 1 | [48 Days of Power] Day 1 - "Never Outshine The Master"This is actually what I thought the book was from the beginning. When I ordered it from Amazon and it arrived here, I couldn't believe how dense it was, compared to my expectations of a pocket guide. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 10:52 PM |
| 27 | [48 Days of Power] Day 1 - "Never Outshine The Master"Transgression It's simple and kinda silly, but I learned a lot from it. I'm a funny guy. I make jokes. A lot. So does one particular higher up in my department. I have a great relationship with him because he's a great guy, but I did notice one thing in particular - HE wants to be the funniest. Every once in a while, way way back, he'd fire off a joke, I'd fire off a joke back and get no response from him. It occurred to me that he's not looking for more jokes. He's looking for his joke to be la… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 08:16 PM |
| 11 | 48 Laws of Power series - one power per day and discussion. Any interest?How about [48DOP] ? Short for 48 days of power | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 05:34 AM |
| 15 | 48 Laws of Power series - one power per day and discussion. Any interest?No procrastination! Just want to time it right. First post will be Saturday morning. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 04:50 AM |
| 3 | 48 Laws of Power series - one power per day and discussion. Any interest?I'd love to do a dramatic read but...dat doxxing.... | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 04:25 AM |
| 13 | 48 Laws of Power series - one power per day and discussion. Any interest?Thanks. I'm definitely going to do it. Now...when to start. Tomorrow? Monday? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 03:37 AM |
| 2 | 48 Laws of Power series - one power per day and discussion. Any interest?I'd start them all with [48LOP] for this exact reason! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/11/14 03:34 AM |
| 1 | Stop being a validation machineThanks. I think I should be able to handle it. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/11/14 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Law 19: Know Who You’re Dealing with and do Not Offend the Wrong Person. (48 Laws of Power)I wouldn't mind having a 48-day campaign for them. Not sure if this the 100% right place, but it would be pretty cool. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 03:21 AM |
| 38 | Stop being a validation machineI would love to see a 48 day long campaign where each day we talk about and discuss each one of the 48 laws of power. I'm not sure if it's the right place here, but I see them brought up so often it might be cool. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 03:14 AM |
| 9 | Avoiding The Deer Hunter - An Orbiter's BaneGreat comment. We were trained to "just wait" because she will "eventually realize" that you're the "perfect guy for her." We were encouraged, probably by females, to let her ride the cock carousel and prove our devotion when she's gotten off the last horse on a pole and is dizzy from going around and around. So hearing back from a girl that she finally wanted us after so long was only validation of our waiting. Only confirmation that what we did was right. We thought "wow it was meant to be." U… | /r/TheRedPill | 11/11/14 02:23 AM |
| 1 | According to Chelsea Handler, it is now sexist for a woman to not be able to post a topless photo of herself on the internet when Vladmir Putin can. I hope this is a joke.I agree with you completely. The whole thing stinks of PR stunt. But some of its tenets rubbed me the wrong way and wanted to share. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 07:30 PM |
| 13 | MTV show "Friendzone" is full of RP truth for a five-year orbiter [from r/cringe]I think we'd all love to hear more about your experiences in this! | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 05:06 AM |
| 19 | MTV show "Friendzone" is full of RP truth for a five-year orbiter [from r/cringe]I have friends who have been married for decades who say "do whatever your wife wants and you'll be happy." This is what's considered "normal" and upsets me when I look at it with any rationality at all. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/10/14 12:00 AM |
| 14 | MTV show "Friendzone" is full of RP truth for a five-year orbiter [from r/cringe]It does. It's really fun to see how far you can push the envelope too. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 10:28 PM |
| 28 | MTV show "Friendzone" is full of RP truth for a five-year orbiter [from r/cringe]Mom has known...for five years.... | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 10:14 PM |
| 116 | MTV show "Friendzone" is full of RP truth for a five-year orbiter [from r/cringe]This has stuck with me. I noticed that too in the video. This is why I always say inappropriate shit when I'm meeting new girls - I want to gauge how they are interpreting my presence. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 10:11 PM |
| 4 | MTV show "Friendzone" is full of RP truth for a five-year orbiter [from r/cringe]Yes. I kept thinking to myself how she's giving him advice to talk to "the girl" and knowing that as soon as she realizes that SHE'S the girl, none of it will matter. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/10/14 10:03 PM |
