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You're right. I'm probably just making excuses cuz I'm hoping it works out. I'll let this breathe and take in the advice. Thanks for the help.
/r/seduction15/05/25 10:11 PM
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Actually, yeah. But I'd also say I have more options than most guys do and I'm not overly attracted to friends I have in mind.
/r/seduction15/05/25 10:07 PM
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We're not in a committed relationship. Just a couple dates
/r/seduction15/05/25 10:04 PM
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We've only seen each other a few times so far, so I feel that I may be overstepping if I demand she just cut him out of her life unless I was in a committed relationship with her. How would you recommend going about this? I only asked about this guy cuz he came up to us the first time we met and I got odd vibes from him. I asked and she said she and him dated for a couple months and that they had gone out for sushi a little bit after she met me. She asked if that made me uncomfortable and I resp…
/r/seduction15/05/25 09:07 PM
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If she's willing to cut off all exes/ flings for a relationship, then would you consider this a viable ltr? Or do you think I should just keep this nothing serious?
/r/seduction15/05/25 08:54 PM
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Yeah, I basically told her when she asked me if I was uncomfortable with her going to get sushi with him that it didn't matter since we weren't in a relationship. But I also mentioned since we were on the subject and she was asking about my past that I tend to cut contact with all my past flings/ exes after I end things. Just a personal way I prefer to conduct myself. If this thing keeps progressing and a relationship develops, how/ when would you recommend going about setting those kind of boun…
/r/seduction15/05/25 08:51 PM
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In my situation, I asked about this guy that came up to us when we first met who happened to be out downtown. She said they had dated for a couple months. She also said they went out to get sushi recently after that. She asked me if I was uncomfortable with that. I only said that since we're not in a relationship it doesn't matter. I also said that I cut contact with all previous exes/ flings after they end. How would you proceed? She said she had 0 interest in the guy and shared a kind of gross…
/r/seduction15/05/25 08:45 PM
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Let's say if you just went on a couple dates with a girl. She obviously is looking for a ltr, but something like this strikes as odd. Do you say to cut ties or what?
/r/seduction15/05/25 08:20 PM
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What if it's a girl you just went on a date or two with and aren't in a committed relationship with?
/r/seduction15/05/25 08:18 PM
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most girls at clubs aren't ltr?
/r/seduction07/05/25 02:51 AM
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same body, but different face? Definitely the 6/10
/r/seduction25/04/25 04:41 AM
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What are mistakes that people often do that communicates exclusivity?
/r/seduction18/04/25 11:27 PM
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That makes sense. I find my biggest issues are my logistics and playing it too passive. I tend to dance my heart out and get addicted to the dance floor the whole night. It brings in girls, but not always the ones I'd be interested in. The next issue is logistics. I live an hr away from nightlife. Do you ever pull them to their place? If so, how do you go about that?
/r/seduction19/02/25 03:40 AM
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What would you say was the biggest turning point for you that turned you into what you are now?
/r/seduction18/02/25 04:13 AM
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any tips on the meditation and how to integrate that?
/r/seduction18/10/24 11:34 PM
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She said I was the first guy in a long time to go down on her. Granted she had a ltr she left a bit ago, but still. Should I just avoid going down on her? I kind of like eating girls out.
/r/seduction10/06/24 02:53 AM
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later after all the sex happened and we're chilling, I asked what she was into and she said she didn't know. Also, said that her ex of 2 years was primarily into more intense bdsm.
/r/seduction10/06/24 02:52 AM
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Are you not concerned that all her friends that are acting in this manner may influence her?
/r/TheRedPill01/05/24 09:02 PM
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What type exactly is into long haired gym bros? Just curious as I kind of fit that description lol
/r/seduction28/01/24 06:39 PM
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Both my bio parents split and got with people 10+ years younger than them. They've been happily together for close to a couple decades. As a result, I've never viewed age differences in both directions as a bad thing so long as both parties are in it for the same things. I think it's a bit annoying to think that one can't make a decision to date an older person in their early 20s. Both parents got the jokes, but they didn't let it bother them. B/c frankly who gives a fuck about what others have …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/22 06:17 PM
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how would you have responded in that situation?
/r/seduction05/10/22 12:46 AM
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I keep asking myself that question. If I had just ignored him, things may have turned out differently. I made a mistake and I'll try to not repeat it
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:26 PM
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Thanks, I'm pretty happy I did it. When I saw the girl giving me repeated signs I just blanked and acted. If I waited, I probably would've over thought it all and not done it.
/r/seduction19/09/22 05:38 AM
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​ Thanks man. Just writing this out helps me learn and reflect on the night. I'll do better next time.
/r/seduction19/09/22 04:00 AM
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bably would send a follow up text but after that it's a I texted a girl who gave me her number 'guess what' (experimenting with different first texts) and didn't get a response. My reasoning for this is no interest, bad first text, or she doesn't know who and is ignoring. Would you recommend doing a follow up with something like 'hey it's qurfy'?
