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redbeaux/r/askMRP01/02/18 03:13 PM
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Was just being a dick I guess. Normally if I don't like something and don't feel like typing why I just don't say anything. I didn't follow my own rule this time. My fault.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/07/18 02:00 PM
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Having thought it over, you're right. I offered nothing constructive. I dind't like the post and was to lazy to post why.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 07:20 PM
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You're a mod feel free to remove it ma man.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 06:47 PM
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Whoever gave you your flare nailed it.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 06:44 PM
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I’m not being flippant here. I’m genuinely curious as to what the end state of a MGTOW society ought to look like. but what does the intended goal-state look like for MGTOW? I’ve yet to get a clear consensus on this I think, like most things there is a spectrum. Some MGTOW are militant and want women to come crying back to men once they've come to their senses. Some still fuck women, and nothing else, while others avoid women like the plague. Some just don't give a shit and decided, regardless o…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/07/18 04:33 PM
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It's important to read them all because different books resonate differently for everyone. NMMNG and WISNIFG were the books that helped me stop being a "people pleaser." The manipulated man was the book that knocked ALL women off the proverbial pedestal for me. Come back after you've read them all and tells us how you've changed for the better as a result.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 07:34 PM
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Meh, you got time.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 07:07 PM
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Mike Tyson didn't need a deep voice to be a bad ass...own that shit! Qbert sexy AF.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/07/18 06:49 PM
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Nothing new here. The key take away for those that don't feel like watching this is: "There is nothing that dries a woman's pussy up more than being rudderless" Would you want to stay on a ship if the captain had no rudder? You in a sexless marriage? Find something more important than her and pursue that. You'll get sex...may not be with your wife, but you'll get sex.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/07/18 10:26 PM
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> I wunder how you guys became OI, what works Learning to not deriving my self worth from sex. It wasn't over night, but I had to continue to remind myself that my wife's actions don't define me in any way. Also, constantly flirting with other women and sometimes fucking other women. That's not everybody's thing, but it works for me. My wife has joked about using sex as a weapon and I've laughed in her face. She knows I can go out and get other women, because she's seen it. Sounds like you've go…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/18 03:18 PM
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There is so much here, and so much one could say to all of this, but really you just need to shut up and read the side bar. Stay away from women for a while. Focus on your self development and stop worrying about what everyone else is or isn't doing.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/18 02:21 PM
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I'm a musician. Every year or so I look back. Things I used to struggle with that I can now do with ease. Feels good to look back and see how far I've come. I'm also excited/challenged to grow even more in the coming years. Cheers to you and all you added to this community. You've helped more than you'll know.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/06/18 02:42 AM
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Keep your expectations low whatever you decide. I pawned my ex's ring off. I got fraction of the price I paid. I tried to haggle, but the pawn guy (is there a name for these guys?) said diamonds aren't worth shit used, and was only paying me for the metal. Maybe I did it wrong, but that's my 2¢
/r/askMRP23/04/18 09:02 PM
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All this hamstering you're doing about yes and nos, means you're still in her frame. Start there.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/04/18 02:43 PM
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"Everyone wants to be a bodybuilder, ain't no one want to lift no heavy-ass weights." Great line. People want things they don't have, but aren't willing to work to get them. Boys want to become men, but aren't willing to fight to become them. The things I like about myself the most are a result of the difficulties I've overcome. The things I hate most about myself all have to do with comfort and ease. God dammit....
/r/MarriedRedPill17/04/18 07:02 PM
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Yes this is MRP, and not chubby whatever. It is also not r/fitness. Dude's getting his dick wet.....but maybe you're right. Maybe he needed your boot in his ass. He doesn't need me to defend him, I was just wondering where all the vitriol was coming from when the guy owns his foolishness and knows how to fix it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 09:30 PM
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Why you so mad Cap? Home boy is getting what he wants. If he can do that with a dad bod, more power to him. He's not whining, he knows what's wrong and how to fix it.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 08:32 PM
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, food, booze, money, drugs and bitches. You ever walk down a beach, or a pool, and have all the hot bitches turn their heads at you? That feeling tastes better than $100 wine to me. No judgement here, just saying, aside from just being and feeling healthy, there is some serious satisfaction in knowing you're the besting looking guy in the room.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/04/18 08:28 PM
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Cholula is my go to for hot sauce. The original, mind you, not the newer crap they've come out with. My wife mostly follows my diet, but here's the thing. If I "cheat", even if planned, she cheats times 10. My cheat meal will be a cheat day for her etc, etc. That could just be my home, but just keep that in mind when deciding when/if/how you're going to pig out. Intermiteat Fasting is my new savior when it comes to cravings. Most of the time I have my diet under control, but when I have terrible…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/04/18 10:32 PM
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These are my favorite, well done. Action breeds change. Navel gazing breeds...nothing. I turned my attention to who I was. Never stop doing this.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/04/18 05:58 PM
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Didnt you already do this?
/r/MarriedRedPill01/04/18 05:57 PM
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Lol, you kidding? The Enchridion is my daily!
/r/askMRP01/04/18 03:47 AM
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So let me ask you this: How does this help a dude get laid, or get laid more often? Preselection works, we all know this. Does knowing why, or what's going on in the woman's brain give me an edge? It's more important to discuss what you do with the knowledge that preselection is a thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/03/18 01:50 PM
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Saying that you be base your confidence on your confidence is like using a word to define itself. Confidence has to have a source. There are two sources that I can think of off the top of my head, but feel free to add more if you think of some. 1 Excellence Actually putting in the work, whatever that may be. Lifting, game, fashion, sports, public speaking. Becoming good at things breeds confidence by default, because you can "talk the talk" and "walk the walk" 2 Outcome independence. If you're r…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/03/18 03:47 PM
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Bummer.
/r/askMRP29/03/18 02:47 AM
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I’ll play. I’m curious: Cool. So you say married game is different, but then you say, treat her like your girlfriend which would be using not married game.... The rules of attraction don't change once you get married. Fucking and keeping a family together are two different things. I game my wife the same as I game other women. The only ones that have it harder are the ones that are faking it, because your wife will see through your bullshit where a ONS won't have the chance.
/r/askMRP29/03/18 01:44 AM
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Oh that's good doc, i like it. I get that you can't DEER my comments in front of the rest of the class, but I'm genuinely curious to hear your married game vs not married explanation if you have one. Feel free to PM if you want, I promise I won't tell.
/r/askMRP28/03/18 11:17 PM
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No.
/r/askMRP28/03/18 10:46 PM
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Nah man, this guy did what worked for him. The money thing may not be for everyone, but the point is still the same: take action, even desperate action if you must, to get what you want. He got what he wanted. Nuff said.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 10:03 PM
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....I'm in a mood. married her and dedicated your life You can have the former without that latter. I would argue that having the latter would be bad for attraction. She'll turn into a harpy, nagging, sexless little cunt. Ask me how I know? You bitter, mate? married game this is not congruent with treat your wife like a girlfriend Is married game different than girlfriend game? (hint: I know the answer, do you?) You want that fucking sweet Rolex, right? Why? Because it has high fucking value. Bu…
/r/askMRP28/03/18 09:49 PM
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Since you probably won't read Meditations like u/SteelToeShitKicker suggested, and it happens to be one of my favorite books, I'll do some leg work for you and quote Mr. Aurelius himself. “If you are distressed by anything external, the pain is not due to the thing itself, but to your estimate of it; and this you have the power to revoke at any moment.” But really, read Meditations.
/r/askMRP28/03/18 06:07 PM
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What do you want? If you want to spin more plates, go solo and flirt with everyone, or like Perter_B_Long said, bring a (hot) wing woman. Only reason you want to bring a plate is if you want her company and some pussy afterwards, otherwise she's just gonna get in your way.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 05:41 PM
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On the side bar under references there is an archived post called "One Key Step to Not Giving a Fuck" It's one of my favorites when I need to remind myself to stop worrying so much. Read as many times as you need and then go out and enjoy yourself.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 04:01 PM
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Same as taking her to a club, or a movie. Shouldn't really matter, if she's a plate. A word of caution: If you take a plate to a wedding, she may think it's you taking the relationship to the "next level" so be explicit that this is no big deal, or hold frame and be ready to drop the plate when she's starts acting up, because she wants to "get more serious" after attending the wedding with you.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/18 03:56 PM
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What the fuck are you bitching about? Sounds like you have it perfect. She makes money, she does her own thing and you do yours. You come together when you want.... Cheese and Crackers man, enjoy it while it lasts!!! All these questions you're asking yourself are dumb! Who gives a shit? You scored a "10" who also happens to be rich? Fuck man, shut up and enjoy life, forget about making a path for her. Since you're not married spend some time over at TRP and look up the basics, like: She's not yo…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/03/18 05:50 PM
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My response would have been, "Doesn't matter, I'm fucking you tonight, not her...." I know my wife though and that this is the correct response for her. You know your wife better an we do, so we can't really give you a right answer. Always remember though, when in doubt: STFU.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 10:25 PM
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lol, i like when WMP comes out to play.
/r/askMRP26/03/18 10:20 PM
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Interesting. I think it blame has a place, just like i think the question "Why" has a place. They provide (for me) important navigational information.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/03/18 03:31 AM
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I don't know about everyone else, I just appreciate that you put the blame where it belongs. There is plenty to blame feminism for, just not everything.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/18 09:54 PM
