red-curry Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	Do you say the L-Word to non-LTR girls? (Particularly while having sex) This one is easy. Emotional connection during sex is important yes. It's the E of the sex god method's DEVI. BUT: The first commandment of Poon is that you NEVER say "I love you" first: https://heartiste.wordpress.com/the-sixteen-commandments-of-poon/. conclusion: if you've been long enough with a girl that she's told you "I love you" and you've said it (after her of course), use it for emotional connection during sex. If you've not been long enough with her that she has not told you yet, don't …	/r/askTRP	09/12/15 08:38 AM
2	On Attraction http://therationalmale.com/2011/11/21/kill-the-beta-2/	/r/TheRedPill	09/12/15 07:27 AM
9	When political correctness meets feminism The thing is: I'm sure a majority of people now are of the opinion that political correctness has gone too far, but they all shut up. The majority of people choose to shut up out of fear of being ostracized by a minority of people.	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/15 07:10 AM
61	When political correctness meets feminism This is the absolute worst about this modern PC culture: the freedom of speech double standard. If you're a "minority" you can get away with saying just about any horrible stuff (e.g. "I bathe in male tears") be it serious or joking. Doesn't really matter. But be a "cis" white male and say the most innocent joke or misunderstood comment and your reputation and career are done for.	/r/TheRedPill	08/12/15 07:07 AM
1	On Attraction This all sounds fair and solidly argumented.. But I struggle to see how this fits with the core redpill concepts of SMV, hypergamy and AF/BB. I smell a red herring but I can't see it. I'll be thinking about this post a lot, thanks OP. In the meantime, I'm curious to hear from ECs on that subject...	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/15 08:57 AM
45	On Attraction "Be yourself" and "Be the best version of yourself" are shitty blue-pill advices if you're not already successful with women. If your current self is to be a beta, you don't want to stay a beta, or be an even better version of a beta. Developing alpha traits is necessary but changing oneself often require huge efforts, and being humans we are reluctant to change so we loooooove the "be yourself" shitty advice. The reason why the shitty "be yourself" advice refuses to die is that because it has o…	/r/TheRedPill	07/12/15 08:49 AM
2	Woman doesn't understand why her boyfriend wouldn't want his future daughter to be a slut because she found it 'empowering' to have threesomes in her 20's. The cognitive dissonance of modern women on the topic of sluttiness is just incredible. They want to BELIEVE it's empowering for women to be sexually free, but then they perfectly KNOW that men don't like promiscuous women as proven by them having to lower their N count when they are being asked. Girls, YOUR PAST DOES MATTER TO MEN. Deal with it.	/r/TheRedPill	03/12/15 10:33 AM
2	Overcoming bluepill conditioning You're not special. Just go through the material like everyone else. Start with No More Mr Nice Guy	/r/askTRP	03/12/15 10:02 AM
2	The SJW practice of "Oppression Olympics" shows that even the most "independent" feminist desperately wants a rescuer. Agree. Just like the "strong independent woman" trope. Just different ways to get attention/validation.	/r/TheRedPill	29/11/15 03:46 AM
0	I get to give a lesson to my class regarding gender equality The large majority of people here are advising you not to do it and to all of them you answer with smug confidence that you believe that if you pick your words wisely you'll be fine. It's great that you see here a worthy fight and a great opportunity to fight for justice. It's very commendable of you. But you really need to ask yourself why 95% of answers here are a really clear "don't do i!". You're putting your school life at a great risk here. Any support you may still have from teachers or f…	/r/TheRedPill	23/11/15 08:38 PM
1	Men are disposable? If women were actually viewed as sub-human in our past, our male ancestors made a really poor job of not sending them off to war to fight and die instead of the "privileged" men. The culture back then must have been really screwed up to save women from sinking ships and burning buildings when they instead could have been saving "privileged" men. You know what, thinking of it, men were just really stupid to marry sub-humans and work hard all their life to provide them with roof, food and protecti…	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/15 04:35 AM
1	So what's the deal with the Slut Double Standard? copy-pasting another comment of mine: Biologically, men are not burdened by pregnancy. It ensued sperm is cheap, in abundance and men seek sex before even food or rest. Biologically, women are burdened with pregnancy. It ensued eggs are few and far in between, limited in numbers, and the cost of pregnancy is huge, so women evolved to make a careful selection of their sexual partners. Sure birth control has evened the field a little bit, but this biological difference resulted in massively differ…	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/15 01:13 AM