| 16 | 26 years old and just found out my dad isn’t my real dad. Real dad was getaway driver for a murder, and mom pursued him while he was in jail.Check out the sidebar but in short - you know what's it's like when hamster runs in place in that it the wheel? Doing a lot of work but going nowhere? Among a few other uses, that's the metaphor for when women are processing their completely irrational behaviors and trying to come up with logical reasons. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/09/14 01:06 AM |
| 5 | RP advice you've gotten from the opposite sex?I liked a girl once in college. It was obvious. Her best friend told me "she knows you like her again. Just ignore her and she'll want your attention." So I did. Focused on myself for a week or two. It worked. She came crawling to me like SHE was the one with the crush. But by then I had already started something else with a different girl. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/08/14 01:12 AM |
| 8 | Blue Pill / Red Pill Thought PatternsBP: Met a girl who seems to be flirting with me. She says she has a boyfriend. Abort! I can't do that to another guy. He's probably a good guy who doesn't deserve to be cheated on. RP: oh she says she has a boyfriend? And she's flirting with me? She's probably going to cheat on her beta bux anyway, may as well be with me. It's not my responsibility to make sure some other guy's girlfriend is loyal. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/08/14 08:36 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Tinder Plate sends me nudes, day later asks to be old fashion then smash even harder. Doesn't even surprise me anymore. Hold your frame.A family friend had this when I was in middle school. He and his wife had decided they wanted one more kid. After the surgery he described his testicles and looking like two rotten avocados | /r/TheRedPill | 06/08/14 04:14 PM |
| 1 | "It's not a compliment. It's harassment."Yep, sorry should have done that instead. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/07/14 05:37 AM |
| 79 | Highly upvoted post in the EMSK subreddit - batteries included, as well as straw men, pedestaling, explaining what love is, emotional abuse, torture. But wait, there's more: "A healthy human being doesn't use sexual strategy."women are people too Yes. They are. Which is why I don't put them on a pedestal. Which is why they aren't entitled to special treatment because they are the "gatekeepers" of sex. Which is why when they are hamstering or acting silly, I call them out on it. I feel like the author uses "woman are people too" to advance an agenda of treating them differently. Seems a little backwards. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/06/14 07:12 PM |
| 12 | Response to being accused of being red pill..A friend of mine was recently friendzoned by a date. He was pretty confused and frustrated about it so I told him I had something for him to read he might enjoy/relate to. I sent him Michael's Story and I think he might be going down the rabbit hole. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/06/14 11:26 PM |
| 7 | On being "marriage material."I'll do my best to explain. Kinda turned into a ramble, but maybe you'll take something away. Nothing to do with my career choice or anything. I think it was my personality. I think in some cases I put women on a pedestal (beta behavior) growing up. Probably many cases. Growing up, middle school, high school, I was always the life of the party, girls had crushes on me, I was confident, bright future, etc. I've just been told my whole life I'm a "good guy," or "the full package." I got this one a… | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 06:01 AM |
| 3 | On being "marriage material."Do you mean how "marriage material" becomes a thing, or how RP becomes a thing? Not sure which you're asking for, though happy to answer! | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/14 05:23 AM |
| 2 | Preselection on easy mode.What were some of your results? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/14 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Keeping a plate a plate?This is good. I'm only guilty of the first one - she spent the night. The first time she came over she took a cab home (work the next day) but the second time she stayed. She knew I had somewhere to be the next morning though so she showed herself out when I was getting ready. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/06/14 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Keeping a plate a plate?That...that makes perfect sense. Thanks! | /r/TheRedPill | 21/06/14 11:19 PM |
| 2 | A Red Pill truth unfolded before my eyesI left out many of the details of the story for anonymity's sake | /r/TheRedPill | 13/06/14 03:13 AM |
| 4 | Conversation at my work. When I said something, the response was laughter and "do you ever want to get married?"Of course I apologize when I'm wrong. The people I was talking to, well, we BS a lot and these sorts of statements/jokes are commonplace. Platitudes, off colors stuff, it's all in good fun. It just hit me hard that as soon as I joked about this it was "time to educate me about marriage." | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/14 07:33 AM |