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I appreciate that you said effeminate men moved the window, and not feminism.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/18 09:01 PM
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Thanks for the explanation, but I think most missed my point. shrugs
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/18 07:31 PM
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Yes.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/18 11:36 AM
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Rule 4: Compare Yourself to Who You Were Yesterday, Not Who Someone Else is Today I can get down with that. Rule 12: Pet a Cat When You Encounter One on the Street WTF? JP is the epitome of "Chew up the meat and spit out the bones"
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/18 04:39 AM
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That could be me. So what? You getting your dick wet? You getting what you want in life?
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/18 03:17 AM
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a lot like 88will88 First thing I thought of when I laughed at....I mean, read this.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/03/18 03:14 AM
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Low blow?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 08:08 PM
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I'm anticipating some mush mouth bull shit, so I'm going to get my two cents in early. Hunter is a man that's doing something. Agree with his style or not, I'll always encourage the guy doing something over the guy talking about doing something. I did his Men of March challenge last year. I needed something to get me out of a slump I was in and I used his plan to my benefit. It wasn't the beginning nor the end for me. I just used it as a catalyst. There were some things for me that induced eye r…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/18 07:22 PM
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add in kids and it not as simple as getting laid. If it's not as simple as getting laid, we're exiting the realm of TRP. Not saying that's bad, just that there are other forums for that. if you have a simple set of rules I don't really like rules. I mean, I have my own code, but it's fluid. If it's simple you're looking for: I live my life the way I want and I invite others to join in...or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 11:45 PM
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I've seen a lot of posts lately that seem to try and make simple things complex. Maybe it's just how I view the world, but I like to do the opposite. I like to make things as simple as possible. TRP is just a revelation of the truth. Married, or not married shouldn't matter. The truth about male/female intersexual dynamics is the same. What you choose to do with the truth regardless of your situation is up to you. Whoever said MRP is TRP on hard mode got it right. You can still achieve the smae …
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 06:17 PM
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(minus the untold suffering) Sadly, this is the key ingredient...
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 05:42 PM
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I always felt like RPW and the other "matrix" related subs were just another female "Hey, the boys created something cool, so we have to show them we have something cool too" RPW would never exist if men didn't create TRP. It's the same thing with boy scouts, and Elks clubs and all the like. Women hate men only spaces, and they either try to invade them, or create a shittier clone. We've got the real thing, why should we care about the crappy clone.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/03/18 02:45 PM
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awwww. Fagot.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 07:29 PM
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Rule 0. This particular book doesn't address sexual strategy for men. Also, the side bar is there to get you to keep your head above water. It's up to you to leverage it and learn how to swim.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 03:51 PM
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I'll be damned. How'd I miss the granddaddy of TRP?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 03:47 PM
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hawaiian libertarian Ooohhh, never heard of this guy. Got some weekend reading!
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 03:41 PM
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Ego is the Enemy by Ryan Holiday. There is some blue pills in there, but if you are "woke" they don't get in the way of the good stuff.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 03:37 PM
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This guy is glowing example of what I just wrote here
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 02:18 PM
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Pretending like sex is not super important is not a good way to get your wife to want to have sex. It may make your wife's hamster spin a bit, but what will make it spin WAY more is owning that you LOVE sex, and that you're a man that can get it anytime, anywhere. That will get her to want to lock you down and fuck your brains out. If she thinks you're not a slave to sex, then eventually she'll just think it's not big deal that she's not giving it to you.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/03/18 02:10 PM
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A big challenge for many people (but especially men) is when they get something right, they want a lot of applause and accolades and recognition of their success. When they receive this, they are fooled into thinking they've "made it." They are now on the same footing as a master. This leads to the kind of ego that is hard to teach, because they had minor success and a pat on the back they don't feel the need for criticism or even the need to push forward. Here is a challenge for new guys, as we…
/r/askMRP16/03/18 01:56 PM
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IMHO, there is no substitute for proving to yourself you can get laid by Saturday. Yeah, not gonna lie, I definitely had a "pimp step" for a few days.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/03/18 04:12 PM
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That hardly makes it a cardinal rule. Also, it's terrible advice. Fully in the wife's frame.
/r/askMRP14/03/18 12:04 AM
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deny her (which I know is breaking a cardinal rule) WTF? Where did you read that? If you want to have sex with her, then do it. If not, don't. That's real frame. Also, if you're only getting sex once every 3-4 months...go find it somewhere else. I can't even process how men do this?
/r/askMRP13/03/18 09:20 PM
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Phew, that's a lot. Here's the thing about manipulation. The more fucks you give, the easier it is to be manipulated. I don't give two fucks about a piece of bread right now, but if I'm starving, I could be manipulated to do almost anything for it. If you're "full" in all aspects of life it will be much harder to manipulated.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 07:12 PM
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Nope, both chicks knew I was married. I'm not into pretense.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 03:54 PM
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Would be interested in hearing more about what you did to get the closes. Sure, but it's nothing fancy. The first chick I met back in December on a different project. I texted her before I got out there this time and asked her if she wanted to go to dinner. We went to dinner. There was some light kino. When we got to the hotel, I asked if she wanted to come up. She said yes. We actually talked in my room for a while before we did the deed. I went out with her again the next day with the same res…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 03:46 PM
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Doooood, thx for this. My shoulders have been killing me and I couldn't figure out why.
/r/askMRP13/03/18 02:51 PM
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Fuck, I suck again, my hobbies are looser's hobbies. You need to change this attitude. What makes your hobbies "loser" hobbies? The fact that they're not not popular? Fuck that noise. If you're an awesome individual, your hobbies are just that, hobbies. Do what makes you happy and in turn, you make the hobby awesome by virtue of you being awesome. Your post is very negative on yourself. ("I suck" "I have loser hobbies", "I'm slow") Look at yourself and the mirror and tell yourself you're the shi…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 02:42 PM
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If you want to cut pounds quick, I highly recommend IF. It's kind of tough at first, but you get used to it. After the first week or so the pounds melt off. It's easier than cardio, better on your joints, depending on your choice of cardio, and there are also mental benefits. Cardio is still good, but (in my experience) IF is faster.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 02:18 PM
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Project Exit Cube Job 4 Nothing to report. I've been away on travel the last few weeks, so almost no work has completed on this. I've done some light reading and honestly I wish I had brought some more reading materiel with me while I was away. There are a few things I'll jot down about my trip away. The wife and I were somewhat on the "outs" before I left. This has been happening a little more frequently than I'm used to and it got me thinking. I haven't gotten strange in quite a few years. I f…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/03/18 02:12 PM
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"You might want to take a breath before you pass out." I think that was a great response. As far as the other stuff, your wife wants your affection or she doesn't, so as others have said, this will just pass, or it won't. If it were me, plenty of other women want my affection. As stoney says, "she gets first crack." If she doesn't want it on my terms, I'll give it to someone else.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/03/18 06:22 PM
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I just watched a documentary of an artisan working in niche industry. His work is an amazing blend of art and functionality. He presents his new pieces only once or twice a year. When being interview he stated he has no idea how his work will be perceived, because he spends the majority of his time alone in his workshop working. I bet he gives zero fucks about all this, becuaes he's too busy creating amazing shit.... .....I'm striving to be that guy.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/02/18 06:19 PM
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obviously less robotic and more personal to the situation. Not obvious to me. I'm glad you added that, cuz I was bout to say......
/r/MarriedRedPill14/02/18 08:34 PM
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Never any love for Leroy....
/r/askMRP14/02/18 03:27 PM
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Project Exit Cube Job 3 Not much to add from last week: Got a few items in the mail, including some books. Cracked one of them and got a little reading in. I started the project I've been putting off and spend a few hours working on it. Feel good about the progress made. Plans for this week Keep reading: Going to define a time, as I haven't done as much as I wanted the last couple of weeks. Minimum of 4hrs, uninterrupted reading (specific to work, or business) for the week. Start working on my b…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/02/18 06:42 PM
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still reading Epictetus, Was just reading the Enchirdion minutes ago. +1 for Epicteus. This was very well written. I have talks with my sons about these kinds of things on and off, but I like the idea of writing it out so they have something they can refer back to. It also helps one stay accountable, because you know they're watching.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/02/18 03:23 PM
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Dude, I picked up magnisium last time you brought it up, and i sleep like a baby now !
/r/askMRP07/02/18 07:41 PM
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might consider making a list of all your outstanding items Yeah, I've got one, and that list keeps growing. Really I want to change my paradigm to one that is glad for accomplishments, but not using them as an excuse to get lazy.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 07:47 PM
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Project exit cube job 2 Continue to fix up work shop: On going. Spent most a good deal of time in there this weekend. It’s coming along nicely. Fully expect for it to be ready by the end of Feb. ~Hit up library to get some books on starting my business and taxes, and whatever else I find that might be helpful.~ Spent about an hour in the library this weekend. Really happy with the material I picked up. Once tools get here, work on project in workshop I've been putting off: Tools got here over th…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/02/18 02:33 PM
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A little ironic you're telling me to do this on your reddit account, no?
