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| 1 | How to ask a girl to hang out, after you probably won't see her again?Stop caring so much, start doing stuff. So true, if she doesn't respond or says no, its like whatever. It is only creepy if an ugly guy without social skills does it. at the risk of sounding like a douche bag, I am a handsome guy without very much social skills... That's why I'm scared it might backfire. | /r/askTRP | 30/05/15 08:32 PM |
| 1 | An essay on neediness and wantinesshow do you explain the Ben Franklin Effect then? | /r/seduction | 13/03/15 07:56 PM |
| 2 | Critique my workoutThanks! I'm taking fish oils and a multivitamin. And I'm taking a scoop of gold standard after every strength training work out (which is MWF). Should I add the full body to my workout routine or should I keep it as it is? | /r/askTRP | 04/01/15 11:46 PM |
| 2 | Will transfer to the 5x5 strong lift program make you jacked if you've been lifting for about 9 months but haven't made much gains?I'm doing 3 days of cardio, perhaps that is why | /r/askTRP | 03/01/15 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Will transfer to the 5x5 strong lift program make you jacked if you've been lifting for about 9 months but haven't made much gains?I am lifting hard and making strength gains. Just not as much muscle as my friends (who I can outlift) have made during the same time. Can I see your workout routine? | /r/askTRP | 03/01/15 08:49 PM |
| 2 | How TRP helped me avoid a race traitor Asian girl.Altough I agree with you in that she has to validate herself to you, would you walk away from this date if you saw all these red flags or what would you do? | /r/TheRedPill | 20/12/14 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible to get things going again with a girl I broke up with?Ignore his texts or ignore him during the hang out? | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 01:11 AM |
| 1 | Is it ever ok to let my LTR see a guy friend for lunch one on one?I don't really like what you're saying because that sounds a bit defensive. I think you need to go on the offense and ask her what type of person would go on a date with a guy she met at a nightclub. | /r/askTRP | 19/12/14 01:10 AM |
| -1 | Has anyone here used shoe lifts? If so did you notice a difference?Don't bother. At 5'11 height doesn't really matter and I doubt any girl would reject you because of your height. I think it matters most for guys in the 5'6-5'9 height. | /r/askTRP | 18/12/14 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Just dumped gf of two months. Feel pretty good.Gf was always going to be trouble because she has tattoos and is a veteran of the CC but I was with her because she is hot and good fun in bed. I don't care how hot she is, you plate girls like that... my gf started flirting with him a bit but he seemed like an ok guy. In front of you? Ok, she's definitely not girlfriend material... The evening wore on and we played pool and got a bit drunk until the subject got onto sex and somehow the guy was offering to play me at pool and if he won my gf wou… | /r/TheRedPill | 18/12/14 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Girl said I look "innocent"...should I be concerned?I've been in your exact situation before with the exact type of girls. Ask her out before you waste more time. Either way its a win for you. You won't know unless you try. But, she's a party girl and already sort of implied she probably not interested (when she said that you look innocent), so I wouldn't really count on her saying yes... Sorry :/ | /r/seduction | 18/12/14 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Girl said I look "innocent"...should I be concerned?Tell her you've got more than a few scars on your wiener, and have had a few doses of the clap in your time. If that doesn't work, tell her you have a lengthy criminal record. Don't do that, you're validating her question if you respond with anything that tries to prove your a bad boy. The best thing to say is: "Don't be afraid to test the waters" or "Maybe something needs to be done about that so that you don't think I'm innocent anymore..." | /r/seduction | 18/12/14 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Girl said I look "innocent"...should I be concerned?It could be a shit test, and the right way to respond would have been: "Hey, don't be afraid to test the waters..." or something like that. But, in all honesty, I think she's not interested. Every girl that has told me that I look innocent has not wanted to date me. I personally think its a nice way of friend zoning you (aka, establishing the parameters of the relationship) without explicitly saying that you guys are just friends because that's too douchey. Nothing can be done now, move on. | /r/seduction | 18/12/14 03:52 PM |
| 6 | How do you flirt with people in your classes and your social circles?Getting hit on in college classes is normal. I personally am straight up because I don't like to play games and waste time. And no it's doesn't become awkward when they reject me. I still talk to them like before and sometimes we become friends and get to know each other. Worst case scenario, one stuck up girl won't even make eye contact with me and avoids me. I have a friend that asks girls to study together and then tries to set up a date after. Sometimes it works, sometimes they lead him on a… | /r/askTRP | 16/12/14 01:32 AM |