| 1 | The converse of "Promiscuous women are sluts and promiscuous men are studs."If you don't mind me asking, what's your number and how old are you? | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/14 02:17 AM |
| 7 | Conversation at my work. When I said something, the response was laughter and "do you ever want to get married?"No that's fair, I would never usually. But these coworkers are known for saying pretty off color stuff and we joke around all the time. I elaborated on this thought below in another comment | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/14 02:08 AM |
| 2 | Conversation at my work. When I said something, the response was laughter and "do you ever want to get married?"It's true it's a "bad thing to say" but these coworkers are notorious for saying very off color and inappropriate stuff. It was largely a joke amongst jokesters (we had been joking a lot) but all of a sudden that comment made them chuckle and laugh at my "naivete" | /r/TheRedPill | 06/06/14 02:07 AM |
| 2 | Any of you ever been the "Alpha Fucks" part of "Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks?" How did it start, where did it go, did the BB find out? Were you a homewrecker? I'd love to hear about your experiences.It's honestly blowing my mind. I guess that's why they call it the Red Pill. It's incredible how many girls do this without even batting an eye. And they are right - their boyfriend may never no, or will never know, and from their perspective the relationship is just fine. If these girls are going to be doing it with someone, maybe I could be that guy. I'm not in a relationship now, but eventually if I'm in one, this sort of stuff does make me a little weird. Looks like the best way to keep her … | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 04:43 PM |
| 8 | Any of you ever been the "Alpha Fucks" part of "Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks?" How did it start, where did it go, did the BB find out? Were you a homewrecker? I'd love to hear about your experiences.Then mentions her mother is coming down around from overseas for her marriage in 3 days time. My mouth actually dropped open agape at this line. I was about to say I can't believe a woman would fuck someone 3 days before her WEDDING, but now that I've taken TRP I think I CAN believe it. They can get away with this stuff as long as no one ever knows. I wonder if it happens more than we even know. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 06:43 AM |
| 4 | Any of you ever been the "Alpha Fucks" part of "Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks?" How did it start, where did it go, did the BB find out? Were you a homewrecker? I'd love to hear about your experiences.Absolutely. I'll never do it. Especially not one of my best friends. If she ever indicated something like that to me I'd go to him an have a frank conversation. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 06:38 AM |
| 5 | Any of you ever been the "Alpha Fucks" part of "Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks?" How did it start, where did it go, did the BB find out? Were you a homewrecker? I'd love to hear about your experiences.I've been a staunch believer in if I meet a girl somewhere who has a boyfriend (who isn't there), even if she's showing me interest, that I won't do anything. I just don't want to be "that guy." But I'm starting to see this a little differently, as I've been on TRP for a month now. It's entirely possible these girls still feel whatever emotional/societal devotion to these boyfriends, but they just want a little bit of strange D. And if they are going to get it from someone, why not me? I haven't… | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 05:43 AM |
| 7 | Any of you ever been the "Alpha Fucks" part of "Alpha Fucks Beta Bucks?" How did it start, where did it go, did the BB find out? Were you a homewrecker? I'd love to hear about your experiences.Thanks for the stories! Do you not feel guilty about doing this, especially to your friends? Or is it a "doesn't matter, had sex" mindset? | /r/TheRedPill | 05/06/14 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Strategies for going out solo?At least it gives something to do while going out alone. My issue with going out alone is not having any "business" to be occupied with. | /r/trpGAME | 29/05/14 09:43 PM |
| 3 | Strategies for going out solo?This is actually a very interesting experiment. I'm quite curious to see what kind of people would sit down. | /r/trpGAME | 29/05/14 08:22 PM |
| 1 | SMV of a musician and perhaps my own frustration with it.Great! You don't even have to use all the time allotted. The main victory is just getting up there. Once you're up there, forget about everything else and just play your song. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 11:53 PM |
| 3 | SMV of a musician and perhaps my own frustration with it.I'm decent enough at game to be able to #-close or k-close, or sometimes f-close (sorry to use seddit language, not sure if that's ok here). But the time/effort it takes for that is just ridiculous compared to the ol' music strategy, and the girls are rarely worth the effort. That's the dissonance I've been having, so I just stopped caring. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 11:51 PM |