/r/askMRP01/02/18 06:59 PM
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Yeah, I remember your post forever ago, something along the lines of "why ask why". I think it has it's place in problem solving, but I hear you.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 06:46 PM
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inexplicable desire to know what goes on in Facebook. I have some family on there. I like to see how they're doing, look at pictures of nieces and nephews, that sort of thing. Also, facebook is a defacto way of communication for some people now. My wife found out a family member was in the hospital last November through facebook. When we called and asked why they didn't call us, the response was, "We posted it on Facebook" Either way, I agree with the collective sentiment that facebook is mostly…
/r/askMRP01/02/18 06:40 PM
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Why nuke when you can simply laugh? My wife values my time and attention. I also like being around her...when she's not being a bitch. My wife's a sweet lady, but as we know AWALT so my question, was more of a "Are you about to be a bitch? If so, I'm out" She reneged, said sorry and we had a nice evening. I could have laughed it off, but her response was out of the norm, so I responded accordingly.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 06:33 PM
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this means absolutely nothing Agreed. Just picking the collect brain to see if I'm missing something. My biggest issue was why was she so jumpy about me creating and account, but after reading a few comments, I'm asking myself, does it really matter?
/r/askMRP01/02/18 06:04 PM
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<3
/r/askMRP01/02/18 06:00 PM
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1.5) You have a shared facebook??! She created it years ago. What could making your own account possibly do for/against you or to/against her. Let it go, but keep your eyes open. I don't want my own account, to spy or anything. I was just trying figure out why she was so jumping when I joked about it.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 05:56 PM
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more important to you then you let on. Hmmm...I think you're on to something. Despite almost never logging in to our shared account, the fact that I even made a joke hints I give more fucks than I should. Appreciate the insight.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 04:05 PM
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Maybe? I'm not gonna say no, because I'm open to having blind spots pointed out, but I was genuinely just teasing her.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 03:45 PM
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butthurt Nope. controlling Possibly. assholish Definitely. My wife doesn't talk to me like that. Or put another way, I don't put up with that kind of talk. So it was kind of a "check yourself" statement....and she did.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 03:34 PM
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My original statement of creating my own account was a joke, said in a joking manner. I hate facebook. Her knee jerk reaction is what got my hamster spinning.
/r/askMRP01/02/18 03:23 PM
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when your silence inspires more dread than your words, you’re probably an Alpha. Ooof. This could be a stand alone post...
/r/askMRP31/01/18 06:11 PM
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You have so many options. This could be fun. The easiest thing is to get her nothing and act like it's a normal day...because it is. A more fun option would be, show her a picture of something ridiculous that you want (extra points if it's a hot girl) and parrot back her statement. Then when you don't get her the ring and she's pissy about it, you can be mock pissy about not getting what you wanted. Edit: Just thought of another good one. Tell her straight up that you're not going to get her tha…
/r/askMRP31/01/18 03:38 PM
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Just a note on not giving a fuck: Not giving a fuck is not something you can practice. You either give a fuck, or you don't. What you need to do is focus on yourself more. Your goals, your needs, and improvement. Basically, the more fucks you give about yourself, the less fucks you give about the opinions and behaviors of others.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/18 06:55 PM
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What's up with that BB row?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/18 06:49 PM
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I've been on MRP since about 2014/2015ish, don't remember exactly when I started coming here. A dead bedroom was not why I ended up here. Sex has never been an issue for me. Funny enough, MRA is why I came here. I was getting it in the ass when going through my custody battle for my kids. I found MRA through some google searching, but they bitched too much. Someone there mentioned TRP. TRP led me here and I found this place a better fit. The reason I bring this up is, I haven't posted much on OY…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/01/18 06:16 PM
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Let's do some thought experiments: What's the worst that would happen if you just said "no"? What's the worst that would happen if you just told her you were going to be late and turned your phone off and went back to work? You're a grown up. If you know you're handling your business, who gives a fuck what anyone else (including your wife) thinks.
/r/askMRP29/01/18 06:03 PM
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Awww come on now, you can do better than that. Might as well have called him a doody head.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/01/18 04:01 PM
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I don't disagree. Only adding that actions are, or how about, can be, a result of the way we think/believe. Example: I used to believe in god. That belief led to action, like going to church, giving money to said church, praying, etc. The important step is thought to action. You're statement here indicates we agree. Edit: Or how about, Your action shows what you believe, regardless of what you say....Yeah, I like this one.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 10:03 PM
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I think MRP teaches us to how to make the hamster work for me Nah man, MRP teaches reality. You do with it what you want.
/r/askMRP23/01/18 09:48 PM
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I haven't arrived. If you're doing it right you never will....and you already have. Cheers.
/r/askMRP23/01/18 09:45 PM
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You are what you do. Not what you believe. Yes, but you do what you believe. It all has to start somewhere. Not in a ridiculous midgets can play in the NBA sort of way, but in a Perter Dinklage kinda of way. He's a fucking dwarf, but still a bad-ass. His self identity was more than "I'm a dwarf" and he is successful as a result.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 09:23 PM
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Fake til you make it implies that you're doing things that will eventually lead you to make it....meaning you're no longer faking it. The problem is when people "fake it", get the responses that they were looking for and prematurely end the "make it" part.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 09:13 PM
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This will be my last entry of the Susie so and so saga: For whatever reason I was trying way too hard. I got rattled, and all of a sudden was making an effort to not be around her and avoid her at all costs. This was fucking with my head way more than it should have. I finally had to talk to her concerning some shit at work. Everything was professional. I was cool, she was cool, and when I left, I felt much better, and haven't really had her on my brain since. All I know is, I'm not altering my …
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 04:12 PM
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I'm chiming in with a personal anecdote for some perspective. I didn't hire a lawyer when I got divorced. The ex did. I didn't want anything from her (except my kids). I played nice, but she was pissed and wanted to hurt me. No logic or manipulation worked. She was out for blood. Cost me a shit ton in assets and some of my sanity. When she tried to move away with my kids, I did hire a lawyer and won custody of my kids. I realize I'm probably the exception to the rule. Whatever you do, move slow.…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/01/18 03:53 PM
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He has , but he's also apologized for certain statements and said he understands why MGTOW exists given today's society. Having said that, he's just a man, he's not infallible.
/r/MGTOW18/01/18 10:45 PM
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same same.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 10:41 PM
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Soooo, you need to get to the point where sex itself is a reward. My wife was in a great mood this weekend and did lots of wonderful little things around the house. I finally asked her what got into her, and she said "you fucked me so good the other day I can't help myself." I don't say that to brag (well, maybe a little) but sex should be something you both look forward to and enjoy, not a chore she gets a reward for after the fact.
/r/askMRP18/01/18 09:23 PM
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I know you're being funny, but.... Sometimes when you're in the middle of your grind, you can get stuck on auto pilot. It's easy to tunnel vision (especially when you get into a good groove at the gym) and you sometimes forget the simple things. I was in a good groove back in November and had to travel for work for a week. I didn't have access to a gym while gone, so I just made sure my diet was good. I lost 5lbs on the trip and was stronger in the gym when I came back. Looking back it's easy to…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/01/18 04:35 PM
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It's also about not buckling with complements. they are are controlling as the strongest punch. Shined a light on a blind spot. Thanks doc.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/18 02:46 PM
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Thanks for not posting this in the main sub. It's not good. Here's is an incredibly simplified version of frame. The universe revolves around you. Act accordingly. For something (recent) a little more in depth go here
/r/askMRP16/01/18 09:33 PM
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Did you read the whole essay?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 08:37 PM
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Time to switch some things around. Maybe take a break. A few days off in a row. It's hard when you're on a roll. I seem to get a power spike when I eat clean and take a few days off from the gym.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 08:22 PM
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She's so damn perceptive it's scary. Amused Mastery is wearing thin on her, she now recognizes it and accuses me of "infantilizing her". I need to AA that better. Any ideas? She's looked into the future that said "if I don't meet your new sexual standards you may leave me." She may be seeing through your fake it till you make it....the key is to start making it. Who cares what she says. You wouldn't treat her like a child if she wasn't acing like one. When you say she does "such and such" it sca…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 08:20 PM
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perpetual procrastinator Time the shit that you do. Your brain has a tendency to make things seem harder that they actually hard. When you time tasks, you see how fast they actually are completed. Just a tool that might help with the procrastination. (drunk captain?) Why the question mark. This is OYS. Own it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 08:09 PM
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Oneites. We are good friends with another couple. Now the other woman and I share some hobbies and interests, which our partners don't. The result is we end up chatting about our stuff for hours. We text each other etc. Now I feel I have a mini infatuation with her. Not a physical attraction as such, more of a spending time and talking attraction. Not cool if you have been out of high school for 30 years. Careful....been doing this with a chick at work for the last 6 months (see my last few OYS)…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 06:39 PM
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Some may argue that I'm being pedantic, nah, I thought the exact same thing when I read it.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 06:24 PM
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Week 3 of the Susie so and so saga..... No real drama, but still got feelings. Better than the last couple of weeks, but it's still there. Had a little bit of a re-set when I saw her at the store while out. We briefly chatted and I texted that it was good to see her. I know better, but I did it anyway. Only thing to do is go back to no contact. It's been humbling. I've haven't caught feels for a chick in about 6 years. Things that are going well: Marriage Wife has been a doll lately. She prepped…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/01/18 04:19 PM
1