/r/seduction12/09/22 07:29 PM
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This question was more for in general I guess. I've been contemplating which type to take girls on for first dates. ​ Though the most recent girl I'm talking to is through a college class. We accidentally met while I was out and about over the weekend and she kind of shot her shot at me, so I'm sure I'd be fine with whatever date type.
/r/seduction12/09/22 12:45 AM
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Does this mean avoid making an ltr from a girl you met at the bar or a party?
/r/seduction11/09/22 08:49 PM
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Figured I'd show up early and sit next to and spark up conversation. If I feel good chemistry, I'll suggest we go out in the future and get her number
/r/seduction25/08/22 08:58 PM
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Should you do this in class or not because you can't leave the scene?
/r/seduction25/08/22 07:01 PM
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Guy told me I was cute in the parking lot as I was walking to my car. I was very flattered. I thanked him and carried on with a smile. Anytime, but straight guys are straight...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/22 04:56 AM
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Also need to consider makeup. If no one wore makeup, then you'd probably see a lot less 'attractive' women and more normal/ average looking girls
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:34 PM
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d to women as I am to men, if not more. Way more of the women I see on a regular basis are attractive. Don't women find certain masculine traits attractive while men typically find certain feminine traits attractive? If so, what makes one person beautiful/ attractive is different for the genders. For instance, I wouldn't consider the actor that plays aquaman to be particularly beautiful, however, he's a handsome man no doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:32 PM
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Sounds bad, but it's not uncommon for me to go out and not find a single girl particularly attractive at a bar. Most girls are average in looks and that's okay. I also know that people have different tastes. I know one girl who is simped over by a couple of my friends that I find meh.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/22 11:28 PM
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I'd recommend slowly introducing a skincare regiment. Patch test and record how you react. If you have sensitive skin like me, you might break out
/r/seduction14/08/22 12:00 AM
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Doesn't sun exposure cause a lot of aging? Are the early and late hours for weaker rays to minimize this?
/r/seduction13/08/22 11:59 PM
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Other parts of my life make me feel pretty good, so I don't mind. After confirming, how long do you talk to them at the venue before bringing them home? Do you transition with something like, want to drink at my place or something?
/r/seduction29/07/22 08:14 PM
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Could you run through your typical routine that gets you laid?
/r/seduction29/07/22 05:07 PM
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Without going into detail, we are all friends. One person opened it and was sharing. It was for fun. Others followed suit. No one was trying to hide it and we were merely passing the time. I shared mine. Long bus trip...
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:11 PM
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Was on a bus trip in my college club which has a fair amount of girls in it. Saw same situation. I thought to my self, 'wtf, that guy was a good looking dude and you're alright." I think her answer was something like not my type, but ehh idk.
/r/seduction17/07/22 05:01 AM
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Is there any particular reason(s) for why T levels are lower than in the past?
/r/seduction11/07/22 03:26 AM
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In my case, girl started dming me on my snap stories. In her most recent dm to me she lead the convo to asking if I was in town and suggested we hang out when she got back in a week and a half.
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:09 PM
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I asked her out sunday for today. I haven't reached out and neither has she. I made new plans to go to local music show instead.
/r/seduction05/07/22 09:03 PM
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will do, thanks
/r/seduction05/07/22 08:37 PM
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That's literally what I texted in response on Sunday. Main reason I posted is that she's very responsive to my snaps opens/responds quickly. I've already made new plans tonight to go see a local band with a friend. If she follows up, I'll let her tag along if she wants
/r/seduction05/07/22 08:22 PM
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true. I'll just do something else unless she reaches out with interest
/r/seduction05/07/22 04:39 PM
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What if I start at a coffee shop but then suggest going for a walk?
/r/seduction03/07/22 06:56 PM
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strangers mainly. ​ Edit: I guess my example included their friends.
/r/seduction03/07/22 05:29 PM
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Looks like she's still into me, so I guess will do better next time.
/r/seduction03/07/22 02:43 AM
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I've been fine in recent times. I just realized I was getting hard in the dancing and saw someone say that is a problem.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:44 PM
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I kind of just let the moment take me at the time when I went for it. I hope this is it b/c I enjoyed her company otherwise.
/r/seduction02/07/22 05:38 PM
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She agreed to the reschedule pretty quickly. I'm still gonna leave this one in the low interest bin in my mind so I don't overreact if she flakes. We'll see. She agreed to the reschedule pretty quickly. I'm still gonna leave this one in the low interest bin in my mind so I don't overreact if she flakes. We'll see.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:32 PM
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She agreed to the reschedule pretty quickly. I'm still gonna leave this one in the low interest bin in my mind so I don't overreact if she flakes. We'll see.