6	The "Million Bucks" Analogy It's a bit convoluted but a good analogy to explain the apparent stud-slut "double standard": men have to work hard to become studs, women just have to be there and open their legs. Yet I don't like this social explanation: after all, if a man is born handsome and from a wealthy family, he won't have to put in that much work to attract girls, while girls, despite having it easier, still have to follow strict diets and exercise to stay in shape and remain attractive. I much prefer the biological …	/r/TheRedPill	22/11/15 01:05 AM
1	A fear that by the time you get there, it's going to be too late and you'll miss out on all of the fun experiences. 35 here. By the time you reach your mid 30s, it's likely you won't value partying and getting wasted as much as currently in your 20s. Chances are you'll get more excited by a rock climbing trip with buddies and sipping a fine scotch.	/r/TheRedPill	21/11/15 11:25 PM
9	Honest question for this community No worries. I could tell you were not there to bash on TRP but to see how you could accommodate its teachings with your pre-existing morals. I struggle with this too. When I read this sub, I am constantly running a mental filter to try to get the pure red gold of sexual dynamics theory without the opinions, biases and women-bashing that come from men hurting. But I also understand why these are here and how important it is for mods to keep the messages unfiltered and crush tone policing concerns…	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/15 11:24 PM
0	Question about females that "want to be taken" or are submissive in bed. Not quite sure if as a man, especially dominant and masculine as you described, you have the wiring to understand what goes in the head of a woman and their submissive fantasy (even often, a rape fantasy.. how fucked up is that?).	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/15 11:09 PM
3	Honest question for this community Life's a piece of shit, when you look at it Life's a laugh and death's a joke, it's true You'll see its all a show, keep 'em laughin as you go Just remember that the last laugh is on you	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/15 10:53 PM
2	Honest question for this community You'll be dead one day and all your achievements will turn to dust. What's the point to live then? Because it's fun while it lasts.	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/15 10:09 PM
1	Honest question for this community on that matter, see my comment there: https://archive.is/mD6x3. But as pointed out by others, there are many competing views on what AWALT means. This is just my own	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/15 10:07 PM
18	Are women turned off by the act of lifting (seeing a man struggle)? I'm not swole enough to be able to make this observation, but it fits with the theory: never tell women the hardships you had to endure to get where you are, they're only interested in the outcome.	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/15 10:01 PM
3	Post-wall single 32 year old woman in my Facebook feed dying of cancer posts video begging for money for her treatment Yeah the blue pill lies hurt women too. The more common, less extreme, example is that of women passed the wall unable to find a quality man to marry and having to settle for either cats or a sub-par beta husband, spending then the rest of her life regretting not committing to that nice-guy, handsome, greater-beta suitor in her twenties. Most guys on this sub find this a sweet sweet revenge but I never did. Sure these are the result of her decisions, but she based these decisions on a quantity o…	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/15 09:20 AM
346	Honest question for this community Your post is going to be taken down but hopefully I can reach you before it is. You're misconstruing the red pill tenets because you have been taking little information from here yet and started from a antagonistic position to start with. The posts/theories of the red pill seem to stay consistently agreed upon that women are inherently incapable of having an intellectual conversation No, we say feelings are their default operating mode. We won't pretend there aren't smart doctors, PhDs and CEO w…	/r/TheRedPill	20/11/15 12:16 AM
1	The MYTH of female biological importance driving unfair societal laws for males So a creationist then. And insecure with that. You believe the earth is flat too?	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/15 11:42 PM
2	So this guy David Futurelle, a male feminist blogger, tried to slander and take down the redpill movie. He's also written hit pieces on many redpill writers including myself. I've responded to this sentiment multiple times throughout this thread, scroll around and you'll realize that's not at all what any of this was about. I know I saw. REDPILLRECKONING[S] -4 points 16 hours ago : We need to make fucking examples of guys like this.... I'm not scrolling down to see your attempts at justifying this poor example of telling what your opinion "is about". If vendetta is not what you had in mind, you would have edited or deleted what absolutely looks like a not veiled thre…	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/15 10:59 PM