Who is John Galt?
/r/MGTOW16/01/18 12:14 PM
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Asian pussy is the best pussy but you already know that ...Never had any. May have to try. Promise to update/blame you after the fact.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/18 02:34 PM
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TLDR: Don’t go to marriage counseling. ....or, marriage counseling could be an accelerated exit strategy. I went to marriage counseling with my ex and was out of the house in 2 months.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/18 02:02 PM
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Sure, but I was hoping to bounce some ideas off of her concerning money and timing, but yes, when I stuck my toe in the pool, the water was indeed wet.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/01/18 01:46 PM
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Her only drawback as far as i know, is her job. There are a whole lot of other drawbacks that led her to a job like that in the first place. You just haven't seen them through your rose tinted glasses yet. I'd be down for a fuck or 2, but even plate status for a stripper is iffy. You do you, but if you're really looking for advice, I'd steer clear.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 07:48 PM
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"Date" As in exclusive? What is it that a stripper can provide for you that another women, who doesn't take her clothes off day in and out for other man, can't? If she's down to fuck and not just after your wallet (which is what I'm thinking) then fuck her, but don't be catching feels....if you haven't already.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/18 06:31 PM
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Any mentors / former bosses / etc you can go to? Maybe go out to lunch or beers? Not really. Lost all of those in the divorce. I've got a buddy I bounce this stuff off of sometimes, but really I've got to get my head into some more books. Find out what works and what doesn't for my situation.
/r/MarriedRedPill10/01/18 01:48 PM
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Enshrine mediocrity — and the shrines are razed. This seems to be the mantra of society today. Dad bods, fat acceptance, consolation trophies for everything! Mediocrity is praised and those that have ambition are ridiculed....Atlas is going to shrug.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/18 03:03 PM
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Self-employed means I'm not hurting anyone but me. Yeah, that's the worst kind. If you're feeling low on energy try supplementing vitamin D. I started a few months ago and my energy levels have gone up. I'm sure it's not the only reason, but I think it's a factor.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 01:57 PM
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One thing you are doing well is that you're still doing the correct things despite feeling like shit. This is what successful people do. They don't let their feelings dictate their actions. They continue to do the things that have been proven and eventually your feelings will catch up.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 01:50 PM
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Gonna keep doing these until I feel I've fully gotten my head out of my ass with the oneitis shit I mentioned last week. Haven't talked to "Susie so and so", but still thinking about her more than I should. Fucking weird. I've never really had a problem with pulling women and I think it's one of those, you want what you can't have things. Anyway, I know it will fade as I continue to go no contact, but it's still there, so I'll keep owning it until it's not anymore. Drinking, or rather, not drink…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/01/18 01:39 PM
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I am working on it now How? What are you doing? You're very vague when you say you tried doing TRP, what does that mean, help us out with specifics. Even without the specifics I can tell by this situation that you're not on track at all, or at least you haven't been. This is just a symptom of bigger problems. It's not about that mashed potatoes....you've got some work to do.
/r/askMRP08/01/18 02:49 PM
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Breaking two rules at once never ends well. Yup.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/18 10:50 PM
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Interesting perspective. Reminds me of the first time I crashed my Mountain Bike. I was way less timid after that, which made me a better rider. Still feels like somethings missing from this story though....
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 11:47 PM
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Not enough information, but I'm inclined to agree with you. Who didn't keep their mouth shut? OP needs to do a better job of keeping this shit on the DL in the future, wing-man wife or not.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 07:29 PM
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Care to expound on why?
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 07:25 PM
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Got some shit I need to own. Just realized today that I've got some mother fukcing oneitis. Been gaming this chick at work. She's hot, not a lot of chicks in the filed I'm in so It's nice to flirt with some eye candy. Long story short we've been doing some naughty texting for quite some time. We've discussed hooking up and if things lined up right I'd bang her. Yup, eating where I shit, but I've weighed the risk, and I'm cool with it. 2 weeks ago she (un-solicited by me) sent me some naughty pho…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/18 10:46 PM
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I agree with Persaeus. Skip the "talk". You've been at this for some time and she's not gonna change. I'd make a plan to minimize the damage as much as possible and fuck bitches along the way, then drop the D bomb, and not look back as your shit burns to the ground.....I'm talking from experience so I know it aint easy, but you know, when have good things ever been easy?
/r/MarriedRedPill04/01/18 10:36 PM
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"I'll never be that married." Daaaaaaaamn, what a line. That's a red pill if I ever saw one.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/18 09:01 PM
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The question is just so wrong on so many levels. Not necessarily. What's wrong is, he just wrote the question with no insight into where he's coming from with it. I do things to demonstrate strength (not necessarily superiority) sometimes. For example: Sometimes I just pick her up and put her over my shoulder for no reason. Sometimes I hug her and won't let go. The more she tries to get away the harder I squeeze until she melts. Sometimes she likes to play fight and I just turn her into a pretze…
/r/askMRP04/01/18 03:34 PM
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The senior men of the red pill are here to feed you milk because you are not ready for meat. Lol, WTF? I'm not sure how serious you were when writing this, or if you're trying to appeal to a certain demographic, but I could only laugh at this. It reads like Jim Bakker in his PTL days.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/01/18 07:05 PM
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Hit up OYS weekly in the main MRP sub. Helps keep you honest and accountable. Those fuckers see right through your bullshit, even if you can't.
/r/askMRP03/01/18 06:55 PM
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See, this is why I love me some BobbyPeru. Takes what many make complicated and breaks it down to a simple formula. Not that hard folks.
/r/askMRP03/01/18 06:53 PM
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I discovered I started lifting (I) Read most of Rational Male sidebar (I am) currently reading NMMNG. I’m angry at myself for being so stupid I can only improve myself for the future. You, my friend, have the right attitude. Not one word about your lady. Good on you. Keep this attitude and next year we'll all be internet high fiving you on your success.
/r/askMRP03/01/18 06:47 PM
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The nice part about owning your shit is you start to see how little (or how much) value your SO other provides. This, among other things should help clarify if the "juice is worth the squeeze". Use this STFU time to build frame when you are ready to make a decision.
/r/askMRP03/01/18 06:28 PM
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Check out Ego is the enemy by Ryan Holiday.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/17 01:04 PM
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Bwahahaha! I burned 46 calories laughing at this.
/r/askMRP19/12/17 06:42 PM
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it's not about 'overcoming' arguments, but rather operating in your own frame. Nail on head. Not only do I still argue with my wife, sometimes I pick the fight. Some really great sex can come after a good argument. The key is I fight on my terms and on my turf. No fight breaks out that I didn't purposefully let happen. Pro tip: If you can fight with a shit eating grin, you know you're doing it right.
/r/askMRP19/12/17 02:26 PM
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It’s boring. Who's fault is that? but just as likely is my 15years of pathetic behaviour prior to my map. Now we're getting somewhere. weekdays are out of the question as she works and is tired. Nope, you're just not attractive enough. but wondering where to go next with all this. Any thoughts appreciated. Give less fucks about her and what she's doing and more about yourself. Start doing all the shit you want to do regardless if she approves, or googles divorce, or whatever. The best part is, r…
/r/askMRP18/12/17 10:32 PM
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Being broken isn't about working our not, it's just something that will happen given enough time if things continue as they are. I predict a shiny new bridle and buggy at Christmas for this fella.
/r/askMRP18/12/17 07:22 PM
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K. I tried to be nice.....stop putting all this shit on her you little bitch. Shut this shit down stat, or leave. In either case, stop fucking crying about it and do something.
/r/askMRP18/12/17 05:55 PM
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Damn homie,two golden nuggets in here. Experience is a the mother of all teachers, yeah?
/r/askMRP18/12/17 05:52 PM
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How can I give into her demands and still be looked at with respect? You can't. Many years ago, I outted myself to my ex and went through the same shit you're going through. I stayed because of the kids and guilt. I lied to myself and said I still loved her, and 9 years, of blah blah blah. Every man has a breaking point. Either he breaks like a horse and becomes a slave forever, or he breaks like a mad man and burns all his shit to the ground. I burned my shit to the ground, and for all the shit…
/r/askMRP18/12/17 05:44 PM
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Yeesh, reading through the comments alone, (especially on your first post) was fantastic, let alone the rest of the OP. Glad you're still killin it doc. Saving this one.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/12/17 05:12 PM
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If you think that showing up 40 hours a week, punching a clock and putting 6% into your 401K is a good plan, well friend you have some things to think about. You just punched me in the face......thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 10:11 PM
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I think I need to act BP and be conformist with him. What do you call this?
/r/askMRP07/12/17 09:34 PM
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Manipulating situations to your advantage is an art form that would be useful to you.
/r/askMRP07/12/17 07:47 PM
1

