Dread Game Question

Triadis3 · 2017-09-12T13:21:45+00:00

No.

It's always seen as validation seeking.

"mommy mommy!!! some girl lookied at me! Aren't I a big boy now?"

STFU.

Aaren_Augustine · 2017-09-12T13:24:06+00:00

You mean go tell mommy other girls find you pretty? That's nice DEER.

donedreadpirate · 2017-09-12T15:35:09+00:00

Fuck the instructor or GTFO of here with that shit. Did you seriously tell your wife a girl looked at you? WOOF.

470_2_700_nm · 2017-09-12T14:43:06+00:00

Week one? Mother fucker you just stepped into the first week of basic training and you want to go to the front lines.

Go buy a ticket and fly there with your BB gun, but we aren't going to send you there, that would be negligent.

Rian_Stone · 2017-09-12T14:15:00+00:00

Jesus fuck, shit mental Models.

Dont tell her anything, she won't care. Learn this skill

fuckmrp · 2017-09-12T13:23:38+00:00

What part of SHUT THE FUCK UP do you new guys not understand?

SteelSharpensSteel · 2017-09-12T14:35:13+00:00

Buddy, you need to learn the definition between active dread and passive dread.

Get back to work in the sidebar, and reread the dread posts.

Short answer - No. You need to STFU and raise your SMV. You NEVER tell your wife about the IOI's, because it always lowers attraction. You need to get to the point where you are out with your wife and the women are hitting on you.

gettingmymojoback · 2017-09-12T14:53:12+00:00

Short answer, fuck no.

Long answer, you're new. Work only on yourself and improving your SMV for at least a couple of months while reading the sidebar before implementing any changes you read about.

There's a reason the first few levels of dread are basically lift, wardrobe, get a life and STFU.

There's no cheating or skipping ahead. You have to walk before you can crawl. The levels of dread are in this order for a reason, you can't create any dread if she's not attracted to you. Period. Full stop.

Going home to mommy and proudly proclaiming that another girl found you attractive doesn't do shit for your SMV with your wife. First, it's validation seeking and super unattractive. Second, it doesn't matter what other women think unless she sees it herself AND you're attractive enough to HER for her to give a shit.

Bencousinwater · 2017-09-12T13:17:35+00:00

Don't do that.

redbeaux · 2017-09-12T14:50:37+00:00

Hate to break it to you doc, that wasn't an IOI, you just had a booger in your nose.

Look, don't say anything to anyone. Read, lift, get better. You'll know you're getting somewhere when someone mentions your improvement to you, not the other way around.

JDRoedell · 2017-09-12T15:14:29+00:00

This is definitely attention seeking behavior. And you're playing in her frame when you do this. Next question

CapNGrind · 2017-09-12T18:47:06+00:00

My question is, if I recognize an IOI and my wife is not present, should I tell her?

No.

I know that the impact will be far greater when they happen in front of her, but until I get my game/frame on point, should I tell her about them, or does that seem beta/desperate for attention?

Doing this will hurt you instead of helping you. It will be a net loss, not a net gain.

bogeyd6 · 2017-09-12T20:51:57+00:00

Don't increase your dread so early and quit looking for the quick validation. Lift, Read, Stfu. It's pretty simple.

screechhater · 2017-09-12T20:57:04+00:00

no. keep reading. stfu. lift. be attractive. OYS

read

most importantly STFU

SteelToeShitKicker · 2017-09-13T02:07:48+00:00

The best thing you can do is smile like the cat that ate the canary and keep your mouth shut about why.

Nucka574 · 2017-09-12T16:50:58+00:00

Are you a woman? This is shit they do.

GargantuaBlarg29 · 2017-09-12T23:45:55+00:00

By telling her, you imply that it means so much to you that another woman gave you an IOI. And by that you further imply that it doesn't happen often.

By not telling her, you imply the exact opposite.

Now, sidebar, lift, improve until the exact opposite is what's really happening.

devilkingx2 · 2017-09-15T00:02:26+00:00

it would make more sense to let her see you chatting up other girls and have them make moves on you without you particularly reciprocating.

if you look like you're trying to smash, that makes you look bad, if it looks like everytime you talk to a cute girl she wants to hug you and give you a kiss, that makes you look like a badass.

Title	Dread Game Question
Author	N2ition
Upvotes	4
Comments	18
Date	September 12, 2017 1:07 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askMRP
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