| 3 | SMV of a musician and perhaps my own frustration with it.Good luck my friend. Focus on playing a great show, #1. The rest will follow if you want it. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 11:48 PM |
| 2 | SMV of a musician and perhaps my own frustration with it.there are no amount of words that can convey the time and dedication you show to your craft This. I don't like saying "oh yeah, I play piano and have been for almost twenty years" and then they say "so you must be really good at it then!" and now I just feel like an braggy asswipe. when i'm not. I don't think so, at least. I didn't start taking piano lessons because it would get me girls. I was a little kid and liked it and practiced every day. It just happens to be a nice by-product. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 11:41 PM |
| 2 | SMV of a musician and perhaps my own frustration with it.The feeling of being up there is the best. I have been so inspired by other music and musicians and I want to be that for new audiences. That's why I love being up there and entertaining - providing a great experience that's moving. Get into the spotlight! Find a local open mic and everyone is pretty shitty anyway. You'll have 8 minutes or so all to yourself, and you never know who there will like your style and want to collaborate or if the cute/weird singer-songwriter chick will dig you. I hav… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 11:38 PM |
| 1 | SMV of a musician and perhaps my own frustration with it.Makes you more interesting without investing time into conversation and having to express yourself through words. This is pretty much it. To me, most girls aren't necessarily "worth the effort" of game, conversation, texting here and there. However, if I don't have to put much work into it, then that's a different story. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 06:49 PM |
| 1 | SMV of a musician and perhaps my own frustration with it.it's like im playing with a handicap. This is a great way to put it I think, at least, a great way to put how I feel. It's frustrating to think that the girls would have a completely different reaction much more quickly if we were in a different environment. I started feeling this way before discovering TRP and this has helped put words to the thoughts. So I end up thinking "why bother trying in this bar when if I were playing music it would be effortless?" That's kinda where I am now. Sometimes… | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 05:24 PM |
| 11 | SMV of a musician and perhaps my own frustration with it.This is actually a great point, thanks. Putting yourself in the best place seems like the obvious strategy as opposed to some sort of cheat to the game. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 05:56 AM |
| 4 | SMV of a musician and perhaps my own frustration with it.I'm "classically trained" but now I tend to play rock, jazz, indie rock, ragtime, etc. My favorite thing to do is sit at the piano and take requests, mostly figuring out songs by ear. Working at a dueling piano bar would be the perfect job for me. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 05:54 AM |
| 1 | Manipulating Women in the Age of Social MediaMy friend's dad is the reason.tv guy. Wow. I had no idea. That was pretty shocking/random. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/05/14 05:10 AM |
| 2 | How to Win Friends & Influence PeopleThis is a fantastic book! And a cool chart. But what's really awesome about the book is that the chapters are filled with stories and examples about each of these tenets - those really help them sink in and help you visualize how you can apply them to your own life. | /r/seduction | 11/04/13 03:44 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Vegas club and meeting one of the most amazing girls I have ever met. Thanks Seddit!Yessir, you are very much correct. I spent a good day or two really feeling somewhat lovesick. I rarely connect with anyone on that level so it was nice to ride that high. But I've since come down to reality and have begun the move-on sequence. Thanks for the reminder again! | /r/seduction | 06/04/13 12:33 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Vegas club and meeting one of the most amazing girls I have ever met. Thanks Seddit!Wow - thank you for taking the time to write this! It was awesome to read. I really appreciate the compliments, and breaking it down between what mattered and what didn't was also great to read. Thanks also for saying not to second guess all this. I really needed to hear that. I keep going back and forth between "I should have suggested something - she would have gone for it" and "maybe she wanted to and didn't want to say and now she thinks I'm not a MAN!" to "I'm glad we had what we had and sh… | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 04:20 PM |
| 95 | [FR] Asked HB8.5 out whom i've known for years, brought her to the bars, took her home, f-closeSex with an attractive girl isn't a source of instant happiness, it's the result of happiness and awesomeness you already have. Yep. Well said my friend. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 06:43 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Vegas club and meeting one of the most amazing girls I have ever met. Thanks Seddit!Thanks man. I checked the flights again and it's only a 2 hour layover so I just don't think it's gonna happen... I'm hoping we'll stay in touch and eventually see each other again. | /r/seduction | 02/04/13 06:40 AM |