If there was every a time for you to do some reading on the dark triad now is the time.
/r/askMRP07/12/17 03:02 PM
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You're not lost man, you're just lazy. The good news is, fixing lazy is easier than fixing lost. This place has a pretty good blueprint of how to get out of where you're at now. You just need to do a little bit of work to get there. It won't tell you exactly how to live your life, but it will get you out of the funk you're in now so you can think clearly about the future. Here's some actionable advice: Do the next right thing. I don't know what that is for you, but don't think about the whole pi…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 02:59 PM
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But she thinks im not alpha i never take initiative i never "just do it". And shes right. How do you know this? Did you guys have a conversation about it?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/17 02:47 PM
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This reminds me that golden nugget someone just dropped about women not being able to see potential. That's why monk mode is important. Avoid frustration in monk mode while you get your shit together. When you come out polished on the other side you'll be attractive. Details muck up the shiny.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 10:48 PM
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Whenever someone says NAWALT I always think of volcanoes.
/r/TheRedPill06/12/17 10:17 PM
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hustling is not one of them Boom! Here's your problem. Change your mind my friend. You can and will hustle for the things you care about...you just care about comfort more than the other stuff. You want some practical advise? Make a plan. Find out what it takes to get to where you want to go. Break it up into small achievable goals (even if it's years in the making) and don't go a day without contributing to those goals... As you get older you'll start to realize "it" is not about money, it's ab…
/r/askMRP06/12/17 10:05 PM
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I was thinking I could tell which one was younger....
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 02:32 PM
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Can we flair Bobby already? The man has been consistant as fuck, and is the most vigilant sidebar evangelist we've got.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/11/17 01:56 PM
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You can't lead if you're standing still. The post presupposes that guys have a goal and are headed towards it. Many here don't I'd say step zero in becoming a leader is having a goal you're headed towards, then a plan and a path. Once you get to that point it doesn't matter if you're a leader or not. It's your goal. If your wife/family choose to follow in that purist, congrats, you're a leader, if not, congrats, no more dead weight. Figure out how to lead yourself first. If you're worth a damn, …
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/17 03:42 PM
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Never once lost frame. GTFO
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/17 07:27 PM
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What kool-aid have you been drinking....you're comments have been on fire lately.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/17 02:18 PM
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lol, no you fixed that for you
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 09:59 PM
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I don't really have much to add other than this is a fantastic post. I forget sometimes that you're a smart asshole, not just an asshole. Anyhoo, I like how you ordered these in the way they should be tackled. A lot guys fail because they see something like this and try and master all at once. Lifting leads to better emotional well being, which leads to better frame...
/r/MarriedRedPill08/11/17 09:41 PM
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Nice watch. ;)
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/17 02:57 PM
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LOL, no.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 07:51 PM
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Probably not. He's found a key to a door in life I'm still looking for....or maybe I've found it, but am still afraid to use it....yeah, that's probably closer to the truth.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 07:45 PM
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No! And that's the point. He's off doing his own thing living the dream....if I have any heroes in this place, its' him.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 06:07 PM
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Pier 1 is still around? Huh? Thought they went out of business...ours did at least.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 02:57 PM
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NO ONE has this shit totally figured out. Except for abdada.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 02:12 PM
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All about that ego. The way I look at things is: Either I'm right, or I'm not. If I'm right, then I keep doing what I'm doing and will have continued success. If I find that I'm not, I now know better, and can fix myself. Nothing else matters (to me anyway). I'm not going to cut of my foot to spite my hand. I've got a mission. Alpha, Beta, TFA, GLO....none of it matters. All that matters is if I am making progress to my mission. If if I look stupid having to let go of a shiny idea I thought had …
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 02:05 PM
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There is a reason why it's said youth is wasted on the young. He has not been broken by something to have the confidence of having stood up and rebuilt himself. This gives me PTSD, but at the same time, I'm glad I have the battle scars.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 01:53 PM
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Neither really speak to me directly but I have pulled some good info from both. Isn't that the whole fucking point? Guys swapping notes and seeing what works for them. I thought it was understood that none of these dudes are the Messiah. YES! Exactly this. I was thinking about writing up a whole post on this, but I think there is enough drama right now, maybe I'll wait till the dust settles, but yes: At the end of the day get what you need or get out. If the place you frequent (internet or physi…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/17 01:48 PM
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He us just reacting. I like this. You can have the same set of actions, but one be a reaction and one be planned out and methodical, and have to VERY different results. Never let your actions be an accident. Good Shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/17 09:50 PM
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How much do you make someone else.... ....re-read.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 07:08 PM
1