1	So this guy David Futurelle, a male feminist blogger, tried to slander and take down the redpill movie. He's also written hit pieces on many redpill writers including myself. Oh that's horrible? There are hundreds of feminists shitting on the redpill on a daily basis. Head over to the blue pill sub. There are hundreds more shitting on MRAs. Yet YOU discover that ONE specific feminist (the biggest mangina of all) has said something wrong about YOU and all of a sudden, it becomes a vendetta. "We" need to take them down. "We" all of a sudden need to stop everything we've done before (ignore them, make fun of them, "enjoy the decline") and organise ourselves in some sort…	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/15 09:14 PM
2	So this guy David Futurelle, a male feminist blogger, tried to slander and take down the redpill movie. He's also written hit pieces on many redpill writers including myself. Dude, you're losing the frame real hard. This guy's blowing your post out of proportions to make a case against the red pill is the societal equivalent of your girl getting angry at you and reminding you how three months ago you forgot to take the trash out. You keep your cool, you smirk and you agree and amplify.	/r/TheRedPill	19/11/15 08:33 AM
2	The MYTH of female biological importance driving unfair societal laws for males Dude. I didn't read through but had to scroll to the end of that convo to leave you a message. I am very impressed you took the time to try to educate someone, and at the same time pretty sad you didn't realize earlier you were not going to get anywhere. You're dealing with either a creationist or a troll. Still, along the way you've been giving some really good information to the rest of us reading.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/15 09:25 PM
3	Appropriate way to thank a reference. A prime bottle of wine.	/r/askTRP	18/11/15 10:40 AM
3	AWALT/Trusting Your Gut So I decide to calmly text this girl and say "Look, I know you fucked Steve and this other guy, I just want you to just admit instead of lying". She still has the audacity to deny it and asks "why I would even think that?". I simply say "Haha goodbye, Alice." and have not talked to her since. The need for truth or closure is beta, no matter your attitude. You need to keep rising your alphahood until the mere thought of texting her doesn't even come to your mind.	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/15 08:57 AM
1	How much universal is redpill theory? Post on asktrp	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/15 08:52 AM
53	AWALT vs. NAWALT Hey the big AWALT debate returns once more! "all women are like that" means "all women are hypergamous". It doesn't mean they all cheat, it just means all women have the instinctual drive to associate with the highest value male they can get. Just like "all men are polygamous" doesn't mean all men cheat or are spinning plates. It just means all men have the instinctual drive to bang as many hot girls they can. I'd love to bang as many hot girls as I could, but I have enough basic morale to not r…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/15 08:39 AM
6	Is love real? What the redpill believes about love is all in the sidebar. Your main issue - just like everyone in this bluepill society fed with Disney and Hollywood rom coms - is that you believe that love is the same thing for a man and for a woman. It is not. As a man, you love unconditionally, and therefore you expect your woman to love you unconditionally. And you freak out when you realise she doesn't. Her love depends on how you make her feel at the moment. The sadness/anger/bitterness comes from reali…	/r/TheRedPill	18/11/15 03:26 AM
11	Why it is so easy for women to cheat Thank god there are still ECs contributing a bit of signal to that noise. OP, girls don't plan to cheat. They don't marry planning to divorce. They don't commit with the idea in the back of their head that they still have the opportunity to check out at a later date. It's just that their operating software is FEELINGS and that these CHANGE. On the day of her marriage, Jane did FEEL love for her husband and didn't even think about ever cheating on him. Then on a night out with her girls 10 years …	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/15 11:59 AM
2	"The Mental Boyfriend" Troll or not, this is only an illustration of what actually happens out there. Boys being fed bowls of blue pills since birth by single mothers, beta fathers and a society hell-bent on hiding the truth of intersexual dynamics. These are not idiots; these are boys that have been brainwashed to accept their role of BB as defined by the Feminine Imperative. Sickening.	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/15 11:48 AM
45	Trust in your gut. She can't hide her emotions as well as you think. LESSON LEARNED: Long-distance relationships are not relationships. The "long-distance" part means you get no intimacy, while the "relationship" part means you forego your number #1 dread card of possibly walking away. This puts you in a position of ZERO power, which is so attractive to women.. /s In the meantime, SHE doesn't have to forego her number #1 card (sex) while SHE gets the benefit of commitment and attention, PLUS the extra bonus card of having plenty of orbiters and would-be suitors h…	/r/TheRedPill	17/11/15 11:30 AM