/r/seduction16/06/22 08:11 PM
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Ex is her manager at work. Does this change anything?
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:08 PM
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Ex is her manager at work. Does this change anything? This seems pretty in line with what she has done before. I'm fairly distant with her and have kind of tried to end things before since I'm getting busy with personal life.
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:07 PM
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Ex is her manager at work. Does this change anything?
/r/seduction15/06/22 08:06 PM
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what nation are you from?
/r/seduction23/03/22 04:18 PM
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So def set the date near me? It's probably a 40 min drive depending on time of day
/r/seduction21/03/22 11:57 PM
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I'm used to scheduling dates at places I know near me. How do you go about scheduling something near her? Or did you start with her coming to you?
/r/seduction21/03/22 10:57 PM
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Do you try to set the date near her? If so, how do you make that work? I'm not familiar with her area and have always only bothered with girls near me
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:31 PM
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In this instance, this has been over tinder. In the real world, I tend to let things flow naturally and if we're feeling each other then it'll happen. But, here I've been messing around with openers. This opener has worked pretty well, but I'm just wondering how to turn these really quick interactions into actual dates. A lot of them flake.
/r/seduction21/03/22 08:09 PM
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Make sure you have an educational/career path. Could you elaborate on 9? Why don't be stoic?
/r/seduction14/03/22 04:42 AM
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What if they ask for your socials? I've had multiple girls do this. My snap score is fairly low, however, I'd say my stories are pretty good. Last night, for instance, this girl and I are talking and she asks to get my snap. I basically tell her it's my backup snap that I'm switching over to. She asks why. I say it's a long story but I'll tell her on our date etc. If she doesn't flake, should I try to switch over to phone?
/r/seduction16/02/22 01:43 AM
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With snap is it bc of the stories you post that get rid of mystery
/r/seduction16/02/22 12:30 AM
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Haha man texting is obviously not strong suit hahha. Anywhere I can learn to avoid this stuff hahha
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:27 PM
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Is this salvageable? I went back and snapped something like "I'm not at good texting. I'm not angry. We're good. Best of luck on the Spanish test." She snapped back quickly with a thanks. I might reach out mid week and try for sunday again. Not sure if salvageable.
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:26 PM
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I went back and snapped something like "I'm not at good texting. I'm not angry. We're good. Best of luck on the Spanish test." She snapped back quickly with a thanks. I might reach out mid week and try for sunday again. Not sure if salvageable.
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:22 PM
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I went back and snapped something like "I'm not at good texting. I'm not angry. We're good. Best of luck on the Spanish test." She snapped back quickly with a thanks. I might reach out mid week and try for sunday again. Not sure if salvageable.
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:20 PM
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I went back and snapped something like "I'm not at good texting. I'm not angry. We're good. Best of luck on the Spanish test." She snapped back quickly with a thanks. I might reach out mid week and try for sunday again. Not sure if salvageable.
/r/seduction14/02/22 05:19 PM
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Besides sex, I suppose I enjoy her company well enough. However, I'd say it's a bit early in the whole process to say how much value one can bring.
/r/seduction14/02/22 08:59 AM
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Didn't mean to come off like that. Any advice on how to proceed?
/r/seduction14/02/22 12:53 AM
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Is this an indicator of high or low body count? Jk
/r/seduction02/02/22 08:58 PM
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ng, but don't become a ghost as soon as you set up the date. Girls want to know you're a normal human being who is able to maintain a conversation and not some weirdo who only texts to set up dates. That advice was valid back when we all had flip phones and had to press the number keys to craft text messages, but it's no longer relevant today. Having conversations over text is normal now and you should be doing it. You'll get flaked on way less if you do. I've already slept with one, so I guess …
/r/seduction31/01/22 02:20 AM
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My thoughts! I'm also much better in person than over the phone. Plus I can get immediate feedback on how whatever I communicated was received.
/r/seduction31/01/22 01:27 AM
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yeah, I figured it was b/c she wanted to learn more as one said. But I also heard that mystery is good, so I was very hesitant on this.
/r/seduction31/01/22 01:26 AM
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Tbh I love dancing and enjoy it immensely. I have a bunch of people coming up to me asking me if I'm the plug I get into it so much. But I think o get into it too much and am not mingling around enough.
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:57 PM
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So I should try direct approaching off the dance floor then invite them to dance?
/r/seduction16/01/22 10:55 PM
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If I dance, I sweat a lot. Any tips for that?