'real men drink Guiness' That's the one....
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 07:07 PM
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Yeah, I went down a deep rabbit hole last time you posted something from him....I need more time to read that whole thing
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 07:00 PM
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It was a facetious comment Been playing "catchup" and am amazed at the Rollo and TFA comments.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 06:56 PM
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I always find it silly when guys point this out. You could be a purple haired, hippo for all I care. Truth is truth regardless of where it comes from. "The Manipulated Man" is a perfect example of this.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 06:42 PM
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empathy-less narcissist who strategizes for his own benefit? Yes....and no. His own benefit just weighs more. There are degrees to everything though....
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/17 06:38 PM
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Ahh, my mistake. Before my time.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/17 04:04 AM
1

But not as a mod.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 10:34 PM
1

WMP
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 09:22 PM
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just like we should have balanced alpha and beta qualities in order to maintain a good LTR / married life Uh....what do you mean by balanced? If you're talking 50/50 you're way off. Also, it's not beta qualities, its' beta actions....subtle but big difference. You also need to understand the context of implementing those beta actions. I'll give you an example: I brushed my wife's hair last night. She loves when I do this. Now, did I do it because I'm trying to get on my wife's good side in the h…
/r/askMRP17/10/17 08:17 PM
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If you don't like it, go to Russia -Homer Simpson No offense to our Grey Goose drinking Scurvy of course. The internet is a big place. If you don't like something in the community you frequent, and said community tells you to "fuck off" for voicing your opinion, then fuck off. There is most certainly a place for you to hang your digital hat. If you don't like it here, go. If you like here, but are always shat on when you speak up, STFU until you figure it out....or decide to leave. Offense is al…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 07:58 PM
1

Whatever happened to bogey's Dark Triad thing....
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/17 06:19 PM
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Ha! I wouldn't call two (now three is guess) comments a bunch, but I don't recall saying I don't want others to care for this thread...but hey, all good homie you read in into it how you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 08:31 PM
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Meh, maybe funny like a baby going doo doo in it's diaper. It makes a funny sound but it still stinks like shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 08:09 PM
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LOL, what the fuck is going on in here? Why are we giving this cry baby attention?
/r/MarriedRedPill16/10/17 06:29 PM
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Weight, 168 as of this morning. Got down to roughly 10% bf this summer and have gained about 5lbs since then. I dont max often so i couldnt tell you that, but reps are in the 225 range depending on the day....regardless of my numbers, after a year of lifting, you should be farther along. Am i wrong? Unless you used to be 375lbs, and if thats the case i salute you.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/10/17 12:04 AM
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Well, from you numbers, it's not what I call a competition, and there is nothing cute about your weight, but if mediocrity is your thing....
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 10:25 PM
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Let me just give you some perspective. My bench PR was 265lbs earlier this year before my cut. I was about 172lbs when I did that. I am by no means a power lifter and have seen guy lighter lift more. You can do better. No more of this "I'm going to" Shit. Tell us what you've done.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 09:01 PM
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I say "they are pretty sweet" (fucked up there). No you didn't. You like titties. Your wife knows this and she still them it up. She either doesn't care, or she won't bring up some other woman's tits again. Own that shit.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 08:57 PM
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Start small. Don't come up with a whole routine and then try and start. Pick something simple like 10 pushups. Do those every morning, no matter what for a week. Then add something else. Keep doing that and in two months you should have something pretty solid.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 08:18 PM
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Does anyone have a simple as fuck app Here's your problem. Nothing simple and quick about being strong and staying strong. You gotta embrace the suck knowing your future you will thank. The good decisions you make to day will set you up for success tomorrow. Or you can make excuses and try and find an easier way, and your future self will only look back with regret and more depression. The only easy day was yesterday, my friend.
/r/TheRedPill11/10/17 08:06 PM
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Lots of good answers here to think about doc. Let me give you something else to chew on..... What you permit, you promote. If she's acting like this, it's because you allow it. The more you allow it the worse it will get.
/r/askMRP11/10/17 07:47 PM
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Nice progress. Then next level is when she knows that's your time and doesn't fuck with you at all until you're done.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 07:30 PM
1