4	Shit testing, about never saying sorry, but don't know how I did. Why a girl does something depends only on how she feels on the moment. Maybe she was not feeling enough attention from you and this was a comfort test? Or maybe she felt you were getting a bit soft and threw you a Machiavellian shit test? In the end, you don't really need to know the reasons, only how to react appropriately. And by jove you did! Sure you may have been able to handle it differently and other answers here can give you ideas. But again, the response you got means you answered perfe…	/r/askTRP	17/11/15 11:16 AM
4	Shit testing, about never saying sorry, but don't know how I did. Why in this thread is everyone thinking he did wrong? Did you read the conclusion of the story? There can't be any better proof of his handling of the situation perfectly. Question to OP: why are you confused? You showed perfect frame control by rejecting her anger and instead maintaining your original tone, thereby commanding respect and authority. This is textbook redpill	/r/askTRP	17/11/15 08:34 AM
4	Shit testing, about never saying sorry, but don't know how I did. that was a shit test. Many answers to shit test. You suggest "Agree & Amplify", but his "Commanding Authority" worked just as well and perhaps fit his style better.	/r/askTRP	17/11/15 08:32 AM
1	LTR wont shut up about her orbiters I'd say apply trudatness' advice to clearly tell her that is disrespectful. Scold her authoritatively but gently (as a father to child) that you won't tolerate it. Don't need to explain and defend yourself. Now (1) IF she complies, then you'll know she was just doing that innocently and only now realizes it cross your boundaries and will stop in order to keep you. (2) IF she tries to shame you into being controlling/jealous and continues, then you'll know she's very clearly trying to beta-ify yo…	/r/askTRP	17/11/15 08:29 AM
2	What are the dynamics of dealing with men? I'm only half-way through 48 Laws of Power and I find it scarily accurately describing the social behavior of the top-level leaders in my organization. If not this book, then what reading do you recommend for those who want to learn to lead?	/r/TheRedPill	16/11/15 10:10 PM
8	Experience The Cold--Become A Viking for Gains Hail to the Iceman! http://www.vice.com/en_uk/video/iceman	/r/TheRedPill	13/11/15 10:18 PM
1	Difference between maintaining frame and setting your boundaries? Setting boundaries is part of frame control. Controlling the frame means your interactions operate from the perspective of YOUR own world, your own reality. If you live by some principles and you impose people around you to follow said principles or else you don't want them around you is as strong a frame as can be. What's a "beta move" is if you mention your boundaries AFTER they've been violated and with a display of emotion... This shows insecurity.	/r/askTRP	12/11/15 10:22 PM
1	#NoNothingNovember 2015 Challenge Yes! Finally! Can't wait for a dr_warlock blog.	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/15 09:42 PM
1	Bachelor in his 30s with a fun life, cool friends, and lots of options when it comes to women; red pill fantasy or attainable reality in the western world. After college, a lot of your friends get married or move on so making friends is harder. Making friends with cool guys as opposed to nerdy neckbeards seems almost impossible as well. With more and more bachelors come more and more friends to hang out with. Expatriates are often single and a good bunch to hang out with. I'm 35, European living in oz. I have my surf friends, my climbing friends, my festival friends, my fishing friends, my band members, with plenty of overlaps - mix of Aussies and …	/r/TheRedPill	12/11/15 12:24 PM
8	Cassie Jaye calls out yellow journalism among feminists haha. Slap a mod with its own rules. Hilarious	/r/TheRedPill	11/11/15 10:22 PM
2	The death of the perception of love I've felt the same. I'm pretty sure we all do. But ain't life any less beautiful after we discover there is no after-life? Applied to RP, it means love and be romantic. Your partner's branch-swinging 10 months or 10 years down the road doesn't make love any less beautiful.	/r/TheRedPill	09/11/15 07:45 AM
-1	Friend the ECs to filter what you read. I've been looking for that sort of tip for ages! Cheers! Let's compile a list of ECs	/r/TheRedPill	06/11/15 02:55 AM
1	[I got shadowbanned apparently] I have a complaint against me of sexual harassment. This time it's actually justifiable (however false). What did your boss tell you to do? Workplaces now have systems in place to deal with complaints of sexual harassment. He might have told you that you need to write an apology letter, or whatever. Understand your feminists. Feminists hate not being seen as equally capable as men. Flirting with a co-worker is akin to doubt her capacity at work, that she just got there thanks to her looks. This is why you NEVER flirt at work and ESPECIALLY NOT IN FRONT OF COLLEAGUES. If she's a co-worker and you're…	/r/askTRP	05/11/15 11:17 AM
3	Vetting modern relationships for long term viability. TLDR A majority of women are unsuitable for marriage. My perspective on the ultimate goal of RP life and how to plan for that goal. A post 10 years in the making. Glad to hear from the old guard with a desire to apply redpill awareness to pass on their genetic lineage and be the MAN in the marriage. A fresh break from the litany of AWALTs and "Don't get married".	/r/TheRedPill	05/11/15 07:49 AM
12	Why Women Lose The Dating Game, or Red Pill Truths We Already Know As Told By Someone Else Even cites Dalrock.. So yeah, definitely a redpill-aware author	/r/TheRedPill	04/11/15 08:40 PM