| 1 | LTR ChecklistThanks! I would like to add to #4 that girls that have dyed hair, short hair, tattoos, nose/lip piercings (I've delt with girls that have all those traits) can be an easy lay, abd the best plates, but don't want them for anything else. They're so wishy washy and always have a shit ton of orbiters. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 11:19 PM |
| 3 | LTR ChecklistI'm sort of new and would be thankful if someone can answer these questions, or atleast some of these. What if she's a single mom that was widowed? What's BDP? What's wrong with expansive sunglasses and purses? I have noticed that most high quality women wear expansive clothes or watches, but usually don't have expansive purses or sunglasses, which surprises me because a lot of people wear Ray Bans and designer sunglasses where I am from. You mention that certain traits mean she's starved for at… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Keeping in touch over the break.You can't. You should've asked her for phone number and texted her to go out when you got back. If she's interested in you, she won't lose interest over break. | /r/seduction | 15/12/14 07:10 PM |
| 0 | Check out Tom Cruise just elbow out Graham Norton.Wait, did Tom Cuise told his hand? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 07:01 PM |
| 8 | Check out Tom Cruise just elbow out Graham Norton.That is actually the most perfect way to respond to someone doing that, I don't think he could have done it better. I would take the squirting water as a shit test, and he responds to it in a "I am your father and you did wrong"-esque sort of way. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/12/14 05:00 PM |
| 12 | [FR] 4AM 7 Eleven run to F-CloseIf a girl is interested in you, you can invite her to the back of a creepy alley, and she'll go with you... | /r/seduction | 14/12/14 07:14 AM |
| 1 | RP Advice On Obtaining An Internship In College?Talk to your Universities career center, they have resources for that. You definitely have the GPA for a top internship. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/14 07:09 AM |
| 1 | 1 year plate not coming over to fuck anymore, still txts me everyday, how can I tell her to fuck off without coming off as emotional?Here's what you do to find out if she's trying to make you her beta orbit. Ask her out. If she say's no or flakes, theres your answer. You go dark after that. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/14 07:06 AM |
| 1 | Here's a little humor that shows the true absurdity of the third wave and hypergamous nature of women.Women can file police reports for being asked out by a girl? Damn, I had a stalker and struggled to get a police report, moreover, a restraining order. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/12/14 06:40 AM |
| 1 | How to know you are dating a slut. Source: I married one.I agree with you, but whats the reasoning behind this? Are girls (who aren't sluty) more afraid of rejection? | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 07:01 PM |
| 2 | How to know you are dating a slut. Source: I married one.She is jealous at you more than you are jealous of her. This is a strange one. I had complete trust in her and always complimented her, seldom expression jealousy and insecurity. If a girl even smiled at me wrong or lightly flirted with me when she was around she would get extremely jealous turning it into a four hour insecurity accusation fest. It is ironic that the person most being afraid of being cheated on (My slut wife) ends up doing the repeated cheating herself. She was projecting. She a… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/12/14 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Hitting on a girl out over Facebook?Is the add a sign on interest or not? | /r/askTRP | 19/11/14 12:19 AM |
| 1 | [FR]Dangers of oneitisShe provides no value to your life, and from what you say she has a princess mentality who uses everyone and doesn't work for herself. She is worthless. Logically that makes sense. I am done. I am about to delete that ho off of Facebook. If I ever see her again, I'll walk the opposite direction. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 07:09 AM |
| 1 | [FR]Dangers of oneitisYou are just letting some hott chicks looks mess with you. You're right. If I had abundance mentality, I wouldn't even remember this girls name. Its just that all the girls I've been seeing lately do not compare to her, at all. It's not like I'm putting her on the pedestal either. She really is significantly better than the majority of the girls I see daily or know. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 04:16 AM |
| 1 | [FR]Dangers of oneitisthanks, this is probably the best advice. Because its unlikely I'll ever run into her again (she's transferring), I am still tempted to keep her on Facebook, but I know she will never message me. I just have to man up and delete her. Edit: I doubt she's into me, she clearly didn't want me to approach her today. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/11/14 04:08 AM |
| 1 | How do you respond when someone tries to out alpha you in front of a girl?do not hit on another mans girlfriend in front of him. Gotcha. I really like the way that you would handle this situation. Your method diffuses his insults/shit test. Would you recommend that I call the other guy out on his shit, maybe in private, or would that just bring more attention to a stupid issue? | /r/TheRedPill | 16/11/14 08:17 PM |