hahaha. I remember when I first read WISNIFG.... "Babe, can you come here real quick?" "No" "Why not?" "Because I don't want to" ...Then I'm left alone. Guys would be amazed if they literally just started saying no and nothing else. How easy is that?
/r/MarriedRedPill11/10/17 07:28 PM
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Sounds like your motives are still for her/other women. Why do you feel the need to spark the attraction you had when starting. My suggestion: Think of all the things you want to do in a given day, week, month and do them. She is welcome to join in or not. Don't let her emotions, good or bad, distract you from that.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 10:41 PM
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Edit: Is DND still short for Dungeons and Dragons? If so, then the answer is most defiantly NO. You do nothing manly Mr Neckbeard. Fuck you and your high horse. What do you do to let down your hair with the boys? I don't DnD, but how is this different than having a beer with the bros at the bar? He may not be manly, playing DnD or not is certainly not the yard stick.
/r/askMRP10/10/17 10:36 PM
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We dont care. No one will care about you more than you. If you dont give enougn of a fuck to change, why should we?
/r/TheRedPill08/10/17 02:31 AM
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I liken it to finishing an early mile in a marathon..there's still a long road ahead and one mile's work does not guarantee the next one. Oooh, I like this attitude. Keep that up. This post got me in a great mindset for leg day today. Cheers!.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 07:04 PM
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I started yoga earlier this year and it's pretty damn amazing. Aside from the flexability, my whole body just seems to "wake up" when I'm done. Group class barrette haird men....I can't handle it. I bought a tape and do it at 0430 in the morning. I get enough yoga pants and MILFs at the gym and my kids BJJ practice.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/10/17 02:19 PM
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Sounds like she's responding positively so far, you just haven't been doing it very long. Trust the process. She's had a beta for years. A couple of months of change is not very long. You say your SMV is higher than hers, but does she know that? Does she know that you can go pick up a younger, newer model tomorrow if you wanted? Do you? Continue to work on yourself. When you've improved enough to realize you're the shit, she will want to jump your bones on the regular, because she'll realize she…
/r/askMRP05/10/17 02:03 PM
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You do you kiddo. You want to give her your most precious resource for free, enjoy.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 05:22 PM
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ghosted You keep using that word. I do not think it means, what you think it means. What exactly has she done to earn your time? Why are you willing to hang out with a flake? she eventually reached out to me and i made plans to see her again. If anything, it will be good closure. Last time she flaked on you and you're willing to give her another chance? Also, what in the world do you need closure for? Stop lying to yourself, you're still under her spell.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 03:46 PM
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I skipped pessimism in favor of cynicism. The world is shit, but I'll be damned if I don't make a castle out of shit.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 05:26 PM
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I don't disagree, but I hope you're wrong. I got two boys, and I'm filling their heads with as much truth as they can handle at their age...I don't want them to avoid all pain, but I do want them to avoid that pain.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/17 05:23 PM
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Yes we know, bitches be crazy. What's your question? Also, did you turn over and sleep soundly, or did she come back in and fuck you like crazy?
/r/askMRP03/10/17 01:47 PM
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u/Rian_Stone is this the part where I say don't eat paint?
/r/askMRP02/10/17 10:01 PM
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According to whom? You ever speed in your car when you're late? You can potentially hurt someone, but you do it anyway, because you care more about whatever it is you're late for than the potential accident you could be causing. Wherever you chose to draw that line is up to you.
/r/askMRP02/10/17 09:47 PM
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I’m pretty much a sociopath when it comes to women so I don’t see it as such but I understand why others do. You need to look up the definition of sociopath. GTFO with your hyperbole, you're not impressing anyone. I get I'm probably not doing things the way I should be Let me give you some advice I just gave my son, and I wish someone gave me when I was younger: YOU are the one that decides if you're doing things the way you should be....
/r/askMRP02/10/17 09:22 PM
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Pause. Reflect. A wonderful opportunity has presented itself. Your "friend" is better than you think, in that he relieved you of this ho. Cheers!
/r/askMRP26/09/17 06:43 PM
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Oohh, great question. This will reveal how mad he really is.
/r/askMRP26/09/17 06:41 PM
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Then why don't you offer him your tit to suck on. If someone told me I wasn't thinking enough I, for damn sure, would research the hell of of said subject before speaking up again. Teach a man to fish and all that jazz.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 08:53 PM
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Here ya go fella.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/09/17 08:35 PM
1

Calm down homie. Have a drink. Wisdom is wisdom even if it comes from blue tards. Separaye yourself from emotion and just take the good and leave the bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/09/17 02:42 AM
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If you aren't fucking up, you aren't trying. Keep killin it doc.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/17 09:28 PM
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Ha!, that whole thread was a fun read, but damn, CAD brought up a painfully true reminder; the one sin women do not forgive is weakness.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/17 08:57 PM
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A life governed by reactivity makes things worse than they have to be. Love this line. Looks like you're living a purposeful, well thought out, methodical life. IMO, that's how you achieve satisfaction in life.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/09/17 02:52 PM
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coolaid ಠ_ಠ
/r/askMRP20/09/17 02:09 PM
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Been there homie. It gets better, if you get better. A couple of points of advice from someone who is a few years removed from a similar situation. Be ruthless. Don't consider her feelings at all. Save every bit of communication and always know that any form of communication can and will be used against you if possible. Don't worry about any pussy right now. Make all of your plans about you. (Easier said that done when you no longer have a leash). Apathy is the opposite of love, not hate. Strive…
/r/askMRP19/09/17 10:13 PM
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I hear that. I just get the heebee-geebees being around loads of people. It's not a phobia or anything, but I'm definitely uncomfortable. Plus, you ever notice how people act differently depending on the number of people in a given situation?
/r/askMRP19/09/17 09:53 PM
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what makes you think a hotter version of you would make a difference? I don't think it's an unreasonable conclusion to jump to...4 months isn't that long.
/r/askMRP19/09/17 03:19 PM
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I can't stand being around crowds, but LOVE interacting with individuals. Each person is their own story book. Like all books, some are better than others, but you never know what you're going to get so it's fun to find out. People love talking about themselves, so I try and get them talking about their favoirte subject. Also, it's good to ask follow up questions about how they felt, or thought about whatever they're talking about. Social skills are like any other, the more you practice the bett…
/r/askMRP18/09/17 08:42 PM
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Some serious wisdom wrapped up in this simple sentence. Take heed OP.
/r/askMRP15/09/17 01:29 AM
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A month out? Yeah... you don't have the balls to call this off. Just come back here when you've had enough and start posting in OYS. We promise we won't say "We told you so" Well, I won't anyway.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/09/17 06:34 PM
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Just as many guys will say "do it" as say "don't do it." Do what you want. Just own it.
/r/askMRP14/09/17 06:18 PM
1