/r/seduction10/01/22 05:07 PM
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What about clubs that are just overly packed. Like near zero room to even dance
/r/seduction10/01/22 04:10 PM
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Can't wait for male contraception beyond a condom or vasectomy
/r/seduction27/12/21 03:07 AM
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Would you mind sharing your profile? I'd love to learn how to improve my profile by learning fro. Yours
/r/seduction26/12/21 07:13 PM
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Florida- northern- tallahassee
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:38 AM
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I helped this by talking to everybody at my school sauna after working out. I feel good by the time I get there and the sauna just creates a nice social enviornment. It has helped tremendously with anxiety and talking to strangers outside of the sauna
/r/seduction12/11/21 05:09 PM
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Are you moving between cities in one country or also switching countries in your nomadic lifestyle?
/r/seduction04/11/21 12:18 AM
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Any tips on how not to cross the line into clown territory?
/r/seduction22/10/21 04:53 AM
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The comments in that video are hilarious. Really highlights the mentality of some girls.
/r/PussyPassDenied16/09/20 01:57 AM
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I'd argue that a male has a much higher chance of inflicting damage than an overweight woman. But, yeah, I'd agree he restrained himself too much.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/02/20 10:43 PM
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Consider that they're surrounded by people/ cars on all sides. Even if he wanted to resort to a gun, that would be a risky move for bystanders.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/02/20 10:41 PM
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Sorry about that.
/r/seduction07/12/19 11:08 PM
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Would challenging a girl on her lack of ambition or desire for direction be too rigid? I've talked with a couple girls that express minimum interest in any sort of endeavor. I'm not saying I have particularly lofty goals, but am disappointed hearing this from women.
/r/seduction05/12/19 04:59 AM
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Thanks! You got this too, trustmeiminnocent. I'll be rooting for ya, brother
/r/seduction04/12/19 12:16 AM
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Thank you! I'll try to create more opportunities for practice lol. Regarding tension, do you mean sexual tension from stuff like physical touch/ escalation? I feel I waited too long on the date to do that until the movie part. I guess I lacked the confidence to do more than shoulder and elbow touches.
/r/seduction04/12/19 12:15 AM
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You'd hate Japan then lol. This is basically moe culture. Source: I see it here pretty often
/r/MGTOW01/07/18 05:13 AM
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That was poetic, -redditardation-. Well done
/r/MGTOW30/06/18 04:35 AM
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Link isn't working for me. Could someone help a brother out here?
/r/MGTOW26/06/18 11:29 AM
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Their whole identity is based upon their sex appeal and nothing else!? Gasp But seriously though, this just shows lack of character and any substance.
/r/MGTOW02/06/18 03:37 AM
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isn't that because more women are choosing to go to university, which invariably ends up with them choosing dead-end degrees?
/r/MGTOW31/05/18 04:36 AM
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Was on the train yesterday, and this chick was just eyeing me up and flashing me smiles the whole time. I was really surprised, since this doesn't happen to me especially in a place like Tokyo. Then I realized the date and it all made sense. It gave me a nice little ego boost since she was so pretty, but I imagine she just didn't want to be alone.
/r/MGTOW14/02/18 08:45 AM
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old but gold. I remember this picture. She clearly didn't rape him out of his assets
/r/MGTOW13/02/18 04:48 AM
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Thank god. I live in Japan and was worried when I heard that pound me too had made its way to the far east.
/r/MGTOW11/02/18 07:45 PM
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Love it. Were you the one that tweeted this?
/r/MGTOW11/02/18 07:27 PM
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What are they playing?
/r/MGTOW11/02/18 04:39 PM
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Ciaphas Cain books are awesome. I'm currently reading Defender of the Imperium. It is a bit more light hearted than typical 40k books.
/r/MGTOW11/02/18 06:08 AM
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I'm on Defender of the Imperium myself. I was looking into the Ahriman omnibus next. How do you like it so far? Also, wasn't expecting a fellow 40k lore dude around these parts.
/r/MGTOW11/02/18 06:07 AM
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My step sister is the exact same and is the perfect example of manipulative bitch. She got a car, which might I add would've made me over the moon happy at her age. However, the car was a used Subaru. Apparently not good enough for her. She expected the latest Jeep model or something.
/r/MGTOW11/02/18 05:07 AM
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I wouldn't trust social 'scientists'. From what Professor Jordan Peterson said, over 90 percent of these studies/ published papers aren't even cited.
/r/MGTOW11/02/18 05:04 AM
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Is there speculation on whether the dolls will ever be made so that they feel exactly the same?
/r/MGTOW09/02/18 09:49 AM
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old but gold
/r/MGTOW06/02/18 09:59 AM
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Not a single bit of remorse. That makes me sick...
/r/MGTOW06/02/18 09:57 AM
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Something to catch their eye and make them curious. I like 801735's reply, "What is MGTOW?"
/r/MGTOW06/02/18 09:45 AM
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1/8 to a 1/4 spoon of borax mixed in with a liter of water (distilled is preferable). Drink throughout day. 5 days on, 2 days off. This will also help. 20 mule is a good brand. Toxicity of borax is = to salt. Look it up and do your own research on it if you're interested.
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