| 11 | Women like to reject guys (theory)Probably, and getting the validation of being attractive. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/11/14 06:24 AM |
| 1 | Should I ask my ex for my stuff back? (I'm not sure if she has it though)It's highly unlikely I'll get them back, but isn't it worth a try? | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 01:04 PM |
| 1 | Should I ask my ex for my stuff back? (I'm not sure if she has it though)The thing is I'm not 100% sure if she has them, however, im Careful with my stuff and I think that's the last time I had them. Plus, I don't really want to talk to her. | /r/askTRP | 10/11/14 01:12 AM |
| 1 | Your height is not an excuse.That's a good point. I'm curious to know where I'd be ranked though. I have been told by many people (men and women) that I have a attractive face, but I'm only 5'9. I've been rejected by a lot of 8-9s, but then again my game isn't that great, but I've had it really easy with 6-7s (and some have actually asked me out). Where would I fit in on the spectrum. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 05:31 PM |
| 4 | Your height is not an excuse.I'm curious to know at what interval of height does your height stop mattering? I honestly think that 5'10 - 6' is the perfect height. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/11/14 02:35 PM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a two-faced person that you are forced to work with for a long time?I'm confused. Is this a guy or a girl? It doesn't matter, but I'm curious. Guy You should have stopped that behavior and set consequences the first time you discovered it, now you are stuck. I did fuck up. keep your distance from the individual. I will. Those could be your new allies, if you can figure out who they are. He's hated around campus, but he's super rich and always throws parties on his boat or apartment, so people side with him, but more people hate him than like him on campus. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Narcissism in modern American societyFor whatever reason, evolution decided that the alpha male did not need to feel compassion for the other apes. The feelings of compassion and empathy were reserved for the lower ranked apes who would get punished if they didn’t treat their fellow apes with respect. The alpha male did not have any such constraints, so they evolved to not care about what happened to the apes below them at all. Nietzsche noticed this and faulted religion for forcing people to feel compassion, because he felt that t… | /r/TheRedPill | 01/11/14 01:26 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with a two-faced person that you are forced to work with for a long time?Will do. Should I be passive aggressive with him and give him orders or what exactly should I do? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/10/14 05:33 AM |
| 1 | How to deal with men with tall man complex?Can you share that post that predicts your smv? I'm curious to see it. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/10/14 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Why do I feel bad when I break the frame of other guys?There's more to it than me getting off of him not apologizing. And, he's higher up in the company, so I can't do much for him, but I'd like to. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/14 10:30 PM |
| 2 | Why do I feel bad when I break the frame of other guys?Yesterday, one of my coworkers (who is a really nice guy that people walk over all the time) said something which at the time I thought borderline disrespectful, but I really misunderstood what he said, so I looked him in the eye and said I didn't like the rhetoric he was using and that it was rude and disrespectful. He immediately started apologizing and has since then done things to get in my favor. I feel bad because he's actually above me in the company, and it feels like I can easily contro… | /r/askTRP | 28/10/14 04:29 PM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 10/27/14How to tell whether a girl is friendly vs interested in you. They're a some girls at my school that are really friendly to everyone (they might be instrimicly friendly or they're trying to garner some orbiters). They act really nice, tease you, and touch you a lot. Sometimes they even get nervous around you. How can you gauge the interest on these girls. Usually with other types of girls, if you touch them and tease them, you know if they're interested based on their response. How do you gauge t… | /r/seduction | 28/10/14 04:40 AM |
| 1 | Short guys getting tall girls?What if she doesn't shit test? Does that mean you're not even on her radar or is she not interested? | /r/seduction | 26/10/14 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Which style of dressing is better for college campus and picking up chicks?and it has been proven to work. Every girl or just sorority girls? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/10/14 12:10 AM |
| 1 | The look of interest vs look of disgust?Sticking around people that are treating you like shit will actually (unsurprisingly) make you feel like shit. Even if it's a shit test. Our ego and confidence is one of our biggest assets. Don't let some bitch shit all over yours. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/14 04:11 PM |