Welcome back, glad to see you're doing well. she cares about me but is not in love me Bro, none of them are. You know this. At the end of the day you have to ask yourself what you want. The "she she she" crap shouldn't matter. If you're focused on your mission who cares if she puts you up on social media or not. Sounds like you want to LTR this girl. If you're cool with what she brings to your life and are cool with her boundaries, i.e not bringing other girls to your house, great! If not, keep …
/r/askMRP13/09/17 10:14 PM
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You're wrong, and let me tell you why........
/r/askMRP13/09/17 10:04 PM
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I am slightly conflicted about posting this for two reasons. Ha! You're silly. What's the worst that could happen; you get down voted to hell and do better next time. This, however is an Archwinger level post. Bravo, and thanks for sharing.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/09/17 07:45 PM
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Another good point is that I'm not owning my shit , or how about my smv isn't high yet, or how about push pull. See?? You're learning! Good job.
/r/askMRP13/09/17 07:20 PM
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20-30 years ago....where have you been?
/r/MGTOW13/09/17 07:03 PM
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Meh, all good. When people post, sometimes they make side comments like this that reveal more than what they intend. I was addressing that. If he wants to blame his wife's hard no's on school, and kids and not the fact the he's just not attractive enough for her to want to jump his bones on the regular....his choice.
/r/askMRP13/09/17 06:59 PM
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Whatever you say doc, but I'm not getting hard nos from my woman. You do you boo.
/r/askMRP13/09/17 06:11 PM
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I always hate this time of year when her job starts back up..totally fucks up my game I've built all summer. Get rid of this shit attitude. When a woman wants you she'll move heaven and earth to make it happen. Kids, job, stress none of that matters if you're what she wants. Also, the tone of your post seems like you're outcome dependent. Can't really tell, but it seems that way.
/r/askMRP13/09/17 05:34 PM
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Hate to break it to you doc, that wasn't an IOI, you just had a booger in your nose. Look, don't say anything to anyone. Read, lift, get better. You'll know you're getting somewhere when someone mentions your improvement to you, not the other way around.
/r/askMRP12/09/17 02:50 PM
1

I hired a cute employee... Lol, you're wife aint got nothing to worry about. Keep reading.
/r/askMRP11/09/17 09:24 PM
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Yeah, well i had "friends" leave in droves when I got divorced, so I figure, you bury a body, divorce aint so bad....hell, they may go hand in hand.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 11:39 PM
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Shiiit, I remember when you told that guy to go suck on a tail pipe. That's all gone now, cuz you don't want to be a dinosaur? Having said that, hedged language is also a DT tool, so it works too.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 07:48 PM
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Maybe once we hit 50K
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 07:46 PM
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You aint been getting the checks?
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 07:34 PM
1

I specifically said different, because I don't know if it's better, or worse. People are still getting their shit together so, there's that. You say softer, I say nicer. I respond better to mean, but not everyone is that way.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 07:23 PM
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Mine is, if I asked you to bury a body and you don't ask questions...we're friends. I got here around 6-7Kish....different place
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 07:14 PM
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lol, i feel ya doc, but there are almost 15k subs here now. I guarantee you there are some guys who feel they've made "friends" here.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 07:04 PM
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I also doubt any guy in here consideres any other guy in here a 'friend'. aaaaawwwww feels bad man. I thought we were homies! I thought we were going to rain dolla bills on some hoes in Vegas!.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 06:55 PM
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Proactive negative realization has been powerful and effective tool for me. When I meditate, I visualize potential negative situations that might occur throughout the day. I work through my emotions before it even happens. If that situation happens to come up, I've already dealt with it. If it doesn't, great. Either way I'm good. May sound a bit hokey, but I'm telling you, if you want a good way to maintain frame, this practice has helped me stay cool in some very frustrating situations.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/09/17 06:41 PM
1

Here's an idea: Lead He's getting there. He can't lead her if he's not leading himself. He didn't handle this perfectly, but he's turning the ship, otherwise she wouldn't give a fuck about Susie so and so from the office.
/r/askMRP06/09/17 05:55 PM
1

I do not intend to cave and placate her and yet I put my arm around her and hugged her, kissed her on the cheek and held her for a minute. You need to let that hamster run. This should be the turning point for you two. You comforting her after that explosion is counter productive
/r/askMRP06/09/17 05:53 PM
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lol, you dun pissed off the normies again.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/09/17 02:21 PM
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She now knows you're desirable, but now she's wondering if you still desire her. Quick story. Was just on vacation with my wife. I, like you, flirt all the time. One particular instance my wife says: "I can't believe how much you two were flirting. I thought she was gonna jump your bones right then and there." My response was, "Aren't you glad you get to fuck the guy all these girls wish they could fuck. "She grabbed my arm tight as we were walking, waited about 1 minute before answering (her ha…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/17 08:53 PM
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I'm curious to know, did any RP wisdom go through your mind when signs began to appear? Do you still believe in unicorns after this? I'm really asking for the guy that's reading and thinking (just like you used to) that he's somehow different and this won't happen to him.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/17 08:32 PM
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Aint that some shit? bass ackwards, but works like gravity.
/r/askMRP05/09/17 03:23 PM
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TL;DR; Cheaper To Keep Her What's your time and sanity worth? That's the real question. I'd rather get raped in the butt, then get on with my life, than have someone slowly torture me by slowly sucking my soul out day after day.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/08/17 08:12 PM
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"When you start to feel sad, always remember to stop being a bitch and no one cares." I have this posted in my cubicle at work....maybe you should do the same.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/17 02:44 PM
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ad hominems don't work on me, but keep using them, I've seen it have an affect on a few here. In all honesty I don't understand what all the huff is about. This sub(s) helps people. So what if we get something out of it too? But whatever, you keep donning your WMP trench coat and being the BA that you are, and I'll keep doing me. Just try not to get your panties in such a bunch when I pop in from time to time.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 05:52 PM
2

A road map doesn't drive a car, but it sure is nice to have one when you're lost.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 03:39 PM
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Never said I wanted people to thank me. You asked how I knew my hollow bs was helping anyone. That's how I know. What i said was, I like the feeling I get when I see evidence of a guy going from shit to THE shit. He doesn't have to thank me, or anyone else. I just like seeing progress.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 02:06 PM
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I get it doc, you just missed my point, but as you say, it doesn't really matter.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 01:37 PM
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Easy, people have said thank you. Yes, people put in the work, but having someome point you in the right direction goes a long way.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 09:55 AM
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I hear you man, and that's a very good point. But at the end of the day, both parties get what they need.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 01:49 AM
1

Meh, you can always quit.
/r/askMRP09/08/17 01:16 AM
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There's no such thing as altruism. Agreed. And what I get out of posting here...or what I did get ,was the tingles it gave me when I watched a guy go from complete shit, to THE shit. Feels good. I no longer need this place like I did 3 years ago, but I'm glad it was here when I needed it. Everyday is a new day a some noob "gets it" for the first time. I like being Morpheus, if you will. My whole point is, it's nice when someone of a respected position (the mods) in a community you frequent (MRP/…
/r/askMRP09/08/17 12:09 AM
1

if any one of these guys took pride in the opinions of retarded faggots on the internet I take pride in the fact I've taken part helping retarded faggots become men....
/r/askMRP08/08/17 10:55 PM
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Yes, I'm actually quite sure some do. Having pride in earning the respect of other like minded men doesn't make one a scrub....also, is scrub the new faggot? Just trying to keep it real doc....
/r/askMRP08/08/17 10:03 PM
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Stone you always say this, but let's be real. It is a reward. It tells a man that time and wisdom he's invested in this community is not respected. The respect is the reward.
/r/askMRP08/08/17 09:51 PM
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He should have kept his mouth shut Maybe, depending on what his end goals were. I'm glad people like him do shit like this. Guys that "take one for the team" as it were. I've read some of the liberal media on this and they make statements like: "Anti Diversity memo" and "Manifesto that states women aren't welcome at google" Many people aren't going to read what he actually wrote, but there are those that will, and when the do they will tilt their heads sideways and think "Wait a minute..." They …
/r/TheRedPill08/08/17 04:36 PM
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