5	Stop Crying About Your Friends You read that FR as a man trying too hard to analyze interactions with friends, uselessly keeping redpill ideas in mind in a situation involving no women. I read that FR as a man reporting that thanks to TRP, he can now "see the matrix" when he's plugged in his former world. He discovers he can start bending the seemingly solid spoon of the established social order in a group.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/15 10:09 PM
3	Stop Crying About Your Friends I just recently commented on a post where a guy got invited out by old friends from before he read the sub, and he spent the whole night trying to establish dominance, emulating the perceived "alpha", and overthinking conversation at a bar. This was an excellent field report in which OP did not bitch about his friends, or tried to become the pack leader. He just shared with us how TRP made him aware of the social dynamics. TRP tells you to lift so you go to the gym and train. TRP tells you to ap…	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/15 08:17 PM
43	With so many slutty girls around why can't I find single to fuck ONCE ? Is it that I am outside of curve ? How looks and race don't matter then ? What is wrong with me if it's not race or looks ? It's your desperation. The same one that inspired you to write that whiny post. Girls can SMELL desperation on a man: shifty eyes, posture, fidgety, conversation topics.. You may not see it, guys may not see it, but it sends huge red alarms in the hamster control room. Forget "trying to be confident", and forget going to bars. Keep going to the gym. But what you need now is a perspective shift, you need to work on your "inner game". What you need…	/r/askTRP	29/10/15 09:13 AM
1	Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal life because traits that generate sexual arousal in women are not completely consistent. Elementary dear Watson! This is exactly why the debate around defining Alpha and Beta is nowhere near its end. These are context-dependent concepts. As GLO says, be your own brand of alpha	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/15 08:20 AM
-1	Another example showing AWALT To swallow the red pill, you first have to find it. Does that guy even know about TRP? Probably not given his reactions. But every man has potential and that experience of his may prime him to accept the pill a little bit easier yes.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/15 08:16 AM
4	Anatomy of the Alpha Widow This is a great description of girls addicted to the CC but that is not alpha widow. An alpha widow is exactly what the term implies. A girl who's been with a man with a SMV so high that she can't find anyone to pair with any longer. It works because a woman who gets with a 10/10 man feels like she is herself 10/10, so her hypergamy engine gets broken: she can never find someone who she feels is superior to her. A woman who has ridden the CC for 20 years can still get attracted to a man as long …	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/15 07:36 AM
3	Another example showing AWALT The redpill aspects of that story is that this guy was the king of betas by letting her crash his apartment, doing all the cooking and cleaning, and letting her abuse him, and then he became the emperor of betas by holding a grudge for years, seeking and enacting revenge and delighting on the belief that his sneaky plot has ruined her life. Appalling.	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/15 09:59 PM
6	Alpha, beta, and sigma: Balancing social dynamics for your ideal life There has been debate around definitions of alpha and beta since even before the term red pill was used in the manosphere. You won't solve the debate in this post. The issue is that while what you say (alpha = social dominance, beta = willingness to sacrifice) makes sense and is pleasing because is neat and simple, it remains incomplete. See for example Corey Worthington, described by Roissy as "Contender for Alpha of the Year" and by Rollo as the "Alpha Buddha". Sure he organized a party but wh…	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/15 11:06 AM
14	[REPOST] We Cannot Override the AutoMod, and We Wouldn't Even If We Could The AutoMod is in place to prevent trolling/brigading, and we have no way of verifying your claims. Every con man out there tells his marks "just trust me, I'm good, honest". We have no way to verify you, we have no way to validate your claims. I like to think the true purpose of the automod is to prevent the noobs from posting. But you'd have to increase the time limit to much much more than a couple of days. I mean, if they were'nt noobs, they'd know about creating a redpill-specific account, …	/r/TheRedPill	27/10/15 07:08 AM
4	The Alpha in the Room I dislike it. Sure leadership is a main alpha trait, but hardly the only one. If alpha=leader, then of course there are alpha women. Everybody is happy with the definition because it's simple but it's misleading. Alpha in redpill terms is whatever trait contributes to vaginal tingle generationTM, which include many more MASCULINE traits: a chiseled jaw, physical strength, decisiveness, risk-taking behavior, a Don't-Give-A-Fuck attitude, pre-selection, etc. Do you think leadership is what made Co…	/r/TheRedPill	25/10/15 09:36 AM