| 1 | The look of interest vs look of disgust?Body language. But, if she's being rude or over excessively shit testing you, just walk. From my experiance, girls that are interested will rarely shit test you. If they have a lot of guys on their radar, they will, but it will be light and just sort of to know if you're worth a shit. The best way to find out: take a step back and act like you're only talking to her to be nice, and you're about to leave. Or better yet, leave. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/14 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Do you believe that pheromones can affect your arousal?Yes, we are biologically hardwired to be attracted to people that have pheromones that are the opposite of our. Mating with people with different pheromones than us enhances our offsprings chance of survival. | /r/askTRP | 24/10/14 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Why can't I be confident?Get out of your comfort zone. When you go to a party don't just cling to the people you know; talk to that cute girl in the other side of the room. If you're at a frozen yogurt place and the cashier is cute, strike up a 5 minute conversation and end it with getting her number. And don't forget to stay outcome independent in these interactions. I will definitely try that. Rarely go out of my comfort zones. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/10/14 04:48 AM |
| 1 | Need help with girl in classok, say i "ask her out" again same situation as last time. What do I do? not necessarily. just ask her to meet you somewhere. probably a nice restaurant for dinner, and then physically escalate. | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 04:46 AM |
| 2 | TheRedPill with an ugly face.You can't control it, so don't think about it, it will only mess your game up. You are at an advantage over most guys being 5'11 and toned. | /r/askTRP | 23/10/14 04:32 AM |
| 3 | Coworkers flirting with girlfriendSo today my girlfriend tells me "the majority of the guys I work with make me so so so happy that I have you" and then proceeds to say "I've been working with this guy Nick and he keeps like calling me "sweet cheeks" and babe and stuff like that and kept like teasing me about everything and I know this sounds weird but I was just like I'm so glad I can do better than this." Then she's working today and says "Nick isn't here darnnnnnnnnn" (presumably sarcastically) and I start to get annoyed. sme… | /r/askTRP | 23/10/14 04:29 AM |
| 1 | Need help with girl in classWe're about 2 months deep into the semester, and there is this girl in one of my classes who is probably the hottest girl in the classroom (imo). Can you say pedestal? If you really think that, your body language and tone are going to betray you and you're fighting an uphill battle. not much kino going on. Did she atleast know it was a date? I know it's early in my relationship with her, but i know one of the basic things promoted on seddit is to establish your desire and/or physical attraction … | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Picking up in the gym?Go for it like you would anywhere else. Just say Hi, and escalate to a conversation and asking her out. Head her body language. Obviously if she has headphone or is busy, don't. Most guys will tell you not, but they are probably loser that haven't had success with girls at the gym. I've only asked out a few girls at the gym, and most of them rejected me, but they are really nice to me, and wave at me and even approach me whenever they see me. They have actually served me as social proof. | /r/seduction | 23/10/14 04:07 AM |
| 1 | How to tell whether a girl is being friendly vs interested?Try to fuck her. Usually you do something like this: -Make hot sexy eye contact. -Kino touch her bare skin, innocently at first. -Instigate make yourself a sexual being with her -Isolate get her alone (like a serial killer) so you can have you way with her. -Escalate: touch her more intimately, kiss, fondle her, get her clothes off, fuck. --If she returns the hot eye contact she is interested. --If she does not pull away from your kino touches she is interested. --If she smiles or laughs at your… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/10/14 05:11 AM |
| -9 | Red pill way for reputation damage control?What about sending out a general email to my fellow board members where j state that I clarify my behavior wasn't implying of the negative connotation. I keep it général and just clarify | /r/TheRedPill | 17/10/14 05:07 AM |
| 2 | How do you ask girls out?What about if instead of dinner I say drinks? Edit: dinner is probably better. Plus most restaurents near my school are also bars | /r/askTRP | 03/10/14 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Does having a hot wingman help your game?I have better game then him, but I feel inferior around him and when I'm not around him I chicken out on approaches. how can I regain my confidence? | /r/askTRP | 30/09/14 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Does having a hot wingman help your game?How so? | /r/askTRP | 30/09/14 06:58 PM |
| 1 | Confidence issues?What did you do? I mean, I wasn't always muscular or good looking, so now I don't know what to do | /r/TheRedPill | 27/09/14 05:22 PM |
| 1 | First date in a long time, and after swallowing TRPGenerally only use texting to arrange the next date. Especially for Tinder girls. So no text after dates then? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/14 06:45 PM |
