| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 10 | Watch out ladies! | NOTHING BUT FACTS | quietmirth | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/04/20 02:23 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 2 | LVM and their heinous tactics about pressuring women for sex.Also doesn’t anyone else want to slap him for wasting food? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 01:02 AM |
| 11 | LVM and their heinous tactics about pressuring women for sex.Yeah because eating (necessary) is the same as sex (totally not) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 11:59 AM |
| 9 | Men will do whatever it takes to get in your pants. NEVER sleep with them before you get commitment!Lol they don’t respect any of us | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/07/20 10:41 PM |
| 3 | I just came to the realization that maybe I fall for LVM because all the men in my family (dad, brother, most of my uncles) are LVM 🤯I thankfully have a brother in law who is HV, so I can see how I should be treated by a mate. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 02:33 PM |
| 69 | Don't let your ego play youOr when things with their new girl aren’t going smooth. I can’t even count how many married men come crawling to me for an ego boost. Not today hairy satan. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/20 04:15 PM |
| 42 | Respect yourself enough to walk away.You teach them by distancing yourself when they disrespect you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/07/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | HANDBOOK TO DOWNLOAD - Protect your knowledge.Saved it to my books! Thanks so much, queen! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 12:13 PM |
| 15 | Imagine: it’s YOUR lifeI wish my parents had told me this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/06/20 05:47 PM |
| 9 | I’ve seen multiple of thoseSeriously had to hold myself back a few times from commenting about this to girls on my newsfeed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/06/20 12:25 AM |
| 127 | Men🙄🙄Instant turn off. Do you know how much work a shower is when you’re female? No thanks. I got sh*t to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/06/20 12:01 AM |
| 12 | Always bewareSame difference | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 03:57 PM |
| 19 | If you don't think HVM exist at all, why are you even here?I’m on here for future me. Right now I’m NOT dating, mainly bc of a lack of HVM and abundance of LVM where I live. Doesn’t mean I don’t need to learn and share the depravities of men with the teenage girls I work with. I wish my parents had taught me what I’m learning at 32 when I was a teen. Maybe I can help someone else with this knowledge. Edit:spelling | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 01:59 PM |
| 16 | Never Let Them Guilt-Trip You, Sis! (A HVM Will Understand You Are Entitled to Safety)Not nearly the same situation but I’ve literally had a man call me a whore after refusing sex on our first date in his work truck. I’m guessing his reasoning was “I buy a six-pack and restaurant chips and salsa, I’m guaranteed a lay”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/20 12:32 PM |
| 30 | "Women are less attractive at 30+" Another proof of the misogyny of Reddit, commented on his thread where he is bashing his girlfriend, but he let the comment I quoted slip, got down voted and then that comment is just a cherry on top. I hate these men so much.Yeahhhh I’m almost 33 and I still get people assuming I’m in my early twenties. I’ve never met a man over 30 who didn’t look like a bag of spilled flour. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/20 12:11 PM |
| 26 | Nothing “Happened” to Me- A Man Did Something to Me“I’m sorry you met that piece of human excrement” is a better response. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:54 PM |
| 1 | I used to be the worst for paragraphs. Now I just dip. Bye!I almost did it with the last guy I dated, but instead I just told him it was bc of religious reasons and peaced out. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/20 04:51 PM |
| 5 | Tall attractive guy in good career shows he‘s just trying to get laid and I’m way too quick to prove myself by putting more effort into the convo, more at 8I’m so glad I’m not the only woman who gets immediately turned off by men trying to sexy talk after conversing with me for five minutes. We aren’t prudes, we’re human beings. I still get sucked into these traps too, but that’s why it’s called “leveling up”. I hope you blocked his boring ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 01:53 PM |
| 6 | Tall attractive guy in good career shows he‘s just trying to get laid and I’m way too quick to prove myself by putting more effort into the convo, more at 8I’m the same way. I’ve got a lot going on in my life for me to hold a conversation up. If you kee hitting me with “haha yeah” or “that’s cool” imma find something else to do. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/20 01:46 PM |
| 7 | Get the cat, ditch the bfThe cat’s been around for over 2 years, you been here like three months? Nah, bro. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 12:18 PM |
| 7 | Reminder: When he says he’s not ready for a relationship just yet, he’s only stringing you along for female validation until he finds someone he’s actually into. Know your worth, don’t let him drag you in the mud in hopes he’ll respect you some day!Love this! Can we put it into Sex Ed for young ladies? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/05/20 12:17 PM |
| 113 | Get the cat, ditch the bfI dumped my ex bc he said I would have to get rid of my cat. I just got another bc fuck men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/20 10:21 PM |
| 3 | I walked away from my cheating ex while pregnant. Today is my first Mother’s Day and this is the card I received from my 10 year old cousin. 🙌Happy Mother’s Day doll. I’ve been single since I became pregnant. It’s hard, but way better than trying to do it with a man-child around. Proud of you for leaving. If you ever need a single mommy shoulder to cry on, I’m here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/05/20 01:02 PM |
| 30 | My ex who I was absolutely IN LOVE with at 16 (and would do ANYTHING for) is now contacting me 25 years later and love bombing me. All I could think of was this. Thank you FDSI just had a past fukboi reach out to me after 10 years! The AUDACITY. I’ve never had to remind these men that I exist, which is hilarious. Like do they just go down the list of old conquests? Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/05/20 10:07 PM |
