I've been using this 'you're hot I'm hot let's go out' and similar stuff recently on OLD. Sometimes that leads to a conversation that ends in getting a number and date, but other times it's straight like 'I'm down' and I get their number. However, I've gotten more flakes from these. Should I stop trying to bring a girl out to a typical date and do something that brings them to my place right away? How would you recommend I proceed? The message feels like more dtf and maybe I should handle it more that way

Most recent example:

Me: "You're hot I'm hot let's go out"

Her: "Bet"

Me: "Send me your number and we'll set something up"

Her: number

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Lastly, how do you guys handle girls that live 30 miles away?