| 2 | [FR] Vegas club and meeting one of the most amazing girls I have ever met. Thanks Seddit!It really does feel like a missed opportunity - not just for sex but for sex with someone I like, with someone I have a good connection with. I learn from each one of my "pick up" experiences, and I definitely know what I learned this time. As far as seeing her again - I'm going to be in Portland this weekend, and I'll actually have a layover in Seattle on my way back so I'm thinking about getting in touch with her and seeing what she's up to. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 03:33 PM |
| 9 | Use Tinder to work on texting girlsThere's an app called "Swoon" for android that is pretty much the exact same thing but has way less users, way less good-looking users, and is extremely rough around the edges. | /r/seduction | 01/04/13 04:40 AM |
| 12 | What's the best first text after giving someone your number?Great idea - it gives you a little something that a) differentiates you and b) something that is just "yours" (meaning her and you) that she can latch on to. | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 10:48 PM |
| 4 | What's the best first text after giving someone your number?I like this. Totally a joke I would make too. 9/10. Would use. | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 10:47 PM |
| -1 | What's the best first text after giving someone your number?I always call them right away so they can "prove" they actually have a cell phone. Usually gets a laugh. Something that has worked for me so far is after leaving - "Hey, it's pjewa. How do you spell your name?" maybe throw in some ridiculous examples. Even with the simplest names you can usually find a few versions - Sara/Sarah, Lindsay/Lindsey, etc. She'll tell you and then you can be sure she saves your number. If she flirts a little or seems like she might be a real "texter" I'll keep it up, … | /r/seduction | 13/03/13 10:47 PM |
| 5 | I'm a funny guy, but I find myself getting stuck in, "funny mode" when talking to girls. Anyone else have this problem, or advice?This is very smart - I'm surprised I haven't bothered to try this yet. I'm a pretty funny guy and can always make girls laugh - I tend to be the "life of the party" type. Man, a quick kino after a joke landing is associating their pleasurable laughter with my touch. How have I never made this connection before? | /r/seduction | 09/03/13 01:48 AM |
| 1 | Honest question: Have you pretended to have a girlfriend or be in an LDR as part of your seduction?No, I've never done it. I'm very confident on my own and have no plans to try it. I just wanted to see what the general reaction to it was. | /r/seduction | 08/03/13 04:35 PM |
| 1 | Got out there and did it - confidence is up with 10 numbers in 2 weekendsIt's been a great warm up and intro back into the world! | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 04:50 AM |
| 1 | Got out there and did it - confidence is up with 10 numbers in 2 weekendsBeen texting two of them this whole evening! | /r/seduction | 05/03/13 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Condom Life HackI don't necessarily think it is. When I first started having sex I used the free regular sized ones from my university health center. I didn't have a frame of reference so I asked my roommates "is it supposed to be that tight at the base?" and they said something like "well yeah it's supposed to be snug you don't want it falling off!" So I didn't think anything of it until I told one girl (who was a very close friend and one night one-thing-lead-to-another) that they were really uncomfortable an… | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 10:51 AM |
| 2 | Help with the causes of my AA?That's okay. Don't forget to set yourself up for success. If you walk into a party and notice a girl make eye contact with you, especially extended, don't hesitate to say hello. Picking a girl who is showing you interest like that better than starting cold. And if she isn't special - so what. It's a warm up. | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 06:48 AM |
| 2 | Help with the causes of my AA?There's a post on here recently that said something like "attraction is the goal, sex is the reward." Forget about any "in the sack" issues you have. Don't start out thinking "I'm going to open on her and get her to have sex with me." Open on her and get her to smile. Focus on a #-close or a kiss close, and if it doesn't happen, then it doesn't matter. I found I do a much better job when I focus on building rapport and attraction to me with the hopes of getting her number - and usually since I s… | /r/seduction | 26/02/13 04:59 AM |
| 3 | FR: #-close and a raincheck (first FR ever)Thanks for the text pointers. Telling instead of asking is a little bit more confident, on texting and on the response calling line you pointed out. Thursday afternoon I'll send her the "I'm going to be at ____ this Saturday, you should come" text. | /r/seduction | 12/09/12 09:12 PM |
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