| 17 | Congrats on 70k+ Members!Made me look back on how I used to act and cringe. I’m not fully reformed, but I can see and call out red flags immediately when presented! Thank you to all you wonderful sisters for your opinions and advice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:17 PM |
| 35 | Why do they always think our world revolves around pleasing them? Dang it Bobby, back at it again with complaints about not getting some 🤣Honey, I’m not thirsting over no man. I can’t stand any of you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/05/20 05:15 PM |
| 8 | Are you ever disappointed when a prospect shows he’s LV?Exactly! I’m here for future me, but present me ain’t got time to deal with all the let down | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/20 02:01 AM |
| 13 | This national symbol for "romance" is not what it seems!!!In My last relationship I was forced into sex. I stayed after because it was “normal “ for a man’s needs to come before my own. I’m too embarrassed now to do anything and I know what they do to women who report rape. The jerk is still out there thinking he can do no wrong because I was and still am too afraid to open that door. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/20 11:49 PM |
| 6 | never ceases to amaze what men will demandPlease tell me she left that entitled fool | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/20 05:17 PM |
| 11 | Who hasn't heard at least one of these already?Had to cut off a dearly loved cousin because all she did was insult me or my lifestyle/home/you name it. Voluntary or not, her digs hurt. Block and move on. Sorry my mental health is more important than your opinion. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/20 08:22 PM |
| 31 | LVM with 200k salary wants his gf to pay to sleepover; I hope she dumps his assIf his apartment is $1800 and he makes 200,000 a year why is he complaining about costs? Why is he still in an apartment? There’s no way all of this is true. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/04/20 04:20 AM |
| 42 | If the science witch says "Don't violate quarantine because we could all die.". Don't violate quarantine. Because you may all die.My daily mantra “nobody listens to me”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/20 06:52 PM |
| 9 | So I realized...She’s still around for my son, but seeing where her life ended up is such a good reminder of what I DON’T want for my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 03:37 PM |
| 18 | So I realized...I had my mother as a bad example, so I’m doing everything the opposite. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 02:27 PM |
| 68 | So I realized...I tried dating again a few months back. He was all talk, no action. Unless it came to abusive tendencies. Ignored a few red flags and then finally saw the light of FDS. I still haven’t gone back to dating. I have a 6 year old who needs a GOOD influence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/20 01:54 PM |
| 16 | Mood.Yesssss | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/20 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Promise I’ll swear off LVM no matter how much I want the validation. It’s not worth it!I do the same thing! Keeps most men away, but worth the peace! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/20 03:07 AM |
| 20 | Ain’t that the truthWhy is this SO true? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/20 12:21 AM |
| 3 | From a single mom to youWow. Single mom here. I’m so proud of you! Keep your family safe even if it means being single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/20 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Try this.Yessss this is me | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/20 02:21 PM |
| 6 | "Where's Hypocrisy?" (The king of LVM.)Disgusting | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/02/20 03:41 AM |
| 6 | Dodged an attempt to turn me into a PickMe and create jealousy. Being “gone” was after I was dumped by him. He’s upset I won’t easily commit to him and I insisted on building trust and moving slowly. Since I refuse to give in to his demands, back to NC, and out of my life 🤦🏻♀️Boy bye! I don’t play second fiddle! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 08:29 PM |
| 8 | 14 years...Oh look, it’s a “hush ring”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 08:21 PM |
| 21 | To the men that call us ‘entitled princesses’ 👸I want to copy, paste and post this everywhere! It’s all there. Perfectly explained. This is what we go through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 06:52 PM |
| 10 | At this point I feel only male Yorkies are HVMI have a morkie poo! They’re the best! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 09:03 AM |
| 5 | Dumped LVM. 🔥 🌉 so why do i feel like shitHis choices put him where he is. You cannot carry a man who doesn’t want to be a MAN. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/20 12:35 AM |
| 19 | They ALWAYS come backDon’t they always. I dated a guy in 2012 and he showed up in my pms trying to relate over a family member/coworkers death at the end of last year. Boy, you still got a gf! Anytime one of the oldies shows up I think “must be trouble at home”. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 10:58 PM |
| 78 | Surprise ladies!!I can’t believe I’ve settled for this before. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 04:44 PM |
| 31 | Proud to be a Judge Judy ass bitch 😚Um...ain’t nobody got time for TWO eff-ups! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/20 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Truth.Oof. This hit hard. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/01/20 03:29 AM |
| 9 | Anyone else here not actively dating/hooking up and not planning to ?2 months out of a 3 month waste of my time. Going to be single, celibate and happy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/20 03:39 AM |
| 5 | MALES should try to be physically more beautiful, NOT women.Just put in a little effort! Longer than the first 2 dates. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/01/20 03:07 AM |
| 79 | Reminder: if nobody knows you’re together, you’re single, sis.My last ex insisted I was not to tell anyone. I broke it off after he came to me like I was a child and got onto me for telling someone. Boy bye. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/19 09:36 PM |
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