| 1 | First date in a long time, and after swallowing TRPSecond, touch women. Don't just chat about school. You send mixed signals when you just chat politely. Like maybe you're not interested in sex and are just being polite. Or you're an unattractive, timid pussy who is too scared to make a move. Either way, she's not going to put the moves on you while you chat politely. That's your job. So, do you suggest just starting kino during regular conversation during the date, or to not talk about school/pussy shit? | /r/askTRP | 17/09/14 06:44 PM |
| 1 | telling girls you like themI was not familiar with Myster's M3 model, but after going over it, it seems that that has been what I have been doing. However, I have a questions: is the attraction phase essentially just being an interesting, alpha male? And can you just gauge it by flirting with her and kino? | /r/seduction | 14/09/14 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Musings on a friend's 2-year anniversaryDoes marriage really take a turn like it says here? I don't think I ever want to get married then! | /r/TheRedPill | 05/09/14 11:53 PM |
| 2 | Shit Test Texts (STT or ST)Girl: "Guys who like chipotle are the epitome of scum! It's not even healthy!" | /r/TheRedPill | 29/08/14 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Possibly body language shit test?Just ignore. Give her no reaction but keep acting Alpha around her. Gotcha, sarge! But, if she stares me down again, what do I do? Keep staring or pretend not to notice? | /r/askTRP | 29/08/14 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Possibly body language shit test?There are no "body language shit tests" for most people because if you examine body language in proper clusters it is virtually impossible to fake. That is true, so I guess you are right. Your speed reading skills are most likely rough around the edges and you misread the situation. For the sake of not arguing, what does it mean if I read the situation as I stated in this post? | /r/askTRP | 27/08/14 11:13 PM |
| 1 | My Trick to Dating Tall Girls as a Short GuyThis might be besides the point, but do you lift/ do you consider yourself attractive? | /r/seduction | 26/08/14 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Are there any classroom guides or tips/advises for back to college students?What do you mean by power level? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 01:35 AM |
| 1 | Are there any classroom guides or tips/advises for back to college students?This actually makes sense. Should I join a frat? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/08/14 01:35 AM |
| 2 | Would you be interested in an AMA with Honest Signalz?Yes! | /r/seduction | 23/08/14 12:29 AM |
| 2 | If you got rejected it was probably because your game wasn't tight enoughIt happens. IF you know what to say and when to say it, that is worth more than anything expensive clothes could buy you. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 04:06 PM |
| 0 | If you got rejected it was probably because your game wasn't tight enoughI have guy friends that could be considered attractive (because they dress well and lift), but they don't know how to talk to girls. These guys end up dating girls way below them (even 3-5s). On the other hand, my friend Bobby isn't good looking or lifts, but he know what to say and how to say it and how to read people on cold approaches. Guess who gets more results and with hot chicks? It might be a fluke, I don't know... | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 04:01 PM |
| 3 | If you got rejected it was probably because your game wasn't tight enoughIt's very effective for ONS but can he get a girl to hang around longer than that? Yes! Girls literally beg him to hang out with him. He's an energetic person, and fun to be around. He is definitely a scumbag though. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/08/14 05:33 AM |
| 5 | 10 times asking her out, eventually she said yes, now we are married - Don't be this guyI'm going to play the devil's advocate in this post, so bear with me. I mean, asking out a girl more than one time is not a bad thing. 10 times however, is excessive, and even if she does say yes she is going to treat you like shit. It really depends on the situation and the person, and if the girl likes you. I mean, some girls, even if they like you, will not go on a date with you if everything doesn't feel 100% good for them. I once delt with a girl that liked me, and she turned me down twice.… | /r/TheRedPill | 19/08/14 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Girls calls rape, friend gets kicked out of schoolDo women really naturally have abundance mentality? I've see a lot of hot, smart girls date losers. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 08:44 PM |
| 1 | TRP for job interviews, outside the plating zoneYou talk about body language in your post, but you don't really mention what we should do. Should you show interest or not? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 05:23 PM |
| 1 | TRP for job interviews, outside the plating zoneYou talk about body language in your post, but you don't really mention what we should do. Should you show interest or not? | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 05:23 PM |
| 2 | The Number One Sign a Girl Is a Raging Slut: "Her pockets are longer than her shorts."The sad thing is that the people that need to see this probably won't. | /r/TheRedPill | 18/08/14 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Does ethnicity play a major part in seduction?By stepping outside your stereotype, you can intrigue girls. OP, this is very true. And, sadly your race does make a big difference. I'm half Spanish and half Mexican. I've noticed that when I tell women that I'm Spanish and don't mention I'm Mexican, their faces literally light up and they immediately gain a lot of interest in me. When I identify as Mexican though girls are just like whatever. I'm still the same person though, but yeah, race does seem to make a difference. | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 04:02 AM |
| 1 | Just wanted to share my experience.I'm commenting in this for future use. | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 08:29 PM |
| 2 | Why do some girls act interested, then reject you, but still act interested?I mean, I ask them on a "date", and they say: "let's just be friends", so I think that's a rejection. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/14 03:59 AM |
| 2 | Why do some girls act interested, then reject you, but still act interested?They usually say: Let's just be friends, but I tell them I am interested in dating them, and I don't have time for new friends. Then, I showed no interest what so ever, but I mean, I'll say hi to them and wave at them if I see them or have a conversation if they come up to me or call me up, but that's about it. They on the other hand, talk to me and get all over me... I don't understand that... | /r/askTRP | 17/08/14 02:54 AM |
| 1 | Why do some girls act interested, then reject you, but still act interested?Why do they do that though, they're not even interested in going on a date with you or something, so why do they do that? | /r/askTRP | 17/08/14 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Year's worth of /r/seductionI'm a stripper. I kid, I kid. My Dad has a business and I do a little bit of everything there. What about you? | /r/seduction | 16/08/14 01:36 AM |
| 6 | Year's worth of /r/seductiontexting/tinder/pof (whatever you use) I used tinder for a while, but its really a waste of time. I meet a lot of hot girls through friends, school anyways. Plus, I would have to chat up like 8-10 girls to actually get a date. A lot of girls would flake last moment, others are just there for the validation, others went on vacation or were only here for a weekend and either one of us couldn't meet up, etc. Texting: ignore the stupid 2/3 ratio and all that other stupid shit. I actually am always to… | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 11:01 PM |
| 1 | Year's worth of /r/seductionI did it on purpose :P | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Year's worth of /r/seductionI mean, if the girl is interested in you, she will say yes either way. Except, if you call it a date, you come off as a more confident person that knows what he wants, and it also creates expectations like you said. The expectations are a good thing though. I've asked girls to get dinner with me and they have literally pulled out their phone mid-conversation to text their friends (multiple times). Every time I've called our meetings dates though, the girl has been super polite and tried to quali… | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Don't feel "cool" or "good enough", constantly comparing myself to othersHey buddy, don't compare yourself to other people. That is the recipe for disaster. If you compare yourself to someone else, there is no winning. There will always be someone more muscular, more attractive, cooler, smarter. Just compare yourself to yourself and work on making yourself a better person. | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 03:15 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate from Facebook?Who are you trying to game? A friend? Someone you recently met? | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Why the hell do people think I'm gay?How exactly do the girls say to you that they think you are gay? If they really thought you were gay, they wouldn't say it to your face. Also, a few girls have implied that I was gay, and then they said that the only way to know if I was straight was by "embracing me, and kiss me". They were hinting that they wanted to kiss me. Girls are very subtle like that. Some girls talk about apartment their grand piano or art there, hence implying that they are giving me an open invitation like that. Girl… | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 03:10 AM |
| 3 | Year's worth of /r/seduction KnowledgeFirst of all, good job man, that's the way you do it! When I said that, I meant that people should learn to live with or downplay their insecurities that they can't change. I see a lot of guys post on /r/seduction complaining that the never get laid because they're black, or something like that. Usually, that in itself will not be the 'nail-on-the-coffin' reason a girl will singlehandedly reject him. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/08/14 03:03 AM |
| 3 | Year's worth of /r/seductionFor the way we are hardwired, you have to write it out, and cross it out of the list when you finish it. | /r/seduction | 15/08/14 02:42 AM |
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